Salaam Aapi! Apki story kaafi similar ha meri schooling days kay. But aik cheez jis nay mera confidence and mera sara future barbaad kr k rakh diya wo thaa k meray parents nay school k principal ko bOla hua thaa k aGar ye study mn thoray say bhi weakness show krain to inki chamri (skin) utaar do maar maar k. This thing truly hit me very hard. Because phir teachers baht ziyada buri tarah say beat krtay thay to ham ghar mn bhi kisi say share tk ni kr saktay thay Q k parents nay khud bOla hua thaa k inko maaro chahay jitnaa dill kray. And aik baat jo mujhay ap k parents ki baht ziyada achi lagi wo ye k agar apka school janay ko dill ni kr raha to aap k parents nay bola k chalo koie baat ni. But meray parents nay kabhi bhi hamain chutti ni krnay di chahay jitnaa bhi bimaari ho yaa jo ho jaye school bhejtay thay jis ki waja say baht ziyada confidence shake hua and trust issues develop hotay rahay. Allah pak apko Salamat rakhay and the way you brought up your kids MashaAllah MashaAllah MashaAllah ❤️. Allah mujhay bhi isi tarah say taofeeq day Ameen
@rabiataseer8369Ай бұрын
I had a good school experience, 10 years of fun and masti . We can never generalize things. Everyone does not have capabilities to homeschool children. It needs time energy, education and patience. Schools are doing a good job at so many levels. Of course many schools are struggling as they are businesses not education institutes. But still importance of schools can not be ignored in a society like ours.
@Myself_hereАй бұрын
Only 10 % students who are topper have good experience otherwise there is always a comparison aming students..Its a institute where parents pay for ruining their child
@mashriqi64565 ай бұрын
I have just saw few of your video along with this one and realised that you are not content creator, you are value creator. Most of us have been through that horrible school situation and i believe in Pakistan children are still suffering in that kind of school environment. We can't do anything about our past. We are by product of it. But thank God our kids are not going through that environment. I must say you are so brave. 6:30 wali baat bhot interesting thi❤. I guess that's why you are so confident and brave kyuonkeh pechay aik supportive man tha. Be grateful for this and best of luck in this journey. I am very selective on KZbin, but i have subscribed you because you deserve it.
@thepakistanihomeschooler55105 ай бұрын
Awwwwww, wow. THANK YOU SO MUCH! This comment means a lot to me! Thank you for subscribing! 🥰 Yes, I know. Kids my time went through such great atrocities. Mine could be much less than what many others suffered and much suffering and bullying of others as well we witnessed while at school. It was normal back then but as you said thankfully we are not repeating those patterns. And sure thing, you're right, a had a great man standing behind me. 😊😊😊 Keep smiling! 🥰🥰🥰🥰
@LifestyleWithDrZiya29 күн бұрын
The school is almost same as mine 😂 but my teachers were very polite to me Alhamdullilah I miss that time. But I Know most of the teachers at that time were mobsters 😂
@shahinakarim4740Ай бұрын
You are half my age, everything you say I have experienced growing up between two ideal cultures never touching base with reality . Grew up between Peter and Jane world at school and the perfect ideal picture of Pakistan being born and bred in England. Never fitting in either world. I want to do much live in Pskistan but always felt I couldn’t due to ideology/ lifestyles/ values there…. Knowing that there is a pockets of good grounded folk who are carving out a life as real decent people with depth , honesty against all the odds.
@thepakistanihomeschooler5510Ай бұрын
It sounds like you've had a challenging experience growing up between two cultures. Feeling like you don't belong in either place can be really tough. It's completely understandable to have concerns about fitting in or adjusting to a new lifestyle in Pakistan. 🥰 I'm here to listen if you want to talk more about your experiences or your hopes for living in Pakistan. It's great that you found pockets of good people who are living authentic lives. That's a positive sign! Have you connected with anyone there who might help you feel more welcome?
@biachoice21255 ай бұрын
U made me emotional 😢😅
@tibby54752 ай бұрын
Dear I have a same story like yours n because of that I lose my confidence n my childhood personality
@UmarFarooq-ni2tl5 ай бұрын
Beautiful laday ki beautiful guftugoo,,,,,
@ayeshaali13112 ай бұрын
I’m a conventarian and I proudly. Say I’m because of my school
@saimaijaz83915 ай бұрын
Assalamu alykum wr Wb Nadia I can relate with you.i studied in government schools with big grounds and dirty horrible bathrooms and boring schedules .I was sitting like aliens in my class.i also don't want to recall my school days.
@thepakistanihomeschooler55105 ай бұрын
Walaikum Salam Saima, haye! That's true. And never thought that was not normal. We deserved attention, love and comfortable places where we spent years of our developing life. 🤦♀️
@saimaijaz83915 ай бұрын
I still remember a slap on my face in 9th class ,because I was roaming in corridor.
@thepakistanihomeschooler55105 ай бұрын
Arayyyyy.... wo sb slaps baytukki theen and kitni clear yaad hoti hain na! 🙁 Mujy aj bi yad karnay py wohi awaz sunai daiti hy!
@maryamhadiasfun5421Ай бұрын
Hello , I really liked your videos , I can't watch long videos on KZbin but I found something very appealing in you n your ideas , may b you are very near to my approaches .Any how I have subscribed you n would love to listen more videos from you .
@Osaafandhassanofficial5 ай бұрын
Being a new subscriber, im keenly watching n scrolling You. Learning great from You, Dear Nadia Arshad. Love Your pure words... ❤
@thepakistanihomeschooler55105 ай бұрын
😁😁😁 I have the same wide smile on my face at the moment. Thank you for subscribing and I am super happy that there is something I could make you learn!!! It's a huge huge thing for me! 🥰🥰🥰🥰
@ahmednaeem59662 ай бұрын
Only thing I learnt from school was basic Urdu, English reading writting and Math. Math because my father was a famous Math teacher of that area. Spoken English, Quran, Business and all etiquette were either from home or self learned
@sadiazaid2872 ай бұрын
Love you girl
@biologybasixSM2 ай бұрын
Trying to remember some bad experiences... but believe me cant remember any... expect that in grade 4 we had a horrible maths teacher.... luckily I found good teachers throughout the schooling.
@thepakistanihomeschooler55102 ай бұрын
It's so great you didn't have bad experiences, that really makes our childhood life memorable unlike me who doesn't really want to go back in time.
@homeschoolingbookscollecti18135 ай бұрын
Seriously ap Kia bolri H may be u don't understand k Kitna sach kheri Jo k ham shayad khe b nail pae bas feel krte the jay ansu Pete jay thanx❤
@sadiazaid2872 ай бұрын
We all wasted our life our childhood by going school which over burden our lives , we only need a skill that's enough
@thepakistanihomeschooler55102 ай бұрын
That is very true! We didn't that much effort, all we had to do was live life and enjoy every bit of it.
@Osaafandhassanofficial5 ай бұрын
Im enjoying you as im listening to my best frient in front of me Live❤ loved listening to You... OmG... You are such a genuine soul. Can I ask You ? From Where did you study Your Masters Literature.??
@thepakistanihomeschooler55105 ай бұрын
Thank you so much, girl! Your comment made my day! Tell you what, only beautiful people can see beauty in others! Ow sure, you can ask anything!!! I did my Bachelors and Masters privately from Punjab University, Lahore.
@hunneinfaris63775 ай бұрын
Bitter reality 😢
@thepakistanihomeschooler55105 ай бұрын
It sure is! 🤦♀️🤦♀️😓 Thank you so much for listening! ☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️
@mariaawais55272 ай бұрын
I got slapped because i solved 8th class maths question with a different method this was in front of all the 3 sections of 8th class
@Parentingtips0075 ай бұрын
Mjy bhi school college Sy shkwa h mjy Ms word Ms Excel b chlana ni ata. Dosra mn teching k aylawa khuch ni kr skti apni education ka.
@ayeshaali13112 ай бұрын
I teach but I disagree schooling shows up
@user-iz2qk1ec7m2 ай бұрын
summer homeworks: the most bizarre thing we have done. 😆
@thepakistanihomeschooler5510Ай бұрын
☺️ Haye, kya yaad kra diya or wo jo teacher bagair daikhay tick lga k mu py maar daiti thi. Par hum har saal summer homework krtay k agar nahin kiya to bht daant parni hy.
@Parentingtips0075 ай бұрын
Ik dfa ground mn Exam ho ra ta neechy sb student bethy thy. Whn Sy gzrny lgi to. Madam ny mjy bola k zor ka thapur mara k yhan Sy kion gzri😢
@ahmedaliqasim71634 ай бұрын
Assalamualikum want to talk to you because I have alot of?????
@user-ln5qw8mb9p5 ай бұрын
hi mam kuch deer baad kase ho aap
@thepakistanihomeschooler55105 ай бұрын
Hi, Main theek hon! 😊
@user-ln5qw8mb9p5 ай бұрын
mama app ko aaj kul koi stydies hai@@thepakistanihomeschooler5510
@numnumtv13 ай бұрын
OMG .. i was quite good in studies but bad at sports and sports teacher made my life hell .. she wd humiliate me beat me with stick even. But like u said I NEVER REALIZED that its something that i should tell my parents about ... The teacher knew my family and met my mother some where after few years n told her proudly and also said main is k LAAD nikal rai thi 😮 I was a very pampered child at home ... her behaviour and disgrace stayed with me and it made me hate myself but it was JUST An EXPERIMENT for her to see ho me n my parents wd react to the abuse of their LADLA bacha ..
@thepakistanihomeschooler55103 ай бұрын
I am appalled when I look back, it's downright abuse. Yehi waja hy k mera har system har institution sy yaqeen uth gaya hy, school sy, hospitals, doctors, corporate, government, politics!!! koi psycho aurtain theen as you said k us k liye Experiment tha, or hmari zindagiyan self doubt or remorse main guzar jati hain. phir log kehtay hain k nai gee ap ko socialization milti hy, tough logon sy compete karna ata hy, iss saray process main kuch log toot jatay hain, zayan ho jatay hain, wo kisi ko nazar nai atay!!! Or hm kabi baat bi nai kartay k hamaray sath kya hua. kyon k kabi ye sb normal tha!