My Stepmom Left My Dad After I Refused To Let Her Walk Me Down The Aisle.... - Reddit Family

[@JaySole_DMV]

The affair partner thought she would be respected 😂

[@TheRachag]

That’s why she tried so hard. She thought if would wipe away the guilt.

[@linseypollack2309]

First impressions matter, OP's first impression of Tanya was as the catalyst to the destruction of her family. That's a hell of an uphill battle to overcome.

[@OGSonofsaiyan]

Yeah I wanna feel bad for her but when you act like a homewrecker you are treated as one. I think the entire story is fake tho because if Tanya was 48 at the time of the affair how did she get pregnant later on?

[@erinmcclain6423]

@@OGSonofsaiyanfor what it’s worth it can happen, it gets harder to conceive yes. But depending on genes she might have been to conceive later in life. My mom had my brother much more later in life, she was 50

[@cheshiredj]

OP's mother is the most tolerant and understanding person in the world.

[@DesmitskesUnplugged]

She's not your mother. She's not even your stepmother. She's the affair partner. Affair partners have no rights. Affair partners get nothing. They don't get to have a family with the partner they stole. They don't get to have a bond with the children of the partner they stole. They don't even get to see the children of the partner they stole. They have no right to anything.

[@bethanderson7467]

Tell dad yes but she will be listed in the program as "Father's Mistress"

[@PixieTheRabbit]

Wait! Her father had an affair with Tanya--subsequently abandoning OP & her mother...and then he and Tanya had the nerve to get angry, when OP didn't want Tanya to walk her down the aisle? LOL! Surely you jest! OP's mother has been more than generous, encouraging OP to keep a door open to repairing her relationship with Dad. Dad and Tanya are Huge A.Holes for the affair and for their ridiculous demands. Good on Dad for finally coming around. Better late than never.

[@MelaninCosplay]

Lmao! "Surely you jest!" I don't know why, but I imagined you clutching your pearls, mouth agape, head and chin cocked back, and brow lifted at the AUDACITY of the father and his mistress-wife. 😂😂

[@insanecowstar3008]

It never gets old. Typical toxic parent behavior. Blame the child for be overly sensitive because you suck as a parent.

[@mememarie2040]

There are so many things wrong with this situation. - Tanya being the mistress and her and the Father breaking up OPs parents marriage -Tanya overstepping boundries so quickly in their relationship and trying to buy her affection -her father saying now he'd have a real family when Tanya was pregnant -Tanya and the Father speaking badly about OPs mother -Tanya consistently using her miscarriage too try to get her way and guilt trip OP with it -the Father consistently not listening to OPs feelings and trying to be understanding or trying to negotiate a balance between the two. He's always taking the stepmother's side while dismissing OPs side. -Tanya and the Father always trying to manipulate OP -the Father saying some messed up things to his daughter🤬 -Tanya is trying way too hard to get OP to like her and being childish when it doesn't work -Tanya leaving the Father because she basically didn't get her way -the Father being childish as well and trying to convince OP to do what he wants to help him get Tanya back. I'm not saying OP and her mother are perfect in this situation, however, the Father and Tanya have been way out of line.

[@deborahlee63]

Stepmom is not her mom and did she forget she help break up stepdaughter 's parents.

[@ninaross211]

FINALLY A REAL FAMILY ?? REALLY ??

[@pixie_the_rabbit6833]

OP's relatives actually think that OP should compromise and let Cheater Father's (CF) Trashy Affair Partner (TAP)walk her down the aisle? LOL! OP isn't having her CF walk her down the aisle--so why in the world would she want the TA{ (who also trash talked OP's mother for years) walk her down the aisle? Those two broke her mother's heart, as well as OP"s heart & family! I guarantee that, if TRASHY CHEATERS had actually had a baby, OP would have dropped OP from her affections like a hot potato. Tanya is both trashy and delusional. OP's father is the selfish A.Hole. He abandoned OP and her mother, and he has the nerve to call OP selfish.

[@dshadow2579]

What delusional toxic people. The dad should be lucky she even speaks to him. You're a better person than I. The affair would have been strike 1, the real family comment would have been strike 2. I would have walked away before strike 3.

[@eniddeltacross4410]

When tanya left her father, OP should have answered her father "now u know what it felt like to be abandoned by ur significant other, at least not being cheated"

[@trisha7976]

Thank God you had a mom who loved her child more than she hated her ex... Take note moms

[@Tobyn77]

The father and his wife are selfish and always worked from a place of selfishness. The family dynamic was never going to work.

[@winniethepoohandeeyore2]

He's actually considering marriage 🤣🤣🤣🤣 All that chaos the dude should have bailed QUICKLY!

[@ariannairons2694]

And that is why your are probably not married😀

[@winniethepoohandeeyore2]

@@ariannairons2694 Try again lol

[@ninaross211]

TANYA HAS ABSOLUTELY NO PLACE IN YOUR WEEDING !! JUST WANT TO WITNESS YOUR MOTHER HEART ❤️. BREAKING ! ONLY GOAL ! NOBODY CAN REPLACE YOUR OWN MOTHER

[@jojo2007ish]

OP is better than me. Once he pulled the I'm not your father anymore card I would have never spoken to him again. Period. End of discussion.

[@Mrwillie95]

Op needs to go no contact with her dad and stepmom because they bring so much drama in her life

[@sierrafairbanks7776]

It's probably a good thing Tanya left when she did because I would not trust grandchildren around her. 😬

[@skyelinkhyrule5715]

This video is gonna give me D I A B E E T U S.

[@bethward6788]

Now I want some cake!!

[@justinburgard4700]

S1) Screw the homewrecker. You've been WAYYYYY to forgiving as it is

[@HDB1974]

Twice the father chose the homewrecker over his own daughter. He is a man that is not to be trusted.

[@ninaross211]

NO REAL MOTHER ACTS ///. DOES. THINGS TANYA. SAYS &. DOES !

[@matthewhuszarik4173]

Tanya willingly was the other woman sleeping with a married man. She should never be forgiven that. Tell your father you will sorry he won’t be attending. But if they want to attend they will be sitting with the other guests.

[@amyrussell860]

Op's dad/Tanya have shown Op who they really are. I hope Op believes them. No, Op is not wrong for how she wants to do her wedding/and not wanting to "compromise". I am glad the fiance is being supportive. Op's mom continued "taking the high road" stance is also to be commended.

[@henryetta612]

All I hear is me, me , me, I don’t think O.P. Is telling the whole truth. Just enough to favor herself.

[@sachawilliams2959]

And? OP owes NOTHING to her father’s FAP turned wife TF😂😂😂

[@bethanderson7467]

Tell her no matter what she did or gave did not make up that she was the reason your parents broke up and you have no respect for woman who slept with a married man.

[@greatgamingendavour]

Reversed toxic Cinderella syndrome ? 🤔🙄😤😮‍💨🤨

[@bethward6788]

Cake!!!! I need cake and a diabetic coma!!!!

[@tiffanyross4266]

Tonya is a drama queen 👑

[@TheGrandy123]

Propose her another role to play...if they dont accept, it is not your pb. Stepmom should go to therapy to deal with her loss. And you should talk privetly with your dad maybe with a support person with you. You should all go to therapy.

[@winniethepoohandeeyore2]

Those cakes though... YUM!

[@lisagentry2166]

This AI lost the ability to count... at least basic math!!!! how can parents 2-3 years apart have a child when they are both 25?

[@Mightype]

Freah

[@Grap3s_.1]

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[@MCBRUCE76]

Why is that protagonists never speak, reply, or respond, with the RIGHT dialogues or rebuttals in the conversation. Always, the same old immature amateur author's tricks, to continue the storyline for a much larger/longer script.

[@YesTodaySatan69]

I don't know who needs to hear this, but FUCK KEEPING THE PEACE