SO WHAT YOU'RE A SINGLE MOM| Advice & tips on being a successful, happy single mom| Tres Chic Mama

Hey guys! Today I wanted to have a single mom motivation chit chat. I'm constantly getting asked questions and for single mom advice so I wanted to share my thoughts with you. I pray for you all to find peace and happiness in life and know that it takes time, self care and love. Step out of your comfort zone a little ....it's so worth the rewards! xo
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Hey everyone!! If you are new here, let me introduce myself! My name is Hayley and I have a 2 year old named Sydney!! I am a single mom who loves doing day in the life of a mom vlogs, lifestyle vlogs, working on my mommy and makeup youtube channels, fashion, home decor, food and all things baby! I exclusively breastfed/breastfeed my daughter so I made breastfeeding videos, labor & delivery videos, baby must haves and all things pregnancy and mommy & baby! Make sure you subscribe so you don't miss out on any videos in the future! I'm so grateful for all of your support!! I love you all! xo
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[@zoesather3215]

He just told me he is leaving tonight. So instead of crying, I decided to empower myself for my baby. This video really helped 💛

[@zoesather3215]

@BONE how tf is that funny to you

[@mikaeleugh546]

@@zoesather3215 just trolls, you got this mama

[@zoesather3215]

@@striker0603 I didn’t know you didn’t have a mom. Maybe you should take your mommy problems elsewhere

[@El-Zorro]

@@zoesather3215 Are you sure you didn't chase him away?

[@lindaasulin7200]

Wow ur such a strong person!

[@tiffanyweber3028]

To all the mothers who leave the toxic relationship, I commend you. You are teaching your children what it means to stand up for yourself and for them. This is a hidden gem that the children will grow up understanding and appreciating your sacrifice. I realized this with my own mother.

[@thernfoster2387]

What sacrifice? These women don't deserve to be commended, they CHOSE to get pregnant by toxic men, and they themselves are just as bad, it's funny how the time to become "responsible", is after the fornication and hanky panky is over, women should think about this before they decide to open their legs, forcing a child to be born without two loving parents is ABUSE! Stop sympathising with single moms who make poor life choices and point the finger at the man!

[@tiffanyweber3028]

@@thernfoster2387 are you that ignorant to understand many men especially narcissistic trap women and it can be years into the relationship. People change too, men can start having affairs, start drinking, spending all the family money! You need to really open you eyes to realizing majority of women to not settle with a man who is toxic.. they become toxic and think we are so dependent and won't leave. They take advantage of our grace but once we run out we build a plan a leave!!!

[@tiffanyweber3028]

@@thernfoster2387 I was married to my husband for 9 years. Went through the Army with him, stayed at home and raised our children. Was pregnant with our 2nd child and I found out he cheated on my 8 months pregnant with co workers. The woman's husband reached out to me and told me. He was a great man in the beginning but years later I dealt with his porn addiction, drinking increased ect and this was the last straw. I decided to leave and so please don't have this judgement that all single moms became single moms because they are having one night stands or what ever....

[@thernfoster2387]

"Our grace", LOL! I love how you automatically paint the men as the villains and women as helpless victims, women like you are incapable of taking accountability, people don't have a master plan to suddenly change after years, that's absolute bull, these men were ALWAYS bad, and it's EXACTLY what attracts these women, who probably believe they can change him, same goes for you and your ex husband, I can almost guarantee he was an a-hole when you first met him, and all the actual good men, the nice guys, are the ones you friend zoned and rejected, I wonder how many jerks you'll run through before you turn to those nice guys to support you and your kids! My point still stands, the majority of single moms had kids WAY too soon, with unsuitable men, who they KNEW weren't quality men, so stop playing victim, and take responsibility!

[@tiffanyweber3028]

@@thernfoster2387 okay I take responsibility for my ex husband's cheating, drinking and lack of focusing on our family. You want to assume I was this horrible woman to for your narrative because it's easier but I was an amazing wife to him. Put his needs first, supported him and loved him But I'll follow what you said and take the responsibility for his actions... just like how women have always done. They always get the blame for everything.

[@youandi9244]

I'm pregnant and thinking of getting out of a relationship. I'm so afraid of being a single mom, but after seeing this, I am motivated. I can't continue to stay in this relationship anymore. Thank you.

[@goldenslots5393]

I hope you're doing better and that you're out of that situation! Don't wait, it won't get any better. Sending you strength xo

[@youandi9244]

@@goldenslots5393 Thank you

[@nomsantsoane3984]

If emotionally it is draining you... llleeeeeaaaaavvvvveee my darling

[@risinginlove.7364]

How are you doing now ??

[@youandi9244]

@@risinginlove.7364 I have left the relationship, though I'm still having a tough time dealing with the breakup. I believe over time, I will get better.

[@Gigi-rg7xy]

So many men put single moms down like we choose it. Sometimes it’s not our choice! I left a very abusive relationship and raising my son on my own. Ladies don’t let the negative comments get to you . You are worthy ! ❤️

[@haileykirby1694]

Preach! The haters are definitely closed minded

[@varvaramelikhova8880]

This is exactly what happened to me

[@dontsubscribethanks]

Because women are weak compared to men

[@robinouze1256]

Almost like you did not chose this "abusive man"

[@Gigi-rg7xy]

🤣

[@arfaelo3674]

I'll be a single mom in couple of months and im both excited to push forward as a healthy, strong single mom than a sad and depressed mom with a guy who isnt good for me. Wish me luck guys! :)

[@techrace9438]

Why i find here love...i m 30 seeking good person for whole life .

[@watermelon5110]

how are you doing?☺️

[@stroNg2thaBoNe2thaMax]

It's so sad how we don't realize when someone is no good for us until we end up in situations like this. But instead of beating ourselves up, we have to push forward.

[@Oddly_Fascinting]

If not happy why gettin prgnent wth his child

[@MillennialMountainMama]

@@Oddly_Fascinting Do you know how babies are made? It takes a man TOO why can’t you “men” get that!? Did you take sex education?

[@alysonsmokie]

I’m not a single mom! But I’ve been here from before 10K and I remember you had that “I’m a little scared” look in your eyes when you quit your job and said “YT is my job now” ... and look at you! You 100% did it and it only gets better from here! I love seeing you so confident and happy!!! Xoxo

[@princeandrewprivate5515]

Hello, season Greetings from from prince Andrew Edward, hope you are doing great ?

[@Alex-bo5cp]

Awesome! I've been a single mum for 15 years (since his birth). I managed to buy land and build myself a house on a very small income and have qualified in several different areas since he was born. I've never felt like I was disadvantaged UNTIL last week when I went to the bank to apply to re-mortgage and I was knocked back. I am not going to let that stop me though, I am going to push through this financial block and might start a KZbin channel about it!

[@TresChicMama]

YOU’VE GOT THIS!!!! Seriously! I believe that 100% with hard work & motivation, it will happen for you 🙏💪

[@edselrodriguezagosto]

Brave and Stunning

[@eggboy178]

A KZbin channel? And how’s that going for you?

[@dcoconutdreams]

Please do because I need some advice and not the typical jargon either. I have a job as an administrative assistant, need to work on my credit, know phone numbers as googling seems to be a plathora of fake links or links that throw you all over the place. What to do when there's so many that are residing where you live, no matter the city, that it seems as though everyone has their applications closed?

[@sarahscott2777]

I took my 12 year old son to the beach! We had so much fun, riding bikes, room service, boogie boarding, and deep sea fishing! I highly recommend any Mom out there to give it a try!!!!

[@jossyj1]

This video immediately stopped my tear flow. I don’t know if or what condition I’ll be in tomorrow but as of today this really encouraged me. Thank you!💞

[@daisymarlo2413]

Sameee

[@ashleytaccone5298]

❤️ yep

[@hayleyconatser7503]

I love this video so much. My son came out of a toxic and abusive relationship. If I wouldn’t have been in that relationship I wouldn’t have him and he is my biggest blessing. I truly believe he saved my life. I lost my job because I couldn’t work late nights and now I have been baking for others and I love it so much. It helps my anxiety instead of inducing anxiety like doing hair did for me. Love your videos and I’m thankful for you! Fingers crossed my divorce will be finalized Tuesday!

[@TresChicMama]

Awwww you’re so right! That little babe is such a blessing! Sending prayers & good vibes your way mama 💪🙏❤️

[@clarkandmama4894]

You go girl! Good luck mama!

[@hayleyconatser7503]

Clark and Mama thank you so much 💕💕💕🥺

[@laurenwolff3262]

I was in an abusive relationship and my daughter has also kept me going and motivated. I'm in a better place now but things were real hard there for awhile. God is good 😍

[@hayleyconatser7503]

@@laurenwolff3262 God is so good! I thought I was going to have to die in that relationship because that is what he told me. Now that I am away I feel so free. I’m so thankful that you were able to get out of your relationship! ❤️

[@cozumel617]

I am not even a few minutes into this video ANDDDDD.. it passes the vibe check . I hear myself saying these things sometimes . You’re so right . None of us are special . If others can do it , so can we. I cry everyday and it’s not even for him anymore . It’s not even for the love our relationship has had . It’s because I feel like I’m trapped and I don’t know how to get out . Definitely a new subscriber .

[@clairevautour432]

Thank you so much! I'm 39 weeks pregnant with a toddler, in a wobbly relationship, and although I would prefer to be able to make this relationship work out, this video made me feel alot more secure and made me believe in myself that I could make it work if it came to a divorce. I feel like a single mom most days already anyway 😮‍💨

[@leoqueen5378]

Thank you! My ex used to get annoyed with me having a coffee and watching shows before I turned on MOM MODE so I started feeling bad for having that time to myself... but Im learning to like it again

[@marvelamalone7814]

Omg same!!!!

[@Embraceyourcurls24]

Same

[@godlovesu3754]

Omg same here.. Thank god it going to be end so soon. After that I'll have my own world.

[@CleanSimpleTogether]

I've been watching your channel since your "how I knew I was pregnant video". I wasn't very good about leaving comments back then but try to now as I know how important it is. But you have just come SUCH a long way and it's truly amazing to see how far you have come on your channel as well just in your life. You are amazing and Syndey is so so lucky to have you as a mom. I wish you nothing but all the happiness you deserve ❤❤❤

[@mcmahonpartyof6]

I’ve been using you as inspiration for the past few weeks. I get up before my baby’s and shower and moisturize. By the time I get my coffee they are awake and I drink my coffee while they eat. It has helped my mood so much ❤️❤️❤️

[@princeandrewprivate5515]

Hello, season Greetings from from prince Andrew Edward, hope you are doing great ?

[@elizabethibarra4700]

I recently became a single mom, your videos inspire me! Thank you 😊

[@TresChicMama]

You’ve got this girl!! 💪💗💗💗💗

[@laurenwolff3262]

Hi Elizabeth , my name is Lauren and I'm a single parent to my 5yo daughter. Being a single mom can be hard but also very rewarding. If you need a daily dose of encouragement please visit my Instagram @singlemommalove. I do a morning reel every Mon-Fri morning. It's gonna be OK and you're not alone in this 😍

[@Gigi-rg7xy]

Yes her channel is the best!

[@annieschmannie8962]

I’m trying to stop saying “I’m a single mom” excuse. It does put limitations on everything but also other people say those limitations as well. So it’s harder

[@waynebruce2606]

Duh

[@brookebenton8192]

I am a single stay at home mom. It's tough at times...but I found a lot of things became easier for me when I quit judging myself and my situation so much.💖 I also had to learn a huge lesson of not caring about what others think, especially those who had never been in my shoes!!

[@stephaniejaneleavy6383]

I’ve just come out of that negative toxic situation.. I know that what is to come will be much much better. Currently stuck in a tiny apartment with my 3 month old, just separated from his dad it was a long time coming and I am very happy to be free of that situation. It’s onwards and upwards for me and my son

[@marawilliams5082]

I feel as though I’m in the same situation but still with him. What kind of things happened? I feel as though it may be in my head so Im asking. If you don’t want to share I understand. I feel like I’m in toxic/ narcissistic abuse situation.

[@janaie3528]

Single motherhood can be tough but attitude is definitely everything! My son is my biggest blessing and I am wanting to work from home full time just to care for my son. I have a super small channel but I definitely loved hearing your motivational advice because I am hoping one day I can do something I love while also being able to take care of my child!!

[@stevearnolrd2732]

Hello can we be friends.

[@jenraterink4581]

I needed this today! Thank you! Im a single mom of 3 and boy is it exhausting, scary, and stressful at times. I think we all get stuck in a bad head space about our situations from time to time and this really helped to push me out of that. I love watching you and Sydney together. I dont really have any friends that can relate to my situation so its nice to have you to watch. Thank you for always being real!

[@princeandrewprivate5515]

Hello, season Greetings from from prince Andrew Edward, hope you are doing great ?

[@claytonsimmons417]

Hello Jen

[@Embraceyourcurls24]

I will be a single mom of 3 in about 2 weeks. Very stressed out.

[@followingmyheart89]

Phenomenal. Video. I am not a single mom but I have a 1 and 2 year old with pretty much no family support. My husband works a lot and I felt super solo and alone during quarantine especially. Even when it wasn’t quarantine I was doing most myself throughout the day. I have the utmost respect for all moms out there. You are all superheroes. But the moms who are kicking ass day in and day out solo- you guys have the biggest capes of all. You are in such an inspirational headspace and one that I hope to get to. I feel so lonely and isolated so often because we don’t have parents or siblings or cousins or anyone who we can call to help. But you’re right. It’s all mindset. Keep up the beyond incredible work. Your strength and your drive is beyond anything you could give your daughter. What a lucky little girl.

[@lyricleigh2277]

I sit here at 18 years old, 7 months pregnant, cautiously talking to my baby's father. And after watching this, I'm realizing that I'm only keeping him in the loop out of fear of being by myself with my baby. I am truly scared of not being able to give my daughter and myself what we both need and deserve. I want to have my life together for her. But watching this and listening to how you handle being a single mom is giving me motivation. I have so many goals i want to reach before she is even born, and even more by the time she turns 1 year old. Thank you, i needed the uncensored explanation 💗

[@crystalbice9840]

Yes yes please do another video about budgeting as a single mom! I love your videos!

[@stevearnolrd2732]

Hi pretty.

[@mollypainter2785]

I agree I'd love that.

[@princeandrewprivate5515]

Hello, season Greetings from from prince Andrew Edward, hope you are doing great ?

[@jamesgreens7509]

Hey

[@brunotalley3736]

Aww 😍 I think the video is so touching 🥺🙃

[@MoNique-on7bs]

Love how you’re not sugarcoating it!

[@onebrokemom7363]

You have a new subscriber! This was the first "single mom" video I watched and it was definitely what I needed to hear. Thank you for snapping us new single mamas into shape. Wishing you nothing but happiness and wealth

[@melodyventrescagmail9098]

We are currently hiring, it’s a work from home for single mothers in the US. Emai l me for more information.

[@khloejay5628]

I needed this I recently became a single mom and I been so stressed and trying to be positive:) 🙏!

[@TresChicMama]

Aw you’ve so got this mama!!! Sending you my thoughts & prayers 💪🙏❤️

[@ianriot1578]

No such thing as a a successful single mother. Thats like saying you can be a successful homeless bum.

[@Katie-io6fv]

@@ruthchill2058 what if the relationship was toxic? Or abusive? You don’t know their situation, stay out of it.

[@reliefbymm7761]

I have been for the last 3 years after 9 years of marriage to a narcissist. Awful divorce journey , mental illness, and now as a revenge trashing and he abandoned the 3 kids financially. After all the negativity above , I have hope and keep trying . We can be happy and successful. 🙏🏻

[@Katie-io6fv]

@@ebenezeramare1 but what if she wasn’t? Maybe it had absolutely nothing to do with her. Stop projecting.

[@BellaClarie]

I've been a single parent for almost 8 years now. Focusing on myself and my child has gotten me through so much. You are describing me, I quit my job last month, I was so unhappy. I have had toxic relationships, i have had depression, I was homeless when my daughter was 2. I still have a LONG way to go. I started working out and taking care of myself, my looks, and started counseling. My goal is to be the BEST mom. The best person for myself. Become spiritually enlightened, be successful and radiate positivity!!!! Be a hard worker and become stable in all aspects of my life!!! 💜👊 I just subscribed, LOVE your channel!!! :D

[@TresChicMama]

You rock!!!!! Keep taking care of yourself too ❤️🙌

[@ketzalzin6321]

I definitely put those limiting beliefs on myself, in doing that I was ignoring my power and resilience. It was hard muting out the negative self talk, I'm finally in a place where I can catch myself thinking all these negative thoughts about myself, and stop and introduce compassion and gratitude. Thankful that my son is healthy, happy, and we have food and shelter. It took a lot of time and patience, trusting the process.

[@courtneytippins8904]

I love this! I’m pregnant and it looks like I’m about to go through an divorce. I’m almost not allowing myself to be sad because that relationship wasn’t the best. But now I’m in over drive . I signed up for college, moved back in with my dad and looking for a job. I want to be a good mom even if I have to do it alone.

[@thernfoster2387]

The relationship wasn't the best, yet you STILL slept with him and let yourself become pregnant with an "unsuitable" man? Wow, congratulations, you're so strong and brave, thanks to your quality life choices, your child gets to grow up WITHOUT a dad, amazing stuff! You're an inspirational role model to us all! I wonder what your excuse will be when child number two comes along, you'll probably pick another a-hole to sleep with, then got shocked when he leaves, look in your friend zone, those nice men make proper fathers, but ofc you don't like nice guys, they're boring, weak, and women like drama right?

[@stacyagonzalez6654]

@@thernfoster2387 WTF is wrong with you? Are you reading what you're typing?

[@thernfoster2387]

@@stacyagonzalez6654 Your response is purely emotional, you haven't disproven what I've stated, nor have you made any factual points, children growing up without a father because of irresponsible parents, (mothers included), is ABUSE! So WTF is wrong with YOU!?

[@soulcalibrator67]

@@thernfoster2387 you are your own problem. You are not free of judgement. You don't even know that person. You're literally just trying to be cruel to single mothers. it's weird.

[@thernfoster2387]

@@soulcalibrator67 Of course I'm being cruel to single mothers, because they are cruel to their own children, except I'm NOT TRYING, I'm DOING! Never once did I mention myself being free of judgement did I? The majority of single moms make bad choices, by choosing bad men to have unprotected relations with, without thinking about the consequences of their actions when they end up pregnant, expecting a bad boy to commit, then they get praise and sympathy from people around them, which reinforces their bad behaviour, I've even seen 16 year old single moms receiving praise, it's absolutely disgustingly diabolical, 99% of single moms KNEW the guy they were with was a bad boy, it's EXACTLY what got them hot for him in the first place, and it's funny how the ONLY time these type of women decide to show some responsibility is AFTER the hanky panky, when they've already gotten themselves knocked up in a bad situation, I don't have to know these individuals to recognise what they're doing is harmful to their kids!

[@Tiffany-zi3cq]

Girl!!!!! You are speaking my language on all levels! Yes this is all so true in order to be the best Mom we have to take care of ourselves first. We deserve self love!

[@brittanysellscars5528]

I am a single mom too and I absolutely love it. Attitude is everything. ♥️♥️

[@jadyruiz5]

I agree!! Me too!!💕💕

[@TresChicMama]

Absolutely 💪💗

[@katiehenson9957]

Me too! 💜

[@clarkandmama4894]

Totally agree!! I am much happier being a single mom with a toddler than having to take care of a Man Child

[@brittanysellscars5528]

@@clarkandmama4894 YES!!! I get really tired taking care of my 18 month old that I can't imagine having a boyfriend/husband to help take care of too lol

[@lorynsmith7945]

I love this video. I’m not single, I’m happily married going on 5 years but most of these things still apply to me! I have two little girls and needed this refresher! 💕💕💕

[@melissahernandez2624]

I am 4 months pregnant with my second and becoming a single mom again. With my first I was so lost and now with this baby you gave me the push I needed. I applied to college and I am now ready to give myself and my kids the life they really deserve.

[@melodyventrescagmail9098]

We are currently hiring, it’s a work from home for single mothers in the US. Emai l me for more information.

[@thernfoster2387]

Wow, you're so strong and brave Melissa, not only did you have a child with an unsuitable man ONCE, but now you have a second child that gets to grow up without a father! I'm amazed at your brilliant life choices so far! Maybe you need to have a third child with another criminal/ abuser to get the FINAL push you need to become a healthy and brave single mom! You are such a role model! Keep spreading your legs for bad men, and ignoring all the good men, until you're 35 and need their support to pay for your 5 kids from 5 men!

[@Krzysztofwoss]

@@thernfoster2387 😂😂😂

[@haileykirby1694]

​@@thernfoster2387that's sad that u have to hate on someone who is actually trying to better their life and u don't know what happened for her to be single. U are acting very closed minded and hateful. I hope ur life gets easier so u don't feel the need to hate on.others to make urself feel better

[@haileykirby1694]

Great job!!! So proud of u

[@brittanycole2624]

I’ve been watching you since I was pregnant (2016) and I am so proud of how far you have come. I see myself in you as a single mom, coming from an extremely toxic, abusive relationship and you have given me so much strength and hope that everything happens for a reason. We as single moms are “special” in that we preserve and we find a way to make things happen. When you use being a single mom as your inspiration for strength, that’s a powerful force. But, using it as an excuse (using anything as an excuse) will never get you anywhere. I’m just so happy for your happiness and truly have been routing for you and Sidney. The sky is the limit. And when you reach the sky, aim for the moon. And when you reach the moon, aim even higher. 💕💕💕

[@princeandrewprivate5515]

Hello, season Greetings from from prince Andrew Edward, hope you are doing great ?

[@charb2781]

❤️ keep these types of videos coming!! I love your Channel SOOOO much!💖

[@mishonwifeey]

Honestly one of the best videos I’ve ever watched, such a beautiful soul.. instantly made me feel so positive about life, literally made me have a better outlook on life rather than a depressing one. ❤️

[@hemant8755]

Are you single mom

[@hemant8755]

Very bad happened

[@single-mominjapan8544]

I’m Japanese and being single mom for a years. Your tips, messages are great help for me to move on! Thank you!!! Wish all the best:)

[@sonjagalyon-kamonika]

I applaud you for taking the time to speak to single parent issues. Wishing you all the best.

[@somebody37150]

I just gotta say I love your videos. I'm a recent single mom and I've been wanting to start doing similar videos to your content and that's how I found you. Your videos have been a big help and I respect your perspective on single mom life.

[@taydrianagibbs4578]

Thank you !!! You have changed my whole mindset becoming a single mom of two! I’m hopeful for the future ❤️

[@melodyventrescagmail9098]

We are currently hiring, it’s a work from home for single mothers in the US. Emai l me for more information.

[@sarahsomerville729]

I needed this made me cry I needed this

[@TresChicMama]

❤️🙏

[@vachadave1706]

Love this so much! Thanks so much for sharing - this gives me lot of strength

[@kathytisdale9665]

You are such a wonderful person and a mommy ! You are such an inspiration ! I truly admire you and all that you are constantly trying to be the best mommy for Sydney. You have set your mind on your goal and stick to it and accomplish it. I know a lot of good will come your way. I would love for you to meet a wonderful man that has the same goals in life like you. Someone that you can build a wonderful life for you and Sydney and even grow your family. No one deserves it more than you. Keep up the good work ! By the way, Sydney is the cutest ! Love her appetite !

[@TresChicMama]

Gosh thank you so much!! I can’t wait to see what the future holds 🙏❤️❤️❤️😭

[@princeandrewprivate5515]

Hello, season Greetings from from prince Andrew Edward, hope you are doing great ?

[@kashayrodriguez5715]

From one single mama to another-thank you for this ❤️

[@techrace9438]

Are you single

[@andienetz2691]

Ugh you helped me so much today. I feel I'm getting to that point of just soaking my kids up and not searching for a partner, also what you said about praying daily. I feel God will bring me to what I'm supposed to have in my life if I stay out of the negativity and focus on me and my kids !

[@amberlydavis9853]

Love love LOVE this!!!! I’m a first time mom during this pandemic my child is 9 months old and it is super hard to get a trust worthy sitter just to go grocery shopping or to appointments but I’m making it work and staying positive I’m definitely going to try these tips thank you for speaking on the single mom subject. it’s nice to hear other moms routines or just any tips on how to make life easier

[@king3650]

2:36 Wow - the concept of accountability 😂

[@senaitbrave8975]

Her positive vibe cleared my worries and opened my eyes what I can do❤️

[@TresChicMama]

❤️💪

[@behryaamino6041]

Senyee Ayzogn

[@normagarcia3570]

Thank you for your video. Single mom of 3 kids one with special needs I felt I had to stay in the relationship for my kids comfort financially but who says I can do it myself ?thank you for waking me up saying I'm not special I really needed to hear that .

[@yasmeenmohamed165]

Hi Norma , how are you ? Keen to hear where you are on your journey ? I also have 3 kids under 9years old and my youngest has special needs aswell. I hope you are doing well.

[@allier.9193]

I loveeeeeeeee this video. I watch it over and over. Thank you so much for being honest and being real. I’m so proud of you and we’re you are. Thank you for sharing with us

[@geniveposh4003]

Day 1 single mom (1/30/21) 💔 11 yrs relationship done and over with ,just like nothing... Great video , I needed to hear

[@Rosamgz1]

One day I hope to be like you! I don’t want to settle for less, specially for my son 💕

[@missblake028]

Thank you for your inspiring words. I am a single mom to my 2 year old son and pregnant with my second. And I am terrified to be honest. But I'm finally in a place where I want to experience the single life and be happy on my own with just me and my kids. You show that it is all possible to achieve as a single mom and you given me the push I needed to go for it.

[@TresChicMama]

Congratulations on your new bundle ❤️❤️❤️ And yes it’s an up & down journey (that’s life) but it’s is so beautiful to embrace & enjoy each stage 🙏

[@missblake028]

Thank you and yes you are right ♥️

[@a.k.9404]

I stayed through 4 pregnancies and by the 4th my abuser was so enabled that I had to keep my mom with me in the delivery room to curb his abuse. If you are in a bad situation, you will be so glad and much better off alone, even if expecting. Good luck!

[@RossBoss203]

Happy that she was able to have the ability to be a single mom and still have “a life” however if you are working full time and don’t have many people that you can rely on to take care of your baby this is sadly not true. I’m struggling just to survive each and everyday. I wish I had the ability to go out and do something/anything for myself but that’s just not reality for some..especially if you live in Austin area. I’m all for being positive but false hope can sometimes be more hurtful. God bless

[@clarkandmama4894]

Wow this was a video I didn't know I needed to watch. It is so inspiring! I love that you're embracing the single mama life. I really feel that children need to be around motivated, independent, and confident women to teach them and show them anything is possible.

[@princeandrewprivate5515]

Hello, season Greetings from from prince Andrew Edward, hope you are doing great ?

[@Officialgaby180]

We definitely need more single mom videos. At times it gets really lonely and it’s exhausting. I’m also a single mom but of 3 boys. I wish you a lot of success!

[@damienhartley1163]

@Gaby 180: Almost every woman I know is a single mom.

[@Officialgaby180]

@@damienhartley1163 yes, there are plenty, but there are also many women without children because they either don’t want children or are afraid they will have to raise a kid alone.

[@Officialgaby180]

@@brandon556 I’m good! Thank you!

[@jangolub8240]

We definitely need more single mothers its good for the kids

[@El-Zorro]

@@jangolub8240 You are being sarcastic right?

[@faithselflove1016]

I’m soo happy I found your channel. I’m a single mum and raising my now 3 year old daughter since she was 5 weeks old. Sometimes you feel soo alone when no one gets what your going through. Some things I do disagree though something as simple as the gym if you are working full time and a single mum in Melbourne Australia anyway the gyms only offer childcare during the week, I just can’t go. Soo we do have some things that we can’t do compared to those with husbands. I obviously work out at home but things such as buying a home which I’m doing now are still harder and a longer process than someone married. It’s just how it is unfortunately, I still look at it as a positive that I can buy a home on my own it’s just harder that’s all

[@sophiajenesys7767]

This is such a great video! Thank you so much for sharing ❤️❤️❤️

[@Rosiesworld424]

I’ve been divorced 3 1/2 years now and with two beautiful girls. I’ve definitely come A LONG way, but I purposely searched for this type of video to continue to push forward. I definitely can relate to this! THANK YOU FOR ALL THIS RICH INFORMATION AND MOTIVATION! Definitely subscribed!

[@bryanjason8319]

Hello how are you doing hope you're safe?

[@elizabethchurch9720]

Girl! Your single mom game is goals for me!! Love y'all!! Hey Sydney!! Auntie Beth loves you!!

[@TresChicMama]

Awww well just human over here but trying hard 💪💗

[@danielleb724]

I’m not a single mom but I love your mindset and positivity. Your content has been above and beyond lately!

[@TresChicMama]

Thank you so much!!!!

[@totalliferelax]

Wow! I loved this so much. You really gave some good solid advice to all the moms out there and even if you're not a mom, these tips were great. Thanks.

[@christienagel9605]

This is the first time I've ever seen one of your video's. Thank you for sharing you story & wisdom with all of us! .. xo

[@achristine2195]

Definitely want to see a video on how you budget/ finance.

[@princeandrewprivate5515]

Hello, season Greetings from from prince Andrew Edward, hope you are doing great ?

[@mombehavingdadly5800]

Single moms need to stick together ❤️

[@claireveesays]

This is great advice for a mom-to-be, thanks!! I'm saving this video.

[@DanielleSerrano]

This video is everything!!! My husband works mostly 16hr days, I’m on my own with my 1 & 3yr old and I’m constantly doing everything alone. When I accomplish something I just keep realizing how much more I can handle and do on my own without waiting for him or relying on him. Thank you so much for opening my eyes even wider!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@mr.hustleakamike2734]

Lol women want a high value man then are like ur not home enough .😂😂

[@DanielleSerrano]

@@mr.hustleakamike2734 balance, we just want balance. Time with family is far more valuable than any amount of money to be made. Living modestly and having family time is truly living RICH. That’s a high value man.

[@mr.hustleakamike2734]

@@DanielleSerrano lol 😂 just I believe ur a old ball out in this situation. Have u met the rest of the women out here high value man this that he must make this much much . 😂lol

[@mr.hustleakamike2734]

And lot of them will follow y’all to single mothers

[@vc8160]

First rule of being a single mum.....make sure you are the best of yourself. Being gorgeous also helps! Have some fun. Date lots and realise what a normal relationship should look like. Don’t settle for second best. Don’t be lured by money. Get yourself in tip top condition and look hot!

[@techrace9438]

Cheeta

[@lifewithana]

I’m not a single parent but I absolutely love how positive you are and your vibe just radiates! 💞 I totally relate tho in the stop limiting yourself I’m a stay at home mom and my husband is in the military so it was easy for me to always say I can’t do that I have no help, I have no family, I’m always alone with my kids ... but I’m so happy I’m over that mentality 😊

[@TresChicMama]

Oh absolutely girl! Everyone deals with different circumstances in life & challenges! You’ve got this 💪💗

[@WhattheFatisHappening]

You're so amazing, Hayley. Even in your darkest time you had the motivation to continue with your KZbin channel! That was just amazing, still is.

[@TresChicMama]

Thank you for always be here girl!! 🙏❤️

[@princeandrewprivate5515]

Hello, season Greetings from from prince Andrew Edward, hope you are doing great ?

[@spreadyourvoice3843]

Thank you so much for sharing your true story with no filters. Very inspirational

[@fanessfirstplace70]

Im a Mommy of 6-and totally agree w/you...Just sitting in living room watching Tv in peace and quiet is enough for me-just to get some me time just for a couple of minutes daily-lol....I care for 6 kiddo's by myself daily-and love every bit of it..This is what I say-"SAME ROUTINE AND STRUCTURE" is key to be successful for day to day w/ thee amount of kiddo's I have....I actually do my daily duties daily while everything else that comes with it....I just put aside some me time just 1 month ago in a whole 18 years-lol...But my me time is just going to wash my face and brush my teeth by myself-lol...Taking a shower in bathroom just by myself-is perfect for me...But sometimes it doesnt work out that way...Just subscribed 2 ur chnnl-Take care...

[@tessarion6984]

Thank you for advice and motivation! I became a single mom just yesterday and really needed to hear that! 🥺

[@TresChicMama]

Hugs mama ❤️❤️🙏

[@kamiking822]

I loved your take on traveling with your kids. After seeing your video, I decided that my son and I would go on a vacation together. We had the best time EVER!!!!!!! I encourage every single mom to take vacations with her kiddos. Now I am planning for next year an international trip. Thanks for the encouragement!!!!!

[@TresChicMama]

Oh my gosh I’m so proud of you!!! How amazing for the both of you!! ❤️💪👏👏👏

[@ghostgirl2846]

Sending love & light to any & all single parents!💖🖤

[@hillcountryhands6604]

Another great video! ❤️ I’m not a single mom but still really enjoyed it! Love your positivity ❤️ I’d love to see a video on how you provide financially for your family!

[@TresChicMama]

😄 I would love to share

[@iamchristinaleann3564]

Thank you for this video! I appreciate the honesty. Im so scared I will fail my child. I just found out yesterday Im pregnant and decided im having my baby. I plan to tell the dad and even if we dont make it as a couple I will raise this baby by myself. I thank God im not young but im still on my own. This helped me realize I can do anything. I plan to work and go back to school online for extra money. Idk how the whole child care is gonna work but ill figure it out. Idk how im going to date as a single mom but just bc I have a child doesnt mean im going to stop looking for love. Itll be me, my baby, and my puppy 🐶❤️ #Ijustaskgodhelpthruitall.

[@iamchristinaleann3564]

Unfortunately, I miscarried a week after I found out I was pregnant. This has been rough seeing single moms and babies all over KZbin. Its been extremely painful my coworker is pregnant and thriving. I feel like God has giving up on me.

[@bibleversesandhealing]

I am getting separated from my partner, and we have a toddler too. Thank you for this video. I never thought that we would end up this way… but I will be fine. God is my rock.

[@ieshallure]

Same situation.. how has it been for you so far?

[@bailaartista1787]

Thank you so much for this! I can’t tell you how much I’ve been struggling and by watching your video, I’m determined to work on my growth mindset. Enjoy my 4 year old and make the best of it. I can’t wait to watch more of your videos!

[@kristinayoung6535]

You're such a good person and I do get sad that I don't have anyone or family. Or even friends but you keep me going. Love your videos! Thank you for them. I'm 27 and feel like I'm old and no guy would want me and the twins but I gotta remember I'm not that old and to love me and my kids. I've stopped searching for love though too. I want to love on myself fully. Thank you again. You give me hope inspiration.

[@gissellchapman4301]

I feel your pain I have twins also single mom no family but we got this someway somehow we will make it your not alone you have a virtual friend here ✋💗

[@TresChicMama]

Don’t ever think that way! Just look at what you have to offer! You’re meant to be someone will surprise you ❤️

[@elenaskruba7009]

I found out my friend is pregnant and is going to be a single mom today sees been In a toxic relationship and he told her to get an abortion but she decided to keep her child, so in a couple months me her and my family are going to Rais this baby together and support her in any way❤️

[@AthenaF-kingShow]

Literally sounded like u were explaining what happened to me. I hope she is doing well! Hugssss🤗

[@requelcurtis3830]

How is it going? 🥺 I’m going through that right now but debating on keeping the baby and being a single mama or listen to the dad who straight up said get a abortion because he won’t be there..

[@vanessamerie906]

@@requelcurtis3830 do what you think is best for you. I’m struggling with those feelings as well. However we have two previous kids. This would be his third. We separated last week. I know an abortion would be the best bet for me. But I’m scared, my family and friends are very supportive so I might keep the baby idk. If you need to talk I’m here 🥺

[@candyluna2929]

@@vanessamerie906 ¹ Have you considered the mental repercussions of an abortion???? It's not easy on the body and mentally it can duck you up long term. Abortion advocates don't discuss this. Have your child, you won't regret it. It won't be easy but life itself isn't easy

[@Polopony20.]

@@candyluna2929 the mental repercussions of abortion are short term compared to having to support a child for 18 (more realistically 21-25) years. Therapy can help with the " mental repercussions" of abortion, it cant put food on the table or a roof over your head. If you cant raise a baby on the finances you have, get an abortion.

[@christieblack9047]

Thankyou! Full time Single mum of a 3 yr old girl and this video was exactly what I needed! I feel supported and inspired by you xxxx

[@TresChicMama]

❤️💪🙏🙏

[@missgallen6183]

I am a single mom as well and was in a toxic relationship, I relate so much to your story 😩😭You have no idea how much I needed to hear this Thank you so much 🙏🏽

[@missgallen6183]

@@ruthchill2058 thanks ? 😕

[@missgallen6183]

@@brandon556 thank you 🙏🏽 how are you ?

[@zebraattastiic]

You are such a beautiful soul and an inspiration. I am now in my 50s, but I became a single mom in my late 30s as the result of a divorce and getting out of a toxic marriage. I have been happily remarried but still appreciated your heartfelt advice. I love following you and Sydney on your journey. God bless you both!

[@TresChicMama]

I love hearing success stories & how truly not alone we are in this journey ❤️🙌

[@princeandrewprivate5515]

Hello, season Greetings from from prince Andrew Edward, hope you are doing great ?

[@angelascott8173]

I was a single parent of 5. Much easier than when I was married. Been divorced 20 years now. One or 2 children is definately easier though.

[@kamiking822]

I love this! First video I have seen like this. Thank you! Pretty inspiring!!!

[@melodyventrescagmail9098]

We are currently hiring, it’s a work from home for single mothers in the US. Emai l me for more information. .

[@ismarypedraza7422]

Omg! Thank you for this video!!! I recently became a single mom and i been trying to stay positive. My baby is 4 months old and i am so tier, depressed, overwhelm and looking for ways to increase income from different sources but also be with my baby and not miss this time with him. I needed this. 🙏🏼♥️

[@melodyventrescagmail9098]

We are currently hiring, it’s a work from home for single mothers in the US. Emai l me for more information.

[@nellypraise4165]

I'm 21 years old with two kids I and I just become a single mom it's so had for me 💔😢😢💔

[@jangolub8240]

What happened?

[@El-Zorro]

At least you are being truthful. I commend you for that.

[@joannebaum5169]

This is everything I needed right now.. been looking for motivation and inspiration to get through this, my son is 6 months and his dad has left- no clue how much he’ll be around but the past week has just been me trying to figure everything out. Thank you so much ❤

[@Thecraftyblacksheep]

OMG this video speaks to me. Been single since I was4 months pregnant. Baby turns 1 this month. I’m finding my way. It’s slow but I have already changed so much. I went from having no direction to learning two new crafts and getting ready to launch my own website any Etsy shop. I have to make this succeed so I can take care of my daughter and I. I don’t want to be in a relationship right now. My parents keep trying to encourage me too; but I’m not ready yet. I’m so much happier now than I was with my ex. And I’m more tired than I’ve ever been in my life.

[@beingmimi1717]

Thank you I needed to hear this I was tearing up as I was leaving a session with my daughters autism teacher and was feeling overwhelmed and alone. But this really spoke to me

[@salehmohamed6906]

You are not alone you are so beautiful and we are all with you🌹

[@armchaireconomist8648]

Word to the wise, if you lay down with dogs you are going to get fleas.

[@crystalbice9840]

Thank you so much for this video as a single mom I needed to hear this. You are inspiring🙂

[@stevearnolrd2732]

Hi pretty

[@malslife17]

not a single mom but I do a lot of stuff only me and Daughter 'cuz hubby can't take off from work most of time. Vaccation, going anywhere not a problem. I love it. So proud of you how you explained everything and helped anyone that needs to hear this. Single Moms Rock.

[@TresChicMama]

That’s awesome 👏👏👏 Not letting anything stop you from having fun!

[@dreamer2047]

LOVE this video❤️ needed to hear this.

[@princeandrewprivate5515]

Hello, season Greetings from from prince Andrew Edward, hope you are doing great ?

[@hanzbrixx6672]

Dating a single mother is like showing up late to the party. Everybody went home. The fun is over and you are expected to clean up.

[@demararagal]

No one is asking you to join that party. There are men out there that would happily embrace a ready made family.

[@sonjagalyon-kamonika]

So sad you feel that way

[@mrsilverblack5291]

MEN NEVER EVER DATE SINGLE MOTHERS!!!

[@jangolub8240]

@Abby Castle yes, simps and betas

[@El-Zorro]

@Abby Castle Why should any man that has his life together date someone who is looking for help and a retirement plan?

[@El-Zorro]

@Abby Castle "MY FORMER STEPDAD". Hmmmm.....That statement speaks volumes. How come he is your "FORMER STEPDAD"? Did your mom leave? Is he still alive? That statement makes me think that the poor man was used and abused until someone found a better deal and bounced. What happened Abby Castle? 🤔

[@El-Zorro]

@Abby Castle Why are you yelling Abby Castle? Are you ok Abby Castle? Do you need a hug Abby Castle? Why so much anger Abby Castle? Let me know Abby Castle. I'm here for you 😘😘😘.

[@El-Zorro]

@Abby Castle Didn't she know that he had a drinking problem? Then she left him because "HE WENT TO PRISON FOR THE SECOND TIME FOR DRINKING and DRIVING". Either he developed a drinking habit during the marriage or she already knew about it and decided to try and change him. Did she drive him to drink? Is she the type of woman to nag? Things are not adding up. Also, maybe she knew about it and decided to overlook it since he had his life together. What went down Abby Castle?🤔

[@alyonadavies7480]

This is my 2nd time watching this video 😘😍 Love You. You are amazing.

[@maneesha77]

I like your videos especially because am so proud of how you are handling things alone and how much time you spend with Sydney. You are truly an inspiration to everyone.

[@TresChicMama]

Aww thank you so much!! And you all inspire me daily as well ❤️

[@princeandrewprivate5515]

Season greetings from THE DUKE OF YORK .