OP's Girlfriend Abandoned Him and Their 5Y/O Daughter 10 Years Ago. Now She Has Come Back To Reco...

[@classicrockkid345]

"I make you love me again." Get a fucking restraining order.

[@SecretVoices25]

😂

[@frost3193]

😂😂

[@nick-brothwood]

😂😂😂

[@Adri_Unsung]

All I gotta say about the second one is forgotten child solidarity my brother Godspeed

[@unclelink]

While listening to the first story i was reading the comments. By the time the story ended I was left wondering if we all heard the same story. Doormat? When? Dude summarily to her to f off. I was thinking, because of the comments, that they go back together. Did they just listen to the first part before commenting? Because I can't see how they come to that conclusion! Wow. Just... Wow!

[@leahmarten]

Honestly, same. It feels like people commented, even not finishing the story. But it's usual for videos like this.

[@janemba42]

He never made a single decision on his own. If it wasn't for his daughter he would have taken the ex wife back. Notice how in the whole story he didn't make a single decision for himself? Doormat.

[@unclelink]

@@janemba42 that doesn't mean he's a doormat. It means he's respectful of others' opinions and values them. Had he done what needed to be done without consulting anyone involved, you would be singing a different turn. "He's an a$$hole for ignoring his daughter's feelings." "He's controlling and we're probably getting half of the story." Guy does the right thing and not make rash decisions that would affect his daughter in the long run and he's a doormat? Nothing he, or any man does, will ever satisfy everyone. Sad.

[@shuichisaiharasimp]

​@@unclelinkKeep valuing people who never gaf about you, and see where you're gonna get with that.

[@emperorconstantinexipalaio4121]

@@janemba42He explained why he asked the daughter. She’s her mother so he wanted her to have a say.

[@Flickerbeat]

Dude. Just dude. Op in the first story, every word she's saying is bull. When I started my first relationship - I also wanted excitement and fun... And I realized I wasn't fing ready for a relationship! So ya know what I didn't do? CHEAT. I just broke up with him and tried to get myself in order. HOW DARE SHE MAKE TWO OTHER PEOPLE MISERABLE AND CALL IT THE BEST YEARS OF HER LIFE. THAT'S JUST SICK!

[@SecretVoices25]

💯💯💯💯

[@macylouwho1187]

What a blame shifting non apology. Poor kid. He needs to run away and build himself a new family of chosen people who actually love him-because these people don’t. They just hate looking like sh-tty people in the public.

[@05bastille]

Exactly. The whole "you made it so easy to ignore you" was such a trash victim blaming. He didn't do nothing, he was a CHILD. A child doesn't MAKE you ignore them, you as the parent CHOOSE to be there for him or to neglect him and they chose neglect. Just... Ugh

[@tobiasnivalis2655]

"You made it easy for us to ignore you" is some real victim blaming BS.

[@christophermercado5678]

I like everyone is ganging up on op on the first story

[@luizoliveira7595]

I'm not a redpiller, but that dude need a bit o red pill in his life. Dude is a f-cking doormat.

[@MrX-lk3ij]

Who?

[@someguy-sq1kg]

​​@@MrX-lk3ij the comments were basically calling him a punk b1tch for not getting over his ex.

[@mazthebear]

@someguy-sq1kgI mean they ain’t wrong. Homie still loved her even though she came back and just started basically verbally cucking the guy

[@thetruth1223]

That's how you know op did the right thing.... if whiteknight reedit says your wrong then your right......

[@ryangooseling]

I was also an accident. Then abused, then adopted. I am incredibly lucky to not have suffered being ignored. I was surrounded by a loving family. I hope the op has a lovely life now that the parents know how they feel.

[@dmr4450]

Story 1: that woman is not worth anyone's time.

[@yesthatmousyiris4887]

Story 1 reminds me of a saying by Cinema Therapy "Just because you love someone doesn't mean you need that person in your life." I understand that OP still loves Lucy despite what she put him through. Good on OP for understanding he needs to protect himself and his daughter and standing up to Lucy. Lucy needs to understand she will never take back what she did.

[@deadwooddooley3202]

People like to say blood is thicker than water when the original saying is the opposite, the blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb. Choose your family

[@ianmoritzplatapino3684]

The only positive thing from this story is the fact the daughter has more self respect and spine than his simp charming white knight dad. If she didnt comment anything to him he would've taken her back in a heartbeat

[@venomousx8990]

Fr

[@EduardoFlores-bt4fo]

Love when incel teenagers pretend to know more about relationships than adults. You are adorable

[@gabrielpirjol748]

The assumption of his age is adorable. Even more so that his remark is spot on. Why are you triggered? If I'm allowed to ask.​@@EduardoFlores-bt4fo

[@macylouwho1187]

@@EduardoFlores-bt4fooh Eduardo, you say that like a man who knows exactly what it’s like to take back a cheating ex who didn’t care about you in half a heartbeat like this guy wanted to so bad. Why else would you be defending someone who would so vehemently??? Don’t blame the people who DO have the self respect needed to require more of a partner than this crap. It’s a bad look. A weak one.

[@venomousx8990]

@@gabrielpirjol748 fr

[@jacearmor5274]

S1: Get a restraining order on the ex!

[@December2016]

1 story. MC is definition of doormat.

[@scaredpaul540]

exactly...i dont get this obsession with therapies in US when everything is more than clear

[@emperorconstantinexipalaio4121]

Did we watch the same video? Lol

[@the83rdtrombonist60]

Didn't he tell her to get lost??

[@matthewbarabas3052]

OP of the first story really needs some perspective. if your girlfriend wants to leave, then let her leave. dont even bother fighting because you will lose.

[@jessilynallendilla5014]

OP never seemed to need anything from them because he learned not to rely on them He made it easy to ignore him ya'll ignored him from the start knock off the blame shifting OP's nephew is two years younger than him did they all ignore that baby I think not children don't have to earn love and attention if they weren't called out they never would have admitted they did OP wrong OP you are sixteen move out and move on from these DNA relatives they are not family

[@smorphous8928]

Can you really love someone who destroyed your trust in them?

[@jameslyons6655]

The fact that this dude would even entertain the idea of letting this deceptive, cheating biohazard back in is absolutely staggering. The first time she cheated on him for two years and he apologized to her, what is that? Pathetic. His 15 year old daughter had to instruct him on how to be an adult male. Dudes actually go through life like this it’s crazy.

[@hashakahwantstorepent.4176]

what a bunch of losers

[@jamesplayzreviews]

Story 1: Jeez, there's desperate and then there's desperate guess which one this woman is

[@haarstad88]

he lived 10 years without a gf ????

[@mtheory3]

He had a career and a daughter to raise by himself

[@Twist-The-Friendly-Hunter]

Story 1: *isn't this the story which was updated recently where he went on a few dates with his ex and started dating again or is that another one* So let me get this straight. The second OP, was basically emotionally abused and ignored by his whole family because he was a accidental pregnancy. They say its because he was a easy kid to ignore. When he finally snaps they are confused. He comes back and they say just "sorry" And the OP who was self sufficient at that point didn't move out to a friends house till collage and cut his family off as they shouldn't even be called a family with how he qas treated... but instead just decided... I can give them a second chance to try. Did they ever give OP a second chance at being a member of the family? Nope. For 16 years they all but abandoned him in their own home and then said they were sorry... I lost some respect for OP giving them a second chance I won't lie. They don't deserve it.

[@Gangster_Wheyfu]

1st story's mc is a definition of simp.

[@razemander]

Everyone calling OP a simp can grow tf up.

[@HeliosX28]

Truth Hurts huh 😂

[@ladym8506]

Ok. Not even going to watch/listen to this. I can't get over the thumbnail. Abandoned a 5 year old child 10 years ago. Like 5 years before they were born? Or is the child now 15? The post needs a better title.

[@HoNkYforLiFe1]

Writing prompt 👎

[@SecretVoices25]

Maybe maybe not

[@matthewbrowatzke6024]

Don't alient your family because i have a brother who did it

[@JustinAdamson270]

So you treated him like dirt and he cut your ass off

[@lindawesley-c8w]

OMG. PLEASE LEARN THE TWO PRONUNCIATIONS OF LIVE..... ALL THESE STORIES THAT HAVE NO IDEA OF PRONUNCIATIONS IS CRAZY!! PLEASE LEARN, I DO NOT THINK YOU GUYS ARE COMPLETELY STUPID

[@DionnaNalls]

It's an AI voice. It's not human. It won't know the difference between words that are spelled the same but pronounced differently. It won't know the difference in how the word is being used.

[@dessic6191]

In the story where OP is being "neglected" by his family is just wow. You SHOW them you don't need them and when they come to you and apologize you ignore them and prove them right. It's like you want to keep being the victim. So many people nowadays keep playing victim...

[@REYCER0]

man he didnt start being self sufficient at 15, if youre being neglected then the only option is to be self sufficient, and just because a child isnt dead doesn´t mean they did even decent job as parents, and they didnt even apologize they basically said we didnt want to be near you but you where still alive so it all seemed good.

[@dessic6191]

@@REYCER0 there are 2 sides to every story. This was his and he stated theirs. None of them are wrong to feel the way they did. OP became the AH when they apologized and wanted to right their wrong by ignoring the effort, making it seem like a loss cause, and doesn't give them the chance. It's like he doesn't want them in his life after crying about how much he did. It's 100% a continuation of playing the victim.

[@REYCER0]

@@dessic6191 man that happened in less than 24h from the look of things and he just had all those years bottled up and exploded, you can´t just recover from that in so littlel time, if he did, did he even feel bad at all? forgivness is a process, if you can forgive something so soon it was just a mildly inconvenient, let people grieve, its a slow process, and even more, apologies aren´t (or shouldn´t be) words, its actions, and that also takes time, affort and concistency, if that family dinamic is to heal, it needs time, lots of it.

[@chriiiiis]

This just in a 16 year old child being upset that his family doesn't love him is "playing victim"