My Husband Wants Me To Get a Second Job!

My Husband Wants Me To Get a Second Job!
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[@zoeyzoey19]

I may have an unpopular opinion, but I’d rather pay off my debt at a slower rate than miss out on my child’s life. You can’t get that time back. You don’t want to look back on that time and be full of regret.

[@prettydiamonds2343]

I agree! I've seen so many people sacrifice time with thir children just working and buying stuff to impress "the Jones" To only then try to get that time back when they're grown and not understand why they don't have time. It's because they have their own lives now

[@katiefountain2407]

Yes.... Then wonder why your kid never calls or visits..... Loyalty is earned..

[@reesercliff]

That's why you shouldn't have kids until debt free to begin with

[@zzzarkka]

Here is the more responsible approach. Don’t have kids unless you can afford them. Shocking right?

[@neisci]

How preparing yourself financially before having children? We don't lack options.

[@littleripper312]

The problem with men who want their wives to work is a lot of them want them to also continue cooking and looking after the children.

[@jesussaves89]

Exactly. Then they expect cook, clean for them, get chores done, all while saving money and working just as much as they do

[@haleytruslow7200]

Sounds like this guy has no idea how hard it is to care for three kids. A second job would not even cover childcare costs 🤦🏼‍♀️

[@tbaby0307]

You’re right. He’s working 18 out of 24 hours a day. He’s not even getting a chance to be a father to his children. But mom gets to be there and children “NEVER” remember the time they didn’t get with one of their parents. They both need to find another way to work this. Him not being a father to his children isn’t okay. Her being away if getting a second job is not okay. They are in a bad situation for their entire family right now.

[@motivatorlife247]

thats why its important to become ur own boss run ur own successful business

[@sissiemay9603]

Her second job would have to pay enough to offset the cost of child care, and a maid service to keep the house clean.

[@miriam1449]

@@saulgoodman2018 yeah, do you know how much childcare costs for three kids? She would also need childcare most likely at night and on weekends. Incredibly hard to find.

[@sissiemay9603]

Yes. If you get a second job that brings I say $500 a week but you shell out $800 a week for childcare then what's the point

[@msjay5337]

Exactly, I Was thinking the same thing. I Understand he's frustrated but you still have to spend time with your kids not only bonding but helping with their development. They both can't work all the time.

[@gsquared2394]

Don’t need to clean the house much if you’re not there ever because you’re out working all the time 🧐

[@thewifelife007]

@@sissiemay9603 EXACTLY! Thank you!

[@July.4.1776]

Moral of the story get your finical house in order prior to having children.

[@claytonelofgren]

It sounds harsh but true. This also the reason most millennials even with pretty decent jobs still don’t have kids you really need a good amount saved up and a lot of stuff in order

[@littleripper312]

They had kids they couldn't afford and are now complaining about it. If he wanted more money he should have got a better job first.

[@EastCoastReefer]

What a painful and hopeless way to live.

[@Bertuzz84]

I would slap that husband if he proposed something dread full like that. It shows a total lack of respect for her work life balance. He seems like a crazy workaholic.

[@blackworldtraveler3711]

@@Bertuzz84 This is what happens when you increase household number and expenses without thinking and doing the math beforehand.

[@Nicole0627]

@@Bertuzz84 right. And I’m pretty sure she knew his finances weren’t up to par before she married him.

[@stefancoban59]

@@Bertuzz84 lol

[@KC-dr3cg]

I appreciate Dr J's compassion. It's difficult to pick up extra money in some geographic areas. Minimum wage varies by at much as $7 an hour between Minneapolis and Arkansas for example...while Walnart prices are the same .

[@privateprivate8366]

Don’t plan on anymore kids for now. Sounds obvious but, there are a lot of people who won’t even consider that.

[@blackworldtraveler3711]

It's all math and they failed.

[@NewLifestyleMentor]

@@blackworldtraveler3711 they haven’t added up that the more kids they have that they will get deeper into that hole … and will never get out!

[@johniii8147]

Should’ve birth control already So I wouldn’t count on it

[@grizzlybear2702]

If they have a spare room they should rent it out

[@blackworldtraveler3711]

@@grizzlybear2702 No way I would get myself in a financial situation I need strangers in my home for money. My spare room is for working out,stock trading, and online gaming.

[@lionheart93]

Being a mom must be exhausting and difficult because everyone expects you to do so many things. Seems taxing. Be appreciative of your mom's and wives especially if they are working or running a business while helping at home I know some couples in which the woman does nothing. Nothing against that, but a couple with both hustling( one will always do more and that is ok I believe.) will get u ahead of the game.

[@agathachris9722]

Exactly. Taking care of other people's kids and home is a respectable job when someone else does it but your lazy when yoy do it for your own home?

[@anaa03899]

Thanks for recognize not a lot man knows that . As a mother we appreciate your comment 🙂. Have a blessed day.

[@Sovnarkom]

Was waiting for him to find a …. Sell the car … moment; and he didn’t disappoint.

[@ryant2568]

Well if you have a money problem it is either going to be you don't earn enough or your expenses are too high (or both) so selling off assets that are costing you money is a good place to start.

[@zbsuds]

@@ryant2568 I'd change assets to liabilitys, but otherwise nailed it

[@virtuosowins]

Downsize on the car not exactly sell it

[@amydoran9987]

He sounds stressed and tired. I agree he’s overwhelmed.

[@moneybee]

I read that as "My Job Wants Me To Get a Second Husband" hahaha 🤦

[@theanimaster]

Sounds about right.

[@yeislyntorres5304]

😂😂

[@Littleboy1976]

Send her to Nursing School. 💸 😂

[@lionheart93]

I read my husband needs another wife to help pay the debt hahahahaha

[@front331]

Naughty naughty.

[@Ewoonation]

This one needs more context. How much are they making? How much debt do they have? What kind of cars do they have? What can they sell? Etc.

[@privateprivate8366]

Well, Dave has said before to sell so much that the kids think they’re next.😂

[@thewifelife007]

Children are more important than debt, that's for sure. I'd rather just file for bankruptcy than to be away from my kids too much.

[@privateprivate8366]

@@thewifelife007 they are, indeed. But, also consider that whatever debt you leave behind is not theirs, however, they will not be first in line to receive anything that is left from debt, should anything happen to the parents, as far as I understand.

[@alycewich4472]

@Ewoonation - It came in an email. That's all the information they had.

[@blackbutterfly233ify]

@@thewifelife007 definitely don't have kids. You have no idea how to balance money and a family

[@FloydofOz]

They shouldn’t take emails since it doesn’t allow for follow up and clarification. This means the answer is all speculation.

[@Lianne459]

WHo is supposed to watch the kids when the wife is at her second job?

[@miriam1449]

She should just drop the kids off at his work and let him know she works her first job with them he can work his second with them while she works her second. 😂

[@hiddenprofits216]

Family? Daycare?

[@cmmcfielful]

There’s a myriad of jobs than can be done from home. Customer service reps and tech support are a classic example. After this past pandemic year this shouldn’t be an excuse as just about everything besides Manual labor work was brought home

[@hurshrd654]

@@cmmcfielful Depending on how old the kids are that may or may not work. You can’t work from home if they are super small. My niece and nephew are 12 and ten and they are finally old enough to stay home with their dad who works from home. They don’t need his constant attention any more. Grandma watched them when they were smaller.

[@michaelb.8953]

@@hiddenprofits216 Family is a viable option, but daycare is not as it would eat the income from her second income and then some making her working the second job a complete and total waste of time.

[@pic376]

The reason why I chose career first before marriage. I just couldn't see myself working two jobs. I love myself too much to be in that position. I hope they make it. Too many are in that position. Life was meant to be enjoyed

[@ektorkornoo8806]

She already has two jobs PLUS! Any more, and they will need to PAY for significant hours of childcare services AND housekeeping services. And those are NOT cheap in most places in America!! Give the woman a break!

[@July.4.1776]

Those hours will deteriorate your Heath if your much past 35 years old..

[@blackworldtraveler3711]

Don't see how I could deteriorate my health where I worked.

[@EmpressMermaid]

Yeah, Dad won't be much good to the family after he either has a heart attack or serious accident from the fatigue.

[@cassandrarossi3544]

Someone needs to take care of the kids and the house. Good luck. Keep the faith.

[@motivatorlife247]

got to pick and choose your battles because paying a babysitter is way more expensive

[@run4cmt]

SHe already has two jobs, a day job and taking care of the house and kids

[@alittlepieceofearth]

Option three that Dr.D suggested is why my sister's marriage ended. Her husband made a six figure income but didn't know how to manage it. Six figures but constantly broke. She stayed at home, taking care of the home, making meals, doing laundry, getting kids to and fro-- Oh, and home schooling five children-- but because she wasn't also bringing in money, she was lazy.

[@agathachris9722]

So sad.

[@matthewlangley3524]

Hours aren't known for her. Can't know his thinking on this. No matter what, having too expensive cars is a problem. Too expensive of a house is a problem. Stretching the family to cover dumb purchases makes them all the worse.

[@zybard01]

I noticed that once again, a caller/writer question asker left out much needed info. How much debt? What is your household income, how much from his extra 2nd job? Do you owe $50k and make $110k/yr and need to budget more, sell a car? Stop using Dave as a marriage Referee and start asking actual financial questions with financial details...or are you afraid of what Dave will say if he has ALL the facts?

[@fkillah]

This is also on dave for accepting these questions with so little to go by. At least get the most basic info needed

[@kenshinhimura2322]

My first problem is that the husband made the budget with out the wife’s input. Or at least it sounds like it. And the second one is that they’re probably loving over their means.

[@blackbutterfly233ify]

Literally the first couple of seconds says they agreed together, or did you purposely miss that part?

[@bopcooper8974]

If I ever fixed my mouth to ask my wife to get a 2nd job I would feel like a failure as a man

[@queen.kristal8395]

They are both failures why have kids knowing u ain’t making money and have to work all day just to pay bills It is not sustainable at all

[@kojack635]

Well women want equality, so don't feel bad

[@terriesmith2616]

@@queen.kristal8395 Exactly. You're 100% spot on!! 💯 💯 Both of them are failures for bringing children into the world when they can barely survive on what they make. Should've got their finances in order before having children.

[@seckouultimatedrkskin3309]

You sound like a simp

[@bopcooper8974]

@@seckouultimatedrkskin3309 how?🤔 because I believe the man should be the provider? And believe in gender roles? Thats the opposite of a simp.

[@traceyreed9167]

I can’t believe that a psychologist would not see the value of a mother being with the children. Children who are loved do not grow up with attachment issues. It’s investing in their mental care.

[@amandawalker1196]

Where did he say he didn’t see the value in a mom staying home?

[@AdaEstherGJ]

I dont believe he said that. I understood something different based on his comments

[@cuponerita-ahorrativa2689]

When my kids were little, I had to work nights 7days a week,so That I could take care of the kids during the day. But that was because I was a single mom And I had no family to help me out.

[@reneeworkman9987]

Our country has been in bad shape for a long time when we don't have Dad's involved in raising & supporting children. I respect single Mom's or Dad's that can raise children on their own. That isn't how God planned things but unfortunately it is too common. My husband & I struggled to raise our children with both of us working when we could. Daycare was also an issue then. We didn't know how to handle money until we went through Financial Peace after our kids were grown.

[@winninginlife]

I still don't understand why broke people even have kids in the 1st place.... very very irresponsible. It is not your family job to take care of your kids. I see that victim mentality way too often...oh my feel sorry for me because I don't have self control with my genitals and too stupid to use birth control smh

[@cuponerita-ahorrativa2689]

@@winninginlife you don’t understand those women because you don’t have education! You are probably one of those critical,judgemental, and bitter people who are around!🤪

[@liviaclaire]

Who would watch the kids when you went to work? Sorry to be invasive but I am just wondering how you did it since you had no family to help out.

[@geraldwalker7609]

Too much grace on this one, John and Dave.

[@HOLDXSTEEL]

Grace?

[@omarbarre9540]

Exactly what i was thinking right from the get go. Way too much grace, he's a grown man, he doesn't need a spa getaway! He needs a wise brother in Christ or father to speak wisdom into him before he really damages his marriage. A woman marries a man ,, one of her biggest concerns should be, will he provide for the family? And now the man saying go work two jobs... Like Dave said, their are so many problems that come with that, one of them that wasn't mentioned is, someone else raising your kids. The opportunity cost of being away from your kids is also a huge deal.

[@tarac2408]

I have never felt more validated at a stay at home mom as I did at the end of this video. Cooking takes so much time 😅

[@blackbutterfly233ify]

It doesn't take 10 hours to cook a meal 🙄🙄

[@Tunechi65]

i love to cook and do so often for me and gf a lot after i come home from work.. it doesn't take that much time Bum. Get a job

[@lovesophia19]

Don’t have kids if you are not financially ready

[@user-hm2ly7ed4e]

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[@queen.kristal8395]

6:30am to 12.30am is freaking crazy.they had kids they can’t afford and probably working fast food or retail.If I was the wife I will just Work from home when I’m with the kids.also he needs to go back to school because he isn’t making any money obviously if he needs to work 18 hour days

[@EmpressMermaid]

He won't be much good to them if he literally works himself to death.

[@BACKSPIN9ball]

Wife work from home ? I take it you’re assuming she has a degree in computer science. And husband go back to school? In the meantime the kids can fast for three years while he’s in school and the rent won’t be paid aswell during that time .

[@queen.kristal8395]

@@BACKSPIN9ball that’s not what I meant he can still work but not much hours and the wife can fill in while he is in school.

[@Heyitsmaria24]

@@BACKSPIN9ball she could work at home. My sister in law does it. She has a degree in general business. I believe she does some type of marketing for a brand of business. Marketing itself doesn’t require a degree. Her job didn’t it was just a bonus.

[@NadyaPena-01]

The issue is not that the wife doesn’t work. She has a job. She takes her kids to work. Why does she have to get a job from home as opposed to what she already has?

[@maryfields1382]

Sure honey, I'll take on a third job. But, you will need to quit one of your day jobs and stay home with the kids, cook the meals, do the laundry, clean the house, do the grocery shopping, take the kids to school/dr appointments/dental appointments/back-to-school shopping. Shouldn't be a problem...

[@debbiemenghini610]

You are going to blink and your kids will be grown and gone. You will be left with all the material things you worked so hard for and no fond memories of your kids growing up. Slow down and enjoy the journey. It’s not how much you make but how much you spend…

[@user-jz9mp9gy2c]

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[@ryant2568]

Yea but you also have to be able to afford that journey.

[@MsDorcelus]

It sounds to me like they’re working to keep their heads above water. He’s working close to 20 hours a day & just asked his wife and the mother of his three dependent children to take a 2nd job. I’m sure this most likely wouldn’t be the case if they were financially stable. You don’t have the luxury of having an excess of leisure time when you’re in survival mode.

[@EmilyPetersenHomemaking]

That man is nuts for expecting that! Bless her for trying! There is no way he is doing as much as she's doing at home! He gets to leave and not have to worry about cooking or cleaning ect.

[@Mitzi73]

“Eddie says when the baby comes I can quit one of my night jobs.”

[@namelesswalaby]

Merry Christmas Clark the shitters full

[@flaviovalle1656]

🤣🤣🤣

[@thejuliasaro]

Oh I needed this comment!!!!

[@1967davethewave]

I don't think there was enough info to make a good diagnosis of what was going on here. For everyone talking about the cost of daycare maybe she could just sell stuff from home on Ebay or work a couple days on the weekend while the husband is off? I'm not saying this is the case but truthfully we just don't know.

[@ebonykemp]

This sounds like my husband. I feel her pain and I have two autistic children.

[@theresemeggitt8455]

Sounds like both of you have controlling husbands to me. Taking care of your children is what you should do ..wonderful💕

[@cooper1056]

Take care of the kids, no questions about it.

[@FilthyMcNasty69]

What about this poor guy working sun up to sun down...?

[@OldTimerGarden]

Turn you house into a daycare center. That way you don't need daycare for your kids and you can make loads of money while at home.

[@jillpruett4772]

Another possibility is flipped schedules. Availability for work for one spouse is the hours the other spouse can cover daycare. Lot of moms working overnight shift at Walmart because that is when she could bring in a paycheck no daycare bill.

[@user-jz9mp9gy2c]

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[@fourdayhomestead2839]

Sounds like they need to eat more rice & beans (while they re-evaluate the budget)..

[@Kryptic1046]

"You need more jobs woman! I got 14 jobs, I ain't got time for your foolishness!"

[@user-jz9mp9gy2c]

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[@takingbackprofits1280]

She needs to be the saver at home. She needs to coupon clip and figure out ways to better manage the money that he's bringing home. That seems like a pretty good partnership. Theres two ways to make money.... the first way is to go out and earn it and the second is to figure out ways to not spend so much on things you're already going to buy. He's bringing home the money, she needs to do debt/bill reduction.

[@karenday9109]

I would like to see him work full time with two kids at work at the same time! I’m sure she also does all the shopping, cooking, cleaning with the kids there as well! Smh

[@hiddenprofits216]

Oh no I would so rather have to shop cook and clean and get to play with the kids then work as many hours as the husband is 😂

[@theseeker4700]

@@hiddenprofits216 lol try it for a week and see...I give you two days

[@anniealexander9616]

@@hiddenprofits216 You clearly never have 😂😃😄😅

[@bbkr7910]

@@theseeker4700 not a problem for men as stress doesn't affect the men as much as women.

[@theseeker4700]

@@bbkr7910...so guys dont go through stress? There is a reason why childcare providers, teachers, and maid are recognized as professions and paid accordingly, its hard work...yet when a woman does these all plus more shes lazy...

[@kendrarhodes6425]

I hope they can work through these problems to get some of this stress off of them.

[@jeffdorris5321]

Nice work 🎆🎇✨

[@user-hm2ly7ed4e]

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[@shannonzittlow8462]

Maybe she could do some in home child care by watching a couple kids for extra money

[@user-hm2ly7ed4e]

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[@Littleboy1976]

Before I retired. Going to Work was actually a 'break' for me, than watching my three babies. 😂

[@blackworldtraveler3711]

Many husbands and wives I worked with through the years said that.

[@Jane5720]

Ha, that's So TRUE

[@sdot3358]

Dave "Back & the ole days" Ramsey 😎

[@MR3DDev]

Family planning doesn't mean just contraceptives, it means "how many kids we gonna have with the money we make"

[@saramatthews7159]

As a woman I'm so happy to be childfree

[@quinnterry2834]

Big facts!!

[@amcgee5222]

We need more information to give good advice. She should call in.

[@alycewich4472]

@amcgee5222 - AGREED!

[@dscglfr00]

I appreciate Dave's historical knowledge.

[@user-jz9mp9gy2c]

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[@WithLoveAndkindness]

If it is a money problem, see if your second job will make more than his second job. If it does switch roles. Have him stay and watch the kids and do all the chores.

[@djpuplex]

Well if he's worked to death or just leaves she's gonna be in deeper. I'd love to hear his side.

[@user-hm2ly7ed4e]

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[@terriesmith2616]

BOTH of them are failures for bringing children into the world before getting their finances in order.

[@juancarlosmontes]

What is it about gazelle mode, Lady, that you don't understand? 🤣🤣

[@sades_travels1749]

Omg, this is scary. He spends his time working then sleeping, no time for the family. Maybe the wife can look into starting a side hustle that keeps her at home. The reality is, they should not have that much in car payments..

[@alycewich4472]

@Sades_travels - The email doesn't mention anything about car payments. Dave and Dr John were just guessing on what could possibly be causing this crisis, and one of them was car payments, another was too much house, and another was minimum wage jobs which would not be enough for whatever debt they had.

[@NadyaPena-01]

For all the people judging about this couple living above their means (which we don’t actually know) consider this: there are people still living in this vicious cycle who ARE living within their means. They rent in a cheap state, they don’t eat out, and they don’t have nice cars. What then? Sell your kids? Lol

[@richardshook9025]

Too many kids for their job skill sets.

[@user-hm2ly7ed4e]

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[@mercuryrising2424]

If they have expensive cars in their driveway, I am going to blow my lid and I don't even know these people!

[@timetowakeup6302]

Oh you know they've got at least one $500 car payment...

[@CC-sj8hd]

Nah, just sell the kids.

[@AmaraSoGolden]

😂

[@lfashion25]

☝👏👏👏😁😂😂

[@ninio5134]

Lol

[@claytonelofgren]

Men also consider this before having children. In most of America (not wealthy suburbs) it is cheaper for the women to give up her career then to have daycare. Just keep that in mind

[@blackbutterfly233ify]

Do you not realize how taxing that is on women?

[@philipgerry5228]

This is a failure to plan ahead.

[@shellyballard8316]

Tell him if “A Second Job” is what he wants to nickname your new new husband, then sure! Get one 😉

[@user-hm2ly7ed4e]

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[@wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303]

If she is the breadwinner, she is going to be paying him.

[@grizzlybear2702]

If there is a spare room in their house he should rent it out.

[@edhcb9359]

He might not hate the sound of that.

[@bpt249]

I agree with Dave..this is a job problem. The guy needs to find work where he can make more and work less..because working that much and having sleep debt only getting 4-5 hours sleep every night will literally kill you or cause serious long term health issues. I understand the need to hustle and pay off debt but working that much is not safe and should be illegal.

[@jillgott6567]

I have worked 2_3/4 jobs at one time but I am single. I have worked with several women who worked a fulltime job as well as a second job. The husbands for some reason were not working a second job. One guy kept his $ separate and expected his wife to finance the lifestyle. Hmm Dave has a clue about this. Perhaps this couple could use a FREE Dave Ramsey course versus some oth wr s that Dave gives it to

[@gabrielshouse6142]

Do it!

[@douglasbrinkman5937]

simplify your lifestyle, live on less.

[@user-jz9mp9gy2c]

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[@spiceworldgaming]

Just seen your channel today I’m trying to figure how to make more money with the money I have in a trust..

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[@EddieDuranLLC]

People never learn. Get an old reliable car, like a Toyota for about 3k cash and you won't have to worry about payments. Also, don't eat out. If you buy food at the grocery store it is just as tasty. If you know how to cook.

[@modernlegacy5555]

I’m guessing Dad doesn’t know how much childcare cost for two kids nowadays.

[@Eaglejake]

Neither parent has a career. They need to see past Friday. The kids don't need Mommy at home after they go to school at ~5 years old. Plan, now, for a full time job for Mommy. Likewise for Daddy......if you want more money then you need more training, certification, experience, or a license in something else, that is in "demand".

[@NewLifestyleMentor]

The problem with the math is that the income from the 2nd job will be used to pay for child care. You’re not getting ahead that way. And, BTW, stop having kids. That is at least a start!

[@EmpressMermaid]

Exactly, not just that but extra job expenses:clothes, travel, reliance on prepared food, having to pay for things you no longer have time to do yourself. Not to mention the inevitable physical and mental health issues that will eventually develop.

[@user-hm2ly7ed4e]

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[@MsLucky443]

Great show, no she should not get second job. There is a way around it in another way.

[@jonnaborosky8836]

The wife/mother is very exhausted, too! Let's not make this all about him. Let him take care of the kids and house so she can get another job.

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[@maximusdecimusmeridius5438]

Sell everything

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[@ashleyb1091]

It sounds like they need to work together better, maybe get jobs where they work the same hours but opposite schedules and get better income jobs for both. It’s really both of them that need to sit down and talk.

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[@charleshunt3806]

OK it’s really not that hard to figure out if your girlfriend or wife is sitting around all day while you’re at work if the kids are being taken care of and the house is clean And especially if she’s working 40 hours a week on top of that that’s fine but if the kids start getting neglected or if the house starts looking like a pigsty that’s a problem I don’t think that’s what’s going on here

[@SirenOffspring]

Guys might of been that way once Dave, not anymore. What a mother is less and less valued, if not invisible.

[@kablah777]

That can go both ways as well. I have noticed mothers become less and less mothers and more and more friends to their children.

[@bbkr7910]

If that's true then push to end child support

[@xenomorpheusthe1676]

My wife wants me to stay home with the kids.

[@hc1616]

Alot of times their debt is something silly like a truck lol you should never go in any type of debt that big for a vehicle. I understand debt for higher income it’s a investment

[@Arizona_lilly]

Wow sad 😥

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[@lincmerc1581]

"Eddie said I can quit one of my night jobs."

[@amandawithlov3908]

How about they get better paying jobs.

[@jonathanm9637]

I tried that second job thing until I almost crashed my car.

[@John3.36]

So much guessing on this one by the hosts. We have no idea about anything. What debt level? Spending habits? Income levels? Vehicle? Location? etc. We know nutzzzing!

[@jacobshaw2991]

Hm, Dave even agrees that you can’t get ahead working minimum wage🤔

[@wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303]

It will keep her out of trouble.

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[@aftertonightjazz]

Get a second job with 3 kids that she takes care of the the whole time? At that point what is the husband for?

[@Arizona_lilly]

How tiring

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[@petecheng1]

Is there a reason why Dave still doesn't support minimum wage?

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[@wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303]

Because he is on the side where minimum wage is $0

[@ASnakeintheGrass]

It sounds like she's calling home care her first job. A lot of people in the comments seem to think she also has a paying job. Did I miss something?

[@juancarlosmontes]

First 25 seconds: she BRINGS her children to her DAY JOB to avoid incurring the cost of childcare (bcz they both work).

[@ASnakeintheGrass]

@@juancarlosmontes ah, I hear it now. I actually listened to that letter twice and somehow didn't process it right lol. Thanks.

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[@BACKSPIN9ball]

Just hire an immigrant live in nanny for $1000 a month and then focus on making money ,they’re extremely hardworking and 3kids to them is a walk in the park.

[@my-vn8nw]

Nightmare.

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[@ryant2568]

If you can't afford kids you should not have kids.

[@dragonwest5844]

So the bottom half of American people should have no kids?

[@ryant2568]

@@dragonwest5844 if they can't afford them then no they should not have them.

[@dragonwest5844]

@@ryant2568 Well then we should start questioning the system we live in. A system that rewards one person with 200 billion dollars while throwing thousands into the street with no home and starving children in the third world.

[@stud6414]

I'm shook! Dave felt bad for the man!

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[@zach1747]

EAT BEANS

[@justinward3679]

AND RICE

[@connornobbs3487]

Hi

[@TheWezguy]

Isn't this like the whole thing Ramsey preaches? Get as many jobs as you can, attack the debt until you only have the mortgage left? The dude is right his wife should get a second job and the man should get a third job delivering pizzas between his other two jobs

[@mera8785]

A coworker of mine was doing that and he’s dead now. You can’t work 20 hours a day. These people are clearly working trash jobs or paying for things that are way out of their reach.

[@mph5896]

What a dumb conversation. Need much more information to provide decent advice.

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[@controversialtruth8800]

Daloney is full of Baloney! As he breathes through his nose into the mic and says “ he hears an exhausted man”. 🙄 oh shut up! How about the woman that’s raising a family AND working?

[@theresemeggitt8455]

Get a new husband... he is a psychologist? Really..😳

[@bruceelniski]

What American society needs is a better social safety net rather than the blame-the-victim game. People sleep in tents by the thousands because they are driving expensive cars???

[@thrillmonkey]

The tent villages are due to the massive drug addiction epidemic in this country.

[@fox4534]

@@thrillmonkey they do play the victim also

[@superblump87]

People are not living in tents and driving expensive cars. Not sure where you heard that.

[@josephinenelan4204]

The money for what we have is already mismanaged, and the efforts to care for homeless by shoving them in hotels (which destroys them) without dealing with the drug addictions and mental illness needs to be addressed first. Kind of like when you make a budget and feel a little richer. If stuff was managed properly and efforts addressed *root* causes, not mere symptoms, it'd look a lot better even with the resources available now. Throw in some common sense and America's current social safety net would look better.

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[@Exoticbuttters]

Sounds like her husband has a second family.

[@TheDjcarter1966]

Could be paying $500-$750 per month for a couple kids that aren't at home

[@Garebare1]

Def not what it sounds like

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[@blackworldtraveler3711]

@@TheDjcarter1966 Or not even his. Many 30 and 40 year olds are finding this out through DNA and other circumstances from parents especially the mothers.

[@dianecelento4974]

Come to think of it I agree