My Husband’s Double Life Exposed: Should I End My Marriage? | FULL EPISODE | Dr. Phil

[@howdidienduphere]

There's something seriously wrong with that man. His affect is so flat. Never mind what his sexuality is, never mind his lies - there's something very disturbing about him.

[@KH-br3ge]

Yeah, i commented that i think hes brain injured....he sounds like john fetterman after his stroke

[@keneiloemogoatlhe6126]

He’s just off

[@Susannah717]

Nicole, why are you sending signals to your husband that things could be repaired.Just LEAVE,move on, recover you still could do that…..a new life with your son.

[@Stilwell88]

I’d be 100% willing to bet that this husband is a predator as well.

[@Xandra101-xj8ef]

@@Susannah717reconciliation is really pointless. Too much water under the bridge. Get someone else

[@philosopherwithin]

I don’t care if anyone is homosexual or bisexual, I don’t even see it as an insurmountable problem if they find this out later in their lives, post marriage, children etc. BUT I REALLY REALLY HATE LIARS! Dump this man for lying, not for being sexually confused!!

[@wahinepaddler4]

💯 that's exactly what I was saying.. I can't stand lying.. its assuming I'm stupid AF and also ruins my trust.. hate it

[@CrystalMalo-94]

Amen!!

[@cg9616]

He’s been cheating on her, that’s the real issue

[@teehee83]

How do you want him to be honest with his wife when he lies to himself?!?! Come on now

[@kathleenzinkovitch4050]

He’s a child predator , he was waiting for a child monster to get out of jail, no hope for this sicko

[@elainebernier]

This woman should leave her husband.

[@AntiscampoliceTV]

This is a gigolo, not a husband.

[@ziariakagler7292]

@@AntiscampoliceTVlol 😂what the world

[@ziariakagler7292]

I agree

[@WillowBlossoms]

100%

[@ConnorHelbig-t4d]

She should definitely

[@HonestNModest]

The fact he mentioned “losing his house” if he left his wife is incredibly telling on what his intentions are, there might be a deeper reason he is afraid to leave.

[@sharipeterson1126]

He only cares about the house, not his wife. He's extremely heinous. He knew he was gay before he married her so he should have left her alone!

[@MyWhitelye]

He wants his cake and eat it too.

[@phuchyouh7171]

I think that the reason he is saying he doesn't know the guy's name is because it's many many many random dudes and he's trying to save face by saying that it's only one. He is very gay and he is very aware of it. But he cannot admit it.

[@pamelamorrow6214]

He’s PROTECTING the guy. He knew him 20 years ago he DOES know his name and he DOES know the guy’s criminal record

[@margaretbarrieau8895]

Girl... RUN. Betrayal is betrayal, period and you deserve BETTER.

[@belle.m]

That guy is like a robot. He showed no emotion whatsoever. Just dump him for being a cheater, liar and having no feelings whatsoever.

[@BelleWhittington]

LADY, GET SOME SELF ESTEEM AND GET RID OF HIM!

[@hmd2186]

Betrayal is a definite deal breaker. Period.

[@snakeEYESrox]

I thought that too. And then life happened. It depends on what you are willing to work through with your partner.

[@kathleenzinkovitch4050]

I agree

[@kathleenzinkovitch4050]

@@snakeEYESroxthe husband is a child predator, you only think that way because your the cheater. When someone cheats on you it is a betrayal. Especially if you’re married.

[@DolceVita]

I suspect there is a financial reason why he doesn’t want to leave his wife.

[@AntiscampoliceTV]

Money

[@-SleepyNurse-]

Yep he is in the wrong for adultery and divorce attorney hello! He does not seem too bright or all there to live an independent financial life on his own. Kinda old to lose half of everything and start over, especially if he has some organic brain dysfunction, which seems likely just observing him here yikes. Also he lies. No sympathy for liars.

[@bt8736]

You don’t need DR PHIL to tell you LEAVE thats disgusting behavior

[@calliope4293]

Sin, when it is finished, brings forth death-not just physical death, but the destruction of trust, love, and relationships. It poisons everything it touches, leaving behind pain, brokenness, and loss. His choices have not only hurt his wife but have set their life on a path of devastation, all because he chose to follow his desires over what is right.

[@CarolinaTVGirl]

He is so cruel and selfish. I hope she leaves him and gets the wonderful life that she deserves.

[@petalblossom96]

The husband absolutely knows what that guy is into. Chances are he's into that stuff, too.

[@mssandy5494]

Exactly. People with those kinds of perversion know how to find each other. He is such a liar.

[@vivnoname]

I think so too Peta. There’s definitely something not right here.

[@colleenvoncartier5536]

For sure

[@vampesque]

Totally agree he didant looked shocked at all don't let him around kids

[@sportsman4545]

He's pretty shut down. In big denial. Very unhappy. What a mess.

[@sharipeterson1126]

The husband is disgustingly horrible. He's a complete liar by not being truthful to his wife - she's right about that. He's using her to appear normal to the outside world. The things he's intimately done with that man was cheating, and with HIV and AIDS, her husband could infect her. I hope she doesn't let him touch her!

[@carolreid7875]

If Carter is sticking to his story that he doesn’t know the other guy’s name, then nothing he says should be believed. Clearly, he is lying !

[@Valleygirl66]

Exactly

[@calliope4293]

God commands a man to love his wife as Christ loves the church, with unwavering devotion, selflessness, and sacrificial love. This means cherishing her, protecting her, and putting her needs above his own, just as Christ gave Himself for the church. It’s a love that is faithful, pure, and enduring-a reflection of God’s perfect love. To betray this sacred calling is to abandon the very foundation of what God intended marriage to be.

[@joeyg448]

@@calliope4293yeah…that’s really insightful 🙄

[@IceBlue444]

This man is a predator too

[@melodydekleva1543]

​@@calliope4293💯💯💯 and the only people that will disagree are those that do not read the Bible, do not abide by the Bible, and do not walk in faith. Hard truths, but truth trumps feelings.

[@dottiebaylen7568]

"whether he wants to be with a man or a woman doesn't matter"...of course it matters, Phil, it adds an extra layer of deceit on the whole sordid affair.

[@sharipeterson1126]

Yes, it matters because of HIV and AIDS

[@mariealexander5800]

I AGREE!!! Dr. Phil doesn't know everything!! OMG, don't put any blame on this woman.

[@PollyGammy]

He didn’t put any blame on her. Tf?

[@michellesabatinifornaro4859]

It matters a lot. If it’s another woman then the guy is scum , but if it is with a man, it’s not as bad in one sense, bc it’s not a rejection of her and he’s not going to a another woman for something he should be going to her for.

[@michellesabatinifornaro4859]

I think she subconsciously knew things were very wrong the entire time and she blocked it out by drinking,

[@scrillaasap2994]

Her sad excuse of a husband gives me creepy vibes.

[@HiddenTangles]

100% he probably watch CP with that dude. That's why he says he wasn't "gay" I knows these types so we'll it's sick.

[@commentcomment3701]

Even his hair says it all 😂😂😂

[@-SleepyNurse-]

The hair and the small creaky whine voice.

[@Maz-zb9uf]

Stop it 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@melissafoster9701]

No wonder she stayed drunk married to him

[@Truthbetold-b4u]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@jounigames5876]

I think it makes sense these guys have actually been sharing some predator stuff. That's why he tries to say he doesn't know anything about him at all.

[@alieshaott6653]

Yup.

[@carolynpatty3711]

Leave him, he is evil. He never has been honest with you.

[@TheAllyathome]

Never stops surprising me how so many American can let it all air out on national television And I’m surprised I’m still here watching it 😅

[@Mhel2023]

I've seen these same types of shows in Mexico and the Philippines. Drama is worldwide

[@TheAllyathome]

@ I live in Australia here and I know in England when these shows were popular in the 90s early 2000 they just flopped. Not enough of us willing to put it all out there the way Americans do. (And by the sounds of it Mexican and Filipino’s ) There has got to be a whole thesis for some academic in human nature here. On the shows and people like me who watch them 👀😉

[@pamelamorrow6214]

This guy is a LIAR. He knows his partner’s name, he KNOWS his partner’s criminal record. He’s PROTECTING him extremely obvious

[@nicoleflores451]

Sick that his loyalty is to his gay lover and not his wife. She doesn't need dr phil to tell her what to do... get a divorce

[@IceBlue444]

He's a part of the sexual exploitation of children

[@HiddenTangles]

100% and they probably watch CP together. That was their relationship... that's why he kept it a secret. He is a pedo they are both together.

[@tiger1976]

I feel so bad for her... cause after all his BS he has the nerve to blame her for wanting to get sober... big shame... Think of me all you want, i think she should leave his sorry, weak *ss...

[@katrinakatrinakatrina]

28:58 him: “MY child” her: “OUR child” tells me all I need to know

[@elainebernier]

😂If her husband doesn't know this other man's name,then he is much more troubled than you can imagine. It is a serious flaw in his character ..

[@2222quinny]

Yes it is but she has flaws too. Being an alcoholic most of your marriage is unexceptable for her husband and her child. Broken people attract broken people. She said herself she turned up at family events drunk etc. It's been a mess from the start. They both need to move on and fix themselves.

[@pamelamorrow6214]

@@2222quinnyI’d be drunk constantly too if I was married to this guy

[@MaryHernandez-of6cx]

I truly believe no one ever know someone completely.

[@susanlett9632]

NEVER!

[@cherrymnm04]

He’s not in shock about anything. I’d say he already knew that this man was a pdf-file, otherwise his demeanour would be completely different.

[@swimfast724]

That's what I think. I think they're both kind of ganging up and doing this together. Why else with so much secrecy? This much secrecy is not just sleeping with a guy a few times

[@Lightthebeam1980]

So sad. Intimacy is so much more. God bless this woman and her future.

[@eliserobles1657]

If he is gay so be it … but putting his wife’s health physically and mentally at risk due to his cheating is disgusting.

[@eh-i1841]

How cruel,of him,to unburden himself on his wife,and not even completely.He won’t give up his boyfriend,he’s too attached to that side of his life.She can’t give up her sobriety,because of him.Single life is infinitely better,and so is staying sober.

[@pamelamorrow6214]

She was sober for 14 months. Finding out this about your husband would make any woman fall off the wagon

[@jesterday2222]

"Single life is infinitely better". That is such BS. With a decent person a marriage is awesome and sharing this crazy ride together on this planet, the good and the bad, is awesome. You know, with someone who actually has morals and integrity. I will say though that people with morals and integrity are _much_ harder to find starting 20 years back to present.

[@Chickenbean4]

@@jesterday2222I think that’s what they meant. Being single is better than what she’s living with, not better than having a good partner

[@williamhensley8698]

I think his secrets may run deeper than bisexuality and affairs. His hedonistic partner's convictions are troubling.

[@calliope4293]

God has a specific purpose for marriage: it is a sacred covenant designed to reflect His love and faithfulness. Marriage is meant to be a union between a man and a woman, built on trust, commitment, and mutual respect. It is a partnership that glorifies God, fosters love and growth, and creates a foundation for family. When this divine purpose is disregarded, the beauty and sanctity of marriage are diminished, leading to pain and brokenness instead of the blessings God intended.

[@swimfast724]

That's exactly what I'm thinking

[@dinomite078]

The least he could do is be honest and tell her everything. You can tell he’s lying

[@lorriegottschalk4385]

He didnt even know the guys name!? A true out and out liar!

[@cg9616]

He’s a long term liar and cheater. She should never accept this low life

[@jennpul1015]

Is it ok for a woman to be with a man who wants other men? Dr Phil says that marriage can survive infidelity, but i dont think that i could accept a man who has been with another man

[@justv5136]

... why wouldn't it be okay? Men can't get enough of women being with other women, so...

[@DL-ep5uk]

Especially since the other man has been to prison where HIV is spread

[@Holydix]

I bet his wife wouldn’t do it. Dr Phil is full of it

[@radhasen.animalwelfare.5644]

Not me either

[@susanlett9632]

I absolutely couldn't

[@elisabethwelch8871]

This one hurt me. He tried to blame her which is so sick. It’s been him the whole time. Be strong miss lady

[@sojoecherry]

Dr Phil “it would be respectful to make someone come out before they’re ready to come out” the worst thing in the world is to make someone come out when they’re not ready. No Dr Phil that’s not even close to being the worst thing in the world. And what he has done to her way overshadows her asking him if he’s gay and saying just come out. Like this is ludicrous!

[@stutteringtom1]

I think he is afraid of lawsuit cause he certainly doesn't respect guests boundaries in most other situations. He could just Tell him he is gay and end the show lol

[@mikkibubble4711]

I’m stunned how very few of the guests ever say thank you for the help they are being offered.

[@auried4631]

So, she wasn’t easy to leave with, and he? Obviously he is a monster. As a gay man myself I hope he gets the worst karma.

[@anti-h1s]

You are all the same.

[@vivnoname]

@@anti-h1sYou people who hate are all the same. You have narrow little lives and views and no backbone.

[@calliope4293]

He is causing an unimaginable amount of pain. She trusted him with her heart, her future, and her life, only to be betrayed in the deepest way possible. The emotional wounds cut so deep that she’s left questioning her worth, their years together, and everything she believed in. On top of the heartbreak, he’s put her health and well-being at risk, compounding her fear with anguish. The weight of his actions has shattered her spirit and left her grappling with a pain that words can barely describe.

[@jennymccullough9517]

I find Dr Phils protection of the husbands right not to decide his sexuality utterly unprofessional. Any man involving a 3rd party sexually in any marriage is breaking the marriage contract morally and legally. His wife has every right to know why her sexuality isn't his focus. His sexuality is ABSOLUTELY her business. I affects her heart her sexual health and her justice. This husband is a pathetic liar and deliberately hiding the name of a sexual predator yet 'doesn't know'.

[@loridoolaghty3453]

Why is she on this show? The knowledge she already has is quite enough to move on. Man, woman, doesn't matter. He has a long term relationship with someone else.

[@Jkaye13]

I believe she's on the show because she is seeking truth, and knows that she has been lied to for years.. I'm not sure that she got the truth that she wanted, but she will get help moving forward.. when she hopefully leaves her husband.

[@sassysucculent6291]

He's vile get away from him. You deserve SO much better. My goodness if she could see what we see. He's no good. Period.

[@mianewhouse9554]

This man low-key wants Nicole to leave......she doesn't get the hint!

[@animegirl2.068]

Just looking at him, you can tell he's into men. He is just trying to fight/hide it. Honestly, she just needs to divorce him. Once a cheater, ALWAYS a cheater.

[@ginagold42631]

I've been in your shoes. Twice. I feel your pain. The betrayal is the worst part. The lies. Support group? Let's make one!

[@kymerwin8870]

She's so smart and probably awesome to be around and doesn't deserve to have a lying, unintelligent, disgusting man as a husband.

[@Chickenbean4]

Agreed. It’s such a bummer that this man is tearing her down. She is SO much better than him. I hope her self esteem recovers and she’s able to love and be loved again by someone so much better

[@r.b.ratieta6111]

Dude totally looks like he should be a Die Hard villain.

[@DL-ep5uk]

I think he looks like a woose

[@davidihlenfeldt2726]

They are prepared to be interviewed on an international show...wow...

[@mikes.7654]

Sometimes Dr Phil really cheeses me off, but episodes like today where he and everyone else took that lady's side and supported her and gave her help was sweet to see.

[@emorel48]

Sin will take you farther than you want to go, keep you longer than you want to stay, and cost you more than you want to pay". -. R Zaccharias

[@sharipeterson1126]

Her husband has also been looking to cheat with others on Craig's List. He needs to be kicked to the curb. How awful.

[@marilynmcmahon5932]

@@sharipeterson1126 that’s true

[@hekate1971]

Leave. Period.

[@anushkavj]

Oh honey, if he walked into a bar no woman would approach him just because its so clear. Men would go talk him tough.

[@Chickenbean4]

Agreed! Like he’s so gay! Just look at him!

[@-SleepyNurse-]

lol yes. I see so many men where it’s obvious. Something about their movements, voice, micro expressions of the face, diction. This one in particular should be tested for low testosterone…..along with EVERY STD KNOWN TO MAN (and animal cause he is freaky creepy)

[@bitofbrownshuga3061]

I don't care what your sexuality is, Carter is a pos, and she didn't deserve any of it. I hope she finds her peace and happiness without him. Carter is lying to her, and you can see the pain in her face from the betrayal. Shame on him.

[@ste9071]

I don't like this guy, he's vile. He is probably the reason she abused alcohol in the first place, she probably knew deep down and drank to numb the pain. The fact she got off alcohol and took the rose tinted glasses off, gave her clarity and opened her eyes to what was going on, and she caught him. The sad aspect is she turned to what she knew was her escape, alcohol, and seemingly he doesn't care too much either. She deserves the truth, the whole truth, but talking from experience here, she won't get it. I went through this exact same scenario 5 years ago, with my then partner hooking up with other men, but didn't know the guys name, it was BS. To this day I've never believed that, nor will I ever. I hope she finds peace, but sadly she will never trust anyone again, that's the reality of infidelity. She isn't to blame, he is.

[@ellenwitte4679]

Maybe she was an alcoholic before all this. And then he cheated, which is not good but a little understandable when living with an addict

[@ste9071]

I beg to differ in fairness, I personally don't see any reason why a partner, husband or wife, should ever cheat. It's the lowest of the low in my view. I understand context is everything, but your partner having an addiction is more reason to support them and get them help, not fragment them even further and cause their addiction to potentially spiral out of control.

[@nbbim2012]

He used her to have a child. He and that guy are sick. She needs to leave him for her health, sobriety and sanity as well as protecting her child. She shouldn't be beating herself up because of her addiction problem. Staying with him for the "sake of the child" is the WORST thing to do for her & the child.

[@somenygaard]

Sounds gay to me.

[@Truthbetold-b4u]

And looks it from a mile away

[@YaBasicMillenial]

I think partners should start suing the cheating partner for potentially exposing them to STIs

[@crystalpedigo8851]

Nobody has a relationship with someone for this long and does not know their name. This guy is a joke 😂

[@justmissj]

Isn't this the plot from Brokeback Mountain? Edit: after finishing the episode.... i was wrong, he isn't gay, he's A MONSTER.

[@diannajensen1154]

The point is your husband betrayed you and that's a slap in the face. He is in denial that he is gay and that is a marital lie And that's a bigger slap in the face to your marriage.

[@happycatlady2012]

This is so embarrassing. Honey, you are GAY. Go live your life and stop hurting this woman!

[@somenygaard]

The worst thing you can do is to “out someone before they are ready”? That’s not even remotely true.

[@elsabean6791]

Yeah I think it’s a lot worse to lie to your spouse about your sexuality and cheat on them behind their back because you’re not "ready" to be out.

[@Jkaye13]

How does Dr. Phil even say this.. and then follows up with the statement that this husband needs to be transparent with his wife and tell her the truth..?? That makes no sense! In order to tell his wife the truth, he will have to admit that he is gay or at the minimum bisexual.. The coach believes that this man is gay and too afraid to admit it..

[@jessicagolphin3875]

I found out after 7 years of marriage he wanted a divorce I gave it to him after 5 months of couples therapy where I found out. I was so broken but I didn't want to be married to a man who didn't want to be with me.

[@LadyWindsor]

We are supposed to believe that this guy doesn't know his friends name. But he has been to his apt and stayed in contact with him for over 17 years?

[@bt8736]

I’d be mortified lol I am mortified for both of them on national television 📺

[@marshareed1438]

His wife is real life. The man is a fantasy life. Affairs are an escape from reality. More than not if he got divorced he wouldn’t end up with the guy.

[@adrianoparatore7368]

The husband is clearly in the wrong… And the wife is clearly upset… But I do sense that the wife is in someways relieved by her husband’s transgressions because she felt guilty about her drinking and thought he was perfect… Now that he’s not perfect she feels like she can start over with him. That’s why she won’t leave him.

[@Burmeseti]

He has no self respect. He is clearly lying to be able to get the best of both worlds. Courage is not a value he has. She needs to leave and stop asking questions, he won't get the truth out of him.

[@TracyHelt]

Wtf, he said it was release but then says it didn't happen?!? WHAT???? GTFO, He needs to go!!

[@bertwest656]

He causes her to drink.

[@emorel48]

You are as sick as your sickest secrets. Denial is not a river in Egypt. The one thing the Bible allows to cause divorce is adultery. For this woman's own sanity she needs to move on.

[@janedawson335]

I don’t care about his sexual preferences what I cannot wrap my head around is that he takes no responsibility for his infidelity and he’s a barefaced liar

[@calliope4293]

This man’s actions have shattered his home, breaking the foundation of trust, love, and security that once held it together. His betrayal has left his wife devastated and without the support she thought she could rely on. In her pain and despair, she is now retreating to alcohol, searching for a way to numb the hurt and escape the unbearable reality of her broken world. Instead of healing together, his choices have driven her further into darkness, deepening the wounds in their already fractured lives.

[@1965ask]

Hurting people hurt people. Two hurting ppl marry, have unresolved issues; one with alcohol and one with sexual orientation confusion. Recipe for disaster. Hope they both receive the therapy they need for as long as it takes.

[@victoriapell3773]

This is an eye opener.I was married for 33 years.Thought happily.I left my husband in 2019 because he'd been having an affair with a young man since 2016.Water shock

[@jessicagolphin3875]

I'm so sorry but agree I was so shocked it was like I was mourning someone's death

[@Valerie-n7s]

Lock him out of the house.

[@sharipeterson1126]

I was married for 16 years and learned that my husband was gay and his family knew it. They told my kids, and they told me. It explained everything! He'd acted very "swishy" and effeminate and had constantly talked about hating gays - to the point where I realized he was "protesting too much." The marriage was a sham to make the outside world believe he was a normal family man. Even 3 different therapists figured that out with him, and i didnt tell them a thing. He was very cold to me and his kids and never spent any time with us. He knew he was gay when he married me but had something to prove to the church as he also worked for a company owned by them. IMHO, there's nothing worse than a gay man who pretends to love a woman and convinces her to marry him. It's a lonely life, which could be why Nicole drank so much.

[@SayVitaminsEatPrayers]

I’m so sorry u endured that pain 😢

[@uncapabrew4807]

Wow 33 yrs So sorry.

[@Trinidad679]

He has to be one of Dr Phil's most despicable guest ever.

[@walkwithrach22]

This guy and the husband who left his family and beautiful wife for a trans female prostitute. Look that episode up.

[@DenaWalker-d4u]

He won't give up his name because she knows him well. He's probably married to a woman too

[@pamelamorrow6214]

He’s protecting his partner because he KNOWS the guy’s criminal history

[@annahorton650]

Uhh...he's gay. He needs to go and live his life with a man and let this woman live hers. Sad

[@Mooseinclusivity]

In this day and age gay people are so much more openly accepted than in past generations. There was no reason to lie to his wife and do this to her and her children.

[@commentcomment3701]

Im soo mad she's blaming herself 😗

[@donnaw2868]

Hearing that husband talk and seeing him - makes my Gaydar ping loud and clear. I hope this dear lady can get good counseling to help her deal with the betrayal.

[@lesleygraham5527]

I'm sure he wants to get to the bottom..of someone 😂

[@Kdkat2024]

Stooooop😂

[@pamelamorrow6214]

That’s funny

[@melissadarienzo1276]

Lmao good one 😂

[@pdig2963]

If you're gay, you should not be with somebody and be married to them ,be who you are, not somebody that you're not , there's nothing wrong with being gay as long as you're happy and true 🙏

[@Truthbetold-b4u]

These devils must stop getting married to women and destroying them

[@walkwithrach22]

Omg Dr Phil trying to be so politically correct!! Yes it is about him being gay, it means she has zero chance to fix this.

[@DaleenaBarnes]

Why is she doing this to herself? You cannot change someone. She needs to move on for her own peace.

[@ClassicDarling]

I don't care if he's ready or not, do not involve others in your confusion. This poor woman...

[@Hedron-Design]

They both got issues soo deep. He was with her as an alcoholic for many years and he clearly has things to sort out.

[@jondembo511]

My heart breaks for the first woman. When tears started forming in her eyes, i started crying with her. Everything her husband told her is utter BALDERDASH! I was in the same kind of situation but it wasnt another man, but LOTS OF OTHER WOMEN! The agonizing emotional pain of this type of betrayal tears out your heart and soul. Ive been divorced since 2004 but i havent healed from the emotional pain. My ex and i had been mwrried for nearly 25 years. I havent remarried, i dont want to. I dont trust men. I dont trust women. I dont trust anyone. Women who are having a affair with your husband can meet you and look you straight in your eyes without shame. Id rather be alone with my disabled son forever. Please dont respond to this. Thanks

[@diannajensen1154]

Your crazy if you stay with him.

[@Kaleigh_89xo]

The way my jaw hit the floor when he said why he was in prison wow!!

[@jalissamarie6627]

Notice how he keeps saying “my child” while the wife says “our child”

[@Hilhole]

The fact that she's so upset and he has literally NO REACTION is sad asf. He's heartless.

[@danielleschaloe]

I never caught my ex but I knew.....3 kids, 2 men that were sus and 20 yrs into it I just had to leave and it cost me everything. Both men were about 17 years apart and he absolutely will deny and I chose not to force him out of the closet but he could have just been honest and we would have worked through whatever it is/was and make it all work out......

[@helixmoore7636]

Why didn't you file for spousal and child support?

[@JanieBgrand]

Made it work out??? How? How could a person fathom getting over such an utter betrayal.

[@DeviIInADress]

@@JanieBgrandforgiveness is possible for some people... Working it out doesn’t mean they have to stay together, maybe just have a healthy coparenting relationship.

[@ElderEmo19]

He is evasive because he knows the man and what he has done and, really, they may need to look into him too. Disgusting.

[@CynthiaVanSchalk]

Why deny it, you're gay. Just be you and comfortable knowing who you are, and walk away from the woman you chattered. You do not need any help, acceptance of who you are is key! To the wife, run lady, run. You owe it to yourself to lead a healthy life. Praying you will overcome this, take the help offer to you 🙏

[@vivnoname]

I think gay is the least of his problems. He comes more across as a sleazy predator to me.

[@shellhill3142]

Why is Dr Phil ignoring the elephant in the room? This man is screwing another person hugly escalating the potential for sexually transmitted diseases. There is a reason God told people to be monogamous. Too much rust health wise. Huge betrayal of the married relationship.

[@jessieinthewest]

Exactly and gay men have the highest rate of std’s of any group. He’s endangering her life and it’s disgusting.

[@shazj1842]

No, outing someone who's in the closet isn't the worst thing in the world you could do, it's not even close to, marrying someone, lying, using them for 18 years & robbing them of a life with someone better.

[@iwatchtoomuchtruecrime]

Dude is NOT confused in the slightest.

[@melriquajackson8480]

It feels like I walked into a couples argument that I shouldn’t be listening to but I can’t leave..