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@lostcontrol19813 жыл бұрын
My mom wanted me to marry another person - who had a good career and would have lots of $$$. But he was a jerk - very abusive. My boyfriend at the time was so nice - but from a poorer family. My mom stopped talking to me, and refused to go to the wedding. In the end, we did get married by ourselves. It’ll be 30 years married this June!
@Vibrantly_Monochromatic3 жыл бұрын
Congratulations It's love and compassion that makes life worth living
@mirrorball17523 жыл бұрын
Awww!! That's amazing! A lot of marriages don't even last that long.
@marianaaleman18143 жыл бұрын
Did she ever come around?
@lostcontrol19813 жыл бұрын
@@marianaaleman1814 - it took about 7 years. She stopped talking to me for my university graduation, my marriage, etc... my son was born and I came very near dying due to a blood clot. She saw how wonderful my husband was looking after the baby, doing all the housework, and still going to work, while I was so ill in bed. She came around then to the fact that he’s a great husband.
@skrtskrt33573 жыл бұрын
Wishing you a happy married life 🤗
@Grace-I-guess3 жыл бұрын
Is it just me or do y’all just know she has the biggest and brightest smile ever
@sammhammiam3 жыл бұрын
Yes! Her smile radiates through her eyes!
@ineedausername96173 жыл бұрын
She gives off such a positive vibe!
@cezza64743 жыл бұрын
It’s the eyes
@aymanaboelmakarem3513 жыл бұрын
Me too she looks so Hart warming
@One-dollar-bill3 жыл бұрын
yea without even seeing her
@imcibi74283 жыл бұрын
"Islam make it so easy, but society make it so difficult."
@halimasumayya98903 жыл бұрын
So true.. SubhanAllah
@farahnazattariya36603 жыл бұрын
💯true🥺💔
@dhananjayjajoo67533 жыл бұрын
Hypocrite peace lovers
@saboorbhatti54883 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@steverules35463 жыл бұрын
Why do men and women have to be separate all the time?
@humairadeena87713 жыл бұрын
I'm gonna show this to my parents before wedding. Coz I really wanna do a pure Muslim wedding. Pray for me so that I can have a blessed married life when it's time ❤️
@vishnupriyathanneeru43513 жыл бұрын
I wish you all the best and I hope that your married life is the best. :)
@poppie1882 жыл бұрын
inshAllah
@khaular14372 жыл бұрын
Ameen
@fahimaih2 жыл бұрын
AMEEN
@sophiehanna206910 ай бұрын
late to the party hopefully you got your wish
@lacykunellis42693 жыл бұрын
I’m Christian but I love learning more about the Muslim culture/religion! 🥺
@shaheedchoudry69113 жыл бұрын
I love your videos😊😊
@meenainblack59833 жыл бұрын
😇 great that you love to learn. Fun fact about Islam; there’s not culture in Islam. Islam is for all racist 😃😃😃
@haketyu78913 жыл бұрын
@@meenainblack5983 She meant AND most likely. Also I'm so happy ppl r learning more about Islam authentically 💜💜
@EntertainmentOfGameAndWatch3 жыл бұрын
See ..the hate already lol cause she's christian.
@haketyu78913 жыл бұрын
@@EntertainmentOfGameAndWatch Literally there was no hate bro. Wutchu reading?
@TT-uw1zq3 жыл бұрын
Why is it that your face reveal to your husband is soooo much cuter and wholesome than someone’s first kiss?!
@genevaeram3 жыл бұрын
Ikr!!!
@madiyamehraj55403 жыл бұрын
You dp
@UA13273 Жыл бұрын
The peace in such a life is unimaginable!
@ClandestineGirl16X3 жыл бұрын
I really hate how family thinks they can have an input on a couples' wedding. Its about the couple. Yall aint getting married, the couple is 🤣
@umerashfaq89463 жыл бұрын
That is literally not even the last thing South Asian parents will think of..
@nav33ra3 жыл бұрын
Most Muslim weddings are definitely about families, not just the couples. Western cultures are more about 'this is all about me' but Muslim weddings are definitely about the union of two families. At the same time, what sidra is saying about families having lot of cultural expectations about what the wedding should look like is also true and annoying for couples trying to adhere to their religious principles at their wedding.
@humnaahmed56563 жыл бұрын
100th like
@rinyeongi63223 жыл бұрын
@@umerashfaq8946 let's be real, every PARENTS does that
@insiyasufi15923 жыл бұрын
@@nav33ra THIS is the most widespread myth that a muslim wedding is about union of 2 entire families. No, it is definitely not a union of 2 families but Just the 2 individuals who're getting married. Definitely the families extend & relationships build but it's not thier union. I highly encourage you to go through the history of islam from the times of prophet Muhammad saw & see how the sahabas got married. It's truly an inspiration.
@Niko-pi3ks3 жыл бұрын
I got married in an apartment with two friends. His sister made a dinner. We bought a small cake and a dozen roses on the table,
@uzma6483 жыл бұрын
That's so cuteeee!
@bernicesanders31483 жыл бұрын
Sounds beautiful
@JK-yj7cg3 жыл бұрын
Aww 🥺
@habibijee58383 жыл бұрын
You got married in a low key bugget cheap hack? Wow thats soo genius! Bless your family and friends ameen🙏
@jaykay86072 жыл бұрын
Thats so sweeeet
@elsie47143 жыл бұрын
"I was starving" at your own wedding is soooo common 😂😂
@Visible-jb2ew3 жыл бұрын
Wait do you guys not eat before or do you get hungry from the adrenaline and being nervous?
@Visible-jb2ew3 жыл бұрын
@@butterflybubbles3165 oh... I’d just say leave some back stage for y’all 😂😂
@Visible-jb2ew3 жыл бұрын
@@butterflybubbles3165 wait I thought those are given to the families of the couple who got married? Do they really throw away the chocolate cakes??? 😳
@Visible-jb2ew3 жыл бұрын
@@butterflybubbles3165 oh nooo this is heartbreaking news.... I’m going to buy it off them next time I go to a wedding😂😂
@Visible-jb2ew3 жыл бұрын
@@butterflybubbles3165 welp... looks like I’ll be waiting for the ice cream truck then 😂😂
@ranyarazon80463 жыл бұрын
I cried at the part where her husband first saw her and said mashallah 🥺 so pure💗 I aspire to be like you, I’m working so hard on being a decent Muslim
@sg-cg6lr2 жыл бұрын
May He draw closer to you.
@UIAL5703 жыл бұрын
Tell me about it! I’m the only Muslim in my family. I’ve wanted a simple wedding for years now and I’m dreading my family saying “That was such a boring wedding.” Because they expect drinking alcohol, dancing, music, dressing immodestly and intermingling with the genders to be a given. I kind of like the idea of a house wedding but I’m afraid people will not listen to me and bring alcohol and start playing music. I think having it in the masjid would just incur a certain sense of respect and they’d be too embarrassed to be caught with cigarettes or alcohol. And now with Covid the masjid is under lock and key. May Allah make getting married easy for us and help those who are struggling against their families for the sake of Allah swt and what He wants from them. Ameen.
@FatimaRassuli3 жыл бұрын
I am also struggling with these kind of thoughts at the moment. Me and my husband have done our Nikaah while we lived in 2 different countries. Now he finally got his visa and is with me. But of course everyone is expecting a wedding. For now I am kinda pushing it to a couple of years later giving the reason of still being a student. However, a wedding without music and mixed gender is not something they are expecting. You know I was just like younger Sidra until a year ago, always dreaming of a big fat wedding with music and dancing. Now, everything is so different, I am different, but our families didn't change. This is gonna be difficult but we will pull it off In Sha Allah with the help of the Almighty. May Allah give our families the understanding of our deen🤲🏻🕋
@nav33ra3 жыл бұрын
The best thing we can do for ourselves is to make dua for Allah to facilitate the halal. You are trying to do something right for the sake of Allah and He will not abandon you. I tried to cut out a lot of cultural traditions at my wedding and I was so relaxed and happy that day, not worrying about the little details of making my wedding "perfect." Which ruins the day for the bride and they don't even enjoy the wedding because they're so worried about everything going right. People also aren't happy if they attend the most extravagant of weddings. Even there, something isn't to their liking so we can't begin to please people. Just Allah's pleasure is what matters the most and He will make it easy for you inshaAllah!! Stay strong! 🙂
@zfchaudhry13023 жыл бұрын
I know it's hard but you're the bride. Lay out your rules guys. "No music, no alcohol and no dancing." You don't have to feel ashamed or depressed or nervous. If they don't listen to you girl make a stylish poster and hang and enjoy the way you want it. It's your day and you've all the right to spend it the way you want. You're not entitled to entertain people so they don't get bored. If they love you they'll respect your wishes.
@UIAL5703 жыл бұрын
@@FatimaRassuli Ameen. And May he make it easy for you sister xx
@UIAL5703 жыл бұрын
@@zfchaudhry1302 They love me but don’t respect any of my values. But, your idea is so good! Barakallahu feeki for the advice.
@Atlantjan3 жыл бұрын
Same for me... I’m the only religious person in my Jewish family. They still don’t understand why I do what I do. I wish you lots of love and support on life’s journey 😊
@umepervaiz14883 жыл бұрын
Hi Ezra!
@jodishapiro92573 жыл бұрын
My brother is the only religious one in our family (he’s Haredi) and none of use really understand him but I try to play along.
@NB-jp3rh3 жыл бұрын
יהדותתתתת בלבדדדד
@victoriatutwiler15573 жыл бұрын
My whole wedding including bride and groom attire, cakes, decorations, rehearsal dinner....everything, less than $3,000. My dress took up most of that. It was simple. The ceremony was what I wanted. The reception had a line of guests that went past us, so we got to see everyone. There was cake, mints, nuts and punch. Everyone talked for a bit and then it was over. We took some pictures and we were done! Nothing super fancy. So I wish we'd had something fancy, some days but most days I'm glad it was a simple affair and no one was out anymore money than they could handle easily. Plus we were so young, 19 & 20....honestly we were just happy to be married. Gah, going on 14 years of marriage and I still love him.
@iftakhar823 жыл бұрын
Thats so lovely n inspiring..💚
@bestofbest.811 Жыл бұрын
Mashallah ❤️
@haze18113 жыл бұрын
That "Log kya kahenge" is real!! Tired of these log poking their nose everywhere!
@zfchaudhry13023 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry but I get sick to my stomach when I hear this😑. It not only make me nauseous but hate all the judging people. But in the other hand, I've to keep thinking about this on daily basis literally.
@arishbamemon89293 жыл бұрын
@@zfchaudhry1302 so true! To people who ask why doesn't Islam evolve according to time it's because islam is based on right and wrong and not changing trends trends are famous but can be right or wrong, can be beneficial but mostly harmful and Allah never harms us
@_Maryxmkhan093 жыл бұрын
Yeah I know it's my life let me control it not yours 😂 be for real 🥴
@haze18113 жыл бұрын
@@zfchaudhry1302 it bothers the freakin' most when u know u r right Islamically & they r just like....😒
@haze18113 жыл бұрын
@@_Maryxmkhan09 the Islamic naseeha is ok, when done respectfully BUT poking ur nose in everybody's business is not good at all , when u aren't even right in the first place!
@emaandeshmukh2473 жыл бұрын
I too wanted a simple wedding but as I was young no body would listen to me... I still feel sad for it... May Allah forgive us!
@lifeisatest94183 жыл бұрын
Ameen ya Rahmanur Raheem
@helloummm84223 жыл бұрын
aw im sorry :(
@Al_is_tor_3 жыл бұрын
Please give us a home tour if you are comfortable. 🤗🤗🤗 Edit: Woah! 250+ likes. 😵
@maryamfatumo41333 жыл бұрын
Do you Feel Happy
@maryannedelaney3 жыл бұрын
Great idea!
@miaclarke68593 жыл бұрын
Since I discovered your channel I've really been trying to learn a lot more about Islam and more recently I've been trying steadily to practice Islam more frequently. I know I need to do a lot more work to get there but I can't wait to continue my journey
@deeninspired57613 жыл бұрын
Thank you for taking the time to learn Islam
@relaxandbreath88593 жыл бұрын
Good luckkkk
@ravina66863 жыл бұрын
Interesting! I am a Punjabi as well (Indian Punjabi. I am not religious, but my family is Hindu). The Punjabi wedding customs you described earlier are very similar in Hindu weddings (with a few differences) and I thought that was very interesting. Culture plays a big role in those regions and it overlaps with religion in some ways but not in others! I'm glad you went with a wedding that was right for you in the end though
@mycatisjudgingyou8003 жыл бұрын
You have the sweetest most positive attitude. 💜 I’m Catholic and I love learning about Islam through your videos! I find the similarities and differences between the Book Faiths so fascinating! 🤍
@aneesbhatti27443 жыл бұрын
Me to i am pakistan 🇵🇰 and i speak punjabi i love you soo much ❤️❤️❤️❤️ Omg i have never gotten this much 👍 likes thx 😊
@lnoorplaylist3 жыл бұрын
Me too
@vernikapandey33823 жыл бұрын
I am from India... (Pakistan was also made from India)❤️❤️
@lilyandre24993 жыл бұрын
I'm a punjabi but never spoke it except some sentences
@aneesbhatti27443 жыл бұрын
@@vernikapandey3382 i know but they got seperated
@why._tori3 жыл бұрын
"funnest, that's not a...word" -Ninja Mommy this made me laugh so hard 😆
@maheerimran30113 жыл бұрын
I am also Pakistani girl and know about the typical culture of Pakistan but one person can change the mind set of the society and INSHALLAH my wedding will be like yours
@tubaahmad94893 жыл бұрын
Please do a video with your mom, it would be great fun when her punjabi-ness will come out, haha. Love you❤️
@selmasamad70353 жыл бұрын
Masha Allah.. this is sooo beautiful, and brings tears to my eyes. You're indeed blessed to have a wedding in the sunnah way
@ayeshasiddika7775 Жыл бұрын
Same here, sister. I'm from Bangladesh.. & a practicing muslim.☺️ My parents are so much social.. It's really amazing & encouraging to see your wedding mashallah🥰its my biggest dream to marry according to sunnah.. pray for me sister.. 💞
@dezihernandez17473 жыл бұрын
Her personality is so laid back it makes me feel comfortable to watch her videos ❤️
@signejonsson24463 жыл бұрын
I grew up in sweden which has a lot of muslim imigrants but grew up in a family and neighborhood with quite conservative values and i didnt learn a lot about islam and i just wanted to say that im so happy that you are so open and talk about both your own views and general views and spread the right image of islam as a loving religion not hate based or sexist. its really intresting to learn and i think its really great! so thank you for sharing your life with the internet and educating all of us who are taught only one small side of a big world
@aleynakurd40533 жыл бұрын
I have argued with my cultural mom sooooo much over this topic I’m not even engaged 😭THANK UUUHH U R SUCH A BLESSING, I’m a Americanized simple Muslim girl who’s parents are cultural and I relate to u so much u make Islam EASY TO UNDERSTAND AND DO
@sabahmansoor4820 Жыл бұрын
I recently went to a separate wedding and loved it! I felt so much more comfortable just being around women and it was one of the most beautiful weddings ever. Allahuma barik
@MAMAKIJAANGUGU3 жыл бұрын
Im not hijabi or niqabi but still I had an Islamic wedding Alhamdulillah. Like you I belong to s cultural punjabi family. My nikah was done in the masjid then rukhsati aur then Walima. No mayun, mehdni etc and no dowry( Jahaiz) involved. Living in America and doing an Islamic wedding is a blessing. Alhamdulillah my mom was so supportive. I love watching your videos. Recently found your channel and subbed right away.
@DragonLegion2323 жыл бұрын
I'm not Islamic but I love how much truth and spoken words you have for Islam. It's truly inspiring and your such a peaceful and kind soul. 🥰 I'm sorry if I spelled anything wrong or said anything wrong dont mean to offend anyone💕
@yayatorres83 жыл бұрын
I’m not Muslim, I’m Catholic. I want to get married at church, but this video encourages me to look more into my faith. I love how you talk about your wedding. You sound so sweet.
@mariamhashem16273 жыл бұрын
@ATHEIST BHAGWAN excuse you please be respectful when talking about someone’s religion. If you don’t like it at least be respectful about it and just don’t associate yourself with videos like these (I don’t understand why you would click on this video if you hate Islam) from your name I guess you’re atheist, and I’m pretty sure you won’t like it if we talk like this about your beliefs. No one told you to become Muslim, and who are you to try to shame someone on doing something they wanna do? Who are you to try to stop and influence them? People like you need to learn manners. Please think about this and try to be more mature and more accepting. Thank you 😊
@mariamhashem16273 жыл бұрын
@BHAGWAN atheist you don’t know anything bro 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
@JessicaBrown-dt1jq3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story! I love it! I am an American Christian woman, but I even find similarities in our wedding stories, especially in relation to honoring your family while pursuing your desires. I also love how easy Islam has made getting married! That's how it should be!
@greenlotuskid3 жыл бұрын
I love that you had a little date mid wedding. It’s nice to be surrounded by your loved ones, but to have that time just the two of you sounds like a respite.
@ahmedkhalid31163 жыл бұрын
Loved how you and your husband offered your prayer on wedding day mashallah
@wafiadodhy2652 жыл бұрын
I had a big smile on my face while watching this I'm sure you're smiling so wide how you are explaining your wedding it's literally ideal 🥺🥺❤️❤️❤️
@littlenothing10682 жыл бұрын
Thank you for taking the time to share these parts of your culture with us, I grew up Christian but don’t practice any religion now and I know how personal it is to share your religion and culture and I just appreciate the information! It’s so wonderful that you’re so passionate about where your family is from and about Islam, it truly is so beautiful.
@aafiyashah51473 жыл бұрын
Your mum is amazing for eventually agreeing to have the wedding that you want. I loved hearing your wedding story and the pictures are gorgeous MashaAllah! I also had an Islamic wedding Alhamdulillah. 😊
@sohinisadhukhan49063 жыл бұрын
Your positivity, the happy tone in your voice calms me so muchhh. It's so therapeutic tbh. I'm a Hindu frm india n I couldn't be more thankful to hv found you. You made me realise how beautiful Islam really is n how uneducated ppl are around the world. Love you so much honey❤️ keep going✨🥺
@pheezarh3 жыл бұрын
Are you happy? Do you like me? Am I beautiful? Are you good? My God!!!!!! Can't stop laughing...
@Natalia-cm8ez3 жыл бұрын
Me too 🤣 and then she said "there's still time" lololol
@TheItGirlQ2 жыл бұрын
If this isn’t every girl… lol
@Jayshreeusedtomakevidoes3 жыл бұрын
I am from India, loved that Urdu/Hindi you spoke, sounds so relatable
@miramauckisch64123 жыл бұрын
With American accent
@amberdhillon75863 жыл бұрын
@@miramauckisch6412 what’s wrong with that?
@miramauckisch64123 жыл бұрын
@@amberdhillon7586 It is not wrong. But she is so traditional on one side, but talks more like an American and not her mothertongue. That is little contradictory. I don't mean it as criticism, it's just unexpected.
@hereandthere59293 жыл бұрын
@@miramauckisch6412 may be because she was raised their lived all her life there so she is just got adapted to the environment and the accent because everyone around her talks in that accent 😊. Like this happens here in India too when a person move from one State to another state he/she get used to the culture, accent and the daily used words. They start using the same words as the people of that state do because its a human tendency. We learn from people around us😊. I understand your thoughts sister and hope I was able to explain a bit more in a humble way.
@jolenecarney75143 жыл бұрын
I have to admit ... at the beginning of this video I was thinking that all of the Muslim guidelines were just too strict. Thankyou for telling us all about how you made your wedding work for you!!!! The traditions that you observed were truly beautiful!!!!! Beautiful!!!!!
@Hanna_Munden2 жыл бұрын
This is so different than the weddings I've been to, but I really admire how much love went into the day. I feel like no matter what faith we have, a very beautiful part of any wedding is love. The love you have for your faith, family, spouse and friends really shines bright!
@lunnalocca93763 жыл бұрын
Beautiful pictures. I just know in my heart that you looked absolutely stunning on your wedding day. Congratulations to you and your family!
@Hoosier_StepDad3 жыл бұрын
This is similar to the wedding planning process I’m going through with my own mom. She’s a bit more cultural than I am when it comes to weddings, and I’m wanting an extremely traditional religious (Christian) wedding. Though, we haven’t had much back and forth on a lot and we’re just trying to enjoy the process. (Those wedding photos are beautiful!! 🤩 😍)
@MajaaaBC3 жыл бұрын
Im Christian, but like lately Ive been so interested in other cultures and religions. You are so great and hearing you explaining your love for this is so inspireing. Lots of love❤️
@cakecup82863 жыл бұрын
May Allah Guide you🌼🌸🌸
@kaahorselover73173 жыл бұрын
You look so beautiful in your wedding photos! I love the hennas! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@bellapuga73763 жыл бұрын
I’m actually catholic but I love watching your videos because I find them very informative and super fun to watch!!
@NatalieBubbles3 жыл бұрын
Wow your wedding looked so lavish and gorgeous. I mean I didn’t know where to look, everything caught my eye.
@Charlotte-wk2nz3 жыл бұрын
Yay 3rd! Love your videos. Hope you're doing great! Keep up the great work and love from the UK!
@MA-iu5hu3 жыл бұрын
Your channel and stories have been such a source of joy and cultural/religious education to me!
@shafaqaurangzeb62193 жыл бұрын
You are right in saying that Punjabis are open-hearted by nature.❤️♥️
@ThemDessertz3 жыл бұрын
Wow how her eyes shine, and the high tone in her voice, u can tell how much she loves her husband and mum etc 🥰was
@insiyasufi15923 жыл бұрын
I relate so much to your story. Being a revert, my family didn't allow me for a complete muslim wedding & I had to compromise some things but the nikah was done in a totally muslim way. I felt so blessed. And after listening to her, I thought to myself that I am not alone❤️ To all those who're still struggling to be on the right path due ro cultural influences, may Allah ease your struggles & do remember you get ajr on sabr😊
@rukhsanatariq27273 жыл бұрын
💜Your my fave Muslim KZbinr! And teach.me alot! 💜 may allah Secures you from The Evil Eyes
@AngelicBombshell Жыл бұрын
Your wedding sounds soo beautiful and chill!🌼💗
@soulfully_yours3 жыл бұрын
The fact that you went on a mini date on your reception day is the cutest and funniest thing 😅 and that sister who helped you at the Masjid and waited for you, Alhamdulilah that's so sweet of her.
@AnimalLoverGirl33 жыл бұрын
Such a beautiful wedding! Love yoouuuuuu soooo muchhh!
@jayprivacc3 жыл бұрын
Muslim weddings are probably the most beautiful, special, and incredibly stunning weddings in the world.❤️ I go to my best friends wedding soon (she is Muslim too!) and I am so excited to be a part of something so wonderful❤️ Much love from a Jewish viewer!💕
@sniperkitty18652 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 💗 This encouraged me so much, May Allah give the reward
@rxbia_xo56233 жыл бұрын
Love how similar our backgrounds are but im planning to start wearing hijab cuz of u 🙈 u really inspire me
@ess72763 жыл бұрын
My brother's wedding was amazing I loved that He did nikah in a masjid Then after 2 years his wife and he started living together and the wedding day was so good.... No music.. No wastage of food... No extravagance... Seperate place for men and women Bride wearing jilbab on lehnga and my brother simple white shrug... All girls wore mehndi in one room and then gave a banquet which is an important sunnah and that's it Bdw that's the first wedding I saw so simple and peaceful In kashmir we have so many functions.. The wedding seems endless
@user-xj6um8gq5q3 жыл бұрын
I absolutely LOVE your clothing colour combinations! You always look stunning💚
@Hanna_Munden2 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love that minty light green color you're wearing!
@taylorreynolds31763 жыл бұрын
I always thought the henna night was a ladies only thing tbh, to me it always felt like a ladies only event but hey the more you know :)
@jeniferjohnson3743 жыл бұрын
Just so everyone knows, mixed gatherings aren’t haram if you are dressed appropriately and are not alone in private with the opposite gender. But your family should respect your wishes😇
@aviadeloi4983 жыл бұрын
Many major scholars would disagree with this sister
@jeniferjohnson3743 жыл бұрын
@@aviadeloi498 An example would be if you’re at a mall, a restaurant, work, movie theatre, graduation ceremony, etc. You cannot barricade yourself from civilization. That’s why Islam has rules on how to act and dress when the opposite gender is present, and to not be in private with or touch the opposite gender. There will always be scholars who disagree with each other. But this is the bottom line. It’s a nice idea like the lady in the video if ppl want to relax and not have to act proper for a day
@Great_sri_lankan3 жыл бұрын
@@jeniferjohnson374 I agree actually, are you muslim?
@jeniferjohnson3743 жыл бұрын
@@Great_sri_lankan yes
@Great_sri_lankan3 жыл бұрын
@@jeniferjohnson374 Jennifer's your name? Niiiiicceee!
@bluelilliez3 жыл бұрын
I love your videos! Such a beautiful person you are and your wedding was gorgeous ❤️
@iftikharahmed48783 жыл бұрын
Huge inspiration, great guidance!!!
@fatumadirir84773 жыл бұрын
Obssessed with you my niqabi sister😍 may Allah bless your marriage and keep you firm in your deen❤
@thairinkhudr42593 жыл бұрын
10:27 OMG you got to wear a gown and had your hair out on your wedding WHAT IN THE WORLD 😍😍😍❤❤❤
@lucyhurford8028 Жыл бұрын
Hearing the emotion in your voice as you recounted your beautiful wedding and your face reveal to your husband and his reaction ! Wonderful 😢❤ your happiness and your husbands is endearing and fantastic! ❤
@Shar116802 жыл бұрын
Hi Ninja Mommy :) i wanted to say thank you for creating this safe space for everyone. I’m not muslim but i still feel so warm and comfortable watching your videos. You have a great positive energy💖 bless you ☺️
@wamu63793 жыл бұрын
you have no idea how much this video inspired me to stand firm on my beliefs even if my own family may not agree with it. I'm from Yemen and we have separate hall for males and females so free freemixing it not much of a problem for me. I completely understand how difficult it may have been for you to do that tho. jazaki Allah khair
@Abbyj193 жыл бұрын
My ex partner is Punjabi and you are so right he was so loving and fun and his friends were the most beautiful people I have ever met ❤️
@kaiabrewer96353 жыл бұрын
The Mehndi's in your wedding pictures are beautiful!
@aqualife883 жыл бұрын
Wooow the outfit you wore for your ceremony was beautiful! Love the red and gold so pretty.
@mathu71113 жыл бұрын
The way u talk so bright n energetic ✨... Everyone needs a friend like u ❤️
@haketyu78913 жыл бұрын
This is the single MOST romantic thing I've heard! 💜💜 U r so sweet, kind, and beautiful in religion and in character. May Allah bless u and ur family and may we meet in Janah inshah'Allah sister.
@laula-87653 жыл бұрын
When you spoke about sitting around talking with the girls I almost cried. That must have been an amazing, beautiful experience. All the best for the future ❤
@yvevsanchez1013 жыл бұрын
Just hearing her voice 😍 it's so comforting that's why she caught my eye and wanted to add. ❤😊
@azbaye3243 жыл бұрын
I was smiling like a dork watching this lmao
@tabasumbashir44343 жыл бұрын
Same 😂💖
@Anonymous-ng4wc3 жыл бұрын
Wow her hijab and niqab look stunning! And that abaya too! I’m loving the whole outfit. I never thought anyone could pull of brown and baby blue but I was sooo wrong
@blue.orangeade2 жыл бұрын
Sidra really manages to do it all mashaAllah
@crazylulu263 жыл бұрын
I love your videos. I'll admit this right away, I was an idiot to what I knew about your culture and what your religion stood for. I judged before this and girl I was wrong for that! I find it beautiful now that you have taught me its exactly opposite what I thought it was all about before and I thank you for that. I'm sorry for any judgement I have put out there in this world and because of that, I will teach my kids differently and show them the true beauty of many different religions out there because at the end of the day, we're all beautiful in the inside and out. Thank you for helping me grow as a person and as a better parent. We need more ladies around like you. Stay blessed.
@namotori2 жыл бұрын
The wedding you had is very similar to the weddings in our Arabian countries. I live in Jordan and our weddings are pretty much what you guys did, but the only difference is we put music on. Girls and guys never party together even in the Henna party. And the groom walks his bride to the girls haul, they have a little dance cut the cake dance and then he disappears for the rest of the night😂 and then the rest of the girls take off thier hijabs and abayas and dance all together. At the very end when it's time for the couple to leave the bride covers up and meets the male side of both her close family and his close family and then everyone is back home. I'm happy you've got a comfortable Islamic wedding and hopefully they will get ,ore common in Pakistan! Also thank you for helping about the music thing. I had always worried about if I should put music in my wedding or not. But now I'm more confident about it, thank you♡
@MrsNoji3 жыл бұрын
I think a small wedding always speaks for the couple wanting to be a wife and husband, not bride and groom , nothing against big weddigns but small weddings are so cute
@aisharorke95673 жыл бұрын
Wow.... In South Africa how we usually do it is , we have the nikkah in the morning and the reception in the evening all done on the SAME DAY guys done and dusted .... Lol I find it so weird that so many people in the UK and the US have sooooo many cultural wedding events
@palesa87773 жыл бұрын
It's depends what type of wedding you go to I also live in SA but the weddings I have been too are hectic But again I have mostly attended traditional weddings
@mahaM199113 жыл бұрын
Love the dresses and coverings you wore!
@spitfire39842 жыл бұрын
It sounds like you had the wedding of your dreams. I’m so thankful you are sharing this knowledge with us who know nothing about your religion. May God continue to bless you. I’m a Christian, I always worry about saying the wrong thing or being rude, unknowingly. You are such a beautiful person.
@syedakfatima073 жыл бұрын
I just got to know about your channel while I was scrolling on KZbin.. I was thinking of all these things and you spoke each and everything what I thought! ..and I was satisfied that it's not only me .. many people have the same dream like you did..I really appreciate each and every word of yours and now I am completely confident about doing this in a sunnah way Mashallah 😍 Keep up the good work and make many more videos related to "being covered" in Islam I would love to watch it and get motivated In shaa Allah 🥰 Many people need guidance for transforming themselves and I always try to pass on these kind of messages in a small group of people like in my family and friends.. May Allah guide me the way he guided you😇 Ameen ya raoul aalameen May Allah always bless you and make you a person who spreads these type of messages in this islamophobic world Ameen!
@abrormirzaveliev43913 жыл бұрын
Am I the only one who had smile on my face the whole time?😊☺☺☺ Maa Shaa Allah
@mariamnaji76992 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this. I wore my hijab for our henna party and have been going back and forth about the wedding day.. To me I don't want to spend money we don't have on one single day but take money and feed the poor of his city (Morocco) as long as we have the Nikkah done that's all I want in my heart. So thank you for this.
@sarahsmaali61893 жыл бұрын
I just discovered your channel and am really enjoying your videos... living an Islamic life from a woman's perspective, it's insightful, educational and joyful! I'm married to as Islamic man from Morocco so it helps me to understand his and his family's religion better too :).... I'm still longing for the big wedding celebration! (since my husband has so many relatives it would be a huge one, as everyone has to be invited, which gets expensive!)
@adamsimmer38863 жыл бұрын
Youre so blessed to have had a wedding that you wanted
@brandygibson56473 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you had a wedding that you wanted and not bowing to your mother's wishes. And I'm glad your mom got her parts that she wanted. I hope that girl who helped you gets a life blessing. P.S. LOVE your wedding dress!!!!
@linneatindermonavarro79572 жыл бұрын
Vilket fint bröllop och hur ni tänkte. Och hur fina ni är mot varandra. De berör en. Har haft svårt att bli accepterad av folk, så när någon accepterar mig som jag vill vara, då kan jag knappt tro det är sant, men det gjorde min man och han är den första människan som gjort det helt fullt ut. Ingen är perfekt och ingen vill vara ensam och alla vill kunna vara sig själv i grund och botten. Sorry my English was not enough this time.
@minahilsharif63743 жыл бұрын
This is so beautiful! Ma Sha Allah! I wish you guys more prosperity in your marriage 🥺 I love how inspiring your videos are. I truly aspire to be like you one day, In Sha Allah! ❤🥺
@khanumbi7383 жыл бұрын
U have inspired my future wedding!
@hennanoman3863 жыл бұрын
My wedding was without a Mehndi for the same reasons Alhumdulillah and Nikkah (which was a Friday aswell 😊) was at home but the only thing I regret is skipping my Hijjab at the wallima 🙁 I really become sad just thinking about it ... Only if I was outspoken enough to speak up about it ..... Edit: though im really proud of you ... MashAllah may Allah swt reward you, bless you both always 😊
@arishbamemon89293 жыл бұрын
I feel you sister...May Allah help us become strong enough to not give importance to people's opinions but only to his opinions
I love the way she wears her niqab. I've never liked it before but she makes it look so cute it's changed my attitude. I'd love to see how she arranges it.
@princ3sstofu3 жыл бұрын
Aww that's beautiful ❤ I felt emotional watching this.