My Pastor husband was having an affair with a 19 year old choir member. The lessons and regrets |LNN

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Lynn Ngugi

Lynn Ngugi

2 ай бұрын

It took Pastor Margaret Kenye one year to date, get engaged, and marry a fellow pastor but little did she know this was the beginning of one of her hardest chapters in life.
On this episode of LNS, Rebuilding series, she walks us through her life’s journey, regrets, lessons and how she is turning her life around
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@mamawatorotalks8208
@mamawatorotalks8208 2 ай бұрын
Dear ladies repeat after me! LOVE Bombing 💣 is not Love, hoovering is not a sign of a reformed man/woman. The will suck you in drive you crazy, abandon/discard you right after the wedding, , when you rebuild they come back to uproot you from your core. God internationally let you stay 6months with no baby the first time…toxic men are very canning like conmen
@LynnNgugi
@LynnNgugi 2 ай бұрын
This right here🙏🙏
@janekinyua9359
@janekinyua9359 2 ай бұрын
​@@fatumafadeshi2514kwa pastor show Huwa ni vipindi tu. They are not real,so do not worry so much about it. Keep at peace.
@TeresiaWangu
@TeresiaWangu 2 ай бұрын
I can't agree more with you. I was in a relationship with a man who had created a "heaven" for me. The relationship was full of love bombing. We rushed things as we met in Dec 2022 and in March 2023 we were already planning a wedding. We met in a youth conference so he was a saved guy and God-fearing 🤣. We had arguments all through, but I had to keep cool because of the already-known wedding. Every time we had an argument he gaslighted me and I was in the wrong all the time to the point I stopped complaining as I thought I was the one who was not understanding. To cut a long story short he revealed his real character after paying the dowry, never caring about me. Fast forward I was emotionally tortured, was tired of the relationship even before the wedding happened. All this time I couldn't leave because I was wondering what the church, parents, and friends would say until this day when I was on the verge of depression, crying and I looked at myself in the mirror and said no, I can't do this anymore but again I had no courage to leave. Thank God one day I decided to ask something about him,{ mind you I never enquired anything about him before, I relied on what he told me because I couldn't stand hearing anything negative about my love, there was no chance for haters🤣🤣🤣}, he knew about it, got mad to the point of saying that he 'would cancel the wedding, give me a year to gather information about him and let him know when I was done. This was God's way of letting me out of the relationship. The wedding was supposed to happen in November last year but it didn't. I'm now working towards returning the dowry. God saved my life. I can't imagine how I could be living with him in the same house.
@wamboedna
@wamboedna 2 ай бұрын
​@@fatumafadeshi2514hizo ni vipindire
@lindamatowo8163
@lindamatowo8163 2 ай бұрын
Love Bombing is Not Love
@user-js7uu1zj9z
@user-js7uu1zj9z 2 ай бұрын
A minute silence, this woman is so beautiful, i took time admiring her skin tone, melanin popping, dark chocolate! You rock mama.
@pamelamubuta
@pamelamubuta 2 ай бұрын
😘😘😘
@lucynjoroge9639
@lucynjoroge9639 2 ай бұрын
Yes she is Absolutely beautiful! Pastor your children are absolutely beautiful too!
@miriamkimani5200
@miriamkimani5200 2 ай бұрын
She's hilarious too
@mainagakere5548
@mainagakere5548 2 ай бұрын
Lusting after a woman is sexual sin
@BabaFaraja
@BabaFaraja 2 ай бұрын
True ❤
@africangirl189
@africangirl189 2 ай бұрын
Moral of the story " never go back to an ex they always come back to see if you are still stupid " .
@veronicahbagiti143
@veronicahbagiti143 2 ай бұрын
True
@dorothyabila1082
@dorothyabila1082 2 ай бұрын
100%
@annkirethi3812
@annkirethi3812 2 ай бұрын
VERY!!!
@pennymbata6666
@pennymbata6666 2 ай бұрын
I agree
@eunicenyavanga3468
@eunicenyavanga3468 2 ай бұрын
True
@larissajohns1381
@larissajohns1381 2 ай бұрын
Moral of the story 1:women abstain from giving men money 2:to never take an ex back... wishing all of you love ❣️
@fridahnalisi8841
@fridahnalisi8841 Ай бұрын
100%true
@fridahnalisi8841
@fridahnalisi8841 Ай бұрын
In my growing up there was a business woman in my village she a lot of money but she never supported the husband with her money even watoto sometimes they slept hungry and we wondered why, but now i understand😅😅 but the husband played well children are now great people
@kazmorich
@kazmorich Ай бұрын
@@fridahnalisi8841 children slept hungry? that is wicked.
@dorothynyaboke2478
@dorothynyaboke2478 2 ай бұрын
My take home is that do not involve religious leaders in matters that require therapy.....they maybe be biased . Seek professional help where necessary.
@keziahkiiru456
@keziahkiiru456 Ай бұрын
I agree with you
@cynthiaobengo3738
@cynthiaobengo3738 2 ай бұрын
This story has really reminded me that you can fall 1000 times but still rise again...Our Guest is so pretty and eloquent and humorous
@naimiwetvmajumqijustwantto2154
@naimiwetvmajumqijustwantto2154 2 ай бұрын
True
@TeresiaWangu
@TeresiaWangu 2 ай бұрын
sure
@faithkamau4278
@faithkamau4278 2 ай бұрын
True
@PurityKarafaDennis
@PurityKarafaDennis 2 ай бұрын
If you think I'm going to sit down for more than two hours and watch Lynn's interviews then you're absolutely correct 📌💯, can't afford to miss any of them❤️📌
@aliceduhaney8316
@aliceduhaney8316 2 ай бұрын
Sometimes you go through abuse and come out shining is not everyone can endure but with reading of the word and listening to God you'll win I'm an experienced
@faithkimanthi6631
@faithkimanthi6631 2 ай бұрын
Of course more than two hours just glued ☺️🥰
@anniegathoninjenga1858
@anniegathoninjenga1858 2 ай бұрын
Aki Mimi was reading a comment thinking is a negative one ni defend Lyn aki mimi😅😅😅😅💯 team Lyn
@PurityKarafaDennis
@PurityKarafaDennis 2 ай бұрын
@@anniegathoninjenga1858 ningekua nimerushwa mawe acha tu🤣
@jumadayana4638
@jumadayana4638 2 ай бұрын
​@@anniegathoninjenga1858p.poqpppppĺĺjkķoòpķ
@Whenlifehappens40
@Whenlifehappens40 2 ай бұрын
Let's normalise making decisions for ourselves not letting a pastor or man or woman of God to decide for you. God speaks to us directly we should trust that inner voice
@ancyliz
@ancyliz Ай бұрын
I could hug you for this comment.
@fayverenah
@fayverenah Ай бұрын
Thank you for this🎉🎉
@veraaddoyobo8482
@veraaddoyobo8482 Ай бұрын
Amen
@prizvinyam8356
@prizvinyam8356 Ай бұрын
True true
@Crabtree1844
@Crabtree1844 Ай бұрын
First off, they are not 'man or woman of God' because God is not in such foolishness and violence.
@hyacinthappleby718
@hyacinthappleby718 Ай бұрын
This story blessed my heart. 1. God answers prayer. 2. God cares 3. We are always in God's hands 4. Trials with faithfulness will lead us to a crown of righteousness 5. I'm praying for you
@Caroljaysen
@Caroljaysen 2 ай бұрын
Tuned from Saudi Arabia 🎉... Nipewe likes jameni❤ Lynn nakupenda bure❤❤🌺
@LynnNgugi
@LynnNgugi 2 ай бұрын
Welcome to the show Carol🙏
@faithkisiangani5702
@faithkisiangani5702 2 ай бұрын
Saudi nko hapa from Hail
@lukasokothmcomweke6706
@lukasokothmcomweke6706 2 ай бұрын
You're strong woman
@Esther-vk1uh
@Esther-vk1uh 2 ай бұрын
Am with you from riyadh
@serahnjeri5765
@serahnjeri5765 2 ай бұрын
Tuko wengi wa saudia❤
@Kim-fq9ro
@Kim-fq9ro 2 ай бұрын
It's her energy for me! She speaks like Akothee.
@fridahmiriti39
@fridahmiriti39 2 ай бұрын
Yeah, there is some Akothee in her 😅
@user-kn5iq8oh5m
@user-kn5iq8oh5m 2 ай бұрын
How
@mwendapoleee
@mwendapoleee 2 ай бұрын
Nooo
@kandisphere8828
@kandisphere8828 2 ай бұрын
That was my exact thought when I heard her voice. I was not even watching, I was listening to the show, and I had to go check the video, because her voice is similar to that of Akothee
@rilmamaKenya
@rilmamaKenya 2 ай бұрын
awuoro [i wonder]
@cathymwyter
@cathymwyter 2 ай бұрын
We were in same campus, she even became Miss Cooperative University, she was very beautiful and humble her flowless skin was outstanding.
@user-mq3oo5xq1c
@user-mq3oo5xq1c 2 ай бұрын
Thank you Lynn f0r introducing this beautiful lady. I was raised by my father because my mother had deserted us. My dad never uttered a bad word about her and that made me had the utmost respect for my dad.❤
@AggieAkinyi
@AggieAkinyi 2 ай бұрын
The graduation gown thing made me cry jameni. My dream to set up a school comes from the same story line. He who watches over us does not slumber or sleep.
@africanawang2674
@africanawang2674 2 ай бұрын
May God answer you immediately
@janewerikhe9528
@janewerikhe9528 2 ай бұрын
Amen
@puritysinyanoi4353
@puritysinyanoi4353 2 ай бұрын
Me too 😢😢, it was soo sad. But God 🙌
@tabithamugure2566
@tabithamugure2566 2 ай бұрын
That was so humiliating...why do that to a kid😳
@eunicekyalo2210
@eunicekyalo2210 2 ай бұрын
That graduation part killed me😢😢
@user-cl5vg4do7p
@user-cl5vg4do7p 2 ай бұрын
The humour in our guest today. Dr Kenye is a gem 💎
@magdaleneobonyo5366
@magdaleneobonyo5366 2 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@nyamsss9996
@nyamsss9996 2 ай бұрын
Me its her eloquence of narration
@atikumartha7556
@atikumartha7556 Ай бұрын
I know right
@salomenduta6612
@salomenduta6612 2 ай бұрын
Went almost through the same. He was a church person, used to abuse me and would deny right on my face. The day he told me he will do something to me that I will never forget, I walked out. Its six years down the line and am still standing by Gods Grace.
@MarshaVStone
@MarshaVStone Ай бұрын
God is Good
@mariaadams1271
@mariaadams1271 Ай бұрын
❤❤😢
@mariaadams1271
@mariaadams1271 Ай бұрын
Thank u so much Pastor u really encouraged me.Ive been there and u just made me feel good to move on and continue serving Jesus.
@faithgithigia5578
@faithgithigia5578 Ай бұрын
Ooo God. I must heal
@aloiceanyango2594
@aloiceanyango2594 8 күн бұрын
God is always with us,we should trust in him,obey his commands and believe in him .he Shall do it for us in due time
@lucygikonyo2437
@lucygikonyo2437 2 ай бұрын
Oh lord, remember every woman that has gone through this kind of pain including me. Never lets be ashamed
@faithwairimu8366
@faithwairimu8366 2 ай бұрын
Amen❤
@hendrinahaikwiyu8149
@hendrinahaikwiyu8149 2 ай бұрын
Taking back a person that mistreated you, Never ever will i fall in such a trap A leopard never changed its Spots
@silaton305
@silaton305 2 ай бұрын
Great comment
@ritalukoowe5139
@ritalukoowe5139 2 ай бұрын
Amen
@ruthwaweru5986
@ruthwaweru5986 2 ай бұрын
True ❤
@shantelsabrina9889
@shantelsabrina9889 2 ай бұрын
Was once trapped...lemmi tell you😢😢😢
@hendrinahaikwiyu8149
@hendrinahaikwiyu8149 2 ай бұрын
@@shantelsabrina9889 don't say?
@Paul.957
@Paul.957 2 ай бұрын
Am not being tribal...The strength in luo women is amazing, identical, it's like they are born of one mother.
@lilywanji5677
@lilywanji5677 2 ай бұрын
You’re because we know that women in other communities are even stronger!!
@mamawatorotalks8208
@mamawatorotalks8208 2 ай бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏿
@hellenmaina3045
@hellenmaina3045 2 ай бұрын
Most mothers,will always look out for their babies...it is not a tribal matter.Tembea duniani.Even female species of animals
@mamawatorotalks8208
@mamawatorotalks8208 2 ай бұрын
@@hellenmaina3045 you have every right to speak for your people as well, I find that every time we see LUO we react, everyone works hard but in business kikuyu’s will take it a notch higher and I don’t oppose it. We can all be complemented without feeling a certain way, I come in peace, hii Dunia nimetembea from Australia, Sweden, UK, America etc the Training the Luo woman receives on marriage even I don’t admire & I laugh with my mum daily I couldn’t do it but I feel for the sisters who endure 😣 the burden of “odhi oduogo or migogo only a Luo woman will understand
@grayceegracie5050
@grayceegracie5050 2 ай бұрын
Weee..... this is a thing for women and all female mammals and birds. Example mother hen doesn't joke. 😂💪🏾😍💪🏾🔥🔥
@janethinwa6703
@janethinwa6703 Ай бұрын
This just me , Lynn avoid putting photos for the young ones, let safeguard them . Remember that child will be an adult one day . And how many people have seen them. This is my opinion, don’t throw stones at me. 🙌
@makena381
@makena381 2 ай бұрын
Divine graduation without a gown..had me in tears.when Divine get to graduate from campus ...please call us all we must compensate this angel.....
@deffencekisenge6681
@deffencekisenge6681 Ай бұрын
I agree with you.....weee shule zingine hakiiiii
@beatricemuringi4120
@beatricemuringi4120 2 ай бұрын
"Jesus knows how to rebrand His own" Hallelujah!
@Tamarrind97
@Tamarrind97 2 ай бұрын
I have learnt alot from this pastor, but she fails to admit that abuse is abuse. What if that man could have killed her? The men and women of clothe need to stop sending back abused women back to their abusive homes.
@missjones9737
@missjones9737 2 ай бұрын
Amen. Am glad someone said this. She needs to clearly state that. Am scared that she doesn't see this
@dorothydongo5493
@dorothydongo5493 2 ай бұрын
Agree. She has not yet admitted her own wrongs- like getting this man loans, especially when he returned to slap her with Abuse Paper 2. Why buy him a car. She was not confident in herself and used her access to finance as a way to keep him. I can tell if this man comes again , she will gladly accept Abuse Paper 3. This is how we describe such Exes in Zimbabwe. Am ex only comes back when the see you rebuilding , only so they can destroy you again.
@carrymm6066
@carrymm6066 2 ай бұрын
I don't like the aspect of always funding this guy
@lucynjuguna9653
@lucynjuguna9653 2 ай бұрын
​@@dorothydongo5493indeed I have never heard of such description of abuse 😅😅😅Abuse paper 1,2and3😅😅
@neatsniper
@neatsniper Ай бұрын
Agreed. Some of the advise given by preachers is just unbiblical, very carnal and dangerous! Every advise has to be tested through the word of God. How was the husband allowed to continue being a pastor after his cheating scandals? The only thing that husband was imparting was sexual immorality n that's why today he is in deep bondage of sexual immorality n other evils. The church should have focused on redemption of the man. He is now a perfect tool of Satan, cause damage everywhere
@monicak4356
@monicak4356 2 ай бұрын
I was sitting on the edge when pastor margaret let him come to her house and allowed him back. My heart leaped when he continued cheating using her car. My God!!! Am a pastors wife and I really felt bad
@pleasantcharles3849
@pleasantcharles3849 Ай бұрын
😭😳
@makerereunitedacademy6806
@makerereunitedacademy6806 2 ай бұрын
Jesus is never an option but the only choice. The wrong thing we always do is always thinking he is an option. Let's always put him first
@shyrowan4432
@shyrowan4432 2 ай бұрын
My fellow women please run and forgive from a far if you are in an abusive relationship. You can’t keep going back into such a toxic relationship.
@user-wn7tj5lx6f
@user-wn7tj5lx6f 25 күн бұрын
Amen
@rachaelkenye2342
@rachaelkenye2342 2 ай бұрын
My take away from my sister is never to take a loan for 'him'.
@larissajohns1381
@larissajohns1381 2 ай бұрын
True also to give him money ISSA scam
@margaretkenye2911
@margaretkenye2911 2 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 100%
@carrymm6066
@carrymm6066 2 ай бұрын
Very true
@Latoya835
@Latoya835 2 ай бұрын
We already did...Acha tu😢
@puritykurgat1766
@puritykurgat1766 2 ай бұрын
I already did it😢
@esthernjogo3498
@esthernjogo3498 Ай бұрын
Such an amazing woman of God. That's how much mums sacrifice for their kids. It's good that u gave your marriage a second chance coz now you'll have no regrets. It's also good that u have two kids from one man. Kids are worth more than a husband..... he's the looser
@BayouBellePhDBe
@BayouBellePhDBe 23 күн бұрын
She needs to trust her own intuition and believe that the God she loves, loves her, and is within her. There’s no way God would have returned her to an abuser.
@marthakalomba3739
@marthakalomba3739 2 ай бұрын
I remember in 2017 when I saw you as my father visited me at the hostel and you were with him in the car, I knew all was not okay.. 😭😭😭😭 Pastor Margaret is such a strong character, always smiling and laughing.. What the enemy meant for evil, God has turned it around for your good.. You have overcome ❤️
@davidogweno5427
@davidogweno5427 2 ай бұрын
Well said... 👌🙏
@Lyliank-xn6vg
@Lyliank-xn6vg 2 ай бұрын
This maama has encouraged me to keep doing good for my child ...his father went when he was 3yrs now the boy is turning 11yrs soon I have never talked bad about this man Infront of my child ..it's tuff but I want to raise a good future father and husband . We can do it ladies
@monicakirema3264
@monicakirema3264 2 ай бұрын
Mine is 14...no negatives about the dad but I told him the truth...he loves me and he never got affected by not having him around. Am happy
@gwendolynallen3218
@gwendolynallen3218 2 ай бұрын
We must teach our children by example. Sometimes one parent is setting a bad example. We can not allow them to believe it is ok to abandon their family. The truth isn't negative but how it's delivered or withholding it has negative outcomes. Love you cousin 🇯🇲🇺🇲
@melodyTendy-ow8un
@melodyTendy-ow8un Ай бұрын
​@@monicakirema3264yes he hve to know the truth
@user-tl9wd4fd5y
@user-tl9wd4fd5y Ай бұрын
Blood will always be blood Excellent
@joshuaeseigbe9904
@joshuaeseigbe9904 Ай бұрын
Pastor Kenye I Love your sense of judgement. You have not allowed your error of giving him a second chance affect your sense of judgement. This was just perfect for me.
@kazmorich
@kazmorich Ай бұрын
maybe she discovered that there's something called narcissism and love bombing. Her judgement was not bad, she just didn't know about those two words.
@emilynaftaly6035
@emilynaftaly6035 Ай бұрын
Lynn we know you are doing a God Job l came to know you well the time you were helping the lady from Rwanda 🇷🇼 the one was crying for her baby which was stolen by the husband and you were helping her to get the baby so that she can go back to Rwanda Lynn surely you are special girl we love ❤️ you ❤🇺🇲🇺🇲❤
@prisciliatebid2898
@prisciliatebid2898 2 ай бұрын
One can have a conversation with Margret for one full month continuously without getting tired. With her, not a dull moment. Even something that will make her cry after saying it, she will still say it with so much humour.
@naikeyuwimana4726
@naikeyuwimana4726 Ай бұрын
That's why she still standing until today.....the sens of humer.
@hellenanalo
@hellenanalo 2 ай бұрын
Eeeiii this lady is a good storyteller, urembo nayo alipewa. Black beauty. And she is a strong lady. Bless you mama.❤ my mum always tells you don't eat back the same food after vomiting. So... when you see red flags in a man run for your life cause he will never change.
@user-wz4vg5kh8l
@user-wz4vg5kh8l Ай бұрын
"mwanamke ni kurudi chini" I refuse that!
@mashujaas5766
@mashujaas5766 2 ай бұрын
Great to hear your inspiring story my High-school alumni, it make me feel so good to see this soul that have been natured from Samburu County kisima girls high school,we proud of you,keep growing stronger,❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ wapi likes ya Kisima girls Samburu Alumni.
@cyrillaayoma5549
@cyrillaayoma5549 2 ай бұрын
She has a beautiful story but I can't help but feel like she hasn't seen the toxic side of her church... I mean she is pushed to apologize (for what), encouraged to stay. But at the same time they help her out when she is down..... Almost like they are looking for ways to build he up not to sustain her.
@ebenezersifuna940
@ebenezersifuna940 2 ай бұрын
i almost feel that what she went through was unnecessary and unavoidable.....she deserves a better circle.....she also should sue. This ex is living life knowing that no one will call him out
@florenceologi9124
@florenceologi9124 2 ай бұрын
The church is toxic sure
@joshuaombaka3116
@joshuaombaka3116 2 ай бұрын
@@ebenezersifuna940 if she has overcome, she should not allow the old demons reign over her life. Sometimes trying to get even, hurts you more than your violator. A statement of fact, in Kenyan courts you don't solve an issue in a day, or a month. It can take years. Imagine coming face to face with your violator, letting him occupy your mind for that long? God has not given us the spirit of fear, but of POWER, of LOVE, and of SOUND MIND.... When you rise from your ruins; you are of POWER, you are of LOVE, and of SOUND MIND. Forgiveness is not weakness, it is strength. And forgiveness is not always after revenge.
@sunshineheaven1802
@sunshineheaven1802 2 ай бұрын
I think this comes down to self-awareness and so many lessons to learn. They attach so much to the church and I think there is a scripture in the Bible that does not condone abuse. The Lord hates divorce but not divorcees and divorce is validated clearly when there is infidelity but does the church read this portion of scripture? No, they only want people to stay no matter what. I think this is where every believer needs to read the Bible on their own. Matthew 5:31-32 "It was also said, 'Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce.' But I say to you that everyone who divorces his wife, except on the ground of sexual immorality, makes her commit adultery, and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery."
@betty541
@betty541 2 ай бұрын
I agree that the church made her life worse and she doesn't see it. Lynn's side eye and general reaction was also like wth were you told to apologise for?!
@ananciataodindo7044
@ananciataodindo7044 2 ай бұрын
She’s so beautiful and the skin is skinning ❤️❤️I love the way she’s talking
@clarak.mallah4137
@clarak.mallah4137 Ай бұрын
I never return to an ex! Never!! I block them infact! She wasn't to call him back!! This story covers all women who have been abused and dumped by men they trusted. I'm glad she's alive. May God help her.
@amanyaanitah9993
@amanyaanitah9993 Ай бұрын
Same here if I am done am done
@NancyAkinyi-ww8li
@NancyAkinyi-ww8li 9 күн бұрын
Ever since child hood have been rejected because of my birth mark but when i listen to the clip it has boost my self-esteem
@maryngugi6900
@maryngugi6900 7 күн бұрын
❤️
@DaughterofLionofJudah
@DaughterofLionofJudah 2 ай бұрын
You had married a principality pastor but God protects His own and you are an apple of His eye! Being chosen is not easy, you'll go through it but God is right there with you. Victory belongs to Jesus! May God continue to move you, your family, your business and your ministry from glory to glory! I say the prayer of Yabesh over your life woman of God!! God will enlarge your territory ma'am!
@mercykirimi2655
@mercykirimi2655 Ай бұрын
Better be hurt with a truth than be comforted with a lie❤
@janetephantus4311
@janetephantus4311 2 ай бұрын
What a story ! The lady is so beautiful and eloquent.Jesus has really rebranded her She's now sober and alert to serve God. Thankyou Lynn for this platform
@graceaglow230
@graceaglow230 2 ай бұрын
Don't go back to the mess God took you out of! This woman's story is a great inspiration and brought me to tears.
@sunnyhunn9315
@sunnyhunn9315 2 ай бұрын
Ahhh 😖!!! This man has been a weapon fashioned against her, I’m shocked how he just ruins her to nothing and be okay with himself.
@nnekaokonkoh4112
@nnekaokonkoh4112 Ай бұрын
Her spiritual father led her to go back to that Evil man!!!
@MuthoniPurity-me9bt
@MuthoniPurity-me9bt 2 ай бұрын
These men of God sometimes fails how can you force someone to go back in a abusive marriages.. this woman is very gorgeous ad a good story teller you will shine ad shine gal God is with you you are a strong woman 🥰 watching from Saudi Arabia ilove this channel it as taught me alot ad how to deal with situations
@afrikyaummuna6200
@afrikyaummuna6200 2 ай бұрын
She's so gorgeous and regal 🤩
@ritalukoowe5139
@ritalukoowe5139 2 ай бұрын
Very pretty and outspoken woman, the world needs people like her, keep it up madam
@lucymwangi2663
@lucymwangi2663 2 ай бұрын
Please Lynn don't be showing children's photos especially if the story is negatively reflecting on their conception, acceptance. They may face bullying by their peers or 'kuenjoiwa'.
@aesogoogleuser334
@aesogoogleuser334 Ай бұрын
Good point. I was equally worried for the children; they can blur the faces enough to protect their identity. Protecting the voiceless and innocent is a priority. I know @lynn is open to feedback. She’s a gem and a national treasure in my opinion.
@winfredikinya9377
@winfredikinya9377 Ай бұрын
Sure, children should be protected.
@frogiefriday3711
@frogiefriday3711 Ай бұрын
True
@Cate861
@Cate861 Ай бұрын
Point noted
@talia-pk
@talia-pk Ай бұрын
maybe the mother had given consent
@gladystician
@gladystician 2 ай бұрын
The gown part made me cry. You are blessed Dr. Kenye❤
@Evalian198
@Evalian198 Ай бұрын
Very sad indeed. She should have mentioned the school
@ninsiimaracheal8838
@ninsiimaracheal8838 Ай бұрын
But schools really!!!!! Nooo
@philiciamalemba18
@philiciamalemba18 20 күн бұрын
As she said a teacher without a soul
@viviannewandera8734
@viviannewandera8734 10 күн бұрын
​@@philiciamalemba18And indeed the owner of that school is like that. Hata jina ameharibu Kasarani. She was a topic of discussion on the Kasarani facebook group sometimes back.
@viviannewandera8734
@viviannewandera8734 10 күн бұрын
​@@Evalian198 She actually did, She said Little Wonder School. It's based in Kasarani on your way to Mwiki.
@hellenmaina3045
@hellenmaina3045 2 ай бұрын
Very beautiful lady...but i think sometimes the church gave her misleading advise as much as they also helped her out when she was stuck.She does seem to know who she is by now.Cheers
@SharonWaBarakaVlogs
@SharonWaBarakaVlogs 2 ай бұрын
Spiritual narcissist, the worst abusers because they know the word of God. People view the victim as the perpetrator because of how the abusers are able to paint themselves 😢 They will also do everything it takes to break your heart using another woman or children or material things, to them anything they can hold on to is an object of vendetta against you. Stay strong mama you are a victor and you have a beautiful story.
@lucywanjiru3452
@lucywanjiru3452 2 ай бұрын
This should be pinned
@terizat512
@terizat512 2 ай бұрын
Sure they know Soo much
@beatricealuoch1812
@beatricealuoch1812 2 ай бұрын
I am helped,it is rebuilding indeed.
@lorebay2593
@lorebay2593 Ай бұрын
Covert Narcissist do their dirt under the cover of the home, upholding a public persona consistently (some of these are in our churches) but woe to the spouse, 😢situation. I had no idea what was going on, could not understand the indifference the meanness, and coldness, competitiveness, accusations, after right after love bombing, many times telling me I am a good man, but I could never say it, after the wedding I no longer saw it. I never heard of such thing one being a narcissist. After I saw here recently, several descriptions of the condition, I now know this is what I suffered so long, but no more .
@terizat512
@terizat512 Ай бұрын
@@lorebay2593 no more too emargine how is bad knowing very well God hates divorce they are able to convince you after a break up but are not able to change their bad behaviour and they expect you to forgive them .l say l have suffered a lot my teers are not dry yet l still have wounds even on my face of beatings but when he wanted to say sorry he could even get sick and thin and Soo stressed all people will say he has repented but almost died pliz don't dare
@ayebazibwebabra5368
@ayebazibwebabra5368 Ай бұрын
Thanks pastor Margret for the boldness... authenticity and hardwork...thank you for protecting Divine and Delight...keep soaring...May God keep blessing the community centre... To you Lynn,thanks for creating a warm environment for the guests to share their stories truthfully...Blessings
@ninsiimaracheal8838
@ninsiimaracheal8838 Ай бұрын
I just can't stop crying, the gown issue killed me, that was very painful
@apollorenga
@apollorenga 2 ай бұрын
This woman( Dr. Kenye) is oozing African beauty and strength. It is well! As for you Lynn, I will personally deal with you if you go to Australia and fail to look for Esther Arunga! 😏
@lucynjuguna9653
@lucynjuguna9653 2 ай бұрын
Unless she is in jail
@user-rd5nu6pu7j
@user-rd5nu6pu7j 2 ай бұрын
An abusive man needs help whether he is a pastor or not. I don't agree with Margaret's mentors telling her to return to that man without counseling both of them as a couple. Something is very wrong with our church elders. They need to do better in counseling traumatized members.
@Paulinemwarabu
@Paulinemwarabu Ай бұрын
Neither do i . I am a Pastor.
@veraaddoyobo8482
@veraaddoyobo8482 Ай бұрын
Pastor or no Pastor the church elders look at our culture and traditions more than the church
@GRACEASABA
@GRACEASABA Ай бұрын
Madam Lynn thanks so much for your support to our Ps, Margret Kenye may the good Lord continue supporting her and strengthening her in Jesus's name,
@berylanyango7131
@berylanyango7131 Күн бұрын
@LynnNgugi I echo what she says. Your shows are therapeutic and inspiring, I always look forward.
@ayuma4747
@ayuma4747 2 ай бұрын
The story you cry.. laugh and just enjoy who God is. Glory to God. 🌺 🌺 For Lynn.
@theaurafamily6240
@theaurafamily6240 Ай бұрын
Yes in the lows and highs God still was who He is. And my wows are that Pst did not loose her trust in God
@moremogolomoremogolo5328
@moremogolomoremogolo5328 2 ай бұрын
Your guest today has taken all the words out of my mouth! I have been on this channel since forever and I’m grateful for technology! God is amazing! How could we all have come across this gem of a woman in the person of Lynn Ngugi. Stay blessed sis Lynn. Love from South Africa.
@miriamkiruri7974
@miriamkiruri7974 2 ай бұрын
God bless you Lynn for bringing Margaret. I personally has learnt a lot through her story. Keep it Maggy and that Community Centre will be a testimony of rebuilding not only you but for all the families whose children will benefit from it.
@davidogweno5427
@davidogweno5427 2 ай бұрын
What a fountain of encouragement and Refreshing! The best is yet to come, thanks for sharing your story. 🙏
@AnnahMwangi-njeri
@AnnahMwangi-njeri 2 ай бұрын
Narcissist don't change,if anyone here is married to any please u can change ur story,,let go than to go through emotional, physical abuse make a decision to walk out,
@annkarauki7742
@annkarauki7742 2 ай бұрын
Yes they do not.they will blame you for everything.i.had to say enough is enough😊
@jeanotemah
@jeanotemah 2 ай бұрын
100% true
@derhitechkiosk
@derhitechkiosk 2 ай бұрын
Hello team LNN. Watching from Runyenjes Embu. Never judge someone if you don't know what they are going through. Pastor may the Lord lift you even higher. Lynn Ngugi....one day i will sit down with you and glorify God.
@preciousgabu5394
@preciousgabu5394 2 ай бұрын
Amen
@sebyotopeter3789
@sebyotopeter3789 Ай бұрын
Sorry Sister Margaret!! What a touching story!! May the Lord bless you for not taking revenge...you are one in a 10million. What a heart of Gold!! Your crown awaits in Heaven
@suenderi5835
@suenderi5835 2 ай бұрын
Asante Lynn and your Crew Baraka Tele kama Kawa 🙏❤️🌹
@musaamani1177
@musaamani1177 2 ай бұрын
Better be hurt with the truth than be comforted with lies. What a powerful quote. She's such an eloquent speaker.
@laker256
@laker256 2 ай бұрын
I love everything about this lady... Moving forward, she should first run to God before making all the important decisions. Her pastors should just confirm with her.... Pastors are also human and not all have the wisdom or gift of discernment.
@missjones9737
@missjones9737 2 ай бұрын
Amen. You need to confirm each word is from God. Seek God for yourself.Have a?strong relationship with God.And okay for wisdom. Not this spiritual father thing.
@LovableMe137
@LovableMe137 Ай бұрын
I agree.
@dorcasnekesa9608
@dorcasnekesa9608 Ай бұрын
@magret kenye GOD BLESS YOU,YOU HAVE FULLY ENCOURAGED ME,sometimes i feel like loosing hope.for my children
@nothandotshabangu9677
@nothandotshabangu9677 2 ай бұрын
Thank you Margaret, how empowering! May God bless you and your children 👏
@patrickwanjuhi4821
@patrickwanjuhi4821 2 ай бұрын
She has gone through a lot and I am hopeful and wish she prosper to greater length, though its still unfortunate that she is still using the veil of religion to hide from the factors that made this man do dirty to her for the second time so easily. I hope she has reflected more inwardly for her weakness of co -dependency and wanting to be right by other lenses ie religion , pastors and not self.
@flomakayla4926
@flomakayla4926 2 ай бұрын
Kwanza apo ati her bishop telling her to go back and apologize is sickening.
@patrickwanjuhi4821
@patrickwanjuhi4821 2 ай бұрын
@@flomakayla4926 The importance of having a father in a daughter's life . I pray that I get to see my kids grow and not taken advantage of by the society just to be right by religion not themselves
@Luxury52items
@Luxury52items 2 ай бұрын
Best Comment here. Every other word out of her mouth is" religious jargon". SHE has alot of trauma wounds she could benefit from therapy. Beside all the God talk!!
@lydiakasyoka4836
@lydiakasyoka4836 2 ай бұрын
😢😢😢😢😢😢 This was me some months ago but after learning about narcissism, flying monkeys etc my mind started thinking straight Religion is good at guilt tripping and manipulation.....so sad
@thegrandstylelife
@thegrandstylelife 2 ай бұрын
​@@Luxury52items Exactly my perspective. She was and is still very traumatized. She needs to be in therapy, else she will repeat so many more mistakes.
@jjkui4535
@jjkui4535 2 ай бұрын
On a lighter note, the Nigerian Film Commission should onboard our girl here; the Naija and pijin ascent she has is well well; very dramatic & humorous And on a serious note, I wish you healing and God’s peace 🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️
@gladodadishwavinya5826
@gladodadishwavinya5826 2 ай бұрын
She sounds like mercyjohnson
@Kendidoris
@Kendidoris 2 ай бұрын
I noted that as well.
@NaturallyVitalwithBukie
@NaturallyVitalwithBukie Ай бұрын
I am Nigerian and I can hear her using some Nigerian words. I had to call my landlady's attention to it. God bless you Mag.
@everlynimmaculateopiyo4463
@everlynimmaculateopiyo4463 2 ай бұрын
Loved the interview. Laughed and felt sad same time. Keep up the good job Dr.Margaret❤
@keziflowers
@keziflowers Ай бұрын
You asked insightful questions, Lynn. Food for critical thinking!
@danielkyalo5666
@danielkyalo5666 2 ай бұрын
I like the confidence the lady has she never gave up in her life no matter what happened she would recollect herself quickily take a different angle and move on, what a such strong lady.
@cindy8588
@cindy8588 2 ай бұрын
The things women do for love. Her story is an experience to caution.thanks, @Lnn.
@annalioness434
@annalioness434 2 ай бұрын
This was a powerful episode l learnt a lot from it. Thank you @Lynn Ngugi Much love
@jambo_safari
@jambo_safari Ай бұрын
Thank. Just reminded me the years I used directory for vacancies especially the company with mails. Today I start with company letter "J" and so on. Thank God these tactics worked fo me. My aim of random sharing cv is i knew there might be one company needs of accounts. Guess what,God qualified me amongst the qualified . " MONEY DOESN'T KNOW IF U OWN PAPERS OR NOT " THANK YOU JEHOVAH
@liznafula008
@liznafula008 2 ай бұрын
Wow! Nilimuwatch citizen tv,na ilikua short nilitamani akuje uku kumbe God ni nani🥳
@gyinahh
@gyinahh 2 ай бұрын
Me too, i watched her story on Citizen & Hot 96 and I felt she was soo rushed. I wanted to hear more. Mungu nayeye akacheza kama yeye😎😜😎
@liznafula008
@liznafula008 2 ай бұрын
​@@gyinahhat least tupate uhondo yote
@user-jy7ne3iw7y
@user-jy7ne3iw7y 2 ай бұрын
Inagn even me. I even checked at Lynn's couldn't get ... But good. Let me know listen.
@sleeprelaxation8431
@sleeprelaxation8431 2 ай бұрын
I like her spirit; however, Magaret, you should learn to listen to God through and in you. Yes, you have your spiritual parents, your pastors, etc, but that doesn't mean God only speaks to them. He warned you not to return to him, but instead, you listened to your pastors and doubted the small, calm voice in you. This might be your testimony for now, but it could have been a different version. When he left, you took a year off from preaching in church; why wasn't he given an observation period before you rekindled your marriage? this man moved back in without telling you, which could also mean he didn't have a place to stay. Learn to trust your inner voice. When I broke my engagement because my inner voice kept saying I should do it, the church rejected me, my family rejected me, and I lost friends. He moved on and got married; the marriage lasted 6 months, and he dragged that poor woman to the depths of hell. Then, the people who thought I was not good enough for God to speak to me, people who said I would not get married, I have ruined my life, now look at me differently.
@lydiakasyoka4836
@lydiakasyoka4836 2 ай бұрын
💯
@kinkynpretty
@kinkynpretty Ай бұрын
This ble
@kinkynpretty
@kinkynpretty Ай бұрын
This blessed me. Thank you
@FloKWellnessHub
@FloKWellnessHub 2 күн бұрын
@@lydiakasyoka4836wow……… very inspiring words.Brainwashing from religious leaders and evil people hiding behind the name of God because they know the vulnerable are mostly in church. God give us wisdom.
@aratwijukajacenta2952
@aratwijukajacenta2952 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story..I know it has touched and healed so many souls..You look so lovely 🥰 🎉
@Tamraplaz
@Tamraplaz 2 ай бұрын
God never leaves us women alone no matter what we face he gives us strength I to been a single mum since I gave birth and God has always been with me and uplifted me now my daughter is 10yrs and going on strong.God is our everything....what God can not do does not exist.
@abrahamopiyo86
@abrahamopiyo86 2 ай бұрын
Margaret is a true testimony and am a witness, am very proud of the greater height that God have taken you.
@arlenemm2137
@arlenemm2137 2 ай бұрын
You bring some really inspiring stories. Continue to do a great job
@raziahcheptoo9390
@raziahcheptoo9390 2 ай бұрын
love the way she is narrating ❤such an inspiration
@maasaimaasai2895
@maasaimaasai2895 2 ай бұрын
One thing I know is a woman will agree to an arranged marriage when a pastor says so but when their father says so it's total defiance. who bewitched women.
@bellaolum9768
@bellaolum9768 2 ай бұрын
😅😅😅
@jlmchannel5579
@jlmchannel5579 2 ай бұрын
I watched her story somewhere else and meeen😢. Though the interviewer rushed her . Let me hear it once again now with Lynn❤
@hlamalanibaloyi6331
@hlamalanibaloyi6331 2 ай бұрын
i thought maybe my mind was playing me tricks ,,
@jlmchannel5579
@jlmchannel5579 2 ай бұрын
@@hlamalanibaloyi6331like how?
@chepkorireddah323
@chepkorireddah323 2 ай бұрын
Me too I need to watch again the other one was too short
@divineesther887
@divineesther887 2 ай бұрын
Hot 96. The interviewer seemed to be a narcissist too. He never let the guest speak
@gracewangui9819
@gracewangui9819 2 ай бұрын
I also saw her story twice but it was too short and felt she needed to sit down with Lynn for us to get the whole story I was excited when I saw her with Lynn and the interview was more than two hours. Thanks Lynn
@ralphermwenesi1157
@ralphermwenesi1157 Ай бұрын
Am encouraged, learnt alot and thank God for our sister Kenye. God bless you
@KevinBarazakenya
@KevinBarazakenya Ай бұрын
This lady is amazing, i cant get tired of listening to her. May God continue showering her with blessings
@elizabethnyamburaklink2736
@elizabethnyamburaklink2736 2 ай бұрын
This woman, she's so gorgeous what a beautiful dark skin color. All the best in your Kenye community ❤❤let it be the heart for the children ❤
@doraharris4374
@doraharris4374 2 ай бұрын
Who are all these so called Ministers and their false doctrines? Judgment awaits them!!! Margaret, you are a gem!!! Look at where God has brought you!!! Keep soaring🎉
@anttoinetteselynemakokha7413
@anttoinetteselynemakokha7413 Ай бұрын
Ladies,a narcissist, toxic and manipulative man is not right for you. And believe me, it's better being single than with such a man. BE INTENTIONAL about your life dear. Margaret kenye is such a vibe, the laugh is contagious,you don't know what she has been through. Am not married but am enlightened now going to the market.
@gracenyathi9403
@gracenyathi9403 Ай бұрын
Hie thank you so much sister so powerful,leant a lot especially with the kids fathers may God add more blessings for you and your kids
@deniskuta7372
@deniskuta7372 2 ай бұрын
At times we look at ourselves and think we have gone through a lot,, wait until you hear someone else's story is when realise your is nothing
@joyceomolloh5159
@joyceomolloh5159 2 ай бұрын
True
@jeanotemah
@jeanotemah 2 ай бұрын
Learn not to compare deal na yako tu
@Jesi410
@Jesi410 Ай бұрын
Very true
@mercymwatsuma8762
@mercymwatsuma8762 2 ай бұрын
Ladies be aware of narcissist who are financial abusers they can drain to the bone.
@JaneWanguiKaguta
@JaneWanguiKaguta Ай бұрын
WOW, really inspirational , God bless her I really admire her faith thanks Lynn for covering her story.
@ghanalove123
@ghanalove123 2 ай бұрын
I’m just glued to this interview 🙏🏾
@alicejuma
@alicejuma 2 ай бұрын
I watched her story somewhere, thanks Lynn for bringing her home ❤🎉2hrs+❤❤
@abrahamkipchirchirtoo
@abrahamkipchirchirtoo 2 ай бұрын
Amazing Job Lynn. God bless the work you are doing.
@MercyNge
@MercyNge 2 ай бұрын
I have really loved Margaret. So beautiful and funny, very well grounded in the Lord. Lesson learnt... be your own DCI before you make a commitment to anyone
@sandracousins4591
@sandracousins4591 Ай бұрын
Pastor Margaret I've learnt so much just by listening to you, thank you so much for doing this interview
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