My newborn daughter died | Not SIDS

The story of Dani's life.

[@marybodnar4749]

I worked in a pediatric office. You ALWAYS make an emergency appt for a newborn, no matter if appts are available or not. We actually left open slots on each day in case of a newborn call. Unbelievable. So sorry for your loss. RIP precious Danny girl🕊️♥️

[@rubytuesday1316]

Not in California. Thousands of illegals storming our already hurting medical system leaves many USA citizens rushed. So sorry for your loss. Just not fair

[@MarshaPrice-ss7vt]

Oh yah, blame it on the illegals AGAIN. What a cheap shot. Why don't we let them in but deny them medical care, yah that'd be a great plan. Scratch your family tree and see how long your ancestors have been in the US, then check and see whether they entered legally or not.

[@pippadawg7037]

I know. That office is nuts. My mother worked as an ER nurse and they said everything, anything and even nothing with a newborn is considered an emergency and is triaged first. I think it was 8 weeks (maybe 12) and under was considered an automatic emergency. When I had my daughters (now 34& 30) the pediatricians didn't want us to go to the ER without them on any child any age. We called them and they would meet us at the ER. That was for a 9 year old or a 9 month old, but they were especially protective of the newborns. Now pediatricians take no responsibility for their patients whatsoever. I have a friend who mixed up a bottle of pumped breast milk with her friend's formula. She realized her mistake almost immediately, and pulled the bottle out but her daughter's face turned red and starting swelling. She drove to a Doc in the Box with her baby in her lap and left her car running at the entrance. The doctor was running toward her before she could get a few feet in the door. They saved her life without even asking her name. Who turns away any newborn?

[@pippadawg7037]

@@rubytuesday1316 But there are no excuses for not fitting in any newborn and for telling her it was probably nothing. Newborns are always an emergency. Pediatricians are trained to worry when Mom is worried. That was medical malpractice. I hope she sues. It won't bring back Danny but it will make them accountable. That was heartless. Mom Roam, I am so sorry. What happened to you was horrible. My mother lost a child. She was 17 but it shattered her. I have seen the pain and suffering. Keep your other children close and protect them from those who would exploit the situation. I saw that too. God bless you.

[@CarolBender-s6p]

My dad was a lawyer, exceptional. I can tell you in order to prevent this happening to another child and parents, you need to sue the Drs. Office (Dr) and the hospital where she was born. They are both responsible. I am so very sorry for both of your loss. You will never get over this. God be with you always. I do believe the Childrens Hospital did all they could to help all of you.

[@nancyculliton1540]

I’m so sorry. I lost a daughter too. I know the pain and beyond grief. Sorry you joined all of us that have lost our hearts.

[@prettykate4381]

I feel so bad watching this lady telling her story about her princess. May God gives you both strength and make this easier for you to overcome this great loss.

[@annairwin8147]

God bless you🙏🙏

[@LynnTanner-ls9kx]

I also have lost a daughter and like how you said that,we have lost our heart,we live not whole anymore,an unbearable pain.

[@rubytuesday1316]

California is no where to be since our borders were stormed by illegals! Medics in USA cant keep up and citizens become another number. There is a reason people need to have paper work, health checks & vaccinations!!

[@LadyJane0512]

I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my 1st grandchild 4 years ago and my daughter still struggles. Please ensure you seek counselling as it's the worst thing you will ever experience and you need to grieve properly to make some peace within yourself xx

[@LynnTanner-ls9kx]

She will always struggle,she lost the biggest piece of her heart.When my Daughter died everyone kept telling me with time it would get better and it didn't,it was opposite,with time the hard reality she honestly was gone and not coming back hit harder and harder,it's been 16 years and I cry more now then I did then(I think the what ifs and wondering where she'd be in life) is what makes it harder.Your daughter lost basically part of her soul she will always struggle and hurt for her daughter not being with her.

[@LynnTanner-ls9kx]

Also yes counseling helps a lot,I still go once a week to cope with it so make sure she goes if you can.Im deeply sorry for yalls loss and may your grandbaby rest in peace till all of you are reunited

[@amyyun5962]

I am so deeply sorry for your loss. You are an amazing mom! You listened to your instincts and pushed to have her seen. You did everything in your power to help little Danny.

[@MarcyBurke-j7w]

Shame on those office pediatricians who refused to see a sick child.😢

[@MicheleSendgraff]

Makes me sick money grubbing doctors 😒 😑

[@ckcares8067]

You are so brave to share your enormous loss...your precious baby girl who is still so loved & cared for. You are a loving & caring mother, with so much to give...focus on your little boy who needs your love & attention. I pray for healing & strength to be able to be the best mum in the world. You deserve to be happy & content.

[@snowcreek7156]

All our hearts are breaking with you momma.

[@MicheleSendgraff]

😢😢😢😢😢😢

[@MicheleSendgraff]

That's right 😢😢😢

[@soulfulsue2378]

I’m so sorry for your loss. She was such a beautiful and precious baby girl.

[@prympammi]

I’m so sorry this happened to you and your family 😿 precious baby girl 🙏🙏🙏

[@AbbaLovesUs]

My little Melissa lived for 3hrs and 18 min. You have all my love and condolences. ❤

[@melissawinters4529]

Casey, my heart breaks with yours. Thank you for sharing your story. Sending love and light to you and your family ❤️

[@prettykate4381]

Wow she was so beautiful. I can understand your pain and the words can't measure your loss. She is in heaven and the angel is watching over her. I hope by now that you have already take action against the hospital

[@lindaroam4017]

You are so strong for sharing. My heart is broken for you and your family.

[@hayleybuffington5218]

I am so so sorry for the loss of your precious Dani, she will forever be in your hearts❤

[@gailrodgers3079]

So sorry to hear this. Thankful for the woman in the waiting room that sent you to a good hospital. As a mother and a retired RN it is incomprehensible that the doctor's office wouldn't see her as it sounds like you weren't the kind of person that called the doctor for every little thing. Mothers know their child even if you have had them for only a few days. I remember being with a group of women when my first child was 4 months old. He was being really fussy, etc. I told the woman that I thought he was teething and they all laughed at me. His tooth was there the next morning! Certainly not what you went through but when your child isn't acting right, you KNOW. It was the social worker's job to investigate something like this, but you in no way had anything to do with your dear babies death. And you did everything in your power to get her help. May God heal your heartache.

[@vinilesplay2.06]

It is a tragedy, such a beauty baby girl, I am very sorry for your loss, RIP little angel! I hope you can have a baby girl again! ❤

[@thebednareks924]

I’m so sorry for your loss. I can’t even imagine the pain you must be going through.

[@seymourgrand68]

The insurance companies dictate how long a patient can stay. So sad.I am so sorry for this family's loss.

[@monickalynn4365]

Devastating,so so sorry. Gorgeous sweet baby. She is yours and you are hers to eternity

[@scarlettgallegos5812]

What does that even mean? I imagine not much of anything, as it’s dead now, per transcript.

[@xcoco217]

I love you sister. You and your family have been on my mind and Im still so sorry this happened . Im always here for you

[@allierizz7965]

Gotta love that just bad luck. It sucks and bad luck doesn’t make you feel any better. I am so sorry for your loss.

[@carolerae1899]

💔💔💔💔 I'm Praying you find Peace. Just know your Baby Girl still exists...in Heaven. Its a different dimension but she still is alive and well. You (We) will see her when we get there. Hope this helps !

[@dawnricherson2604]

I’m so sad for you and your devastating loss. And I would hire a good attorney and sue that hospital and doctor’s office into oblivion. They were negligent in so many ways…

[@SueAmbrose-mt7oe]

Insurance companies

[@robinschimka1947]

As would I!

[@lisavineyard348]

Bless your heart ❤ 😮 OMG i feel your pain and im so sorry. I work at a hospital and im in NICU a lot. Ive never heard of a doctor saying just bad luck,WTF! Please sue that hospital where she was born because they apparently aren't cleaning the right way or using the right disinfectants. Please keep us posted. Prayers for you and your family 🙏.

[@reneeBel-Air_1051]

Exactly, and maybe the hospital should be investigated..... how many others could've contracted that virus? Was it ever disclosed as to what type of virus? My prayers to the entire family. 🙏🏼

[@AbbaLovesUs]

Thanks for photos. So beautiful. ❤

[@DebbieGubala]

So very sorry. I lost my 23 year old son to cancer. It doesn't matter how old they are. They're still your baby and grief is unbearable. 💔

[@lorilesage8088]

It’s the Insurance Companies that dictate the length of stay in the hospital, not the state.

[@aklemmer8936]

Correct

[@debadams4862]

Any patient has the right to refuse discharge.

[@number1grandma1]

44 years ago, I left he hospital the next day. It’s the way it was. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@rubytuesday1316]

Quite often each state has individual applications of insurances and California is NOT a place to give birth regardless. Illegals storming our borders have left health care and medics failing in an already crowded system. NO paper work, health checks or vaccines have left many citizens suffering. So sorry momma

[@lisabaltzer4190]

@@rubytuesday1316When I had my son I didn’t have insurance, so I didn’t even get to stay in for 24 hours. The illegal alien sharing the room with me was given five days. I have paid back the money for the birth , but I doubt the illegal alien in my room did. Illegal immigration makes me sick.

[@loriswancey779]

Your baby girl was so beautiful , Im so sorry for your loss , I believe you will see her again one day ...Im keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.❤

[@BrendaNeedle]

My little girl was sick one morning( she was 7yrs. old) When I got to her Pediatrician' office, the Dr.took one look at her, picked her up, and started running down the halls with her. Hid office was adjacent to the hospital. When he got the the Pediatric floor, he screamed for help. Every Nurse, Dr. was in her room; as I was also. Her Dr. screamed at me" get her blood pressure " I said, Dr. I can't. I'm her mom. Her Dr. immediately told a Nurse to ger me put of the room. When I saw my daughter's Dr. again, he told me" to prepare myself. I knew what he meant. I laid on the hospital. floor and said, " God, if you want her, you can have her, but you have to go through me 1st. My daughter had Bacterial Meningitis. The staff, the Dr's. no one thought she would make it. By the grace of God, she made it. Today she is my healthy child with 1 Sonos her own. She went into the medical field, perhaps to tell her story if never give up.

[@catherinearmstrong4499]

I know it's been a year but is there any way you can ask to see if other parents had experiences like yours where you gave birth

[@m-wh9wp]

I'm so sorry for your loss. Every parents nightmare. In hospital baby can pick up both virus and bacteria,so it can easy make babys health worsen(sorry for my english,not my language but you will understand). Doctors must be doctors,you are mama,you are doing best what you know. In my country,we don't bring baby outside (i don't talk about backyard,i talk qbout street) 40 days. But still,this happens to you whatever we comment here. I'm so sorry for that....Baby girl is with angels ...Be strong mama

[@FANLIZable]

I'm so sorry for your loss, it's so painful, hopefully you can find peace in her tender memories, may God keeps you strong and blessed 💖

[@jenniferwilkins3825]

Sweet woman...sweet babe My heart aches for you all I pray that God has a special plan and that all angels sing like never before when you see your precious baby again. In Jesus name I pray

[@carolerae1899]

💔💔💔💔My Heart truly breaks for you and your Family! Dani looks just like you, Mom! Please know 2 things...1. You did not do anything wrong. 2. Dani is not on Earth, but she STILL LIVES in Heaven! I have lost 2 Children, and I truly believe they are alive and well, and we will meet again! Keeping you all in my Prayers! 💓

[@azianspirit66]

Sue the hospital for medical malpractice!!! Time after time, being sent home with all tests coming back normal but she caught a virus there. Then they called it “bad luck” WTH does that mean?!?!

[@PaulaForrest-lg6lh]

If the tests came back normal whatwould you expect the Drs to do azianspirit?

[@mjeanhibbs3272]

I agree!!!! Sue the hospital, doctor, etc. You took her as required to doctor to only be refused and then to children's hospital to be treated the way yall were treated then to be told bad luck, bolonga!! That's crap!! Get a lawyer and Sue them please! Do it for your daughter!!

[@traceystehbens1267]

There was no malpractice. It was an infection

[@shellymoss373]

Hi…hospital lab worker. You can’t get instant results on cultures or rare virus testing. It’s not possible. Blood cultures take 5 days to grow bacteria and result. If you have a virus that’s not flu, COVID, or RSV that is send out testing that can take weeks to result. It is not malpractice, it’s reality. Hospitals are huge petri dishes, often the quick discharge of healthy patients is done to prevent hospital acquired infections. It’s much safer at home in most cases. This story is a tragedy, but it wasn’t medical malpractice.

[@rominafiocca6583]

Sono esserini fragili sonoesseri umani perché farli soffrire e assurdo lo sanno i genitori che i loro bambini vengono eseguiti queste torture

[@robbielumpkin7935]

My ❤ breaks for you and your family. I’m so sorry you’re going thru this hell. Love to you . 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️

[@GDJ1957]

This is so sad. Life is so unfair to people sometimes.

[@scarlettgallegos5812]

Unfortunate, but she still has the little boy. There are those whose whole families were murdered, babies as well as elderly. It’s always best to think of all the Blessings we still have rather than focus on the awful misfortunes that befall so many of us.

[@thejenr8tr922]

Wow! That is cruel, to minimize a mother's grief, because she didn't lose all her children!

[@annehicks3559]

You evidently have never lost a child.

[@carolyngetchman-iq1bv]

most of the time i think

[@BonweezMusic]

I’m so very sorry for the loss of your beautiful baby girl. I’m also sorry for the immense pain that you are in. Your mommy instincts kicked in, and you did everything right. You tried to get her help, only to be turned away. I would hold those pediatricians and hospital accountable. Your baby girl will always be with you. Please find comfort in knowing that you did everything that you could.💖

[@Rnjeepshoelver]

My hearts breaks for you , you did everything right Mama, everything . Sending healing and love to you ❤️

[@trishan9537]

Im so sorry for your loss. I too lost a child after birth. Pray for healing and acceptance.

[@carolyngetchman-iq1bv]

my son Christopher only lived about 21 days young, they said it was SIDs, half century ago and they still don't know what that is

[@LynnTanner-ls9kx]

Ive also buried a daughter its a pain thats unexplainable.She is absolutely beautiful,my deepest sympathy and condolences.I know no words help what youre feeling,hugs.

[@danielangom]

What a horrible heartbreaking scenario 😭😭😭. I am so sorry for your loss that is the most worse thing that could happen to parents 💔💔💔💔💔... But be sure your little sweetie knew that she was loved and she will be in your heart and in your life forever.... My sister lost her first son through a normal cold with four months. It was so devastating and nobody could believe that it really happened... He probably catched that virus at the doctor and he had a simple cold... What nobody knew was that a simple cold could cause a disease named Zytomegalie... If you catch it normally nothing special happen but he was just four months and that disease went into the lungs and there are many many little bubbles filled with oxygene and the virus let them burst and causes bleeding... The world is often unfair and mean and nobody can understand why former healthy babys are dying.... I hope you and your family went together through that tragedy...

[@williamthomson638]

My sincere condolences ❤

[@lisasaracino9469]

I’m so very sorry for the loss of your beautiful baby. 🙏🏼💜

[@janemacaulay9372]

I'm sooo sorry for your huge loss, of your beautiful daughter, Danny. As a mother myself and an Empath, my heart broke watching your story. Then I admit I got po'd because of all the run around you got from the doctors and offices. It made me wonder if they knew sooner, would it have made any difference. My heart felt prayers and thoughts go out to you and your family. 🙏😘❤️🫂🍑 RIP little 👼

[@judygarner6571]

I'm so sorry u lost your beautiful baby girl. You will see her again in heaven.

[@wendyfiolek5914]

I am so very sorry for the loss of your beautiful Dani. My heart goes out to you. It’s so unacceptable that the pediatrician wouldn’t see her and that you didn’t get more time in the hospital after she was born.

[@dawnloveslife1]

Keeping you and yours lifted up in prayers. So very sorry for your loss. No words will help, I know. I’m Honestly curious to know what virus they said it was. I would be interested to research that particular virus myself and how it is tested for….because my son lost a little one too and they did not deep checks to find out what caused him to die. Thank you Praying It’s a pain that no one ever wants to live through.

[@Steelers2116]

I'm so sorry for your loss. This is incredibly sad. RWG, sweet Dani.

[@TheChorister51]

I feel so sad for you. What a terrible thing to go through for you and your family. So sorry.

[@PamelaSwanson-b1t]

So very sorry for your loss she was beautiful ❤️🙏😭

[@rebecculousrk]

This is a year old now. I pray that your family is holding each other close through this nightmare storm. I'm so frustrated and angry that your pediatrician wouldn't accomodate a frightened mother with a potentially ill newborn. I'm so so sorry. ❤❤❤

[@brendapooler6809]

The hospital and the doctor are both to blame. My heart was braking 💔 listening to you. Your sweet little girl was/is beautiful. My prayers are with you and your family. I would sue everyone involved in this hell you are going through. My sincere condolences to you and your family. ❤❤

[@nicolebrown5921]

I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my mom just ten days before Christmas. My mom had ALS and passed away 2 years later. I also lost my Aunt Dianne back in January 13th from Alztimers Disease. ☹️

[@elaineweinberg7094]

I know it's been two years since you post this. I know 2 years is nothing to morn a child. But this is first I have seen this. I pray you are getting along good today. No mother should have to lose a child. Thinking of you and your family.❤

[@berlingurrl]

I am so sorry for your loss. The pain is just awful. I know, I lost 2 baby girls a day after they were born 2 years apart. The pregnancy was considerable ok, but delivery 3 and 4 weeks early respectively. There is no one to blame for how God's plans. There is only one reason He calls His children home. He needs them to wait for us when we arrive. This is all I hold on to. I have since then given birth to 2 healthy sons. Many years later, I understand and have nothing but compassion and love for moms like us, since we gave our most precious gift from God back to Him, so they're saved. Our babies are loved and always will be loved. But do reach out to a support group for Bereaved Parents. You need to be good to yourself and not be alone with this grief. {{{hugs}}} to you, even though we are probably worlds and years apart; yet we share pain. And I sincerely hope you are doing well (as best as possible) today.

[@Obi-SeanKenobi]

I'm so sorry for your loss

[@deeleipold3643]

There was nothing more you could done, so very sorry for your loss of your baby girl,we can't see viruses, it was not fair,that your little one has passed on to God,she will always stay in your heart forever ❤️ you did your best,bless your family,may you find peace some how. Love from Perth Western Australia. Take care of yourself.

[@moemoe096]

This is so heartbreaking not at all your fault prayers for you and your family ❤ rude dr office

[@moirabillinge185]

I am so desperately sorry . You are such wonderful parents and this is just too painful for you. I'm so sorry. XX 🙏

[@bctrissel]

I’m so so sorry and appalled by your poor treatment.

[@savannahbarrsamandcolbyand1515]

I am so so so so so so so so sorry for your loss I am here for you and your family and friends I promise you that and I will pray for you guys tonight before I go to sleep and I love you guys so so much ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@LunaBobbi]

I’m so sad for you. 💔 I recently had a baby myself and she is about to be out on medication that could be dangerous.. my biggest fear is losing her. I can’t even imagine how you feel. I am so sorry. 😞

[@BinderP5]

I'm so sorry for your loss.

[@jaxybrein8483]

They're just are no words... 😢❤

[@sharonhutchins5784]

I had my son at 8:35am. By 4pm, they said I could leave if I wanted to…or stay overnight, but I’d be discharged the next day at any rate. I stayed. But, man…just throw me out the same day is a bit harsh!

[@lisabaltzer4190]

If you were here illegally, you would get multiple days in the hospital for FREE. They have more rights than citizens. I know this from personal experience.

[@KatMa664]

It’s very sad that they throw you out out of the hospital so soon. Doctors don’t make that decision insurance companies do.

[@suec6282]

No mother should ever have to go through this horrific ordeal because of the incompetence of the medical staff. It was the senseless death of an innocent baby due to the carelessness of ‘professionals’ who forgot the Hippocratic oath.

[@cathyjresindesigns]

Dear Mama, how very awful for you. Losing your baby girl through no fault of your own, and made to feel like they expected one of you did something, Your story breaks my heart and brought tears to my eyes.

[@brendasmith5431]

So sorry for the loss of your baby girl!😢

[@nondanelson9553]

Heart hugs ❤.

[@suzkornfan]

I cant imagine. i am so sorry for your loss.

[@annairwin8147]

So unbelievably sorry for your loss😔😔..May Jesus give you strength and peace in time that ONLY He can do😔 Send you a hug prayers and love..I can’t imagine your pain

[@I_am_Kit7]

I am so sorry for your loss. :(

[@karenh9013]

Out in the sun for an hour and a half !! What was she thinking

[@Lauren-j468]

@karenh9013 It was a sad story to watch and I truly feel sad for this lady. My first reaction was: ‘did she say they’re were outside for only 1.5 hrs !’ The baby had sunburn on her cheeks they were red, and we saw the photo. Her baby most likely suffered a heatstroke/also known as sunstroke. It can lead to brain damage, organ failure and even death.

[@rtucker13]

Why wasn’t she told how long to keep that baby out in the sun?

[@Lauren-j468]

@@rtucker13 Are you for real ? Anyone knows that 1.5 hrs in the sun is going to give you a bit of sunburn. No mother in her right mind, unless she’s totally clueless and dumb, would keep her baby in the sun for over ONE HOUR / and HALF❗️ The child died due to her stupidity or something more sinister.

[@Viatureyna]

And it was her second baby. People do not think. Newborns should not be exposed to direct sunlight for even minutes not mentioning hours. And without sunblock???? I feel very sorry for this lady but the sun "accident" could have been prevented with common sense.

[@Lauren-j468]

@@Viatureyna Well said❗️👏

[@crbrowes449]

She is absolutely beautiful and so are you. I am so so sorry that happened to you. Perhaps it was COVID or something thereof? I totally understand about viruses lurking in hospitals and I really don't think they know how to eradicate them. I had a surgery and wasn't closed up properly and as a result ended up with an infection. It was on my spine. So I was opened and cleaned back up a month later. But this is about you and I don't know where you are, but my thoughts are with you and how but wrenching this is for you but, you have more children or child and a husband that needs you and I'm sure that they feel disheartened too, so you all find a strength in each other. Love one and other and if you believe maybe you can pray to God for assistance. I pray for you, Amen 🙏🏻🥰🕊️

[@lindysueroutt6680]

I am so very sorry for your loss. My sincere Heartfelt Condolences to Everyone.💐💝🩷🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🩷💝💐

[@annehicks3559]

I know how you feel and I'm so sorry. Nothing I can say will help, just know that I lost my daughter in a car wreck and I feel every bit of your pain. Life must go on but I lost part of my heart and soul when she left to go to heaven. God Bless you sweetie and your family....,

[@birdnflight]

I’m so sorry. Please never blame yourself you did everything a mother should do. People at the doctor’s office showed no concern or compassion. I’m so very sorry for your terrible loss.

[@lisabaltzer4190]

I no longer trust the medical profession. I have had too many bad experiences. Our local hospital turned my husband away three times and finally admitted him the fourth time, but then it was too late and now I am a widow.

[@latessstephens8649]

I kept taking my baby to the doctor because he seemed lethargic, he wasn’t crying or eating well, jaundice…they kept sending me home saying he’s fine. That Friday, that were like “not her again and told me they had no availability so I eventually took him to the emergency room and he ended up being transported to another hospital and having open heart surgery, spent 4 months in the hospital. He was a blue baby. Dr office almost killed my y

[@yolandadelazerda207]

All my love,prayers and condolences on the loss of your precious Angel.

[@Jaysjules]

Im so sorry for your loss i just randomly came across your video and my heart is breaking for you just hearing what you and your precious baby went thru and hearing the pain and tone in your voice i know you dont know me but if i was standinv next to you right now id give you a tight hug and say your daughter is beautiful and its not your fault you did nothing wrong and there well from hearing your story there was nothing else or there was nothing else you could of done that would of made any other difference you obviously took good care of your self you seem like a very caring loving person amd mom and it to me seems like your still kn your mind thinking if i had done this or said this or went here etc maybe this or that and as much as you think about there nothong more you could have done tjat you didnt already do and unfortunately there are many out comes in life that truly are out of our hands good and bad please talk to a professional stay strong for your other child and make sure you keep a strong bond with your your husband and pray and heel as a family it will never go away but with time it does get a little better and maybe in her birthday every year make a sweet tradition with your friends and family and hopefully over the years that tradition will bring a little smile to you because your daughter may not have been here for that long of time but every child likes when theor parents smile with them not cry and as hard as it will be please smile when you think about her not cry because she may have not been jere long but be glad that even for a short time she was here and try instead of thinkknv about the sad think about when u forst held her and snuggled woth her think about it of it was you that passed wpuld you want people to cry everytime they thought of you or would you want tjem to think of the good times amd smile i hope this comment is comkng out the way i m intending it to and i hope you dont find it disrespectful becaide thatbis the last thing its meant to come out as again you dont knlw me but me and my family memeners have all been thri the loss of a child at some point or another and all at different times between miscarriages and my mom having to bury her forst two babies because they were born to early to my little brother at 21 years old being Killed in action in Iraq in 2004 2 momths before his 1st child a daughter was born so as a fellow mom we know how muvh pain you are going thru but how strong you are to tell your story on here so that mahbe someone now before or later on going thru something like this can see and know that they werent or are the only ones also . I will say a prayer for you and your family tonight again sorry for your loss

[@brandy6214]

So sorry for your loss prayers 🙏❤️

[@alipeacock3685]

A very cute baby x

[@Rivergirl168]

Just saw a video about a baby who died shortly after birth and mom passed group B strep during labor. She did not know she had it. Hospitals are not like they used to be. So many visitors are allowed to hold the baby now.

[@Mindingmybizness]

I seen that one I was devastated

[@debadams4862]

The mother should have been tested by her OB for strep b. That is the standard of care.

[@sherisse10]

Happened to my cousin in the early 90s.. Drs & nurses told her she didn’t know what she was talking about being a new mother and laughed at her when she was telling them her baby was sick… finally the fever spiked so high they had to admit him… after a week old. once the diagnosis was confirmed they told her to institutionalize him because he’d be blind, deaf, never walk, talk etc… she refused to listen to them and her son talks (although not well, but understandable) can hear but is blind.. will never walk and had his legs broken every year to prevent them from atrophy, he’s wheelchair bound of course. My cousin won a lawsuit against the hospital & Drs in Reno but still had to go before the judge to get funds every few yrs for a new wheelchair etc. She’s fine with that.. because she wants every dime to go towards his care if God forbid something happens to her. Soon after that time period of his birth it became the norm for strep B testing universally at least here in the states. I myself tested positive and I was scheduled for a Csection. It is such a simple test and no reason for a Dr to deny any mother it.

[@Rivergirl168]

@@sherisse10 That is so tragic!

[@eileenmcdonald1599]

Unknown if she ever had any prenatal care.

[@veragonzales3741]

I am so sorry for your loss 😔😔

[@Michelle-gw4db]

I'm so sorry for your loss of your baby girl 😢 prayers for you and your family 🙏🙏

[@PamelaHolmes-w6l]

Bless you, doctors should never refuse to see a newborn.

[@rinaventer2086]

I am so sorry for your loss... but it is still not the end. Gladly, when our Heavenly Father comes to take us all to the new Jerusalem, you gonna see your baby girl again. 🙏 Amen. Something looking forward to. God bless you and your family. South Africa greetings and lots of love coming your way.💝🌻🎀

[@susanryman9948]

She was unusually tiny. Things like what happened is not unusual. Don’t think it’s only you. Others have endured too.

[@bonniebroz5393]

Everyone that denied treatment should be prosecuted

[@holliethomson6147]

Iam so very sorry 😢 im sending you and your family so much love and hugs ❤ Rest in peace beautiful Angel xxx🩷

[@shaunnalyne1371]

I would sue the heck out of that hospital....that's so wrong....they need to be held accountable for this...if your baby got her virus from the hospital then you NEED to bring it to the attention of them and this could literally happen to another baby very easily....something wasn't right in the hospital

[@mmburgess]

Sorry for your loss. No one is to blame.

[@sylviamathis9606]

All bad luck I can’t even imagine how hard that would be to hear from the hospital ❤ so sorry 🙏

[@monicakopp8969]

My thoughts and prayers go out to you I know what you’re going through I lost my son in 1992 he was stillborn and in May 30 2023 our grand baby girl was born on June 5 she passed away in the hospital

[@janegroom2756]

So devastated for you all.💔🙏

[@lizannezisa436]

Omg. I'm so sorry love. God bless you. Maybe by now when you get this you have been blessed again with another gift from heaven.

[@Libby_p]

I’m so sorry this has happened to you. 🥀

[@julibyler790]

Hospitals negligence and then social workers want to blame you. I'm so sorry for everything😢😢😢