MY MISCARRIAGE STORY / Losing My Baby At 7.5 Weeks Pregnant 💔

[@Eltoria]

If this is happened to you before, I’m so sorry 💔. But you are not alone in this. Hoping my video offers some help and clarity ♥️. I WILL become a mama one day xxx

[@jeanniekartis5916]

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[@carolg7281]

You really will Simone, it happened to me and I was devastated, but went on to have a beautiful baby girl who is now 18. Stay strong my darling thinking of you and sending you so much love xx

[@inathompson8293]

You will be a mama one day. I can promise You that. Unfortunately, we all go through that suffering. But... No doubts, Your day will comexxx

[@caroldobbin7558]

Happend to me for 13 yrs continues, then may 2020 I found out I was pregnant , and oh boy I was scared out of my mind, at the same time I knew stress could also lead to miscarriage so I had to try and stay calm. At 16 wks I found out that I was carrying a baby boy, he was born healthy January 2021 levi was born weighing 7lb 1oz. Stay strong sweety 💞 your will have your rainbow baby 😚

[@lorenafernanda127]

I also had a miscarriage last year, it was so painful.. thank you for sharing your story 🙏🏼 🤍

[@geenalizzi]

I’m also 1 in 4, and unless you go through it you can’t understand how it hurts. 2 months after my miscarriage I fell pregnant again, i had a lot of bleeding throughout my first trimester and was petrified of losing that baby too, HOWEVER…. I gave birth to my rainbow TWINS just over 3 weeks ago and my heart is so so full.

[@annamilenamariani3751]

I lost my rainbow twins at 10 weeks gestation. Currently hoping for a rainbow after my meant to be rainbows. ❤

[@bethe2389]

So happy for you. ❤

[@whatamiedid4014]

For reassurance and hope... I had a miscarriage at 7 weeks... the next month I got pregnant with my 23 month old. I then had a miscarriage at 12 weeks and 2 months later got pregnant with my now 8 week old. During the pregnancy with my 8 week old I had MASSIVE bleeds and cramping at weeks 7, 15 and 20... completely unexplained and baby is here now and fine!x

[@Eltoria]

Oh my goodness! That's so unexplained I bet you were so scared xxx

[@1989cpartington]

I’m so sorry this happened to you too. I had a missed miscarriage at 8 weeks April last year and had to have medication to help pass everything because my body didn’t let go. It was so hard physically and emotionally. I’m now 32 weeks with the next baby and he seems perfect on all the tests and scans. Sending love and strength xxx

[@Eltoria]

Thank you so much for your reassuring comment! I'm so so glad that you now have a baby on the way! Sending lots of love xx

[@Jazzybluemia]

I am going through this at the moment. I'm 37 and I really thought it was my time. It's horrible I just pray I feel better ❤ sending love to everyone whose gone through this xxxxx

[@mst-pierrem5729]

When you said you feel the loss you didnt think that you could have, man I feel that ! I am currently going through this as delayed thing since my foetus stop growing at 6 weeks and 1 day but the miscaring didnt happen until I was 9.5 weeks. I somehow was very worried about this and kept telling my husband I am not feeling this. And somehow when it happened I cried/screamed like someone died and like you said the fathers go through this pain as well.... Thank-you!!

[@welovebam]

Bless you. I found out i was pregnant on Christmas and it was my own perfect little gift. I ended up finding out im miscarrying almost a month later on my anniversary with my partner. I too never thought this would happen to me, i relate to your story so much and ive never felt so alone until i found these videos of you all who have been through this. Thank you to everyone for sharing ❤ it truly does make a huge difference in someones life. Thank you for making me feel less alone

[@romy5822]

I’m so sorry Eltoria this happened to you.. 😔 I’ve been through this when I was 18 weeks pregnant my baby boy just passed away, that feeling was and is crushing, 6 weeks later I found out I was pregnant with my rainbow and I really hope you’ll receive your rainbow baby soon (and whenever you ready to try again ofc) ❤️🌈

[@quigzie19]

I’m currently going through the exact same thing…. It has been so traumatic. This video has REALLY helped me so thank you, but I’m also SO sorry this happened to you too. Stay positive and wishing you all the best, hoping you’re okay. Lots of love ❤ xxxx

[@ghettoasmrexposed54]

Having had 3 miscarriages there is always hope my first baby I lost through miscarriage and I felt like my world had ended I kept seeing people with newborn baby's it was like they were taunting me even though I knew they weren't but it was utter torture and thought why me but after a few months I went on to have 1 healthy boy then i lost 2 other children due to miscarriage then last year I was finely blessed with my second baby never give up hope you will have your beautiful baby ❤️

[@amymulvenna4690]

So sorry to hear this! We started trying last year and unfortunately had two miscarriages. One at 9 weeks and a missed miscarriage. No break in between. 8 months of last year either pregnant or miscarrying has been horrendous. I completely know how you feel. Talking has really helped me and we took a few months off to fully recover. Trying to stay positive for this year. 💕

[@karenhorrocks4216]

Sending you love and hugs. I too had a miscarriage at 20 weeks and it truly is one of the most heartbreaking experiences of my life. Like you i also wanted the lights to go out,but with the right support you will get through this and when the time is right you will be a wonderful Mummy. I believe talking about your experience will definitely help you to come to terms with your loss.My baby boy was also due on the 26th September. Maybe you could light a candle for your baby on this date. Stay strong sweetheart💔❤

[@chloeritchie8464]

I'm so sorry for your loss❤ I went through a very similar experience to you in October 2019. I had a horrible experience and felt so so alone for weeks, my partner didn't get affected by it that much so I felt like I had no one and at the time no one was really talking about it and the people who did kept saying atleast it was early but it was horrendous feeling like my feelings weren't valid. We then tried for another pregnancy for a full year with no success, then decided to put plans on hold and just have some time to ourselves and focus on careers etc and in July 2021, out of the blue I found out I was pregnant. I'm now due in 5 weeks💗 praying for you and Joe and your healing journey❤

[@Ryoko007]

i had a miscarriage last week, end of December 2023 i was told at my 11-12week scan that my baby has no heartbeat and i lost it at 9weeks. they said you have 3 options, naturally let everything to happen like a normal period in next 2-3weeks or tablet or mini op.ichose natural, took almost 2 weeks and then i got the worst cramp pain like contractions then i passed clots and so much blood in the toilet that i passed out. it was horrendous. i just feel dead inside now. i cant even sleep. i dont have my baby anymore.😭😭

[@user-dg7ju4ps5b]

I’m so sorry, words can’t explain how hurtful something like this is. I just lost my baby today at 7 weeks & 2 days. My heart is broken, its hard when something you really wanted is taken away from you. I hope you have a good recovery.

[@jennybroom7766]

I know many women in my family and friends circle who have suffered miscarriages and who are now knee deep in dirty nappies 😃 So Keep positive and stay healthy You are your partner are a team and will get through this together 🙂 xx

[@Eltoria]

We absolutely will

[@Ajaravohora]

The same exact thing happened to me in October, me and my partner finally got pregnant through IVF as we had been trying for 5 years and no result. And 5 weeks later it ended in a miscarriage...they said the same thing that the baby's chromosomes weren't healthy enough and so on. Even though we had this mentality that of it happens it happens if not then not, it was still HEARTBREAKING! I am so glad u shared this cause now I know I m not the only one that goes through this....❤️❤️❤️

[@Eltoria]

So so so heartbreaking isn't it! I am so sorry for your loss it's truly heartbreaking xxx

[@percydoeseverything]

It's absolutely heartbreaking. But it's such a common thing, especially nowadays it seems, at least from what I hear from people. Or it could just be that more people talk about it. But it's still one of those taboo subjects, and it really shouldn't be. If you go through this it's so so imortant that you talk to someone about it. Your partner, family and friends, professionals, or even if you want to be super anonymous then strangers on the internet. Just getting it off your chest and hearing about other people's stories helps so much. You think it wouldn't, but it really does.

[@Eltoria]

Talking has been my absolute therapy on this one! 100% agree :) xx

[@Vanya3342]

So sorry for you gorgeous, Simone! There are no words to express how sad this is. Simply no words ... Sending lots of love and positive energy.

[@Eltoria]

Thank you for your kind message xxxx

[@Vanya3342]

@@Eltoria it's deeply from my heart. My heart as a mom. The very best first moment in a mom's life in my eyes was not when the baby was born. Too much stress, hormonal storm at this moment and during the entire pregnancy in a pandemic era. The best moment for me is when you hear "Mama" for the first time. I wish you from the bottom of my heart to experience this magical moment soon. ⭐✨⭐✨

[@nichollsalazar6413]

I'm glad I found your video... this just happened to me a couple weeks ago and I'm devastated. Nice to know I can relate with somebody and I'm not the only one. 😔

[@heathersuess9872]

Thank u for talking about this. I’m going thru a miscarriage. I feel like it’s a death in the family. I was so excited about this baby.

[@chloeswatton5010]

So sorry for your loss. My mum had two miscarriages, one before me and one after me (I’m an only child). You will come out the other end shining brighter than the sun. Love to you and your family.

[@Eltoria]

Thanks so much for your support xxx

[@Footballmumandson]

So sorry for your loss ❤️ thank you for sharing your experience. I never thought I would be lucky enough to have a baby as I have endometriosis and had tried for years but I found out I was pregnant just before I turned 31 and now have a 2.5 year old boy. Praying it will happen for you too ❤️ stay strong xxxx

[@nadya3052]

I sympathize with you and really understand your feelings. You are not alone in this situation! This is very sad. I know for myself. I was helped by the thought that if a sick child was born, or died immediately after birth or in the later months of pregnancy, I would be more hurt, more offended. Now, probably, no words will help, but you are very strong if you can talk about it! hold on!

[@hitherebecky]

I’m so sorry this happened to you. It’s happened to me too and at the time I wish there was someone I looked up to talking about it, so it’s amazing that you can talk about it because it’ll help you and it will 100% help someone else

[@Eltoria]

I completely agree! Hoping that this video can help someone xx

[@mollyjaybooks]

I’m so so so sorry Simone!!! Sending you the biggest hug to you and Joe!! 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕 Thank you for sharing your story, I know it will help so many who have experienced this as well!! Love and hugs again to you both! xxxx

[@EstherrZ]

It happened to me too when I was around 6 weeks pregnant. But 2 months later I was pregnant again and I am now I'm getting twins! It happens a lot and I hope you will be pregnant soon too ❤

[@geenalizzi]

I just had my rainbow twins 3 weeks ago. I was also around 6 weeks when I went through my loss

[@annamilenamariani3751]

​@@geenalizzi I lost my rainbow twins at 10 weeks gestation 😢 currently hoping for a rainbow after my meant to be rainbows. ❤

[@thetoonfamily9066]

There just is no where near enough support there should be for child loss. I was disgusted with the lack of support when I went through this. You would expect to be offered some sort of counselling. I also never spoke to anyone about it because anyone who hasn’t gone through it doesn’t really understand, I was being told it’s ok your still young you can try again or you’ve already got a daughter you don’t need anymore really. So sorry for your loss ELTORIA, each day gets better but you never forget. “I carried you for a moment but you will be loved for a lifetime”

[@irishtatted-uptink6733]

So sorry this happened to you . You are very brave for talking about it so openly . It needs to be talked about though . Good job bringing up you are keeping the pregnancy test . You have a little box . It's ok to acknowledge all of your pregnancies. I see a great mom in you 💜 I myself have had multiple losses and multiple gains.

[@serenacarpenter4435]

I'm so sorry that this is happened to you. It is very hard having a miscarriage I have had seven. I was 4 months along on each knowing that I had five boys and two girls. And finally one day I was blessed with a beautiful daughter she is now 15. Keep trying and have faith and stay strong. It is very hard emotionally and mentally and physically by talking about it it really helps. My heart goes out to you in this time.

[@simplyraelou985]

I’m so sorry for your loss 💔 I also suffered a miscarriage on my birthday 2 1/2 years ago. It was the worst feeling. I cried for days. Still to this day no one really knows that it happened to me as I felt like I had no one other than my partner and I just had to get on with it. Our families are not the most supportive with things like this. I feel like I’m still not over it and wish I could have spoken more about it. I already had 3 boys (1 singleton & twins) and I’ve been blessed since to have another beautiful boy. It does get easier but I’ll never forget. You’re so brave and thank you for sharing. Sending you lots of hugs and love 💕

[@brj0906]

So sorry this happened to you, sending you big hugs and all my love. Thank you for being so brave in sharing your story with us, you truly are an incredible woman xx

[@Eltoria]

Thank you so much lovely for your support xxx

[@sarahbudd1623]

Aw, bless you. It’s awful. I have had 2 miscarriages before my first and third pregnancies ended this way. I have five lovely children now and there is life after this. Sending you so much love at this heartbreaking time. 💕💕💕

[@Eltoria]

Thank you so much for commenting! So reassuring that you've gone on to have lovely babies xx

[@sarahbudd1623]

@@Eltoria You WILL have your baby! I cried with you in your video. It brought back so many memories. That awful, heartbreaking feeling. It's totally devastating. I have boxes with my baby bits in too and always remember the dates, would be birthdays etc. It's never goes away but it does get easier. It will start to hurt a little less and will start to heal. I'm sure you have alot of support and I'm sure you talking so openly and honestly will help others who are going through the same. We'll done, it must of been so hard to film, thank you for doing that. Lots of love to ou and Joe too. X

[@siobhancoffey6240]

I am so sorry to you, I had a miscarriage around same gestation beginning of last year and it broke our hearts, there isn’t enough professional support and I had the same with the midwife I spoke to, we were lucky to conceive again and I am currantly 35 weeks pregnant with are rainbow but it’s been so tough so if/when you are blessed please seek help and support because pregnancy after miscarriage is hard too, sending lots of love and light ❤️

[@tammraakhimiona768]

I’m very sorry this happened to you. I’ve had 8 miscarriages and a stillborn daughter. I do not have any surviving children. I wish nothing but the absolute best for you & your hubby. May you be blessed with a beautiful rainbow baby soon.

[@AnneAndCamel]

So sorry for your loss. Speaking out is brave and necessary to help yourself and others.

[@doodlebob1898]

im sooo sorry sweet Eltoria . my love and warmth is with you

[@Eltoria]

Thank you for your support xxx

[@theresagauley6061]

I’m so sorry this happened to you. I felt exactly like you did, that it would never happen to me. It did. I had a miscarriage in 1986 and a live birth in 1988. Then another in 1996 with a live birth in 1999. I have been incredibly blessed but it didn’t erase the pain from the loss. Please keep talking and work towards constant hope. Your blessings will come.

[@Fayes-world]

I am truly sorry this happened to you!! You are incredibly strong for sharing your story with us 💞 my prayers go out to you!!

[@marikejvrensburg]

I'm so sorry this happened to you. I know the feeling. I had 2 miscarriages after trying to get pregnant for 7 year we finally have our beautiful little boy. There is still hope. Never give up.

[@staceyslimmings8531]

I really feel your pain 😞 I experienced this 5 years ago and it was the worse thing ever it’s took me all that time to get pregnant again 5 years of trying it just wasn’t happening and on Christmas Day I found out I was pregnant I’m now 14 weeks lots of love to you xxx

[@Eltoria]

Thats wondeful news!! Sending lots of love and positivity xx

[@zoegreen9432]

hey, just got the courage to watch this. just wanted to say something, the moment you mentioned your birthday and your fears for you birthday and future birthday. it maybe hard for the 1st couple of years. But i lost a baby many years ago, and a week after my due date. i found out i was pregnant again. that baby is now 14 years old, and as much as i still had moments for 1st couple of years, was it a boy or girl, who would he/she look like etc. I wouldnt have my son now. of course we will never forget that baby. but something one day will happen, that will just make this horrible experience abit easier for you. i hope you're doing ok. lots of hugs to you both xx

[@thepampepper7660]

Hugs and so sorry for your loss. I’ve had 3 miscarriages but I have 2 wonderful children. You are not alone, it is not your fault, and reaching out is healthy.

[@Eltoria]

Thanks so much babe your words are very reassuring :) xx

[@happyjayne2724]

MY SINCERE CONDOLENCES TO YOU AND JOE ON THE LOSS OF YOUR FIRST BABY. BLESSINGS TO YOU. LOVE FROM 🇨🇦

[@Eltoria]

Thank you lovely xx

[@Martina9323]

I am so sorry for your loss hun 🤍 both of you. I'm glad you shared your story with us , this will help so many people trust me. You're incredible person , stay strong and positive ❤️ sending love to you both

[@Eltoria]

Thanks so much lovely xxx

[@ElenaTsaroucha-sv7vv]

I had a miscarriage 2 days ago. I’m so devastated and feel hopeless and lonely.

[@hayleystaines8957]

I'm so so sorry, I know the feeling 😢 I lost my first baby around 7 weeks and I remember them telling me there was no heart beat and I cried and cried but my midwife said it is very very common in first pregnancy as your body don't always recognise what going on and baby will not survive but people say it gets better but you never forget 💔 xx sending lots of love ur way xx you are strong ❤️

[@darlenefrancis5380]

I’m so sorry this happened to you , I lost my first baby at 20 weeks and we were devastated. We got to hold our sweet boy but it takes a long time to heal , we will never forget our little boy and we see him in our little girl. Be gentle with each other , heal and try to find happiness

[@Eltoria]

Oh I am so so sorry to hear this, it's horrible!! Sending you lots of love and positivity xx

[@emilyjunkin2824]

thank you for sharing your story. it’s such a difficult, confusing thing to deal with. i miscarried my first pregnancy at six months gestation. they had to endure labor and i had to go through my first labor experience knowing the outcome. it’s still hard to deal with and it happened 8-12-15. i cried for months all day every day. my main struggle is not knowing why. my doctor said sometimes these things just happen. i was perfectly healthy, and the baby (she was a girl we named her Jennaline) was six months old so they did some tests and she was perfectly healthy also. so it’s a mystery still as to why we lost her. it was such a terrible experience. and i’m so so sorry you’ve had to experience this pain. just know it does get easier. honestly the pain never leaves and i feel like it’s something i’ll never recover from. but it does get easier. idk if you have other children, but if not, you ARE a mother! and you will forever be that babies mom. i’ve since had two perfect, beautiful boys. but my daughter is always with me. we had her cremated and i have her ashes in urn and displayed with all the hospital stuff and little things i had bought for her in a shadow box. we are all here for you! and we all live you! and remember crying is healing, so let it out. ❤️❤️ sorry this is so long. sending you and Joe love and healing thoughts. lean on each other. and remember it’s not your fault, you did absolutely nothing wrong, nothing you did or didn’t do caused this. i find comfort in telling myself, “God thought she was too beautiful and special for earth.” love you and thank you again for sharing. i know it’s helped many people. ❤️

[@hollyjohnson2571]

The timing on this video, I’ve literally just been through a missed miscarriage this week and it’s been the most heartbreaking and painful thing ever❤️

[@Eltoria]

I am so sorry to hear this babe but I promise it gets easier and it will happen one day

[@hollyjohnson2571]

@@Eltoria Thank you so much❤️

[@shayleigh6019]

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[@InnerMoka2002]

I am so sorry that had happened to you. my cousin had a miscarriage 2 years ago and it was horrific and I want to say I'm glad you opened up like that❤❤

[@kyreniabell1605]

Aww crying for you, so sorry you have had to go through that, I have never been pregnant before, me and my partner have been trying for 5 years, we are now with a fertility clinic, and been given the go ahead for IVF, the road to being parents might not be easy for some but keep your head up, stay strong and know there is always people to talk to, sending you both the biggest hugs xx

[@Eltoria]

It's not easy is it! So glad you've been given the green light

[@kyreniabell1605]

@@Eltoria xxx

[@samanthahunter1759]

I don't know you but I wanted to hug you watching this. I'm so sorry for your loss and I think you are so brave for sharing your story. I don't know if you will find any comfort in this but I've had 4 miscarriages and I have also had 3 healthy children. Sadly we don't know too much about why miscarriages happen, give yourself time.

[@blondel8408]

I am so sorry for your loss my darling. I wish I could give you a hug! Thank you for sharing your story with us. I’ve had 3 miscarriages in 10 years. Sending you love, light and healing ❤️‍🩹

[@Eltoria]

So sorry to hear that babe and thank you for the support xx

[@kellymoore5221]

So sorry for your loss 😔 well done for finding the strength to share your story you will definitely help lots of people with similar experiences wishing you the very best x

[@Eltoria]

I really hope it does help xxx

[@adathefirst6600]

😢😢 I lost my 7 weeks pregnancy today and I feel like dying ,. So scared , and don't know how to move on

[@amyjones6028]

I’m so sorry for you lovely. I also had a miscarriage when I was between 7-8 weeks. 😢 I can sympathise with you. Sending you lots of love, xx

[@Eltoria]

So sorry this happened to you too xxx

[@amyjones6028]

@@Eltoria Thanks lovely, it happened when I had a 9 month old, so it would have been a challenge, but still it was as horrific to go through! 😞 xxx

[@just1_millyboo632]

I just had a miscarriage at 14 weeks and I’m devastated I’m so sorry this happened to you 💔😔

[@rosiewillis3300]

Thank you so much for sharing. Im so sorry for your loss.I lost my baby at 6 weeks yesterday . Youve helped me, thank you ❤❤❤

[@danl5961]

Thank you for posting this. Sending all the love, really helped me as I suffered one last year. I am the same age as you and we also got pregnant the first month too! So similar.. sending hugs 💕

[@amandadutcher5854]

I hope nobody makes any unneeded comments. I lost a baby and now I can't have another one. I have a beautiful girl and boy. My Mom and mother in were upset I didn't say anything. Thank you for sharing your story I feel like you're sharing mine and many woman's.

[@Shelbymayy]

Thank you so much for using your platform to break the taboo💕 I suffered a miscarriage myself in September at 9 weeks (we also got pregnant first try) and there's no feeling like it, you summed it up well, you feel empty. I'm sorry you had to go through it too 💕😔

[@Eltoria]

So sorry to hear this too! It's such an empty feeling isn't it xxx

[@suenorman9718]

Thank you for using your platform to share your experience. You are completely right, miscarriage is a taboo subject still and no it's not something people want to talk about or hear, but like you I found it quite helpful in the healing process to talk about it. My husband and I have been trying for two years and have had several losses and if I didn't talk it out I would be a basket case! Completely understand. Feel better and take care of each other❤️❤️xx

[@Eltoria]

It's so so difficult isn't it, you feel like your body isn't working. Thank you so much for your support and I'm sorry for your losses xxx

[@suenorman9718]

@@Eltoria that's completely it-how can my body not do what it's designed to do? It's not the be all and end all of who I am, but it can be so disheartening. Must stay positive though ❤️xx

[@melodyreeves4083]

I was the same hunni, i never thought it would happen to me. I had three but now i have an amazing one year old. Thank you so so much for talking about it. When i had my first miscarriage, no one spoke about it, i didnt know anyone that had ever suffered with one. I am sorry for you hunni x

[@Eltoria]

Oh I am so happy to hear this, gives me hope

[@melodyreeves4083]

@@Eltoria always hope beautiful! Dont give up, i was broken and thought there was no way i can keep trying and now i have my beautiful 🌈 sending you all the love in the world xx

[@irisosp90]

I am so sorry ❤️ this video came out the same day that I came from the hospital because I had a miscarriage of my own. I was 6 weeks pregnant. Thank you for speaking about this ❤️ I believe it will help a lot of people in the future

[@Eltoria]

So sorry to hear that babe but I promise you it gets better! Sending lots of love to you xxxx

[@riddle4923]

Sadly first trimester miscarriages are very common...my auntie lost my twin cousins and another baby....she lost her first baby about a year before my little cousin was born and then she suffered the twin miscarriage before my second baby cousin was born! She is now a mother of three beautiful babies! I remember it hit our family very hard but looking back, I believe it had to happen...it was what needed to happen....I'm wishing you all the strength and I hope you know that it will get better! Love you!

[@Eltoria]

It seems to be very common! Awh bless um so glad she has x3 little babies now! Thank you for your support xxxx

[@roxannerobinson9173]

Its an awful experience, so heartbreaking. I went through 3 rounds of ivf the last one they implanted 2 embryos & was positive i was so happy as didnt think it was going to work but a cpl wks later the levels didnt increase. I didnt want to accept it hadnt worked so continued with the meds but then i started bleeding, clots etc, it really is the most horrible feeling knowing deep down its unsuccessful im sure i saw the sacs come out too. Im 36 so just really hoping at some point we have some luck, hope you do too! I continue to stay positive, tell myself maybe it wasnt the right time & believe it will happen when the time is right, stay hopeful ❤ xx

[@gailjackson7230]

Nothing can prepare you for miscarriage. I’ve had 5 one on Christmas Eve and one of my Wedding Day… and it never gets easier, every loss breaks you abit more but got to keep having hope that one day it will happen 💚

[@julieescalante4491]

I found out my baby didn’t have a heartbeat this past Wednesday and I am devastated. But reading all of your experiences and how you all have had your rainbow babies it gives me hope. ❤️

[@TheWallflowerDiaries]

i haven't personally experienced this type of loss but at the end of the day a loss is a loss and i just want you and everyone else who has ever been in this situation to know that everything will be 'OKAY ' i promise maybe not today or tomorrow or a week from now but one day. till then my heart goes out to you all x

[@Eltoria]

Thank you so much for your kind words xxx

[@TheWallflowerDiaries]

@@Eltoria anytime x

[@ameka12345]

Thank you so much for sharing. I've also recently experienced a miscarriage and as strange as it sounds, this video brought me so much comfort 💕

[@Eltoria]

Oh I am so sorry to hear that but I am glad this gives you comfort xxx

[@justdanie7613]

Thank you for sharing something so vulnerable. I am sorry for your loss 🥺🙏🏾 i want to give you a hug

[@joannejoiner387]

Currently experiencing the dreaded wait to confirm if I've lost my baby. I've had heavy bleeding since Tuesday 10.30pm. I went to the hospital and baby was in the womb but no heartbeat. Bleeding got worse sounding exactly like your experience I have another scan booked for next Wednesday, the wait is horrendous. So sorry for your loss but just know your story is helping ❤️

[@shayleigh6019]

Aww I just want to give you a big hug hun! So so so hard to experience a loss, the pain never goes away, you so very brave bless you. I sadly lost three last year, first two were after a couple of days finding out April and May. My third I fell pregnant in Augest and was 11weeks when I experienced the discharge and cramping. Went for an early scan and baby had stopped growing around 7 weeks, had medication as was classed as an incomplete miscarriage but didn’t work. I would of been 16-17 weeks when my body decided to pass my little loss naturally. The heartbreak can not be described. I found out last week I’m pregnant again and I truly don’t know how to feel as of yet. But I will be getting an early scan this time. Best wishes for the future for you and your partner ❤️ ⛈ 🌈 🌟 ⛅️

[@deliglow]

💔I lost my 1. And 2. Baby but a few years ago i have a 2 healthy girls now!❤️ its horrible but its normal in this world😢 You will be a perfect mom🍀in the right time☀️

[@traceyb8141]

So sorry eltoria for your loss you have done the right thing by talking about it. Hugs to you both

[@kirstennewport1320]

I’m So Sorry For Your Loss Its Such A Horrible Feeling I Had A Misscarriage Hugs To You And Joe ❤️❤️❤️ It’s Not Your Fault Don’t Ever Blame Yourself 🥺. You Haven’t Let Joe Down ❤️

[@kirstennewport1320]

I Just Got To The End Of The Video Eltoria I’m In Tears 🥺😭 If I Wouldn’t Of Had A Misscarriage My Baby Would Of Been Born In March Which Is The Same Month Of My Birthday 🥺😭❤️❤️❤️

[@simonebruggeman2847]

Hi Simone, i am so sorry this happened to you both. We have gone true the same thing twice but with IVF. The grieving is the worst feeling. I wish you guys much luck in the future! You are really strong talking about this!

[@Eltoria]

It's horrible isnt it! Sending lots of love back xxx

[@crichards3533]

Bless you I truly hope your both healing now. I had a miscarriage without realising I was pregnant ( was told I would never be able to have children ) I was around 3 months pregnant. It was a complete shock! My periods were never regular so being late was just the norm. I had never experienced pain like what I went through the night it all happened! I took what I passed to the doctors who confirmed what I was holding wrapped in tissue was a foetus. Unfortunately I will never become a mom as I’ve had to have a full hysterectomy for medical reasons. I do think of what could have been but I do not dwell on it. I’m a mom to three feline babies. Your chance I’m sure will happen again. Lots of love to you Eltoria

[@lisaconnolly3904]

Oh im so so sorry this happened to you , such a sensitive topic but will help you and others xxx

[@tammyjohnson648]

I lost my baby at 14weeks pregnant. I absolutely broke down, I had to deliver my baby girl Harmony Rose. I have my rainbow 🌈 baby he is 7yrs old. My partner didn’t cry about our loss, I still blame myself and I think I’ve never spoken to much about her as I felt no one cared as my partner just didn’t care. I’ve had no support. I grieve everyday 😭😭

[@gnjimz]

Thank you for this vid. This helps me navigate life after just losing ours yesterday.

[@Mandi_Hui]

I had a feeling there might be something going on since you usually upload vlogs regularly and really happy and cheerful. I am so sorry to hear your sad story 🥺hope you get better soon. I understand how you would feel i think every woman do experience miscarriage in there life and do continue on having healthy pregnancies afterwards. Sending you a big comfort hug 🤗

[@Eltoria]

Yes it's been pretty tough lately! Thank you for your support xxx

[@ednagordner9061]

I’m so sorry for your loss, I lost my first baby at 4 months pregnant 28 yrs ago and it was so hard and still is hard some days. I have 2 wonderful sons.

[@BrookeRobertsbrookesbraces]

This got me. I had a missed miscarriage at 9 weeks :( it’s awful but talking about it helped me so good on you! Sending so much love and strength! Xxx

[@Eltoria]

Thanks so much babe sending you lots of love xxx

[@ourclarkclan]

I'm so sorry that this has happened to you. This happened to me at around 9 weeks pregnant. Unfortunately nature's way of saying baby wasn't healthy enough. Please be reassured that I went on to having 2 healthy pregnancies afterwards, with 2 healthy babies. Both of which I wouldnt of had if it weren't for that miscarriage. Not that makes it any easier at the time. Sending you lots of love and strength to get you through this time. But well done for sharing, it's more common than people voice. Your time will come ❤️😘

[@Eltoria]

Thank you so so much for your very reassuring comment

[@anniesammy5991]

Hi I came across your video, which helped me a lot because I know you recently had a baby. I had a miscarriage 2 weeks ago and I still feel empty. I'm hoping it goes away. The baby would of been due on my husband's birthday. But thank you for sharing.

[@chidimmamandy7438]

Exactly I lost my baby last month 26 September the baby is also my husband birthday mate ....it is well the one that will stay will come ❤

[@KreativeKookie]

i’m so sorry for your loss rest in peace:(

[@naomimonks2991]

I am so sorry to hear this. I’m sending you love and peaceful vibes. Stay strong. Xxxx

[@meganc5273]

It happens a lot especially if it’s the first pregnancy. I have so many family members that it happened to and they are on 2 plus kids. Give it time. Let the body heal and in no time you will have a beautiful baby. I know it will still never take away what happened and how you feel.

[@charlottejenkins4315]

You are so brave and so courageous sharing something so personal whilst grieving too, but you are amazing as you would have helped so many others, so so sorry this happened to you both, it is definitely a taboo subject and I do not understand why, sending so much love to you ❤

[@Eltoria]

Thank you so much for your support

[@toriplayssg]

The statistic is not that 1 in 4 women will have a miscarriage it is that 1-4 pregnancies will end in miscarriage. This is because a woman who has had an 1 miscarriage is more likely to have more.

[@miaallsup973]

i am so so sorry for your loss! i completely understand how painful it is as i lost a baby back in october last year❤️

[@Eltoria]

I'm so sorry to hear this babe, it's so horrible isn't it xxx

[@SF-cj2hy]

I miscarried in February 2021, then fell pregnant again in July 2021 and now due April 2022!! It'll happen for you too! I bled for about 6 weeks and that was overwhelming.

[@jarrettenaope7038]

Im Sooo Sorry Angel...🌹😢...I Hope there are Solutions In theFuture...Heal for now...And Look at Many other Options Available...I Have faith One Day you will become A Wonderful Mother...You Chose to Speak and Not give up...So it IS DESTINED

[@Laura22_new]

I’m so sorry, Eltoria.

[@carlabox457]

I'm sorry lovely 💕 I had a missed miscarriage at 13 weeks had to have a d&c may 2006 then had my son august 2010 then had an ectopic April 2013 at 7 week had to have my tube removed then had a early miscarriage at 6 weeks few months later then another Jan 2014 6 weeks then had my daughter june 2014 then my son may 2015 then a ruptured ectopic pregnancy at 5+ weeks August 2020 had to have an emergency operation as I was bleeding internally! Honestly us women are so strong and your amazing if you can get through this then you can get through anything. Loosing a baby that you've known about for a few weeks will imprint on heart for a lift time I wish you all the best for the future 🙏 ❤️

[@Eltoria]

Oh my goodness you've really been through it! Absolutely agree with you, you never forget at all xxxx

[@cookiedough9844]

Sending hope that you have your 🌈 baby x ETA. I'm severely anemic and I generally didn't know it affects you getting pregnant so I'm greatful to know this as my husband and I know we would struggle if we wanted to get pregnant xx

[@agatiki777]

Happened to me as well last year. I was absolutely heartbroken. Anyway, I started an in-depth digging and based on my blood test results, I have a sticky blood and I am now on blood thinners and I have problems with absorbing folic acid and have to be on folate. I didn't give up and will never give up x

[@dianebaker5243]

🥰

[@Eltoria]

never ever give up babe xxxx

[@daisyoverton4071]

I’m so sorry, my heart broke for you hearing your story. I kept all of my pregnancy tests too. Xxx