My husband beat me because Man U lost a match; his girlfriend taught me how to cook- Victoria Inyama

[@joyakahome1551]

I love when she said, I wish my ex husband treats his current woman better. This is maturity at its peak. God bless you Victoria. You are a true queen!

[@Nansikdashe7502]

She is a very good person

[@bbtmachinerysystemsenginee4512]

Victoria has a good heart.... ❤❤❤❤she's lovely

[@PrincessJayden-u3v]

You can be the right package at the wrong address, which is very true.

[@ejikemeoge1402]

I know d girlfriend. I was working for them in Woolwich then. She really suffered in her ex hands. Though I didn't know how to help then. Thank God she's doing great now.

[@ibitolaogunsanya6772]

I see a woman who has healed, because she is narrating the story without bitterness or anger.

[@emmanuellaiyogun8668]

Whichever away she chooses to react is okay tho

[@sose9601]

​@@emmanuellaiyogun8668 she is healed. Ha! Just accept. All these people wey must comment 😂

[@ibitolaogunsanya6772]

@@emmanuellaiyogun8668 I am not judging her reaction, just stating facts, nor am I saying there is an acceptable way of reacting.

[@gracegeorge7285]

@@ibitolaogunsanya6772You may not have said that but that’s the silent message your comment conveyed. Your comment shames/shade those that may tell their story still feeling a little bitter or unhappy. Africa, saying a woman is bitter or not yet healed for very deep wounds done to her, is not an insult on the woman. It tells of a toxic societal stigma. At least if a child is beaten, we should allow them to cry in any way that comforts them. When we always want them to quickly snap out of it and show “pretend” face, the abusers win all over again and move to their next victim.

[@ibitolaogunsanya6772]

That's how you have decided to interpret or comprehended the message. @@gracegeorge7285

[@obbyoma8297]

It is saddening , you see a lady, admire her and make her your wife, only to destroy her mentally, and beat her physically.

[@gracegeorge7285]

The men marry not for love but for what the lady can offer and to boost their social standing and have children. That’s what society expects of them so they go for it for their own wellness most times

[@diasporaafricadocumentarie7010]

Peoples are too gullible. One person says something and everyone runs with it. I wouldn’t judge until I hear from the other party. When Emeka Ike aired his plight, people wanted to crucify the ex wife, but after hearing from her, you then started to have second thoughts. People lie a lot. So, I will never judge based on story from one party

[@SharonIfe]

@@diasporaafricadocumentarie7010 Call it bias, but women have my support by default, until proof says otherwise. Nigeria is too violently misogynistic and patriarchal for me to think differently. 🤷🏿‍♀️

[@Meandyouisnus]

@@diasporaafricadocumentarie7010 Emeka is a mad man

[@starj5114]

exactly @@SharonIfe

[@shinenisigiehon7348]

Alots is wrong with upbringing of many Nigeria men, which is related to their background and who fathers them. The circle of abuse and cheating is alarming. May God help us oo

[@aoo2645]

It is a male thing (and female), and the only genuine solution to it is Christ. Every grown man without christ is an open or undercover cheat or a cheat in waiting. Or a pornography cheat/addict.

[@tellmo3029]

May we not marry wrong. Amen

[@odunayoolajide5779]

Amen

[@Ferrys1220]

Amen

[@harajuka1barbz]

Amen

[@jemmykay-TV]

Amen.

[@Tessy_the_creative]

When we make the mistake,may we not die in it.

[@babayemibusayo3964]

That thing she said ......knowing your partner's background is very key, very important. Some people grew up to understand survival, while some don't even know how to love

[@AissataDCisse]

Oh please some don't know how to love properly but will never hit their partner. It's about holding abusers accountable. He could choose to explode elsewhere.

[@erincarr6029]

That is true

[@zionjane8935]

She seems so personable and down to earth. Beautiful woman with a good heart. Your grandma raised you well.

[@darkohstephenlarbi1957]

Had a crazy crush on her as a teen. Always saw her as the most beautiful actress.. Then she just vanished from the scene. Did my research and realized she got married. So sad to hear all she went through. She was always the reserved type. Glad she walked out and has found peace. May she have blessings that will give her a million times joy in place of the pain she went through 🙏🏽

[@cescajohn8429]

Amen. I really loved her films as a kid. It is well with her.

[@PepTalkTillYouDrop]

Yeah, me too. She was my childhood crush. I was wondering why she disappeared. Wow, this life not balance 😢

[@Abronoma2024]

She said it all. More respect to her. Ive had my own share of abusive marriage and after 14yrs, divorced and have full custody of my 2 kids. I am happily single and loving it.. ❤😊

[@The_Cruise_Fam]

YES. Also, that not all people are nice no matter how kind/nice you are to them. 💯

[@mmuok4133]

Sending you all the love I hope life continues to bring you nothing but happiness and peace ❤

[@gracegeorge7285]

Light and strength to you, sister. Fly high!

[@francesekweonu2339]

So sad what women settle for in the name of marriage, glad to see her thriving and well. I can't even wait to see her in a movie ❤

[@shakiratdauda9083]

Beautiful Victoria .You are the best. Upbringing in Africa some time put the genuine people into slavery.

[@justlisa9220]

Oh Lord, I use to watch her movie as a kid and use to adore her, she was so pretty 🥰 and still pretty 🥰

[@keepingupwithgloria791]

Same here ,loved her

[@Nell654]

Imagine the insult!! Beautiful Victoria Inyama had to endure this treachery. So many men wanted to marry her!! I pray her well

[@afilaka123]

Hmm very beautiful till this day and yet are ex-husband treated her so badly.

[@RealBellaTv]

This no joke Some so called Husbands are Monsters…Love Victoria so much ❤

[@Uke2405]

Victoria is telling my story. Most men are....

[@olusholapeters136]

You are getting it wrong. There are wicked and broken men. Simple. Husband is just a tag. That's why it is important to know who you decide to build a life with.

[@Jenken297]

​@@olusholapeters136, must you comment? Please work on your character and advise your fellow men to do same as well.

[@olusholapeters136]

​@@Jenken297 I sincerely hope you are OK? I honestly hope that you are because I don't know what exactly is triggering you in my comment. That a badly raised guy will be a bad husband and bad dad because husband and dad are just tags, and can't change a man. What's the problem with this submission that you will tell me to go and fix my character. I really want to believe that you are OK and can engage your thinking faculty properly

[@Lighterinma]

​@olusholapeters136 that's why she said "some" because the bad men also become husbands.

[@nnajiugochukwu3810]

she comes off likeable & humble

[@ChukwuemekaLYONEzeogu]

I have just fallen in love with this woman. Anyone could see the naive honesty and sincere heart that is no longer and can no longer be available with the terrible influence of the internet. Kudos to you, Victoria, for this. And, yes, this is not a show. You're home.

[@ej2507]

You call internet terrible, cos you will rather women experience the rubbish this woman experienced due to her so called naive nature. Lolsss. Thank God for internet, any woman that decides to go through this now, is doing it based on her own belief rather than ignorance or naivety, like it was in this woman case.

[@nkechiiro7869]

The naivety is the reason for your love? No nah!

[@UnscriptedAmygem001]

I enjoy every part of her interview because she has healed .

[@mimiluv6554]

And u can tell dat Victoria has a very good heart..

[@truebornafrican9213]

Always remember that marriage is not a life sentence..

[@BlessingUfedo]

She sound tired, and despite all of this she still looks meek and loving to me. So sorry my lady

[@iyaiya9819]

I love her for acknowledging our ancestors!! Thank you so much. We can’t throw them away cos of European religion.

[@kosokojoy1615]

So true Victoria.i could relate with being the right package in wrong environment.Glad you have healed.we will love to have you back in Nollyhood.

[@nokwazizitha1924]

Right package at the wrong address...powerful❤

[@susheana]

The husband is a covert narcissist

[@JoyFay]

They are many! Let’s be careful of these victim-looking monsters.

[@OluOgbobine]

'Life is not what you make it. Life is life'

[@sophiaerih1391]

Yes, that's true. You can be doing all the right things and the reverse will be happening to you. Life is just life 😢

[@Inesnes1]

This your interview dey "minister" to me o. I am learning from this auntie as I am working towards my "delivrance" from this toxic, abusive marriage I dey in.

[@BB-tu2bq]

why not just leave???!!

[@Philtabit49]

You are loved. You are seen. You are known. You are loved. Now make solid exit plans and RUN!!! All the very best to you.

[@titititi8928]

I admire this sister’s courage to speak up and share her experience in marriage. Thank you and courage

[@prettybrandy5118]

Marrying a narcissist is terrible

[@bumsybeebeautymbf]

I understand every single experience and words coming out of you , i pray for God's healing for you.

[@violetefejuku2558]

Amen!😊

[@faithbishop1444]

Her grandmother was talking about a good husband not the Werey she married if her story is true..

[@ehi2283]

I agree.

[@nkechiiro7869]

Honestly

[@peggyimoniovu9497]

Victoria is such a beautiful woman even till this day! Sad that she experienced this and happy she came out alive. I pray more people going through similar things get thr courage to live 🙏.

[@sowtion]

And her husband looked gentle oooo.....fear quiet people abeg😪😪😪

[@eleagada4755]

Yes o Fear them very much

[@harajuka1barbz]

So true

[@peggyosarumen9731]

So so true, they are more wicked

[@JoyFay]

Hmm I used to have a crush on an innocent looking man from a “good and godly family”, but when I found out how he truly was, I cut off all contacts. Very horrible person. He talks badly behind peoples back to the extent that others will hate you and bully you on his behalf for no reason at all! He was a manipulator with a gentle “holy” face.

[@The_Cruise_Fam]

Who’s the husband?

[@stellanneke9487]

My love for you, Victoria Inyama, just enlarged ❤. You conveyed your struggle with pain so easily and without bitterness. That is maturity. You take the learnings and keep moving. It is well with you.

[@verenawilliams]

Wow, very sad to know she went through this but happy she is sharing her story because so many women are going through this in Europe 😢🥺 God bless her 🙏🏾

[@greatnation4328]

Appreciate her vulnerability and ability to talk about the experience. Learning point.......marriage to the right person can be organic. ....but right person at the wrong address????.......

[@milovejesus3790]

I’ve always loved your movies and your personality. That you are laughing now while telling this story means you are healing. You are a strong woman. God bless you

[@joyjames1397]

It's how chude brings these admirable Icons on board to grace our screens again❤️❤️🥰

[@leony8996]

Thank you Victoria for sharing your story and thank you to the many brave women rising up for other women by speaking “their truth” about their marital journey. May these truth be a guide for the future generation both male and family to aspire for a healthy marriage or relationship. 🙏🏾

[@PastorIhaza]

Very nice comment. Powerful interview🕊

[@onyemaraifeoluwapo6539]

I really enjoyed and learnt from this interview, thank you!

[@danielolayinkabukola2043]

Eeeeeeeyah so calm and intelligent lady. She said she's not a fighter...........the man has lost jor, thank God for your life

[@memememe4581]

Oh my lord! I can’t believe she had to go through all of this trauma. I love this woman like hell during those times when she was on nollywood screen. She is such a beautiful lady ❤

[@Bidemi_Of_NYC]

These women are so strong… they go through so much 😢

[@greatlakes2234]

Beautiful conversation. She is well connected. Her ancestors are healing her, and she acknowledges this before the entire world. Ase❤ love, power, healing & strength is what I pray for her🩷

[@FeliciaBeee]

She's so humble, I'm glad you've healed, and most importantly, you're safe with your children. Thanks for your advice. Be genuine, be kind etc

[@bisishittu9381]

This really touched me....

[@ikemchude]

Forever my best. I love her dearly. Amazing persona with a beautiful soul

[@abigailkakiyes6719]

You know I saw her a couple of times around Plumstead this was 2004-6 thought she was happy, very down to earth simple lady, glad she got out of abuse too lovely to die young

[@tdad8683]

Thanks for being honest, because some are here judging her despite all she went through.

[@Ehimonyplux247]

This woman is so genuine and innocent

[@ibukunsings01]

At first I didn’t recognize her until the old pic showed up and alas, 😮o nooooooo not her. He swallowed her glory all up and pushed her into darkness. Thank God she’s out. Use to love her , specially her eyes ❤❤❤❤

[@precydaniel2653]

One of the most beautiful woman in the world

[@Gabrielle2075]

Victoria, thank God for you. Thank God for you.

[@iovercame359]

chaiiii 😮see life, so beautiful actress 😢

[@ogeeziashi]

Awww She seems like a sweet soul. So sorry she had to go through that but I hope she's in a much better place.

[@a_goldenrose]

Seeing good where there's little or none. Relatable.

[@emmanuelekefre7551]

She is a wonderful woman

[@marthamakpoero2446]

She’s soo calm❤

[@tokunboade728]

God bless you Victoria for sharing your story…Sending you love and hugs 🤗 🤗❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@MABAGI]

That one that her grandmother told her about seeing the best in me is what I was told too. I can’t change it about me either. So ppl are really mean.

[@novellprice132]

I am amazed with her furniture settings. Like the furniture settings. And the interior setting is well organized and very attractive. Peace...

[@donbabazeal1033]

Many spouse are going through or have been through hell, especially this celebrities.

[@Jooniebug]

Domestic violence is the worst thing that can happen in any marriage. The man never loved her and she wanted to go to abroad. Please women be wise when you decide to marry a man. Listen to your innermost conscience not the material things.

[@pixiedust6630]

How do you know she only married him to go abroad

[@daniellabaahboakye22]

I admired her beauty so much when i was growing up.

[@helinananky]

I can believe this happen to our beautiful Victoria, you are a strong woman, this is too much to take, Sending you strength ❤️🙏🙏

[@irenegwanzuwang1174]

Still so pretty...❤

[@inyosomisule5275]

Victoria.I used to love your movies..you were such a beautiful actress...i hope you find your feet again in nollywood....

[@victoriastanley3198]

I so much love this my name sake. Your maturity is topnotch ❤

[@amutuheirerahumat2019]

That thing seeing the good in people hoo God it has cost me alot of pain😥😥

[@Tega_Thompson]

The foundation of marriages are under all sorts of attack. One must get it right at the point of knowing who to marry.

[@ikemchude]

Many spouse take advantage of their partners in marriage simply because they are public servant and wouldn’t want their private life in the public space

[@Soso_Emesue]

Congratulations ❤❤❤Amara ❤❤she has never been a pretender ❤for choosing the right path (coming out alive) it takes a strong woman to do this 👏👏👏👏once a man is beating you that’s it!!!

[@tdad8683]

Is her name AMARA?

[@obibuaku]

The caption alone is aggravating me!!

[@The_Cruise_Fam]

Me too.🥲

[@gracegeorge7285]

Me three!

[@ijeomanwankpa1677]

Victoria was such brilliant and reserved actress during my high school years, i always admire her.

[@kiv_daniels]

You wouldn’t know your right from your wrong because of the gaslighting oo, but seriously this woman is beautiful oo, I didn’t know she is the one I know, I thought she she’s a new actress.

[@tobiandtribe]

Quite surprised that you went through something similar to Emeka Ike's wife and your empathy for her situation was quite limited. When women start to support each other, the less violence will be perpetrated against us. We women are actually more powerful than we think. It will only end when we come together and start to speak against such evil acts.

[@gloriaquayenartey7767]

Pls,don’t teach people how to act to situations, we all show grief differently

[@Marleemass]

I wanted to say the same thing, I was not happy with her response to Ema Suzanne, Emeka Ex wife, not knowing she was also married to a psycho and a narcissists like Emeka. Go Ema, all those who said you are a lair will come out confessing their own abusive marriages. In this world, the only person we really know is the one who we sleep and wakeup with. Not the ones who we meet at the theatre practice hall. This is for Regina Askie as well.

[@diva3588]

She's always like that. Even in May's case. Don't mind her.

[@giftottah7798]

Lovely Victoria Iyama.... Strong woman 💪

[@florenceflourish6367]

Good to see Victoria Inyama...... 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@favourchristian5069]

May God send me & you good, kind husband 🙏

[@pos3334]

she is so matured and intelligent

[@tia5420]

😭😭😭😭😭😭i went through this too but now thank God I am out of it. He told the our children i got juju in my house my kids are avoiding me since they went to visit him.

[@ugochicatherine7164]

Victoria Iyama it's been such a long time,i love seeing you

[@truebornafrican9213]

There’s always three sides to a story . Your side , my side , and God’s side . I remember when I bumped into this lady when she just came to England those days . Is she still in England or back in Nigeria now ..

[@maryawofisoye5706]

Your grandma did very well. Gid has rewarded your labour of love and you will enjoy it more. Wair and see. God rewards the righteous Thank God you can tell your story with laughter

[@isiuwaomorefe584]

Thank you for sharing. But you should not allow your son to laugh about the beatings because he will see it as normal and also beat his wife.

[@abigailkakiyes6719]

Chaiii women go through a while lot. She said it all

[@linzicont1631]

You are too kind and that is the problem

[@NaemaOryem]

She’s so beautiful wow

[@Asianimabong8573]

Amazing Victoria iyama

[@kadijatubangura8025]

You speak your truth. I am so proud of you

[@soulbeautymakeovers]

Lmao oh I thought I was d only one 🤦‍♀️I totally agree with her ,Nigerian mothers a lot of wat we wer taught we appreciate but it didn’t help !!!imagine someone accusing a wife “why r u always telling ur husband everything,why r u telling him wer u r going🤷🏻‍♀️?isn’t dat d right thing to do?and dat statement came from a lady!!!

[@ChukwuemekaLYONEzeogu]

You're so grown now, haven't forgotten that angel face on our screen. Please, go back to the screen - "egwu imara agba ofuma"

[@Solja88]

God bless and continue to strengthen you.

[@AdefolarinTitilope]

I thank God for ur life ma bcos if you guys are still together this season eh the beating will not measure

[@iamsosasmama]

She has advised well as a true therapist.

[@ritatudeme9990]

Thank God dear ❤

[@JoeBIgLotto]

They are right about finding the Good . Think about it this way You are the positive and him the Negative. Your kids are your Hope . So you said you can’t see the Good but you said you love your Kids . So you are too blind to see your kids are the Good❤❤

[@assumptaudeh6830]

Life is not what you make of it! Life is life. Meaning it could happen to anyone I know it fully well that you didn’t do anything wrong for life to happen to you. It’s just life. But if there’s time you must see the light 💡 at the end of the tunnel Amen 🙏🏻! Big V we thank God for your life

[@icaddieminds]

I feel so much for her. Its so sad.

[@AaimaGlobal]

Life is not how u make it Life is life Word

[@IdrisProgress-dx7hy]

She said life is life.