MY MOM'S BIG CHOP | Removing Heat Damage | Type 4 Hair

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[@jeannetteduette6704]

Mama is blessed to have daughters they she is close to. Mama took care of them and as you can see, they take care of mama. Mama looks naturally beautiful.

[@alisonhilaire4170]

Mama-el is looking great after her big chop! Maybe if you try a bantu-knot out, you can recreate her look! Also, when I see your entire body, your fro looks even bigger!!!

[@d.alexis4056]

its wider than her! 😯🤯

[@deborahtrigs3270]

I’m sorry but that’s not an accurate haircut! That hair is going to be so uneven!!! Should have had it cut by a known license profession! But the final results did look good! Your mom has a beautiful head of thick hair! 👌🏾I’m a licensed cosmetologist by the way! 👍🏾

[@laurahire7208]

It does make her sort of look like a real life doll, because they usually make the head a bit proportionally bigger than the body. 😁 She, her sister, and her mom are all so pretty but they each look distinctively different. The hair and skin tone really presents so differently when you see the full family, and I love it. I feel like they could do family modeling. 💕

[@sonatural24]

Just by the little things, the body language, the way you look at you mom, I can see how much you love her. The way you are so excited to recreate the look (hairstyle) your mom had in the photo...This was so adorable! For those who disliked this video go do something productive, or maybe go stare in a corner or wall somewhere.

[@cjzanders5430]

Charmaine lookin cute✅ Mama spitting jewels ✅ Sissy on the tools ✂️ ✅

[@dshae2293]

Bars 🙌🏾

[@cjzanders5430]

diashae - haha. Yeah.

[@adjanic4643]

Uh oh! Poet in the house!

[@cjzanders5430]

adjanic - I’m a wordsmith. What can I say?

[@elicente]

Wow! What an awesome Video 🥰 Your mother is so beautiful 😍.. Her hair turned out great!👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾ThankYou for sharing the great tips 😊❤️ Have a wonderful day 😀

[@aliciasidar]

How about a round of applause for sis! She did a bomb job shaping up mom's hair! Your mom looks really pretty! 👏

[@danan5840]

Love your mom’s cut. It fits her face. Love to see how genetic’s across family members can be so different. You all are beautiful!

[@jesuisannesophierb749]

Your mom is so lovely, I think the fact that she had the courage to do that is great, my mom is over 60 and there is no way she gives up on relaxer 😩. You should do one with your father and one with your boyfriend on their view on afro hair and your journey with your hair

[@anndeecosita3586]

Jesuisannesophierb Her mom said she stopped getting relaxers years ago because she was tired of them. I think her straight hair was heat damage. My mom doesn’t relax but she has had heat damage that left her hair straight.

[@jesuisannesophierb749]

@@anndeecosita3586 yes but I meant the courage to bigchop and not to use relaxers as well. my mom would never do neither of this two things. She thinks afro hair are not pretty and don't understand why my sister and I have stopped relaxing our hair

[@DK-qj7cr]

Jesuisannesophierb :61 here and I stopped relaxing in 2009 and chopped in 2010...now my mama hated my natural hair but that was my dear momma’s hang up 🤷🏽‍♀️🙅🏽‍♀️

[@bre9328]

When black women first went natural they did the natural hair tag with their black significant others because the black mindset needs to change regarding natural hair. Once we except our hair other races viewpoint on our hair won't matter. To other races our hair will always be different whether it's relaxed or natural, so their opinion isn't called for. I guess my question is, although the men in their life are with them, why does it matter what they think of afro hair? Will the white dad and Asian fiancee then have to do a straight hair tag, and ask the women their opinion on Asian and white hair? The tag was meant to be ground breaking for black men and women, so our mindset would change towards our own hair, but ppl took the tag, and started asking their non black significant other about their hair. It makes it look like we are seeking validation. I'm honestly not looking to argue, but would love to hear your thoughts

[@jesuisannesophierb749]

@@bre9328 this is not about validation because when she met her fiancé she had afro hair, in her dad case she is born with it and when she bigchoped it was a personal decision she didn't ask for permission. I just thought it would be interesting and fun to see their view on afro hair the same way we had in previous videos her sister's view on afro hair and bigchoped that I thought was lovely. And it's not because we choose to have afro hair and a bigchop which is a completely personal decision that we have to put ourselves in a box and rejecting others people that have not afro hair or who are not black point of view because they are going to have one anyway positive or negative the same way we have an opinion on other type of hair because we are just human beings. This is our own decision to gives other people opinions importance or not

[@arushisharma4058]

I agree she's looking amazing. The new cut suits her face shape..

[@loriwilliams7610]

I have two sons and this makes me want a daughter so badly! Your love for your mom is so palpable and how the two of you took care of her just warms my heart! I smiled from the beginning to the end! Mom is looking beautiful! You get your beauty from her!

[@beewhiz9666]

Now, it is time to give your mom a 'makeover!' Her hair makes her light up and seem to be cheerful! Keep up the good work!

[@heididobson5582]

Your mom is beautiful. You talk and sound just like her. Your sister did a great job with the cut. Love your video’s.❤️

[@claudetteclarke8437]

are you girls twin?

[@sandraatkins2539]

Mom is beautiful.🥰

[@jnieswartz4878]

I love everything about this girl and her family! Everything from her look to her voice! She’s a lot like her mom. Love it. Love this family

[@stephimarie5474]

You mom has a beautiful complexion and smile...her relaxed demeanor makes me think of my mom 🥺where my phone...

[@sandraatkins2539]

🥰❤

[@tifdoe2380]

Your mom seems like such a sweet person... a very gentle soul.

[@solitaircloud2319]

Honestly, yr mom has the sweetest disposition. Just a nice, calming force emitting from her. Yes her hair has a new start and would 💘 to see the follow up vid. I am growing mine out too and have problems maintaining it but hope to follow along with u guys.

[@naigh-naighwhy222]

Sharmain your fro is insane 🙌🏾😍😍😍

[@IjeomaThePlantMama]

She looks great! Your mom is a natural storyteller, I loved listening to her hair journey and comparing it to yours. And can I just say, I've really loved following your journey for the past year or so. Not just your hair journey, but your "beauty KZbinr" journey as well. You're oozing with confidence and I've noticed so much personal growth compared to the girl in the vlogmas videos who was apprehensive to open up too much. So proud of your success girl!💕💕

[@alxahh]

Selena is so talented when it comes to doing hair, is she a hair dresser??

[@SharmaineJoyel]

No but she needs to be! Thank you 💕😁

[@elmyra.jackson]

I was going to ask the same question.

[@minnied84]

Yea she did a good job. Mom looks so good.

[@amberbey3010]

Selena has skills! ❤😊

[@katrinamichee7119]

I was actually 41 when I decided to give up relaxers I was totally lost it’s great you are encouraging your moms healthy hair journey

[@lillanthompson9086]

I gave up relaxing over a year ago. Before my 62nd birthday. Natural at 63.

[@DDJones-yi1pm]

I was over 40, too when I went natural. I don't regret it.

[@jediwalker2010]

Wow! I’m 41 and I decided a few months ago to stop relaxing my hair after 10 years of non stop chemicals. I hope 41 is the magic number and that I actually stick with it🤞🤞

[@2595chris]

Gone are the days! 😂 but I still remember like yesterday! Now I got tired of doing anything to my hair and it’s so expensive too. I have wear my low cut now for 12 years! Your mama is beautiful and I like how you two just love on her and make her look more beautiful. ❤️🙏

[@AstroByLauren]

Your mom is gorgeous! You two look and SOUND just alike 😅💜

[@stigmatamartyr4223]

I just can't get over how perfect your fro is 😍

[@JD-kp6pt]

Joy-el green eyed Afro beauty

[@artheaux666]

Layla Petes Ewwww quit the fetishized mixed girl thing. It’s cringy and gross.

[@Kayla-eh5fb]

Layla Petes right. Especially by black people cause they are considered not black enough. It needs to stop

[@mirandasings908]

@Finn ,ikr

[@artheaux666]

Mary Smith James Nobody called her gross, dumbass. Don’t put words in my mouth. What I said is right there. The fetishizing comment is gross.

[@sasshil4202]

Finn YES YES YES , someone with sense ✨

[@rowlan29]

I love black momma stories lol Thank you for your videos! I have been on the struggle bus on struggle highway for a while and have dealt with heat damage every few years just like you. Thanks for being proud of your Afro!! You will inspire a lot of girls and women to be proud of theirs

[@antoinettechevalier2453]

Your mom is so beautiful! Thanks for encouraging her to share her hair story with us. Love what y’all did w her tresses - gorgeous!

[@phillyvalkyrie1091]

Your mom looked so beautiful with her fro!! Three Queens in one video! Go mom!

[@CandiedCableKicks]

Your mom talking about the tight braids 😫😫😫😫😫 oooooh the memories...and painful flashbacks 😫🤣😂 Love love LOVE her stories 😇

[@7Miss4Bunny7]

Mama is soo pretty !

[@GodsChildBri]

Yes I love her dimples. Dang, I’m so late to this video

[@kendrad9945]

You ladies are a great example of the beauty in black DNA and the variety it can create. I'm not negating you ladies white side. But black people DNA is so amazing, resilient, magical and beautiful!! Joy-el your crown is gorgeous and I'm so happy to see you embracing it and keeping it healthy

[@vivianmcintyre6113]

Your mom is the cutest! She’s always smiling, easy to see she’s good people. I like her.

[@megindunlap313]

You and your mom have the 70s look very beautiful family

[@emmamccoy8381]

Your mom is beautiful 🙂 That cut ✂️ looks GREAT on her 👍🏼

[@annab3182]

Your Mama, is so incredible. I love her energy! She truly is beautiful what a gift.

[@evabright8735]

Your Mom is looking beautiful with her big chop. Hearing her hair history reminded me of mine as a woman at 53 years young.

[@wannabe41]

I loved this video! I’m 60 and your mom’s hair story is so similar to mine. From the kitchen press and curl to the Jheri Curl to trying to figure out what to do with my hair. Her fro looks beautiful! You and your sister make a great team!

[@Marcotc17]

It's funny how things go full circle; all those treatments and styles your Mom was listing from back in the day, and her daughters are walking her through going back to her (no pun intended) natural roots. This was so nice of you and your sister to do for her! Did you know you resemble her when you both smile? Well done!

[@sable7114]

Your mother's beautiful with beautiful dimples and the new afro is so becoming on her. Your sister did a good job with that big chop.

[@JermaineAuNatural]

Your mom seems like a darling of a lady. Gorgeous woman and in that split second you showed the picture of her with the Gericurl and your face peeked in, I could see that you look like her. The cut looked really good🥰

[@artisticagi]

Jermaine Au Natural she is repping Angela Davis heavy!

[@JermaineAuNatural]

artisticagi Yes!!! I can see it!

[@DH-uw3us]

Your mom is beautiful. I can definitely see the resemblance between her and your sister.

[@sibria]

her short cut looks great, she's beautiful!

[@DDJones-yi1pm]

Your mother has a glorious head of full thick hair! What a blessing to pass to one's daughters. She was absolutely gorgeous on her photo. She still is!! Thanks for taking part in this video Mom!

[@thedarknessofnana]

I love your relationship with your sister and mom! You all seem very close, it makes me smile. 😊😊😊 I absolutely love your mom’s new cut and her salt and pepper coming in, as well! And I’ve said this before on another video of yours, but you and I have nearly the exact same hair texture. I’m going on 6 months past my second big chop where I’m starting all over again after learning from my past hair mistakes. I’m embracing all the volume and lack of defined curls this time around and using far less product (losing that need to ‘define’ a curl). I hope in another year and a half, my fro is starting to look as full as yours. I can’t get enough of how healthy and vibrant it looks. 😄

[@shereeseblackman7871]

You got your mom's smile 😁

[@ltrotter636]

Your sister did a great job on your mom's hair!! Each of you ladies look so very different... each of you has a distinct beauty and a clear appreciation and respect for the other's beauty! Lovely to see thanks for sharing.

[@aurelea2153]

💝

[@curlswithlizzz_]

Such a sweet video ☺️ I love genetics, look at the spectrum of hair types 😊. As much as I’m natural my mom does NOT wanna go natural 🤣, she reminds me constantly. I got my hair from my dad, but my mom took care of my hair.

[@allysongrantstuart]

your mom is gorgeous, her hair looks so nice and healthy

[@Justme68ification]

Sis did an excellent job on your mom's hair! It was great hearing the evolution of your mom's hair journey! Not to mention, she has a beautiful smile. 💖 Looking forward to the update. 💕

[@License85]

That picture is everything. So many people had that same pose for their senior picture. Wow that brought back memories.

[@trenderleneerinma]

this was sweet to watch. it brought a smile to my face, seeing your sister cut your mom's hair, while you asked questions, and your mother sharing oral history around hair... it's very special. i do not know if this is what you do regularly, as this is the first vid of your's i've come across, but i'd personally be into watching more vids in which folx shared oral history, centered around hair practices that were passed down. when she got descriptive about her moments in the kitchen getting her hair pressed (grey smoke around hair, and all the sizzling), i felt like i was back in the kitchen getting my hair pressed, being told that i wasn't being burned, and it was "just the heat," lmao. thank you for sharing. *hit's like, subscribe, and the 'all' bell*

[@DDJones-yi1pm]

I'm in my 50's, too. And my daughter who went natural took a professional photo sporting a natural fro after going natural. She took the photo in honor of myself and my Sister after coming across our portraits with fros. Your mom hair looks great!!

[@unicewilson3193]

This family is awesome. Your mom is gorgeous. This smile...wow

[@sandrabradshaw3040]

Beautiful Mom & beautiful daughters.....I love the relationship you have ❤❤ God bless you all 🙏🏽

[@NickyM_0]

What your Mom described was 100% spot on! That was EXACTLY my experience growing up. The hot comb on the stove/cooker fire. You had to guess to regulate the heat, to make sure you were not going to burn your hair to a frazzle!

[@Andrea_Lewis]

Great video, and beautiful family. The most precious part that made me smile was the bonding, and your mom sharing family history. I'm into my family's genealogy and the info my mom shared with talks like that gave me a good running start. Wish she was still here for me to share things I found with her. Treasure your mom. Blessings!

[@rebbit8767]

I love it! The shape fits her so well, and her storytelling is so good! Hope to see her again, yall are so pretty together!!

[@Jenthornt3]

Mom is so adorable!!

[@lisaflores8801]

I enjoyed watching your family together and listening to things we've all tried! Do that more often 👍🏽

[@marywright5320]

Wow! I just love what your sister did to your mom’s hair! She’s pretty good! I can also appreciate the hair history she gave because I was born in the 50’s. Great team work you guys! Looking forward to the monthly updates.

[@laurelbradwell3666]

Your mom’s hair looks amazing but this whole time I couldn’t take my eyes off her teeth they are so beautiful

[@bowiesmama9096]

OH MY GOD!!!! Your mom is super adorable and her hair looks great. Please show more videos of her hair because I'm curious to see if her hair will grow as quickly as yours.

[@unbotheredbklyn2789]

One word: beautiful. Watching videos like this puts in perspective how I miss my mom. Thx for sharing.

[@TheGummybears101]

Neat! My mom’s paternal grandmother was also part Native American and she had long hair she would wash and brush it and it would be straight, no chemicals. She was also from Philadelphia. I love your mom’s hair love the grey streak too it’s beautiful.

[@tvelicia]

Go Mama-el! I'm in my 50s and have natural hair as well. It's great that both daughters are embracing their natural hair.

[@elizabethc9843]

What a lovely cut🙌🏾 this suits your beautiful mom💕

[@mon6745]

Omg... I love this video😍😍😍 your mom is so sweet and it touched my heart to hear the stories of her hair and her journey. She looks amazing with her big chop! And you girls look so much like her - nice to see the family resemblance! This was honestly one of my fav videos!

[@jewelelliott4529]

Love your mom talking about the old days, her hair looks nice!! I can relate been there and did some of that myself back in the didn’t have a lot of things out for your hair like now! I enjoy listening to her talk and the mother and daughters bonding brought back memories of me and my mother, God Bless🙏🏽

[@missmb4798]

Love mommy’s hair! I want to see her with a wash and go, I’ll have to look through your videos, you may have done one with her already. I had every experience your mom did, I’m a little older than her, so I remember ducking the straightening comb, relaxers, I wore a Jheri curl through 5 years of college and had a relaxer in my hair from 1986 to May 2020. My only regret is that I never gave my natural hair a chance. I’m sad that I’m just discovering what my natural curl pattern looks like this late in life. And the real irony? ALLLL those years I spent getting it straightened and curled? MY HEAD’s FULL OF CURLS! Go figure. I call my hair Dorothy, because like in the Wizard 🧙🏾‍♀️ of Oz, i always had inside the thing I went searching for outside.

[@justkitkat]

Awww, all three of you are beautiful and I love your mother's new cut! ❤

[@LBellatrix]

I'm closer to your mama's age and her story brought back ALL the memories, lol. I hated sitting by that stove to get my hair straightened. Also I never got a Jheri curl although my sisters and mom and a lot of my friends did. Her new haircut looks great! Good job, you two!

[@vanessa_the_mindset_maven]

" Sit in the kitchen....next to the Stov..."..NNNNNOOOOOooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!! I am 47 and I completely understand

[@laurenlocd3180]

Vanessa ButtuhFly I am 30 and I understand too lol

[@OlObuffalo]

This Mum is beautiful and she looks much younger with the cut.

[@joannavant5152]

You guys did a great job! Such a fun video to watch!

[@stigmatamartyr4223]

Your mom brought back my painful memories of the straightening comb 😣

[@goddesstara4949]

Your sister did a beautiful job on your Mother’s hair. ❤️

[@geraldineduncan9212]

Your mom looks beautiful you are three beautiful young ladies God bless you guys

[@Truthfinder77]

It’s so easy to make your own hair leave-in and twist cream. Finding the right oil mix can be a little challenging but it’s fun. Your mom is gorgeous.

[@patrickjonesroth5440]

Good job on your mom's hair. LOVE YOUR LOOK!!!

[@ondreahlee1159]

ur mom is soooo me. i totally can relate same experiences. u both have ur moms speech pattern and mannerism. love it. strong bond here. keep up the great work. ur following is growing. loving this content. bring mama on more often.

[@aurelea2153]

Yes!!! We want to see Mama more often 😄

[@richieyh3211]

Your mama is beautiful! I love how her hair came out. And you have her smile. Good genes are strong in your family. Hope your mama is loving her hair as much as we do.

[@maryconte4474]

You girls are so sweet to do your mom's hair and tell her hair story. I can relate. Thank you, for sharing!!!

[@mariadowd2550]

Great job! Your mom haircut fits her face! Very nice!! Family love, family support! Mommy and her girls🙏🏽💕

[@nicolerodriguez16]

How beautiful! She even looks happier! 😍 Yay for big chop! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@AdrenaWest787]

Mom genetics are strong, especially the hair Geneies. Hair, is a beautiful thing, and it should be learned how to take care off. With a relaxer or non-relaxer. I love my natural hair, I would not trade it any thing.

[@Naamy19X9]

I cant wait to watch your mother's 1 year update. She looks amazing.

[@deborahreynolds5103]

Go 'head Mama-el, I remember when. I still have my hot comb..and it got done in the kitchen or between my Moms legs. I have 4C hair. Did the big chop now looking for a way to embrace it. Glad I found you. Thank you beautiful.

[@Snwhite67]

Your mom is beautiful! You guys did a good job on her.

[@BeautyandStyleFiles]

Your mom is BEAUTIFUL!! 😍 You all are!! ❤️

[@breej69]

Your family is full of beautiful black women! You and your sister both have your moms smile and warm heart.

[@taunyamoss2007]

She looks beautiful! 💛

[@leelaturanga5461]

Sweet family video. Mum must be very proud of her girls. And good job on the haircut, it looks great!

[@shannonmorris8384]

Moms is killin' em with the dimples! Love the salt & pepper hair & the cut (surprisingly). Your sis scared the crap out of me when she was asking what to do around :34 LMAO. I thought it was about to be carnage but it turned out great

[@antoinettechevalier2453]

Shannon Morris LOL ... Joy-el’s sister is *fearless* w regards to doing hair! Give her a few seconds to read the lay of the land, then she’s off and running w the scissors, doing an *amazing* job. That girl has mad skills - great work!

[@traceygregory7365]

I am late seeing your video regarding your mom’s big chop. Your sister did a beautiful job cutting moms hair. I love the funky patch of grey in your mother’s hair it looks so chic.😊

[@stephpowell7648]

Man, I'm 31 and I still had a jerry curl lol. Your mums voice is soooooo soothing. Makes me feel calm. Shes beautiful and so dang sweet. I can see where you get your disposition Joy-el

[@shelly8965luv]

Is your sister a hairstylist? She's done a fantastic job on your mom's hair!

[@ItsSonya94]

I never realized how much you look like your mom until I saw this video!!! She looks beautiful with her afro and has such a beautiful face! That photo of her with her jheri curl - OMG she was STUNNING! You look like her twin!!! Great job to your sis on cutting mom's hair!!

[@BeutifulBeholder]

Your mom is too cute ❤❤❤!!!

[@ruthmc5091]

Really nice to see you both looking after your mum. You are all beautiful! Bless you all! Nottingham U.K

[@shereeseblackman7871]

Mom looks good with that new cut. Good job ladies

[@020ctmarie]

Your hair is such goals OMG! It’s so thick!!

[@lydiabrown4769]

Your Mama and her hair are absolutely gorgeous! The hairstylist did a beautiful job! Thanks for sharing!