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anniversary today. missing my wife badly. grief has no silence. Feb 18th 2024.

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Len and Cindy Presley....

Len and Cindy Presley....

5 ай бұрын

visiting Michigan memorial gardens. 2nd anniversary without cindy . can't explain my emotions....

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@sharynduran5993
@sharynduran5993 4 ай бұрын
Grief never goes away. That's all we have is memories, videos and pictures.
@ferrelkelsey7660
@ferrelkelsey7660 5 ай бұрын
Take care Len, and God Bless you. I lost my beautiful wife 6 years ago. It’s a tough journey with out them, I hope someday I will be with my wife.
@Seeker_of_sense
@Seeker_of_sense 5 ай бұрын
I needed to hear this. One day you will be together again. I can't imagine getting married to someone else.
@crazyoldbat7600
@crazyoldbat7600 5 ай бұрын
I won't ever remarry. Just like if a parent dies you don't/can't go out and get another.
@robertzabick1030
@robertzabick1030 5 ай бұрын
It's been 3 years since I lost my wife. The pain eases up, as my memories start to fade. Then I relive the memories, and the pain comes right back. I know what you're feeling Len. Thanks for sharing.
@clarencehogrefe1220
@clarencehogrefe1220 5 ай бұрын
Y Wife passed 3 years ago also
@lenandcindypresley....4830
@lenandcindypresley....4830 5 ай бұрын
Thanks for the comments, Robert. I feel much the same...
@lealugerlynch802
@lealugerlynch802 5 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video. It just am coming to the understanding that my grief will be with me for the rest of my life. Sending you my love and prayers. ❤️🙏
@clarencehogrefe1220
@clarencehogrefe1220 5 ай бұрын
I feel the same way about the pain & grief
@lenandcindypresley....4830
@lenandcindypresley....4830 5 ай бұрын
It will be here until it is no more. I accept that. Still don't like it , but it will be . God bless my friend❤🕊☝️
@lealugerlynch802
@lealugerlynch802 5 ай бұрын
This is the hardest thing I’ve ever done. Great love=Great grief. 💔🙏
@kathleenspicer-rh9oz
@kathleenspicer-rh9oz 5 ай бұрын
It was 3years since I lost my husband .We had 57years together.January 6,2021 my world stopped. There is no life without him just a dreadful silence and terrible loneliness.
@encouragingword1172
@encouragingword1172 5 ай бұрын
Yes, there are no words or anything that actually helps.
@mattdenzine8160
@mattdenzine8160 5 ай бұрын
Len I can feel your pain - it helps me to see your videos. I too lost my beautiful wife, my best friend for almost 40 years a couple years ago. I do not know how to live without her - sometimes I feel like I am just going through the motions of life - not really living - because I lost my reason to live. Listen to an old song - I'll never find another you by the Seekers. God be with you and everyone dealing with this.
@lenandcindypresley....4830
@lenandcindypresley....4830 5 ай бұрын
I know the song , thank you matt.☝️🕊
@NorthernBell4612
@NorthernBell4612 5 ай бұрын
Thank you for posting Len, I feel your pain.... I was personally having a rougher than usual day. I've heard when your loved one(s) die part of you dies along with them. After so many losses does anyone else wonder how much of themselves they actually have left? I do, today anyway. They say God doesn't give you more than you can handle. If he thinks I am some sort of badass I am failing the test/ requirements miserably today. I pray for his hand in backing me up and giving me strength and guidance as I walk this path. Peace to all who visit here! xx
@debbie9955
@debbie9955 5 ай бұрын
Dearest, God never thinks badly of you and He knows your struggles and when we think badly of ourselves thats NOT from God but from satan! It actually grieves God when we think lowly of ourselves God wants us to have peace and joy and feel good about ourselves and He told David in 2 Samuel 12:20 to get up out of his depression - 20 David got up from the floor, washed his face and combed his hair, put on a fresh change of clothes, then went into the sanctuary and worshiped. We have to do the same everyday get up wash the face and go on. You can do it and so can I and everyone else, not that its hard to do, but we must❣️😘
@madmoe4
@madmoe4 5 ай бұрын
I found the shadow box that has our wedding invitation and dried flowers from her bouquet. I had to get it repaired and on the wall. I cried for awhile as I looked at it. I prayed to God that he help me through this. It’s only been 6 weeks and the emotional roller coaster continues.
@lenandcindypresley....4830
@lenandcindypresley....4830 5 ай бұрын
Praying God will keep you close to His side as you begin to comprehend the magnatitude of this horrible grief, losing your life's partner and best friend. The deeper the love, the stronger the pain. God be near my friend...
@daveandjacci
@daveandjacci 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for making these videos. They are helping me. Yesterday was four months since my husband passed away. I was unprepared for and astounded by the deep level of grief I would feel. I had no idea how intense my emotions would be and that I wouldn’t make it one day without crying and breaking down. I just watched one of the first videos you made and the one you made 5 mos ago where you are playing music, smiling and have the words “I am alive again. “ That gives me hope I will feel joy again. I am a believer. I appreciate you speak truthfully of the raw grief you have but give the message of hope in Jesus Christ, even when we can’t feel or hear Him. He is there, and I believe. Bless you today, this Easter, and wonder at His resurrection. Looking with anticipation to our eternal home.
@lenandcindypresley....4830
@lenandcindypresley....4830 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for commenting, jacci. My hope is built on nothing less than Jesus' blood and righteousness, I dare not trust the sweetest frame but wholly lean on Jesus'Jackie. It is our hope, and we WILL see them again. But 1st, we will see our blessed Savior. It's gonna be a day that has no end. We are gonna get thru this, we have an awesome God on our side. God be near, Closer each day...✝️🙏🏻🕊
@lizgreco3611
@lizgreco3611 5 ай бұрын
Hi Len, I understand and know your pain, as time goes on for me it feels worse, not better, I will live with a broken heart for all my days, I have the same conversation with the almighty as you, I talk to my husband everyday, every nite, I pray to the Blessed Mother everyday, your videos hit home,
@MAvila744
@MAvila744 5 ай бұрын
Hi Len, I’m sorry for your pain. I understand it. It’s the worst pain in the world. It’s going on almost 14 months for me. Missing my family members who have passed. Yes, trust is important but we’re fragile humans. I love my husband more than ever and I am sure you love Cindy more than ever. We must remember to say, ‘Jesus I trust in you.’ God bless you too, Len. Thanks for sharing. Wishing you peace. 🙏
@donnaboutwell8612
@donnaboutwell8612 5 ай бұрын
I hope things get better for you I married when I was 15 my husband has been gone 3 years now we were married for 48 years this is the hardest thing Ive been through
@lenandcindypresley....4830
@lenandcindypresley....4830 5 ай бұрын
Hello donna, I agree, The absolute hardest thing I've ever felt or been through. I never want to go around again... knowing this outcome... God be near , closer each day ...❤
@mgonzalez7412
@mgonzalez7412 5 ай бұрын
Praying for you Len. ❤. Sharing your grief. We understand. 🤗 Your brothers and sisters going thru grief of our love ones.
@lenandcindypresley....4830
@lenandcindypresley....4830 5 ай бұрын
Thank you...my friend☝️🕊
@fareedomar3748
@fareedomar3748 5 ай бұрын
Hi Len. Thanks for sharing. Watching the segment at the beginning brought me to tears thinking of my late husband 💙. It will be 1 year and 4 months at the end of this month. I miss him every day.....
@fareedomar3748
@fareedomar3748 5 ай бұрын
Thank you for the ♥️ Len. I am looking forward to seeing your next video. I wish you live close to me so that we can share our grief. Like you, I am also alone.
@user-vb7gv6fh9o
@user-vb7gv6fh9o 5 ай бұрын
Hi Len. I've been thinking about you cause you haven't posted lately. Praying for you. you seem like such a lovely man and your wife was blessed to have you. (and you her)
@LittlePoet
@LittlePoet 5 ай бұрын
Sending you love and understanding...xoxo Susan
@cindyandlenpresley...6118
@cindyandlenpresley...6118 5 ай бұрын
Thank you susan🕊
@74firpo
@74firpo 5 ай бұрын
I feel you. I lost my wife about 2 years ago, too this the most painful experience 💔 and I don't know if that pain ever going to go away because still feels like yesterday. God bless you 🙏
@lenandcindypresley....4830
@lenandcindypresley....4830 5 ай бұрын
2 years the 26th of Feb. I still feel disconnected from the world around me. Hopefully, we will keep adapting to our new life without the best part of it missing. God bless...
@Clara-wo1hg
@Clara-wo1hg 5 ай бұрын
Hello Len so pleased to hear from you I've been thinking about you. It's somehow reassuring to listen to you 💝
@lenandcindypresley....4830
@lenandcindypresley....4830 5 ай бұрын
Thanks for listening clara🕊☝️
@elainestuttard5105
@elainestuttard5105 2 ай бұрын
Hi len. I really feel your pain. I've just visited the crematorium where Bill was cremated a year ago. Fortunately it's a lovely day here in Burnley. I've been asking God to help us and I'm sure he will. You are not alone Len. Going through this with you. God bless you x
@crazyoldbat7600
@crazyoldbat7600 5 ай бұрын
Let the Lord speak through your silence.
@chetappling8200
@chetappling8200 5 ай бұрын
My mom & I understand your grief. God Bless, Len & your sweet Cindy in Heaven.❤
@user-tm1pr8eq8c
@user-tm1pr8eq8c 3 ай бұрын
Hi Len..Happy Anniversary to both of you!! Someday we will see each other n be happy again forever..
@reginabyers5378
@reginabyers5378 5 ай бұрын
God bless you Len. 🙏🙏🙏
@rustyshackleford1303
@rustyshackleford1303 2 ай бұрын
Lost my beautiful wife 2 years ago. I relate to everything you’re saying Len, we were even married for the same amount of time, 21 years. It’s so very hard. The suffering is something that cannot be described, the permanence of it is just shattering. But I still have 2 kids to finish raising. And there are some days that are better, which gives me hope.
@jenmidwest2432
@jenmidwest2432 5 ай бұрын
Thinking of you so much, Len. I am so sorry....There are no words.
@cindynok
@cindynok 5 ай бұрын
Toward the end of the second year was miserable. I had 6 sessions with a grief counselor, had been thru 2 and 1/2 cycles of grief share. I did a video in the last couple weeks, trying to share the hope of some piece.
@niahbernier974
@niahbernier974 5 ай бұрын
Very sorry about you’re loss
@akfinn5308
@akfinn5308 5 ай бұрын
How can we ever forget such a life changing event as living with our spouse? Len, thank you for your ministry.
@lenandcindypresley....4830
@lenandcindypresley....4830 5 ай бұрын
Always good to hear from you, thank you too...❤🕊☝️
@boonicholls6649
@boonicholls6649 3 ай бұрын
My heart breaks for you. I am going through the same heartbreak loss of my precious husband RAY. I cry everyday. I feel your pain. You are not alone. I walk in your shoes. I know you loved your dear wife and always will. She was the love of your life as my husband was to me. All those years of loving your dear wife. I had 48years of loving my soulmate. She would be so proud of you for making this video. It shows pure love and devotion to your dear wife. God Bless You. 💔🙏
@marycicco6564
@marycicco6564 3 ай бұрын
Please keep helping people… I believe you understand my pain,losing our other half, our soulmate, out best friend…. Sometimes I need to listen to you, and remind myself that if you can keep going, I can too…. Thank you.
@lss74
@lss74 4 ай бұрын
Just found you and this channel. March 2024. Sending hugs from London ❤🇬🇧 x
@lenandcindypresley....4830
@lenandcindypresley....4830 4 ай бұрын
Thank you, lss74 You have very long arms, God bless...🌍🙏🏻🕊❤️
@dbmclean3660
@dbmclean3660 5 ай бұрын
Bless you Len. I'm in the same boat.
@jn3098
@jn3098 Ай бұрын
I hear u my friend my wife of 37 years passed last month, the loneliness is devastating
@user-rx4oy1sh4s
@user-rx4oy1sh4s 2 ай бұрын
God bless you and guide you through your grief
@randolphgresham2844
@randolphgresham2844 3 ай бұрын
I am hurting with you Len. Randy Gresham
@leilaniaustria851
@leilaniaustria851 5 ай бұрын
Len,we will smile again.. Thank you for this video.. let us pray for each other..
@lenandcindypresley....4830
@lenandcindypresley....4830 5 ай бұрын
Always!🙏🏻🕊
@jpb5363
@jpb5363 5 ай бұрын
Oh Len it is so darn difficult to go through this grief. So many questions, thoughts, words said to bring some relief from our pain. Like my wife, your wife Cindy was your world and the deep,deep love we have for them identified who we are. How do we find peace and purpose in our new world. Coming up on 2-1/2 of the most diificult of my 70 years and i have had my share of loss, like most of us. Sharing our thoughts with others(counselors,family, friends,etc.) helps but we really do suffer alone. It does get better with the passage of time and leaning on our faith. We are never alone. Our reward for all this is reuniting with all our loved ones in Gods presence. Our sprits inception will then finally have completion and all our questions finally answered! Thanks for "sharing" with us your thoughts/feelings in these difficult moments us widowers face. Feel free to respond with how to contact if you would like...All My best from your old CNY friend.
@lenandcindypresley....4830
@lenandcindypresley....4830 5 ай бұрын
Thank you for your comment. It was perfectly said. Words like the ones you expressed here are deeply appreciated by all ,myself included, wholeheartedly. I want to leave here, but I need to stay for a while longer. We are gonna be ok ... We have the creator on our side in everything we will do from now on. It will be a glorious day in just a few moments in time. Looking forward to this reunion with extreme anticipation. Hope these storms upon your area CNY, are mild . God bless you and yours, my friend...
@npenick66
@npenick66 5 ай бұрын
Not sure how you're able to get through doing this on camera but thank you, it does help those of us who are new to this. I got through the first valentines day without my wife, took our son to her favorite restaurant and it went ok. My birthday is next weekend, then my son's two weeks after that and finally my wife's is on St Patrick's Day. I think my son's will be the toughest. My wife was a cheerleader, in a good way. She'd make it a big event for the boy, everything would be over decorated, house, yard, everything. Even if it was just the three of us she made it feel like a festival. Hope I can make it special for him as well. Not sure how I can do that without her here but I'll do my best. I know the first year is bad, I hear that the second year is the worst. Saying a prayer for you.
@GenaVuich-el5sj
@GenaVuich-el5sj 5 ай бұрын
I know you're pain and sorrow, I'm there too,and it never seems to get better. Struggling so much. Good to see you Sending hugs and prayers
@clarencehogrefe1220
@clarencehogrefe1220 5 ай бұрын
Iam praying for you Len on this day, i do understand the pain and the Grief we go thru. My WifeJan went to Heaven 3 years ago the 18th. Always think about you Len and like i said always praying for you. We keep trying to do the best we can. I have listened to Jack Church also. Take Care and God Bless you Friend Len
@lenandcindypresley....4830
@lenandcindypresley....4830 5 ай бұрын
Amen ,Clarence. Thank you for the prayers my friend...☝️🕊 soon
@robertraymond2299
@robertraymond2299 5 ай бұрын
Thank you for this. I lost my wife almost 3 years and it really sucks. I miss her deeply.
@lenandcindypresley....4830
@lenandcindypresley....4830 5 ай бұрын
No pain and trauma like this has ever traversed my path before. I wasn't ready for this. I have struggled with this for a couple of years now. I don't like it. I hate it , but I'm here and can't bring her back. All I can do is try to help others in their own journey thru grief. I hope I have done this , God be near my friend...🕊
@edschmitt541
@edschmitt541 5 ай бұрын
Bless you Len. Am crying with you. Am only about 5 months into this journey. Only had the love of my life for 12 years. There was no doubt that the Lord is the one who put us together. He knew what we both needed and He supplied it. Lost her to rapid onset dementia. Very cruel. Our Lord promises that He will never let more befall us than we can handle. Seems at times that the rubber band is stretched to the breaking point. Thought that I would share what grief is to me. Grief is love which has no place to go. The person that I loved so much is gone. I can no longer tell her how much I love her. I can no longer show her in a physical way. My love just runs over. It pours out in the tears. With the Lord's help we will make it. He never promised that life would be easy. Just that He will always be with us.
@lenandcindypresley....4830
@lenandcindypresley....4830 5 ай бұрын
Thank you for these words you share, Ed. I'm sorry for your extremely painful loss of your precious dear wife. I get it. I feel your words totally, as if I was speaking... I talk to cindy every day. I ask the Lord to tell her I love her, I'm doing OK, and please give her a good morning/ night hug from me... She is not present physically, but her heart and faith still beat and live in me... One day soon, we will understand, perhaps... God bless my friend ...
@kathycourter
@kathycourter Ай бұрын
so sorry i lost my husband in 2013 to cancer he was 57 i miss him everyday
@RobertJung-bj3fo
@RobertJung-bj3fo 4 ай бұрын
Hi len it's 4am were I am just watched your video it's crazy why we have to go through this I guss this is the hardest part about living is that we got to go through this alone you said about your friend that lost his wife I could never do that to Amy even though she is gone and I can't see her doses not mean that she is not with us and see us I will wait
@bride8305
@bride8305 5 ай бұрын
(HUG) Help me Lord, thank you for Len and Cindy, Cindy in paradice must feel your great love for her!!! Lord Jesus help me to be an overcomer, I thank You by my FAITH & TRUST in You that You will provide all my needs, thank You for 55 years with my husband who cared for me, loved me, and is my best friend, forgive me for putting him as my best friend, Holy Spirit You are my best friend always and forever, PRAISE GOD 4 Len's videos to help with grief and bless him. Father I Pray we will all be worthy to be in Your Kingdom Father in Jesus Name, Amen, so be it. COME LORD JESUS
@robynmichel6019
@robynmichel6019 5 ай бұрын
It's been nice hearing from you Len. Yes it is very difficult . The most difficult emotion is grief. My Husband is in Heaven and I feel that I have been sentenced to a life on Earth. The door will open from my prison when it's my time to meet my Husband in Heaven. I can't wait, it's true that's how I feel....I have been sentenced for the rest of my life.
@lenandcindypresley....4830
@lenandcindypresley....4830 5 ай бұрын
Hello Robyn, I think we feel very similar. I can't seem to find a strong purposeful course for the rest of my life, other than what I'm doing here... I, too, am anxiously awaiting that special, very special day... Patience is a virtue , God give me more patience, please... just a little while longer... God bless you and yours 🙏🏻❤️🕊
@mikeharris127
@mikeharris127 Ай бұрын
Praying for you my friend.I am hurting too.I lost my wife on April 23,2024.I miss her so much.I cry all the time.I feel like I can't go on.please pray for me.
@lenandcindypresley....4830
@lenandcindypresley....4830 Ай бұрын
Hello Mike, It's going to be a long road to get up and down. But it will slowly become less difficult to navigate, as it surely is now... Yes, brother, I will pray for you... God bless...☝️🙏🏻
@householdsix1307
@householdsix1307 12 күн бұрын
I appreciate your REAL life videos, uncut. I will be visiting my husband's grave this week on his birthday.
@Gwendalsprincess
@Gwendalsprincess 5 ай бұрын
I don't think we realize what grief was until it happened. It changes but it is there with us. My husband I were together for 56 years and I miss him every day. As with you some days are good and some days not so much and even after two and a half years the tears are there. I will see him again and he knows I miss him. He is with the creator and doing the work on the other side. He is in a better place and doesn't hurt anymore. He has been with me occasionally and I know he is okay. He is doing Gods work from the other side. God bless you with comfort and understanding that we are all looking for.
@user-tm1pr8eq8c
@user-tm1pr8eq8c 28 күн бұрын
Missing my husband...thank you for this video...
@dianewilliams5271
@dianewilliams5271 5 ай бұрын
So glad you are still hanging in there. It is rough, but the Lord helps us every day with what ever comes our way. I'm glad we have Him to depend on for our help.
@user-rw7se2ty9q
@user-rw7se2ty9q Ай бұрын
Hello Len I lost my wife on 12th June last month to cancer. She was only 53. I’m still arranging her funeral. I’m so glad you have your faith as I was really questioning mine after she died.if you’re here then God has a purpose for you. Stay strong and keep going. Thank Barry UK
@lenandcindypresley....4830
@lenandcindypresley....4830 Ай бұрын
Thank you, Barry, I'm truly sorry for your great loss. Having faith in God does not take the grief away or make it easy. But it does bring hope and comfort alongside our lives. Stay busy, stay strong in faith, and think about all the best of times. Let God do a great work in you for her and for Him... All will be well. God bless...my friend...
@rudykay5618
@rudykay5618 4 ай бұрын
Thanks Len our anniversary would have been February 25 I felt the same way
@lenandcindypresley....4830
@lenandcindypresley....4830 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for commenting. God be near....
@marilynb8136
@marilynb8136 5 ай бұрын
Hi len. Yes, some days are hard, some are good. I feel your pain. I need to go to the cemetery, but not right now, not in the cold winter. Someday I'll be ready. God bless you
@bristleconepinus2378
@bristleconepinus2378 Ай бұрын
Speaking as a man who lost the woman he loved dearly for 48 years this last Easter Sunday morning. As a couple you have to bear up, realize you were blessed and don't cave in to the grief....I talk to my wife often but i realize she is NOT coming back, we had a miraculous relationship with great adventures...all committed to our sacred book of memory , but stand firm with your sadness because it will always be there but hopefully the joy of having given each other the precious gift of being there for those years for that person. Having fulfilled your vows. Memory is what you have now so cherish it and be as active and creative as you can.
@lenandcindypresley....4830
@lenandcindypresley....4830 Ай бұрын
Thank you, sir, for your comments You said it well. I'm sorry for your great loss. But thankfully, it is not the end of our stories. Memories will still live but may fade as the clock continues to tick away. They keep me from sinking deeply in a sadness that has never left me totally. My hope now is to make a new life without the old one, keeping me stationary and indecisive in my everyday affairs. I have to rely on my faith to always be my guide and my closest friend. May God give you peace and guidance in your journey through this grief.... Take care, my friend
@kathryntaylor2170
@kathryntaylor2170 5 ай бұрын
Sorry to here ur wife passed 5:11 away. But it will get better as time will go on. I know how u feel i lost my husband 10 yrs. Ago. Yes the Lord will help u. U just have to trust God. God bless uis my prayers.
@lenandcindypresley....4830
@lenandcindypresley....4830 5 ай бұрын
Thank you, Kathryn. Your comment is so true and very appreciated.. God bless...❤
@Hiraeth2025
@Hiraeth2025 Ай бұрын
Len, I am so sorry for your loss. When my mom died, someone tod me to remember that "we are all just walking each other home." You are a man of faith, and she was blessed to have you walk her home. I pray for your peace and patience until you are together with her again.
@lenandcindypresley....4830
@lenandcindypresley....4830 Ай бұрын
Thank you for your encouraging thoughtful words. God bless...🙏🏻🕊
@carl6405
@carl6405 5 ай бұрын
Len, My heart goes out to you. I am going through the same thing right now, as I lost my beloved Rebecca just last year, July 21st from a brain hemorrhage. She was my true soulmate. The only thing that got me through it was my close friends and doing as you are, sharing your feelings with everyone. The other thing that is helpful is seeking a female companion. That is what your heart is missing, that companionship. I'd like to connect with you somehow and maybe have a call with you. Think would be helpful to both you and I. Take care and wish you the best.
@lenandcindypresley....4830
@lenandcindypresley....4830 5 ай бұрын
Thank you for your comments. God bless, my friend...
@maryrose2692
@maryrose2692 5 ай бұрын
I lost my darling husband suddenly Dec 1st. Just came home from work and he was gone. Our 20 th wedding anniversary was Valentine's day.. I'm broken and life just feels futile now. At 2.5 months I am still in the Disbelief stage
@kaycee625
@kaycee625 5 ай бұрын
I’m sorry for your loss.
@patriciataylor1409
@patriciataylor1409 5 ай бұрын
Your enough. Your OK. Your memories are in your bank. Your stronger than you think. She will protect you always. Be happy. ❤❤
@user-vy6xw5lb5l
@user-vy6xw5lb5l 2 ай бұрын
My husband and i were married 38 years ago. I still wear his western shirts. I cannot get anyone to understand i still love the man. People keep telling me he took from me. They do not realize i followed my husbands request aas to what he wanted. People cannot understand how i felt and feel even today about him. When i look at his picture i still feel that warm feeling i felt with him. Still
@user-rw7se2ty9q
@user-rw7se2ty9q Ай бұрын
Thanks Len, i have come to realize the truly difficult part is just accepting that she gone and that there 9:39 is truly nothing you can do about that. Only to carry on while keeping her memory in your heart at all times. Keep doing your videos as they definitely help and helped me.
@bobt3754
@bobt3754 5 ай бұрын
Hello friend. You don't have to apologize for not posting. Like you, I am struggling too. It is coming up on a year since I lost my wife. I can't believe it has been 11 months already. Here is a short prayer that was given to me by a Jesuit priest when it seems that things are too hard. "Jesus, I can't, you can, please do, thank you, amen." Know that Jesus is on the journey with each of us. Peace and God's blessings.
@sharynduran5993
@sharynduran5993 5 ай бұрын
The grief never goes away. Some days are worse than others
@myrtlegranger3443
@myrtlegranger3443 5 ай бұрын
Nice to see you again Len.Hang in there. God Bless❤️🙏
@lenandcindypresley....4830
@lenandcindypresley....4830 5 ай бұрын
Hello Myrtle. Was wondering how you were over there by the lake side. I thought about trying your church, I'm looking around . Good to hear from you Myrtle. God bless...🕊🙏🏻
@sherryclingenpeel9304
@sherryclingenpeel9304 5 ай бұрын
Happy anniversary len. Hugs
@lenandcindypresley....4830
@lenandcindypresley....4830 5 ай бұрын
Thank you! 🤗
@FloresA7
@FloresA7 5 ай бұрын
Len, following your lead. I pray: Oh Lord, please take my hand and help me follow Your way, for I am childless with little of family. But You are the Alpha and Omega, know and have shaped me, so you know my needs before birth. If I am still here, because You still want me to do something, not to my own mind but Your Will. Amen Take care, God sees our hearts and mind, and Cindy is still around you ….Our love never dies.
@randomhodgepodge8902
@randomhodgepodge8902 5 ай бұрын
Somehow I have made it through a year. I'm feeling your pain and wishing all wellness and gentle courage to keep putting one foot in front of the next.
@lenandcindypresley....4830
@lenandcindypresley....4830 5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much ...God bless
@user-wf2kd6nm1n
@user-wf2kd6nm1n 19 күн бұрын
Len, I lost my husband just 6 weeks ago and also to cancer. He suffered terribly and for months we fought it. 33 years and I miss him with all my heart , BUT please , rest in the LORD , and try to stop focusing only on her death but celebrate the gift she gave you, She spent her whole life with you. Grief doesnt go away , its a full time job , but we need to get stronger and yes you can cry and smile too. She is with you , and you will be reunited. Hold on to hope and try and smile. Don't be sad because its over smile because t was. She still loves you so much. And I can never imagine anyone else in my life...my husband is always my husband is still my husband he just took an earlier flight. They have left the things of this world behind the bible says , so we must know they are happy and we are the ones suffering. Wishing you peace and comfort. I am struggling too , so many of us are.
@lenandcindypresley....4830
@lenandcindypresley....4830 17 күн бұрын
Thank you for your encouraging comments. I appreciate what you are saying so much. I am certainly doing better than i was in the beginning . It is just so different now. You are still very new to this journey, but you have a greater positive attitude than I did at that time. One thing I have found to be true is that grief never follows a rule book. I have had good days and weeks only to fall back to lonely emptiness once more. It can last for months . It is not the same for everyone. I trust in God and know that His will will be done, But even so, I struggle with my own worst enemy, myself. I always seem to get in the way of having the blessings of the Lord comfort and guide me. I have much to learn yet. God bless , My friend 🕊🙏🏻
@AnnWanjugu-gd4rr
@AnnWanjugu-gd4rr 5 ай бұрын
Sorry God will heal u slowly😢
@FloresA7
@FloresA7 4 ай бұрын
Len, for some reason thought of you today. Wondering if you are doing fine...So I want to leave you a note and tell you that you and many of us are suffering, daily, we are here feeling so alone and lonely. We do not know why, but it is. I have no children, not much family left, In some way, I understand this existential aloneness. Just want to send you a prayer and warm thoughts. May God send you human angels around to comfort you. Today I watched this man who once died, in his NDE, he understood how God is holding our souls.... hope this would comfort you too. (his name: Ed Jozsa)Take care. I keep you in my prayer.
@vedrakuca
@vedrakuca 4 ай бұрын
Sending you love and hugs, I lost my husband 1year ago from consequence of bizarre sports accident playing football while kept innocent in prison. I am devasteted
@lenandcindypresley....4830
@lenandcindypresley....4830 4 ай бұрын
I'm sorry for the loss of your husband. It is a wound that leaves a permanent mark on the heart and soul. A scar of a loving devotion. I'm sure you have a story to tell, my heart goes out to you. God be near...🙏🏻🕊❤️
@vedrakuca
@vedrakuca 4 ай бұрын
@@lenandcindypresley....4830 ♡
@kathypolomcak7760
@kathypolomcak7760 5 ай бұрын
Life is Shirley different
@xarifacooper1399
@xarifacooper1399 5 ай бұрын
Len I know just how you feel since my husband died in October 2023 I keep thinking I just don't want to be here. I am dreading 28th March which would have been 60th wedding anniversary. Bless you keep strong
@lenandcindypresley....4830
@lenandcindypresley....4830 5 ай бұрын
Hello my friend, 60 years is a long time to travel the road of life with your dear husband. I had 35 years. It must be even harder for you. My heart goes out to you. I can't imagine what you feel or don't feel. I'm going thru this grief with you in my own way, and it feels so very different, and the loneliness is a constant struggle to maintain my focus. Trying to live again is not an easy task when your life's partner and best friend are no longer on the journey with you. HOPE , in a reunion In heaven, is my goal to live each day with Jesus as my guide. God be near, closer each day... 🙏🏻🕊❤️
@xarifacooper1399
@xarifacooper1399 5 ай бұрын
@@lenandcindypresley....4830Thank you
@WeepingWidowSueAna
@WeepingWidowSueAna 5 ай бұрын
God bless you, dear friend. It is a rough road. That's the understatement of the century, right? It's like an atomic bomb dropped on my life and shattered everything is more like it. Like you said, we have to just keep trusting God. That's all we have. It's not always a fun road. In fact, it's a harder road than most .. but it will be worth the reward in the end of seeing Jesus in all of His glory. Paul says the present sufferings are nothing compared to the glory to come. I keep reminding myself of that one every day. Hang in there. We love you.
@lenandcindypresley....4830
@lenandcindypresley....4830 5 ай бұрын
Hi Sue, Knowing much of your condition, the diseases, and your grief, I thank the LORD for you. You have been, and remain a true friend . For over 1 1/2 years. Your faith and character have been a blessing to me and so many others. God is using you mightly. Come Lord Jesus, ☝️🕊❤️
@josephbologna2086
@josephbologna2086 5 ай бұрын
Hi Len I hate to see you like this, but like you said, what do we do sending you love I am very happy to see Yeah, I know there are no words that anyone would understand it’s lonely and painful you learn to hide the Pain I know I do I tried when I have to see other people, but I want to scream in There Face don’t you know don’t you know What I’m going through, but it Doesn’t matter they’ll never know. Like you said, thanks beautiful memories that beautiful Life we had together it was a blessing you make me wanna Pour my heart out I thank the Lord every day for the wonderful man I had thank you for bringing me closer to the lord. God bless you my friend. Yeah, it’s Joanne again from Jersey. Yes, There are days that just pass sometimes I can’t wait for the night to come is a lot of depression and anger. I try not to, but it just comes and stays.❤❤ God bless you, my friend and Cindy beautiful wife
@lenandcindypresley....4830
@lenandcindypresley....4830 5 ай бұрын
Hi Joanne, Thank you for sharing your feelings. Here's my Gmail, Lenpresley4@gmail.com. ok God bless..☝️🕊
@fareedomar3748
@fareedomar3748 4 ай бұрын
Hi Len. How are you doing? I am remembering my husband and thinking of him on occasion everyday. I also cry a bit everyday. Do you still feel the same way as I do? I know your wife has left us for about 2 years now and my husband has left me for about 1 year and 4 months.
@fareedomar3748
@fareedomar3748 3 ай бұрын
Hi Len. Thinking of you. How are you doing? I am doing okay. I always remember my husband. I always "talk" to him. Feeling sadness is still there.
@lenandcindypresley....4830
@lenandcindypresley....4830 3 ай бұрын
I know the feelings of our grief will not depart this life. But they will lesson in intensity. Mine have , but they are always there in my mind. God be near, Your friend in grief...🕊🙏🏻❤️
@jeaninemarielewakowski5974
@jeaninemarielewakowski5974 5 ай бұрын
Good Morning, Len. This is Jeanine Faith Marie, & I watched your video here; a few days ago. It was the day before my own birthday, Feb. 28th. You Dear man, have my Anniversary wishes & Prayers, to you & Cindy. I am with you here in my very same place a struggling widow. My tears, & understanding, of what you are going through, are part of what my life has been, & is; since that very day of losing my prec ious, darling husband; Francis♡(Frankie). Only we know how that feels, in so far as we are living it; & that is something that we live with each & every day! I wish that we could all be connected by a P.O. Box & send one another cards, yes write letters; etc. So please keep posting your videos, & keep on sharing your time & life with us. it means so much to me, & others, too. Now, for a happy side; oh seeing you pick up one of the newborn kitties; out of the 4. I think you say they need names? 2 boys & 2 precious time girls. So here are my offer ing og names. Baby kitten girls: Violet & Lilac. Baby kitten boys: Mittens & Presley. They are Febreuary babies; & so to honor your Anniversary with Cindy, & my February & all of us, with a birthday in February! With much Love, prayers, & our Guardian Angel to wat h over & protect us. Dear Lord Jesus please hear & answer our prayers, pleas & intentions.Amen Jeanine Faith Marie K.F. Fitzpatrick-Lewakowski P.S. I hope that you see this very, very long comment of mine; today. March 2st, 2024.❤🎉😊
@lenandcindypresley....4830
@lenandcindypresley....4830 5 ай бұрын
Hello jeanine , Your comment was so sweet... Thank you so much . I'm sorry for the loss of your dear husband, frankie. It just plain hurts... I get it , and we get it, all who travel this path... This is the only way I know how to help others , self included... May Our Father in heaven give you strength and peace thru Christ our Lord... ❤ I like your idea ,so be it , Violet, lilac,mittens and presley,( little Elvis), it will be. Thanks ...🙏🏻🕊✌️
@ariaahmadi7864
@ariaahmadi7864 3 ай бұрын
I hope you are doing fine I keep checking there is no new video
@lenandcindypresley....4830
@lenandcindypresley....4830 3 ай бұрын
I will have another video soon. Thank you for commenting. God bless 🙏🏻❤️🕊
@ariaahmadi7864
@ariaahmadi7864 3 ай бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏻
@lenandcindypresley....4830
@lenandcindypresley....4830 3 ай бұрын
@@ariaahmadi7864 video on the way very soon
@denisecarroll9736
@denisecarroll9736 5 ай бұрын
We lost our daughter our only child just shy of 2 years ago … she was a mommy of 5 and left behind a good husband and life for all of us is absolutely awful there are sprinkles of smiles or laughs but nothing like before …it’s just so sad💔💔💔
@lenandcindypresley....4830
@lenandcindypresley....4830 5 ай бұрын
So sorry for your loss, DENISE, It is a wound deeply felt by all . Praying for you and your family for healing peace and guidance. God be near, closer each day ...🕊🙏🏻
@denisecarroll9736
@denisecarroll9736 5 ай бұрын
@@lenandcindypresley....4830 Thank you so very much for your kind words 💔🙏🏻💔
@angelapriddy6308
@angelapriddy6308 5 ай бұрын
I know I know.vsobsorry❤
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