My Friends Didn't Invite Me To Their Destination Wedding And Now I'm The Bad Guy? r/Relationships

[@carlrood4457]

Who asks, "Why didn't you RSVP?" AFTER the occasion? It's a question you ask when trying to get the finally headcount for seating and meals.

[@jillimi]

Yes, I was mad that OP felt he needed to apologize for not RSVP 😡. He sounded so confused. ☹️

[@brandi5126]

S1: NTA. But this is why you speak up. If you don't speak your feelings and side then people will make it up for you.

[@MovableNu]

That Zora Neale Hurston quote: “If you are silent about your pain, they'll kill you and say you enjoyed it.".

[@brandi5126]

​@@MovableNu Thanks! I love that quote because it is very true!

[@johnbradbury8610]

OP has the spine if an earthworm

[@sciencenerd8428]

My thoughts exactly. The whole time you were reading this I'm yelling "SAY SOMETHING!"

[@lyraflow9154]

Op is weak, just the fact that he let them use him to split the check, pathethic.

[@kateemma22]

When I was 19 I got excluded from a friend group event and never spoke to those people again. You know when it’s intentional and when it’s accidental. Some people just peak at high school and it seems Greg is one of those people. Tracey’s a class act but everyone else is a loser too.

[@Zalerinae0491]

Yep my friends and I talked about a girls trip to a park a lot one summer. I had always worked the same shift schedule and one day on my day off I saw them post about going to that same park with their bfs. When I asked what happened they said "we thought you worked! We didn't want you to be a fifth wheel!".... I realized I wasn't as important as I thought I was and distanced myself from them. I still talk to one of them and this past summer we were talking about the water park portion of the park and I said I haven't been to the water park for over 10 years. She said "no I remember you were there, we were complaining about the hot sidewalk" I responded "nope haven't been there since I was with my ex over 10 years ago". She doesn't even remember that they all snubbed me.

[@dre1978]

Not just with groups too. I lost my childhood best friend after he got his first boyfriend our junior year. He started ditching me, never answering my text, and only talked to me at school. I guess being "best friends" since elementary school doesn't mean all that much. Almost 4 years later and it still hurts

[@drewthistlethwaite8909]

No but getting ghosted by my friends in a cult enough that when it schismed and both sides forgot I existed let me get the therapy to stay gone when they got back into one group 😂😂😂

[@catsncrows]

S1 Crappy people will sometimes exclude a positive one. They really don't like their reflection in the mirror of someone else's positivity

[@IgrisBloodRed91]

Story 1 Geez NTA but OP needs to grow a spine fr.

[@poohbear4515]

I get feeling like you were just a background character in their lives since I’ve had that happen a few times. But this guy’s making me want to say YTA for just not having any respect for himself and no spine whatsoever.

[@IgrisBloodRed91]

@ I’m saying it just because of the whole apologizing when he knows he didn’t do anything wrong. Like dude it takes 5 seconds to say “I didn’t get an invite and by the time I received it was already too late to even accept.” That would have gotten everyone off OP’s back. It got worse because he just kept lying down for these terrible “friends.” He needs to learn to stand up for himself and stop relying on everyone else to fight his battles for him.

[@poohbear4515]

@@IgrisBloodRed91 Oh definitely, I was crying out “OP, you friggen idiot! You have no reason to apologize!!”. However, some people are just bred to try and play peacekeeper no matter if they’re at fault, or not. They don’t want to “rock the boat”, or “ruin a happy moment” when they’re not the ones doing so.

[@MrJpaynebb]

​@@poohbear4515 losing friends is hard for most people. It's a form of rejection like being dumped or fired. No one wants that. OP is a people pleaser to some extent so I get why he doesn't want to be seen as the one "causing drama". Thing is rejection is part of life and for most of us once it happens in a relationship, at a job, school or personal life it actually isn't the end all be all nightmare we imagined it to be. Obviously some hurt far more than others but for the most part we bounce back after a few days or weeks and move on.

[@johnbradbury8610]

OP is definitely a people pleaser

[@EluneAnzu]

Story 2: No matter how many times I hear this story I'm always going to agree with the first comment on the update calling out the irony of the dude who got friendzoned mocking OP's choice in video games for being unmanly while he was effectively playing dress up on World of Warcraft with a girl who was, most likely, stringing him along', and that's coming from someone who likes making their characters in video games look cool, so I'm also guilty of "playing dress up", it's just that whole stones and glass houses thing.

[@pris1378]

3 days before his wedding my cousin called me and said this "so, a lot of people we invited can't make it and the venue would look empty, so do i want to comee?" i thought "fuck you too, asshole" but said "sorry, i'm on call. can't get coverage on this short notice, sorry! :)"

[@datmanydocris]

Story 1 update: To be honest, if everyone except Tracey and a few others picked Greg's side because they like Greg more than you, that is a pretty good sign that they aren't the type of people you'd want to be friends with anyway. Anyone who prefers someone that pulls crap like talking badly about someone behind their back, pulling passive-aggressive moves like not inviting someone to your wedding instead of talking to them like an adult and then tries to paint the person they slighted as the bad guy when they get called out are not good people. OP should consider this whole debacle a blessing in disguise cause it helped him realize the type of crappy people his "friends" were.

[@Mario-SunshineGalaxy64]

People who accused the story of being fake because of the video game thing have clearly never met gamers. Gamers can and will accuse other gamers of being fake gamers or "unmanly" if you play certain games. Hell, even if they play on certain consoles you’ll get hate; lots of cannibalism within the gaming communities. The story could be fake, but I'm just saying that the whole gaming issue is very realistic. Also, if you don’t at least sniffle at Life is Strange and/or RDR2 you simply can’t be human and must be a dementor cosplaying as a human being or something.

[@dylanadavis2118]

💯. The community can be great but there is still a lot of toxicity.

[@MorganaCrow]

Facts though. I don't cry much at media in general but walking Dead game season 1, life is strange, and red dead 2 had me sobbing.

[@catandrobbyflores]

Its so much worse as a female gamer. People think I only play stardew or animal crossing. While i do play games like that to relaxing thats not all. When I tell people I played ghosts of tsushima or dark souls they get this look.

[@EluneAnzu]

@@MorganaCrow Same, most media I don't care as much about but video game characters grow on me a lot more, probably because you're either playing *as* them or they're your characters friend(s). Hell I got so invested in one of the characters in BG3 I spent a ton of time doing an optional area, then saving+reloading during a part where they looked like they might die.

[@Masenken]

S2: gf: OP isn't a real man because he plays videogames Also gf: got married to her other bf in world of warcraft. Dafuq 🤣🤣🤣

[@kateemma22]

She’s a loser.

[@LunaP1]

She was already a 304 and will never give up that lifestyle.

[@Masenken]

@LunaP1 and wonder why she's chronically single. Was hilarious even her own mother was over her nonsense

[@FreedomTrooper89]

I'm a little out of the loop here, I've been single since I was 21 and I'm now 34 going on 35, I am a gamer but I've never heard the term 304, what does that mean in particular?

[@Masenken]

@FreedomTrooper89 get a calculator and flip it over To speed things up, it's a garden tool

[@peregreena9046]

The others didn't speak up, afraid that they'd be excluded from the wedding as well.

[@macylouwho1187]

The comment Markee made about these stories helping people see how things should be and helping to change behaviors for the better (said in other words) is so spot on. That’s exactly why I listen to these stories. Coming from the most toxic, backstabbing, racist, bigoted, lying, cheating, stealing etc extended family ever-I didn’t know anything about what is actually ok or not other than some things feeling “wrong” and to not do them as a gut reaction. Like as one example of many-I never took up their bigoted racist ways because that just felt wrong to me as per what I heard in a church pew. God made everyone in his image, and said to treat others as your brother no matter who it was. To just be a good kind person. I heard that and understood that it was wrong to view anyone else as “less than” because everyone is made in God’s image by his own hand. He literally said so. To sneer at that-at them-is to sneer at God. Somehow I don’t think that hate belongs in a Heavenly home. It could never belong there, because then Heaven wouldn’t BE Heaven. It would feel more like Hell. That’s what hate feels like-it feels like Hell. Like it could only come from a very bad place. Anyway so I have learned and learned from these stories about what healthy boundaries and behaviors are. And incorporated them into my life and it’s been a very good thing. It helped me learn how to be better to my own little immediate family with my husband. Hearing a general consensus from the whole wide world on what is considered healthy good behavior versus bad toxic behavior has been a god send. I had to unlearn everything taught to me by my extended horrible family who are SO messed up that it defies belief. And their lives certainly reflect it because they have always been a train wreck. It’s like growing up in a pit of vipers who will strike you whenever they can.

[@thingsthathappentojeff5862]

Story 1: when you're too afraid to speak up and tell your story this is how you end up in this situation. He didn't even say thank you to the person who stood up for him. This guy is too much of a people pleaser. He will always be the victim unless he changes himself.

[@Because-rt8qs]

That doesn't explain why they didn't invite him. He doesn't have to "speak up" to get an invitation in the 1st place.

[@thingsthathappentojeff5862]

@@Because-rt8qs When I said "speak up" it wasn't to explain why he wasn't invited. At that point, He himself didn't know why he wasn't invited. He should've spoken up about not being invited so his real friends could be aware of what was happening. He's too focused on making himself small so others will feel comfortable around him. He comes off as the kind of guy who needs everyone to like him. He only ends up attracting people who are all too willing to take advantage of that.

[@LadyWolvie82]

It's a matter of time before someone tied to S1 sees the Reddit posts and the KZbin videos about this, prompting another update to the story.

[@Mario-SunshineGalaxy64]

I hope those ex friends can live with the side they didn’t have to choose but chose anyways. I mean chose to drop OP, who by all accounts sounds respectful and considerate despite his timidness, for Greg and his best buddy who sound like two-faced a-holes.

[@kitarrah1422]

And Shannon, who sounds like a B. The fact that they used the other people to "split the check", while ordering the most expensive items on the menu for themselves, would have royally p*$$ed me off. 🤬

[@Mario-SunshineGalaxy64]

@@kitarrah1422 Yeah, they all deserve each other.

[@DragonbornMike-ym2er]

Story 1: No chance in hell they "forgot". Of they had, they would've noticed OP didn't reapond/RSVP, and asked. I can understand why OP didn't want to bring up the ge situation, since that's going to be awkward no matter what. And frankly, if someone doesn't care to notice, I don't care to bring it up. If the friends want to take the (at best) careless couple with no accountability on this matter, those are people you're better off loosing.

[@DominosAndHearts]

Story 1 nta- definitely don't go if you're clearly an after thought and the invite was just a "saving face" one

[@infinitetranquilo]

On one hand, I’m excited last story OP is going good and got away from a bad girl for him. On the other hand, damnit am I jealous he’s going to the royal rumble. That’s gonna be so much fun.

[@acujenpete]

Last minute "invite" is an invoice: they're pretty sure you won't make it, are trying to obligate you to send a wedding gift.

[@loganjoh1]

Story 2: she can either marry James or cut him off otherwise she will never have a relationship last like she got engaged and still wanted him as her backup

[@gigga143]

S1: NTA but it is amazing to me how many stories there are where the OPs are so nonconfrontational that they end up just being complete doormats. Like why when called out about the RSVP wouldn’t you write back in the same place about not being invited. Why bend yourself into a pretzel for people that have shown they don’t care about you? Why hide from your girlfriend that the girl she thinks is so cool is crappy towards you? Where did everyone’s self esteem and self respect go? Why are you so concerned to keep a group of friends where only one person has been a friend to you? Make better friends and do some affirmations or something in the mirror so you can stand up straight and stop laying down like a rug.

[@notevenlistening6072]

I'm a bit extreme, but I would completely fade out from that friend group

[@fred_derf]

You ending your engagement because your fiancé wouldn't tell her (future / past) side-piece she was engaged isn't a "ridiculous" thing.

[@chelbanna]

S2: Life is Strange slaps. He's got good taste

[@underwailer]

Fun fact female rabbits cam become very aggressive when pregnant

[@Markee]

Thanks for sharing!

[@catsncrows]

Rabbits aren't all fluffy bunnykins. My roommates had one that would sit up on it's hind legs and punch the cats😶

[@theseeker9442]

S1: OP isnt in the wrong per say but my god is he extremely frustrating, I absolutely hate pushovers like him. Maybe thats why he wasnt invite? But who knows, he certainly didnt confront anyone about it

[@jrod1591]

Would have been an easy, “was I meant to not be invited? it’s cool either way I’m just wondering if an invitation got lost.” Then you know right then and there.

[@johnbradbury8610]

OP is the type to ask AITA for not making pancakes for my wife's affair partner

[@surrealistgirlx]

Huh? What? The whole thing was a clusterf*ck but let's blame the person who was confused. It's just a Reddit post.

[@johnbradbury8610]

​@@surrealistgirlxand I just made a comment was it too loud. I didn't even use exclamation points

[@awkwardbash]

I dont blame the guy for crying at life is strange. I bawled in every act.

[@Songbirdstress]

Narcs in aisle 1.

[@hirohiroarikawa6806]

Nah I’d tell them they’re all AH and they destroyed the friendship, tell them to not contact and send all of them letters that say”you are NOT welcome to come to OP and OPs fiances wedding”

[@w7100]

I had a literal last minute invite to a birthday, it was a skating ring, the birthday boy was a little spoiled prick and no one wanted to go, and when I mean last minute I'm taking 10 minutes until. I got insulted for not dressing up, and he demanding to know where his gift was, me and 90% of his guest left the room to skate the rest of the day

[@ondank]

Story 1 : honestly I can't feel sympathy for a guy who is basically isolating himself at this point

[@heatherdickau5335]

Last story - shouldn't people be looking for a partner who is also a best friend? Having friends is fine. And you can have lots. But shouldn't the person you marry be your ultimate best friend? There are too many posts where people are putting "best friend" before romantic partner. Why are you with this person if they aren't the most important person in your life?

[@brokenvampyre]

Final story - Why stay with someone you don't like? Money. The way the economy is it's very hard to afford living alone anymore. (Edited for spelling)

[@meloncornets3034]

S2: HELL YEAH! Enjoy the Rumble. That's wrestling christmas! I'm happy he's just trying to move on.

[@poohbear4515]

S2: If I was OP, I’d take that money and get several buddies, and family and have a fun single party, or have a fun night with the buddies playing video games, watch anime(I’m a nerd❤️), and whatnot. Why waste all that money when you can use it for a fun party? (And maybe have some randos send pictures of said party to the garbage ex for some pettiness lol)

[@MizutamariVT]

"Don't ask, don't tell, works for some poly people." This is genuinely why poly gets as bad of a rap as it does. If your relationship only functions when you are lying every day to each other and hiding half your life then your relationship isn't functioning.

[@Old_Toby]

Story 1: OP. They're not your friends. Simple as.

[@Rhaenarys]

Yea if Greg and his fiance were just up front about not really liking OP, but tolerating him for the group, it wouldnt have been so bad when they didnt invite him. Playing those games and being fake is the problem. No one has an issue with someone not inviting someone theyve made clear they dont really like to an event specifically for the person throwing the event. Well...most people dont lol. Plenty of stories where family apparently does...

[@SkyEcho751]

Story 2: Wait, she said that she 'already deleted everything' and yet all those nasty messages were still on the phone? Maybe she was cheating a deleted her cheating evidence but didn't think about what horrible things she said... Just a thought.

[@tmajuru559]

I get why people would wish divorce on Shannon and Greg and unhappiness to the ex-fiancée, but honestly, these people don't sound like they're worth a second thought or the headspace. Sometimes, 'trash takes itself out' 🤷🏾‍♀️. Let's normalize letting 'bottom-shelf' people go entirely and make room for people who actually care about us.

[@droehnix]

Story 1, Greg sounds like he had a crush on op, op rejected him, which caused him to do the “oh okay it’s fine” while stewing with hatred ever since. In short Greg sucks.

[@johnbradbury8610]

Story 2, OP ignored enough red flags to fill a comunist country

[@carlrood4457]

Story 2: That's not insecurity. That's seeing a red flag for what it is and following up. People weaponize the word to put others on the defensive when they know they're in the wrong. Self respect is the opposite of insecurity. Standing up when the situation stinks is self respect. The insecure people are the ones who just stand there and take it

[@lynnw7155]

Also, I wouldn't marry someone who didn't consider ME their 'best friend'. That's the first requirement for me...being best friends. Her relationship with that other guy is sketchy.

[@mecyhoward305]

RSVP?? They are just playing in your face at that point

[@loganjoh1]

Greg chose his wedding to show how fake he was

[@sterngerlach9184]

S1: What the heck is the matter with your fiancee? Didn't she get the obvious message that she was supposed to break up with you? How could she be so crass as to inflict a total loser like you on her long-suffering fiend group? (/S in case it wasn't clear. You should scrape off this coating of crud, except for Tracey if she can be cleaned. NTA.) ETA: Tracey not Sharon. Freundian slip.

[@league-of-shadows]

1: I hope OP 1 learns to communicate better. Also those people are awful friends. I hope OP has a fantastic wedding surrounded by good people. 2: The audacity of either the ex gf or her bestie to question OP’s manhood when she couldn’t even provide for herself like an adult. OP is better off without her. I hope he thrives without the dead weight. The bestie will continue being pushed aside and he deserves it.

[@Bleg94]

"learns to communicate better" that would require him being able to communicate AT ALL ...

[@almightteacheratua8640]

Markee in the morning ☺️

[@loganjoh1]

Highly doubt they forgot to invite OP

[@thekevinsmith1411]

Tgis is an explination. Not a justification. To the "if you don't like them, why are you with them?" Comment, some people are in a relationship for the sake of being in a relationship. You don't need to like your partner. You need to like being in a relationship. Compare being in a relationship to bring single. Now have a kid. Cause these are things expected of people. When you grow up seeing this relationship, like I did, it sets an expectation of all relationships. Everything was OK on the outside but when I went home, I was told that if they break up, I need to pick a parent. It shows that "good" relationships are actually shit like yours behind the scene. It wasn't until living with a happy couple that I saw a good model for a relationship that actually made me want to seek out a relationship. Having 1 come home pissed and actually talk things out was world shattering. I was in my 20s before actually trying to make a relationship work instead of finding someone I thought I could put up with.

[@lynsthoughts3576]

RSVP: Respondez Sil Vous Plait... You cannot RESPOND without an invitation

[@godking]

OP in story 1 cares way top much about the feelings of others and how he is perceived by them.

[@agentzapdos4960]

S1: OP's "friends" don't see him as a friend, they see him as a dirty poor that does nothing but mooch off them.

[@wildfyah]

Opportunity makes the thief? Man if people pass up great opportunities to live better every day I call bs on that statement

[@TheVagrant77]

Honestly, I know I wouldn't be invited to any wedding, not super close to anyone. I became used to being a circumstantial friend.

[@Mesa4u2nv]

Yeah. OP didn't have many real friends in that group. Especially not the newly weds. If he felt like there was some talking going on, then there probably was. I think an interesting way to go about save the dates and invites is to do an engagement party but make it something super casual with verbal invites. You'll know who supports you based on who shows up, and just observe how people act

[@andersondawn3631]

Story 1: Would have been so hard for me not to be petty and message Greg after learning the truth before blocking him and his wife for good. Story 2: Sounds like the ex was having an emotional affair with James. Op is better without childish B in his life.

[@JMac7395]

STORY 1: How old are these people? This sounds like a high School drama, smh

[@WardNightstone]

time to stop being nice and SPill the tea you don't go because you weren't invited until it was too late

[@johnbradbury8610]

Story 1, OP is a total people pleaser

[@ajjean2720]

Story 2- I’m just wondering what her plan was? Did she really plan on never telling the “best friend” about the engagement? About the wedding? Even after the text message, it makes no sense what she was planning to actually do?

[@LovesGaming37]

Why is a destination shit move? And why is everyone hating Shannon? Greg is the asshole. He's the one who hates the OP and didnt want him there. What did Shannon do to piss everyone off?

[@void9938]

It's easier to have an idea of a backstabbing orstrasizing bridezilla than a groomzilla because that's what's shown in media so thats what people gravitate to.That women are sneaky, dramatic, and have frenamies. It's sad but the truth.

[@void9938]

A destination wedding can be insensitive as far as people not having the time/money to put towards one as you're usually expected to pay for travel and lodge as a guest.

[@rebeccarankin9455]

Shannon was nta UNTIL she pulled that whole "Why didn't you RSVP?" bit AFTER the wedding in an attempt to reverse-engineer herself being seen as completely innocent in this whole thing. That right there proves she is TA after all.(and all along)

[@rebeccarankin9455]

Shannon isn't the only a-hole, or even the main one. That's Greg. But the two of them seem like peas in a pod. Birds of a feather, yadda yadda, etc.

[@Ayimii]

Ok, you're not human if you didn't cry at the end of Red Dead Redemption 2.

[@runepistol]

Hot take: I don't trust ANYONE who didn't cry at least once during RDR2.

[@demonheart13]

Not gonna lie, I still wander if the last story is fake. It just kinda sounds like an update I wpuld right about by twisting the words from the first story a bit. OP: my mom never had my back so I realize she is bad. Exs mom proceeds to take OPs side against her own child but she is good OP: she and her friend were talking trash about me claiming it was therapy OP in update directly mentions having a therapy session with exs mom to the point mom tells him he is always welcome. (While she might just be a nice person, I could never see a mother openly invite problems into their house even if the aggressor was their own child unless confirmed cheating was going on, OP himself confirms no cheating or declarations of love happened in his suprise inspection but I could see mom not knowing that and just assuming her daughter cheated or something. It just sounds like he took bad qualities refrained them in a positive light and boom theirs an update. Rephrasing and mirroring a situation was a couple exercises in a creative writing class, I don't know if it's standard or just that textbook, but it was noticeable enough that I picked up on it. Or maybe OP is just not very creative himself and did it completely unintentionally using call back words and such. But for me it now.feels fake although a very nice story all in all.

[@MisterNightfish]

Story 1: I'm sorry but OP is a moron, maybe NTA but definitely a bit of a dumdum. Just say something for pete's sake. If you were such great friends, surely that should be possible? Also, in situations like this it's not impossible that lack of invitation was actually a mistake or it actually got lost in the mail. Of course it can be on purpose, but why just wallow in self pity and assume the worst?

[@Because-rt8qs]

Both the save the date AND the invite just happened to get lost in the mail? No way.

[@EnDB]

Other than Tracey and the few, not one of the others like OP. They probably have a whole chat that does not include OP or Tracey and they are crap texting like crazy in there. It's hard to make new friends, but that is what OP has to do.

[@georgeprchal3924]

Just tell then you'll be there for their next wedding.

[@LovesGaming37]

Story one update comments: why do comments think that Greg and Shannon will divorce?

[@jas6940]

S2 message said “I was engaged but not anymore” Now he’s a ah because he ended things over something small I’m confused 😅 did she not end it first

[@luisnunez3606]

Video games and wrestling... not manly... okay Video games MAYBE cuz my Niece's and I play Minecraft and stuff, but WRESTLING!!! EVEN my dad loves it and he doesn't know ENGLISH!!!

[@tinamelton6491]

The reason why she was dating you sweetie was because you paid her bills and she got to live high on the hog without paying for it. If this man would have came to her and said I'll pay all your bills come live with me she would have. do not say you're going to pay her bills for her do not let that person get away with that pain half of the bills or even a percentage of the bills. Because you're just going to get sucked in again and paying some woman's bills and that'll be her excuse to stay and she'll treat you like s*** and cheat on you

[@mylifewithautism3958]

I’m sorry but NO. I don’t give a rat’s a$$ if it’s their special day, you don’t invite every member of a group except one, that automatically makes you a jerk, and the friends suck too, they should have declined to go the moment they found out OP wasn’t invited, but no, let’s just go anyway and post about it on our socials to make them feel even worse shall we

[@genovevaugarte1312]

Why do people, especially from the USA need so much ro belong to a group of "friends". Like even when they are married they have to keep up with their friends. I have seen a lot of couples splitting up because of "their friends". It is childish and wimpy. People should be happy on their own and qith people who really give a crap about you.

[@LovesGaming37]

Why is a destination shit move? And why is everyone hating Shannon? Greg is the asshole.

[@tmajuru559]

I think most people generally consider destination weddings, esp. to infamously expensive places like NY, to be in poor taste because of the added inconvenience and cost of travel and accommodation. Most couples would still ask for gifts on top of all that. I can't be sure but I think that's why.

[@Khaisz.]

Couple: spins a story OP: does not correct them Friends: believes couple OP: 😮

[@Akemi.24-45]

こんばんは、マーキー！♥️🤗

[@Markee]

こんにちは！

[@Akemi.24-45]

@@Markee you wrote it 日本語！♥️♥️

[@philtherealdeal100]

The more I listen to Reddit I can’t stand passive people more than the aholes😂… I’m so tired of hearing “ I didn’t say anything”

[@dm9078]

No wonder they didn’t invite him.

[@DeMarcoDansby]

S1: This guy is a wimp

[@AusExplorer]

S1: Sorry, I try but I can't feel sorry for spineless losers who can't even speak up for themselves. He's so afraid of saying anything, I find it repulsive. How is someone like that ever going to stand up for, and protect, a wife or kids? The above goes for S2 too. What kind of loser tries to make a wife out of a woman who actively has an orbiter that has feelings for her? At least he eventually did the right thing and got rid of the cheating-wife-to-be.

[@johnbradbury8610]

Story 2, YTA for staying with your GF even after you were warned.

[@roelthas]

Sorry, but first OP is such a pushover, he's the most frustrating part of that story.

[@andreacorteztasayco1642]

Sorry but I cant feel bad for the first OP, no spine at all.

[@ilseawesomeness9828]

Oh damn I'm early

[@user-gj1me4mf5c]

That last story was boring as F. Sounds like to 14 year olds were playing house.

[@ashleyhilton6254]

First! Good morning!!

[@mylifewithautism3958]

I’m sorry but NO. I don’t give a rat’s a$$ if it’s their special day, you don’t invite every member of a group except one, that automatically makes you a jerk, and the friends suck too, they should have declined to go the moment they found out OP wasn’t invited, but no, let’s just go anyway and post about it on our socials to make them feel even worse shall we