My Son's Autism Diagnosis...

As it is Autism Awareness month, I decided to share something really special to my heart. My son Adam is happy, healthy and thriving mashaAllah and one the best thing thats ever happened in our lives Allahumabarik so proud and honoured to be his mum.
May Allah swt answer all our duas and the holy month of Ramadan bring you peace, joy, and spiritual fulfilment, Allahuma ameen! Please keep us in your duas, lots of love and Ramadan Kareem.

[@aamirfayyaz8645]

Learning Adam was autistic was actually a real awakening moment and made me realise just how fascinating and truly awesome people on the spectrum are! I love my little prince for who he is ❤

[@zsi8910]

Like my 18 year old says..its not a disability, its a different ability..these are unique special children and we are blessed to have them alhamdulilah

[@Userunbothered]

Masha Allah tabarakallah

[@NM-ng6ng]

❤❤❤❤❤

[@salk7107]

My son is on the spectrum and waiting for an assessment. I just want to know before they diagnosed your son how many appointments did you have?

[@ilhan691]

Yes!! I agree

[@Hums97]

Hi, I was diagnosed at 2 with autism and speech delay. I’m still autistic until this day. Because of being an individual with autism, I also did my masters on special education and honours in Early Childhood and Special Education just to prove the world that there’s no such thing as outgrowing a disability. This is something that Allah gave to test you, and also test your child. May you forever continue to be consistent with being resilient. I’m not a mum but I work with children around Adam’s age and also they’re autistic too. It just takes a lot of thinking and patience. My speech isn’t the greatest but I try. Sending you lots of love and dua to you all 💕

[@xamdaxamda]

I wish you all the best Humaira and I hope you continue to be this inspiring person who do really a much needed work in our community. Masha Allah ❤

[@fatimabaig5286]

Allah bless you! He has blessed us with beautiful person like yourself so you can help the world!

[@moishesara]

This made me cry. I’m so glad for you.!I am glad none of my kids have it but one of my relatives have a son with autism from his dads side and they said it’s genetic

[@moishesara]

I hope the comment doesn’t offend anyone with people saying it’s genetic. Some say it’s certain foods

[@sweetstufff]

So proud of you! Way to go. May Allah bless you always.

[@anfaltahirmj]

The Māori word for autism is takiwatanga which translates to, ‘in his/her own time and space It’s such a gentle and empathetic way to describe the kind souls that is the autistic children/adults we meet Thank you for sharing Manal, how lucky for you all to have each other and for Adam to have you all, I think your perspective as a parent was so refreshing to me for so many reasons, I hope we can live in a more neurodiverse affirming world inshallah where we continue to find a place in their world rather than the other way round 💞

[@INC408]

That’s beautiful. Thank you for sharing that about culture.

[@MsBorntobeme]

I love this so much 😊

[@karenmarialayne]

Such a beautiful translation ❤

[@h3941]

Trust the kiwis to be so beautiful like this x

[@SkipRoche31]

That’s a lovely way of putting it ❤ Unlike the other Polly languages they just use the English

[@zsi8910]

My son is autistic..he was diagnosed at age 7 having gone through the process since he was 4. He is now nearly 18 alhamdulilah and is thriving alhamdulilah ❤

[@aicha514]

Alhamdullilah may Allah protect him🤍

[@zj6967]

Allaahumma Baarik ❤

[@zsi8910]

​@@aicha514 ameen ❤

[@sweetstufff]

Mashallah. May Allah (swt) bless him!

[@bluegyrl75]

I’m an autistic adult and thank you for educating yourself and other people. you’re doing the right thing.

[@akii2497]

My daughter is nearly 6 and still is not talking at all and only makes noises 😢 may Allah make it easy for us ameen

[@Tea962]

Try and get her seen by a doctor and find out why she's nonverbal

[@akii2497]

​@@Tea962 yes shes getting help alhamdullilah 😊

[@waliyyahb.396]

Ameen, I pray she progresses. And even if she never becomes verbal or fully verbal, I pray you and others can understand her way of communicating

[@m_m3574]

Ameen, may Allah allow her to thrive and live her life to the fullest! I know you said she isn’t using speech atm but I would maybe suggest using visuals/Makaton signs to communicate with her. I work in an autistic school and we always use visuals with our non-verbal students (to support receptive and expressive language). May Allah bless your family and increase you in good 😊

[@AskBe433]

May Allah subahanu wataala make it easy for you and all of us. May Allah bless your daughter and help her speak and make good progress insha Allah.

[@E-A.]

I have an incredible amount of respect for you Manal for making this video!

[@lutfabegum5282]

My Darling Sister Chinutey.. Your son is amazing. I know many Autistic peoole who are very highly successful in becoming Qur'an Hafidh, Professors etc... The reward of raising someone with a unique condition is raising a person of Jannah, and what is the reward for the parents - the highest of Jannah for what they endured patiently.. May Allah make things easy for You and your husband.

[@aliceinwonderland3771]

I heard someone once say: When you have a child with special needs, you basicly have a person of Jannah amongst you. This beautiful little boy, this wonderfull human being is so so loved by Allah. And will, godwillingly, be your ticket to Jannah aswel. Just keep being the amazing mum that you are. Keep educating yourself, to help him get his needs met. You're doing great so far. Just by aknowledging and getting him the help he needs ❤

[@fay9905]

Allahuma barik 😭 your comment really made me emotional

[@nasrahired43]

That’s soo beautifully said! Amen

[@itsfatoub]

Wawwww 😢beautiful comment

[@hanifanattabi1072]

Our son is also autistic...exploring special needs with regards to islam has given me so much peace and contentment in this situation. I now feel lucky and blessed that Allah chose to gift me this person of jannah that's constantly surrounded by angels. SubhanAllah what a blessing. He smiles at me and I feel Allah's mercy towards me. Allah makes no mistakes he's exactly as he was intended to be. I consider his autism a great blessing ❤

[@samiyahkams5547]

Adam is also blessed to have you as his mom. Alhamduililah

[@YassminMohamed-pl4ni]

Allah SWT does not burden you with more than you can handle. In fact Allah gave you Adam because you are the best parents for him. May Allah ease our journey through this world and give us the best in this life and the here after. Thank you for sharing. Adam you clearly are a clever little boy ❤Allahu Mubarak

[@miriamkrubally677]

My son is 3 and was diagnosed when he was 2. My son’s middle name is Ayan which means ”Allah’s Gift” & he is truely a gift from Allah. I love everything about him ❤ Alhamdulillah 🙏🏽

[@duckyO.o]

Manal, Aamir, I don't know if you'll see this but both my brothers have autism and are nonverbal. One great hope and joy I look forward to is to be able to meet them in Jannah and be able to hear them talk to me and reminisce all those times where I wish I knew what they were thinking. It brings me to tears to comprehend that. Insha Allah may Allah reunite us with our loved ones and may He bless you and your beautiful family Allahumma Ameen

[@vanessar6147]

I’m an autism momma of 2 boys, I honestly didn’t see the signs at first I just thought he was different as a one yr old. I have a 5 yr old nonverbal boy level 3 and 4 yr old level 2 with ADHD. Sending you a big hug. It can be stressful at times but just be patient things will get better slowly but surely. ABA therapy has helped us a lot!

[@Tea962]

Is Autism genetic?

[@muslimah42]

My son is 2.5 y old level 3 and im so worried for his future....my heart aches every moment.

[@Zazezoo]

ABA therapy is very effective, but super expensive in the U.K! It’s not even a thing, and the U.K. government seems to want them to remain the way they are. Unfortunately It’s the rich that benefit form ABA

[@princessefeohi]

I'm a Registered Behavioral Technician. I work with children on the autism spectrum. It is surely the most rewarding job seeing my kiddos improve from being non verbal to have full on conversations with me during therapy sessions!

[@nadaabdelaal2809]

Part of the reason Adam is thriving is because you, as his mom, were so accepting of whatever comes and pushing to find answers. For others, it may not be something they want to hear. Your calm personality made it a safe space for your friend to share her observations and give you support. Thank you for sharing.

[@InfoJunkie22]

My nephew is now 14 and was diagnosed with autism early and was non-verbal. My twin sister, his mother, lived in a rural area in the US and didn’t have the resources of experts or many specialized services but Thank God He provides. I had my first child 17 months after he was born and it sparked something in him. He began talking and interacting so much. God blessed us with him and I’m so grateful. Your son sounds so to be true blessing as well.

[@reya720]

how amazing is that wow

[@RA-tb4tr]

Allah swt chose you to be Adams mum because he knew you’d be able to handle to responsibility. I’m so proud of you and the way you’ve handled everything with grace. Adam’s lucky to have you❤️

[@Kaimech]

I have a daughter who has autism. She is now 7. She started talking around 3 by singing. I admire you for making this video. Totally understand everything you’re saying and wishing you many blessings throughout your journey.

[@emanalomari7143]

Your son is so lucky to have a mama so ready to advocate for him🤍 MashaAllah thank you for sharing

[@HouseofLilac]

Thank you for using your platform to share your experience and your story. Awareness goes such a long way. I have nephews that are on the spectrum and have autism. I absolutely love them. My oldest nephew with autism is our gentle giant. He’s now 22 yrs old. He’s a genius at statistics and sports, he’s my human gps when on road-trips. You’ll never get lost with him in your car. Autism in my opinion is just another way of saying "their way". They learn at their pace, speak when they’re ready, do things in their way/order all while they teach us during the process. You’re not alone. There’s a large community with amazing children like Adam and we’re all blessed to be a part of their lives and them in ours. Embrace every moment.

[@sumbala6667]

I am not a mother, but I remember meeting a woman who had an autistic son and she said the most beautiful thing. "I thank Allah SWT for him every day because he's going to be my ticket to Jannah". You are blessed, Manal! Masha'Allah Allahuma Barik

[@mariaamir3779]

The autistic people in my life are the most beautiful and precious people to me. They are the reason that I am becoming a clinical psychologist. Fight for him, love him and remember that Allah will protect him. I had dedicated my learning to ASD because they deserve the BEST.

[@imanomar3752]

This was such a great video. I am an paediatric speech and language therapist in the Uk and would happy to offer you help or answer any questions. Inshallah this journey is a positive one for you x

[@zeinabnur2892]

Hi iman can I email you. I have same issues but need more support

[@kafiasoubaneh]

Thank you for sharing! My son, Naim, is turning 4 in September and he was diagnosed at 18 months and is still not speaking. Canada does have a large Autism Community and it was easy to get the diagnosis and some resources, but the system is extremely backed up😢 in terms of funding to support other therapies. Insha’Allah our ASD children are extremely resilient, patient, loving, kind, with beautiful souls. I couldn’t have asked for a better child! May Allah make your journey easy! You got this! #autismawareness

[@anoninja46]

this made me so emotional i dont even know why but when you said you want to find out so you can create a world where he is understood and no one misunderstands 😭🥺 how precious he is Ma Sha Allah Allahumma Baarik, may Allah make it easy for you, your son and family and protect you all from every sort of evil out there Ameen ❤️

[@EmilyOrriginal]

You're such a sweet mum and I love how you're protecting and nurturing him! As a ND human, thank you. ❤

[@rihamosman4549]

Mashallah, for helping your child, alot of parents deny and say the child will outgrow of it and that child will suffer alot in school and socially, as you said if the child gets proper diagnosis he will get all the help he needs and his life will be easier instead of him being misunderstood.

[@roxannagulhan8988]

Dear mommy i want to tell you how blessed we are to have such a unique person in our lives that we are blessed with to call our children, truly children are a blessing of the Lord 😊❤ here a mommy of a autism spectrum boy, ASS in dutch. My son also has a TOS (Google translate says language development disorder for English 😅) but to see him as my son of 4years old with a older sister and younger sister giving everybody so much love just fills my heart with joy! I was so lucky that our hospital send a person to my home who saw my son and said he needs to go to a special day care, where he could be himself and learn everyday something new! I know about the people who say, yeah but they just put him in a box, i always know this comes from a place of love but I try to explain that this box works because he needs a special school to go to and they need to see if your child fits this box, most people understand after the explanation! I am not ashamed to say that he was 4years old and then stopped wearing a diaper, it is on his terms on not on ours! I hope for every parent who goes trough this that they day positive and really look at all the beautiful things different children with different needs bring! God Bless you!

[@tamirinsworld]

Hi Manal, I am an educator and listening to your story is so insightful. It gives me more perspective into how parents feel and want to be approached. Thank you for sharing..

[@SadeR8590]

Hi Manal, I have been following you for many years.. I always thought of you as my sister in my head lol. Being a convert your videos helped me a lot. I remember when you announced Adams arrival and being so excited because I too was expecting. My Son Zahmir was born the 1st of April which was a little before you had Adam. So I really thought hey Manal is really my sister lol. Zahmir was diagnosed with autism when he was about 2.5. It was very hard to come to terms that he was different. The process has been very hard. But just as you described Adam , Zahmir is one of the sweetest souls on this planet. I found a lot of comfort watching this video. May Allah guide and protect our boys and families and make it easy for us. Love You 🤍💙🙏🏽

[@4sara12]

May Allah always protect Adam, Ameen ❤️

[@JoAnnaTheSoulStringerJohnson]

I remember getting that diagnosis. Knowing is always better than wondering or guessing. That validation means something for how necessary people should interact and help him to succeed. It always bugged me when people said they would grow out of it as if it was something they need to grow out of. I'm a Grandma raising my Granddaughter on the Spectrum and her half brother. I've had her since birth and her brother since he was 2. They are now 6 and 9. The 6 year old has ASD, Dyslexia, and ADHD. The 9 year old has more severe ASD, seizures, ADHD, Oppositional Defiance Disorder, a Mild Intellectually Disorder, a Genetic abnormality called Med-13, and is recovering from ALL Leukemia. Both children are very sweet and even in spite of the older child having some behavioral challenges, he is very sweet too. He was non verbal up until he was about 4 to 5 years old. He has some language now with the help of speech therapy. I also have an adult daughter on the Spectrum who will be 27 this year. She is a Manager in a Pharmacy. They all have brought me an abundance of joy. Educate yourself and do what's best for your baby to make him well adjusted and happy. Everything else is just extra noise because everyone will have suggestions and answers. But no one will know and love your baby like you will. Remember that you are the most important member of his medical team. Without you, they can't help him. They need your input and suggestions. So make sure you're comfortable with all of his treatments and treatment plans. That way you both will be happy as he grows.

[@SWIdaho2]

God bless you!

[@ebtisammohammedsalih5489]

I worked with people on the spectrum for a few years and I can relate to what you were saying about him being a big-hearted boy. They also were some of the genuinely nice and loving people I’ve ever met. May Allah bless Adam in all aspects of his lives and give him the strength he needs to face the world. May He also make it easy on your beautiful family mashaAllah Allahuma barik ❤❤

[@aissatadiallo7981]

Just want you to know that I got so used to hear you say Allahuma Barik, anytime you mention Adam, it rolls of my tongue! I will inshaAllah ALWAYS praise God when seeing your children May Allah bless your family ❤

[@hawajay]

Thank you for sharing Minal. It’s very common for people to be dismissive of certain behaviors and say “they will grow out of it”. I think it’s their way of avoiding putting in extra effort or their way or not wanting to acknowledge that a child is different. There is nothing wrong with a child being neurodivergent and nobody should love their child any less because of it. Being neurodivergent has many stigmas but getting your child help is the best way to ensure they are the most successful and happy! I am glad that Adam has you as his mommy! Your so sweet and caring and I know you will do everything in your power to support little man 💓🫶🏽

[@noorc2855]

Sis, my brother who was born in the 90s is on the spectrum, and if my mom was able to have the resources that exist today and do what you're doing for Adam, my brother's world would have been different. He would have been a different person today - in a positive way. So Maashaa'Allah you're doing amazing, may Allah bless you and sweet Adam and your beautiful family. You're a wonderful mom Maashaa'Allah! ❤️

[@Tanfamio]

I've been there, Alhamdulilah now my son is 11, slowly conversated with the world at his paste 😊! InshaAllah, it will get better 🙏🏽

[@h.malik.s]

It’s a beautiful gift! It’s like Allah has given them their own world SubahnAllah

[@MuslimahY]

Dear sister, my brother was initially diagnosed with global development and speech delay until he was diagnosed with autism at the age of 16/17. He was non-verbal until 5, and like you, we were able to process that he was on the spectrum way before his diagnosis was confirmed. Alhamdulillah, after his initial struggle to process the diagnosis, he is now really thriving and has an unconditional offer to attend university Allahumma barik. I write this to say please be encouraged. He has been a blessing and light to our family like your beloved Adam is to you. May Allah continue to bless your family and reward you for spreading awareness on autism ameen 🤲🏾💖

[@imansayed9918]

I love the way you love/speak about your son 🥹 for some reason it made me super emotional. Maybe because I’m pregnant with a baby boy. May Allah grant you strength to continue being the amazing mother that you are ♥️ Ameen

[@faizafaiza2025]

You’re doing great mama. Having parents like y’all setting him up for success InshAllah he’ll have a wonderful adult life.

[@aminadeingswalah3657]

You are the perfect mum for Adam.❤❤

[@jasminbegum3974]

Adam is a sweet little boy mA. May Allah safeguard him and your family, Ameen! ❤

[@maryamelfaruk8289]

I cried watching this, Manal you spoke with soooooo much love and affection, I could really really feel how precious this is to you. I'm certain Adam will grow to be an incredible person with this amount of love around him. Allahumma Barek 🥰♥️

[@MaertjeStar]

I been one of your followers for years, and my son, who was born just 2 months after Adam, also has ASD. This video resonates with me so much and you are being exactly the mother I hope I can be to my son.

[@waliyyahb.396]

My baby boy is autistic. He’s 6 now and was diagnosed at 3 years 8 months old. His diagnosis wasn’t a surprise for us either. We noticed some things but it was the daycare he attended that really noticed. I just thought he was a late bloomer like his older brother (who is now 13 and actually never got an official evaluation and may be on the spectrum as well, going to get his evaluation done soon.) Thankfully the evaluation and the diagnosis was literally a week from each other, so it wasn’t a long wait to get the diagnosis. My baby has been getting the speech & occupational therapy services ever since and is progressing. I still have to get him into an ABA program but he has made strides with all of the services he’s received over the years. Praying the best for your baby and all of our special babies to be protected and able to flourish and be themselves in this world. May Allah keep them protected and let them be a light in this sometimes very dark world.

[@NanookiePookie]

First of all, thank you for being vulnerable. I know this video was not easy. As moms, we will do what it takes to care and defend our children. My son is ten and has ADHD. I knew something was off and was focused on getting him the help he needs to go through life. We are so glad we made that decision early on. It has contributed to helping him in school. He says his concentration is so much better. It even helps him to deal with other kids. And yes, there will be bad days but we've learned that we just start all over the next day. I thank God for my husband because just last year, I was diagnosed with cancer. I don't know how I would have got through my treatments at all. So be strong momma... You got this!

[@3affaf]

May Allah give you full shifa iA! We’re about to test our 8 year old for ADHD as we see some early signs. Would you mind sharing which route you took (medication or more homeopathic)? I know each child is differen…

[@NanookiePookie]

@@3affaf each child is definitely different. We realized that all the things we were trying with him weren't working, maintaining the same daily routine, being one of them. We had to take the focus off of us and remember that we need to help him. So we decided on medicine. Adderall worked for a bit but then as he grew, it wasn't working. In fact, even if it did, the global Adderall shortage was a problem. He is now on Vyvanse and that's so much better. He told us when he first got the medicine that he doesn't have all this noise in his head. It's still a lot of work but he is doing great. One day at a time...

[@laurenb7094]

My daughter received her diagnosis about 3 weeks ago after waiting over 2 years. It was such a battle but alhamdulillah for everything. These beautiful minds are such a blessing. Adam is lucky to have such hands on parents who sincerely have his best interests at heart and will strongly advocate for him and be his voice when needs be. Autism is something that I feel is needs to be spoken about more. So thank you for taking this topic to your platform and speaking about this. You’re right, you do not owe anybody an explanation. But if you can enlighten even one person about how life is for our children at times and enforce understanding - job done ♥️

[@nursenima]

Thank you for sharing your story 😊. I can definitely relate, my daughter was diagnosed when she was 22 months. We started intensive therapy early and payed out of pocket the first year. It help her tremendously and with some supplements she started talking at 3 year old. She's 11 now and becoming independent day by day. It gets better don't worry, may Allah SWT bless him ameen 🤲🏾

[@hanan763]

Asalamu alakum sister, could you please share the supplements ??

[@peacefull_muslimah]

Please share supplements. May Allah bless you best life with your daughter ameen

[@maryamasambo3977]

You are a very courageous and brave woman Manal for discussing this. I feel like giving you a big hug.🤗 You might not be able to protect Adam from the world, but Allah will protect him all his life Insha Allah. 💗

[@shirinmalik2235]

We have the sweetest nephew who is autistic and Masha’Allah he is loved and an amazing human being. InshaAllah England has great structure developed to help him in his and your journey. May Allow swt bless your family

[@hafsafarah3135]

Manal you are literally such a beautiful person inside and out. Watching you grow up as a role model and now seeing you as a mother and being a mother with a child on the spectrum is so beautiful, you handle it all with grace Allahuma Baarik. May Allah preserve and protect your family always ❤

[@flowerrmb]

I can so relate to you! My son is 16 now and was diagnosed with ASD and ADHD at five years old. He did not start talking until he was about 3 1/2. I appreciate you saying that you are your son 's advocate, because you are. No one can advocate like you! You guys are great parents, keep on doing what you are doing. God bless!!

[@user-kv7gy5rw5l]

Hi :) my nephew is now 4.5yrs. No diagnosis but has only started speaking more in the past 6months. School and drs do not seem that pressed to diagnose but his behaviour at times can be very very hard to manage. Mood swings, extreme anger/upset, hurting himself and others. Feeling frustrated, and overwhelmed a lot. He's a very very active child. Non stop. Is this more adhd or autism.. :s paediatrician said at last appt they think its one or both but no official diagnosis. He does well with numbers, drawing, thinking out of the box. But won't engage with other kids really or role play etc

[@waliyyahb.396]

May be both. Try to get a evaluation done. Your pediatrician should be able to give you some places to go for the evaluation, hospitals, behavioral analysis centers. And hopefully your insurance can cover it if you are here in the states because all of the appointments and services can be expensive

[@W4veL3ngth]

Mashallah allahouma barik. I diagnosed my youngest brother at 4 to 6 months just by instinct because I spent the most time with him after my mum gave birth because she had ppd. So I kind of raised him. The process was hard to get him diagnosed, until finally at age 4 we got the same diagnosis that I told his GP, which was ASD and ADHD. My brother is now 11 this year mashallah and the best human I know but he is somewhere in the middle of the spectrum. He was speechless till age 6 or 7 but he is also the smartest person I know. He taught himself to read at age 2 before he started daycare. Mashallah allahouma barik. Anyway autistic people are truly a blessing honestly, they’re the most beautiful humans I know. My brother reminds me to pray everyday when I visit my family, even before the Adhan goes off as he memoriesed my prayer times and told me he is muslim because I am Muslim, mashallah even though I am a revert and my family do not approve of him saying that.

[@reikorhodes2556]

Thank you so much for sharing with us! I’ve learned a lot about autism just from listening to your story. I also learned to be mindful and respectful when making comments about one “will grow out of it”.

[@shaidasadiq959]

Allah swt choose you and your husband to be his parents because you are special people Allah humma barik! May Allah swt make everything easy for you and your family ameen 🤲🏼

[@mimam4747]

I used to be a teacher and teach children with Autism, ADHD and I also worked within the local authority SEND team handling EHCPs. It's a magnificent challenge for parents to navigate life with Autism but you guys are superheroes. May Allah enrich your lives and make this journey full of blessings.

[@aarh2885]

to be honest SEND team and EHCP coordinators are useless

[@sarahcatriona]

My son is in the process and the same age as your son. We don’t yet have a diagnosis but we are mid all those appointments. I love how you say “he gave you so much purpose” 🤍. That has really inspired me. I have some days when I can be the biggest advocate and others day when I’m struggling with the emotions that come with him not being “typical” and today was a hard day. Thank you for your video it has helped me xx

[@waithiranjoroge5930]

Your friend is what we all need. Thank God for her. Wish your lovely family all the best .

[@tinataylor2950]

I can relate, my son is on the autism spectrum. It was such a struggle to get him diagnosed when he was a little kid. He just processes things differently. He is such an amazing young man now, and I admire him so much. God bless you. We love Adam❤️💕❤️

[@nosheenazad6384]

Thank you so much for posting this video. I'm going through the process currently getting my daughter diagnosed. This video was so comforting x

[@internetwildling1337]

Thank you so much for sharing this! I am currently going through something similar with my toddler and knew there was something different around a year old. However, NHS and health care professionals have not been quick to help us with getting a diagnosis/assessment. I am glad to hear your concerns were validated and you manage to get a diagnosis. Allahumabarik you can tell Adam is so lucky to have a mother like yourself who talks about him with so much admiration x

[@Japple123]

Thank you so much for sharing! You’re doing an incredible job mA! Adam seems like the sweetest little boy mA! A little flower from jannah in your home. So insightful and so proud of you and Amir for taking a positive and proactive approach. It must’ve been so tough to digest at first but seems like you’re getting through this with beautiful patience mA.

[@zeinabamin6552]

Youre Incredible!!! Your son is blessed to have you mashallah. May Allah reward you jannah for literally being the best mom ever. May Allah bless you infinitely my beautiful sister ❤️

[@fattyji]

Thank you for sharing! That was very brave of you. You are hella strong and you've got this InShaAllah. It sounds so scary to have him out there in the world... But you've already begun helping him and so many others by spreading awareness! MashAllah Adam is so loved and thats the #1 best thing for him ❤ love you ❤ and making dua in last ten days that his journey through life on the spectrum is without hardships and that you all have the strength to continue being the way you are because you're doing everything right Alhumdulilah ❤

[@sabbykakka8759]

Thank you sooooo much for making this video, raising awareness and opening up 🤍🤍🤍 sending so much love for you and your family!

[@mariamacisse853]

This video is so precious ! Thank you for sharing your son's autism journey... I'm currently experiencing the same journey with my 2 years old daughter and I remember when the doctors told me when she was 18months I was just feeling so desperate not because she might be autistic but more being scare on how the world would treat her. Al hamdoulilah she has started therapies and I see her blooming every single day. Having a child on the spectrum just means you have a special child with their own superpower ! Being present and educate people around you is wonderful. Hang it there mama life for them will be beautiful in sha Allah

[@sararae5994]

I have twins manal identical they both have autisim they are going to be 4 soon its so hard for me life is not easy at all both of them same time and swlf harming themselves and others its hardwork inshallah we get through this i live in america and my kids do aba therapy uk does not do it but it has helped them one of my sons hits himself so much it makes me cry and sad too see of course u do get used to it but its just not a nice feeling may allah reward us for our hardships and nothing is given to us thatbwe cannot bare mashlah ur family is beautiful and mashallah ur son is and seems to meee calm my sons are opposite 🤣🤣 they are like rascals but thats my boys alhamdulalah for everything at first i cryed and felt bad and kept watching videos of autistic kids being treated bad because they cannot talk and i cryed for months like It took me a year to get over it and to trust his therapists i do the therapy in home

[@hamdiibrahim448]

Thank you so much for sharing this. My son was recently diagnosed and I know how brave it is of you to share this, especially since you didn't have to but chose to.

[@jacquelinepunzo9855]

Hi Manal, it brings me so much joy to hear your story and especially during Autism Acceptance month (in the US). I have been working with children on the spectrum in the field of ABA for over 4 years now and finding this field was truly life-changing! I love seeing the progress that all my kids make and watching them learn new skills like learning to communicate or emotional coping strategies is the best part. It’s truly the most fulfilling job I could have ever dreamed of. I am currently studying to receive my master’s in special education and am studying to become a board certified behavior analyst. I would also like to mention that if there is anyone out there who is looking to learn about treatments, I would suggest looking into an ABA provider. Also, do some research to find local resources, if you are living in California there are lots of resources out there. Finding resources is really important and crucial to the development of neurodiverse kiddos, so it’s important that we really step up and advocate for our little ones by taking the time to find resources for them. Early intervention is crucial as children learn so much during their early years. I am truly so happy to hear your story, as this is something that I am very passionate about. Sending a big hug from California 💙🌈

[@apan4201]

Manal, you do not need to explain anything to anyone but so brave of you to discuss this. My friends son was diagnosed as a child and he's 20 now Mashallah and thriving! I'm sure Adam will continue to develop in his own unique way! As a teacher in Early Years I have worked with many children who are nuerodivergent and Allahuma Barik they are so sweet and loving! I pray Allah swt continues to bless you and the family with strength and Adam with good health inshallah. xx

[@minaa9511]

Thank you for sharing this! Allah swt has a plan for everyone, this is a blessing. May allah make it easy for you’re family and Adam! Ameen! ❤

[@mariamtariq3459]

You really do inspire people! Adam is such a sweet boy Allahumabarak ameen May allah preserve the goodness he(allah) and his parents have put in him ameen ❤️ you guys literally did amazing with him ❤️❤️❤️

[@guadR777]

Thanks for sharing and I am sure Adam is lucky to have you as his Mom and hope he will turn good Insha Allah

[@amiali7661]

Allahumma barik! This was wonderful to see. I`m a teacher and it is very important to learn about autism and other diagnoses to met the child/ren where they are and give them support they might need. May Allah bless your family and your wonderful baby boy. Allahumma amiin. ❤

[@mnb8563]

I felt everything you said! It gets easier! My son is so loving and gives the best hugs ❤

[@prettyinpink8349]

Hi Manal ! I’m so happy for you for speaking about this! I also have a special needs child ❤ he is almost 3❤ Allah has blessed us in a very different way ❤

[@iloveallahswa]

You are amazing manal. Allah SWA Made you Adams mum for a reason. Having an autistic child is not easy but is very rewarding and a very interesting journey. I wish I had videos like this when my son got diagnosed all those years ago when no one knew what autism was. He is 16yrs now and thriving. May Allah protect your beautiful family and make this journey with Adam easy and full of barakah. Amen.

[@khalidhabegum6999]

You hit the spot sister..I am so glad I came across this. I'm waiting for my three year old to be assessed and you have expressed everything I am and was feeling. Thank you!

[@urooji2915]

An incredible amount of respect to you for bringing this to attention and talking about it. Kiddos on the spectrum are beautiful and so special and this isn't talked about enough in the Muslim communities in my opinion. May Allah put barakah in you and your family's affairs.

[@diamonda3222]

I just want to say I can see your face light up with such joy when you speak about Adam. May Allah protect and bless you and your whole family. Ameen. Sending you all so much love! Adam is a lucky kid to have you as his mom, but I know you feel even luckier to have him as your son. ❤

[@supasamidee]

Alhumdulillah he is special my dear, I work with children with additional needs. Love the children and being able to help them become independent young people. Your young man will be amazing, their is so much support out there. You will be fab Xx

[@malaikakhan6944]

hey love my nephew is also autistic and I know what you're going through specially as a mother its hard but trust me its a gift from God and he sees how much patience and gratitude you have towards his blessings and tests. May Allah make it easier and best !

[@hpatisseries]

You are so brave manal MashAllah the fact you even went to all these lengths just to ensure you could better help and understand Adam speaks volumes you're an amazing mother Allah huma barik ❤

[@emilymorris864]

The fears are totally real. Thank you for bravely sharing . I really appreciate it . I know ALL the feelings . May Allah bless you this Ramadan and Eid .

[@hudahack6040]

I love you and I can’t tell you enough, but this video is not just a video this video serves a purpose for so many parents out there who are in the dark or afraid. Thank you for sharing Manel. You are absolutely the best.

[@akikullie]

Mashallah! Adam is a very special baby gifted to you both from Allah swt. You were both chosen by Allah to bring him up with your love support and kindness. Allah swt saw something special in you two too! So you are all truly blessed.

[@springday5333]

I have a 6 year old girl who is on the autism spectrum. I completely relate to your experience. Hearing your story is very comforting to me, thank you so much.

[@emilymorris864]

My three year old twin boys are also autistic and their six year old sister as well.

[@id8534]

Allahuma barik Manal you are so brave and you are such a beautiful soul! Adam is very blessed to have such a loving mother ❤️ so proud of you and you’ve grown to be such a captivating woman

[@somibonne1716]

Thank you for sharing your story. You are a great mother and I wish Adam the very best.

[@damilolaolufon2327]

I actually started tearing up as you teared up Manal ❤. Bless you for sharing this with your audience. Adam is a beautiful boy with an amazing soul. May God bless you and your family, and thank you for sharing this to help others parents going through this. We love you 💕🫶🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@ameenasuleman8605]

You are an amazing mum ❤. So much respect to you for sharing this. May Allah bless you and your beautiful family x ❤

[@shaziakassam4686]

Thank you so much for this video, I’m currently in the process for both my boys and I’m trying so hard to do my best for them. I appreciate your comforting video ♥️ I needed to see this x

[@atriisho]

An absolutely incredible mum you are Manal, Allahuma baarik. May Allah protect your family. Allahuma ameen

[@tamsilamusa1831]

Salams. Firstly you are an amazing parent recognising your sons need and are doing a great job learning the process. I work in a school in UK as TA and we see parents overwhelmed at the process of getting their child diagnosed. It's a long and slow process unfortunately. So many health professionals involved and lots of appointments to attend. SLT, behaviour psychologist, play psychologist, dietitian, health care workers, gp etc.. But getting help earlier on is the best thing to do. Look into schools that can cater for your child's needs and acknowledge him as an individual person and not just another child with Special needs. It all comes down to funding which the school setting will need to apply for in order to get him the help he needs at school. This will help calm your worries .I know it's a ruthless world out there but I have seen children be so mindful and kind towards their peers with additional needs. There's alot more awareness nowadays then there was even 5 years ago . Take each day as it comes...the good ones and the not so good ones .. You are blessed to see the world through Adams perspective.

[@kiranahmed1261]

My son is 5 and also got diagnosed at 4 years old. I totally feel all the emotions you have too! Our children are amazing little humans. InshaAllah it'll all work out in Allah's plan. You got this hun x

[@aminahoosainmia]

You're a great mum, Manal ❤ Sending you hugs 😊

[@mirh1775]

Thank you for opening up Manal 💘 May Allah SWT bless you and your family ameen! You both seem like such great, supportive patients Allahumma barik