My grandmas advice was HARD FACTS

[@beatmonster9586]

This video hit me hard. I have so many goals that I wanna work towards like writing some story ideas I had, writing and producing my own music, creating video game ideas I made, and much more. However, right after I graduated high school my family and I got a letter telling us that we’re getting kicked out of our house (because long story short my dad spent/stole our money and gave it to a porn star leaving us solely dependent on government aid). Since then I cancelled my plans on going to college since we couldn’t pay for it, and I just haven’t been doing everything that I’m supposed to. I admit, I’ve spent way too much time complaining about my dad and what he has done to us instead of finding ways to help my family get out of this. But yeah thanks for making this video, it opened my eyes to how much time I’ve been wasting. My two younger siblings are depending on me since they’re still in high school, so I need to step up. Also do you have any advice for what I should do about my situation? I really want to make/sell my music and other ideas, but I can focus on one. And even if I focused on one, it’s not guaranteed to grant me money like a college degree will (except if I go to college then I won’t really be able to focus on any of my goals). I also just need to make money fast for my family, and I really don’t know what next steps to take. If you could share your thoughts I’d really appreciate, thanks! Have a good day!

[@colerusichcoaching]

First off, i am sorry that happened to you. Weak, selfish bitch made men are pathetic. A real fuckin man shows up for his people, and puts them first, so that part is not on you at all. That should be your motivation to become the person you always needed when you were a kid. Thats your new goal and aim. To realize your habits are everything, and if your shit fuck father operated with integrity like i speak on he would have NEVER done such despicable shit. BUT like you said no one is coming to save you, and complaining about it doesnt help, you had the vulnerability to speak on it in public, now is the time to use it for fuel, not as an excuse to hide from accountability. College is a mess right now anyways, i would save dont waste your money on anything for learning until you pick a plan and an aim, make a clear vision construction, and get some daily routines that you can stick to that make you sharper, and more dedicated to the effort required to succeed. After all, college requires you to show up, make plans, hit goals and deadlines, learn and listen, be accountable. College is a business, they are selling you an education, but you can also use money to learn music, get a real personal coach and make plans in a way thats MUCH more hands on then a college counselor who is a career academic and has never built shit. Send me a dm on instagram @cerusich. I have some questions to ask you and then i can more accurately assess where you are at and where you wanna go!! So proud of you for having the accountability and poise to put yourself out there, now its time to make a plan and execute. 🔥🔥🔥