my journey thru grief, my hopes and belief.

[@wandalowry6448]

I lost my only child on March 14th, 2024 and it’s been by far the worst nightmare I’ve ever had to face. My son had a massive heart attack with no health issues or red flags. He had aspergers and always lived at home. He was 33. I know he’s in heaven and safe but my Mommas heart still is so shattered. I hold onto the Lord every day of this horrible journey.

[@lenandcindypresley....4830]

Hello Wanda. I'm deeply sorry for the loss of your dear son. I don't know what that feels like , but I know you are devastated. I'm happy to hear you believe he is heaven and that you will see him again. Where would be without hope, how would we even live without that blessed hope. I can only imagine what it will be like in heaven , few can. But it will be beyond our beliefs. Hold that hope tightly, Wanda, as I'm sure you do. We have many great memories to sustain us and the love of God to carry us through, till that day, come what may. God bless you and keep you Closer each day.🕊❤️

[@kathypolomcak7760]

2 years 5 months now for me I still miss my husband but I don't cry as much anymore I thank God I have my son and my daughter-in-law and my grandchildren I know I am blessed my son is almost got all the crops planted next he's cutting hay life does go on before my husband died he made one farm 104 years old Eileen on God I give it to God and I'm grateful❤

[@lenandcindypresley....4830]

Thank you, Kathy, For sharing ,I picture it in my mind ❤

[@kathypolomcak7760]

Thank you sir I hope you are doing well too 🙏

[@rustyshackleford1303]

"Life is suffering. And if you don’t believe that, wait." - Jordan Peterson

[@DeborahHilson]

Living their best lives with Jesus! God wastes nothing so He will use our stories. I hold onto this. God bless you!

[@thomasressler]

May the Lord bless and keep you, Len. I'm praying for you.

[@lenandcindypresley....4830]

Thank you so much , we all need prayers, it's what is most important in everything and for everyone. God bless...

[@beatleme2]

loss ,m y wife of 13 yrs 8 1 23 to cervix cancer tumor was only 50 within 3 mths n not expecting thought it was menopause n siatic nerve butt pain to find out it was a tumor n bleed out on th op.. still can't sleep good n cry every day, loss most of my family as well n being a caregiver for my mom at 82 no friends no kids n only my sis comes by here n there - leaning on the lord, im 52 now yet feel 92 my mom has more energy than me most days... prayers for all of us

[@Susan_1]

I read thru all of these beautiful posts about missing and grieving so much...I was married for 24 years, I dont think I grieve like normal people, Like I said in my first comment I had about losing him in Feb 2023, but the last 10 years were really hard for him and me. I feel guility because I feel relieved in a way. God forgive but its how I feel. I know he was saved and is with the Lord now with a brand new and better life than he or me or anyone could ever have on this earth and Im thankful for that😊

[@lenandcindypresley....4830]

Hello susan Thank you for sharing your thoughts here. Your voice can make a big difference in someone's life, like mine. Grief is universal, and God uses it to bring us closer to Him, I believe. I don't claim to understand it all, but what I believe I share in hopes that it may help some. I'm sorry for the loss of your dear husband. It does leave an empty hole in your life when you lose your partner in marriage. I certainly get it. Everyone's grief is not the same, although the circumstances may be quite similar. My main concern for all is a personal relationship with our heavenly father thru Jesus Christ, our savior Lord, and God. If I know this to be true for them and in them, I'm not worried about them. I wish it for everyone. Even my enemies. It is an amazing thought that we will see, so many things beyond our imagination. But just seeing our savior and our beloved spouse is gonna be number 1 and 2 on our list ,I think... God bless, My friend...🕊☝️❤️

[@meninagreen5704]

Gee, Len, I'm glad you posted, was worried about you. I just had a startling event, was trying to download an image and an old photo of my husband popped up. He was ill, but that photo was so precious to me. Maybe a visit ? It hurt horribly, tho, and it's been 5 years. I'm glad you're still there!

[@lenandcindypresley....4830]

Maybe a God wink, To many things are unexplainable that we go thru in our grief journey. We have God's word , and we have each other's experiences. Maybe all we need to keep going I have found many photos of our past and my past I will share in future. God bless you my friend ❤🙏🏻🕊

[@kathryntaylor2170]

Well it will get better every day that goes by. I know for my husband passed 10 yrs. Ago. Still have my bad days yet. But Jesus will carry u through. I would have made it without Jesus. I was ao close to my husband. We loved each other so much. We both were in the ministry together. We worked for God. We traveled over most od America preaching the gospel. God bless u is my prayers. Love hearing u talk about the Lord. Also giving people a chance to accept Jesus as their personal Savior. Have a blessed Sunday is my prayers.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@lenandcindypresley....4830]

Thank you so much for your encouraging words. Heaven is waiting with all its glory. We just have to wait a little longer. Many yet need to know the truth of the Gospel. God bless, my friend 🌍✝️🛐☝️🕊

[@myraloftis-ed1mv]

Your encouraging words have helped. 13 mos widow. I'm 78

[@myrtlegranger3443]

Len, even though you’re still hurting, I can tell you’ve come a long ways. Hang in there. Did you go back to work yet? I’m thinking about it. God Bless❤️🙏

[@lenandcindypresley....4830]

Hello my michigan friend, Always good to hear from you. God bless🕊🙏🏻☝️

[@npenick66]

Those cats do add something to life. Not sure if it's good or bad but it is something. My late wife's cat Mandu and I used to happily ignore each other but since Kim passed this January that cat is like velcro. Can't go anywhere or do anything without her right in the middle of it. She sleeps on my wife's pillow at night and it is comforting to be able to reach over and pet the fuzzball when I wake up in the night. I don't wish grief on anyone, it's the toughest experience that I've dealt with, but it is helpful to see how others are dealing with it. It's uncharted waters for me so watching how others navigate the shoals gives me some direction.

[@lenandcindypresley....4830]

Thank you for commenting here, Our cat sandy did the same for me. I'm so sorry you have to be in this place of hurting with so many others. It is a place no one wishes to enter, a world filled with emptiness, loneliness, and isolation at times. You go through the motions of living, but you feel as if you are separated from your own life . It has taken me many attempts these last two years to experience joy again, if only briefly. Never give up. Time is everything now. You need it to pass at your pace no one knows you like you do except God. He was and is my salvation. God be near. God bless...

[@MarkPychuhiCutshaw]

Good to hear from you Len its been a while .I am still grieving feels like its never ending .It will be year this June since the Love of my life passed feel so alone but I know Jesus is always with us .Praying for you brother

[@fareedomar3748]

Hi. I am grieving every day, and I lost my husband for 1 year and 6 months now. People say, keep yourself busy doing things, which help a bit, but they don't understand how you are feeling when you are alone at home,, like in my situation.

[@LeilaniAustria-l2v]

Hi Len..thank you for sharing.. Take care,someday we will smile again..

[@irisperez5560]

Thanks for your words of encouragement. GOD BLESS YOU.

[@mrose4685]

Your videos have helped me so much Len. I have started my own channel as I lost my darling husband of 20 years on December 1st 2023. But the pain this week has been unbearable. Not able to do anything but cry. Thank you for your prayers. God bless you ❤

[@lenandcindypresley....4830]

I'm deeply sorry for the loss of your precious husband . You have a lot of things and emotions surrounding your every moment at this point. You feel like a stranger and not aware of anything but the hurt that rests heavily upon you. I know , many here do, all of us on this journey are trying to get thru another day with the painful process of grief leading the way. You mentioned starting your channel of your personal experiences on this road so many travel . I applaud your endeavor , it can be helpful to you and to many others. But it can also affect you reading and hearing the hurting of others. It is worth the price to help to heal. God bless, my friend....🕊🙏🏻❤️

[@rustyshackleford1303]

Rose, I know exactly what you mean about the pain being unbearable and not able to do anything but cry. I’ve felt that way many times since the loss of my beloved wife. I’m hoping God sends you comfort, even if just a little bit. Remember, you are valuable and you are loved! God bless you!

[@wendysullivan1909]

Glad to see you back.hope all is well. God bless. And every one else God speed on this journey. ❤

[@lenandcindypresley....4830]

Yes, thank you Wendy ❤️🙏🏻🕊

[@jenmidwest2432]

Hi Len, nice to see you. I am still missing my husband. Some people think I should be "over it" by now. Sad/hurtful. You take care and don't forget about us. I think of you often.

[@npenick66]

I hear that. My wife passed unexpectedly almost 4 months ago and I've already had relatives ask me if I'm 'over the hump' yet (Army family) or if I'm dating anyone yet. They were asking me this before my sons and I scattered her ashes. We had just celebrated our 20th anniversary, she was 52. I pray for patience because even though I wouldn't have been that clueless I wouldn't have understood. There is nothing that can prepare you for unexpectedly losing your spouse. As bad as it has been I can't even imagine what those souls who have lost a child are going through. I've seen so many who are dealing with the loss of a child on the various grief forums.

[@lenandcindypresley....4830]

Hello Jen, We will be over our grief when our grief has stopped. For some, it will not , At least here. I am further along then last year ,and I have begun to adjust fairly well. I believe and feel that I can go on to begin to live again. I am not over this , missing her in all I do. But I have a blessed hope, and I will be alright. I know she is extremely happy, and that is good enough for me. for now. Have a blessed day jen...❤🕊

[@jenmidwest2432]

@@lenandcindypresley....4830 Thanks for responding to me. I am still not doing as well as I think I should. I have lost friends over this. I am so alone, Len. It is awful.

[@pattyd8480]

So good to know you're gradually healing from your grief. Your channels have created a place of comfort for others who are mired in grief. You offer hope by showing them how Jesus is faithfully healing your heart. I hope you will continue to post your thoughts and progress. Viewers and subscribers find encouragement in listening to you. Sharing their burdens with each other and praying for those new to the devastation the loss of a beloved one can bring helps more than you may ever realize. May God immeasurably bless your life. 🤗

[@lenandcindypresley....4830]

Thank you so much, Patty, for your encouraging comments. God bless...🙏🏻❤️🕊

[@candidaherron6130]

I thank you every time you post Len ! I still miss my husband dearly 😔 but as I say every time I know I have to live on . I will . I'm more out and about now a bit more and good conversations just help so much. God love you !! ❤️

[@lenandcindypresley....4830]

Hello Candida, So good to hear from and about you. We are getting thru this , bit by bit, but at our own pace. Keep God in 1st place in your life, and you will you be able to receive his blessings He so desperately wants to give you. Things may not always go as you desire them to , but the Lord has a plan for YOU , and for all of us. He knows us better than we do. God bless you my friend...❤🕊

[@candidaherron6130]

@@lenandcindypresley....4830 Thank you Len for those words ! 🙏❤️

[@mohancharles3158]

I lost my darling wife in January 2024.The pain and suffering I am undergoing is excruciating and unexplainable because of her absence in my life.I feel half dead and lifeless at times.I never thought it will be like this.Strength and courage and blessings from Lord Jesus Christ is our only hope! Lord help all the people everywhere who are struggling with grief and utter loneliness!Also thank God for the family and friends who are there to support.Greetings from Colombo Sri Lanka with love for all the people of good will!😢😖🌹🌹🌹

[@lenandcindypresley....4830]

Thank you for leaving a heartfelt comment here. All these will help someone somewhere at some time. I think most of us who walk this road understand every word you say without hesitation. You are still in the early stages of grief, but it is not necessarily the hardest times you will be going through. In my case ,my sadness and loneliness were up and down for over a year. It was well into my 2nd year that I began to actually accept my life as no longer a team effort but an individual on my own self-worth and cares. Quite a trying, dying, and crying experience to get where I am now. It is not always so difficult for some , but for me, it has been a ruff and darkened world of painful processes. Only when I turned my life over to God's promises did I begin to live once again one small moment at a time. This was a hard lesson for me. I understand it now, mostly . I hope the Lord Jesus will give you the same gift of wisdom and compassion for others that He has for me. Helping others was one of the most important parts of my healing. Telling God exactly how I feel about everything was the other. I hope to hear more from you in the future. God be near, closer each day...🙏🏻🕊☝️

[@akfinn5308]

Lord help you. My sweetheart left my side to be with Jesus almost two years ago. Place your confidence in the Lord. He had this planned out beforehand. Try to do the things that make you feel good. Cut yourself some slack for a while. Let God and His Word help you.

[@mohancharles3158]

@@akfinn5308 thank you god bless you

[@pauljennings2839]

Dearest Len. Hello from the UK. Its been 9 months since I lost my dearest wife, friend and soulmate of 36 years. She was only 54 😢 your videos have helped me through because you just say it as it is. I’ve no children or family left to speak of either and I’m lonely and hurting every day. I do trust in God but there are times when it falls short. I read two things recently: first from a widow who said that “all her emotions were amplified by the grief of a deeply wounded soul”. I thought that was beautifully put and I can certainly identify with it. And secondly that whilst we can find joy in Gods creation in the good things, we also need to accept the bad (our own story and what we see in the world) and we have to accept its all part of the same and think “yes, that too Lord”. Thats hard. I do care about world events but now realise how transient and temporary it all is. Anyway, im rambling a bit so I’ll stop . Just know that you are definitely not alone. I pray for you regularly and am sure many who watch your videos are doing the same. Every blessing to you and anyone else who is reading and grieving.

[@lenandcindypresley....4830]

Hello Paul, Thank you for replying to us with your feelings here. I'm so sorry for the loss of your dear wife. Losing your spouse is one of the most painful experiences to endure in this life. Everything changes. You have to adapt. It is a process that may take years. I feel I have begun to accept what I can't change and change what I can and start a new life. My wife will always be in my torn heart. I will keep her memory close, but I will live to be happy once more as she would want for me. The loneliness is the hardest part of grief, for me. I can only trust in God's promises to heal the broken-hearted. God bless you my friend...🙏🏻

[@pauljennings2839]

@@lenandcindypresley....4830 oh yes Len, the loneliness :( and at the moment the thought of a new life terrifies me. But I know you are right and I thank you for your encouragement. Once again, every blessing.

[@JoshLeon2024]

My beautiful mum, grieving Gitti from Germany, came across your videos and kept watching them. Having lost her kindhearted husband for years recently, she's no longer the person she used to be. My siblings and myself do anything we can to comfort her but she is in a constant fear of loneliness, although we are often around. Our mum, being I guess a little younger than you, is sharing your inner emotions, feelings and maybe there is a bit of hope that you two guys might connect in one way or another. I wish you all the best for a brighter future. Greetings from Germany ~ Josch

[@lenandcindypresley....4830]

Hello Josch, I understand some of your mums feelings. This is a terrible place to enter this grief from our great loss. I am currently uploading a video. Maybe it can help, even a little. She is experiencing the most horrible truma a heart can endure. The loneliness and fear are overwhelming. Here is a hug to your mum from a person who gets it. 🫂🕊 God be with you and mum. ❤

[@kathylaho3344]

I lost my husband in Jan 2024 I feel like I lost my life. I wonder how to go forward but I know I will somehow. Praying for all those living through grief

[@MAvila744]

I am sorry, Kathy. It is all so new. My husband passed January 2023. I understand how you feel. Sending hugs!

[@williamclymer1602]

Lost my wife after 53years , the pain at time seems unbearable. .god bless you sending prayers 🙏🙏🙏❤️‍🩹

[@marilynb8136]

I can relate. My husband died in October of 2023. He'd been terribly sick for years. His suffering is over. But I miss him like crazy. Life just sucks when you're grieving . Hugs to you

[@aaronrich9340]

God I lost my 18 year old dog. You guys have been with your significant others longer than I’ve been alive my heart goes out to you all. My wife and I are 11 years happy. I will cherish every moment with her and the kids

[@householdsix1307]

April 2024 for me. ❤

[@MAvila744]

Hello, Len - You sound much better! It is good to see that! I am still struggling but I am getting better. The worst part is the loneliness. My husband and I did not have children. We did everything together. I think when you lose your spouse under those conditions it is that more difficult to adjust. I have 2 stepchildren and 6 step grandchildren. Our relationship is good. But they live a distance so frequent visits are not possible. Finding ways to stay engaged is essential and takes work but it’s necessary. Looking forward to your next video. Take care of yourself. Those of us who have lost a spouse really experience intense grief. Stay close to God. Pay attention to how God really does take care of us. He really loves us.🙏🏻🤗

[@lenandcindypresley....4830]

Thank you for your comments mary🕊❤️🙏🏻

[@cee7105]

That was very beautiful 🙏

[@lealugerlynch802]

Absolutely ❤

[@lvnnlvnlife3290]

Len, I am six months in and it is encouraging seeing you look you are feeling more like yourself again. I feel like my heart has something missing and it is hard to look ahead at my life without my wonderful hubby. I try to make plans but they seem empty. I think connecting with people who loved someone like I did helps so much. The understanding . I do have kids and it is hard to help them with their grief being so deep into my own. I am trying. I lost both parents so I do know what it feels like to lose a parent. Not the same pain, but pain none the less. Good to see you and will watch your video when you post it. Stay strong, keep smiling even when you don't feel like it. It may bring a smile to someone else who needs it. Thank you💔

[@lenandcindypresley....4830]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate everything you said. Life will begin again, sooner for some, not so soon for others. God bless you and yours...🕊❤️🙏🏻

[@ehsoule]

Thank you so much for the videos Len, you have helped bring people together that just want answers and to be around those that truly understand. I can’t believe it’s almost been a year and a half since I lost my wife of 27 years. Mornings and days off are still hard for me but I’m learning how to cope and I’ve learned to do chores and tasks during those few times I feel up to it and go full speed ahead on it. None of us asked for this and I guess the challenge is trying to figure out who we are without that person and who will we become. Thank you again Len.

[@hiskid4eternity]

Hi Len, friends are good, I am praying for you and this journey you are on. It's good you are sharing with others. ❤🐱

[@lenandcindypresley....4830]

Thank you, God bless 🕊🙏🏻❤️

[@boonicholls6649]

Will look forward to your next video. I am still struggling with my broken heart for my beloved husband. Thankyou for your prayers. We still need you Len....You bring a lot of comfort to so many of us who find it hard to face each day without the one we love most. How l wish he was here to hold my hand and wipe my tears... God Bless You Len🙏

[@lenandcindypresley....4830]

Thank you very much, I'm not quitting yet. As long as God allows, I'll keep sharing my feelings with you and everyone. I appreciate all of the information that is shared here. God bless...🙏🏻🕊❤️

[@edschmitt541]

Blessings to you Len. Been seven months. Just taking it one day at a time. I does start to get somewhat better and a bit easier mostly. We must remember that all of our needs are met through Christ Jesus riches in glory. He is with us every step of the way.

[@npenick66]

I hear you. I'm coming up on four months. Some days are ok, some not so much. It was unexpected, she seemed to have a mild chest cold and went to take a nap, she didn't wake up. Turned out to be the flu, she was 52. I don't understand, she was a much better person than I am and a much better parent to our special needs son. I have to have faith that there is a reason and try to rise to what is being asked of me. I think that she would be proud of how we are dealing with her loss and I pray that I can live up to God's plan.

[@lenandcindypresley....4830]

Hello Ed Thank you for commenting. 7 months is still a short period of time for many. I was doing good around then, but things became pretty bad for the next 7 months . It was an up and down existence. Through it all, I learned to trust in Jesus. I'm still learning. That will never stop, I think. God bless, My friend...☝️

[@cliffmoore1360]

It’s good to see you again, Len! I don’t know if comfort is the right word to use but you speak to my heart. We know that the pain of losing the love of our life will not go away. We adapt for the time being. It’s been almost a year and a half for me. Emotionally the most difficult time of my life. Like you, I know that my wife is in such a wonderful place. We miss them! We miss the interaction that we almost took for granted. Tomorrow I am taking a trip to a place that my wife and I did about twice a year until COVID. It’s not going to be the same without her but something inside tells me I should do this. I break down a number times as I have packed for this trip. I’ll either regret doing this or I will come back saying I am glad I did this. I can understand how doing these videos is helpful. There is something about sharing and helping others that helps you as well. Our wives will be waiting for us when we cross over. Like you, I welcome that day but I know that there is a reason I am still in this world. I have to make the best of it. I do have a Son and Daughter and 7 grandchildren. I’ve been helping my Daughter, who is a single mom purchase a house. That doesn’t mean that I am not lonely. Most of the time I am on my own. So I guess what I am trying to say is that regardless of whether you have children or not, the emptiness and loneliness hits us all. I know that this is kind of long but I have one more thought to leave you. I have written to you before so I don’t know if I told you this. I lost my wife suddenly and unexpectedly. I was with her when she passed. It was a traumatic experience. Looking back, I would not want to see her go through a lingering illness. She loved life and loved being active. Watching your videos, I know that it was painful for you, what you went through. We know each other’s pain all to well. There are millions of us out there but we suffer alone. Every day I take walks. I talk to God as I do.I also tell my wife what is on my mind. Thank you for sharing with others your journey. Cliff

[@lenandcindypresley....4830]

Thank you, Cliff, I hope this response finds you in a good place. Doing the things you did as a couple is both hurting and healing in one degree or another. It has helped me to move out of my depression in sorrow. I talk to my wife still, I even answer for her. We do what we must to live thru our grief. We know us best next to God. I'm glad to hear of your family they grieve in their own way. They will look to you, no doubt. God give you strength, wisdom, and peace. Hope your trip is a healing to your loneliness and pain. God be hear , My friend...👍🏼

[@2010seajay]

It’s only been about 7 weeks for me. I hate it so much. It’s a nightmare. I’m a 51 year old widow. There is too much life left.

[@npenick66]

You are not alone. There is nothing that I can say or do that will help at this time. I'm coming up on 4 months next week. It was unexpected, my wife was 52 and just seemed to have a mild cold. Turned out to be the flu, she just went to take a nap and didn't wake up. We had just celebrated our 20th. I still haven't come to terms with the word widow/widower. All I can think of when I hear it is the spider. But we have a severely autistic teenage son so I have to be very stoic on the outside so that I don't upset him. The main thing that has helped me is trying to focus on the present. I 'schedule' dwelling on the past or fears of the future for when he's in school or asleep. It's a mixed blessing, it helps to be able to push the feelings off until later in the day but the nights are so quiet. Exercise, sunlight, making a list of chores for each day. It doesn't always help but it keeps me moving forward. Some days it feels like I woke up in an alternate reality where everything is wrong. But the only direction is forward. I grew up in a military family and kept hearing the phrase 'if you're going through hell, keep on going'. I know it doesn't help but it does give a direction.

[@lenandcindypresley....4830]

I'm so sorry you have to face this nightmare. I hated it and still don't like it much. You are not alone in your feelings there. At your moments of deepest sorrow, think about the best of your times together. Tears will be your friend in the good memories and the painful ones. I cried my own little lake, I called it Lake len. I still add to it, just not as often as I once did. The tears will be a friend, for some time to come. I went through the whole process of anger, fear, doubt, hate, and many more colors of the grief spectrum. I think I have come full circle in this journey. I can only say that my faith in God has carried me thus far. I can thank my wife for that. She was the strong one. I'm asking Jesus to bring you a gift of His mercy to comfort you and grace to guide you through this horrible journey in grief. God bless... My friend...🙏🏻🕊❤️

[@debbie9955]

Dear Len, thank you being here and I too don’t have any children thats okay now and sadly to admit in todays News never in my lifetime have I seen so much heartbreak from parents. I’m not going to get in my lifetime hurts but will say, if all I have is Jesus thats more then enough. He is REAL and Angels too. Keep being strong do the best you can Jesus is there with you and the way this world is spiraling a down path in prophecy you will at any moment be face to face with Jesus and your eternal family in no words can express beautiful Heaven. God Bless you brother💖

[@lenandcindypresley....4830]

Thank you, Debbie, I love everything you said here. Without my faith, where would I be? It is the most important part of my life now as it should have been before. You are absolutely right. The times of trouble are upon us, I feel. This world doesn't seem like home anymore. But I will make the best of it all if God allows. One day ,very soon, we will see our savior Jesus . And my sweetheart wife will be there. I can wait , if I must. God bless my friend 🙏🏻🕊❤️☝️

[@Susan_1]

I just stumbled on your channel and when I seen the word grief....I lost my husband Feb 2023. He hade ms and two failed back surgeries, the last 10 years of his life were not good. I'm am thankful I have the Lord Jesus to help me thru it all. God bless you🙏🙏🙏

[@lenandcindypresley....4830]

Thank you, Susan, for sharing your feelings. I'm sorry , we all are sorry for your great loss. I can not imagine having to be a caregiver and spouse for so long. My cousin went thru this. she took care of him for About 9 years of sickness, then he died quickly. My cousin was both sad and relieved that he wasn't suffering anymore. What is that like, I don't know. God bless you with His peace and comfort throughout the years ahead... 🙏🏻❤️🕊☝️

[@sherryclingenpeel9304]

Hi Len, I've missed you on here. You and God have brought me through the worst. I thank you for that. We were married 38 yrs didn't know he was gonna pass, I am alone all the time, I feel your pain. May 20 is 2 yrs 4 me. Ty for the hug. Love the beard. God bless and shine upon you.

[@lenandcindypresley....4830]

Hello Sherry. Good to hear from you. That special date is fast upon you. Mine came and went before I knew it. I did ok . You will, too. I believe. I'm praying you will find peace and comfort throughout this next year. I'm running behind on my next video. Take care sherry, God bless...🕊❤️🙏🏻

[@rabick62]

Len, always so great to see one of your video's. Thank you for taking me along on your grief journey. You have always spoken my thoughts so many times. Been a while since Nov. of 2021 when my dear wife went Home. I have slowly learned to live with the loneliness and like you I don't think of my wife continually like before, but when I do it hurts almost as bad, just not as often. One of my dear friends who lost his wife has turned the corner just like our friend Jack Church did. I am happy for them, but for me my tears still haven't dried yet but I'm doing some better. I have come so much closer to Jesus and he has helped my sorrow so much and given me Hope. I would like to say to the newly grieved that it does get easier. I didn't believe it at first, but hang in there and do your best, prayer helps so much. Wishing us all Peace and Comfort.

[@lenandcindypresley....4830]

So good to hear from you. We are at the same place, I think. I still don't like this life too much , but I have made an effort to keep moving forward with the Lord as my Shepard. It is just a matter of time before I experience real peace and joy again ,in this life and certainly the next. God bless, My friend.

[@vedrakuca]

Sending you love and hugs

[@lenandcindypresley....4830]

Back to ya ❤️🫂🙏🏻🕊

[@robertzabick1030]

You helped me through my roughest time Len. So thanks for our journey together. It's been 3 years, since my wife died, and it does get easier at times. Looking forward to your video.

[@lenandcindypresley....4830]

Hello robert..

[@julial1450]

Your videos gave me comfort sorry about your wife also lost my husband Jan of 24 so unexpected did not know life was going to be this difficult thinking of all grieving

[@brookemcgillivray180]

Glad to see this video pop up. Your faith and trust in God is so strong and a great testimony. Looking forward to your next video 😊.

[@lenandcindypresley....4830]

Thank you so much!

[@robynsimmons3711]

It’s so good to see you again Len. I’ve been wondering how you’re doing. Glad that you’re at least a little better.

[@lenandcindypresley....4830]

Thank you robyn...🕊❤️

[@randolphgresham2844]

I am happy you are a little better, I will still pray for you. Randy Gresham

[@lenandcindypresley....4830]

Thank you, Randy. I'll need it , we all do. God bless

[@fareedomar3748]

Hi Len. Thanks for posting your latest video and looking forward to seeing the next one. I appreciate it. Yesterday, I felt quite sad thinking, remembering my husband. I cried. I don't share the same religion as you, but yes, praying does help, although on some occasion I cry during prayer. I don't belong to a counseling group since I prefer connecting with a person who lives close by who like myself is grieving. I hope one day I will meet this person. Yes, we need to move forward but when the sad flashbacks strike, or when you start feeling he is not there anymore, you feel hurt Sorry for this long text, but thanks for reading.

[@lenandcindypresley....4830]

Thank you for commenting here. Others will benefit from your words and your feelings. I certainly do. God bless you with peace and guidance...🕊❤️🙏🏻

[@fareedomar3748]

@@lenandcindypresley....4830 Thanks for responding/reading my comments. God bless you.

[@maryannwhitten5123]

Good to see you again Len, was worried about you, and wondering where you are and how you are doing! So glad you are ok, God bless, & take care!

[@lenandcindypresley....4830]

Thank you maryann.🕊🙏🏻❤️

[@mangisty1007]

Missed you Len! Looking forward to your video🙏🏼

[@lenandcindypresley....4830]

Thanks for your comment. 🙏🏻❤️

[@anicimarais4703]

Hi Len so nice to see you again ❤️ South Africa 🥰

[@lenandcindypresley....4830]

Thank you for your encouraging comments....🕊❤️

[@denisecarroll9736]

Our beautiful daughter and only child passed away suddenly in the middle of the night a little over a year ago …she left behind 5 beautiful children and a sweet loving husband … I’m in deep grief still BUT 2 weeks ago their family home burned down they lost everything HOW AND WHY WOULD THE LORD DO THIS??? … they live one block away MY DAUGHTERS BEAUTIFUL HOME GONE !!!😢😢😢💔😵‍💫

[@lenandcindypresley....4830]

Hello Denise, I picture your story in my mind. I'm so sorry for your great loss and certainly hope and pray that you and your family will get thru this tragedy with a ray of hope in God's mercy and love. I don't have an answer for these horrible things we sometimes are forced to endure in this life . Why ? Why , I wish I knew the answer, but I don't know. I only know and believe that our God is sovereign and just and knows exactly how you feel and wants you to tell him . I'm sure you have already, but don't give up on him. He loves you , all of you so much, There has to be a reason for everything. I pray for peace and guidance with all the love that you can endure to fall upon you and your family in JESUS' precious name Amen...❤️🙏🏻🕊

[@Kaytha.57]

Denise, so sorry for your great loss. Losing a child is a mother's worst nightmare. I lost my son 23 yrs ago. I know time doesn't change the loss of pain. I'll keep you and your 5 beautiful children in our prayers. We have to trust God almighty. My husband too was a great loss. God bless you and keep you in his loving arms ❤️

[@MAvila744]

I’m sorry, Denise. We don’t know all the answers why God permits these tragedies. 🙏🏻

[@patriciataylor1409]

❤

[@patriciataylor1409]

How are you.

[@patriciataylor1409]

Have you found a companion yet. I think we both need one.

[@zelisawhitehead8734]

My name is Lisa. How about joining me and other widow friends for food and fellowship

[@kathypolomcak7760]

For sure the loneliness is very hard

[@josephbologna2086]

Hi Len it was sooooo nice to See you and hear you and the beautiful hug I needed that today. It’s JoAnn. I’m having a really hard time as you know yes it is very lonely but I like when you say Christ come into my heart I say it with you I’m having a lot of anxiety attacks so there’s also that But I enjoy your videos. You’re a very sweet and loving man and your wife. Cindy is very lucky to have you. I left my number on your email so you don’t have to feel so lonely maybe if you want to hear a voice I want to ask you some questions because you’re a man of God and yes I do I have a big family, but it doesn’t matter. They don’t come here i’m in an apartment by myself now before there was a huge house I think we were 17 around the table believe it or not I’m Italian so we cook a lot especially on Sunday was a special day and now that Joe’s not here they don’t wanna see me? It’s so heartbreaking. I can’t wait for your next video. Email me if you want.❤

[@lenandcindypresley....4830]

Hello Joann, I'm so sorry you are having these very bad days. It will be with you for some time yet ,no doubt. I still have them, but they are few and far between what they were. My anguish has assuaged some for now. I have had weeks of being ok , then return again to anxiety and worry and loneliness and despair. It happens, at least for me. But overall, I'm doing better. My faith in Jesus is the main reason. You have a large family, and I hope they will help you thru this. They may not fully grasp your hurting, broken, torn, and bleeding heart. How can they ? Unless they are you. Here is another hug from me to you, 🫂 keep talking to Jesus. Tell him everything.. He loves you more than you can imagine.... God bless my friend, ❤️🙏🏻🕊

[@Clara-wo1hg]

Nice to see you Len I look forward to your next video 🩷

[@lenandcindypresley....4830]

Thank you for your reply clara.🙏🏻🕊❤️

[@zelisawhitehead8734]

I invite you to join me for fellowship with my church family in Canton Michigan

[@lenandcindypresley....4830]

Thank you for the invite ,I'll consider a visit in the future. God bless

[@marycicco6564]

How do you keep going? Without support ? I feel like there is no reason…..

[@sherryclingenpeel9304]

If your here it's for a reason. God bless and keep you. Stay strong

[@debbie9955]

God uses us to help others hurting even if its a smile at a cashier working long hours feeding a family needing a smile from a stranger is the most beautiful encouragement. Walk through a hospital and look at the faces of those suffering willing to go on. Everyone has been hurt but we have to go on in life trusting God who will one day wipe away our tears. Go help someone or take a meal to a neighbor or give someone at the grocery store a few dollars to buy a treat they can’t afford then you will see you have a beautiful reason to live giving “Love”. When we love others we are loving God and He will give us peace to face a new day with hope. Life is endless giving hope to someone else and in today’s world theres a lot of hurting souls. So, heres a cup of coffee ☕️ and a treat 🍰 for you with lots of love and a big hug! XO Love, Debbie

[@debbie9955]

@@sherryclingenpeel9304 Great advice😘