My First Met Gala (And How I Almost Didn't Make It)

Drum roll please, it's the story you've all been waiting for! Eugene chronicles the events leading up to his first #MetGala, including everything that led to his red carpet mishap (and how he almost didn't make it!)
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[@swingloveEKL]

Anyone else feel like Eugene didn't get a fair chance because they gave him so little notice that he was invited? Only a week to prepare when most people know MONTHS in advance if they're going is not fair at all

[@jomi9957]

right. it’s simply not fair for ANYONE reguardless of celeb status to be invited on such a short notice

[@nofinn1044]

Life happebs

[@32Theresa]

Damn… I bet it’s b/c of A list celebs refusing to get vaxxed & an extra spot opened for him last minute

[@pinkemilyrose]

@@32Theresa nah bc he was invited by KZbin who bought a table which means they invite everyone at the table (but they then have to be approved my Anna Wintour), a spot must have opened at the KZbin table meaning a KZbinr pulled out/refused a vaccine

[@muddyfeetaussies]

@@32Theresa lol he got to go be cause of the big testicles.. ok someone had to say it.. I rather see a story from Eugene than some A lister anyhow. The try guys just have some funny proper KZbin content :)

[@sashafire1987]

I wanna see what Eugene would do when he's properly invited and gets months to prepare for it, he's one of the most creative people I've ever seen.

[@voyance4elle]

yessssss

[@missitheachievementhuntres560]

same!

[@vgn5804]

And the very same, again, here! Eugene and his outfit, would light up the whole event - and work with whatever the imposed theme demanded, I feel....... Roll on next time!🔥

[@KIWIgirl2014]

Well, he was at the Oscars a few months ago…

[@laurensouvannavong4453]

they really did eugene dirty by inviting him so last minute. if he had months and months like so many others had im sure he would’ve been able to achieve his vision

[@bruhgirl16]

Yeah..but people who call themselves influencers getting invitation first... what is this now the met gala is really like Disney red carpet

[@morganpavelka4945]

Yah he was so full of grace and class in this but ultimately the is a failure of so many other people.

[@AlwaysTheEssence]

All of the influencers and even some celebs were invited last min, you just have to make it work

[@LadyLocket]

It was probably because some others ‘bigger’ names had dropped out so they went to the back up list to fill the spots. The Met Gala and other big events invites go out sooo far in advance just to avoid what happened to Eugene. It’s also to insure all the ‘important’ people have enough to notice so they can plan ahead and to not double book the date if they actually want to go. People like Royalty, Politicians, The Elite, Top Business people and the most Celebrities have there most important scheduled appearances planned a year ahead usually. What’s more rude is having your invite for so long and dropping out so close to the event, but not close enough that it was clearly an emergency or last minute sickness. That just indicates you weren’t super keen on going but wanted to keep your place, thus stopping others from going, just so you can keep the option there incase you feel like it nearer the time. It’s bad etiquette and just shows your selfishness.

[@TheSomeonewholoves]

​@@LadyLocket well in defense of a person who dropped the invitation. you never know what happened to them, maybe they fell sick, maybe someone in their family got sick, maybe they had an emergency. you can't judge someone being rude and selfish, without knowing what happened. besides i think many YT celebrities got a late invite, i think Jackie or Nikkie mentioned that their team made an incredible work considering the time restraint.

[@mollysingleton1533]

The fact that you had a designer who didn’t carry through with your look, and you still have nothing nasty to say about them, says so much about you Eugene. I think it would be hard even for the most level headed person to not have an absolute breakdown over that. But you looked amazing, and can’t wait to see your looks in future years 😉

[@izzybells6813]

Matt contradicting everything Eugenes saying about what he was like is so funny to me

[@gayathrisiva19]

I know! "I didn't cry! Yes, you did. Don't tell people that!" Lolol

[@dlaity107]

Yup. Loved that! That's when my spouse & me knew we were for keeps - when we could do a 'bit' like that together.

[@jasmingovers4403]

Ikr, it wad the best!

[@waffles3629]

Yep, shows how well they know each other

[@raidennova]

I was laughing so hard it actually reminded me a lot of the audiobook version of Neil Patrick Harris's autobiography he has one chapter annotated by his husband and its absolutely hilarious and has a very similar vibe to this

[@ladynoluck]

It’s definitely unfair to everyone involved (invited person, designers, stylists, etc.) to give not even a full week’s notice.

[@red.handedjill]

Yeah that wasn't the best idea. It's almost like an afterthought so to speak. Despite all the chaos, Eugene and everyone involved in getting him ready deserve all the praise for their hard work ❤️

[@cathy987100]

I was thinking that too; very presumptuous of the planners to expect or assume everyone has the resources to come up with something appropriate for a gala. Unless it couldn't be avoided for whatever reason.

[@meghasinghaniahmu]

@@cathy987100 See celebs will have that reach & the best of resources but a lot of others like content creators/digital media representatives (I don't like calling them "influencers" really) might not have that!! Esp for genuine & impactful making one's like Nikkie & Eugene!!

[@user-ok4xb1rd9f]

I thought it was because someone from youtube team couldn't attend in the last minute. But yeah it's insane.

[@bruhgirl16]

@@meghasinghaniahmu yeah but he deserved to be on red carpet.. unlike tiktok stars

[@nelegrubrus7423]

Eugene telling Lil Nas X that he is an inspiration and then Lil Nas X answering that he watched Eugene growing up so influencing him to grow up to be an inspiration. Damn. That made me cry

[@SakuraMoonflower]

Coming full circle! Beautiful. ❤️

[@osmadchlo]

That was my favorite part!

[@moxvist8206]

Was eugene in a show or smth? How lil nas watched him?

[@zuhavcr]

@@moxvist8206 eugene has been part of the try guys since 2014. that's 7 years!! i'm sure nas watched him when they were still with buzzfeed!

[@chloeb7617]

@@moxvist8206 Nas is young, Eugene was on buzzfeed for many of our teenage years

[@Esqm]

I don’t think Eugene knows how truly aspiring and loved he is. He represents Asians He represents the Queer community He represents Entrepreneurs (buying TryGuys and leaving Buzzfeed) He represents so so much to me. I have never been so happy and proud of this person right here. I really wish he is invited next year and killlls it with that Eugene flare

[@g.paub01]

He represents Capricorns too lol Btw this is a beautiful sentiment and it's deserved. He really is a huge inspiration.

[@leliavoinea9402]

He represents a successful KZbinr as well.😃 After all I wach Try Guys mostly because of him and the Try Wifes.

[@bela-sofia34]

Clutch the pearls! How can he NOT know how "aspiring" he is? And he calls himself a "Try Guy"! 😂

[@artikagunathasan4040]

He represents Slytherins!

[@TheLastGen]

❤❤

[@Lily8061]

Honestly, the real fault lies with the people who decided to invite him a week before the event.....like...that's insane. Especially for someone who has never attended the Met gala before?! Eugene excelled despite the obstacles. I REALLY hope they have the common decency to invite Eugene next year at LEAST a month in advance as a well deserved apology.

[@daria5846]

I think the most obvious reason was that someone else was gonna go but something happened last minute and wasn't able to, so they asked someone else

[@LadyScaper]

Other people get last minute invites too. It’s a huge opportunity.

[@Just_Reading_Comments]

I definitely wouldn’t say Eugene deserves an apology from whoever “they” are but yeah you should at least know well in advance if you’re even on the “short list” for an invite

[@anto4380delaguaridaa]

KZbin is buying a whole table for their talent, probably someone had to skip it and they asked Eugene, it's a huge opportunity and shit like this happens every day in the fashion industry

[@olivemartini0011]

CRYING when Eugene talks about how his mom tried to protect them growing up.

[@ayeecourteney]

Same. A very relatable experience for many first generation Asian Americans.

[@inframinced6698]

Same. I broke down.

[@charliepearce1886]

Same, I have a lot of family friends that are all asian families and it is heartbreaking what I saw them go through with them being sweet families because let’s face it asian families can be super cut throat families but the sweetest people everrr

[@annem4395]

^^ hit really close to home for me…

[@theletterbree]

I don’t know why I was expecting a vlog, Eugene doesn’t make vlogs he makes short films and documentaries. This was a total delight and a rollercoaster. How you tied the experience back to your mother’s lessons… I banged my hand on the table it was so good.

[@AP-jz1eh]

I know right? Anything Eugene creates is pure gold. Creative, meaningful, beautiful, heart-wrenching. I don't think there's anyone else like him

[@laurelleaves]

i'm glad eugene didn't name the designer because people have still gone on to blame them for something that was quite honestly out of their control. eugene got 6 days notice, the designer clearly had other clients but tried their best to fit him in, and then it was clear the dress not getting there was because of an emergency with another client. THREE DIFFERENT FASHION EVENTS WERE HAPPENING AT ONCE. literally eugene getting a designer at all was a feat in of itself. i'm so glad it all ended up working out at the end!!

[@mysisterisafoodie]

The designers have a duty to dress who they are assigned to. Anna tells them who and they are supposed to.

[@theplaylister]

I disagree - the designer shouldn't have agreed to take another client if that was more than they could chew. Had the designer been more honest, Eugene could have worked on a plan B.

[@bunny_0288]

@@theplaylister This is my thought as well. As a professional, if you can't do it you should just say no. That way the client can find someone else and this sort of thing won't happen. It's so unprofessional to flake on a client like this.

[@anto4380delaguaridaa]

@@mysisterisafoodie it doesn't work like that, especially with a 6 day notice

[@MichelleKhare]

The way I was on the edge of my seat for all 40 minutes of this 😭😭 Eugene, you looked amazing!!

[@clorozweepvmundosalazar5153]

Michelle 😭😭😭😭 you’re my hero

[@fluffernutter9420]

@@derekblasberg oh, hello!

[@elyssahuie901]

I didn't even realize 40 mins had passed!

[@Cordial_Lump]

this really didn't feel like 40 minutes

[@Jovancaleb0726]

truly one of the only men at the met who looked amazing

[@NaThXChaz]

This episode is a POEM for Eugene's mom, and I'm totally here for it, she's a rock star stylish woman.

[@mariamagana1047]

Totally agree…

[@LadyMiah]

Indeed! They should make a video where his mom style all Try Guys, or where Eugene and his mom style the try team together?

[@the.muffin]

yesssssssss

[@gunstarheroine5173]

Yeah seriously. It's interesting because he used the word "tool" when he was describing how she utilised fashion, but I what I was really hearing was the word "weapon". The way she approached her family's social status through style choices sounded like a strategist organising troops for battle.

[@maryskrzypczynski2225]

I literally almost cried! She sounds like an awesome woman!

[@msadrielet]

I feel so bad for him, who the f*ck invites someone to the MET a week prior? he deserves better, I hope he gets invited again (in advance this time) so he can get the chance to express himself. also, cheers to Eugene for being so creative and making it work, I would've never guessed that this wasn't his original intention with the look if he hadn't said anything.

[@princessfaith925]

It sounds like he was at the KZbin table, which means that he was most likely selected by KZbin to come, and not by a designer or Anna Wintour. They probably wound up with an extra seat last minute, and that's why he only knew six days ahead of time. It seems like Jackie and Nikki were also at the table, but had more time to prep...or else they pulled off miracles if they also had short notice. So it was probably a "oh we bought this table of seats and now have an extra one and we can either be in the hole thousands of dollars or ask someone else...Eugene, can you make it work?" sort of thing

[@zelamorre1126]

He was likely a replacement guest. Either somebody cancelled, or somebody pissed off Anna Wintour and got disinvited.

[@msadrielet]

@@princessfaith925 still, that kinda sucks, i feel like he deserved better than that :/ specially cause his so dedicated in everything he does, yk?

[@B_27]

@@princessfaith925 Yeah, the fact that he though Anna Wintour invited him was amusing. It sounds like the designer f*cked up and over promised but under delivered.

[@elianam8673]

@@B_27 Pretty sure Anna Wintour has to approve any guests though so KZbin probably put his name forward when the seat opened up and she said yes to letting him go

[@Sebastian_the_Tripod]

Roman: "awww he didn't wanna cheat on me with another stylist" Also Roman: "YOU DOLT! You should've gotten a stylist"

[@jennypai3763]

YESSSS THAT TOTALLY HAPPENED

[@Unbeeliever]

Having only 6 days to prepare for the met gala is literally the nightmare scenario, and even with everything that went wrong you still looked amazing. Congratulations for this amazing opportunity and I do hope you get invited back next year!

[@errhka]

Ironically the most American thing he could have done would have just been to go get something at a department or thrift store hehe. Wouldn't get invited again but then again it would be the best representation of the theme

[@bells.verissimo]

It would be crazy to not invite Eugene again. The amount of love and respect he has for the event and fashion in general is incredible. And he's so great with creating concepts through fashion and looks and I know he can fucking nail any theme.

[@leotay4766]

pun intended? my attention is drawn to his 💅

[@mayagabby13]

especially with creating this video, this is great content for vogue and the met gala

[@crystalpardo6041]

Hopefully he gets an invite earlier next time

[@hxrleydxrling9662]

theyre supposedly doing a part two of the theme soooo

[@florabajracharya4834]

Eugene is one of the few celebs who actually pronounced Prabal Gurung’s name right!

[@bruhgirl16]

Who is that???

[@simransharma7531]

Time stamp ?

[@simranthapa6480]

@@bruhgirl16 fashion designer

[@jkrdyn]

@@simransharma7531 9:33

[@Claireannette77]

@@jkrdyn not all heroes wear capes 😘

[@ssk4609]

In many ways, having the original plan fall through, but finding that perfectly fitting Dior suit, having kind, helpful people pull you through an overwhelming moment, overcoming challenges, rising to meet the moment albeit the emotional rollercoaster ride you experienced, and ultimately, killing it is as American as you can get. I’d say you rocked the Met’s In America theme. That is so America, isn’t it? You slayed, Eugene!!

[@strawberrynumberone]

That's a very American point of view.

[@anotherday-anotherslay]

@@strawberrynumberone That's a very American reply.

[@Mikibear222]

Omg when he said that Lil Nas X asked HIM for a selfie and said he watched Eugene growing up I got goosebumps. We’re so proud of how far you’ve come Eugene, can’t wait to see what comes next! 💜

[@tfgrrl2042]

This was the part I teared up. There are a lot of "influencers" who are pretty vapid, but when you lead with your truth that has a real impact on people's lives. It's hard to understate how important visibility is, especially with people like Eugene who are moral and thoughtful.

[@AbbyCox]

I have no words for how much I love a "fashion history Eugene" 😍

[@lonelyrocketeer]

Petition to Try guys to try 1700s fashion with our favourite KZbin dress historian! 😍

[@katruzkacolon9083]

Perhaps a Try Guys individual series for Eugene?

[@spicymayo8950]

Omg a collab between you and the try guys would be the best

[@craigbryant9925]

Yes to all of this!

[@maryquitecontrary9669]

YES

[@theo8037]

An idea: the borrowed vintage designer suit was pretty much exactly what your mom would have given you because it was, well, designer and good looking but since it wasn't new and already worn it was affordable and into that base you build your own style and identity through the red accents in make up and shoes, the hair and the jewelry. Just what came to mind while watching the video

[@lizxu322]

It's poetic but still not ideal. He deserves to achieve his first vision...he and his family has HAD ENOUGH of MAKING DO

[@lawfulchaotic8926]

Round of applause to Matt, Min-Young, Eugene's creative team, his designer and to his youtube associates. The amount of support and positive influence they have provided Eugene, whether in the current or past tense, is something I am forever thankful for. Anna definitely needs to invite Eugene again so we can see his full vision for the met come to life.

[@hilarylauren6112]

Was really touching hearing about how seriously his immigrant mother took style and presentation. It really reminds me of a period of time I spent as a foreign exchange student in Nairobi. I lived with a middle class Nubian family in Kibera, one of the largest slums in Africa. I was always struck by how sharp everyone dressed, even in a massive shanty town. When riding the bus home from downtown I realized you’d have know idea any of my fellow passengers lived in a slum. And don’t even get me started on Sundays with everyone in their church best! 🤩 My family explained how important it is for Kenyans to always put their best foot forward, regardless of your circumstances. Much love ❤️

[@Jumpoable]

Only in "1st world" America do people dress like trash/ slobs.

[@JNMKlover]

@@Jumpoable louder for those in the back! 👋

[@Jumpoable]

@@Ali-mv3jc Never been to Pakistan, but travelled all around your neighbouring India, including rural areas. Women with no shoes would still have bangles, rings, nose rings & gorgeously colourful sari & shawls, walking their cows, getting water from the well with giant pots atop their flowing headscarves, or yeah, even shovelling soil. I suppose Pakistan is more subdued with the colours & the cutting with mainly kurtas & baggy trousers.

[@connyc23]

you could tell Eugene felt uncomfortable and unfulfilled with his MET look. I'm glad this side of the story was shared.

[@jen.g.]

“A large part of being an adult is learning how to adapt and thrive without being an asshole to others.” - Eugene Lee Yang This will be made into “art” and placed on my office wall next week, without a doubt! It’s something I definitely needed to hear due to being under intense pressure and unreasonable deadlines at work right now. Thank you, Eugene.

[@dlaity107]

That quote should be on classroom walls the world over.

[@nilawarriorprincess]

This to be taught in preschool, it applies to everyone regardless of age.

[@kailincolbert8243]

My husband the anime nerd, "He does look like a JoJo's character, especially season 5." I love that Eugene was able to make due and had a great night. I hope his next events go much more smoothly! You're an amazing guy, and connect to so many people across all cultures and genres!!!

[@bigclown3419]

As a fellow JoJo fan, your husband is absolutely correct. He exudes part five JoJo vibes.

[@Kaalyn_HOW]

There's a HUGE story, and q very American one, in two gay men - virtually strangers - coming together in a moment of emergency to help one another. Esp when the demands and fulfillment of the elite took away your ease of opportunity and sense of security to begin with. Another gay man showed up for you, behind the scenes, with no one else the wiser, and fitted you with the armor you needed to go out and face the day. And not just face it but go claim what's rightfully yours to share and thrive in. It reminds me of the way that gay men and women came together in the underground during the AIDS crisis. No one else could be bothered, but they offered whatever they had, no questions asked, to help them move through this world with less shame, fear and loneliness. This embodied that spirit and was more valuable than your intended fashion.

[@Kick0a0cat]

♥️

[@emerycharlotte7166]

[@TakeFlyteProductions]

EXACTLY

[@vivianatoledo1416]

your comment is everything

[@fantasyk87]

I just love Matt's side-comments "He cried" or "He was not calm" 😂. Anyways, you were beautiful Eugene and when I saw the video of you and Nikki at the Met Gala I screamed, because I like you both and didn't know you would be there. Hopefully there will be many more times!

[@marianavaler-looney6857]

I won’t lie to you, I genuinely thought that it was an incredibly well thought out look of dominating masculinity locking away the feminine, gender-bending side of Eugene. I thought the symbolism in the necklace and the burst of red felt like a battle he was fighting to be set free. Male fashion has come such a long way from just the traditional black tuxedo to the past. My understanding of it was that the story he was trying to tell was one of conflict with accepting that he was not abiding by any gender norms, a fight with tradition and breaking free of that. I thought it was one of the most intelligent look on the carpet.

[@anna-jh7zy]

lmao perfect reflection of how most things are not as deep as we think they are

[@anadacosta4043]

That is such a beautiful interpretation of his look!

[@ItsAsparageese]

@@anna-jh7zy That's a valid and definitely funny take lol, but personally I'd argue for reading OP's comment as a reflection of the also-true fact that anything can be art and can be deep depending on our choice to use it as an inspiration/reflection catalyst :)

[@BelindaShort]

@@anna-jh7zy That's the great thing about art though, it's reflective of what you think

[@bananafone251]

you described this perfectly!!!!

[@godsmackfreak13]

lil nas X growing up watching and loving Eugene is quite possibly the most beautiful thing i've ever heard in my life ;-;

[@zokoravonyensloh]

I think it´s kind of poetic that your look for the Met Gala was brought to you the same way your mom protected you as a child. You did not get the fancy, exclusive thing you wanted but you made do with what you had - and killed it. You looked stunning! And because of a weird twist of fate this was your own brand of American fashion. It´s fitting, don´t you think? I do hope you do get invited next year and can do the look you envisioned tho :D

[@lizxu322]

It's poetic but still not ideal. He deserves to achieve his first vision...he and his family has HAD ENOUGH of MAKING DO

[@pattiecakez]

We’ve been waiting for Eugene to get to the Met… especially after the challenge during quarantine to recreate the celebrity looks! I hope he ran into Rihanna!

[@spicymayo8950]

Being sidelined and still showing up in Dior is the perfect bookend to Eugene’s story. Just how as a kid, his family would work to dress nice and live up to pressure as Asian Americans with limited means, he did the same at the gala. Honestly, I think the poetry of this final look was more impactful than anything prepared could have been. We love you Eugene. You owned it ❤️

[@stinky6521]

awww best comment

[@viceb7]

Vintage Dior too!

[@ColbyDi]

Exactly this!! It was perfect and symbolic!

[@carolinebcollier]

Eugene, I don’t think it’s a stretch to see your “best laid plans” MET Gala experience and final look as the most perfect representation of how fashion impacted your experience in America. The story you told about your amazing mother making the most out of her situation - in such a stylish way and to help protect her children - it was moving. Call me sentimental, but you honored her in your ability to be resourceful and creative and true to yourself. In a fabulous borrowed suit combined with your impeccable styling you beautifully and perfectly represented your formative experiences of fashion in America.

[@parinitahoro]

I literally had tears in my eyes. As Eugene was talking about how anxious and stressed he was, my anxiety level was going up. Honestly when I saw Eugene’s look I never felt that he didn’t give a 100% towards his outfit. I loved it! And now when I am hearing his back story it’s confirmed that he did put a 100% whether or not he had his dream outfit because it was not outfit that presented who he was but rather it was he himself standing proudly, shining like a star!

[@romiya708]

When Prabal told Eugene what his visibility means to so many people especially to little old me here in Nepal i just broke down. Thank you Prabal and you too Eugene

[@zerocraic3966]

I am Pakistani and queer. I know I can’t say prabal was speaking for me…but I felt very seen.

[@tmr5932]

I traveled to Nepal in 2016 and I just want to say I fell deeply in love with your country. I experienced so much kindness, joy, and beauty beyond words. I miss it greatly, and will be going back someday

[@charliepearce1886]

When Eugene started talking about his mom using fashion to get them not bullied I cried bc I have an Asian family that’s close to mine that went through the same thing, it’s always the nice families that get the backlash and bullying.

[@Sam-0827]

It’s so sweet 🥺

[@nesswabbit]

"Fuck it, you only live once and you'll never look younger" - Life wisdom with Eugene.

[@paperchainhearts]

I’m adopting that as my mantra!!!

[@nesswabbit]

@@paperchainhearts ha! Me too!

[@itsdaniellehuntley]

I love how Eugene explained his mother. Seeing the pride he takes in his family and how much respect he has for them is wonderful. This was fantastic.

[@loofahsswanson559]

Eugene describing his childhood having to look perfect to be taken seriously, really hits deep 😭

[@francescathomas3502]

My parents never taught me that!! I wore what was comfortable, not whatever looked good. So because I prefer to wear what is comfortable, I think people now see me as a "slob"

[@OHMD11]

I hate that you apologized for what you called "sounding smart"! I love hearing anyone talk about their passions. Share your knowledge!

[@alipaskus9328]

The way that Eugene tells a story is so captivating. He blends history with personal testimonials to enhance his narrative flawlessly 10/10 It is just such good story telling!!!

[@karenesq419]

True its really captivating

[@RoseLe]

He's a great story teller. He makes it so personal and you feel like you're sitting beside him the next day as he tells you guys adventure towards the Met Gala

[@Lihamou]

Funny how Eugene assumes full responsibility for all the "mishaps", when in fact he was just invited last minute! The organisation fail is not on him, but rather on whomever was responsible for inviting him on such short notice, especially on such a crazy event time in NY... That being said, you still looked amazing, Eugene!

Yes, definitely he was set up for failure and still came out victorious at the end

[@maplelump]

It kinda sucks that you didn't get that much time to prepare for such a big event. I would have just been in panic mode all week and not even known where to call/contact to get started. You looked amazing.

[@arcie3716]

I'm so mad that Eugene, Jackie Aina, and Nikkie only had 6 days to prepare for the Met Gala. I know that if they had more time to prepare, the looks they would've had would been stunning. The things I would do to see them in full-on looks 😭. But they still look amazing. I always get so emotional when Eugene talks about representing his background and identity. He always uses his platform to lift up people from the communities he from. They better invite him back and let him shine

[@ChatterjeeAnindita]

when i saw eugene in a suit i immediately knew something had gone amiss; there was no way he would have not worn a dress. but had i not known him as a personality, I would have never realised that it wasn’t the intended look at all so yes slay that confidence gurl!

[@therewillbecatswithgwenhwyfar]

Eugene - you’re NOT “just” an influencer. You have been so brave in telling your story and bringing us along with you. You are a beautiful filmmaker. I still go back and watch your coming out video and it inspires me to be brave and tell my story. Tell that doubting part of your brain, that to us, you’re never going to be “just a _____.” You’re an INSPIRER.

[@therewillbecatswithgwenhwyfar]

OMG that was soooooooooooooooo good!

[@erinbanana22]

Exactly! This man has single handedly made me look at myself and be real with who I am on more than one occasion and I'm eternally grateful

[@emma-leescott466]

This made me sad that there was so much disappointment associated with Eugene's outfit. I'm glad that he still went and enjoyed his experience, but I really hope he is able to go again to participate fully in the way he really wanted to.

[@gayathrisiva19]

"I didn't cry! Yes, you did Don't tell people that!" My favorite part of the video lol. Especially, knowing Eugene and how he doesn't really like to express his emotions, I found it really funny!

[@brittanyjohnson1945]

Okay this is the closest example of that nightmare where you’re rushed on stage and you needed to shave your legs and fix your hair and memorize lines but there you are on stage in your sleep tshirt and you don’t even know what play it is… EUGENE LIVED IT! Eugene you can truly get through ANYTHING! You also served. Proud of you and thankful for the people around for you.

[@krystalm9526]

When he said "once in a lifetime opportunity" I immediately thought, there is no way in hell you're not getting invited again!! I was expecting a dress, but he crushed the tux with the femme glam. ❤

[@ab6ixblindforloveismyultja641]

The stories you gained was definitely more valuable than the clothes. Eugene wears his attitude/aura like an open book and the Eugene-ness he carries with him is his signature style that can’t be replicated by cloth.

[@SaruSama22]

Seriously adore how real Eugene makes this time feel. So much better than the curated to every second videos of the ultra rich that I can never connect with Also, living for Matt's interjections in this video

[@pauldacon828]

Get ultra rich and then you will be able to relate to them. Or get rich and set a better example. Or just keep being poor and complaining IDGAF.

[@BonnieCalderwoodAspinwall]

Minorities always cut themselves NO slack for the pitfalls that face folx who aren't prioritised. You absolutely killed it Eugene, and you'll be back at the Met Gala.

[@loi5s]

why did you say folx if folks is already gender neutral 💀

[@BonnieCalderwoodAspinwall]

@@loi5s You're right, however since many people use "folks" habitually but aren't actually open-minded about gender diversity, "folx" is used to signal that I am consciously including gender diversity in the term.

[@YeetusTheFetus]

@@BonnieCalderwoodAspinwall I’m nb and I never understood why people did it other than being performative

[@BonnieCalderwoodAspinwall]

@@YeetusTheFetus I'm also non-binary and I don't demand people use it over "folks", but I definitely read more intentional allyship into "folx". To each their own!

[@sionej.5505]

When you said “Call it being Korean, or a Capricorn…” I absolutely expected you to follow it up with “or Caprikorean”…

[@JenniferJiang2013]

🤣🤣🤣🤣👑

[@savvygatton]

I hope Eugene can feel as proud of himself as everyone around him visibly was throughout this lovely vid, at least now that the fire has died down. The suit looked incredible and made the styling and nails (love the story! the symbolism!) pop and set a new standard for menswear on the carpet, queer or otherwise. Thanks for letting us behind the scenes and sharing some vulnerable moments. Wishing you rest, joy, (and maybe some therapy with a queer/Asian provider-- you deserve to feel this moment!)

[@melissadwiggins]

I love how you do still display your southern roots by using the word "y'all" ( a word I use far too many times during a day). You give us fellow Southerners a good look. A lot of people think that people from the South are uneducated hicks and you just destroy that stereotype so I applaud you, and also your bravery to be who you are. Thank you, Eugene; and keep being unapologetically fierce!

[@LAUTTOCEO]

Eugene: " I was surprisingly calm " Matt : "Eugene was not calm "

[@mandalevelsup]

There is nothing that feels more Iconically American than fishing a decimated plan out of the trash at the last possible second with help from a bunch of friends and the ability to shop at any hour, and acting as if everything is fine until you can melt down. I love this story, even if I hate the stress Eugene went through.

[@EB-yx4fn]

yes!! I'm so sorry it was so anxiety-provoking, but this is also truly a beautiful community moment

[@squijum2388]

Eugene, you were stunning. I hope you can take this as a compliment: the final look in the tux reminds me so much of Julie Andrews in Victor Victoria, but with so much of the "I look f'ing amazing so don't f' with me," shield glaring through your accessories and makeup. It's not your dream look, but you owned it, and absolutely slayed as you walked up those stairs. Can't wait to see what you pull of in the years to come.

[@JennySanchez-zn4pe]

This was Eugene’s Cinderella moment! Don’t worry Eugene, we loved all behind the scenes before you got to go to the Ball. ❤️ You looked fabulous at the Met Gala.

[@Tails1]

Actually, this whole story is pretty American! Getting an opportunity and doing everything you possibly can to make it is very the American dream. I know it's kind of cheesy but hopefully, it makes sense. Also, the look is killer! Note: I didn’t realize he made the same point in the video lol I wrote this midway through the video!

[@SavMercury]

The cuts to Matt saying how stressed Eugene was gets me every time 😂

[@msmills3030]

The red Jimmy Choo's pulled the entire ensemble together. Worth waiting for.

[@Cheesegoddess]

You know I’d love to see the guys do a mock gala event so that Eugene could show off his idea outfit or something he’d love to have worn if it didn’t go nuts for him. That way we can have other people be kind of silly with their outfits but also really show case Eugene’s vision/visions and message.

[@Llamaf4ce]

Yo this is a great idea

[@GenieGin13]

That's a fantastic idea!

[@author19creator]

Lil Nas X being a fan of Eugene gives me life. Nice reminder of how they're people first and entertainers second.

[@ashleighgonzales]

Eugene, please don’t ever feel like you have to diminish your smarts or intelligence! You are an icon and you’re making waves! Thank you for representing

[@dimitritraykor8502]

Okay but, I think what Eugene eventually wore (even if it was an emergency and not completely planned) tells his story as an American more then anything. The suit is a direct compliment to what he was explaining earlier with his mum and the discount designer pieces. Looking sophisticated and wealthy so no one questions your validity of your place in that space. And his makeup can be taken as a vision of what it was really like, the bloody bruised look that shows while he looks classic and refined he has fought his way to be recognised in this space and many others. Eugene you came to the gala looking perfect❤️ thank you for always being you

[@meteorrejector]

these are such beautiful observations ❤️

[@2mas23]

That’s the thing Eugene… you said “without them I’d be nothing.”… nah, you still are a solid solid rock to stand on in your community regardless of them. They did, however, boost you on that specific night.

[@tori_forte]

Poor Eugene, his experience reads like one of my anxiety nightmares

[@kyndramb7050]

Most successful people that actually care are very fucking anxious people. Where do you think that drive and ambition comes from?🌈AnXiEtY🏳️‍🌈

[@JamieMarzy]

Eugene is so much happier now. Hes got this softness and very cozy aura to him. Now that hes expressing himself and living his truth.

[@goinggrimy]

I'm so happy for Eugene and Lil Nas X to have met each other. Also he's right Jojo's is a fashion inspiration. Matt's contribution to this retelling is amazing.

[@livluu]

literally manifesting that i can do as well under pressure like eugene did, he really had HOURS left and still showed up to the met looking stunning as ever.

[@missanonymus585]

So do I.

[@AndreasLair]

honestlyyy i'm actually crying right now. as a first generation born asian american i love hearing about Eugene's experience both growing up and his evolution of fashion as well as this experience he shared with us and the people on his team that he decided to work with. it's powerful. it's inspiring. and i really cannot wait to see what else he has in store

[@tdsims1963]

I love it, too! African-Americans share parts of this experience. My parents insisted that we dressed well, wrote well, and spoke clearly. I had to become an adult to understand that my parents were using these as weapons just to "break even".

[@Vega8432]

Eugene could NEVER disappoint me fashion-wise. I just don't think it's in him to not pull off a look and be as authentic as he possibly can in that moment. Next METs I know he will just get better and better. If you look back to past looks from some of the greats like Rihanna no one is perfect the first time around. Be human and just keep learning and growing. Proud of Eugene!

[@EmeraldEyes3713]

Eugene’s Gollum/Sméagol monologue is the perfect representation of imposter syndrome. Love you Eugene ❤️

[@Scrofar]

I initially thought he was replicating the Green Goblin/Willem Defou talking to himself scene in Spiderman 1, but this makes far more sense

[@koxonutboy]

I was laughing at this segment; yet, it was very relatable.

[@jaco3394]

Watching Eugene be so openly comfortable in his sexuality and showing it through his fashion choices is so inspiring. I'm in my late 20s and am still struggling with really accepting my sexuality as well as just me as a person but watching Eugene grow so much on camera (and I'm assuming off camera, too) and not be afraid to show who he is really helps.

[@dannavann]

This is such a lesson on having courage push through when you are not feeling great.And godammit Anna Please invite Eugene to Met 2022 so we can see him slay! With atleast a month’s notice 🙏🏿

[@CLB30ROX]

Please include Matt on more of Eugene' s interviews. The real perspective is literally what I need in my life 😁

[@KIWIgirl2014]

You know that image of an iceberg where a little bit is shown above the surface, but then underneath you see just how massive this block of ice is? That's what came to mind as I listened to Eugene tell his story. Eugene, you may be an unabashed Asian of chaos, but when chaos does happen, you're pretty good at handling it with grace. Carpe diem, Eugene, carpe diem.

[@drunkcicada]

Maybe it’s just me but just seeing Ned or Alexandria gives me the ICK

[@pbfloyd13]

Same, I specifically picked this video because I thought neither of them would be in it but then Alex shows up I'm like ugh....ಠ⁠︵⁠ಠ

[@getsetready]

Eugene's depressed/anxious voice sounds like it should have been a thought bubble in Keith's voice lmao

[@anoushkasingh2080]

Yeah that woudve been funny 😂

[@samanthabrooke3966]

I love how his journey to put his look together kinda represents what his mother had to do to put looks together just to fit into society…maybe I’m making this too deep 😂

[@katiejac6020]

I never would have guessed that this was a last minute look if you didn’t tell us. The fact that suit looked to tailored to you made it. I thought the look was fab!! You absolutely deserved to be there!! You deserve everything you have gotten in life because you have gone out there and worked for it.

[@weewaa13]

eugene is such a good storyteller, every video that has a format like this is just stunning and captivating

[@MichelleDelamatter]

Eugene really has a wonderful level of professionalism and sincerity when he speaks

[@mrs.alienrope5778]

i still think it was good. the eyes and necklace and nails was basically telling your story of who you are on the inside and your american dream was to come out and be loud and proud of who you are. and the suit represents trying to fit into american culture. so your outfit represented the struggle to come out to be yourself. that in itself tells a story. not all American dreams are glamorous. lots of people had to struggle to get it or hide their true self first before they can be who they are.

[@pinkempathy]

i love this interpretation so much! sometimes, you don't work for the art. for people like eugene, art comes organically and even unintentionally.

[@lizxu322]

Too true, a lot of American stories include sacrifice, disappointments , especially from emigrant families

[@bexyPTX]

I really appreciate that Matt was in here pretty much solely to explain how Eugene was really feeling in those stressful moments

[@ipaintontheskies]

“I dint cry!” “Yes, you did” “You dont need to tell them that” Exactly how I am rn after watching the video

[@faureamour]

I love the final quote regarding what Eugene's mother taught him about fashion. Despite the behind-the-scenes drama, he owned it. I'm hopeful and excited to see what he may get to do in the future with more resources and prep time to realize his intentional vision on a stage like this.

[@juliagoldsmith-pinkham8719]

I love the idea that YOU were the art, especially carrying the artists (hair makeup nails) on your body - the tuxedo was your frame.

[@jessicaswim2744]

I love how humble and passionate Eugene was in this video talking about his experience! I hope he will be invited again, hopefully with more time to prepare!

[@naxx__sg]

I really really hope Eugene gets a chance to attend the MET again, he truly deserves a chance to portray his vision fully

[@hishersgamers8432]

“ when you externally display competence and Grace when your internally freaking out, you’re setting yourself up to fail. “ holy cow, yes. You better say that again.

[@LizzyDidntDoIt]

The message in Eugene’s story is profound and if you hear it, grab onto it and never let go, because it will help you in your moments of “WHAT THE FUCK IS HAPPENING” struggles. 🥰

[@Caninecancersucksrocks]

My heart genuinely hurts for Eugene - he’s being so sweet about it, and accepting his own responsibility in what went down for him regarding his clothing for the gala. I didn’t watch the gala this year, but every picture or clip I’ve seen he looks amazing. Eugene, You pushed through, and you still OWNED your look. Even so, I desperately want to see your true vision one day, because I know without question that it will be everything you want it to be. ❤️❤️❤️

[@librarymeg57]

I wish that all of the haters that said Eugene’s look was boring could watch this video! I think he looked amazing!!!

[@juliagulia3386]

Yeah, it was actually one of my favorite looks, honestly.

[@myshmallow]

I think a lot of people find "Simplicity" boring. I found it gorgeous. Like... Sometimes being Simple is much more of a statement when everyone else is like... covered in glam. Especially for this theme. A lot of people make it work with some of the simplest things. And like he said "make do with what you have an own it."

[@marigoldtea-kl7ev]

I definitely thought it was weird that he wasn't wearing something more extravagant when I first saw the pictures, I was expecting something flashy y'know? In the end I think the simplicity just makes him stand out!

[@BambiLena666]

@@myshmallow Hes a gorgeous man, but a simple black suit really doesnt scream American fashion or America. For the theme it was pretty bad. But gotta say there were plenty more celebs that supposedly had months to prepare and completely missed the assignment. So honestly he gets pass for at the very least looking stunning and understanding that it was underdone and did his best with super underdog conditions, most of the others either didnt care or didnt get their outfit was really lackluster according to the theme. the ''well im wearing Chanel, so theres that'' is a level of not caring that hurts me.

[@karla9319]

It was boring. I’m a fan of Eugene but the look wasn’t it. It wasn’t his fault just poor timing.

[@JuMixBoox]

It's so wild to me that they just decided to invite the KZbinrs to the MET gala week off and - even though they lived very far from NYC and there is still a pandemic and a lot of preparation required - they actually agreed. That's a testament to the name of the event.