My First Met Gala (And How I Almost Didn't Make It)

Drum roll please, it's the story you've all been waiting for! Eugene chronicles the events leading up to his first #MetGala, including everything that led to his red carpet mishap (and how he almost didn't make it!)
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[@nelegrubrus7423]

Eugene telling Lil Nas X that he is an inspiration and then Lil Nas X answering that he watched Eugene growing up so influencing him to grow up to be an inspiration. Damn. That made me cry

[@SakuraMoonflower]

Coming full circle! Beautiful. ❤️

[@osmadchlo]

That was my favorite part!

[@moxvist8206]

Was eugene in a show or smth? How lil nas watched him?

[@zuhavcr]

@@moxvist8206 eugene has been part of the try guys since 2014. that's 7 years!! i'm sure nas watched him when they were still with buzzfeed!

[@chloeb7617]

@@moxvist8206 Nas is young, Eugene was on buzzfeed for many of our teenage years

[@swingloveEKL]

Anyone else feel like Eugene didn't get a fair chance because they gave him so little notice that he was invited? Only a week to prepare when most people know MONTHS in advance if they're going is not fair at all

[@jomi9957]

right. it’s simply not fair for ANYONE reguardless of celeb status to be invited on such a short notice

[@nofinn1044]

Life happebs

[@32Theresa]

Damn… I bet it’s b/c of A list celebs refusing to get vaxxed & an extra spot opened for him last minute

[@pinkemilyrose]

@@32Theresa nah bc he was invited by KZbin who bought a table which means they invite everyone at the table (but they then have to be approved my Anna Wintour), a spot must have opened at the KZbin table meaning a KZbinr pulled out/refused a vaccine

[@muddyfeetaussies]

@@32Theresa lol he got to go be cause of the big testicles.. ok someone had to say it.. I rather see a story from Eugene than some A lister anyhow. The try guys just have some funny proper KZbin content :)

[@sashafire1987]

I wanna see what Eugene would do when he's properly invited and gets months to prepare for it, he's one of the most creative people I've ever seen.

[@voyance4elle]

yessssss

[@missitheachievementhuntres560]

same!

[@vgn5804]

And the very same, again, here! Eugene and his outfit, would light up the whole event - and work with whatever the imposed theme demanded, I feel....... Roll on next time!🔥

[@KIWIgirl2014]

Well, he was at the Oscars a few months ago…

[@mollysingleton1533]

The fact that you had a designer who didn’t carry through with your look, and you still have nothing nasty to say about them, says so much about you Eugene. I think it would be hard even for the most level headed person to not have an absolute breakdown over that. But you looked amazing, and can’t wait to see your looks in future years 😉

[@laurensouvannavong4453]

they really did eugene dirty by inviting him so last minute. if he had months and months like so many others had im sure he would’ve been able to achieve his vision

[@bruhgirl16]

Yeah..but people who call themselves influencers getting invitation first... what is this now the met gala is really like Disney red carpet

[@morganpavelka4945]

Yah he was so full of grace and class in this but ultimately the is a failure of so many other people.

[@AlwaysTheEssence]

All of the influencers and even some celebs were invited last min, you just have to make it work

[@LadyLocket]

It was probably because some others ‘bigger’ names had dropped out so they went to the back up list to fill the spots. The Met Gala and other big events invites go out sooo far in advance just to avoid what happened to Eugene. It’s also to insure all the ‘important’ people have enough to notice so they can plan ahead and to not double book the date if they actually want to go. People like Royalty, Politicians, The Elite, Top Business people and the most Celebrities have there most important scheduled appearances planned a year ahead usually. What’s more rude is having your invite for so long and dropping out so close to the event, but not close enough that it was clearly an emergency or last minute sickness. That just indicates you weren’t super keen on going but wanted to keep your place, thus stopping others from going, just so you can keep the option there incase you feel like it nearer the time. It’s bad etiquette and just shows your selfishness.

[@TheSomeonewholoves]

​@@LadyLocket well in defense of a person who dropped the invitation. you never know what happened to them, maybe they fell sick, maybe someone in their family got sick, maybe they had an emergency. you can't judge someone being rude and selfish, without knowing what happened. besides i think many YT celebrities got a late invite, i think Jackie or Nikkie mentioned that their team made an incredible work considering the time restraint.

[@izzybells6813]

Matt contradicting everything Eugenes saying about what he was like is so funny to me

[@gayathrisiva19]

I know! "I didn't cry! Yes, you did. Don't tell people that!" Lolol

[@dlaity107]

Yup. Loved that! That's when my spouse & me knew we were for keeps - when we could do a 'bit' like that together.

[@jasmingovers4403]

Ikr, it wad the best!

[@waffles3629]

Yep, shows how well they know each other

[@raidennova]

I was laughing so hard it actually reminded me a lot of the audiobook version of Neil Patrick Harris's autobiography he has one chapter annotated by his husband and its absolutely hilarious and has a very similar vibe to this

[@jesswinter]

I kind of want to see a redo episode where Eugene gets a dress designed exactly as he would have wanted

[@bigbangg1215]

same

[@starkeclipse]

I agree. I'd be interested to see what look he was envisioning

[@ayeshaazmat230]

yup yup

[@therewillbecatswithgwenhwyfar]

Yesssssssssssss!

[@chantaleperron]

@@starkeclipse u

[@Esqm]

I don’t think Eugene knows how truly aspiring and loved he is. He represents Asians He represents the Queer community He represents Entrepreneurs (buying TryGuys and leaving Buzzfeed) He represents so so much to me. I have never been so happy and proud of this person right here. I really wish he is invited next year and killlls it with that Eugene flare

[@g.paub01]

He represents Capricorns too lol Btw this is a beautiful sentiment and it's deserved. He really is a huge inspiration.

[@leliavoinea9402]

He represents a successful KZbinr as well.😃 After all I wach Try Guys mostly because of him and the Try Wifes.

[@bela-sofia34]

Clutch the pearls! How can he NOT know how "aspiring" he is? And he calls himself a "Try Guy"! 😂

[@art111g]

He represents Slytherins!

[@TheLastGen]

❤❤

[@MichelleKhare]

The way I was on the edge of my seat for all 40 minutes of this 😭😭 Eugene, you looked amazing!!

[@clorozweepvmundosalazar5153]

Michelle 😭😭😭😭 you’re my hero

[@fluffernutter9420]

@@derekblasberg oh, hello!

[@elyssahuie901]

I didn't even realize 40 mins had passed!

[@Cordial_Lump]

this really didn't feel like 40 minutes

[@Jovancaleb0726]

truly one of the only men at the met who looked amazing

[@karimonster]

This just reaffirms Eugene's place as a Disney Princess because that was one Hell of a Cinderella story :)

[@hopelessotaku3925]

Eugene is the best Disney princess. Kuzco move aside!

[@Natalie-101]

@@hopelessotaku3925 he doesn't have to move aside, they're the new power couple!

[@bulletsxdame]

Amen.

[@everberry51]

You can say Prince since his pronounce are he/him

[@clockworkmedic1026]

I appreciate how kind Eugene was to the designer but he was perhaps a little too kind. Like, what he was asking was certainly a tall order but saying yes to a client when you're so busy you can't even get them in for a fitting? That's not exactly responsible business practice.

[@chefany01]

Then also not even pulling through?! He was sent just some rags and called it a day.

[@alfrancis8]

@@chefany01 Thats true too.. they should have finished the job somehow.

[@meikusje]

Tbh I still don't really understand what Eugene had exactly discussed with the designer? His explanation in the beginning doesn't really sound like a 'tall order', but I probably missed something 😅

[@CuteArwen]

Absolutely!

[@alfrancis8]

Sounds like the designers have a rack of clothes and a few clients picking from them and they put Eugene last on the list and gave him what others didnt pick thats why they delayed. Thats my conspiracy theory :P

[@auntydale3379]

And kudos to Eugene for not displaying the clothes from designers that he chose not to wear. So much integrity. And so much class for not naming the designers who let him down at the eleventh hour.

[@LadyScaper]

But the designer didn’t let him down. They were just swamped. Like… it’s not a consumer business exchange, of buying an outfit. It’s the MET gala. The designer offered him what they had available. Didn’t work. Not a big deal.

[@replyingtocommentsthatwant9115]

@@LadyScaper Chill this comment was made a year ago, not a big deal

[@void9938]

@@LadyScaper I hear you but this is the internet where people will take the smallest perceived slight against someone they like and go on a manhunt.

[@mariaytinexposer]

87

[@mariaytinexposer]

14

[@Lily8061]

Honestly, the real fault lies with the people who decided to invite him a week before the event.....like...that's insane. Especially for someone who has never attended the Met gala before?! Eugene excelled despite the obstacles. I REALLY hope they have the common decency to invite Eugene next year at LEAST a month in advance as a well deserved apology.

[@daria5846]

I think the most obvious reason was that someone else was gonna go but something happened last minute and wasn't able to, so they asked someone else

[@LadyScaper]

Other people get last minute invites too. It’s a huge opportunity.

[@Just_Reading_Comments]

I definitely wouldn’t say Eugene deserves an apology from whoever “they” are but yeah you should at least know well in advance if you’re even on the “short list” for an invite

[@anto4380delaguaridaa]

KZbin is buying a whole table for their talent, probably someone had to skip it and they asked Eugene, it's a huge opportunity and shit like this happens every day in the fashion industry

[@MrBubblygoodness]

Knowing how artistic Eugene is, I was disappointed with his MET look. However, after watching this video, I feel so bad that he was not able to present his vision. Ultimately, I’m so happy he still attended and hopefully he’ll get more chances in the future to show the world what he can do! Still, that designer is pretty irresponsible saying yes to a client yet was not able to fulfill that promise.

[@stretchkitty21]

Hearing the story about his childhood, it actually made a great throwback to his sharp looks his mom put him in growing up. Really made it for the theme.

[@Byyyyuh]

Same

[@Lafalot54]

Same!

[@marziaazimi5068]

Yes the designer was irresponsible but I wished Eugene started getting ready for his met way earlier considering it was his first and might be his last

[@tinanguyen2418]

@@marziaazimi5068 6 days notice isn’t enough time to be a priority to any designer since many of these attendees prepare monthssss ahead of time. I’m annoyed that he got a last minute invite cause he deserves to be top of the list for how amazing he is.

[@theletterbree]

I don’t know why I was expecting a vlog, Eugene doesn’t make vlogs he makes short films and documentaries. This was a total delight and a rollercoaster. How you tied the experience back to your mother’s lessons… I banged my hand on the table it was so good.

[@AP-jz1eh]

I know right? Anything Eugene creates is pure gold. Creative, meaningful, beautiful, heart-wrenching. I don't think there's anyone else like him

[@laurelleaves]

i'm glad eugene didn't name the designer because people have still gone on to blame them for something that was quite honestly out of their control. eugene got 6 days notice, the designer clearly had other clients but tried their best to fit him in, and then it was clear the dress not getting there was because of an emergency with another client. THREE DIFFERENT FASHION EVENTS WERE HAPPENING AT ONCE. literally eugene getting a designer at all was a feat in of itself. i'm so glad it all ended up working out at the end!!

[@mysisterisafoodie]

The designers have a duty to dress who they are assigned to. Anna tells them who and they are supposed to.

[@theplaylister]

I disagree - the designer shouldn't have agreed to take another client if that was more than they could chew. Had the designer been more honest, Eugene could have worked on a plan B.

[@bunny_0288]

@@theplaylister This is my thought as well. As a professional, if you can't do it you should just say no. That way the client can find someone else and this sort of thing won't happen. It's so unprofessional to flake on a client like this.

[@anto4380delaguaridaa]

@@mysisterisafoodie it doesn't work like that, especially with a 6 day notice

[@ladynoluck]

It’s definitely unfair to everyone involved (invited person, designers, stylists, etc.) to give not even a full week’s notice.

[@red.handedjill]

Yeah that wasn't the best idea. It's almost like an afterthought so to speak. Despite all the chaos, Eugene and everyone involved in getting him ready deserve all the praise for their hard work ❤️

[@cathy987100]

I was thinking that too; very presumptuous of the planners to expect or assume everyone has the resources to come up with something appropriate for a gala. Unless it couldn't be avoided for whatever reason.

[@meghasinghania1]

@@cathy987100 See celebs will have that reach & the best of resources but a lot of others like content creators/digital media representatives (I don't like calling them "influencers" really) might not have that!! Esp for genuine & impactful making one's like Nikkie & Eugene!!

[@user-ok4xb1rd9f]

I thought it was because someone from youtube team couldn't attend in the last minute. But yeah it's insane.

[@bruhgirl16]

@@meghasinghania1 yeah but he deserved to be on red carpet.. unlike tiktok stars

[@bakugokatsuki48]

The way Derrick and Nick came through like fairy godparents. Also Eugene, if you're reading this I'm glad you attended the MET Gala even after everything that went down. I felt proud and represented seeing an Asian who was part of the LGBTQIA+ community walking up those stairs with such confidence. It was inspiring to me seeing someone who I relate to so much stand up there with their unique identity. Thank you for attending Eugene.

[@AbbyCox]

I have no words for how much I love a "fashion history Eugene" 😍

[@lonelyrocketeer]

Petition to Try guys to try 1700s fashion with our favourite KZbin dress historian! 😍

[@katruzkacolon9083]

Perhaps a Try Guys individual series for Eugene?

[@spicymayo8950]

Omg a collab between you and the try guys would be the best

[@craigbryant9925]

Yes to all of this!

[@maryquitecontrary9669]

YES

[@Sebastian_the_Tripod]

Roman: "awww he didn't wanna cheat on me with another stylist" Also Roman: "YOU DOLT! You should've gotten a stylist"

[@jennypai3763]

YESSSS THAT TOTALLY HAPPENED

[@WaldrifSamantha99]

This breaks my heart that Eugene didn’t have a fair chance at wearing a proper outfit that he absolutely loved 🥺

[@saianmalsetty2145]

for some reason I feel like the invite was intentionally sent late

[@mygirl737g2]

I agree, he deserves that opportunity

[@malaykav]

Same. I’m so glad he went because wow what an opportunity to experience something like that, but since we know what Eugene can really do (like at the vogue man shoot) I know he would’ve absolutely killed it if he had the time.

[@rgoodfellow]

He still looks stunning in anything he puts on!

[@FunkiFungi42]

@@saianmalsetty2145 He was most likely a replacement for someone who RSVP'd that they couldn't attend, and so he was chosen from a list of potential invitees. Not really anyone's fault most likely, just unfortunate circumstances all around. At least he made the best of it!

[@olivemartini0011]

CRYING when Eugene talks about how his mom tried to protect them growing up.

[@ayeecourteney]

Same. A very relatable experience for many first generation Asian Americans.

[@inframinced6698]

Same. I broke down.

[@charliepearce1886]

Same, I have a lot of family friends that are all asian families and it is heartbreaking what I saw them go through with them being sweet families because let’s face it asian families can be super cut throat families but the sweetest people everrr

[@annem4395]

^^ hit really close to home for me…

[@movecount]

"The day of, I wake up, and I'm surprisingly calm." "Eugene was *not* calm."

[@beepbloopbeepbloop]

The fact that they found Matt jsut for that one frame of cross reference was chef’s kiss

[@ssk4609]

In many ways, having the original plan fall through, but finding that perfectly fitting Dior suit, having kind, helpful people pull you through an overwhelming moment, overcoming challenges, rising to meet the moment albeit the emotional rollercoaster ride you experienced, and ultimately, killing it is as American as you can get. I’d say you rocked the Met’s In America theme. That is so America, isn’t it? You slayed, Eugene!!

[@strawberrynumberone]

That's a very American point of view.

[@anotherday-anotherslay]

@@strawberrynumberone That's a very American reply.

[@nayank5032]

I respect Eugene's courage to go to MET after everything falling through. I hope they will invite him again and we can all watch him walking that red carpet in a stunning outfit

[@msadrielet]

I feel so bad for him, who the f*ck invites someone to the MET a week prior? he deserves better, I hope he gets invited again (in advance this time) so he can get the chance to express himself. also, cheers to Eugene for being so creative and making it work, I would've never guessed that this wasn't his original intention with the look if he hadn't said anything.

[@princessfaith925]

It sounds like he was at the KZbin table, which means that he was most likely selected by KZbin to come, and not by a designer or Anna Wintour. They probably wound up with an extra seat last minute, and that's why he only knew six days ahead of time. It seems like Jackie and Nikki were also at the table, but had more time to prep...or else they pulled off miracles if they also had short notice. So it was probably a "oh we bought this table of seats and now have an extra one and we can either be in the hole thousands of dollars or ask someone else...Eugene, can you make it work?" sort of thing

[@zelamorre1126]

He was likely a replacement guest. Either somebody cancelled, or somebody pissed off Anna Wintour and got disinvited.

[@msadrielet]

@@princessfaith925 still, that kinda sucks, i feel like he deserved better than that :/ specially cause his so dedicated in everything he does, yk?

[@B_27]

@@princessfaith925 Yeah, the fact that he though Anna Wintour invited him was amusing. It sounds like the designer f*cked up and over promised but under delivered.

[@elianam8673]

@@B_27 Pretty sure Anna Wintour has to approve any guests though so KZbin probably put his name forward when the seat opened up and she said yes to letting him go

[@NaThXChaz]

This episode is a POEM for Eugene's mom, and I'm totally here for it, she's a rock star stylish woman.

[@mariamagana1047]

Totally agree…

[@LadyMiah]

Indeed! They should make a video where his mom style all Try Guys, or where Eugene and his mom style the try team together?

[@the.muffin]

yesssssssss

[@gunstarheroine5173]

Yeah seriously. It's interesting because he used the word "tool" when he was describing how she utilised fashion, but I what I was really hearing was the word "weapon". The way she approached her family's social status through style choices sounded like a strategist organising troops for battle.

[@maryskrzypczynski2225]

I literally almost cried! She sounds like an awesome woman!

[@panpanicisgood4632]

I hope Eugene gets invited next year and can get exactly what he wants that would fit his vision 🥰 he looked stunning during the gala and I can’t wait to see what he could look like if it all goes right

[@amberhoward7807]

Imagine what his outfit will be if he has time?! Omg that will be the most gorgeous and amazing thing!

[@panpanicisgood4632]

@@amberhoward7807 ikr I feel like he really pulled it off even though anything that could go wrong did go wrong but if he had the time and the proper people and tools to bring his vision to life he would absolutely be show stopping

[@kacieclarke7081]

Heading Lil Nas say that to Eugene literally made me cry. The try guys have so much more of an influence than they could possibly imagine

[@misskittystryker]

Absolutely same. As a queer millennial, seeing all these iconic queer folks rising up and owning the world just fills my heart with joy.

[@Unbeeliever]

Having only 6 days to prepare for the met gala is literally the nightmare scenario, and even with everything that went wrong you still looked amazing. Congratulations for this amazing opportunity and I do hope you get invited back next year!

[@errhka]

Ironically the most American thing he could have done would have just been to go get something at a department or thrift store hehe. Wouldn't get invited again but then again it would be the best representation of the theme

[@mbanerjee5889]

Don't worry Eugene, you'll definitely attend more Met Galas.

[@sakuraachuu]

Agreed

[@mitsuya6860]

YAAAASSSSSSSSSSSSSSS

[@8KEYsTales]

totally agree with you

[@FlagCutie]

Yes. He is too iconic to not get back there.

[@vivianmcafee7869]

i’m so excited for next year 😁

[@hilarylauren6112]

Was really touching hearing about how seriously his immigrant mother took style and presentation. It really reminds me of a period of time I spent as a foreign exchange student in Nairobi. I lived with a middle class Nubian family in Kibera, one of the largest slums in Africa. I was always struck by how sharp everyone dressed, even in a massive shanty town. When riding the bus home from downtown I realized you’d have know idea any of my fellow passengers lived in a slum. And don’t even get me started on Sundays with everyone in their church best! 🤩 My family explained how important it is for Kenyans to always put their best foot forward, regardless of your circumstances. Much love ❤️

[@Jumpoable]

Only in "1st world" America do people dress like trash/ slobs.

[@JNMKlover]

@@Jumpoable louder for those in the back! 👋

[@Jumpoable]

@@Ali-mv3jc Never been to Pakistan, but travelled all around your neighbouring India, including rural areas. Women with no shoes would still have bangles, rings, nose rings & gorgeously colourful sari & shawls, walking their cows, getting water from the well with giant pots atop their flowing headscarves, or yeah, even shovelling soil. I suppose Pakistan is more subdued with the colours & the cutting with mainly kurtas & baggy trousers.

[@Benni777]

Eugene: *I was perfectly calm, I didn’t cry and I was super confident!!* Matt: *yeah, no, he called me almost crying on the phone and he was a jumbled mess*

[@marthasteppss2329]

😂😂😂😂

[@KyleRayner12]

"I was surprisingly calm." "He was not calm."

[@bells.verissimo]

It would be crazy to not invite Eugene again. The amount of love and respect he has for the event and fashion in general is incredible. And he's so great with creating concepts through fashion and looks and I know he can fucking nail any theme.

[@leotay4766]

pun intended? my attention is drawn to his 💅

[@mayagabby13]

especially with creating this video, this is great content for vogue and the met gala

[@crystalpardo6041]

Hopefully he gets an invite earlier next time

[@hxrleydxrling9662]

theyre supposedly doing a part two of the theme soooo

[@delruhdorfer6566]

I actually think it ended up being a good thing to see something "gender fluid" that was also more on the masc side. Similar to how people were a bit upset that Elliot Page didn't go bolder with his look, others commented that it was important for him to be able to step into a masc look and debut in that way. I think many of us are used to seeing Eugene in more femme/masc combos, and while this look could be critiqued as underwhelming, I don't think it was. It showed people how to experiment with style, that you can add small nods to your personal style in your nails, make-up, and hair. It gives people who are newer to fashion an access point into it. That experimenting with personal style can be small acts of revolution. Isn't that also a very Try Guys message? Just try! You may think this isn't your vision, or your end goals, but how can you still show yourself? I think it's great for younger audiences to see this! (Esp. if their school has dress codes or uniforms! You can still find a way to be yourself!)

[@szzsuzsanna5781]

I like the way you look at it!

[@whizzersterriblehorribleno773]

yesss especially the note on Elliot Page. his look was one of my favorites purely for the green flower tribute he did on his suit

Elliot had a look that any other man would have. I think that makes enough of a statement

[@yellingkimber8829]

Honestly, thank you so much for typing this out so thoughtfully. I've been trying to put this into words and failed where you succeeded.

[@theo8037]

An idea: the borrowed vintage designer suit was pretty much exactly what your mom would have given you because it was, well, designer and good looking but since it wasn't new and already worn it was affordable and into that base you build your own style and identity through the red accents in make up and shoes, the hair and the jewelry. Just what came to mind while watching the video

[@lizxu322]

It's poetic but still not ideal. He deserves to achieve his first vision...he and his family has HAD ENOUGH of MAKING DO

[@laurabeaty9588]

Now I want a fashion history series with intellectual Eugene with deep dives into different trends and designers throughout history. I really love how passionate he is about how fashion can both be an intimate extension of yourself while also making a meaningful statement. Excited to see where the future takes you, Eugene!

[@keziahanne95]

Yes!! This this this!

[@demawn4099]

YEEEEEESSSS

[@shayvandy4981]

The way I would eat that content up. PLEASE SEE DIS. WE WANT FASHION CONTENT. thank youuuu💕

[@paperchainhearts]

YESSSSSSS

[@JenniferJiang2013]

CrashCoursh Fashion History with Eugene

[@florabajracharya4834]

Eugene is one of the few celebs who actually pronounced Prabal Gurung’s name right!

[@bruhgirl16]

Who is that???

[@simransharma7531]

Time stamp ?

[@simranthapa6480]

@@bruhgirl16 fashion designer

[@jkrdyn]

@@simransharma7531 9:33

[@Claireannette77]

@@jkrdyn not all heroes wear capes 😘

[@Caitie_Tay]

I need to see Eugene’s met gala 2022 redemption. We need more of him there! Although he still looked stunning at the the met gala despite the challenges along the way. I still felt his message through his outfit, hair, nails, makeup etc. This just speaks to your character and strength Eugene! Love it.

[@averyeml]

Dude, I CANNOT imagine the insane bravery and boldness it takes to go to the freaking Met Gala in a borrowed tux you didn’t get until 30 minutes before the red carpet and just calling it what you can. I would’ve passed out and died two days into this lmao

[@lawfulchaotic8926]

Round of applause to Matt, Min-Young, Eugene's creative team, his designer and to his youtube associates. The amount of support and positive influence they have provided Eugene, whether in the current or past tense, is something I am forever thankful for. Anna definitely needs to invite Eugene again so we can see his full vision for the met come to life.

[@Mikibear222]

Omg when he said that Lil Nas X asked HIM for a selfie and said he watched Eugene growing up I got goosebumps. We’re so proud of how far you’ve come Eugene, can’t wait to see what comes next! 💜

[@tfgrrl2042]

This was the part I teared up. There are a lot of "influencers" who are pretty vapid, but when you lead with your truth that has a real impact on people's lives. It's hard to understate how important visibility is, especially with people like Eugene who are moral and thoughtful.

[@kailincolbert8243]

My husband the anime nerd, "He does look like a JoJo's character, especially season 5." I love that Eugene was able to make due and had a great night. I hope his next events go much more smoothly! You're an amazing guy, and connect to so many people across all cultures and genres!!!

[@bigclown3419]

As a fellow JoJo fan, your husband is absolutely correct. He exudes part five JoJo vibes.

[@amandabbentes]

I must admit that I found it weird when I saw Eugene wearing a tux on the Met Gala, because I just knew that wouldn’t be his first choice. But now that I know the entire story, I feel so much that he couldn’t wear what he wanted to wear. But he looked amazing anyway and he’s such a nice person and so professional! I hope you attend a lot of Met Galas in the future babe. You deserve it 💕

[@lizxu322]

Same...I was like, he slays but, I was expecting something MORE...and I was slightly disappointed. Then I saw his story and realised i was disappointed in the universe, not him

[@gavman8]

I feel slightly bad that Eugene seems to think we don't find him intelligent, or don't approve of his intelligence? It's literally one of the traits I associate (and appreciate) most with him! I am so f-ing proud of Eugene for fighting all this fear and just GOING for it. Literally all the love!

[@dixiecripps7792]

I wonder if Eugene tries to hide his intelligence so he doesn't get labeled as an Asian nerd? I hope not, I love when people show knowledge about things they are passionate about!

[@cheekyb71]

Yes!! I always loved the Eugene Teaches videos the most. What's that corny old American expression? Something about hiding under a bushel? Stop doing that Eugene! We LOVE your intelligence

[@marianavaler-looney6857]

I won’t lie to you, I genuinely thought that it was an incredibly well thought out look of dominating masculinity locking away the feminine, gender-bending side of Eugene. I thought the symbolism in the necklace and the burst of red felt like a battle he was fighting to be set free. Male fashion has come such a long way from just the traditional black tuxedo to the past. My understanding of it was that the story he was trying to tell was one of conflict with accepting that he was not abiding by any gender norms, a fight with tradition and breaking free of that. I thought it was one of the most intelligent look on the carpet.

[@anna-jh7zy]

lmao perfect reflection of how most things are not as deep as we think they are

[@anadacosta4043]

That is such a beautiful interpretation of his look!

[@ItsAsparageese]

@@anna-jh7zy That's a valid and definitely funny take lol, but personally I'd argue for reading OP's comment as a reflection of the also-true fact that anything can be art and can be deep depending on our choice to use it as an inspiration/reflection catalyst :)

[@BelindaShort]

@@anna-jh7zy That's the great thing about art though, it's reflective of what you think

[@bananafone251]

you described this perfectly!!!!

[@parinitahoro]

I literally had tears in my eyes. As Eugene was talking about how anxious and stressed he was, my anxiety level was going up. Honestly when I saw Eugene’s look I never felt that he didn’t give a 100% towards his outfit. I loved it! And now when I am hearing his back story it’s confirmed that he did put a 100% whether or not he had his dream outfit because it was not outfit that presented who he was but rather it was he himself standing proudly, shining like a star!

[@GenXWildChildCreatress]

My heart genuinely hurts for Eugene - he’s being so sweet about it, and accepting his own responsibility in what went down for him regarding his clothing for the gala. I didn’t watch the gala this year, but every picture or clip I’ve seen he looks amazing. Eugene, You pushed through, and you still OWNED your look. Even so, I desperately want to see your true vision one day, because I know without question that it will be everything you want it to be. ❤️❤️❤️

[@jen.g.]

“A large part of being an adult is learning how to adapt and thrive without being an asshole to others.” - Eugene Lee Yang This will be made into “art” and placed on my office wall next week, without a doubt! It’s something I definitely needed to hear due to being under intense pressure and unreasonable deadlines at work right now. Thank you, Eugene.

[@dlaity107]

That quote should be on classroom walls the world over.

[@nilawarriorprincess]

This to be taught in preschool, it applies to everyone regardless of age.

[@Kaalyn_HOW]

There's a HUGE story, and q very American one, in two gay men - virtually strangers - coming together in a moment of emergency to help one another. Esp when the demands and fulfillment of the elite took away your ease of opportunity and sense of security to begin with. Another gay man showed up for you, behind the scenes, with no one else the wiser, and fitted you with the armor you needed to go out and face the day. And not just face it but go claim what's rightfully yours to share and thrive in. It reminds me of the way that gay men and women came together in the underground during the AIDS crisis. No one else could be bothered, but they offered whatever they had, no questions asked, to help them move through this world with less shame, fear and loneliness. This embodied that spirit and was more valuable than your intended fashion.

[@Kick0a0cat]

♥️

[@emerycharlotte7166]

[@TakeFlyteProductions]

EXACTLY

[@vivianatoledo1416]

your comment is everything

[@thebigbadwolf11]

the part where Lil Nas X knew who Eugene was and asked for a selfie got me. crying in the club

[@thisisavivistanaccount7866]

Honestly same! The try guys in general feel like cool older brothers/uncles to me. I’ve been watching them for years and seeing them all be successful, especially Eugene makes me happy

[@carmanmyrick4907]

Eugene really needs a second chance. As beautiful as his look ended up being, he deserves to show the world his true art on the biggest stage. Love you Eugene!!

[@pattiecakez]

We’ve been waiting for Eugene to get to the Met… especially after the challenge during quarantine to recreate the celebrity looks! I hope he ran into Rihanna!

[@fantasyk87]

I just love Matt's side-comments "He cried" or "He was not calm" 😂. Anyways, you were beautiful Eugene and when I saw the video of you and Nikki at the Met Gala I screamed, because I like you both and didn't know you would be there. Hopefully there will be many more times!

[@emmafox3897]

Eugene deserved to be there, hearing him talk of imposter syndrome makes me realise that we are all the same. What an experience for him, loved the final look regardless ❤

[@zokoravonyensloh]

I think it´s kind of poetic that your look for the Met Gala was brought to you the same way your mom protected you as a child. You did not get the fancy, exclusive thing you wanted but you made do with what you had - and killed it. You looked stunning! And because of a weird twist of fate this was your own brand of American fashion. It´s fitting, don´t you think? I do hope you do get invited next year and can do the look you envisioned tho :D

[@lizxu322]

It's poetic but still not ideal. He deserves to achieve his first vision...he and his family has HAD ENOUGH of MAKING DO

[@thatdudecj3483]

Eugene: "I took it in stride and slept like a baby" Matt: "Eugene had multiple breakdowns when he was in New York" Matt sounds like the mother of a struggling college student.

[@heliagrey]

When Eugene waved his hand and went “No, no no no no, lies…” (after Matt said he’d cried) he sounded JUST like his mother. XD

[@alishaw2454]

kim k: has MONTHS to prep for the met gala and shows up as a dollar store dementor eugene: has 6 days to prep for the met gala and shows up looking like an absolute DEITY

[@ap_ap13]

Dementor 😂😂😂😂

[@BloodMoonASMR]

Traditional media and "A-list celebrities" have such bias against KZbinrs, but one day TV cable media will be replaced by us.

[@havenbarnes3360]

let's not bring people up by putting others down ok? it was extremely unfair how little time Eugene had however stylists work extremely hard and putting them down is not at all fair

[@alishaw2454]

@@havenbarnes3360 oh my bad im commenting on kim's decision to go ahead with the look... not the stylists'

[@defbug]

That was the best SHADE you said about Kim K, HA!!!!!🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

[@carolinebcollier]

Eugene, I don’t think it’s a stretch to see your “best laid plans” MET Gala experience and final look as the most perfect representation of how fashion impacted your experience in America. The story you told about your amazing mother making the most out of her situation - in such a stylish way and to help protect her children - it was moving. Call me sentimental, but you honored her in your ability to be resourceful and creative and true to yourself. In a fabulous borrowed suit combined with your impeccable styling you beautifully and perfectly represented your formative experiences of fashion in America.

[@romiya708]

When Prabal told Eugene what his visibility means to so many people especially to little old me here in Nepal i just broke down. Thank you Prabal and you too Eugene

[@zerocraic3966]

I am Pakistani and queer. I know I can’t say prabal was speaking for me…but I felt very seen.

[@tmr5932]

I traveled to Nepal in 2016 and I just want to say I fell deeply in love with your country. I experienced so much kindness, joy, and beauty beyond words. I miss it greatly, and will be going back someday

[@Lihamou]

Funny how Eugene assumes full responsibility for all the "mishaps", when in fact he was just invited last minute! The organisation fail is not on him, but rather on whomever was responsible for inviting him on such short notice, especially on such a crazy event time in NY... That being said, you still looked amazing, Eugene!

Yes, definitely he was set up for failure and still came out victorious at the end

[@godsmackfreak13]

lil nas X growing up watching and loving Eugene is quite possibly the most beautiful thing i've ever heard in my life ;-;

[@lashawn711]

I can’t believe I had the audacity to skip over this video because “I’m not that into fashion” 🥴 I was literally so emotionally moved by this and I learned so much!

[@ZenMeoww]

me too and gained even more respect for him!

[@apriliahussna4561]

Hey me too I didn't expect how much moving this video was going to be

[@NoeliaNava]

Me too!!! After watching this video it opened my eyes and perspective on fashion 🥹

[@aimai6706]

so last weekish i saw a selfie on my TL of Lil Nas X and this guy at met gala who i found oddly familiar, then it dawned on me that he was Eugene from buzzfeedVid which i was obsessed back around in 2014~2016. i found to my amazement that the try guys went independent, and i’ve been binge watching this channel since, love everything about them. its really kinda amazing to think that my middle school self didn’t even imagine that in a few years he was to come out as gay, and i was to identify as queer myself. if i had a slight crush on him at that time, well now i fucking ADORE him for standing for the Asian lgbtq community. ilysm! fingers crossed for you to be invited next year too 💞🔥

[@TheShauNanigans]

Definitely listen to the Try Pod if you like podcasts. It is a fun time. I'm so glad you found them again. It sounds like it was exactly what needed to happen.

[@aimai6706]

@@TheShauNanigans aww thank you.🥺 and your comment helped me fall asleep last night! their content is making my life a lot more happier 💚

[@alipaskus9328]

The way that Eugene tells a story is so captivating. He blends history with personal testimonials to enhance his narrative flawlessly 10/10 It is just such good story telling!!!

[@karenesq419]

True its really captivating

[@RoseLe]

He's a great story teller. He makes it so personal and you feel like you're sitting beside him the next day as he tells you guys adventure towards the Met Gala

[@spicymayo8950]

Being sidelined and still showing up in Dior is the perfect bookend to Eugene’s story. Just how as a kid, his family would work to dress nice and live up to pressure as Asian Americans with limited means, he did the same at the gala. Honestly, I think the poetry of this final look was more impactful than anything prepared could have been. We love you Eugene. You owned it ❤️

[@stinky6521]

awww best comment

[@viceb7]

Vintage Dior too!

[@ColbyDi]

Exactly this!! It was perfect and symbolic!

[@charliepearce1886]

When Eugene started talking about his mom using fashion to get them not bullied I cried bc I have an Asian family that’s close to mine that went through the same thing, it’s always the nice families that get the backlash and bullying.

[@Sam-0827]

It’s so sweet 🥺

[@fancyorangemittens]

I could tell Eugene was struggling in that video where he talked about the dress falling though... but I don't think that's something people pick up on if they haven't been following the Try Guys from the beginning. Absolutely fabulous. I have a ton of feelings about the Gala, especially re: people who "don't belong" there... I'm just super happy Jackie and Quannah and Eugene and Nikki were there. Like. Absolutely stunning, and if *anyone* belongs there, it's yallies.

[@sharanya6064]

exactlyyy, the moment he mentioned the unfortunate incident in the video, i knew he was struggling inside, we have seen eugene enough to know how strong he is , even when things fall apart.

[@itsdaniellehuntley]

I love how Eugene explained his mother. Seeing the pride he takes in his family and how much respect he has for them is wonderful. This was fantastic.

[@sharkylady]

I like to envision that the tuxedo look could be seen as a tribute to how your mom used to dress you up when you were all young. I understand it's not quite the same, but as you said, your mom making up for the fact of their immigration with fashion is inherently American and honestly, it's a very sweet vision.

[@zeennnna]

I second that!❤️

[@OHMD11]

I hate that you apologized for what you called "sounding smart"! I love hearing anyone talk about their passions. Share your knowledge!

[@madiamedico]

Eugene talking about needing to dress well to be respected hit me hard. My family immigrated to America as well, and the need to “look nice” was impressed upon me from a young age.

[@floram9481]

right? I feel like this is common amongst immigants and poc. Everytime he metnions it, I always my grandfather (still alive - he's half german, half african american and immigrated from germany in the 50s/60s, so he had a lot against him) and how he had to both be tough (willing to physcially fight), but also work insanely hard to look good and intelligent to be deemed "respectiable" and combat sterotypes. Growing up he would tell us a lot about how we needed to look and act intelligent/etc because we are and to help us make it. Like it really hits and is super inspiring hearing how it's shaped him, and knowing he/others have gone through it too.

[@Jessica-wt2sm]

I recently read East of Eden by John Steinbeck and there's a line in the book where one of the characters is speaking to someone very wealthy and says, "One must be very rich to dress as badly as you do. The poor are forced to dress well." It reminded me of what Eugene talked about and as a first-generation Asian American born to immigrant parents, I can definitely relate. When you already have wealth and acclaimed status, you can get away with a lot more and people will still take you seriously. Whereas when you already feel out of place and foreign in your own country, there's so much pressure to always look perfect and presentable just to feel like you deserve a seat at the table. I'm glad he brought that up in the video and explained why fashion was so important to him and his identity growing up.

[@beachypeacefulvibes8599]

This was intense and educational. I never really realized how important fashion is in our society. My mom was similar to your mom in her approach to fashion and dressed me in expensive clothes as a child to portray a contrary image to what society expected of me as a child of a black single mom. It always annoyed me because I just wanted to dress like other kids, but I do remember my teachers always commenting on the quality of my clothing and that they treated me better and different than children with similar backgrounds. This video brought back some crazy memories from my upbringing and also emphasized the importance of my appearance and what I show the world in a way I haven't thought about in a long time. Thanks Eugene for sharing your experience. I saw you on the cream carpet and you looked amazing as always, in fact you were one of the best dressed there.

[@SaruSama22]

Seriously adore how real Eugene makes this time feel. So much better than the curated to every second videos of the ultra rich that I can never connect with Also, living for Matt's interjections in this video

[@pauldacon828]

Get ultra rich and then you will be able to relate to them. Or get rich and set a better example. Or just keep being poor and complaining IDGAF.

[@allysonestes]

I hope he join next year’s MET and actually have enough time for his fashion choices and truly show what he’s all about

[@connyc23]

you could tell Eugene felt uncomfortable and unfulfilled with his MET look. I'm glad this side of the story was shared.

[@savvygatton]

I hope Eugene can feel as proud of himself as everyone around him visibly was throughout this lovely vid, at least now that the fire has died down. The suit looked incredible and made the styling and nails (love the story! the symbolism!) pop and set a new standard for menswear on the carpet, queer or otherwise. Thanks for letting us behind the scenes and sharing some vulnerable moments. Wishing you rest, joy, (and maybe some therapy with a queer/Asian provider-- you deserve to feel this moment!)

[@EvilLJbfbsbro_or_evilalila]

how ironic you ended up with a vintage Dior - definitely a beautiful tribute to your mom dressing you in 'vintage' during your childhood!!!!! this video was so fun to watch thank you for opening up to us

[@BonnieCalderwoodAspinwall]

Minorities always cut themselves NO slack for the pitfalls that face folx who aren't prioritised. You absolutely killed it Eugene, and you'll be back at the Met Gala.

[@loi5s]

why did you say folx if folks is already gender neutral 💀

[@BonnieCalderwoodAspinwall]

@@loi5s You're right, however since many people use "folks" habitually but aren't actually open-minded about gender diversity, "folx" is used to signal that I am consciously including gender diversity in the term.

[@YeetusTheFetus]

@@BonnieCalderwoodAspinwall I’m nb and I never understood why people did it other than being performative

[@BonnieCalderwoodAspinwall]

@@YeetusTheFetus I'm also non-binary and I don't demand people use it over "folks", but I definitely read more intentional allyship into "folx". To each their own!

[@Waffilicious]

I love that when Eugene had trouble continuing the story, Alex stepped in to help keep it relaxed… having that atmosphere of talking to a friend about this huge thing that happened helped make it feel so real and personal and emotional. Next time, Eugene, you’ll have the perfect outfit and you’ll have the opportunity to really relax and enjoy yourself.

[@bernsbee184]

P

[@zoinomiko]

That was such a good choice I didn't even notice he was having a rough time!!

[@CH-jj8wk]

Matt ruthlessly exposing Eugine's delusion about his state of mind is just incredible.

[@saintdarky]

Not Eugene having to swap outfits in just a few hours and looking better than lots of celebs with months of preparation.

[@melissadwiggins]

I love how you do still display your southern roots by using the word "y'all" ( a word I use far too many times during a day). You give us fellow Southerners a good look. A lot of people think that people from the South are uneducated hicks and you just destroy that stereotype so I applaud you, and also your bravery to be who you are. Thank you, Eugene; and keep being unapologetically fierce!

[@loofahsswanson559]

Eugene describing his childhood having to look perfect to be taken seriously, really hits deep 😭

[@francescathomas3502]

My parents never taught me that!! I wore what was comfortable, not whatever looked good. So because I prefer to wear what is comfortable, I think people now see me as a "slob"

[@Tails1]

Actually, this whole story is pretty American! Getting an opportunity and doing everything you possibly can to make it is very the American dream. I know it's kind of cheesy but hopefully, it makes sense. Also, the look is killer! Note: I didn’t realize he made the same point in the video lol I wrote this midway through the video!

[@ChatterjeeAnindita]

when i saw eugene in a suit i immediately knew something had gone amiss; there was no way he would have not worn a dress. but had i not known him as a personality, I would have never realised that it wasn’t the intended look at all so yes slay that confidence gurl!

[@arcie3716]

I'm so mad that Eugene, Jackie Aina, and Nikkie only had 6 days to prepare for the Met Gala. I know that if they had more time to prepare, the looks they would've had would been stunning. The things I would do to see them in full-on looks 😭. But they still look amazing. I always get so emotional when Eugene talks about representing his background and identity. He always uses his platform to lift up people from the communities he from. They better invite him back and let him shine

[@gayathrisiva19]

"I didn't cry! Yes, you did Don't tell people that!" My favorite part of the video lol. Especially, knowing Eugene and how he doesn't really like to express his emotions, I found it really funny!

[@therewillbecatswithgwenhwyfar]

Eugene - you’re NOT “just” an influencer. You have been so brave in telling your story and bringing us along with you. You are a beautiful filmmaker. I still go back and watch your coming out video and it inspires me to be brave and tell my story. Tell that doubting part of your brain, that to us, you’re never going to be “just a _____.” You’re an INSPIRER.

[@therewillbecatswithgwenhwyfar]

OMG that was soooooooooooooooo good!

[@erinbanana22]

Exactly! This man has single handedly made me look at myself and be real with who I am on more than one occasion and I'm eternally grateful

[@mugdharedkar4870]

Eugene: Matt will attest to the fact that I was cool as a cucumber Matt: this is the most stressed out I have seen Eugene in my entire life... I am loving this 😂😂😂 Edit: Oh wow...my first 1k likes here ever

[@alexandramuniz7342]

I want to cry thinking about how Eugene's mom made it a point to protect him and ensure he had respect through clothing. My immigrant mom is the same exact way and even though she can't offer me parental help in the traditional/ financial way, she always reminds me to look my best :,)

[@maplelump]

It kinda sucks that you didn't get that much time to prepare for such a big event. I would have just been in panic mode all week and not even known where to call/contact to get started. You looked amazing.

[@Ygwengrace]

It's the way this made me straight up sob. Representation MATTERS. What Eugene does for AAPI representation is so powerful

[@ab6ixblindforloveismyultja641]

The stories you gained was definitely more valuable than the clothes. Eugene wears his attitude/aura like an open book and the Eugene-ness he carries with him is his signature style that can’t be replicated by cloth.

[@squijum2388]

Eugene, you were stunning. I hope you can take this as a compliment: the final look in the tux reminds me so much of Julie Andrews in Victor Victoria, but with so much of the "I look f'ing amazing so don't f' with me," shield glaring through your accessories and makeup. It's not your dream look, but you owned it, and absolutely slayed as you walked up those stairs. Can't wait to see what you pull of in the years to come.

[@PrincessHeathaB]

The cuts with Matt contradicting Eugene are hilarious. I loved this whole thing so much. I had to edit to say it might not have been your original vision but you looked fierce and I loved the mix of masculine and tailored and feminine.

[@seoyeonjoey]

When he said he lied and the dress actually fell through just THIRTY MINUTES before the gala my heart actually dropped

[@ashleighgonzales]

Eugene, please don’t ever feel like you have to diminish your smarts or intelligence! You are an icon and you’re making waves! Thank you for representing

[@laurendomagas]

It would be incredible if you did a video with Roman, once he's back in the country, of a recreation of the look that you were actually going for. I'd love to hear the story-telling behind each piece and why, as a team, you chose that specific styling. I'm sure other Try Guys fans would be interested in watching it as well! Also, for being told you were invited to the Met Gala six days beforehand, Eugene you looked incredible. I want to say that your story and your intentions behind your vision resonated so deeply with me and I'm sure other AAPI's.