MY PAINFUL STORY…..

How I suffered after having my baby..

[@gichdee]

You are strong 💪! Huyu mwanaume alambwe na shaitoo 😢

[@rahabmichael8394]

Going back to work after one month n you went through C/S.Thats why I call you superwoman.hugs mama

[@shish__]

Am so sorry Betty, I can relate your story. I went through CS with twins. Oh my God, I found myself so tired and depressed.Taking care of newborn ain’t a joke when you have no support.I remember I didn’t get time to shower for two days, because the twins were alternating sleep time.When one wakes up the other sleeps or if they sleep they wake up together. I still had my first born son whom I had to help with homework. My twins are now three yrs and my son 10 yrs.I thank God I survived it and came out strong.

[@mariawambui7719]

Hugs Betty. I went through the same. I remember he told me, "Mimi sina haja na mtoto, that's your own carelessness". He never assisted n up to date. My son is now a second year student in the university. Never mind. God is always with us.

[@hannahmoore962]

Oh my God thought I was the only one hoo. Goodness I suffered same thing my boy now is in high school till date the fellow hasn't show up but thank God for God he too hasn't no kid bc u can't reject blessings from God and expect to be blessed by the same God

[@Flourish_today]

Oh dear me!

[@stephaniematheri5625]

@@hannahmoore962wa after all those years no kid because of judgement?

[@mrsam2282]

Thank you for this inspiring story. It has touched so many people I know. God bless you and see you soon in AZ

[@rodanjoki7793]

This one has now moved me to tears. I've had my children through c/s and I know what it's like. It's true God saw you through.

[@beckybecca7308]

It's like listening to my own story. I totally relate with you. So glad we've overcame. Good job Betty and you're an incredible mom ❤️❤️

[@Bettyaz]

Thank you so much!

[@essynow]

So sorry Betty for what you went through. I believe there is a special place for all single mothers. God is always there for us. Hugs

[@ruthwanjiru2792]

You are an amazing mum Betty, your experience made me cry. Keep winning gal.

[@oukorabera9507]

Same story for me.I literally ran away with my kids.Imagine he has never even called me for ten years.He has never bothered to check on his kids!!!!! I almost gave up Betty!!!!I hope that his current wife will not experience what he did to me.

[@Wakinyua]

Karma is a bitch. Maybe he ain't even married

[@rachelndungu9891]

Thanks for coming out strong 💪. May you never lack. You are extremely blessed & loved in all ways baby girl🥰

[@dansonmwaniki1561]

Betty you are real fighter and am really chocked that sometimes human being can be so cruel up to that level, and to make it worse in a country like America.

[@lydiapiece]

Betty hey, I'm so proud of you that you were able to overcome all that and look at you now 👏👏 The deadbeat it is his loss I mean who dumps kamamu? She such a sunshine 💕☀️ 🥂 to more wins ❤️

[@judithkuria8149]

Accepting the situation as it is is the beginning of a beautiful future...keep going sister babies are a blessing

[@allo8339]

You are a strong woman Betty! God bless you and your children 😘🙏

[@kenechukwuohakamma2550]

You are really a strong. I have had been the through the same experience with my sister. I was her only support. Cooking and doing chores but I am glad I was there then to assist her.

[@hannahmoore962]

Its Well Betty u're a very pretty lady with a heart of gold, my God will lead u to ur missing rib. It happened to me some 18yrs ago and today I'm married with four other kids and we're blessed. God wipe away all your tears

[@medrinekabura916]

Betty, consider this experience as a blessing in disguise. A person who can do that to you "in a foreign Land" is evil. No need to have them in your life.

[@kenechukwuohakamma2550]

You are really a strong person. I am proud of you. May god continue to protect, guide and provide for you and your children.

[@wanjirujane_]

I’m so sorry for what you went through Betty. You’re strong mama and May God continue to bless you beyond your imagination. May God give you double for your trouble 🙏🏾

[@gladysnzioki696]

Wow, that's quite a testimony. Praise be to God, He held you and carried you through it. I love that you acknowledge God, more grace and blessing to you.

[@matebellomakhetha2342]

I love how you relate your stories, if you can stop repeating the same topic and get straight to the point , some of us loses focus quickly and want to move on but your stories are just beautiful to miss. Just do an intro and get straight to the point.

[@soniahquish4158]

Truly you have healed .I cried watching this. Things are just about to get better for you

[@Beverchela]

Hugs Betty. Thank God you came out of it. You are a very beautiful and kind person. Your kids will be fine and will be great people.You will get the right person who will marry you.You deserve all the happiness in the world.

[@estahadassah9470]

I'm sorry Betty for what you went through. We thank God for moving you to another level ❣️. The devil is a liar!

[@ROLLWITHLIZ]

Girl, you’re strong and you got this, that hair is so beautiful you on you darling keep sharing the positive vibes

[@nyagahruth3629]

Super proud of you, keep going mama you are doing a great job with the little ones. Just a thought mybe ladies should name drop make sure that these men that act like that, do not keep doing the same to other women out there .

[@carolinegithae9124]

hugs gal you really made me cry aki the things women go through coz of their babies wooi but God is faithful.

[@bancymaina229]

Betty sorry for what you went through 😭you are such a beautiful soul 😍..and a wonderful mum.....hugs Mama💕💕

[@kaylak4373]

Thanks so much for sharing. I’m sure you’ve inspired many. Baby’s are a blessing and look at you now! Be blessed. Love your channel. ❤

[@carolinewangari9321]

You're so strong Betty keep up and my God continue opening more doors for you.... I admire the way you love your daughter even though the father damped you.May God bless the work of your hands

[@melodyanne8384]

Look at you now, you triumphed 😍 proud of you..

[@ndutambugua8548]

oh my gosh Betty that's so tough!! God preserved you! That experience can completely crush a person! I love kamamu even more now, God has amazing plans for her life. Let's keep praying for her

[@elizabethkigia5607]

Ooooh! So sorry Betty I can't imagine the struggle. You are a STRONG WOMAN.

[@Charityshii05]

This is so heartbreaking, some men are trash. Betty you come across like someone who is very kind, and loving and some people just take that for granted. You are such a strong woman, and your babies are beautiful. I pray that in the right time Gods time that the right man will walk into your life and love you the way you deserve to be loved. Be selfish with your time and your heart when it comes to men.

[@carolinemutegi1056]

Amazing how God gives us grace through such times, that was really tough. May God continually bless those ladies who helped you out with cooking and stuff.

[@share-love]

😀😀 you made my day in this. This story sounds familiar to my own. Betty i love your stories and you for being you. You are very honest and speaks things the way they are.

[@kobilolimo4389]

This is a painful story to watch,that's so tramautic Betty, I cried watching this, like for real was that person a human or animal in form of a human? One thing I know is your daughter is blessed and one day she's going to make you proud, hugs Betty I can relate to your story,this is so heartbreaking kabisa, so heartbreaking and I don't think anyone I mean anyone should ever go through this

[@irene_peacewambui6987]

Aki wanawake tuna nguvu kweli!

[@franmdleleni6520]

That was too much Betty. When a baby is tiny it has so many demands. Thank God Kamam is growing well and she is such a joy to you. May God bless your family

[@annewambui9911]

Woi this was me with my first born, I even called him when I gave birth thinking he will come see us and be happy 😁 all I got was a 'sawa' 🥺

[@jecintawangechi8655]

I relate coz I am also a single mum of two...struggles are real but God is faithful

[@josephinenjerikahura2845]

Betty you are so real;God is faithful. I admire you so much.At times I think of asking for a handout to start a project. Be forever blessed.

[@EiramEiram2]

What doesnt kill you makes you strong ..for me i wasnt dumped bt i kinda went through all the stress in the world to a point i had to leave my 2yr old baby to go n work in Dubai because the baby daddy was behaving sk weired caring for the baby bt mimi kufanyiwa matharau i could have gone mad if i strayed n i had to make a decision which was not easy .i cried a river n now am glad am back in kenya not strugling n baby daddy came to his senses when he saw i stoped communicating n now were coparenting n i love it that way.i fully understand what you went through betty.cheers

[@owene]

That's terrible what you went through. The Almighty Creator is your STRENGTH ! ! Thank you for sharing your experience, and that's coming from a MAN. SALUTE ✊🏾✌🏾👉🏾👍🏾💯❤❤

[@nancynjoki2218]

Ooh dear u have Made me shed tears though am a single mum have not gone through such crazy experience thanks to my family... hugs,hugs u are a super strong woman.may you and the kids never lack..

[@evangelinemuhia6768]

your story has made me cry. Betty, you are such a brave woman. God is so faithful you have made it. Your babies are blessed and they will not suffer in this life. You are blessed and you will never lack again in this life. Hugs mama.

[@Avril_jackie5840]

OMG 😔 Hugs for what you went through mom❤️❤️❤️ That was too much!!!

[@ninah_kikii]

Amen! Your story almost made me cry. Thank God for this video. Am recovering from an awful break up. It was very unpredicted. I thought am gonna loose my mind. But watching this video and listening to all you went through, made feel like my case is a little bit better. Thanks for sharing you story Betty. I feel so much encouraged and uplifted. May the almighty God keep on enlarging your territories.

[@maryfaith3501]

😭 you are a strong mom, May the good gracious lord hold your hand always 🙏🙏

[@paulnjaukimemia2646]

Wooi... You are a strong woman. This has touched me. May this not happen to anyone else

[@jkcamedia5990]

Its real crazy over here .. we have very painful stories to share .. it’s unfortunate.. God is faithful.. hugs Betty u are a strong woman

[@loisewanjiku2125]

You’re a super mum Betty! I love the way you story tell the Otile Brown part killed me. Much Love Mama.❤️❤️

[@njerimwangi2719]

Hugs Betty. You're a very strong woman. Thanks for sharing.

[@wanjiku805]

Thank you for being vulnerable. I have been a conscious single parent living in GA and doing this for over 10yrs. The father of my child hepad back to Kenya.

[@wambuimachari1783]

You made mi crying dear,I go through that I understand you,pole sana ma dear

[@marykirotie689]

Oh Betty, why did I cry watching this 😪😔,,God bless you mama ❤

[@priscillahvenerable5263]

Wow you are too blessed dearest ❤️

[@leahm8258]

Pole sana Betty. Aki it takes the hand of God to remain sane in circumstances that threaten to drive someone mad. I can't imagine the pain. May God uphold every woman who may be going through a similar experience right now.

[@peterkimeu9941]

Am so sorry Betty for this sad experience please in future date serious responsible gentlemen who care not guys who running away from responsibility when you get pregnant is when I should stick to and take very good care of you not run

[@fitzphillips5370]

God bless you Betty!!!! I'm sure thing were way more difficult than you explained. But you overcame with God's blessing. I'm sure you will continue to be blessed!!

[@nickymthelebofu]

Yoh Betty ur story is heartbreaking 😭, South African guys have the ability to that. Not all though, but black SA men majority will treat u like that and leave u with responsibility while they having good life. Betty ur baby daddy is evil Hai(I'm sorry to say that) but we thank God thru all that u came out a strong woman❤️💓

[@vernagrant8819]

God always has a plan for us. I feel your pain. Baby father will need her some day. I have seen it so many times. You are blessed with your2 little darlings. Keep the faith.

[@jayneeeeeee]

Oh 😢😢 kiu kimundu nginya ndahiokirio hope you get child support

[@josephinenjerikahura2845]

Betty you such an encouragement. You are a strong woman.

[@jeddyjohn8813]

Wooi, can't imagine working immediately after CS, may God repay you and remember all single mothers..

[@jeddyjohn8813]

The God of mothers is always there for them, and in one way or another this dumping dads always pay for all this tears my dear...

[@flod3385]

Amen!!! I am crying listening to you, you are great strength in my life, Amen 🙏🏾

[@estherg3669]

Pole sana Betty for the terrible experience. You came strong out of it. The glow and happiness tell it all. All the best as you take care of your 2 loved ones.

[@catem3595]

Wow definition of a strong woman,,and God is faithful there's always light at the end of the tunnel. Happy for you gal

[@bettygithinji9114]

Dead beat he was, ooh ulijaribu u r lucky u did not get puperal psychosis and BP complications not to forget c/s wound complications.Mungu si adhumani.

[@terryann19]

Am so sorry babe 🥺🥺... I don't know what to say ... Imagine being far away from your family n a whole human does this 😡... Glad you overcame

[@cynthiawacyke8073]

O.M.G I cried through this 😭 Hugs mamii. God is indeed great. Never commented on your videos,but this one I had to ❤️

[@homeandaway2811]

First I want to say sorry for everything you went through then I would like to say Congratulations Betty you have seen the glory of God. I went through almost same kind of thing, why I'm congratulating you? Because in the tough journey, stress, depression etc I lost my child at 8 months and 1 week pregnancy 😭 I will never forget that day at the clinic, baby:s heartbeats had stopped 😭😭 The way that man treated me throughout that pregnancy, only God knows how I survived that mess. Give glory to God Betty, you have your cute kids with you 😍😍. I thank God he later on gave me 3 kids. 🙏 but my first child's place in my heart will forever be there.

[@joywambui9330]

So sorry girl I wish you healing and remember it’s not your fault and was never your fault

[@wairimundungu5658]

Waaa... That was a tough experience. Sorry Ma. What matters is that the baby is all grown and you're so blessed

[@teresiamburu4130]

u are a superwoman. we thank GOD for his grace and blessings. I wonder if those who disappear when u need them most have a conscience,please help me understand.

[@Yummy_mom32]

Just watching this today betty pole..i was damped here in America i took my baby in kenya will bring her back when shes 3yrs

[@msnayomifavour]

Hey Betty your story is just like mine, but I know what, am encouraged all gonna be well and the kiddos are growing up n healthy

[@Marytv01]

Good work Betty. such are conversations that we need to talk about everyday. it is through experience that we get to share. This resonates with my own experience as a single mother. Thank you for sharing this.

[@chegekelvin2022]

am so sorry for what you went through, you are so strong woman, thanks for not giving up during that situation, your daughter is your joy I can say having to go all that alone. thanks to God for he gave you the strength to overcome that situation. my wife since day one of the pregnancy was alone till delivery now that am out of my country for work, she has a Nany and my mother was with her during that time even if I missed being with her all through. the bay is 4 months now and I thank my wife coz she is so strong woman that I have seen. I support her financially to ease the burden

[@sarahwainaina7711]

That's a beautiful testimony of what our God 🙏 can do .May His grace and blessings always be upon you and your children.Every encouraging and uplifting .❤️

[@carolinesedition5312]

Wueh, that was rough Betty, God is good you came out strong. Happy sunday to you n the babies.

[@rosewilliamskenya2478]

Wooiii sounds like a movie. Congratulations. God is good all the time. Be blessed for sharing

[@annwanjiru3997]

Betty you are such a strong one

[@suzienaserian7994]

My situation right now but God is faithful

[@mjtee7869]

You'll be fine sis..I've been through the same..You'll get through it..Look after yourself...Much love.xx

[@jessywanjiru9792]

He truly is..may He come through for you🫂🫂

[@catekinyua9928]

God will never leave you betty you are a seed of God be blessed and your family

[@florencemlay9333]

I love you, I have a baby boy in USA as well I know how it is🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@lydiawabuyi11]

mad respect for you. Betty🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰. this is soooo disturbing thank God for your sanity cz one will go mad, i just pray she grows up to be a real BLESING

[@kairuthiagnes6837]

Am so sorry betty for all what you went through dear. God is there for you.

[@shewrt1143]

Its important to share this experience......so candid...

[@Miss_Mungai]

It is indeed a struggle to raise kids by yourself far away from family, however women need to take accountability for their actions.

[@Hlulizinyanga]

Amazing lady may God keep blessing you❤

[@njeririri7588]

Is kamumus daddy that Mike?If am u siwezi deny him to see and even help his daughter cos u canny buy a dad for ur kid but siwezi mforgive ever.My opinion.May God always be with u Betty.

[@LoiseWNjoroge]

It isn't Mike

[@sonyia7521]

Aki ningeshtuka venye Mike hakai kufanya such a thing 🤫. But again I thought Mike has been Betty boyfriend for long🤷

[@wangui0011]

wangui0011 0 seconds ago Wheeew! This one was tough. So sorry for your story, those thorny, painful times. This resonated on certain levels: the micro sleeping because I worked too many hours, I totaled my car but God preserved my life…. I’ve been late to shifts for oversleeping. You’re an incredibly resilient mama, May your kids be the silver lining to this ordeal 💕

[@shiru2085]

Wooooiiii. What an experience. That was difficult. You are strong but some experiences, they make us strong. God bless for sharing your story.

[@aminajuma9235]

waaaaaauuuuu this men can show us dust whaaaat i cant beliv yu went thru all this pole sana.but God will never live yu and yur family.He will alwyz give yu yur hearts desires.keep moving and stay strong for kamamu and darren.God is good all th tym

[@susanogutu3799]

Pole Ma! We are stronger than we think. God normally had a way of sustaining us.

[@jelagatmaurine]

you are such a wonderful woman betty....you have been through alot.... i love you to the moon... i had to go back though.Indeed you deceive the life you are living now 2022

[@irankundaregis2263]

Painful story 😔 Ooohhh my God😔 In all situation, God will blessings u and your baby!!!

[@Flourish_today]

This is such a sad, frustrating story. I felt like coming through this phone and hugging you so tight.😪 Can you believe in Canada maternity leave is one full year. So what happens. Your paid a percentage of what you were getting from your employer for a whole year. In addition to that child support by that man is mandatory. They have extended maternity leave if I'm not mistaken(I don't have children so don't quote me on this but I have a feeling it's true) to 18 months. I think after the 12 months maternity leave if you want to use the rest of the months you apply for unemployment. It's important for mothers to spend as much time with their babies. Any way I'm so sorry this was your experince.