Husband. I was married 3 months 3 days, 3 months too long. All the information he shared about himself was lies. His ongoing theme was im the MAN of the house, and the house should be in MY NAME. I responded, "Give me the down payment and closing costs, and we will go to the bank and do the paperwork." "Money money, all you ever do is talk about money." " I thought we were -- mine yours". It took me 5 years to get the down payment together, and I had been paying on it for 8 years. I could go on but you get it.