The first story stated that the husband told OP that he quit his job because he feels that OP could afford to take care of them. That maybe why his money is drained.
@McBruce999 Жыл бұрын
How and why will he quit his job, when both OP and the husband have prenups and both of their finances are separate. So he will get nothing at all.
@laquietagray9323 Жыл бұрын
Plus not to mention he was cheating and probably spending all his cash on the affair partner.
@jnicoulakos8 ай бұрын
@loveyashua237 @laquietagray9323 I agree with both! This guy has to go! Not worth keeping!
@PowerStruggle555 Жыл бұрын
(when husband makes more money) Husband: My money (when OP makes more money) Husband: Our money (cue soviet russia music) (when op leaves husband) MIL: Me and husband's money also. the racist words were coming from mil but sounds like not once did husband defend op. or tell his mom off. he might not be as racist (if anything) but he didnt argue against fully what mil said
@samanthanickson6478 Жыл бұрын
by not refuting, he showed his complicity.
@samuraitadpole5459 Жыл бұрын
Like the south park covid special said, "silence is violence"
@johnpatricklim4509 Жыл бұрын
Story 1: the whole family are racist because they actually agree with the monster in law....
@jacquelinecountryman2976 Жыл бұрын
But he was upset at them about it
@MishaSims Жыл бұрын
@@jacquelinecountryman2976 i’m call bullshit because if he wasn’t racist, he would’ve left that broad. he was complict with the racism and if you’re white and saying this then you’re a fucking fool. my ex husband’s ENTIRE family is racist and HE CUT THEM OFF for being racist towards me, A BLACK WOMAN! no self respecting non racist is going to stay with someone like that no matter how much they love them 😂 i can see who’s a racist because you’re full of it
@onlyget1 Жыл бұрын
Story 1: To the comment that thinks the story is fake (hmmm I wonder why? 😏) I think there are parts she left out. Such as why mom all of a sudden is asking for handouts? How about, “They are no longer well off” I mean it does happen and husband losing IT job, after knowing how much his wife was making who’s to say he just said, “Fuck it, I’ll let her take care of me” and as far as flipping houses during the pandemic who’s to say exactly when it was done as it wasn’t specified and there were plenty of people looking for work regardless of the pandemic as everyone needs to live and survive. I just think OP needed to be a bit more specific in the details but I don’t doubt the story could be true
@nancythane4104 Жыл бұрын
A dog's LOVE is exactly that~~TOTAL AND UNCONDITIONAL. A GF or BF *is* conditional, and those types should move out to make room for the one(s) that DO LOVE YOU! 😻😻🐕🐕🐈🐈💯!!
@cozettapierce7106 Жыл бұрын
I 'inherited' my parents' dog when we lost my Dad last year. If anyone dared to tell me to choose between them or the dog, they would be told in no certain terms to pound sand...and probably not that nicely because it was a promise I made to my Dad before he passed! Also, it was a relief to my Mom knowing that their beloved pet was going to someone who loved her as well.
@nerdygeekgamer5528 Жыл бұрын
aww that was so sweet of you to care for your dad's four legged best friend I would be the exact same as you I'd tell the non animal lover to also POUND SAND I can't be with a non animal lover
@alexisgrunden1556 Жыл бұрын
The general rule of thumb is that if anyone tries to force an ultimatum on you (me or the pet, or anything else), you choose the party that *ISN'T* trying to force you into doing something you don't want to do.
@pattyhubbard8224 Жыл бұрын
@@alexisgrunden1556 My husband was complaining one day about Me taking care of Mom's yorkie (we adopted her)and the4 pups. As Mom watched she laughed and said to me "you will never sell those babies and if you don't we can help." Husband standing up from chair, well it's either me of the dogs'. My Mom laughed while warning him, to be careful wet you wish for. Husband doubled down drawing a "Bless your heart". He is now my Ex
@alexisgrunden1556 Жыл бұрын
@@pattyhubbard8224 My aunt's ex husband tried the same on her; she had a beautiful, sweet-as-pie ball python...who instinctively knew her husband was nothing but bad news bears. We're talking about a snake so sweet and docile that my aunt trusted him to be wrapped around my neck as a _5-year old,_ and so shy that it took me *6 months* to teach him how to kill his own supper, yet when her ex walked past the tank, he'd rear up, hiss and strike at the glass! He said the snake had to go, him or the reptile. She made a mistake and rehomed the snake; the old Knight was right. She chose poorly. They still ended up divorcing less than 2 years later.
@ivanhall6482 Жыл бұрын
I was listening to this as I worked, but when she said "I'm very very petty" I had to go on break so I could focus on the story. LMAO!
@garymartin7258 Жыл бұрын
keep the dog,get rid of the girlfriend,the dog will be a lot more loyal then she ever will be,stand you ground,i kept mine,nice to come home to someone thats always happy to see you,
@karimygirl5826 Жыл бұрын
Story 1: I'm in Florida and that totally could have happened here. Edit: I'm not sure about the IT industry but we constantly had homes being built and we never really closed down so our housing industries were in full swing.
@rubymeaddle Жыл бұрын
It sounds like hubby quit as well
@samaryechic Жыл бұрын
I was like this is totally plausible, some states didn't close during the pandemic, and OP also said when things got back to normal, meaning AFTER the lockdowns. That's why reading is fundamental 😂😂
@astronautviolet153 Жыл бұрын
Story 1 NTA living your best life is the greatest revenge anyone can have.
@randallcosta74 Жыл бұрын
Keep the dog, ditch the girlfriend. Always pick the pet before a girl/boy friend.
@Zurround Жыл бұрын
He is not even choosing the dog OVER the girlfriend. If she REALLY LOVED HIM she would support him keeping the dog. She has established that she DOES NOT LOVE HIM and if he gives up the dog it won't be long before the relationship becomes hell and he will end up with NEITHER. He DEFINITELY made the right choice in which bitch to keep.
@Justin-A-Carter Жыл бұрын
Ellen was jealous of the dog. Point blank.
@lajasnjohu5264 Жыл бұрын
LOL respect in retail? What a drongo. A delusional drongo. I'd leave the dude then laugh my way to my divorce lawyer. Good grief.
@jodycotton9454 Жыл бұрын
OP’s Dad is absolutely right! Her BF is a dingbat and their relationship isn’t going to work out for the long term.
@tamiamyourfavoritedragon8890 Жыл бұрын
I flipped homes during the Rona. It was difficult 😢to get materials and labor as well as materials were about double. I completed only 2 projects in a year when I normally manage 6-8 per year. It was NOT easy and profits were much lower until 2021
@Cynthea_Lee Жыл бұрын
That's what I was thinking. If this is a story from 2021-22, the whole thing is believable, she spent Corona building contacts, and finding houses, soon as there was a lift from lock down starts flipping them. Housing prices SOARED in 2022. So not only could she have started flipping some in 2021, she was a realtor, so she was making money when others where buying the houses as well. If she then takes that money and shoves 80% of that back into buying then flipping them at the start of 2022... He could have gotten laid off for a variety of reasons, including the sector his IT company supported went down during lock down, or right after. Just because some one is in IT, doesn't mean that company stays in business from then on out. IT covers the gammit... if every one went home, and then staid home, if HIS company was one of those that ran the building computer tower thingies (hubby would know, and would be ashamed I don't know the names), well there's no one IN the buildings any more, or not enough to justify having a full staff hence the layoffs. I mean my hubby is a call center IT person... 80% of the people in that building that worked the call center went HOME for Corona, and I don't think 50% have gone back to the physical building. Soooooo the ones that ran the networks for Hubby's employer lost staff as they didn't need 3000+ computers/ phone lines, etc. they now have less than 500 and only in one small part of the massive building, they squished the office space down they needed, and the landlord went looking for new businesses to use the other offices, but they weren't call centers and didn't need the huge amount of support. WHO my hubby was doing call center work FOR, also changed during Corona too... for example, at the VERY start of it, he was helping all those office workers go home, sent up their laptops, teach them how to sign into the new systems, etc. Then he swapped over to helping businesses shut down offices, and now he's doing something with Oil Rigs, or Oil companies... I'm not sure. Hubby's business adapted, and swiftly, to rapidly changing areas of need... Op's hubby's company may not have.
@rubymeaddle Жыл бұрын
@@Cynthea_Lee husband quit his job
@hillsideparanormal780 Жыл бұрын
More respect in retail huh okay enjoy your Karen's lol
@jodycotton9454 Жыл бұрын
OP please, please, please protect yourself! That both your STBEX and his egg donor are so blatantly racist, the majority if not all of the family probably is too. Given the climate in the US, you need to make sure that you don’t end up as the premier event at the next “family” pic a nic (I’m a 59 y/o Black woman and just found out in 2022 what that term stems from!) my family has vowed never to host another by that name. We’re calling them garden parties or whatever else from now on. Do your due diligence and ditch these idiots!
@Justin-A-Carter Жыл бұрын
It definitely sounds like an unbelievable/made up story but none the less amusing.
@joannpelas5101 Жыл бұрын
If you live in the deep south it is a very believable story. My ex-husband's family didn't like me because of my kinky hair and they were almost as dark as I was. Down here racism is more than skin color it's also hair texture. Watch the 80's movie School Daze.
@Justin-A-Carter Жыл бұрын
@@joannpelas5101 oh the story sure, just the money and context, people are crazy about race. Or hair. There's more important things in this world to worry about.
@anniedeedrix6732 Жыл бұрын
Why does it sound false to u? To me it makes sense . Its a very bland common storyline , what makes it seem false ? Racist americans exist in the tens of millions , they use the N word and blck women in real estate is common in america, they make decent money , allot of black women have secured a comfortable life by selling property or flipping properties .. this is a very common storyline . I can see a black women who is educated and high earner keeping her finances separate and completely losing interest and love instantly when hearing the N word and then being so angry that being vindictive by buying the house of the ex mil after the bank forecloses .
@winniethepoohandeeyore2 Жыл бұрын
Story 3: IF this is true: The ONLY texts I would have sent her is Come get the rest of your stuff out of my home, this relationship is over. You dodged a bullet my dude. She is no good for you. It took her 3 years to reveal her true self but THANKFULLY she did it BEFORE any kids came into the picture, yall marrying yada yada yada. You, Mila and Dad are awesome.
@concettasandquist937 Жыл бұрын
In the last story, I think the ex was horrible the poor man's dad's health is declining, and she blames the dog for the relationship issues. Losing a parent is not easy. I lost my dad five years ago while I was pregnant with my youngest. I fell into a deep depression because of it.
@Zurround Жыл бұрын
The real villain is that evil conniving DOG that ruined their relationship. Dogs are EVIL I tell you!!!
@rebeccascott6508 Жыл бұрын
I feel you. Lost my dad almost 6 years ago and it still hurts. He left a HUGE hole in my heart that still hasn't healed. I hope you and your little one are doing well now.
@avalineriley6809 Жыл бұрын
If anyone actually thinks independant contractors weren't working during lockdown, they think food magically appears and bills pay themselves?
@maryh-w8647 Жыл бұрын
HELL NO!!! Run, remember the prenup they didn’t want you in the family ftom the beginning.
@tracygardner6318 Жыл бұрын
You can apologize to someone but you still don’t get what you want. Take care of your own house. Don’t put it on someone else and if you’re going to be nice about it and apologize because you need it not because you want money.
@lorettarobinson1979 Жыл бұрын
Yes it is absolutely true. A dog IS a man's (or woman's) best friend. ❤ I'm sorry I'm all teared up from one of those comments about the dog waiting for his dad to come home from work every day for 6 years. It's so heartbreaking. 💔
@cheekysaver Жыл бұрын
2nd story... if that person gave up the dog and was so fast to turn on their word... what kind of a person would they be? He let her know right off the bat this was the situation when they started up the relationship. SHE tried to change the terms. My uncle was sick with inoperable slow moving pancreatic cancer. He was living alone and we visited often... but mom said... he needs a cat. So. we found a rescue and surprised him with a cat. I have NEVER in my life seen my uncle that happy! On the spot... I told him... if something happens to you... no problem, I will take her. He had her for a couple years before he passed....her sassy butt came home with me over 5 years ago. If someone comes into my life that doesn't like the cat... that cat, is a jerk... but I love that jerk! I don't need 2 in my life so the dude will be leaving. Guaranteed.
@angeliqueoren2462 Жыл бұрын
The first story is exactly that, a story!
@shantereed Жыл бұрын
Phony! I worked on the PUA program and spoke with construction business owners on the daily worker lost their business because they couldn’t work and supply was limited and doubled in price. The people were literally crying on the phone trying to get funding just to cover their household expenses. Oh also spoke to a lot of frustrated landlords and realtors too as I was being cursed at because of their frustration it was sad and there was nothing I could do to help.
@winniethepoohandeeyore2 Жыл бұрын
Exactly, I follow NUMEROUS Real Estate, finance channels and they ALL talked about the shortage of labor, supplies for ANYTHING related to Real Estate PLUS the massive inflation costs on EVERYTHING, that it was hard to get appraisers, inspectors to properties, difficulty closing and tons of other issues the pandemic caused. I'm not buying this for a second. Nevermind the mortgage forbearance only covered the P and I part of their mortgages, property taxes, homeowners insurance still had to be paid by the property owner. The moratorium on evictions ONLY closed the courts, landlords could still file for evictions, they would just end up sitting on judge's desks until THEY got the ok to start hearing cases. Nevermind unless she had the cash, equity, clear titles in other properties to put up as collateral etc etc etc to acquire other properties, They don't just end up becoming multiple property owners.
@Cynthea_Lee Жыл бұрын
@@winniethepoohandeeyore2 2020 yes, mid 2021-2022 There is a housing shortage, and rents went through the roof. When was the story written? IF OP spent 2020 lining things up, 2021 getting it started, and 2022 racking up the profits, the story works. ETA I found the story, she wrote in Dec 2022.
@MishaSims Жыл бұрын
ya’ll do know that depends on where you lived during the pandemic, right? because the construction/real estate industry was booming here in oregon just because you lived somewhere that happened doesn’t mean it happened everywhere 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 the stupidity and arrogance is real 🤣🤣🤣👏🏿
@shantereed Жыл бұрын
@@Cynthea_Lee ok. 2022 may be plausible especially California or any state with that type of increase.
@powellmountainmike8853 Жыл бұрын
That guy is much better off with the dog. The dog will give him true, unconditional love. That self centered B17CH never would.
@janetd5121 Жыл бұрын
"Update: Major update because your not gonna believe.." You are right I don't.
@starrdove4100 Жыл бұрын
Run, and run fast!!!
@charyltaylor117 Жыл бұрын
Come on people just because most IT hardly got laid off doesn’t mean they didn’t get laid off. Also just a thought haven’t you heard of living beyond your means. 130k is definitely a lot of money; however it is like a cup with no bottom. If you buy luxury items eat fancy dinners give money to others. Yeah you get my meaning. So before you think the story is fake remember Fact is often Stranger than Fiction. Also depending on where you are Flipping houses come on you see a lot of shows doing the same. Stop looking for reasons to not believe. Is it possible the story is fake yes, but is it possible it is real. Think about it.
@lynettemacdonald3957 Жыл бұрын
Get rid of the girlfriend, keep your respect and promise to your father ,dogs are better company the don't talk back
@McBruce999 Жыл бұрын
S2: Your partner supporting you is another form of appreciation. So there is nothing wrong in dumping this morron and moving on with your life.
@rubymeaddle Жыл бұрын
You don't get to request a prenup and separate finances, then demand to be a house spouse. Kick his ass out. You also don't get spousal support if you have a history of being able to work and make six figures, nor were they married long enough to qualify.
@sarahbauer5593 Жыл бұрын
My dogs are family members as much as my kids are, just shorter lived ones. Don't get between mr and one of my kids, human or canine.
@onepieceisking5493 Жыл бұрын
Story 1, NTA. Not only is she a monster in law but she's extremely entitled. She only called op selfish and racist words because she wasn't getting what she wanted. I'm not surprised that she even expected that because she apologized op would just hand her the money she wants nor that she expected to get op's money anyway. Only for the joke to be on her because of the prenup. I bet she had a surprised Pikachu face when the prenup was mentioned and in the end she wasn't going to get anything from op.
@tracygardner6318 Жыл бұрын
Pets come over boyfriends, girlfriends friends, family, any relationship, especially if they ask you to get rid of it for whatever stupid reason they have. I read a story today that someone took their brothers cats to be euthanized because her niece couldn’t babysit her kid, some people are just really entitled and rude
@missmoxie9188 Жыл бұрын
Why on earth do some men start with this crap of when HE’S out earning the wife it’s HIS money, but when SHE’S out-earning HIM it’s OUR money? Yeah, you wanted separate finances, you GOT separate finances.
@tracygardner6318 Жыл бұрын
At least op has good friends on his side on the dog story
@chuckbaird249 Жыл бұрын
Story 1::: that's a very big possibility its true because,,there are people who do flip houses
@jasontilli1482 Жыл бұрын
STORY 1 - Fake - OP seems like a liar STORY 2 - OP's husband is either an idiot, a self saboteur or a LIAR
@andreavanhoof6047 Жыл бұрын
Story 2- I dislike OPs husband! She should divorce him!
@andreavanhoof6047 Жыл бұрын
Story 3- Keep the dog; break up with Ellen!
@staceykline15483 ай бұрын
I work in construction and during COVID I was extremely busy. I had to hire extra help. Everyone was home collecting free money and couldn't go spend it. So a lot of home owners were having work done on their homes.
@tracygardner6318 Жыл бұрын
There is no justification for racism. Skin color does not matter. It’s the inside, and how you treat people that counts.
@noaharunmr5012 Жыл бұрын
You do whatever you feel happy girl. But getting rid of a racist couple will definitely a good move to prevent burgher headache
@estherwatrous3576 Жыл бұрын
Whenever I hear “if you loved me, you would…” I see 🚩🚩🚩
@BIGBLOCK5022006 Жыл бұрын
Yep. That's the cue to pack your shit and get the hell out of Dodge.
@rubymeaddle Жыл бұрын
Eh, I've used that line to get a friend to stop drinking lol
@stanleypennock2118 Жыл бұрын
Story 2...."What should I do"? Pay attention to the red flags and run like your tail was on fire!
@tracygardner6318 Жыл бұрын
You were not an a hole for looking out for a dog you promised you would keep it or watch. Her friends are just as bad as she is.
@catsncrows Жыл бұрын
Story 1 just because you can work in IT doesn't mean you have a job in IT, especially if you say racist 🤬 and HR objects to it.
@vesla26611 ай бұрын
About Meela, OP talked with his girlfriend about this before things changed. If she can't handle it, it's too bad for her. Dogs are after all humans best friends ❤️☺️ Good luck in the future 🤗❤️
@lorilyons3416 Жыл бұрын
Sweetie I’m a white female 58 yes old. My daughter in law is from Mexico and my other son loves women of color. I only pray that they truly love each other. I would have slapped her so hard!! You are strong and smart. Go live your best life. god bless
@lindajacobs1487 Жыл бұрын
I hope OP will ease Mila into the doggy daycare thing. You know, take her for an hour or so and pick her up so she will know you'll come back.
@sheliawaymon9023 Жыл бұрын
Keep Mila get rid of girlfriend. Don't buy it's just over the dog. The dog will be a lot better for you and more loyal.
@DCD762 Жыл бұрын
Story 3 The moment a partner uses the love you have for them as a demand/ bargaining chip means he/she have no respect for you, no respect for your wishes and wants, will never respect your decisions and will always use it to have you cave in into what they want After hearing the rest, she's cheating on you and is using the dog as an excuse to break up
@keithhouston31 Жыл бұрын
If she didn't have any complaints then, why does have them now, she didn't adopt the dog, if anything she is selfish.
@Gypsygeekfreak17 Жыл бұрын
i mean some white people can be racist some black people can be racist asians can be racist
@samuraitadpole5459 Жыл бұрын
Exactly, my brother know a girl that's dating a racist guy
@SuperCleopatrajones Жыл бұрын
First story. Culturally speaking, TOTALLY BELIEVABLE. I don't know ANY Black woman who would stay after being called out her name(slur), and told what to do with her money( which is why she said, "Are you asking me or tell me?", something I have heard from my mother and aunties over the years). When she found out he cheated that was the trifecta. What sealed it is she went and bought the life he wanted with her. That is Black girl petty if I ever heard it!!!!!
@monkeynumbernine Жыл бұрын
Story 2: The guy is not ready for the promotion.
@shennamyricks5292 Жыл бұрын
Story 1: When the father called her he called the mother his ex-wife. The house was also refered to as "the mothers house" in one of the updates.
@tracygardner6318 Жыл бұрын
Oh, and they say, if you loved me, you would do this. This is playing dirty she’s not worth your time. The dog is better company and more loyal
@jeanninelockridge5235 Жыл бұрын
Story 3: OP is absolutely not the AHOLE. You made a promise to your dad to look after the dog. The girl had no right to give you an ultimatum.
@lesliezin2627 Жыл бұрын
Last st9ory, The ex-girlfriend was an insensitive a-hole with zero compassion. OP obviously deserves way better and hopefully, he finds someone 1000 times better than the ex. OP made it clear early on that him taking Mila in could happen. She knew what could happen and still expected to get her way. Worst off was her reasoning......"Because you're upset over your father's condition and taking care of this dog and not giving me all your attention I want you to rehome the dog." That is pretty much what she is saying and it shows just how selfish she truly is. I hope OP sees the truth for what it is and does not mourn the loss of this relationship as someone that is so selfish does not deserve to be mourned much less given a second thought.
@marlowhorton17902 ай бұрын
I know it's not going to be popular, but I would keep my relationship. I would never chose a pet over a person. I actually have a dog and still would never chose him over my man or my kids. Sorry, NOT sorry!
@standinthegsp6858 Жыл бұрын
You have to play the game at your job, or at least appear too. Your husband hasn’t learned this yet. It might be a false sense of humility. He pretty much spit in his bosses face & slapped it too.
@jonathongeneral3744 Жыл бұрын
1st story didn't make any sense.
@maryjoyspohrer256 Жыл бұрын
Construction jobs of any kind were considered 'essential', shoot, I'm just a cashier, but seeing as I work at a pharmacy, I worked through the whole thing. Being IT doesn't necessarily mean that you get a pass. If he hadn't been working long, seniority may have been at play. It could even be that he wasn't that good or the company was looking to downsize anyway, and say an opportunity.
@DePhoegonIsle Жыл бұрын
Last Story: Seriously though... I would have told her to get out & never come back that first time. It wasn't a random Dog, it wasn't some stray or some wild unchecked choice of adoption. It was his fathers dog, that his fathers health is outright failing, and has become unable to care for him. It wasn't just some random unforeseen event. The father already check in with him well before this & ask for the favor.. that OP also let the GF know about, and she agreed to. That GF seriously got fucking jealous & insecure over a dog, and a dying father. The first reasons, I would have told her to shove it right off a cliff.. The real reasons... I'd told her I pray she gets therapy because... the oncoming death, hospitalization, and caring for the loved one of that is also going to lose the person they've been with.... having a heavy impact on someone.. and the f*ck she choose to do is to ... demand he abandon the aged dog of a dying father, and for him to suddenly not have his fathers health in failing orders effect how he feels emotionally or is able to express it. ... Her friends are Idiots, whom are backing her because she's lying her ass off about what's going on and can't see the damn nuke that is coming onto OP. That dog is old & will be passing in the next few years, his father is slowly passing away, and is unable to care for the animals he loves. Screw that GF, and I hope she finds some seriously help.. because she is sick in the head to a real degree.
@gula9993 Жыл бұрын
realtors flip houses like cards, and her perspective on rich was perspective; being rich and feeling rich are quite two different things, denial sounds racist.
@BillSmith-ut5li Жыл бұрын
It is not alwhat people think it is . When someone says they're in IT they're usually some little funky working in an office changing computer busses and mouse cables. People imagine they're in such things as Product development et cetera but those are very rare . The majority of people who say they're an IT are covering for a 2 year city college degree. I'm more impressed with someone who says they're in a technical or even a blue collar position that requires I much higher degree of skills that someone who's running around changing Memory cards in vacuuming out Copiers for some real estate company. And In California especially Malibu area I grew up in Venice beach. You have to be making several million dollars annually to even look at a Malibu property that's in distress . You can't live in Long Beach on a $130000 a year and that out of controls city. They have Bacon dollar real estate market and no customers
@lauradawkins326 Жыл бұрын
She was going to leave anyway it had nothing to do with the dog.
@leroyducharme2477 Жыл бұрын
Story 2 Boss was trying to help him polish his apple to help to get the next postion!
@wenhall6258 Жыл бұрын
Op father law left her mother law
@tracygardner6318 Жыл бұрын
Your girlfriend did you a favor you should’ve broken up with her first. She’s a little too high maintenance.
@tracygardner6318 Жыл бұрын
Why would having a dog in the house make it difficult having a child I just don’t think she wants the dog. I think she’s jealous and wants the attention.
@rupturedduck6981 Жыл бұрын
Story 1 As Horace Rumpole would say "It's a rattling good yarn" but that story is as fake my neighbor and her daughters hair.
@marikom5505 Жыл бұрын
If I had to choose between a pet and a partner.. its Goodbye partner
@Zurround Жыл бұрын
He is not actually choosing BETWEEN the 2. If he gives up the dog his relationship with her is doomed anyway because she does NOT love him. If she really loved him she would NOT try to get rid of the dog and if he does what she wants his relationship is still ultimately doomed and when the dust finally settles he will end up with NEITHER of the 2 bitches. By keeping the dog and getting rid of her at least he gets ONE of them.
@TheJHMAN1 Жыл бұрын
iF WALKING IN AND HEARING A PARTIAL CONVERSATION MOTIVATED YOU TO LEAVE AND DIVORCE INSTANTLY, THEN YOUR MARRIAGE WAS DOOMED BEFORE YOU WALKED IN.
@amberleeannalee1999 Жыл бұрын
Sorry but I walk in to hear that racist BS I would divorce to and I’m white.
@jazzie-sanbelle995 ай бұрын
When race is involved there's not much to do but walking away especially when the spouse dont support
@Swnsasy Жыл бұрын
Anything is possible.. That story isn't one.. Lol... The way it was written doesn't make sense at all. I thought the same thing the other commenter did and I work in the field and yes, went and stayed remote..
@julietesatchell103 Жыл бұрын
Story 2: The man sounds crazy. Run.
@maryh-w8647 Жыл бұрын
“YOU PEOPLE” sure don’t have any confidence in OP’s abilities. I’ve heard much more that seemed totally impossible to believe, but simply because OP is of a certain color it is simply impossible for her to achieve such monetary gain. There are some of us that can sell a blind man a drivers license. ITS CALLED HARD PERSUASIVE WORK!
@julietesatchell103 Жыл бұрын
Story 3: You made a promise before you met her. Dogs are more faithful than people. Also, she probably has been dating someone undercover, and this was just the excuse she has been looking for to leave.
@tyffanypoudrier6610 Жыл бұрын
Keep the dog
@Mrwillie95 Жыл бұрын
If I was op as soon as I left the house I would block the in-laws and soon to be ex husband story1
@xhagast Жыл бұрын
Dog: OP bloody ASKED her if she was ok with the dog. If she had said no and given her reason then maybe she would have a leg to stand on. As it is she seems domineering and manipulative.
@maryh-w8647 Жыл бұрын
She is LOOKING FIR A REASON TO LEAVE! Stop calling ger
@Mrwillie95 Жыл бұрын
Op boyfriend got himself to blame for not moving up in his career because turning down reward is silly and op needs to stop trying to be a hero story2
@Mrwillie95 Жыл бұрын
It sounds like op girlfriend would find something esle in op life that she doesn’t agree with so dog isn’t the issue the problem is op won’t let have control story3
@maryjoyspohrer256 Жыл бұрын
Keep dog,tell girlfriend to pound sand.
@TheSolakimnastics Жыл бұрын
Not the A hole. We don’t do racist families
@rebeccascott6508 Жыл бұрын
Story 3...This was agreed to before the gf ever moved in and she knew it! Tell her goodbye and concentrate on your dad and Mila. ( A little side note.... Dog spelled backwards is God and dogs are the closest we can get to GOD's unconditional love. They love us unconditionally! )
@CygnusPrime Жыл бұрын
*Story 2* You don't shit in the pot you eat in. However in all reality he maybe going through some neurological condition.
@tracygardner6318 Жыл бұрын
I can’t stand mama boys why do they even get married? They’re married to their mother. It’s funny how people always want to spend other peoples money and his ego, so what if she made more money than him and now he doesn’t want to work because they’re rich doesn’t work that way unless the other spouse agrees to it and if they did agree to it, they are crazy
@DarkWolf22k Жыл бұрын
A lot of people were flipping houses during COVID... The market was at a low for 3-4 months... And anyone who got the early vaccine could work which if you wanted to keep your job you had to get... I'm not saying what's written is true but don't speak if you don't know what happened outside your own door... The house I'm currently living in was flipped and sold and now we are renting... In 2 months
@judyspecht6207 Жыл бұрын
Keep the dog get rid of the girlfriend
@tracygardner6318 Жыл бұрын
You can ask your boyfriend to get rid the dog he promised his father he would keep this because you have friends who are allergic to dogs date a guy who doesn’t have docs there’s your solution when you ask anyone to get rid of something because you don’t like it or causes you an inconvenience you are the problem not the animal
@jacquelinecountryman2976 Жыл бұрын
Story 2) I would be more interested in the fact that he wants to hide his career from you. He's a D-bag who doesn't appreciate you and is gas-lighting you by saying that you're not supporting him. Also, you have absolutely no idea (because of him), so obviously, you wouldn't even be able to do that anyway. Story 3) You have made the decision before her, so keep the damn dog. If her friends have allergies, they can take some allergy medicine.
@brandymusson9838 Жыл бұрын
As for last story definitely not a hole and I have a husky/wolf they can be women's best friend too lol he is my big baby
@winniethepoohandeeyore2 Жыл бұрын
Story 2: Not buying it. Even MORE reddit creative writing fiction.
@keithhouston31 Жыл бұрын
Not the Ahole in the least MIL was way out of line and ex husband was no better agreeing with she said there was no justification with she said & should be ashamed of herself