My First Relationship With A Woman | {THE AND} Orion & Brittenelle

[@TheSkinDeep]

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[@iloveyoutothemoonandback]

I think you guys need to talk more and communicate with the audience why you guys are looking for patreons. I thought it was only for more vids like these but just now I checks the patreon page apparently you guys are working on a project. You need to tell people though, or else many people wouldnt even care to check.

[@Tennis_MenACE]

Where the fuck do you get these people???

[@chachacha8862]

The And is a reference right? The Lover?

[@shannontownsend8249]

The Skin Deep I really enjoyed watching this. it definitely made me more comfortable in the skin i'm in. I'm in a new, open relationship which is new on every level and very much appreciative of being excepted for who I am and the biggest shocker is that it's with a woman. ! I loved all the stories...😊

[@topad7779]

Its a wonderful conversations, I like it.

[@smoothiegodking7951]

Theyre both insanely attractive but Jesus Christ the blonde woman is almost scarily hot. And shes got that calm, sharp, calculative look.

[@Justin95Bieber]

oof my nut reminds me of kristen stewart

[@leehailey3479]

"calculative"...that word fits her so right

[@epic7548]

Edgeyb God that's the cutest couple ever! and you're right that's the happiest ive ever seen a taurus chick. They seem so inlove. Both Taurus and Libra are ruled by Venus even though they're different in ways, they probably have a lot in common. I could see taurus and libra being a great couple beautiful, sensual and fun with the libra's charming playful personality bringing out a side of taurus. I noticed that too about the blonde in this video she seems so serious and sad and even says she's worried about moving in with orion. I have seen some wild taurus but a lot do act more serious like brittenelle.

[@sarahwilliamson9440]

EdgeyB oh my god I LOVE Paige and holly!!

[@krole6680]

I m trying to say something about taurus and virgo lesbians not being a good couple but it wont show. Orion annoys Brittinelle. You can see it in their snaps. Taurus seem picky always annoyed when they're with someone who are not a good match. Then they break up with them

[@cold.raviolis]

The blonde one is intimidatingly hot

[@AshTheMovieGeek]

So are you.

[@francescajarrett4317]

She's so hot 🔥

[@sgdoc7541]

I clicked on the video and my mouth dropped open😂😍

[@Valeria-vh6ze]

Sgdoc7 i had the same reaction 😩😍😍😍

[@stinaf412]

Omg I knowww!!!!

[@romanehalot2263]

i love the "cool girl/awkward girl" relationship. i just love it

[@kailazenkner1427]

Me too, I just don't know which one I am

[@jokesonyou222]

🥺🥺🥺🥺

[@PRISCILLA_RHOSE]

Me too🥺

[@scales57]

It didn’t last.

[@OrionCarloto]

Thank you to everyone for the kind comments & thank you so much to Skin Deep for giving my sweet girl and I a platform to talk honestly about our relationship. It's always nice to see others becoming comfortable with their sexuality as well, makes you feel less alone ❤️ Here's an update: Britt and I have moved in together and life has been so so magical and truly a lot easier between us. Distance was tough, but I'm glad we were able to push through that together. Thank you again everyone for the love ❤️ Xx Orion (aka the awkward one)

[@naviisnothere]

Yass

[@Priya-he3vl]

I'm so proud of both of you

[@aliienwolf9156]

Orion Carloto can we please see a second part???please

[@Amae4444]

Orion Carloto That is Truly Beautiful. I am so happy for you both. How nice of you to update us. ☺ As for Awkward (which you hid well) that is actually a truly unique and beautiful quality that you have and I would own that ✌💖🌈

[@kylorenthehusky2584]

Orion Carloto great video!

[@kaitlynbulloch4402]

I. Can't. Stop. Looking. At. Their. EYELINER 🕵🏻‍♀️

[@ugeliawijaya]

GURL I THOUGHT IT WAS JUST ME

[@vikki-333]

DUDE SAME, IT COULD CUT ME

[@daria5846]

I can’t stop looking at her brows...

[@aaliyahconteh7319]

Kaitlyn Bulloch haha same

[@mayah429]

same

[@danyram8]

Can people stop comparing every women with short hair to ruby rose

[@girlandgameletsplays]

Dany i get where ur coming from but I think that Brit looks like ruby rose in general not just because of her hair

[@smoothcriminal6622]

LMAO IKR

[@devinblazer7297]

Dany omg fucking thank you. Someone said it.

[@carlybaker1691]

Omg, that’s exactly what I was thinking 😂😂

[@mariakara2419]

Dany her hair does kinda look like ruby’s and the both have similar colored eyes idk

[@siphowarrior9080]

I love how Brit just watches Orion... Orion is there squirming and Brit is like "i cant keep my eyes off you"

[@DiMakingiteveryday]

My GF and I live a simple life with laughter and good deeds. Please follow us 🥰

[@aryehs]

how did the two most gorgeous human beings on this planet end up in a relationship?

[@herewego02]

ikr, i don't even know which one i should stare at more during the video, they're breathtaking

[@francescajarrett4317]

+ABREU R I know 👀🔥

[@slackchris8832]

Oh brother if you can’t see they will break up by next year, You are blind. Too much age difference and first female relationship. Brit never learns.

[@slackchris8832]

Who care about what they look like? Get a grip on reality. Too sound as young as Orion.

[@aryehs]

Slack Chris can you shut up and stop analyzing other people’s relationships? focus on finding yourself a girlfriend first, i’m sure that’s a hard enough task.

[@MarmotayTaiwan]

Everyone is talking about Brittenelle, but I can't stop looking at Orion. What a beautiful, authentic girl. She is just so sweet. I really like her

[@N.M.1209]

Her vulnerability is so attractive.

[@kritikasampleone7457]

Eeeew

[@cambriegoodwin5041]

Yeah she is just so sweet

[@hotdawgification]

I agree with the vulnerability comment; there is so much strength in being vulnerable. It's such an attractive quality because of the bravery that it can often require.

[@jeffreymorales6233]

​@@kritikasampleone7457eww to you.

[@rebeccarose4918]

Lmao Is this not what a Slytherin and hufflepuff relationship looks like???

[@bloodyheckb]

omg best comment ever lmao!!!!!

[@gizmomac1520]

Dated a fellow Slytherin (me being a Hufflepuff), an pretty much I can confirm LMAOOOOO 🤣😂

[@vivienm2037]

It does not happen often. But this comment made me laugh.

[@JessicaFreda62]

hahah!

[@anaismahogany9194]

Accurate

[@thynguyen911]

This couple has to be one of the most attractive couples I have ever seen on the Internet omggg

[@hannahboo7317]

Trudy Nguyen Rose and Rosie. KZbin them. Then you'll see the most attractive couple

[@thynguyen911]

I love Rose and Rosie!!! Been watching them for a long time

[@k8lynmae]

err nope

[@funnyremyfrench]

This blonde girl somehow reminds me of a man I used to know. The way she looks at you, or stares at you, when you're nervous and can't stop talking and she just smiles and continues to look straight at you. Kind of scares me a lot, but in an attractive way.

[@sarvaise]

Spot on

[@MyLovelyDeadFriends]

that's actually a manipulative tactic

[@mattiea871]

My Lovely Dead Friends I think it’s just her persona lol

[@tinkypinkywinky111]

@@MyLovelyDeadFriends how so? Genuinely curious

[@LADYLONGNAILZ]

I Love How You explained Her... I AGREE!

[@joon5569]

there’s something rlly attractive about britt she has that whole ruby rose vibe going for her and orion is so beautiful . wow what a visual couple

[@slackchris8832]

rainytae Yeah like looks keep a couple together. Grow up!

[@tegmay4155]

rainytae exactly what I thought, like proper strong ruby vibes

[@kay9301]

Taegan may sameee

[@k8lynmae]

similar hair is all I see

[@kay9301]

Katelyn vibes and looks are not the same. Saying she has a Ruby Rose vibe is not saying she looks like Ruby.

[@97musicaddict]

Orion is such a beautiful woman inside and out. I love her poetry. She seems like such a warm and light person to be around, like she's a walking poem.

[@apaigec0]

I don’t think it’s them as a couple that makes this awkward; these are hard questions to answer in relationships, and being on camera is very pressuring and publicizing.

[@Mi-gs7xg]

I didn't find it awkward at all ..beautiful couple

[@BAKER22-l4u]

It's NOT real. It's scripted

[@planetskirt]

“i’m not somebody from the past- i don’t want to be somebody from the past” i loved that

[@alyssalopez3103]

Who else is watching this alone and single AF?

[@ltd4895]

LOL...yep but loving it while I am it's been a loooooooooooong time. Years in the calculation.

[@pritharoy5309]

100th like

[@rubamaabdallah5314]

Me

[@chyrenee2323]

✋🙃

[@atileojero9074]

@Winnie what is the desire of ur heart?

[@andhubris2135]

I like the way the one on the left carries herself; calculated, cool, reserved, guarded, daunting, daring. She's not just looking at the girl on the right, she's *seeing* ...It's hard to stumble upon people like that.

[@aathenaiz6151]

YES YES YES

[@e.n.a.2855]

YESSS THISSS

[@bcprelude03]

Yeees

[@astridflorencex]

You can tell that Britt has been hurt so many times and even though everyone is saying that it seems as if she has more power in the relationship I would be less sure in assuming that. You can tell that Orion brings out the best in Britt and she's slowly becoming vulnerable, whereas Orion has already been able to get to that point. Love these two, what a beautiful relationship and also a beautiful side to Orion, someone I've watched on youtube and see grow for a while now. Another great video

[@TheSkinDeep]

Beautiful observation :)

[@youtuba6711]

Astrid Florence hello! What's Orion's KZbin channel? I'm Portuguese and I have never heard of it. I'd love to check it. Thank you

[@viidz10]

just type Orion Carloto and she'll pop up!

[@Supernaturlisch]

Yeah, really great observation. I've been following Britt for a while on Instagram, and it makes me happy to see that she's with such a positive, eloquent and open person :)

[@youtuba6711]

Amanda S thank you!!

[@AmanaRain]

I feel so bad because the blonde girl doesn't understand how beautiful she is inside and out. I can tell she has a hard time seeing it. Even through a screen watching, just like her girlfriend told her, her aura and the way she presents herself seems so mature and full of depth. She's so beautiful and needs to realize it or maybe atleast hear it from someone else's perspective. Love these two💕

[@blessingndolo3186]

Luxurykittie hmmmmmm they both are damn cute.

[@belli9281]

i totally agree

[@ilin3911]

Luxurykittie agree!!

[@luloleta7765]

They are both beautiful, but the blond is really hot, her eyes are soooo beautiful, damn shes my type! 😍😙

[@nettleden3493]

She is fucking STUNNING 😍😍

[@melissamascorro9682]

I’m finally coming to terms with my sexuality and this made me cry like a baby because I know how afraid I am to be in a relationship with a girl and face all the struggles and stigmas .... but this was a reminder of how beautiful it can be

[@Mousiee-World4EVER]

Is that you in the photo?

[@ashleyreyes7179]

I feel the same way.

[@strangestfruit]

SAME

[@LillyAlara]

It's definitely not as bad as it used to be, but you're still going to notice when people stare, especially if it's a hateful/dirty look. Hell, we just celebrated our 10th last fall, but my wife and I still notice the really obnoxious people and I'd be lying if I said it didn't bother me. The difference now is we'll talk about it and then laugh later, but we're also way better at reading the situation and whether we need to leave or not. When we go see her family though... it's a little town in Ghana. *Weeks* without being able to walk too close or even share a bed, it makes me appreciate how good we really have it in the US. Find the closest LGBT center or queer bar with meeting groups (once it's safe to again obv) and build up a support network, straight friends and family can be the most amazing in the world and there's still gonna be things they can't relate to or help you with, it was the best piece of advice I got when I first came out. Hope this finds you safe and healthy!

[@hotdawgification]

It is difficult, to "come out" over and over again in different environments (though this does get easier with time). However, I will say, to live and be authentically you is such an amazing feeling!

[@cicadahero]

Wow I'm so gay ugh

[@angelpeanut2]

ThroughAlyssasEyes oh hey girl

[@cicadahero]

LOL hey girl! 😂

[@julianabezakova985]

yes like literally sooo gay

[@Avigailsher]

ThroughAlyssasEyes hey to you girl lol

[@princeofpeace794]

ThroughAlyssasEyes wow you are so wicked repent.

[@Parish22]

"You handle me like a woman and thats why i find you my type" that was so beautiful

[@LinBenzo]

Parish yes

[@k8lynmae]

This could have many meanings too

[@steff_1378]

The way she said cool was so cute 😊

[@kima7614]

seeing this now omg the growth of Orion as a person and her confidence have flourished so much! i’m so glad 🤍

[@natasha-wp2pg]

Right!!

[@Itshafsaaa]

They're both drop dead gorgeous 😭

[@slackchris8832]

Idkhafsaaa So??

[@leilanim7338]

Slack Chris so they're complimenting the girls? lol

[@jamessibson7453]

And your drop dead gay!!

[@nile8146]

I think if they improve their communication they'll be a really great couple. Britt is hella guarded bc of her past n Orion is naturally insecure. I think Orion can use the relationship to improve her confidence in herself and Britt can know what it's like to care than be cared for, but Britt should be more open and flexible around Orion bc that hi five, like she should've gone for it straight away to make Orion feel comfortable. Idk

[@happyemoji6553]

odile Ikr? The girl wasn't comfortable when she tried to high five and she made her more uncomfortable by not just responding right away. The blonde girl doesn't seem like she understands her girl. Rather, she makes her look weird and she laughs at her. Poor girl!

[@nothingtoseehere8519]

Chill out a lil. I think you guys might be analysing it too much

[@shennal.6851]

odile I can relate to your explanation of this

[@Rinsuki]

They will be okay. Britt is trying because she did reach for her in the end. I know I know it's a taurus thing, but if a person is with a taurus which Britt is reaching for them physically and they respond is a sure way to get through to them. It emphasizes a point. I can see Britt watching her not because she's laughing at her, but watching her intently while she is reading her. She is still uncomfortable and Orion is squirmy because of it, but if they communicate it'll be fine.

[@nothingtoseehere8519]

Yeet

[@blacksunsettn]

I find it interesting that the blonde looks so tough but her main fear is that her bisexual partner would leave her for a man. Thank you skin deep for the representation, it's amazing seeing people be open and vulnerable about what scares them.

[@iboblak4653]

Thank you.

[@iboblak4653]

It used to . It doesn’t scare me anymore.

[@expo8887]

It would have to be one amazing man to be on her level . She is smoking 🔥

[@H.Wotton]

I think we’ve all been so spoiled by people on tv shows and movies having these perfect honest talks with loving eyes saying just the right thing, that we forget that in real relationships communication is hard and real humans have issues and are insecure and most of the time are not the personalized eloquence.

[@Daisy-yj5de]

I am straight but that blonde girl just questioned my sexuality.

[@teddaduke574]

Then you not straight

[@alanakasem1723]

Me too!!

[@k8lynmae]

I am a lesbian and I can tell you if a guy is attractive (or not) but that is as far as that goes. I am not attracted to them and never will be and would never be intimate with them. Same goes with women--just because we see tham as attractive, does not mean we are attracted to them. Anyways, your comment is one of the ones most lesbians find offensive

[@pup_partners]

Oh Gosh I have the same thought

[@jamessibson7453]

Your gay in denial!!!

[@productionz]

who was cheating on brittenelle. honestly. smh

[@pooppee1897]

this is the fattest mood. I honestly couldn't believe it

[@ellemap7717]

Ikkrrr. How could someone cheat on her?? I wanna fight

[@loveaellie]

hmm lets think.. orion did?

[@tamarazain2246]

F

[@tutsthecat3826]

tedd your's omg that’s Chloë Grace moretz gf now

[@suk4honesty]

If one of them isn't like crying and saying "you're the love of my life I would die and kill for u" y'all SWEAR you don't see a "spark" or "connection"

[@chmpmcnsty]

i swear lol!!! not every couple is like that

[@roselove6315]

RIGHT thank you !!!

[@strawberryjpeg6000]

vickie g thissss

[@LaSunset]

vickie g

[@thejillyj]

lmao i blame the brainwashing of these romantic films

[@thegossipswan009]

The way they look at each other.. We can feel their love through our screen. Also, Britt looks like Kate Hudson (:

[@iloveyoutothemoonandback]

oh she doess

[@themisvespucci9894]

More like Kristen Stewart

[@eunicesantiago8223]

Agree!

[@mavisusername]

I thought of Ruby Rose a bit

[@yavinilanz6955]

She looks like Julianne hough

[@mattiea871]

They seemed, even from this video, that they wouldn’t last because of the extreme tension but rather the type of relationship that teaches you about yourself and shakes you up a bit.

[@xo1732]

The blondes eye contact throughout the video made it seem like she was really, really into her partner. I didn't get that from the partner. Damn.

[@caracarinosa2429]

I agree

[@cttt4892]

I get twin flames vibed from them

[@cttt4892]

Vibes

[@whoseesnow7869]

Did they broke up?

[@nile8146]

THEY'RE SO DAMN BEAUTIFUL

[@ellis1034]

It is almost chilling to see how much this relationship resembled my own. I am Orion in this situation and my girlfriend was Britt. It was my first relationship with a girl and I was very insecure and weird and very much the shy nerdy kind of girl. My girlfriend was much more experienced in relationships, she wasn't afraid to put herself out there, she was confident and was much better at talking to people. Nobody could understand our relationship because we were so so different, I barely understood it. But when we were alone we found just as many similarities as differences, and it is in these we found each other. She was just as weird and nerdy and insecure as I was, she just carried it differently. We were together for 1 year until our differences caught up to us and it was taking too much pain and too much effort to make it work. I did learn a lot and it was one of the most sincere relationships I've ever had.

[@TheSkinDeep]

What a beautiful story! Thank you for sharing your experience with us :)

[@VSandTaylorSwiftLove]

Chloé Eleonore this sounds exactly like my first relationship with a girl too... it's interesting that we all have similar experiences sometimes.

[@gerliegonzales6228]

hi ..

[@nefelibata4190]

It's annoying that ppl who have been in relationships tells so little to ppl that haven't really been in a "serious relationship" like is it better if we find it out alone? or what is the damn fucking deal exactly?

[@liquidmoonizze]

Nefelibata Because going through serious relationships doesnt guarantee you learn something. Not a lot you can advise if you haven't figured out your own issues. A lot of people would just blame their ex and keep repeating the pattern with the next wondering why they always choose the "wrong" people. Also when you realize it, it's hard to be honest about it.

[@lilymarie7112]

“I would do anything for you & you know that” “k”

[@NeaguIoana]

Part of the cool chick act xD

[@mleolahi80]

Wow, stunning ladies. Learnt so much.

[@PHlophe]

I went to school with a Loleini Leolahi , i have always found the name unusual , there can't be that many people with the name outside of the island.

[@rebeccaalexandre4100]

Mel.M. Leolahi I agree

[@pettyashell2979]

Learned..*

[@nefelibata4190]

like what? I fucking hate when ppl say that and don't explain.

[@urmothermia]

Why does this comment have 2.5k likes?

[@fouutirassa]

the amount of times Americans say "like" is absolutely unbelievable

[@iliketowatchvideos47]

Scousers say it more

[@deonclaassens1450]

I feel like I have adopted it cause of TV and YT and it annoys me

[@Lucy-cb5en]

@@iliketowatchvideos47 haha we do lmao

[@mariakara2419]

welp 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@JS-hf3oz]

We do I hate when I say it 😅

[@kadinaja]

it's been 5 years and they're broken up since like 2019, since then i myself was in my first relationship with a woman and we too are broken up now. still, i love to come back here and rewatch it. not sure if its my love for suffering, or my love for love.

[@Yurithe-ud4zl]

They are the perfect example of opposite attract: Outspoken - quite Awkward - easygoing Emotional - doesn't break that easy

[@qcouple4930]

How can two extremely attractive women be together it’s like an explosion of beauty. Lol 😂

[@princeofpeace794]

QTC Satan did this to happen. The god of this world and father of lies

[@moltenkitty7157]

Prince Of Peace smh you're still commenting to other people this, thanks for the laugh at least 😂😂

[@jamessibson7453]

Extremely attractive?? Their okay.

[@taylorlynn9233]

people were skeptical but they are still together today! one year 💛

[@semirsemira8271]

Taylor Lynn how do you knoww

[@LOVERS4and7]

they posted for their one year anniversary on their instagram's

[@craigtucker8265]

Arie what’s her insta?

[@LOVERS4and7]

Craig Tucker Orion Carloto

[@TheHeroSaver]

I don’t think they are anymore :(

[@jackthezoo]

the hottest couple i've ever seen lol

[@camrenshipper5540]

Camren is hotter

[@emancabello9112]

+camren shipper stop lmaO

[@alegam6474]

camren shipper girl... please🙄

[@wondroussoul5414]

camren shipper ugg I know right , it hurts they are not even friends anymore

[@danielaaybar4384]

Rose & Rosie are the hottest lesbian KZbin couple. Look them up 😉😂❤️

[@spookysins4784]

I love them both deeply, especially Orion but I feel like a disconnect and just a lot of doubt between them. It saddens me because their so cute but there is a lot that makes me worry.

[@tweetypieplansandreads]

spook tastic but that’s also the reality of relationships, especially one that’s so young. Remember they’ve only been together for 6 months they’re still learning about each other and themselves. It’s natural to have certain questions and doubts and their chemistry is undeniable.

[@ashsaunders302]

i agree intensely

[@othergeorgea]

spook tastic jimin out here giving relationship advice

[@strawberryjpeg6000]

spook tastic don't worry

[@twinflameeleven]

spook tastic I completely agree

[@luke34445]

i see myself in that brunette girl so much it’s crazy. she’s actually me.

[@shaesummers7080]

SAME holy shit I was like I'm literally watching myself rn hahaha

[@sophiauppal2506]

@@shaesummers7080 Wait SAME it was uncanny how much the brunette reminded me of myself like unnerving!! Are we all the same person???

[@shaesummers7080]

@@sophiauppal2506 LOL amazing

[@HeyItsSix]

SAME

[@karengalvan4890]

Omg so trueeee lmao

[@mayac3320]

I think its still hard for Orion to fathom why britenelle is into her and that makes her uncomfortable and its hard for her feel comfortable around because of that.

[@aditijain129]

I'm curious as to who all feel the same way. Is it some league bullshit or one person in a relationship has to be insecure. Because I'm the insecure one usually.

[@josiecat8080]

Aditi Jain I think being "the insecure one" isn't always a bad thing. Whatever youve been through in the past must have surely helped you "grow" then, right? It's not a bad thing to question yourself and everything surrounding you. If you were 100% comfortable and cool then that's not fun because you could end up being really bored. I've been on both sides of "the insecure one" and to me, I got way more out of questioning myself and everything attached. Working harder is always the most rewarding. Even if its just your crazy brain 😂 Just my opinion on it though.

[@thegossipswan009]

Josie H I totally agree on that. I usually search for a balance between being cool and insecure/ questioning my relationship. I am always sceptical but never to a degree of desperation, of course. Moderation is the key (:

[@josiecat8080]

thegossipswan009 Sounds good to me!

[@darthvader9573]

i was like that to my ex but i don't show it.. i think it's vice versa..

[@Tikipinky]

and these type of vids make me realize how much i need a girlfriend

[@nataliep5823]

Orion

[@Tikipinky]

The other oneee

[@partyyyprincess]

Rhooonieee saaame

[@elomtossu3887]

Rhooonieee hi! I need a girl friend too.so where re u from plez.me im from TOGO in west africa

[@francescajarrett4317]

Samee

[@diananasrallah2662]

idk why but Brittenelle staring at Orion makes me blush lmao

[@MrsGlos96]

I'm a simple woman, I see Orion I click, comment and give it a thumbs up before even seeing it

[@brioche8123]

It makes me cringe that people are reducing such a deep video to their physical appearances. And the stigma of bisexuality makes me not want to tell people either. There’s so much biphobia. I think people are justified in being “scared” but at the same time bi people have feelings too. Some people are so ruthless with their words.

[@danyyyyyyyy]

U A justified in being scared of what???? The fact that some people like to fuck both men and women? I don't see anything wrong with that and it certainly is not frightening

[@k8lynmae]

Scared and fear that the bi's in a lesbian relationship will one day want another man and may not settle with a woman only. Its a legitimate fear. Fuck ?? really. Shaaaaa.

[@raffa4456]

You guys have the whole fucking dating pool. You win all the time. You know, as a gay woman, there is basically no one around to date, you got like five people that are compatible with you in one city. As a bisexual you got tons of people to choose from. I know that coming out when you're not in a gay relationship is pretty hard bc there are lot's of people that won't believe you, but you got straight people to blame for that who only ever made out with one girl/guy and then tell everyone "oh I'm bi" like fuck no, if you wouldn't date a woman and just didn't find those girl's lips disgusting you're not bi. As a gay girl distinguishing that is pretty hard. Also, whenever there is a breakup, the bi girl has all the chances and the gay is back to dating her exes' exes. So seriously, don't think so much about it, if you're really into someone they will notice and if not, you'll find someone else. Being bi really seems like the best thing ever to me.

[@withyoctopus]

@@raffa4456 lol thanks. That made it easier for me. At least I've got options in theory... Even though gay women don't give me the time of day. :D

[@raffa4456]

@@withyoctopus I dunno who you met, but I don't know any gay women that seriously have anything against bi women. I'm just really annoyed how butthurt people get when someone else has a genuine concern. Having a family with a man is simply a lot easier and if I was bi and wanted to have children, I would consider this a good reason to date a man sinply because it's easier for the children as well. Having doubts about that as a partner at first is completely rational and has nothing to do with bophobia. The woman in the video never said her partner being bi was a serious reason not do date her. Saying you were concerned once is not something that should offend people that don't have serious issues with their self worth.

[@ashleighcalvert8937]

Their dynamic is everything! One kinda awkward and sweet and the other cool and collected, its honestly so adorable to watch

[@vyonncee]

Britt is so gorgeous to look at. Like, damnnn im questioning myself now

[@vaiosony2]

Virginia Ngan Chan you don't need to question yourself, you like what you like. If you like a specific woman that's totally fine, it's easier if we don't label ourselves. Just because you're usually into men doesn't mean there's not one woman who totally sweeps you off your feet. Go for whoever makes you feel good, it shouldn't matter what gender they have :)

[@k8lynmae]

Im a lesbian and I can tell you if a guy is attractive or not but doesn't mean I want to be in a relationship with him or even attracted to him. Same with women, I see women who are attractive but I am not attracted to them in a physical or relationship way. It doesn't matter our sexuality, we can find anyone attractive

[@jamessibson7453]

Just admit it to yourself-your gay!

[@CourtneyLou]

I love how beautifully articulate these two are. Some moments of wisdom just struck me - "I'm present with you here now"....whoa. So much love for this episode.

[@shelbyheinreis9160]

The strongest moment in my opinion is the end, when Orion stopped talking and Britt kept looking at her. You could see the unspoken love in her eyes. "The most beuatiful words of love are spoken in the silence of a glare".

[@londonsars0234]

They are the cutest and I love how the awkward one seems to make the blonde one just smile

[@shys2521]

there’s so much pain here. and worry and doubt. and a disconnect. kinda seems like a bird loving a fish and struggling to make it work.

[@myoldmanbaby]

I recognized that too. I've been there.

[@mamenamamena]

Well said

[@originalitty5875]

Thank you, exactly. Lots of people were saying how we who see a disconnect are only comparing them to mainstreamed romances. But truthfully you can just sense it. Britt told Orion in several ways that she doesn’t want anything too serious too fast. & Orion already fell too deep to a point of no return. They would be great friends.

[@lilianal410]

me realizing Orion has a life outside of being Enya & Drew's friend

[@elizavetatsoy5275]

6:05 "I'm all yours and I've always been this entire time". OMG LOOK AT THEIR FACES. I've watched this moment 194838273 times

[@itplop]

THE BRUNETTE REMINDS ME SO MUCH OF ME I'M LAUGHING CAUSE SHE'S SO AWKWARD AND ALL HER LITTLE AWKWARD THINGS ARE EVERYTHING I DO AND I LOVE IT😂😂😂

[@scaredvenus]

KZbin is You you’re annoying , leave people only instead of commenting rude shit

[@zukting]

Gosh i think you can literally tell how much they loved each other just from those gazes!

[@natalieelessar]

I dont know who these people are but im obsessed with the way their different personalities compliment each other and creates a beautiful completed whole this is my shit

[@ReginaScholey]

omg it’s Orion!

[@annaholmes694]

Regina Scholey Who is she??

[@faitht347]

She's a youtuber! Her name is Orion Carloto :)

[@HEYGURLHEYXOXOJB]

my same reaction!

[@mexikunt]

Faith Thompson oh my fucking god that's ORION? I didn't even recognize her holy shit

[@federicaespi3425]

The blond girl is incredibly beautiful

[@poppinlilsyn4014]

Am I the only one who thinks that the hot blonde chick looks like a mix of ruby rose and Kristen Stuart ?

[@biboba604]

Nope me too

[@rosherbolido9543]

agree

[@Justin95Bieber]

Yees i was looking for someone that said she looked like kristen stewart :D

[@biollahiamutiti3852]

Same

[@mariakara2419]

PoppinlilSyn yesss

[@aquamarinedream8304]

Orion- Insecurity and anxiety, needs to build confidence and independence. Nice, but too nice? Britt- Good communication, with time her trust can be earned but first it must be proven.

[@youdonotneedtoknowmynamepe7912]

Ne'La I agree with the trust thing just like me

[@cocosala5745]

I don’t understand the comments about the power dynamic. The brunette women is strong. She probably doesn’t even know it herself. The blonde woman is guarded, maybe not as strong as she initially seems. They are a lovely pairing and quite beautiful.

[@nefelibata4190]

This just proves how we all see things so very differently, scary innit?

[@liquidmoonizze]

I was the brunette at some point and I agree, she is strong and doesn't know it. She is asking to be challenged. The challenge is realizing she is giving her power away during this infatuation phase. What Britt fears is when the phase is over, the girl will just up and leave to resume the life she gave up for her, and blame her for everything.

[@reddskies]

Wow the love she has for Orion in her eyes as she’s nervous is unreal. Total adoration

[@kristinacarlson4556]

The only reason they might have seemed a little weird and the connection isn’t that strong bc they are in a studio and this is for anyone to view. I think they seem very connected and happy

[@ishy236]

Omg orion and britt on this channel. YAAAAYYY!!!! ☺❤

[@robot28luver]

Omg the last scene was so cute. I love how Britt is watching her intently, knowing how Orion would react. You can clearly see how much Britt adores her.

[@giuliana44]

i love the way the blonde one looks at the other...she looks so in love

[@averekriz]

i feel like orion is like "ah my fist girlfriend, i have to be submissive as britt is so cool" and britt is just like "i have to take power and action and make her feel like i'm a bit unreachable to secure that i won't be hurt again"

[@lemonpeel1410]

eva's library oooo I feel that

[@Sugaplumnoja]

Holy shit yes that's what I thought too

[@develupa]

So true... I also think I am sensing the next layers of the onion, where Orion is actually terrified and Britt actually holds the real power. Like, that 90% of the time where Orion hold's the power-I think it could be that way because Britt allows her to have it, because she recognizes her need to have the power to feel safe. I'm making some pretty big assumptions, so it's really a guess. Thoughts?

[@martah9236]

Totally

[@bbby8972]

Yep!

[@katedesingano]

2 years ago and Orion looks so different now.

[@dinad.1612]

She has lip fillers now and and eye brow lift

[@ljepotica6073]

Dina Black wait she got lip fillers

[@dinad.1612]

@@ljepotica6073 pretty sure she also got a nose job, just look at her older pics

[@dinad.1612]

@@milorrad569 orion vanessa i think

[@EmTheFairy_]

@@dinad.1612 I’ve always said that but my friends say she didnt. Her nose definitely looks different

[@kimikomedlock4398]

"that scared the sh*t out of me." "rightfully so" --orion you're beautiful!!! and the fact that you're validating her feelings is also so wonderful.

[@randomDOTT]

Everyone in this comments section keeps going off about how different they are from each other and that they're going to break up because of it... People need to realize that not everyone has to have a partner that's exactly like them. Sometimes you need a bit of the opposite. Maybe Orion needs someone who is more calm and reserved to help her feel calmer and keep her grounded. And maybe Britt needs someone who's more eccentric to bring her out of her shell. You guys might be seeing negatives, but all I see are two beautiful ladies helping each other grow.

[@TheSkinDeep]

Beautiful perspective, thanks for sharing!

[@dannaoc]

Orion is so genuinely thoughtful and attentive

[@isabellarollin]

I'm glad you guys talked about improving your communication, I'm happy to hear that and hope it gets better. Brit is actually the reason I clicked on this video, but it kinda broke my heart because I see how dependent Orion is on her. I also see Britt's insecurities about herself and her ability to have a healthy relationship. As a bisexual women I really related to Orion on this one. I hope you two continue to work on open and compassionate communication. And remember that someone's personality and heart should shine brighter then there outward appearance.

[@nataluxx7312]

For years and years one of my best friends told me as a joke to "try and date a woman" since my love life at the time was a disaster, I always said " nah, that's not really my thing" But on 2015 I met a girl, and it was love at first sight, and she had the same reservation about me never actually having a relationship with a woman, we've been together for almost two years now, and she truly is the love of my life

[@Raja1938]

Natalia Lestrange every woman should try it. World would be a better place

[@lachelleadzessa1864]

😄

[@jamessibson7453]

The real reason why your hetro relations were a disaster was because you were in denial of your homosexuality.

[@ltd4895]

Perhaps you were with womyn emotionally but had never acted on it physically (in full) until your first relationship. I hope you 2 are happy and still just as in love.

[@sudesaban8124]

You're so so lucky. Don't ever let her go

[@vb-kh8mp]

i never cry tears of joy and i started crying 3 times in this video. i'm so late to seeing this but i'm so grateful to be able to see this talk. it makes me feel confident that i can make things work with my future girlfriend and that we can be the women that these two are

[@boombee3317]

Daaaamn Britt is so fierce!!! You can sense her power and confidence 😳

[@regina7419]

The brunette is so pretty and I love her gap! ❤️

[@nkiyywo3729]

poetic soul she has a youtube channel! Love it!

[@phuyuqhawa8663]

nkiyy WO you are gorgerous sorry for the random comment lol

[@Genesis022760]

poetic soul - she is very pretty. She reminds me of Sofia Vergara.

[@ranzuki101]

Orion is so freaking cute. I couldn't stop laughing at the last part. Lmao.

[@kritikasampleone7457]

Huh?

[@CarinaAbdon]

something seems off and it makes me sad :(

[@alegam6474]

carinaaa same.. I have that feeling for some reason

[@goofycawfee]

carinaaa agree

[@KimBirdwondersChannel]

Yes, this was so cringy to me :(

[@josiecat8080]

To me, Seems like it was when she left her high give hanging lol. She made her feel embarrassed for doing that and just watched her be uncomfortable without doing anything to help the situation lmao. Which might be one of the ways Orion feels "challenged" by Brit and ironically, it's actually helping her grow. That's what i see. I think it's a good thing too. I think thats what soul mates are supposed to do for eachother for some reason. It makes sense to me.

[@nefelibata4190]

something is off with pretty much everything that surrounds you.

[@marijkatilton3054]

Gosh, they are so gorgeous. But, their vibes are so so different. I can feel how imbalanced the power dynamic is. Still, I wish them all the best.

[@deerockt]

I don't think seeing it from the outside we could guess the power dynamic of a relationship. I'm pretty sure everybody acts differently when they're alone vs when they have 3 cameras right in their face and 20 softbox and white lights over their head, plus 200k+ people watching the video afterwards.

[@marijkatilton3054]

t_ellah I agree, but Orion did say she felt she had less power and just from what I could tell from their on screen presence, the power dynamic was noticeable

[@veronicaproctor184]

i don't know, perhaps "imbalanced" wasn't the best word for it, though? just because that seems to imply it's a doomed relationship or something, whereas they seem very in love (and very much in a healthy relationship) to me! but i do see what you mean. i guess it's the first time orion's seriously been with a woman so she may feel slightly less experienced in that vein, and britt seems quite guarded because of how she's been hurt in the past. it's very interesting to see, though!

[@sruthinambiar2701]

The whole 'type' part of conversation 😭🖤 I am so loving them 🖤🖤🖤🖤

[@Piecesoftheshadow]

As a bisexual, it is frustrating to see how others can view us, including those in the lgbt community. We then second guess our feelings and thoughts in the beginning because everyone is questioning us, even the community that is to embrace us. I feel for the brunnette, with time she will grow more comfortable in her sexuality. I wish bisexuals and transgenders had as much focus put on them and their journeys as gays and lesbians do these days because we are still deeply behind and misunderstood in comparison. I also feel bad she has such low self-esteem and anxiety. I have that too and it hasn't gotten better. I just relate to her a lot. She seems really sweet.

[@TheSkinDeep]

[@NetiNeti-gm5bz]

11 11 someone will one day come your way and love you unconditionally ❤️✌️

[@camrenshipper5540]

I really feel like lesbian femmes have it harder. At least when you come out as bisexual ppl aren't like "u don't look bisecual" bc there is no one way to look as a bisexual. but lesbians are portrayed to dress masculine and to look like men so when a girly girl comes out as lesbian ppl give her so much shame saying how she isn't actually lesbian, making her basically feel invisible and make her wanting to try to change the way she dresses just to prove to ppl that she's actually lesbian. cs since she's girly ppl assume that she's either a confused straight girl or a bisexual

[@Piecesoftheshadow]

AandA Um, wow. You took my comment way out of context. I never said anyone owed me anything. I'm not even going to attempt responding in depth. You are already clearly defensive from some sort of experience and are projecting. Sorry you missed the point of my comment. Take care.

[@ahoyloser]

This was a wonderfully written comment, as a bi women, I agree.

[@maisrover]

This is a beautiful intimate conversation, and I loved it.

[@mutiapuspita7239]

When u love someone and it's hard to tell how much u love them through words but when we asked them "u know what i'm talking about right?" And they were like "yeah i get what u mean" it's just so beautiful because just by convey it through the eyes they knew how much we love them.

[@disnvrend]

all social media does is remind me how single I am 😂

[@TheMoni77777]

I can't believe you're single. What a waste ;)

[@disnvrend]

Monika 💔☹️

[@TheMoni77777]

Nora the best for 💔 is 💖

[@disnvrend]

Monika i didn't find the right one for 💖 ):

[@TheMoni77777]

Nora give me address I'll pop up and hold your hand 🤑

[@vanillaonmytongue2]

dating a poet is never easy. my ex told me it's just heartbreak waiting to happen. but well fuck her, im in a happy relationship with my girl for over a year now.

[@lemonpeel1410]

heda lexa congrats girl 💖🌈

[@camrenshipper5540]

congrats girl. I'm a poet too and I honestly feel like girls should be lucky to have me as their girlfriend cs I'm so sweet and a hopeless romantic. I feel like all poets r like this lol so y not date a poet? does ur girl write u love poems?

[@vanillaonmytongue2]

Eve Storm thank you!

[@vanillaonmytongue2]

camren shipper thank you! and i lowkey felt that way too when my ex left me with no explanation at all, i was like god damn im romantic as hell what the hell do you want lol. also nah, my girl is a realist but it's alright tho! i don't need her to write me poetry when she herself is a masterpiece. and hell yeah any girl would be lucky to date you!

[@jellybutter3123]

lExA FuCK

[@shammi9073]

i know nothing about them but based off of this brit seems like a tough person to love

[@olivegorl8671]

Holy crap they’re so adorable! And the ending was even cuter, they are literally relationship goals 😍

[@juliamcmullan8943]

YES my favourite couple on my favourite channel!!!

[@TheSkinDeep]

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[@alexc7613]

Do they have a KZbin channel too? ☺️

[@2009MrsJones]

Who are they??

[@MarilynMelendezG]

Julia McMullan where else can I find them, I love their energy together??

[@wallflxwer16]

Marilyn Melendez-Gamble brunettes ig: orionvanessa and she has a youtube channel just search orion carloto and then the blondes ig is brittenelle :)

[@shaym4306]

The ending honestly killed me. The nervousness and the deep stares.. my heart. I couldn’t help but tear up when they were expressing their love for each other.

[@ebonix33]

That blonde chick 🐣 tho.....i just fell in love 😍

[@loyaltybellaibrahim2287]

ebonix33 omg me too

[@mannrlnd839]

Me too ! 😍🤤

[@whybrch]

ebonix33 me too :)

[@luqrexia]

Aurora Borealis but clearly Ruby is better haha

[@ashleyholland]

She’s insanely beautiful! 😻

[@valentineaugust4221]

I’m very worried when I watch this video. It’s obvious that Orion takes into account what has happened to Britt and doesn’t want to repeat that, but Britt still feels so insecure which is very understandable but I feel like it could cause a bad power dynamic. Orion seems very loving and Britt seems a bit stone cold. I pray and hope that they both can move past their insecurities and have a happy, stable relationship.

[@sssoopphhiiaa]

Update: they aren’t together anymore :(

[@LlZARDKlNG]

WHAAAAT I JUST SPILL MY COFFEEEE JSHSHDHSJNSSKDK

[@mona-bv8hz]

Have they announced it? What happened? My heart just broke...

[@sssoopphhiiaa]

mona lol they’ve been broken up for a while now. Like months maybe even a year?? No I just follow them on instagram

[@laragouveia3575]

@@sssoopphhiiaa what's their insta?

[@MariannSierra]

@@laragouveia3575 instagram.com/brittenelle/?hl=en and instagram.com/orionvanessa/

[@naurcho]

I am HERE for Britenelle. I'd followed her on IG for some time, but with a lot of the same people I follow I was pretty sure I liked her for superficial reasons on my part. But I'm glad I follow the crowd and went to watch this video, it confirmed for me that she's every bit as cool and interesting as I thought she'd be. You don't get to hear her speak at length on social media, so I'm very happy they've done this. She's articulate and doesn't say more than what needs to be said, she's rational and calm and collected. Pure communication, no smoke and mirrors, no BS, nothing indirect. The video between them seems a little tense, like they're on different pages, but it seems like a pretty fresh relationship even still. It's easy to make a judgement from the outside looking in. I also don't really know who Orion is or much about her, so I'm kind of seeing her for the first time -- fidgety and uncertain, like there are things beneath the surface that she is unsure about but she doesn't want to rock the boat. She gives me the impression of being a lot younger than her partner, less experienced, trying to figure herself out. Hopefully she finds her footing and can stand in her own light. Confidence, especially as bi in your first serious gay relationship is nerve wracking, more so when you feel unequal or inadequate. Love is complicated.

[@brandycandy8107]

the blondes eyeliner is the shit

[@mangotango3748]

Victoria Okeregwu yasss

[@amandamilo3454]

Girl! You said it all!!

[@desiree55196]

I feel for Orion... she clearly loved more and it's so obvious. (I know they're not together)