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[@natalienicolep]

KATY! This is probably one of the best videos you couldve filmed/posted. I truly adore you and your transparency about these topics. I wish we were bffs in real life, love you!🥰

[@celineberry]

Thank you for talking about irregular PAP smears, body image, self pleasure and more. I know so many people felt seen today (including myself)

[@ma_kenz]

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[@ndav]

I absolutely LOVED this. We all went through living life in the dark about really important topics. This was fab!

[@swaa7943]

your hair looks so beautiful. I met you briefly at my job when you came in for botox. You were genuinely kind and polite to everyone there!

[@HelloKatyxo]

Aw OMG!!! thank you lovely!

[@Melisssssa27]

LOL Yes girl! I love making out too. I always think of that scene in Grey’s Anatomy when Amelia says something like “why doesn’t anyone wanna just make out anymore!”

[@yoeuge86]

Coming from a 37 years old that had a lot of relationships long term and not (married for 5 years now), every couple is different, I loved your answer, do whatever the hell makes you happy, once a day, once a year, who cares as long as you're both happy, communication is the key. Not only on frequency but as you said, showing and voicing what you like, if they feel awkawrd or offended, they are not the right partner for you, bealive me girls, good men exist, don't settle.

[@IGinaI]

So thankful for this video! I can really relate to having those kinds of mental blocks and I'm still trying to overcome them (more or less successfully). I think it's just nice to hear that other people are struggling as well and not everyone has the perfect sex life and body image, because sometimes when you feel insecure, you assume so...

[@cindybusingye6455]

So happy that you found someone as wonderful as you- Jack, and thank you for being so open and vulnerable with us❤

[@indiyaariel]

I'm 17 and have been watching your videos for 3+ years. You have always felt like a big sister to me, thank you for being so vulnerable!

[@irismeeow]

i really appreciate how open and honest you've been. sending love to you

[@carolinelawe2990]

So awesome to hear about you wanting to be a mom! I’m in the same boat and it was my fav part of the video to hear. Consistently so so happy for you and Jack - wishing you guys the best holiday season and new year ❤

[@larkeburmeister2495]

Katy, I love this video!! I feel like it's so important to talk about these things and I'm so thankful you spoke on it!

[@allisonleacu3460]

Love you for this video Katy - especially around the holidays when emotions and insecurities are at a high. Appreciate how honest you have always been on your channel 💓

[@caitlindixon6015]

Thank you so much for opening up and discussing these topics that are not covered nearly enough. It is reassuring to know that I am not the only one with these kinds of questions! You made this video feel like I was having a normal conversation with a friend!

[@Sophie-bv1jf]

Love this video so so much! Thank you for speaking on so many topics! Not enough people talk about the struggles with BV and it's soo soo common. Love you Katy

[@Chelsea285]

14:00 I also learned this recently as well. it’s so important it is to be with a guy who you’re comfortable with and makes you feel secure about your body. Turns out hookups aren’t as fun and “empowering” as some people online swore it was lol. Personally i think it feels degrading to be treated like a used tissue and not a human being with feelings! Intimacy and sex is 100% better when you’re with somebody that genuinely values you. 💯

[@Liisukazz]

Katy, I enjoyed your video so much! Thank you for sharing, being honest and being yourself❤ I’ve followed you for quite many years and I’ve struggled with similar things. Thank you again, I appreciate you😊

[@heathercongden4227]

Katy!! 42 year old here so been through a lot and seen a lot. No one does these videos! This video is so raw and honest and I love it!! ❤️❤️

[@molliecitrine6180]

This is such a special video thank you Katy! I've been struggling with some uncertain health stuff and I felt comfort in everything you said xx

[@cindys8374]

LOVE THIS!!! This needs to be a monthly thing you do!

[@madisonkkelly]

this is such an amazing video and you’re making so many women feel seen. thank you for this 💞

[@FaithD2015]

Hi! Been here since the YoungLife days and it truly feels like we have grown up together!! Just so fun how your video content has always been relevant in all different stages of growing up! Thanks for sharing!! :)

[@waleskadavis895]

Best video ever!! I wish morr women wether on this platform or in private with their closest friends shared and uplifted each other. We can all co-exist as women and be happy for one another. This is healthy conversation and we shouldnt look at another woman as competition. We need to value ourselves and be kind to each other. I have seen many platforms were women bash each other or ridicule and it doesnt have to be that way. Lets celebrate the woman in is and love her❤

[@SaraJST]

Katy!! this video is so amazing i cannot even put it into words

[@Nina-qe8ly]

Loooooooved the realness! Ughhh i just love ur videos i dont comment too much but had to say appreciate this one alot❤❤❤❤

[@nuriaamestre]

Katy, I LOVE this kind of videos, thank you so much for doing this❤

[@charinearaujo620]

You look fabulous… and I wanted to tell you that you’re amazing thank you for this video …. It brings a lot to perspective and I love everything you do and all your vlogs as well…. Also loving that’s you found your person and you both are ridiculously adorable… anyways I’m from Dominican Republic and I watch you all the time and I love you!!

[@docp4449]

I’ve never clicked on something so fast lol I have so much respect for you! 🙏🏻♥️

[@denisebozek]

LOVED this video!! Please do more like this

[@postgradisrad]

Such a great video Katy! Thank you for your vulnerability and being such a great example of figuring yourself out and knowing your worth. So happy for the love you’ve built with Jack ❤ all the best!!

[@melym48]

Trying to not cry writing, but Ty for this. I am 30 and still learning, but your words and this video was something. Thank you again!

[@florenceib]

I think this is one of my favourite videos of yours that you’ve ever filmed. So honest, raw and candid and respectful. We’re the same age and I really related to a lot of what you had to say. I’d love to know where your necklace is from. Lots of love from Ireland 🇮🇪

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[@ozatanvi]

Katy, your vlogs are so refreshing! Your authenticity shines through, and you're absolutely stunning. Wishing you a magical holiday season filled with warmth and coziness. Sending heaps of love from India! 🌟💖🇮🇳

[@Directioner1011]

Such a relatable video. Loved it! ❤

[@B3CKiiSTAH]

Never one to usually comment but wanted to say how much I enjoyed this video (and all your others) - thank you

[@eid1007]

Aww I’ve been watching Katie for like 10 years ?? :’) love this content

[@marissa9522]

Thank you for this video ❤❤ thank you for making us feel less alone 😊

[@shehan7353]

We’re always more critical of ourselves, because I think your body is so perfect (notable mention, your body type is ideal in my culture).

[@Gilmoreggirliess]

This video is amazing thank you for posting it!

[@frannybaronian]

Thank you for always sharing and sharing your honest thoughts ❤️❤️❤️

[@HelloKatyxo]

Always!! XO

[@chi2om]

Omg i hope you do a full video on the laser update. I want to invest but I'd hate if it ended up pointless. Thank you!

[@ball3rinaz]

Thank you for sharing!! Loved this

[@keannasmigliani]

i needed this so much. thank you. xx

[@taylorannegillis]

Thank you so so much for this whole video ❤️

[@anechka2006]

Oh Katy, so happy you found a partner that cares honey! 🍯 💝💝💝

[@K3nzl3y]

This is one of the best videos ever

[@eid1007]

I needed this video when I was a teen 😭

[@Laighlajoymusic]

i love this video !! miss the old style youtube vibe of your college/highschool vids this reminds me of :)

[@Fran-lc3nc]

You are a rock star. You are a beautiful woman very pretty. But this video!! You are a goddess. I appreciate your raw honest information. You are amazing. Thank you

[@antebellumrose]

The video us girls all needed 💞

[@MsDedelove]

LOVED the transparency and vulnerability in this video!! 🫶🏼🤍

[@michellestanziola1901]

Okay but such a cute button up. Please link it 🤍

[@palomidave2582]

Hey Katy, can you link the vibrator or vibrators you've used, please☺️

[@AlliesBeautyTips]

I literally scheduled my annual gyno check up while watching this

[@danib0bani]

thank you for this

[@theclassicstare5713]

You give me girl mom vibes. Maybe I'm projecting because you've given your majority female audience advice, support and community. You would be a great mom to a daughter (or son).

[@rubbergodzillax01]

Knowing that one’s body is least interesting thing about them kinda helps sometimes

[@HelloKatyxo]

I LOVE this concept!

[@linneakemp3274]

I adore you!❤

[@livingthecatey]

This is amazing. Sending love from Nairobi❤

[@HelloKatyxo]

Sending love from nyc!! XO

[@wanjikz92]

Omg so cool to see another Kenyan here !

[@Littlebluedynamite1]

I came to the conclusion that masturbation is not required to get to know one’s self and really not required to have good sex with partner. Sex with a person and masturbation are two different things and one doesn’t prepare you for the other. I think it’s okay not to have experience with masturbation, sex toys etc and this doesn’t mean that the sex with your partner will be any less satisfying. As you said, communication and feeling of comfort with your partner are key things if you want to have a good sexual and none sexual relationship. Honesty, openness and communication are very important. I just wanted to say this in case some girls are overwhelmed with popular advices that suggest that you have to masturbate and experiment with toys in order to have a good sexual life.

[@mariiners9582]

Thank you for this comment, I don’t use sex toys idk I feel weird but I’ve been with my partner for soo long so when people judge me that I don’t use sex toys I’m doing it wrong or I’m not having good sex it really gets in your head.

[@user-fd1im9tp5t]

Well said ! Totally agree!! Also this is what I found is beautiful when married, because you have you whole lives to continue to get to know yourself and your partners mutual desires to have a great sex life!

[@HelloKatyxo]

Thank you for sharing!

[@FocusBreakForYou]

yes, boy mom energy 100%

[@laurathomas6014]

Your analogy of an orgasm...You're not wrong. 😂

[@erikavarha3934]

Great video! Really appreciate the honesty, Katy! To add to some suggestions about intimacy.. girls, please GO PEE right after! UTIs are no fun..

[@WLK668]

I personally never wanted to get married or have children. I made this decision in the third grade because I watched my mom who was a young widow struggle to pay the bills and put food on the table. The only decision I regret is the children. I made this decision at too young of age understand the consequences of that decision ❤

[@chi2om]

I had my first kiss and time with a guy at 25. That was a few months ago during my NYC internship this past summer. I don't know if it counts because I feel like he didn't go all the way in? I just ended up blowing him and calling it a day lol. Now I know if I don't want to cringe at intimacy, I need a personal connection with someone. Great video!

[@greywithawand]

you do give off boy mom vibes

[@Simplelivingslowliving]

I don’t understand why someone would ask a KZbinr how many times one should be having sex .

[@milenagcreations]

This video is why you are my favorite influencer! RAW & HONEST! 🤍🥰 I know filming these type of videos might not be the easiest thing to do, but I’m so glad you did. THANK you, Katy!

[@AngelaMartinez-dv4ot]

Can this become a series? 🥲🩷🫶