MY SISTER - being learning disabled and getting on with it

[@KickThePj]

this was amazing, bertie.

[@BertieGilbert1]

KickThePj

[@pewdiepiephan9159]

KickThePj Hi Pj 👋👋👋😊😊😊❤

[@ginaplaysstuff3738]

KickThePj a

[@marksuckinbgber6792]

it's so nice to see the creativity as well as happiness you both share. love both of your work

[@brenna2923]

KickThePj hey m8

[@vlogbrothers]

Unflinching, honest, and beautifully made. Thanks, Gene and Bertie! -John

[@BertieGilbert1]

John, thank you so much for stopping by! This was such a pleasant surprise. Glad you took something from it x

[@scoutolivera1811]

IT'S JOHN! HI JOHN!

[@JackHoward]

lovely

[@BertieGilbert1]

fanku jak

[@soliloquent-stark]

fancy seeing you here x

[@shimshimi1]

fanku seys brty

[@senza4591]

Of course it is. Everyone in the video is so wholesome.

[@DanLayton]

SO so lovely and wonderful and how excellently brilliant for Gene.

[@PinkButterfly2662]

"weed is not that dangerous" I'm sold I love her

[@elliottsalibi]

" Being homophobic , delete that." I love her sm

[@TimH]

lovely mate :) great video

[@geeblocks3981]

That mother is wise af

[@BethPowell776]

The best thing I've seen on KZbin in a long time , you are in the purest form a KZbinr seeking change with the best intentions and that puts a smile on so many people's faces!

[@4sealsinacoat697]

When she said "homophobic" I believe the word she was looking for was ableist, which is when people discriminate against people with disabilities.

[@greysonkieffer4130]

this family is such a powerhouse in terms of creativity and perseverance. best wishes to you all & your futures are all bright.

[@SuperSamStuff]

Sensitive and put together with so much care. Really sweet stuff, man. Got me emotional

[@marikadyrc2657]

Im happy you didn't cut out the parts when she was trying to find a good answer and struggled a bit. You can see that she tries really hard to answer the questions correctly, she's very smart despite her learning disabilities. Also she looks just like you !! Amaizng video kisses!

[@marikadyrc2657]

Also i wish her soooo much success when she's at her own!!

[@ellapinto3199]

EverythingMarika ik she's so beautiful as well !!

[@littlemissoptimism]

Yes Bertie "can we do a little bit more"?

[@meowmeowzer5288]

I would watch a full length documentary with this woman talking. she is so funny and just pleasant

[@moltodolce7071]

me too! pls bertie

[@zXJulianXz]

Beauty is an overused word. I like to think that beautiful things are rare in this world. Your family is beautiful Bertie. Your sister is beautiful. The sentiment is beautiful.

[@nekomei2640]

I wouldn’t say beauty is overused or rare so to speak but this is a beautiful demonstration of genuine sentiment

[@mc.gemstone]

In some ways beauty can come in unique interesting ways. That can be seen differently by other people. We all find something that's beautiful to us.

[@couchandbedarecompy]

aah. as the sister of a disabled brother this is so, so wonderful to see. and such a refreshing difference from all those other films that focus on "oh it's so hard, look at us cry " (which obviously are important as well). thank you for this.

[@Notesofcitrus]

I was absolutely overcome with emotion when she said "my future is bright now". This was very lovely and well done. You rock, Gene.

[@sarcasticelephant9866]

this is such a beautiful video its nice to see a positive perspective on people with learning disabilities and how wonderful they are. i showed my brother who has autism this and he seemed to really like it. (he said he liked that your sister got the chance to tell her perspective instead of just your mother since he noticed a lot of other videos who discuss mental health usually only have the parents speak about it.)

[@floralspectre]

Sarcastic Elephant That's so awesome!!

[@sarcasticelephant9866]

that's a perfect way of explaining it. thank you for adding that cause it gives some clarity to what my brother was trying to express.

[@ShortneysLife]

Gene don't forget to get some nice plants for your new place. It'll make it feel all the more welcoming!

[@layla8549]

can't get over how similar you look

[@Starasmr2323]

she has the best smile I've ever seen

[@ethanisaac01]

I'm crying this video really hit home. I know a girl who's about two/three years younger than me who has the same learning disability as Gene and last week I witnessed her being taunted because of it. My immediate reaction was to go over and tell the bullies to go away and leave her alone. After about 5 minutes arguing with the bullies, I turned to her and hugged her as she cried into my shoulder; it was the third time they had bullied her that day and it was only 11:25 am. Today was our last day before Easter and as we left school she ran up to me excited because she had been told she was able to have her first sleepover at a friends house; after i got home I broke down in tears because she sees me as one of the good people in the world but we may never see each other again as I start sixth form in September. It's so refreshing to see learning disabilities shown in a positive light and I'm so proud of Gene for making such a big change! i'm aware this is a long comment, but it needed to be said.

[@beejames437]

You're a beautiful person 👌 stay that way

[@ethanisaac01]

thanks I just hope she's going to be able to manage when I've left. Even some of my "friends" complain about her but I guess they don't really care for other peoples problems...

[@ethanisaac01]

don't, you're gonna make me cry again I'll try my hardest

[@bryrk]

You're one of the people the world needs more of

[@ethanisaac01]

Byrony The Overthinking Pigeon thanks so much this is so cute, many of my teachers have said that after they found out what I did for her

[@melodrmva]

she seems like a lovely person, and you are one too bertie xx

[@unclecordy1520]

dodieatthedisco i see u everywhere wtf

[@melodrmva]

uncle cordy dude idk 2 other people have told me that in the past and im kind of creeping myself out at this point

[@meganpalmer6945]

what a wonderful woman Gene is, as someone with a disabled brother, this is so lovely to see. we also have a Tom test, anyone who is awkward around him because of his disability we do not like. he's just a person, all you have to do is talk to him but some people can't see that and just choose to ignore him, gene has probably experienced the same again, such a lovely video and so glad to see disability represented in an honest way ❤

[@bryrk]

I absolutely despise the discrimination against people with disabilities. Just because they don't act, talk, move, or look the same as people, doesn't make them any less human than anybody else. I hate when people deliberately ignore disabled people, and if I ever see that happen I make an effort to talk to the person with disabilities so that they know the world isn't all like that. Give your brother love from me :)

[@bryrk]

[@sophiem2639]

I have a disabled brother as well and we too have a Mike Test, it's crazy that these tests develop in other families

Loved this so much

[@raylyttle2952]

Your whole family is so well spoken! Even when she couldn't find the right word to fit a concept, Genevieve was very collected and admitted fault, which most politicians couldn't do. I hope we get to see more for her and your mum in future vids, they were both so lovely. Congrats on the upcoming move, by the way. Sounds like it will be a great adventure. Best wishes to all of you Gilberts, love from Canada.

[@BeckahMhmm]

My older sister is also learning disabled and has now reached the stage where she too would like to have a go at living more independently, after witnessing me live more independently at university. This video has reassured me that this is a process many families go through, and has eased some of the worry. A truly beautiful piece of work has been made here. Thank you!

[@hannah-lw7qj]

this is so brill. genes brill. your mums brill. you're brill.

[@pegjenkins6077]

a beautiful intelligent young woman. best wishes for the future gene x

[@isabellanebs22]

you both have the same fire in your eyes, bursting with creativity and intelligence. like you're aware of it all, like you've been through things. I see in your mum too. you're all such kindred spirits. such a lovely video with a lovely message.

[@gourmet2276]

8A Katrina Schouby RudsVedbySkole for gene likes mean more awareness for those that have learning difficulties.

[@gourmet2276]

8A Katrina Schouby RudsVedbySkole it's not like yes it does bring attention but it's awareness.people with learning disabilities are often sidelined and that's not right.

[@catrostu]

I'm sitting here with tears in my eyes, I didn't expect it to hit me that hard. It's like you told the story of me and my twin brother. He struggled a lot, always. He began thinking about suicide 5 years ago and got so violent, even to my mom. We were helpless. On the worst day of our lives we had to call the police and they brought him to the hospital. After months there he could go back home and now after two years being at home he is now in a supported house and happy there. Two years ago I never would have thought that it will ever be possible.

[@SophieNewt]

Bertie this is beautiful and so is Gene, my heart felt so full hearing she is going to begin a whole new journey of independence, something I wish my brother may one day experience too. Congratulations Gene, you are an incredible woman! x

[@rosevelasquez9110]

The term for the systematic oppression of those with a disability is "Ableist". Great video, Bert, as always. Gene, it's so nice to meet you, thank you for sharing your life with us xx

[@tgwthfy]

"Homophobic against people with learning difficulties" is something i would say completely unironically haha, I'd love to have a chat with Genevieve, she seems super nice and funny!

[@claudiarose8293]

One of my oldest friends has a learning disability and as a kid I would get so confused when people would talk about her or make fun of her because to me she was and is just a person. A person who loves My Little Pony and Halloween, loves to tell stories, has the most beautiful blue eyes and wouldn't hurt a fly. So I liked this quite a lot, Bertie. Thank you.

[@colemines7735]

Gene seems to have an amazing stance on morals, she looks like she has an awesome mind and I really really wish her the best, it was a nice video Bertie

[@emmajditto]

i appreciate this a lot. I know it is not the same, but both my parents are deaf and so growing up with people with disabilities in a family is a topic not widely discussed, but it definitely should be spoken about more, as it effects many people. Thank you for this.xx

[@rosascheffer89]

This made me tear up. Reminds me of my brother and sister. Learning disability or not, as a big sister (or brother in your case) you always want the best for them. Loved this!

[@RachelShauna]

My older brother also has learning difficulties and is 22 and I just wanted to say that this was such a beautiful video you made for your beautiful sister. I just watched this with my mom and we were both crying and laughing by the end. Your sister has such a colorful vibrant personality and I wish her the best of luck with moving into her new home. I hope she makes lots of friends and positive memories. Also I just wanted to congratulate your 'mum' (as you brits say) on raising such lovely children.

[@kieraobi5699]

This is a beautiful video. You guys look so alike!

[@mo6305]

Except Gene's not ugly. (sorry Bertie)

[@saltyfroots9]

this was lovely😊I have a relative with learning difficulties, she lived at home until she was 23 and really struggled to leave the house unassisted. she went into supported living and started to become more independent, she learned how to do basic tasks like washing clothes, ironing, cooking etc. She moved out of one supported living house into another due to an incident with another resident and her second place was where she really came into her own! I remember seeing her after several months of her living there and I couldn't believe the amount of confidence she had gained, she was traveling to and from town on her own, doing the weekly shop for her house with little supervision, she learnt an easy way to manage her money and she was just so happy to have so much independence. she moved into her own place last year at 29 and she's doing really well! supported living works wonders for people with mental health issues and disabilities, hopefully your sister has as much success with is as my relative has☺️ (I call her my relative because she's my dads cousins daughter so I have no idea what family title she would have in terms of cousins etc😂)

[@samferguson188]

I don't cry much. This made me cry. It takes so much love and understanding to live with people with learning difficulties, such as my father who grew up in such a time where it was not accepted well by most. He grew up with those around him pushing him aside but has learnt to surround himself by people with love and understanding. It's not much of an overstatement to say that Bertie has become a large part of my life as someone to relate with and I treasure him even more dearly now he's made this wonderful video. Thing like this are hard to talk about and I am so glad that you have done it the way you did ( even if I didn't put it the best way). This kinda thing will make a difference and it's important that Bertie knows that. Thanks for being there in so many ways, Sam

[@solidghost2625]

such a loving family. such a lovely family.

[@sophiejouvenaar]

bertie this was excellent and you're all very brave for making this. gene seems like a bright and brilliant young lady and my heart feels like it's glowing after watching! her energy is so lovely and positive; it's infectious. all my love to you guys x

[@martywhite7353]

She’s so cute, I don’t understand why people would judge someone so beautiful inside and out for difficulties she can’t control x

[@gemmagates]

Really really lovely video Bertie- my love to the three of you x

[@cb-wi1cq]

What's amazing is she's 22 in this. I'm 22 and living at home again because of my depression. She's so sweet and driven, she gives me hope. I know her struggle is different, but i empathize a lot.

[@SandySnapperoftheSea]

You can just see the love pouring out of their hearts for each other

[@annabelledionisio7018]

I wish that Bertie would make a full length documentary like this. Gene is a gem and I love her already

[@ClariceCua]

This is just so beautiful bertie thank you for sharing

[@charlottesweb5102]

It's so heartwarming to see Gene so successfully taking these steps towards her independence; I could have watched this for hours and hours. Congratulations Gene, you wonderful lady! x

[@GilesRafol]

It's always exciting, and nerve-wracking, to move out and try to make it without (or with less support from) your parents. I wish your sister the best!

[@sarahng5191]

I come back to this once in a while. It's really encouraging and hopeful

[@penguinsjd]

this is such an important video!! thank you for making this

[@adly3974]

So important.

[@carolanefrezin]

The smile on Bertie's face when Gene asks "can we do a little bit more" now that's an amazing brother!! Beautiful video, sending lots of love to all of you xxx

[@peterwalker6475]

This was so nice. What a great brother she has!

[@claire5453]

C'est un rayon de soleil!

[@annaw9687]

A lovely and interesting video, I can't get over how alike you look!

[@ryleeburnand9776]

The bit where you talk about her living in a support home is heartwarming. Genevive is so wise beyond most. Great work on this insight doc.

[@taylorhebert25]

No judgment Genevieve ;) I hope everything works out for you and keep up the good work. Always remember that not one person is perfect. We all have struggle and make mistakes but what matters is that we are kind to each other and always do our best. You seem to be very kind and thoughtful which makes me very happy. Wishing you the best!

[@TheTiffoh]

Gen, you are an absolute doll! It was a pleasure to learn more about you. Best of luck in your new adventures! :)

[@joan5212]

Your sister is such a lovely woman and your mum seems so strong and amazing. It's so interesting seeing into different peoples lives and this was so eye opening. thanks for making it

[@adly3974]

Her Mum is great. Always loved seeing her in early Bertie vlogs.

[@Bullring1]

My oldest sister grew up with a lot of learning difficulties. She now lives on her own. Your sister reminds me a lot of her. This was lovely, mate.

[@AnaLuiza-pi1tu]

This was lovely. I hope your sister's new home makes her feel happier and that her future always feels brighter and brighter. Thank her for sharing her story with us

[@caitlinkenyon3896]

This was absolutely beautiful. My brother has asperger's syndrome and he was definitely treated differently as a child. Our public school system treated him as an outcast, he was bullied relentlessly, even his doctors told my parents he would probably end up in a home. Instead of believing that garbage, my parents fought back and treated him like a fully capable human and now most people that meet him don't even know he has asperger's. He is kind, loving, and smart as hell. I am so happy with the change and growth our society has experienced in the last 20 years alone towards those who are a little different. Congrats to your sister and thank you for shining such a beautiful light on such an important conversation.

[@ayeeclaire]

Congrats to Gene for making steps towards her independent life! xx

[@lowqualitysleep]

"No, no, you didn't force me. ...There comes a time where you have to go for it, and I'm ready now." I love this and now I'm crying a lot, from that part and the last bit where you ask Genevieve (I can only hope that her name's spelled correctly) if she enjoyed being filled and she responds so brightly and bubbly, "Yes, I have. Can we do it a little bit more?" You both are just so lovely and this video was just so sweet.

[@averlinda5]

This is such a touching piece, gene you are an inspiration to me

[@anniepemble5840]

Gene is so lovely and it is so admirable seeing someone not being held back by a learning disability because at the end of the day, our weaknesses or disabilities don't define us. Also your family are so supportive , Bertie. This was so lovely x😘

[@SnowVlogger]

I have a very borderline learning disability, which means I perform just under my peers. I'm just as smart as them, and I'm just as mature as them, I just learn differently. Since I didn't meet many criteria for programs that could help me, there was very little help I could get. I went through hours and hours of testing to diagnose, only to hear that yes, I could benefit from help, but there were very few ways I could get it. So, I became unmotivated, and ended up pretty much a high school drop out. I'm still trying my best to finish so I can qualify for the programs that will get me to my future, but it's so hard. I'm so so glad that Gene got the help she needed. It makes my soul happy to know that this will raise awareness for learning differences. I'm hoping to adopt in the future, and adopt kids with learning disabilities. Because I know what I needed to succeed and I want to give them that. Thanks for doing this Bertie, you're really doing a good thing here.

[@milliejane810]

Snow Vlogger it sounds like you're doing great! stay strong, and remember that we're here for you!

[@dot_frost]

you will get what and where you want. you will make it! :3

[@ellatron]

just take everything at your own pace, you'll achieve everything you want to achieve :-)

[@elliemarsh6467]

This was so nice to watch. My little brother has special needs and I couldn't love him more or be more proud of him. It's so lovely to see a person with learning difficulties being portrayed​ as the lovable, complex human that they are, and not the burden that society assumes they must be.

[@TheEmmawo]

I love her personality so much

[@georgiamalfoy8497]

I hope gene knows there's a whole army of us who stand behind and love her because she's an incredible gal x

[@mollymars6273]

Gene is clearly a very intelligent woman and I send all my well wishes to her. I can see her doing great things in the future. X

[@Emily-rx2zt]

Her enthusiasm for unicorns made me smile so much, she seems like a real sweetie! Her and Bertie look so similar too 😊

[@rachelbintley9136]

Beautiful.

[@adly3974]

No other way to describe it. Their smiles male me feel good.

[@dfri1985]

I rarely ever say that a video has blown my socks off but, Bertie, this video did. This is a breath of fresh air. Really proud of you, Gene, and your mum. You're all so strong and powerful and such a lovely family. Adopt me!

[@StephenLeGresley]

Your sister should be very proud Bertie, I run an advocacy group for the disabled and we try to fight for better help and benefits for the disabled community. Your sister is extremely brave and she's truly an amazing person. People with disabilities are among the most misunderstood groups of people in society. People often ignored those with conditions that aren't visible like Fibromyalgia or conditions that are mental in nature such as crippling depression. And whenever a person with a disability finds an avenue to success, people assume its easy for them or that every disabled person should be able to do the same when nothing could be farther from the truth. Most countries give next to no assistance at all for disabled people to obtain higher education or assistance in the workplace. And then complain when many disabled people have to obtain some form of social assistance in order to get by in life. So if the story of Bertie's sister does move you then I would suggest trying to make an effort to get to know disabled people around you and expand your knowledge of what life is like for them and see that they are brilliant people who can use friends and understanding and you'll make more of a difference then you can imagine. Love to Bertie and his courageous sister Gene. :)

[@milamochel930]

this is something you don't click away from, you watch it and then you see how beautifully put together this is. With care and heart filmed and portrayed without misleading or to much editing. lovely work

[@SianEloise]

This is beautiful Bertie, I really appreciate you making this video, it brought a tear to my eye. My older sister is 20 and she has learning difficulties too, she is more like a younger sister to me. She is actually very unique in the fact that she is the only person in the world with her condition - her condition makes her have the brain age of a 7-8 year old, she also has epilepsy and part of the middle part of her brain is missing. See your family so positive is so beautiful and got me so emotional because it can be hard, it does get really hard, but we can get through it!! Thank you for sharing Genevieve's story ❤❤

[@mumrant1407]

Gene is Bertie's older sister so he has the same 'more like a younger sister' experience.

[@loserchicken69]

Sian Taylor Hey just wanted to say that it's such a coincidence that my sister also has such a condition which makes her think like a 7-8 year old, and she's also 20, and has epilepsy. I know how hard it is sometimes, but all the funny beautiful unique memories our sisters bring us, are all worth it :)

[@SianEloise]

What a coincidence! That is so true, life wouldn't be as exciting or even worth living without her. :)

[@han-mg9eq]

I just wanted to say to you guys that coincidences don't exist; you were meant to find each other on here. I may sound like a crazy lady but there's something really special going on here I can feel it.

[@loserchicken69]

Ah yeees, I agree that it's quite special to find someone that grew up in similar unusual circumstances as yourself. So if you ever wanna talk about life or something like that, Sian, I'm here reachable on the interwebz :>

[@skitlittles]

This is just so lovely. I work with adults with a range of learning disabailities and watching them learn how to be independent by doing small things like ironing their own clothes to going out and getting jobs is amazing. It really gives them and the people around them a sense of pride which is so important.

[@maddiesimmons6783]

This is SO important and so beautifully done!

[@Thatoneboringgirl]

As someone who went to school just so I could help individuals that have learning disabilities; more importantly someone whose brother has severe developmental delays, I am so happy that you are talking about learning disabilities and mental illness. It is very nice to see people talking about overcoming the struggles that come along with having a learning disability.

[@18Torsha]

It's such a positive video 💗

[@adly3974]

Incredibly positive!

[@adly3974]

Incredibly positive!

[@bubble992]

When a family member with a disability moves out, it's a really big change for everyone. My brother moved away to a college for learning life skills when he was sixteen, and then moved into assisted living and now lives in independent living. It was tough, but ultimately worth it - he loves having his own place. My boss also has a disabled brother, and he never talks about him, which I find very worrying. It's great to see you openly showing your relationship with your sister to your online audience. Also great to hear her story in her own words.

[@applejuice8251]

I don't know what to comment this just seems nice

[@adly3974]

I struggled with what to say. I was just very grateful and smiles a lot.

[@toritemple9585]

We would never judge you Gene! We adore you, you're so beautiful inside and out. ❤ Why am I crying aaagghhhhh

[@ItsElliotGough]

A lot of love to you and your family Bertie

[@todroyas692]

This sounds even nicer when you read it in Elliot's accent.

[@madmaddycraftstutorials]

Agreed

[@Forevermore9999]

I've only seen such a small snippet of who gene is, but I can already tell she's such a strong and inspiring person. I hope she thrives in her new home and I know her future will be bright. beautiful, beautiful video

[@graceplatt9313]

Her laugh and smile are beautiful ah !!

[@maggieissecretlyaunicorn]

this is beautiful. coming from someone who's older brother has a rare form of epilepsy, this is a wonderful display of how though people may have disabilities, they are still a distinct, beautiful individual. thanks for spreading such important messages like these, bertie.

[@georgiajones769]

about how bloody lovely is your sister!!

[@Ed-fr7mw]

It makes me so sad that some people can't see past someone's learning difficulties or mental health issues, but hopefully, this film will break people's stereotypes. This is really a wonderful film Bertie.

[@Nanancay]

I love this and I feel like the cinematography and just the way you filmed this and framed it (rule of thirds m8) IS BEAUTIFUL This is so good, it's laid out so well. Dude I respect you and your love for your family, and how you show them. Your sis looks like a great person, I don't see any distinction between her replies and people's replies without a learning disability expect it's a little slower - she seems like a cool gal.

[@daisyseager7580]

she's beautiful, and so intelligent and thoughtful too. the world definitely needs more people like Gene.

[@thisisaudwy]

This video just hits so close to home ! My older brother is an autistic person and for the longest time my family didn't know what to do to make him feel normal, happy and accepted. It's funny your father mentioned the "Gene test" because we have a similar concept in my family. Sadly, very few people still fail to be tolerant towards my brother's disability. But now he's at a special school for musician autistic adults, he's touring with a band, they made a documentary about them and I'm just glad he found a place where he belongs.

[@meeganerose98]

She is such a beautiful intelligent,well spoken young women! Thank you for showing your family and gene, she is magic 💛

[@sopsara]

This is beautifully done, really enjoyed it. Gene and your mum are both such wonderful, strong women. They must be hugely proud of you. Best of luck to Gene with the move.

[@oldsoldier4209]

Thank you for sharing this, Bertie. My wife is also learning disabled, a condition far more common than most people realize. It is good that people are starting to speak more openly and publicly about issues of this nature, and show the beauty that disabled persons bring to our lives, and to the world. You are a lucky man, to have such a wonderful sister.