My Sister Confessed Her Love To My Husband On My Wedding Day r/Relationships

[@nightmarefanatic1819]

Hey dad, you know what is even more inappropriate? A woman constantly throwing herself at a man who is already attached.

[@nathansheldahl]

I’m like Bob and hate it when it happens and can be very rude to get it to stop and proud of it.

[@ladyv5655]

Especially a man who has made his indifference towards her very clear all along.

[@jumpmain]

Yup, and your sister's man in top of that

[@MatildeVallespinCasas]

Some people try to play the "appropriate" card when they think that it would be the outcome they wish or to de escalate an already tense situation with a not well thought and impromptu emotional blackmail

[@Midnight0Mistress]

It is so pathetic for someone to beg and chase after another for their love when it is clearly not reciprocated

[@angelaa7388]

I would classify ripping someone's clothes with the purpose of revealing their underwear in public is sexual assault.

[@YOYOKE64]

She was happy edit videos where others were victims without thought for their feelings , but when she was victim she was horrified by his actions

[@D-M-K-1-2]

Story 1: What's up with these crappy parents enabling terrible behavior and punishing children that did nothing wrong?

[@iononcantomascrivo]

I really don't know. It's a good question. You'd have to ask my parents.

[@nikkid7838]

⁠@@iononcantomascrivoI was coming to say the same 🤣

[@Digitalfairy]

A mix of favoritism and stupidity on the parents' part.

[@sandracox4341]

We don't know what story Jane told the family. She could have told the family that she was dating Jim, and sister stole him.

[@patty-pat-pat]

'it takes a whre to birth a whre' wouldve been my reply to 'mother'.

[@carrieowen5895]

Excuse me Mom...leaving home is whorish behavior but you get a pass on poaching your sis' man??!!

[@erickaennis2738]

Right? Op didn't do anything wrong. Her sister never told her how she felt. Op even said she'd stop being friends with her husband for her. What else was she supposed to do. The mom is awful.

[@GrumpyOldFart2]

Now now now. TRYING to poach her sister’s man. Because not succeeding is sooooo much better behavior. Right? RIGHT?? Aaaaand over here I have a lovely bridge in Brooklyn I’d love to sell you. 😊

[@mbyerly9680]

And sending him trashy pictures of herself.

[@georgeprchal3924]

She should have replied by telling her mom she's a c word.

[@catandrobbyflores]

Sounds like its time to air some dirty laundry on social media.

[@TheVeggiekat]

Story 2: OP was sexually assaulted. Forget getting back together. She should be pressing charges. Her boyfriend and his friends ganged up on her and ripped off her pants.

[@indiashante1560]

That is exactly what I was thinking

[@polarbearhero9803]

Unless those were super cheap jeans they really had to exert a lot of force on her back to rip the pockets off. Bet it hurt afterwards. That was assault.

[@jaymel4691]

Yeah, and then he even blames her becuase- she wasn't wearing panties underneath??? So he really thinks she should have left the house expecting for her significant other who she trusted, and his horrible friends, to rip off her pants in public? Does he even hear himself? This guy is trash and so are his friends! Disgusting. The more of these "prank" stories I hear, the more I hate "pranksters". These people aren't doing pranks, which are supposed to be silly and funny for everyone to laugh at together. They just want an excuse to bully people they claim to care about, and laugh at them when they get understandably upset and angry. So gross! Definitely instant breakup-worthy. And then being 'sorry' after, doesn't matter. He couldn't have spared a thought for her before his horrible "prank"? And he claims he loves her and wants to marry her? No way. Don't take his sorry ass back. If he cared at all, he would never have thought to do any of this in the first place. It would never have even entered his mind- because when you really love someone, the last thing you want to do is hurt them or let anyone else hurt them! Now he's just trying to do damage control. He's scum, get rid of him!

[@thomasjoseph5876]

This story killed the whole video. Why didn't she just tell us what she was going to do??? Why read a story with a "cliffhanger" like that??? That's pretty weak way to fill the ending time on a video.

[@DragonbornMike-ym2er]

​@@thomasjoseph5876trying to cover newer stories is just a part of the industry. And not all posters actually come back to update. People aren't gonna wanna listen to the same story they heard months ago from another channel, with no new info/update.

[@Russman67]

Story 1: I feel horrible for Jim. I'm trying to figure out the mental gymnastics Mom had to do to call OP a whore while Jane is thirsting for Bob. And STILL thirsting for Bob after she's got married. This is like Golden Child 2.0 level.

[@gwdzee]

I was having second thoughts thinking Jane lied to everyone about what was going on, but it doesn't seem to matter. OP put it all together after Bob told her that Jane had started texting him regularly (it sounds like she started up when op announced their engagement) and that she had pursued him and he rejected her. Whe she confronted her sister at home, it was done with their parents present and Jane said OP stole Bob from her and their mother sided with her. Um, your daughter just admitted to lusting after one man while dating another, but it's op's fault somehow? She's the whore? Gotta love them golden child double standards. Jim may deserve better, but it kinda sounds like he's blaming Bob. If he sticks with Jane, it's his own fault from here on out.

[@valeriekhall]

@@gwdzee I mean, I really can't blame Jim for being upset that this had been going on for YEARS, & no one bothered to warn him until *AFTER* he married that [redacted]. They all let him down. He should've been given a heads up the first time she threw herself at Bob at college, while Jim was working to *buy a house* for her.

[@MatildeVallespinCasas]

​​@@valeriekhallone of the reasons why you have to be extremely careful when taking the mask from somebody, specially concerning couples, is this. People don't believe you just because unlike movies and, even if they do, they think you have ulterior motives or just lash at you for being the bearer of bad news. Moreover, this reaction was to be expected. For starters, we don't know what dynamic Jim and Jane have as a couple of what he's been told but for sure he grasps bad blood between them, so, yes, biased or not, he can't help to feel the way he does. The best thing is to tell him and be done

[@holeymcsockpuppet]

Mom looked down on Jim because he's blue collar.

[@nicholerubes2959]

@@holeymcsockpuppet I do not think thats the case as much as they think Jane deserves everything. Abusolutely everything. Even other peoples bfs while dating her bf. I mean even the whole agurement of op stealing the man she wanted? Excuse me, sis? You are still dating someone else. If want someone else you need to end your current relationship first. So he was not even her man. Not even her place to threw a tantraum about it

[@DCBreezy.55]

So it’s cool for all his friends to see her in her underwear but her butt being exposed is an outrage?? How dare she not prepare herself to be pranked after she set a boundary??

[@gostavoadolfos2023]

She us dumb as a rock and she kept defending him on comments section after the update where he asked her back. She is coming back to him and she deserves him as him as a bf.

[@user-wr3vt8uq4s]

@@gostavoadolfos2023 My view is that "pranks" are a red flag for an underlying desire to humiliate. It's another red flag if he's easily swayed by his friends. If they do get married, she's gonna get cake shoved in her face but be surprised that her boundaries are being trodden on. And don't let the sunk cost fallacy of 5 yrs together be a factor. Do you want the rest of your life with this idiocy?

[@littlelavilion9795]

@@gostavoadolfos2023victim blame much? Most people in abusive relationships struggle to leave for a reason. It costs you ZERO DOLLARS to be a little kinder.

[@robinronin]

Story 2: Uhm... He stole her panties without her knowledge? If this is a f-tish, he should discuss it with her and get her consent. Doing it behind her back (for five years!!) is gross and creepy in itself. Yikes. Run.

[@sandracox4341]

I suspect he lied to her about that whole scenario. The prank was already planned (not some last minute thing like he claimed) and he hid her panties as part of the butt reveal prank.

[@WolvenDragonZ]

I had an ex that did that in the hopes that I wouldn't wear underwear if I couldn't find clean ones. Instead, I assumed the washer ate some and kept buying more while constantly washing the ones he hadn't taken. When we broke up, when he accepted it was final, he gave them all back by dumping them on the floor while I wasn't looking. I threw them away. Then some time later he made a comment to someone else while we were in a group about knowing what all my panties looked like and I told them both I threw out everything he had ever seen and got new ones because why would I want them anymore. Cue surprised Pikachu. Jackass

[@hi_stranger9156]

Story 2: You know, even if we took everything the ex said at face value, all this proves is that he's an easily manipulated idiot whose reaction to feeling bad is verbal abuse. Who wants to be with someone like that?

[@tully6648]

Right? According to his story, his friend managed to convince him (seemingly on a whim) to cross the boundary OP had set and that he'd maintained for years. Sure. Sure.

[@aubreymorgan9763]

also, just throwing it out there...hey did a rip clothes to possibly show undies of a non concenting woman. surely this falls under some type of assault or forced exposure.

[@loganjoh1]

The fact he was still downplaying the situation in the update shows he saw nothing wrong with what he did. Even if his friends convinced him to do it OP had already set a clear boundary that she wouldn’t be involved in any of his “pranks” he ignored that anyways and then blamed her for not having panties on that he stole.

[@maggpiprime954]

Exactly this.

[@pabloaranda798]

Then comes gaslighting, the manipulation and so forth op better run to the hills form this one

[@EnDB]

They don't like OP, actively side with Jane, allowed Jane to verbally abuse OP, but don't want her to leave the house. Seriously, who can live like that?

[@khaleesireyna731]

Abusers can't stand to watch their punching bags/scapegoats walk away.

[@Lestaticate]

Story 2: Not even 5 seconds into this story and OP is automatically NTA. Even if OP was wearing underwear, her STBX is still a freaking moron for breaking that ONE FREAKING BOUNDARY. Update: So, he hid the undies and can be easily egged on by his friends. Now he’s dangling marriage in front of OP to drag her back … for the views, I reckon. Don’t stay with this man child.

[@tiawheeler1153]

The OP would be the antagonist to herself if she ultimately chooses to stay with that manipulative manchild. After setting fire to her boundaries and then shaming her for HIS behavior, he decided to come back with the love bombing. Nothing good will come out of her staying with a guy like that.

[@browhattheactualfu-2659]

Personally after what the father said I would never shut up about what the sister did

[@leaflet1686]

Same, I would send it to everyone...

[@haydennoble9253]

Story 2: “Sexual Assault prank on my GF (GONE WRONG)”

[@hi_stranger9156]

Story 1: OP should sent the screenshot to all relatives. Clearly mom and dad is more favoring the golden child.

[@KadeStringer2.0]

It wouldn’t have done anything

[@TheArnaa]

The boyfriend needs to replace the jeans he destroyed. 😡 Do NOT take him back. He’s shown you who he is. Believe him.

[@KadeStringer2.0]

Shut up and people can change

[@aubreymorgan9763]

one of my thoughts too...jeans can be expensive!

[@mythogenesis4788]

He’s VERY lucky she didn’t call the cops on him and his friend. That could have been seen as attempted **** by any rational adult. There’s NO reason to literally tear the clothes off of a woman in public.

[@aubreymorgan9763]

@@mythogenesis4788 yea i said something like that to another comment. It brings a whole extra level of messed up to it. its beyond disrespectful, violent, puts her in danger, mentally damaging, and probably even more i can't think of. it had to have felt so violating physically and mentally for any woman

[@pickle_pup8187]

My thoughts exactly on the jeans - jeans are expensive. Like seriously?! OP needs to RUN!!! He destroyed personal property, stole from her, assaulted her, demeaned her, inconsiderate of her feelings, lied to her and was disrespectful. How many more red flag 🚩 🚩🚩🚩 need to be waving at OP to let her know to 🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️and get the heck out of dodge.

[@momo382844]

Poor Jim’s the rebound. Jane is so foul for doing this to him , to OP (her freaking sister) and to OP’s husband for putting him in an awkward position. The parents are 2nd place AHs! Garbage family! Expose them immediately!

[@kimberlyterasaki4843]

Except Jim and Jane are high school sweethearts so Jane actively tried to cheat on Jim with Bob.

[@hattimounattimou8258]

2nd place AH? nah, first rate AH imo

[@pippo17173]

​@kimberlyterasaki4843 Jim really was so blindly loving a women who only use him for support.

[@MatildeVallespinCasas]

Whatever the relationship, if Jim is even slightly smart and has a little dignity, he would leave Jane but we don't know what dynamic they have or what he's told. It's not as easy to discard feelings you've been nurturing for more than a decade

[@SailorMya]

I think in Jane's eyes she resents Jim for being a loyal boyfriend all these years since if she wasn't "locked down" she might have had a chance with her crush Bob and the fact he is now with her sister cemented that she "had a chance!". She truly thinks if Jim and OP were out of the picture that she would be with Bob by default!

[@loganjoh1]

Story 1: I will never understand golden children it makes no sense at all. Also the dad is a spineless coward for doing whatever his wife wants to include treating one of his children like crap for checks notes getting married to a guy his other child liked even tho she herself is also married.

[@jenniferfoote5442]

I know! I cant comprehend loving either one of my sons more than the other

[@ndawn90]

​@@jenniferfoote5442Thank you for blaming the right party here for the creation of golden children! Yes, many golden children start to internalize the message and act accordingly, and as an adult you should reflect on that relationship and make amends, but they aren't the people who created that problem in the first place. The parent(s) are the ones who create that dynamic, not the children. I think it's also important to remember that being the golden child isn't exactly a good thing for that child. They can be very enmeshed, struggle with boundaries, struggle with codependence, etc. It's a toxic family dynamic for all of the children involved. Blame the parents who are openly favoring one child over another, not the children who don't know any better.

[@sar9998]

Story 2 : am I the ah for breaking up with my bf after he ripped my jeans in public OP : my boyfriend does various types of pranks Mark : ahh here we go again I never laughed so hard in my entire life until now 🤣

[@BruinPhD2009]

It was the only thing funny in an otherwise pathetic story. I just don't get the prank nonsense. This stuff turns out badly more often than not.

[@pippo17173]

Once you hear pranking in a reddit post about AITA and relationship advice, you know it's gonna be just another op realizing their partner is a potential abuser.

[@Ashbrash1998]

Story 2: NoNoNoNo. Break up ASAP. Your bf literally assaulted and exposed you to his friends for laughs. Like who in their right mind does that to a person? Let alone someone they claim to "love". Like how is that even funny? He's sounds more sorry that you're angry and breaking up with him than remorseful. I wouldn't trsuy him as far as I could throw him.

[@sandracox4341]

Plus I think he stole the panties so the prank would bare her butt.

[@-mokerly-5984]

That 'prank' was sexual assault. I hope she can press charges.

[@sukriyagautam8957]

Story 2: OP is the AH to herself being honest. She should go and file SA charges against those guys and her so called bf. Like if someone rips my jeans making me naked and vulnerable they will regret every moment of them knowing me. You dont rip anyones clothes when they say NO

[@Ashbrash1998]

EXACTLY I'm surprised she's even giving him the time of day. Like what he did was so violating, panties on or not, and the fact he and his friends purposely planned that gives me so many red flags. I would not feel safe with them at all

[@tegantalks9612]

At the very least he owes her a new pair of jeans.

[@marshawargo7238]

He Took Her Panties! When did you Ever Accidentally rip your pants when there weren't underwear under there? He Knew that you had no underwear & told his friend it'll be funny & won't be too bad because she's got underwear on. Then yelled to cover up that he knew & to blame someone else for HIS Effup! Pathetic pile of 💩!

[@valeriekhall]

​@@tegantalks9612 EXBF *AND* his BFF pulled her pockets. This was a group assault. Ex screamed at her for "exposing" her butt to his friends, but he was okay with the friends HAVING THEIR HANDS ON HER BUTT, to help him rip off the back of her jeans, exposing her anyway?!?! And this is right after him stealing & hiding her panties- which he apparently does all the time- so he can *make fun of her & use her panties for sex acts in front of her that she didn't consent to.* This man has been sexually & verbally abusing her for at least a year & a half of a FIVE YEAR relationship. And now he's making it a group project & doing it publicly. This probably hit the internet. This poor girl. OP needs to lawyer up ASAP. This creep will *absolutely* go the revenge porn route when she sticks to her guns & refuses to take him back. She needs restraining orders against the lot of them, subpoenas for their phones/computers/data storage/socials, & they need charges against them for assaulting her.

[@heenagidwani3696]

Story 2: it's a persons choice to wear anything or go commando. But it's not his or his friends right to sexually assault anyone. Yes this is sexual assault, tearing someone's clothes is sexual assault for sure and not prank

[@poohbear4515]

I was wondering if it could be considered as SA, especially when you were flashing ‘everything’ down there forcefully.

[@caseyjc5]

Just as I suspected the bf was the one who hid her underwear so she wouldn’t wear any for his stupid prank!

[@xelectrix]

It still would have been SA even if she was wearing panties.

[@fallingawayfromthenorm]

Story 2 - NTA. I’m sick of all these prank bros, they deserve to be single and miserable because they’re genuinely miserable company to keep. It is not her fault for any of this, it wouldn’t be an issue if he and his friends weren’t f ups who think it’s okay to pants people, ages aren’t listed but I’m pretty sure they’re way too old to be acting like that.

[@MH-ku5kn]

Story 2…. Purposefully destroying someone’s clothing in hopes to publicly expose someone in their undergarments should be considered sexual harassment. Especially if remarking on a man’s baldness is considered such in some countries l.

[@danaduncan6989]

Physically ripping clothing off of an unwilling person in a public place would legally be considered sexual assault and not sexual harassment. When you add in the fact it was all filmed the boyfriend and his friends could find themselves in jail or on a registry if it was reported.

[@professorroundbottom438]

Story 2 Considering the fact that someone quite literally ripped this girl's pants off in public, very obviously without her consent, it's not much of a stretch to call that an assault.

[@charondusk5608]

Story 2: ....I'm like, 99% sure that what the boyfriend and his friends did is assault of some variation, if not outright sexual harassment, because there is ZERO chance he just happened to hide her underwear and "forget" about it on the exact same day that he and his friends effectively pulled her pants off without her consent. That was absolutely deliberate on his part, you can't convince me that he did not know EXACTLY what he was doing, and OP is the AH to herself for even THINKING of getting back together with this insect.

[@AndyyWithAY]

Jim always deserved to know. I'm glad they finally told him. Story 2 men's pranks are almost always an excuse to be completely awful. Jeans are expensive!! He shouldn't have ripped her jeans regardless. How did he not know she was going commando? She was right to breakup. He was 3 red flags in a trench coat. He's been with her for FIVE years and forgot he hid her panties?? You cannot get back with this guy. He's repeatedly violated your boundaries. He'll never respect you

[@ShatoraDragondore]

Men's pranks are excuses for sexual assault. What woman thinks it funny to suddenly have her pants ripped off of her. That's not funny that's the start of the worst thing that can happen to someone.

[@owl7072]

Story 1: "You should have taken your sister's feelings into consideration" She said it was fine and is _in a whole relationship with a completely different person that she literally agreed to marry._ Edit: "You stole him from me" he literally rejected you 💀 Edit 2: "You stole him from me and betrayed me!" _turns around and tries to actually steal him herself_ Disrespectful to Op, Bob, _and_ her current partner 🙄

[@MizTameRumors]

Story 1 OP stole him? She made no moves on him, even checked with sister if she was okay to date him. Sis said yes. She should definitely tell Jim.

[@gwdzee]

it makes it sound like Bob is an object and not a person. So, if OP wasn't around, Bob would have dated Jane? Weird logic, but what can you expect from such an entitled brat like Jane?

[@MatildeVallespinCasas]

​@@gwdzeeit's this stupid attitude of keeping tabs on somebody as if, indeed, they were an object. One of the reasons why we used to tell women in counselling not to say "I have a boyfriend"(even if they do) to reject a guy. Some people are so obsessed and desperate for validation through somebody that they want to think that, if the boyfriend or girlfriend didn't exist, they would have a chance.

[@LightSage89]

Story 1: When the sister told OP to not bother because he's not interested in any relationship, she meant that she had shot her shot before and he turned her down so obviously he must be not interested in any relationship to turn her down. Edit: Called it!

[@lorianabanana6066]

Last story: So he crossed her explicit boundries by pranking her in the first place- but it gets worse. He hid her underwear (wtf already) so she had to go commando, then gets 'talked into' ripping her pants knowing she's got nothing on under and SL*T SHAMES HER FOR THAT????? Hells no. He's an immature prank bro who can't say no to his friends AND a weird controlling misogynist ontop of it. She should throw the whole man back and find someone who actually respects her as a person and can say 'no' to his lil buddy pals. Pathetic & gross.

[@jjr9792]

Saw a public proposal with a Ring Pop once. She laughed, asking if he was serious. He said "Yes, my love for you is very serious, even if the ring isn't." So she too said "Yes" and put on the Ring Pop. He then turned to their fam/friends, praising his SO, her sense of humour, and for saying yes to him, without being 'bribed' with BDE (big diamond energy). He finished with "Now let's go pick out whatever YOU want, TOGETHER. It won't be quite as big as the Ring Pop, but I promise it'll be much, much, better quality". It was so cute and wholesome.

[@Peeges_]

Thanks for hanging out with us

[@MarkNarrations]

Thank you for being here!!

[@katiemcwrath]

Story 2: That is called SEXUAL ASSAULT. Should have called the cops. I mean, they recorded the evidence and everything.

[@TsukiKageTora]

Story 1: I hate people who distance themselves from friends/siblings for dating people they liked in secret. It gets even weirder as it goes on… mother dear… you’re telling OP to not be excited she is going to marry her BF because your already married other daughter is jealous? She is getting married! Hope Jim dumps her

[@lalvarez5151]

It's also wierd when a guy gets with the sister of the woman who is obsessed with him...what did he think would happen?

[@georgeprchal3924]

​@@lalvarez5151oh so it's his fault Jane is a fool?

[@LA-mz1dd]

No, we are not blaming the one who's being sexually harrassed for being sexually harrassed...which didn't start untill they got engaged.

[@MatildeVallespinCasas]

​@@lalvarez5151so, OP and husband are responsible for the bad decisions other full grown adult takes?

[@lalvarez5151]

@@georgeprchal3924YES its his fault. You make bad decisions you get bad prizes. HE gets with the sister of the the woman who is obsessed with him. WHAT was he expecting? The sister is to blame as well, but he is also the AH for not telling Op that the sister has wanted him since DAY one. If she had know she would have left him

[@franciebelcher4594]

S1.NTA. Sis needs major therapy. The desperation is insane!

[@tully6648]

Story 2: I wouldn't have let him speak to me. But if he somehow managed to tell me there was a ring, I'd be like "Show me." Because I'll bet you there isn't one. (And if he did have one, I'd tell him to save it for the next one.) According to his own story, on a whim a friend convinced him to break a boundary he'd held for years. Yeah... No. Bye.

[@annabethsmith-kingsley2079]

"he forgot that he hid my panties, that's why he reacted yelling at me": what am I READING?!

[@SpookyTiney]

Thank you. Going through heavy heavy family drama myself and this helps. TLDR: brother in middle of divorce for about a year has gone off the rails in his anger, alcoholism, became even more self entitled, mentally abused my mother sisters and I while dating a gold digger that thinks she's a good counselor (making brother even more insufferable) and brainwashed him completely. Finally mother said she's done and no more hosting for visitation. The most angering part is his two children under six aren't priority and brother is the main character of a TV show, excusing his actions with 'but I'm in paaaaaaain.' yeah well now he's dead to me. Restraining order is next on list.

[@MC-zv6dc]

So sorry that you have had to experience this. It sounds like you've got a good head on your shoulders and thinking clearly. Maybe a restraining order and your mom saying no more will be the wake-up call he needs. Good luck with that!

[@valeriekhall]

@@MC-zv6dc Good luck to you & your family dealing with your verbally abusive alcoholic brother, & the fallout of his continued poor choices. I'm so sorry that's happening to all of you. Sending prayers that all of you- especially those poor little kids- are able to achieve full separation & healing. (I hope your brother does, as well, but clearly he's not going to do that anytime soon, & you're not obligated to catch his strays in the meantime.)

[@bhutehole]

Sister is so used to being the most favored she literally cant handle her less sister getting the man of her dreams.

[@jakemarie828]

I bet he became her dream man *after* OP got with him.

[@marshawargo7238]

It's so sad that OP has idolized the crap sister since forever, so much, so that it's hard for OP to take her off of her pedestal😢!

[@nicholerubes2959]

Right? If she did not want Jim why marry him? Also Jim sounds like a dream guy by his own rights. What is Op suppose to never live her life just to be considate about someone else feelings?

[@ScooterBond1970]

Main Character to the max!

[@nicholerubes2959]

@@ScooterBond1970 not only that. Just straight up delusional

[@gcarr1089]

Story 1 - OP should tell the family before the sister tells everyone that OPs husband tried to make advances on sister or even tried to rxpe sister. OP needs to stop everything before it gets started. Tell everyone, sister lost the right to privacy after the first time she hit on OPs husband.

[@aerynn7191]

Yeah, I definitely would have sent screenshots (and the screen recording) to all the relatives and mutual friends. There's no telling what the sister may do to retaliate. She may even convince herself that OP's husband told her husband about the messages in order to break them up so they can have a chance 🤦🏻‍♀️ crazy is unpredictable...

[@jasonhammond4301]

That "prank" was, by legal definition, sexual assault. Not saying OP would find court worthwhile or even get a conviction, but felt that the true severity should be mentioned. Assault, sexual or otherwise, is not a prank. Assault, btw, is legally defined (summarizing boring legal speak) as any unwanted physical contact (I believe some jurisdictions lump in threats of such as well).

[@eriibooo]

Story 1: I do find it ironic that given OP's relationship with her sister, that if she had been honest with OP she would have 100% respected her sisters wishes and none of this would have happened. Also it's fine and dandy to say you don't care about your reputation. Until your family is going around saying you knowingly stole Bob from your sister, that the two of you had an affair, that Bob cheated, or that you've always been jealous of her and lied to ruin her life. OP may not care if that goes around her family since she's not close to them, but I'd say it's pretty unlikely it'll stay in the family. OP's suddenly going to start caring about her reputation when those rumors reach her friends/Bobs family. Better to cut it off now and tell a few close friends and Bobs family.

[@brookew2403]

Jane is evil for using Jim as a backup plan! I hope he finds a woman who actually loves him.

[@ChristopherClyde12]

Fascinating video, Let's stop taking relationship and family for granted. I have battled depression since my wife left me. I have tried all I can to make her see that I love her with everything I am made of but she has insisted on leaving. This has made me so empty, and I do not know what to do. I can barely function properly at work. I am frustrated and miserable. I really miss her.

[@ChristopherClyde12]

Thank you for this information. I have just looked her up on Google. impressive.

[@TweSunshine]

Both Joseph and Christopher are bots. Look at their comment history.

[@TheModelmaker1]

In story 2 if she wanted to him and his friends could be charged with SA. They intentionally ripped a girls clothing off without her permission. It’s not a prank it fits the legal definition of SA.

[@sienkiewiczmonika1161]

Story 2 Without underwear or with, he's an AH. He promised OP he wont pull "pranks" on her, and yet he tried to humiliate her anyway.

[@KE-hr4sb]

S1: Sister's husband deserves to know, so he can then make the decision to work on it or walk. Parents need to stay in their lane, this doesn't involve nor concern them and both daughters are adults. "He told me they'd handle it and not to tell anyone what Jane did"? Nah, fuck that, then they aren't handling it. What a crap family. S2: You misspelled "ex-bf." "He's the one that should be angry because his friends saw my butt." His friend would not have seen anything but your jeans if he hadn't pranked you. This is all on him, and you breaking up with him are the consequences of his own actions. And make him pay for the jeans he ruined. So he hid your panties on purpose, gaslit you about being mad at YOU for a prank he committed where he already knew you didn't have your panties on (but he totally forgot so it wasn't his fault)? He "insisted on talking so I let him"? And you're still not calling him an ex? *Find your backbone!* His "I planned to propose and totally have the ring" is a manipulation tactic to keep you from dumping his ass.

[@vegaskullkid4503]

Story 2: I audibly groaned,”Oh no.” The second Mark said my boyfriend uploads various pranks. Op is not wrong for breaking up with him, ripping someone’s… well anything really but in this case pants is not funny, it’s just a dick move. The fact that it was in public makes it an asshole move.

[@Raaslen]

Story 2: break up and make him pay for new pants

[@YuToobVideos]

Story 2: No one has ever pranked me twice. No one who's ever pranked is my friend currently. Most pranks have ended with an excessive over the top response from me. ☹️

[@valeriekhall]

Story 1: Everyone failed Jim. He'd been with Jane since HIGH SCHOOL, but no one told him Jane had been throwing herself at Bob the entire time they'd been at college, all while Jim was at home working to BUY HER A HOUSE. Everyone knew but Jim. And they still all waited SIX YEARS, until *AFTER* he married her, to warn him?!?! No wonder he went NC. And this also means the parents knew Jane had unrequited feelings for Bob, WHILE she was on Year 4/5 of dating Jim. Then they all blamed OP, who didn't know any of this & had still *sought Jane's blessing* before dating Bob, for "stealing her sister's love." WHILE JANE ALREADY HAD A GOOD MAN. Poor Jim.

[@ashassassin]

Story 1 makes me sad for op. I'm sure Jane spun some wild story about how she told op everything about her feelings for Bob and op still got with him. It makes me upset op didn't stand up for herself or clarify anything with her family. I'd be fighting tooth and nail to not lose my family like this, but my family also wouldn't do this shit, so maybe they're actually worth fighting for, whereas ops family isnt... ugh, it just makes sad when people lose relationships over someone else's lies. 😞

[@aubreymorgan9763]

"my boyfriend does prank videos" OH HERE WE GO. Mark is all of us.

[@caridadchang7895]

story 2: every time a story starts with "my partner does pranks" I'm like "dumb them". If the prankster acually kept boundaries then they wouldn't be mentioned in a post in the first place.

[@lc77713]

Story 2: That prank (most pranks in general) is a very slippery slope and a good way for people to end up in court.

[@GiordanDiodato]

Slippery slope fallacy

[@lc77713]

@@GiordanDiodato Possibly! Although, I do think that, if OP wanted, she could press charges. It wasn’t just a minor prank. They unwilling and forcibly exposed her in public. There have been many examples of people taking pranks too far and then end up in trouble one way or another.

[@DragonbornMike-ym2er]

Story 2: Uh, ain't this sexual assault? Like, forget breaking up, I'd be pushing for charges to be made here 100%! And that's not even getting into his beyond disgusting reaction, and blatant victim blaming.

[@natcourt8719]

Happy Monday, Mark! Was not looking forward to work after a 3-day weekend so I'm very grateful for an early post today

[@MarkNarrations]

Aww glad it helps out :)

[@zarahfrancisco3734]

Story 2: Yeah, hell no. Even if the bf's excuse is legit, even if OP was wearing underwear, even if OP is ok with pranks, no one in their right mind would ever think that ripping someone's clothes off and humiliating them in public is ok. So many things wrong with Op's bf, I can't even think of how to start the list of red flags. I hope next update is that bf is now ex.

[@hodgeelmwood8677]

He's a bully. That's what most "pranksters" really are. Pranks are almost never funny, especially the ones intended to embarrass or humiliate people. People who do that are bullying others, and think they're superior in some way, when they're actually immature and unkind.

[@Rebelrocker69]

In the last story OP needs to ask who was recording the prank. Then she needs to get an attorney to send a letter stating something to the effects of "I did not consent to you recording me and my bare buttocks. Delete it immediately or I will sue. Any sharing of the recording will be construed as revenge porn and charges will be filed with the authorities in addition to a lawsuit being filed." Then demand the exbf reimburse OP for the ruined jeans. Technically she could also file charges for assault on exbf and his friend.

[@kateworkman921]

Boyfriend wants to talk, OP says, "I didn't want to, but he insisted." *Girl.* He's *still* not respecting you. Respect would have been him saying, "Okay, I understand you don't want to hear from me. Can I write you a letter for you to read at your leisure? Then, if you want to contact me after reading it, please do. If not, I'll leave you alone."

[@lolalo6344]

Don't forget to charge him for the jeans, your brothers gas money and a bit extra for the mental stress

[@Francina-g5o]

Your mother called you a W for moving out of their home and in with your fiancé , but her golden child sending inappropriate pictures and hitting on a married man is good.

[@Pincushion45]

Story 2. Just block him, get amnesia, forget him and your time with him, move on from people like him, and you can't fix them.

[@1kokokala10]

Story 1: I wish nothing but the worst for Jane and the parents. What are they on? The sister was quite literally trying to steal OP's husband while having a husband of her own, and the mother has the GALL to call OP the wh*re. Are the parents stupid. OP would not be TA if she told the sister's husband because he deserves to know the woman he married and should be free to decide to get the annulment and live his life. But I totally understand if she doesn't want to get involved anymore. At the very least, Op should go full NC and live her best life with her loving husband, it's the best way to get revenge. Story 2: BF should be glad all OP did was break up with him. From the sounds of it, she could 100% sue him and his friend for SA and destruction of property. Like, what's supposed to be funny about ripping someone's jeans. Then he had the nerve to be mad at Op for not wearing panties, as if she planned on her pants getting ripped. Fuck this guys and if he keeps bothering OP she should try to file a report and sue.

[@annabethsmith-kingsley2079]

now every time I hear the word 'uni' I have flashbacks to that one story that eventually revealed itself to be fake by both pretending to be from a Canadian but also saying 'uni', which we do NOT say

[@momop1848]

Story 2: This is a bit of a tangent, but marriage proposals shouldn't be unexpected surprises. If you want to surprise someone with when you propose, then that's fine. But taking steps towards marriage need to be discussed ahead of time.

[@vegaskullkid4503]

I just don’t understand how people like Jane THINK that the one they like was stolen from them by another person. I mean I have had a friend get with a girl he knew I liked and it hurt but I went about my business and supported them because it wasn’t my place to say who this girl could have romantic feelings for or go out with if it was not me. Jane sees Bob as a prize of some kind and it’s sad that she has this mentality especially when Bob has told her he’s not interested at all and was much nicer than most would be. I feel bad for Jim as well as OP and Bob, I hope they all can heal from this crappy situation and I even hope Jane can get over this obsession she has towards Bob and go on with her life.

[@FanFicnic]

2: I love Marks visceral reaction to the mention of “prank”

[@lindalehr1551]

Story 2, swear I said "Oh here we go!" in unison with Mark. LOL

[@pennybast3953]

Story 1: Not telling anyone is likely about keeping up images in the larger community. It's a culture where women are expected to live at home until their wedding night, so bringing shame on the family is a real concern.

[@nekorei2023]

I been thinking of making a manga or something close like a story, & today is my aunts birthday so happy birthday Aunt 🎉🎉

[@MarkNarrations]

Happy birthday Aunt!!

[@yesthatmousyiris4887]

Happy birthday to your aunt and good like making your story/manga!

[@sirgeroney3666]

Happy birthday, nekorei2023's aunt! 🎉🎉🎉

[@sovereigncrux]

Happy birthday to Rei's Aunty! 🎂

[@sevilaynalli6974]

I really enjoy these stories, thanks a lot Mark! :)

[@caseyjc5]

That sister sounds even worse than my sister which says a lot! My sister used to constantly steal my clothes for herself when we were teens, catfished a former boyfriend of mine and used his picture and name as a catfish, and bullied me over everything throughout my life including saying I wasn’t good enough for guys I liked. There was a time when we were cool and she even had me be her maid of honor (not surprisingly she caused her divorce after just a couple years), but our last interactions were her being horrible to me so I had her blocked online and don’t plan on ever speaking to her again so I don’t blame the OP here if she does the same with her sister.

[@Alchera201]

Pranksters have, once again, proven they're a completely separate species of human. What the fuck.

[@Vabkins]

Story 2: He's angry that she's upset over HIM S/Aing her in front of his friends and filming it omfg 🤦‍♀️ she should file assault charges not be considering whether or not to marry him

[@ayanaatthrivebewhole]

I'm really tired of the sexists that blames everything on women. The sister never communicated her feelings to OP ,and now she's supposed to be a mind reader and have figured out that she was in love with him for years?

[@gwdzee]

not only that, she was dating her current husband while hitting on Bob. Her parents are willfully ignoring that bit of info, but that's that golden child double standards on full display.

[@hilaryc3203]

Pranksters are people who haven't matured past the age of 12 and are assholes. If it were me, I would have pressed charges. If OP stays with him, it will happen again. Seriously, he hid her panties on her. That is beyond childish as was his idea of a proposal. A relationship with this guy would be raising a child that never behaves.

[@magiciandice]

I am so tired of people getting punished for not respecting boundaries they were never informed of in the first place.

[@yesthatmousyiris4887]

Man thats crazy on story one I'm glad Jim got to know the truth hopefully he'll leave.

[@patheon9541]

story 2 update: are you actually considering getting back together with him OP....use your head dump his sorry ass for goodness sake you deserve so much better then this guy

[@teneil31]

Op 2 report ex boyfriend and friend to police 🚔

[@tabbynakamura]

These people seem to think in story one that the only people who get a choice is Op and the sister. Does this man not get a choice? Sis literally confessed to him and was rejected. He didn't WANT her. He wanted her sister. He gets that choice. He's not a prize to be won, he's a person deciding who he wants to be with. He made it, Op agreed she wanted to be with him, no one else in that situation mattered, least of all the sister.

[@chickensandwich8808]

LOL! Story mentions "pranks" and Mark immediately is over it.

[@lorrainemontagnon1537]

Hey there, waffle gang! Enjoying my morning coffee and listening to my favorite narrator, Mark. Lots of love ❤️

[@EllieC130]

Story 2: At this point a partner doing tiktok pranks is grounds to not date them cos they can’t be trusted. Also I’d go as far to say that “prank” is sexual harassment AT LEAST with or without panties. Edit: THEY’VE BEEN TOGETHER FOR FIVE YEARS?! IS HE A WHOLE ASS ADULT?!

[@ivonnelara1698]

Story 2: him saying he was gonna propose is just a way to rope her back in. Ik their relationship is 5 years along but when I finally had enough of my ex, he said he had a ring and was gonna propose to me (we had only been together for a year and just moved in together(worst mistake ever)) yet he owed me money that he had just asked for me earlier that week for his phone bill yet had an engagement ring for me. Load of bullshit. Some people will say anything and everything to keep you under their control

[@videofan1010]

Story #2 is an ESH situation. You dated a man who pulls pranks. You also helped him pull pranks on others.

[@lionfish2201]

Over a decade ago, I was in a friend’s wedding. At the end of the night, the groom walked me to my car and confessed that while he was happy he always got a little jealous when he saw me with other guys. I had recently moved across country, and it was easy to distance myself under the guise of “oh man, so busy and so far away!” I didn’t tell the bride, and I don’t regret it. They’re still happily married and have kids. But he also never said a word since, so maybe it was just drunk cold feet. All that being said, the sister is way too persistent in story 1 and her husband deserves better.

[@indiashante1560]

Story 2: not only would I be mad about being a part of a prank but being exposed would be an even bigger problem. But worst of all, that sexual assault. Edit: the boyfriend hiding Op's panties is really weird. I wouldn't want to talk to him ever again let alone marry him.

[@jeanproctor3663]

Story 1 - OP does right to distance herself from her birth family. They are not worth her time or effort. Story 2 - OP is definitely not the arsehole for breaking up with that nasty "boyfriend". He is vile. He wasn't even concerned that her might have physically hurt her, let alone mentally. Denim is a tough material and it must've hurt her to have them ripped off her. It's not only the (now) ex that toxic, his friends are too and he's a gaslighter. There's no way she would have been able to find her knickers when he'd hidden them for himself for later on. He planned this from the beginning. This male is not worthy of OP's love at all.

[@grammasscotsgirl]

The pranking one just made me think "What if she takes him back and behind her back he continues to make tiktoks about pranks and there they are, on their wedding day, after she said "DO NOT SHOVE MY FACE INTO THE CAKE" what will happen?" Yeah, that's where my brain went - a dowel through the eye caught on tiktok because his friends "talked him into it".

[@kerribottriell-baxter7345]

As for story 1: Yeah... nuh... I'd be spreading that like wildfire, screw Dad.

[@DrewComika]

Story 2: Throw the whole person away, she set a boundary, he stepped over it and did it in public, no the guy has got to go, show him the door 🚪

[@pinklemonade8320]

Story 2: Regardless of the pranks, the reason she should end it is that her bf is clearly a very irrational person. The thought process he describes during the apology is a series of increasingly stupid decisions. The fact that he blamed her because he was too embarrassed to admit his fault says it all. Even if he deletes tiktok and stops doing pranks forever, she is in for a lifetime of her husband flying off the handle at her because he's too emotionally immature to admit fault, take accountability, be honest, and employ empathy. He only even made this apology because OP threatened to leave. I've sort of been in OP's shoes; it's difficult to let go of someone you love, but some people lack the basic skills necessary to make a relationship work, and OP's bf is unfortunately one of those people.

[@deppresedonion6320]

Story 1 But it is appropriate to text your sisters future husband inappropriate texts while still married . The parents are more confused than Scoppy Doo .

[@claracatlady9844]

Honestly I’m vindictive enough to tell these people that if they act out of line I will leak all the texts and the pictures the sister sent to every single family member and acquaintance.

[@lina9535]

Story 3: isn't this "prank" technically SA?

[@eileenhathaway1674]

Last story. Make boyfriend delete his account and destroy the footage of her. He is sorry, right? Then dump him.