MY SINGLE MOM JOURNEY| Tres Chic Mama

Hey guys! In today's Moms Are People Too video, I am sharing with you my single mom journey story time. From rock bottom to happy again! It's possible! I'm being more ope about my single mom journey than ever before. I forget sometimes to share these things with you yet still keep things private as well, because it truly helps those going through a tough time. Thank you all for your constant love and support and if you are going through hard times, it gets better! Trust me! THUMBS UP & SUBSCRIBE! xo
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HOW I KNEW I WAS PREGNANT BEFORE MISSED PERIOD
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Hey everyone!! If you are new here, let me introduce myself! My name is Hayley and I have a 1 year old named Sydney!! I am a single mom who loves doing mommy and me vlogs, lifestyle vlogs, working on my mommy and makeup youtube channels, fashion, home decor, food and all things baby! I exclusively breastfed/breastfeed my daughter so I made breastfeeding videos, labor & delivery videos, baby must haves and all things pregnancy and mommy & baby! Make sure you subscribe so you don't miss out on any videos in the future! I'm so grateful for all of your support!! I love you all! xo
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[@TresChicMama]

Hey loves! Thank you for your constant love and support! I feel so blessed daily to have you all and you inspire me more than you know! We are all here for each other no matter the situation and know that you are NEVER alone in this motherhood journey. I'm sorry I didn't get to answer many of your questions otherwise this video would have been an hour long haha If you want me to, I will do a dedicated single mom q & a....just let me know! xo

[@jedi40loot28]

I'm a guy just curious about the life of these beautiful single Moms. That is a beautiful baby. So happy..

[@rajmallick8527]

Tres Chic Mama I'm the man who always respects to single mom I never blame for that situation I'm single man striving for single honest mom I'm on the path peace and honest

[@juanamariamamasaurnation4415]

Optics86 you’re not the only one mama! Same here girl. Same here. I have two little ones.

[@KZain187]

Tres Chic Mama you are so strong ! Keep up the good work , you can do this! I’m praying for you ❤️🙏☺️

[@mehakmalik8888]

More love and power to u..

[@treearoha]

“You’re not done until your actually done” the truest thing I’ve ever heard

[@melissatrout3981]

Hayley, You are absolutely right! I was a stay at home Mom of 4 with a husband that constantly asked where was I going to go, and what I was going to do, and who would want someone with 4 kids? I couldn't go get a job so I started my own daycare in my home, and kicked him out. He took the kids one time, and brought them home early. From then on it was all me. They never saw him again, and he never paid child support. A couple of years later while I was working in insurance a coworker/friend told me about his previous coworker/friend who he thought would be perfect for me, and we started emailing. However he was only 22 and fresh out of college, and I was 36 with 4 kids. Flash forward: We have been married almost 18 years. We had a child together who is 15. I remember how stuck I was, and how hopeless. I did it though, and I am so happy now! :D

[@jordanandanna]

Melissa Trout wow girl! What a story. Thanks for sharing. That’s inspiring.

[@melissatrout3981]

@@jordanandanna Awww, thank you!!!😘

[@jewel614]

Yes that is inspiring. My ex husband who will be moving out soon did and said the same to me. I'm 29 and I do feel like with having 4 kids and pregnant with my 5th I will never find love and happiness in a man again. Hopefully one day I hit the jackpot like you lol. Congrats.

[@melissatrout3981]

@@jewel614 Thank you, and I am sure you will!!😘

[@samanthakwait8782]

Melissa Trout wow this is a great story and I’m so happy for you

[@queensonia7865]

Wow. Thanks am a single mom. My daughter is 22 months. I came home this evening went on KZbin for tips for single mom. Thanks for encouragement

[@nelsonthomas6755]

Hello Sonia☺️

[@musicrocksinaustin]

Yes girl, lots of support for us on KZbin!

[@keithhutchins8803]

Hahaha

[@beautybykat91]

This entire video felt like the biggest hug that Ive been to embarrassed to accept from my loved ones.. Thank you. I needed this.

[@jacintambuthia2839]

How is it now? I am about to begin this journey........ can I reach out for encouragement?

[@tanjeuys]

I feel you! Needed this video just as much! Stay strong mama

[@Davinia77]

I’m a single mommy I have an autistic son and daughter. I have no family here and I don’t get any child support or any help with baby sitting, it’s so hard sometimes but it makes you so much stronger as a women!

[@TresChicMama]

Davinia You are so strong!! It’s amazing what we really are capable of!!!

[@epep50]

Both kids are "special"? Maybe stop having kids sweetie. No family or child support, tells me you weren't married and no family courts to force child support from your husband at gun point. So you've got two kids and life is hard......1st question, who is the father or father's, why did you have children with him? Sounds like you makebad choices and want validation from a wealthy woman on KZbin. Keep your legs closed and stop having children without a good man that is your husband.

[@nelsonthomas6755]

Hi Davinia☺️

[@miahampton9984]

Love how you can sit behind a screen and judge someone you don’t know. Take your assumptions and negativity elsewhere . This is for positivity only ! Miserable hag

[@dehandkai5001]

@@epep50 shuuuttt the fuck up

[@keannawilliams2727]

Thank you, Thank you so much for this. I feel the SAME way that you felt. I’m 27 weeks pregnant & Single and I will be doing it ALL alone. I’m 30 and I didn’t think my first pregnancy would be like this. I decided that enough was enough and walked away from EVERYTHING…I too worry about my financial stability and how I will provide for my child. Praying that God will make a way. I hope to get to where you are one day. Good job and thank you for the encouragement

[@valencialittle2321]

I hope you are doing well. I am 26 weeks pregnant and doing this alone. I'm 32 and never planned it to be this way. It's hard to cope with. Praying that things get better.

[@odangazawadi5552]

I'm 19 and 12 weeks pregnant..finances are my main concern. I'm thinking of aborting which will leave me traumatized

[@raiderlaina522]

Being a "single mom" isn't always bad. Not everyone has these amazing helpful involved husbands like it should be, but just isn't unfortunately. Therefore having a spouse almost can be like another child with more expectations. Been in both situations and of course we all want the fantasy TV sells us of happily ever after but it doesnt always exist. You can be broken, stressed, depressed, lonely and like a single mom all with spouse in same house. Being single at least you have yourself and child to worry about. Hayley is a beautiful amazing strong woman who clearly gives herself the backseat to her child. I feel this video will help many in more ways she ever imagined. Yes to all those tearing up because they are living their own hell well you will be ok. And yes sometimes it's time to leave and move on.. there are plenty of good men out there you just have to find the rare ones.

[@XxmintkissxX]

Im passing through this and feel so heart broken 😔 everything happens for a reason but it still hurts.

[@AngelaRenee3]

True true

[@taayyiba]

💯💯💯thank you for this message

[@CorrienaB]

Great comment, I a new KZbinr single mum myself. Just wondering what other tips and topics you think would be useful. I want to help other mums and single moms to feel strong and most IMPORTANTLY like they still matter too x

[@lindagithaiga1974]

Yes that is the truth 😌

[@korashin]

How did you deal with the anxiety and depression from being a single mom?

[@XxEtHaN39xX]

The epitome of being a KZbin Single Mom ( I laughed so hard) I feel that so with my son and I thought I was the only one. Thank you for sharing your story of inspiration, courage, and vulnerability! You rock and make a difference for us Single Dads as well... we are all people and all people have feelings.

[@thesmartestmanintheworld2653]

Deep, bro. She's still not going to sleep with you.

[@FleurDeLysPTV]

likewise

[@jessicasifuentes6413]

You’re the best mom and inspiration to so many women! Absolutely love watching you tell your story and encourage so many women to keep going. Thanks for opening up 💕

[@MariaSanchez-os9ff]

So far your video has been the best at motivation for me, a single mom.... you are a strong person and went through so much with a struggle, but you managed! Again awesome words chosen on this video. Thank you!!

[@bbbabybear27]

Really going through it right now. thankful I found your channel because lord knows I need the positivity & to hear that it will get better. Going through it alone IS hard. ♥️

[@thehomesteadingmama]

Can I just say how amazing you are?❤ I'm not a single mom but I couldn't imagine the struggles, I was literally tearing up through most of this video. You are so strong and such an inspiration to all mamas out there. Shout out to all the amazing single mamas out there!❤

[@TresChicMama]

Kayti Maldonado Thank you so much!

[@KB-lj7gj]

I can't ignore whats going on in background cause she is so so cute and having a blast😂😂🤗

[@Introvertwoman1989]

K B Yeah you are trur, how cute the baby

[@cubanita365]

Thanks for this! I've been trying to get out of my toxic situation and am only still here solely because I'm stressing about how I'm going to make it, but you've given me encouragement on just doing it and having faith that it'll all work out somehow! Also, Your child isn't missing out on anything if your relationship with her father was toxic. I grew up in a very toxic home with parents who couldn't stand each other and always got into terrible fights. They stayed together solely to keep the "family together", and let me tell you, it did way more damage to me than good. I actually wish they had gotten a divorce so that I wouldn't have had to endure everything that I had to in that home! So your daughter is better off with the decision you made. Great job mama!

[@Samantharae1111]

You’ve been so inspiring the entire time I’ve watched you. I hope you know that you are such a strong beautiful human being. I literally cried watching this video. Thank you for sharing your story with us. You deserve the world. I will never forget watching your videos when I first found out I was pregnant. You brought me to a calm place every time. When I miscarried I felt like my world was crushed. And every thing was falling, and I couldn’t breathe. You helped me get through it... I know that’s deep and heavy but your purpose here is very real and important. I was raised by my grandparents and I had my bumps in the road. But I wouldn’t change it for the world, your baby girl is so lucky to have a beautiful mother like you’re self. She’s so blessed, and I just love you. Thank you 🙏

[@OvercomingthisLife]

I needed this! Your comment about you feeling sick from depression is me right now. Worried about how I'm going to pay my next upcoming bill, it makes me ill. Yet I'm doing all I can to get out of it. I really look up to you, and think you're such a wonderful inspiring person, I strive to follow in your footsteps but in my own journey. All I have to say is people always tell me how strong I am for being a single mom, yet it wasn't my choice. I look at other single moms who had the strength to walk away and be a single mom by choice because of their situation.... those are strong ass women. You're amazing! Keep pushing forward!

[@Kashban]

Why are you a single mum?

[@destinyritch7252]

Hey ik this video is old and i doubt many people will see this but im going through this right now my daughters one and im finally DONE. Its been so toxic for so long and I need out. I haven't left yet because im so scared of the HOW still but I really really want to be done.. Pray for me yall

[@maryjaneamaya6840]

Honestly, me too girl.. But we got this. 💖

[@RO-rv3fj]

All the best to you!!!

[@bekahwright7035]

You’re so inspiring Hayley 💖 after watching you for like 2 years now I’m so happy for you on how you’ve grown and how Sydney has grown! You are kicking ass and taking names!

[@justineedrington7015]

I just want to say thank you! I'm struggling rn with everything and your videos are really helping! So thanks for being here for us mommas. You rock💖

[@milasunflower_aguita_dulce]

You are amazing! The love you constantly showing your LO is so cute! Whenever you feel sad, stressed, worried or anything just focus all of those feelings and turn them into love towards Sidney! Being single can be hard, but ik.pretty sure God has a wonderful man that would be there for you and your child! I went through that and now, I have a wonderful husband that loves my little one! Keep your head up, keep working hard! May God continue to bless you and the little baby girl!! ❤❤🤗

[@rshake1]

You're my favorite mom friend. Its sad, but I don't have many (I have one) but her lifestyle is very luxurious and I can't relate to SO many things. She doesn't understand my financial limitations, anxiety issues etc.

[@TresChicMama]

R Shake We can all relate at some point!! Wish I lived close to all my internet friends haha ❤️❤️

[@rshake1]

It really would be nice!

[@AngelaRenee3]

It's definitely hard! I hope now 8 months later are doing better and have found more community

[@LauraGarza.]

I love watching all of your videos. So proud of how far you’ve come in a year. I remember watching your video where your sitter fell through and you were really being tested. You appear to have come through it for the better. Keep striving.

[@Trebushea]

This video is so empowering. I continue to rewatch this video for months now and your videos have really helped me get and maintain the strength I need to now be a single mama. Thank you for your uploads and your advice! You have played a HUGE part in helping me get through these huge changes of becoming a single mama over the past few months. ♡ Happy Holidays! Thank you, from the bottom of my heart. ♡

[@johnsonfidelis6657]

Trebusha your beauty ignite my feeling can you write me on email JohnsonFidelis17@gma il . Co m let know each other more

[@annparker5060]

Love your chats! Totally agree with what you said about toxic people and how it’s hard but you have to just decide what isn’t best for your life.

[@rainbrooks1085]

Being a single mom is the hardest but greatest gift I have ever received wouldn’t trade my life for anything.

[@lovealwaysruby]

I relate w this on so many levels. Being a single mom isn’t ideal but i love being her mommy!💓😍

[@johnsonfidelis6657]

Wow you ignite my feeling, I am a single father from las Vegas hope you dont mind dropping your number let talk more

[@baddivids8926]

This is exactly what I need to hear. Thank you and God bless you

[@rachelt761]

Letting all the commercials play through because i heard it means you get paid more 💕 #onemomtoanother

[@elizabethchurch9720]

Ditto

[@angieereg]

Hayley is this true? You are the only KZbinr I would watch them through for... let me know! I wanna support you anyway I can

[@TresChicMama]

Budget Babe 😭😭😭 THANK YOU!! You are so sweet!!!!!! 💗💗💗💗

[@rshake1]

I didnt know that! Definitely watching them too then.

[@rachelt761]

@@rshake1 yep :) that's part of why I commented about it. All the good youtubers have too much tact to mention it. (Or maybe the right amount of tact 😋)

[@keisha_j887]

Thank you for sharing your story and transparency. I’m currently going through a separation and eventually divorce. This helped me so much this morning and gave me hope.

[@kylieotoole6753]

bless you i grew up with both my mum n dad and now im a single mother of 3 this video just made me think im not the only one whos going through this and your not alone .. praying is the best thing ... let worry go

[@fionaoliver]

I've been a single mom for 6 years now. I've done the single mom thing just a little longer than you but you are inspiring me so much to be better for my child and for myself. You radiate positivity and kindness - good things are sure to continue coming your way

[@bellanik2385]

I needed this today. I feel this on so many levels! Your strength is amazing, and you are a wonderful role model for your daughter! Taking that leap to get out of a toxic relationship seems so scary, but I'm sure it's freeing and such a happier and healthier outcome for you and Sidney. You are inspiring. Don't stop being you! 💖

[@TresChicMama]

bella nik It ultimately is the best decision I could have made for all of us involved! 🙌❤️ Thank you

[@johnsonfidelis6657]

Wow Nicole Marie. Am a single man .. Am interested in you if you don't mind? You can drop number

[@juanagonzalez5457]

Love you girl thanks you so much for this video. You enspire me with every video. Life is so hard and it's nice to see there is a light at the end of the tunnel. I'm glad your in a better place now. ❤

[@charitygoodrow7127]

Thank you for this video. Trying my best to stay positive for my Little Bird every single day. It hasn't been easy but it's always been worth it.

[@amandafelts1982]

She’s so sassy and cute! You are such a strong woman! Never change ❤️

[@elliecruz9122]

So beautiful, momma! You hugged me through your words and story...you’re awesome.

[@noelandrews2337]

Thank you. I really really really needed this. Left the father of my beautiful son a week ago. We were together for three years. It’s the hardest decision I’ve ever had to make. I relate to knowing it had to happen early on but just prolonging it for so long due to all of the fears attached with leaving an unhealthy situation.

[@Kashban]

And you left why?

[@hawramia7774]

Hug that broken person! Made me bawl my eyes out. I’m currently broken just went through a messy divorce and home with my 18 month old. This video gave me hope!

[@tanjeuys]

Your video has me in tears! Thanks for the motivation! You are an incredible mom!

[@cirratapuella]

You are amazing! Thank you for sharing your story. I really, really respect how you handle and discuss this without really bashing Sydney's dad, even though it's clear there are lot of things that have hurt you deeply. You are so strong, you're a great mama, and I really hope your KZbin channel continues to grow, because you deserve the success.

[@TresChicMama]

Emily M. I try so hard to be real & open yet private at the same time 😬 Thank you for this!

[@caitlinwolfe7219]

Praying for you mama! He has a plan and you are so incredibly talented, thank you for sharing this!

[@johnsonfidelis6657]

Caitlin wolfe I am single father and your beauty ignite my feeling hope you dont mind dropping your phone number let talk more

[@acelestialwitch8512]

I just wanna say I’m so happy I’ve found you. I resonate on such a deep level. I am a single mum of two girls one who is 8 and one who is 3 and my eldests dad chooses to live in New Zealand (we are in the uk he is originally from) and my youngests dad is being investigated for abusing a child (outside of our home and our lives) so there is no contact. (Obviously and social advice) so I get soooo much resentment and jealousy of others and the ex’s. I’m so glad I found your channel as so many trigger me, thank you 🙏🏻

[@infinityandbeyondmom7660]

You are a strong woman And i understand that feeling of been done for good our kids should always be #1 you inspire me to push harder in my own situation.

[@Arianaree]

We grow. That’s the outcome of the battle and the struggles. I think with every phase of our upbringing we have to learn that the hard is what’s making us grow and change and be strong. As they grow we grow as well, and it will get easier and then it will get hard. The ongoing cycle but it’s all worth it. Hind site is 2020 I love that because it’s really true. We grew we learned and we moved on. Stronger. Sorry for the weirdo rant and even if I can’t relate 100% I totally get how you feel. Hustle on momma!!

[@cabbagemermaid1549]

I feel the struggles you spoke of. I need the bravery to get out of my “toxic comfort zone.” The bad far outweighs the good in the situation. As the phrase goes, “Walking on eggshells.” I’ve watched a video on narcissistic parents, and it explained so much of my upbringing... Now as a parent, I’m constantly undermined in front of my kids, in my living situation by my parents and grandma...

[@kaylacummins7546]

we are always here for you!

[@theglitterbombmom]

I needed this so much. Thank you for the motivation and the strength.

[@tasyahkay]

Hi 👋🏽 thank you so much !. This hits home for me I’m battling currently and I have a 5 year old daughter. No longer with her father but so happen I jumped into another relationship fast and this man has a good heart and intentions but battle with alcohol. Myself is like take me and my daughter and move on and live alone but I am battling my emotions getting stuck but this inspires me. Keeping faith. I pray 🙏🏽 for constant happiness for you and your daughter. Very inspirational ❤️❤️❤️. God bless !.

[@Thelustrebeauty]

I love this so much! I created my own channel to try to connect more with single mommies and eventually share my story. I felt alone for a very long time until i realized that i really wasnt. God is always by my side! You’re such a great inspiration! Thank you for sharing!

[@msdhonifanpage3317]

Great to read your words .. respect for women and yeah what's your channel will love to know about you i am from India hope to see you here vist friend here

[@littlewifethatcould]

I just wanted to say I love you and your channel. I have watched your journey for the last year or two and you have easily become my favorite youtuber. I am married, but my husband is gone a lot and is currently deployed (he’s in the Army), so I can related to you so much. I raised my daughter basically on my own (she is 5.5 years old). And now we have a 6-7m old son, who was born with a CHD and has had some difficulties since his life started. So I have days where I feel completely alone because I don’t necessarily have my husband around to share life’s burdens with. There are days I struggle with how I will continue another day with the struggles we have faced. But us moms are stronger than we know. Especially when we are forced to do it all alone. So that being said, I appreciate your tips on staying positive and strong.

[@TresChicMama]

You absolutely know the struggle and with 2 at that! Just know you are never alone and we are all here for each other no matter the circumstance

[@kayleemarie3692]

I'm going through this at the moment. You have no idea how important this is for me to see. I really needed this. I really appreciate you. Tyra banks is the best Omg! Thank you so much❤

[@TresChicMama]

Kaylee Lattimer You are stronger than you know ❤️

[@jenniferdimapilis5906]

Both of you are so cute! Salute to all single mom out there. I am also a single mom and wanted to inspires other single parent too.

[@taraphillips3775]

Thanks for sharing. Sydney is such a great and well behaved child.

[@TresChicMama]

Tara Phillips Aww thank you!! ❤️❤️

[@AngelaRenee3]

I am grateful for stories like yours...it makes life not feel so lonely...Believing that God is with me is what's carried me through so far!

[@brookeanders477]

You’re a total bada$$ mama! You’re a huge inspiration to so many mamas in lots of different ways. Love watching your channel grow because you are someone who seriously deserves it!

[@johnsonfidelis6657]

Wow brooke avila. Am a single man 35yrs.. Am interested in you if you don't mind? You can drop number

[@kristinkircher5411]

I love you girls so much! You are one of my absolute favorite mommy youtubers! I appreciate your honestly and sincerity and real ness so much. I feel like I can relate to you SO much more than most of the other KZbin moms out there. I feel like they try to only show how perfect their children are and how spotless and cleans their homes are. And that’s just not me. I can’t do it. So thank you so much for being real! I feel like you’re just one of my friends ❤️Keep it up!

[@johnsonfidelis6657]

Kristin kircher I am single father and will like to know you more ,hope you dont mind dropping your phone number

[@Kashban]

@@johnsonfidelis6657 Didn't you learn anything?

[@husnas.7772]

Thank you so much for this video, I'm in the process of becoming a single mom and its been so hard for me. This video felt like listening to a friend who can empathise with me and it gave me a lot of courage and assurance

[@johnsonfidelis6657]

Husna I am Johnson Fidelis from united state single father can you write me at email JohnsonFidelis17@gma il . Co m

[@raziraz87]

This is inspirational. Living this right now! I'm still in that spot of the worrying how is it gna be...I am so OCD I have to have life planned and the unknown scares me to death!

[@deepaliyadav777]

Thanks for sharing your journey. As a single parent to a soon to be 3 year old, I’m trying to navigate my life as best i can :)

[@lakenwilke467]

My baby is 3 months and my fiancé told me he doesn’t love me anymore. we are trying to fix things but it feels like he is going to leave any day. I needed this. I’m mentally preparing to be a single mom. Thank you for the encouragement.

[@dbunny29]

You're doing an absolutely AMAZING job, mama! Thank you so much for sharing your beautiful life with us

[@TresChicMama]

Dani Kennis Thank you 🥰🥰

[@na2613]

You're an amazing strong woman and mom ,love you, Sydney and your channel. Thank you

[@jessicaantoinette5076]

Thank you helping. I’m working through something right now and I have my goals set, it just not the right time but I know it’s coming. Thank you for being honest about saving. I’m putting money in my savings every week. And already I see it building ! 😭 🙌🏼 I’m so glad I found your channel.

[@FaithMatini]

I'm just starting my journey as a single mom, its great to find inspiration in others!

[@bruha321]

one thing all single mothers have in common is that they are really bad at choosing good partners to breed with.

[@jazzjackson9875]

Journey? A better journey would have been staying childless. The struggle will now begin and you will never catch up. Also you are now at the bottom of the dating pool. Should have used protection...good luck

[@alisonbowers]

I needed this video! Thank you for sharing 💕

[@GloryToGodAlmighty]

My rock bottom was a year ago. My daughter is 2 now. Single mom as well. My ex told us to leave when our daughter was a few months old. We left on a plane and tried to make it work. I gave him too many chances and lies unfolded. I am a totally different person now. When I first clicked on your videos I had no idea your background or your story. I just appreciated your positivity. Thanks for being an inspiration and for sharing your story. It's nice to know I'm not alone in this world.

[@MsLoverPower]

I so needed this video from you, Hayley ❤ You're the best, for real! I've toned down social media/phone browsing A LOT, but I never miss one of your videos. I haven't had time to comment on the last 2 or 3 of your videos, but I've watched every single one of them. Keep on rocking, girl, the stars are the limit 🤗

[@TresChicMama]

MsLoverPower You are the best & your support never goes unnoticed! 😘😘

[@CRYSTALWARRIORPRINCESS]

Thank you so so much for this!!! Truly needed to hear all of this 😭🙏🏻💖

[@amandawarren8990]

Hi Hayley, you are one of my favourite KZbin mommy vloggers. I love how real, honest and down-to-earth you are. I love that you make a conscious effort to not talk negatively about your ex or muddy Sydney’s view of her father!

[@davidaris4016]

Hi

[@Lov3lychriz]

I’m on my 8th year of being a single mother, my son’s dad has been incarcerated since I was 5 months pregnant. Luckily he comes home soon but I’m very serious about my sons mental health so I told his dad he has to be in a good space him self and have to be serious about raising his son. I think we will coparent great when the time come. Keep your head up ladies❤️

[@nuddlesneatnook7569]

Love this video. You said everything I needed to hear. My daughter is 15 months now and I am finally come to terms with the fact that I will never give her the family she deserves as long as I keep trying with her narcissist father. I pray that by the time she’s two I can share my happiness like you. You really inspire me.

[@TresChicMama]

NuddlesNeatNook I’m so sorry you are in this situation right now 😔 Do what you know is right and everything will fall into place Mama 🙏❤️

[@AngelaRenee3]

Praying for you, girl! You got this, single or not! Narcissism sucks, I am so glad to be out of that. Hang in there!

[@jessiemeeler5759]

Praying. I am starting the breakup process now with my 15 mo old.

[@estherdubois1586]

Thank you for this!! I am working on being a single parent and leaving an unhealthy relationship. And I am scared out of my mind. But I know I got this.

[@HomechoolbythePond]

Girl you are so strong and amazing to be able to have done what you did! I can relate to a lot of what you shared about never being able to do anything alone (nails, eyelashes etc) my husband is Navy and has been deployed or underway a lot of the time since my daughter was born so I can def feel you on the stressors of being along all the time with a baby/toddler.

[@alexandraseedorf5035]

I’m married and it’s hard some days with our son. My husband works a lot and it can feel very lonely sometimes with me being a stay at home mom. I agree that when our kids are happy it makes everything feel better. I feel like I can relate to you to what your going through as a mom. Your doing great! Love watching you ❤️

[@TresChicMama]

Alexandra Seedorf Absolutely!!! We can definitely relate ❤️❤️❤️

[@Kashban]

Just don't forget your husband most likely works that hard for you and your sun, not to his own amusement.

[@rachelkeyte1002]

April sounds so gorgeous! Enjoyed the video! I plan to be a single parent, so that really helped me to put things in perspective. Thank you. You sound like a gorgeous person as well!

[@atunstall30]

Just Thank you I’m not the only single mom in my 30’s thank you for sharing this video...

[@amynunya6167]

Thank you for this video. I’m a single mom also, and I think we all have some of the same worries. You are so inspiring, and you help me to remember that I can’t lose myself and be only “mom”. That’s my #1 priority and joy in life, but it’s important to remember we have to take care of ourselves to take care of our babies. ❤️

[@davidaris4016]

You are right Amy, this world id complicated but we have yo live and survive in it.. Am a single man. You can drop your contact number

[@amynunya6167]

David Aris 😂

[@Kashban]

@@amynunya6167 Good, seems he unintentionally dodged a bullet.

[@lafuente13]

You’re a great inspiration , thank you for sharing💚

[@BajaChick]

I am at a point of my life where I am now a single mother of 3 and I to new when my marriage needed to end for the happiness of me and my kids . I new it would be hard on everyone at first but in the long run it was for the best. And when that day came where I had enough courage to say enough I was so scared , relived , and concerned that my kids would hate me for making a decision that has forever changed our life .

[@trustintheuniverse9699]

I recently discovered you and I'm so thankful that I have. The first part of this video , you knew you had to be a single mom , it's my current situation. I have the most beautiful two year old daughter God could bless me with , but I don't have much family just my mother , and my daughters fathers family are not involved. I have been wanting to get out of my toxic relationship since the day I found out I was pregnant. But I have been so afraid of the how just like you said. I'm getting to a place where it's eating me up inside and effecting my child. I know I have to get out that I am robbing her if all the self love I always said I would teach her if I don't get out. But I'm terrified. Your giving me confidence but I don't have a nest egg. If I leave we will not be ok . I will keep praying for the day that we can and I will keep watching your videos..thank you.

[@mariajaniegoulet7653]

You are doing an amazing job as a Mom , and as a human being. 👏🏼 I love your videos 🥰God bless you and your daughter 🙏🏼

[@kreatingwithk3980]

Thanks for sharing this!

[@spreadyourvoice3843]

Thank you for sharing your journey with sincere vibes. Keeping up girl.

[@nottoday4972]

I’m new, just found your Chanel. Woke up to my significant other telling me he doesn’t love me anymore.. feeling scared and lost. Just worked out and I got sort my shit out! I am a stay at home mom. So so this is helpful

[@Jasmine-fh9xs]

HI!, wow, im in a situation right now with my one year old son, I am in this toxic relationship, where I feel super vulnerable and almost just feel bad for myself every morning I wake up. Its so hard for me to make the decision to move out and become a single mom, yet its becoming reality for me as of right now. I kinda knew, like you in the beginning of the birth that I can't stay and commit with this guy. Only because my heart, and my mind, wasn't in it, this is rock bottom and im just going to be a bouncy ball because staying down here is not going to be any better for me, my baby, and his father. I am in college, and also, struggle with my family being far away, but friends and other family members will always be there in a case such as this. Thanks for the video.. mamas matter too

[@kellyburns288]

I completely understand your reservations about online dating because I had the same. But I wanted to share that I decided to give it a try (with a 7 day free trial) after getting out of a toxic relationship 8 years ago and I met my now-husband in just a few days. I was also not a dater, and I actually felt much more comfortable getting to know him through texting and talking on the phone before we had our first date. It’s like we had a chance to have a few dates before we had our actual first date. We’ve been married for almost 5 years now and have a 2 year old son. I can’t imagine not having him in my life. I just wanted to share because I was also not into the idea of online dating, but I’m so glad I did. Thank you for sharing your journey!

[@TresChicMama]

Kelly Burns Ahhhh this gives me so much hope!!! Thank you for sharing your beautiful story with me!! 😬💗

[@mackenziemintzer7914]

These are my favorite types of videos!! You're doing an awesome job at being a mom!

[@TresChicMama]

Mackenzie Mintzer Aw Thank you!!!

[@JJJakubiec]

YOURE AN INSPIRATION! YOURE AMAZING😍😍😍

[@jenniferbartolon395]

Came across your video! I am going through th is right now and needed to hear your story! Thank you for sharing!❤️

[@dianelyssanchez2676]

Thank you 🙏 needed this video ❤️❤️🙏❤️❤️ May God continue to light your path with abundance and your ears may they be open to listening to the advice

[@mackenziemoulton7856]

Awe love you guys!!! I’m a single mom to a beautiful boy ❤️. So happy to hear your story

[@johnsonfidelis6657]

Wow mackenzie Moulton. Am a single man .. Am interested in you if you don't mind? You can drop number

[@Kashban]

@@johnsonfidelis6657 Don't. Just don't. Please don't simp for a single mum. Don't ever simp if you want to keep your health intact.

[@viktorialight]

omg! its like you're telling my story! thank you for sharing!

[@azmomconnection]

I love this outlet for you, and hearing the path you've traveled.

[@TresChicMama]

Thank you so much ❤️🙏

[@sandycheeks9320]

She’s so adorable absolutely feel like I can relate to you on so many levels! Thank you for your videos 💕💕

[@alyonadavies7480]

Thank you so much for this video. I am struggling myself right now too;( and what you said in the beginning it's me right now I am worried all the time how will I make it and support my child. You are so strong you inspiring me. I love you thank you so much. ;) you are awesome. ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@TresChicMama]

Alyona Davies Awwww I’m so sad you are in that state right now!! Just know it gets better!!! It truly does 🙏❤️ Praying for you!

[@themantra-youtubetalk6427]

We have resources for you on our page

[@sixteen.candles.4644]

My same worries and fears

[@johnsonfidelis6657]

Wow Alyona. Am a single man 35yrs.. Am interested in you if you don't mind? You can drop number

[@msdhonifanpage3317]

Aww alyona insipriton soon ..you will be example in future generation ..were do you from can we talk ?

[@kdyounger1]

Thanks for sharing your journey!!! PS - stoked for you to hit 30K soon. Well deserved! 💜

[@TresChicMama]

THANK YOU!!!!!

[@Back_in_the_saddle]

Thank you so much for this. Found this really reassuring and helpful. Me and my husband have just called time on our marriage and although I know in the long run all be ok , I’m quite scared now to move out on my own with my young boys, new schools , paying bills on my own etc.. I really wAnt to start KZbin as a hobby 🙏🏼 so hopefully that will be good to focus on. Thank you again . So glad you’ve found happiness

[@Introvertwoman1989]

How cute the baby, enjoying much by her own. I am a single mom too from Philippines now at OFW Hongkong watching from here. God bless to all single moms.❤️🇭🇰🇵🇭