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[@PilotCristina]

That's the way Filipinos are too. They always say wow you gained weight. It's pretty rude. I don't think it's even the health reason. It's like don't they don't see the other things you are good at. It's always the first thing they say.

[@DetectiveEna]

Right Rudder sigh so rude!! I hate when they feel justified bc they think they're being honest and good for you like ok 🙄

[@efahhab7828]

I Loved your frankness / honesty. Just Continue being you, create your own path & don't let others ( negative people) from hindering your own decision to live your own life

[@DetectiveEna]

Efah Hab thank you!! I'm trying 😊

[@SakuraMakii]

This speaks to me on so many levels. I use to be in the high 90s with my weight, then I went up to about 114 (I was happy because I wanted to gain weight after being called anorexic all of the time). I was in the military so I was incredibly active.... but then I started gaining weight like crazy, and I wasn’t used to see the weight on me. I would still eat healthy, work out etc. but nothing was working anymore, now that I’m no longer in the military, I struggle sooooo much. I don’t like the way my body looks, but I can’t do much anymore. I haaaate my belly area, it looks ugly. But I’m trying to come to terms and find others like me... it helps knowing I’m not alone. I’m sorry that the Chinese standard is so harsh on you... I’m sure that really has to suck big time. You’re not alone! I deal with comments and such from family, but my husband is always cheering me up and letting me know that he supports and loves me thru everything. ❤️❤️❤️

[@DetectiveEna]

thats really sweet and im glad you have such a loving and supportive husband like that!! good luck with everything we are in it together

[@goldenmonigirl]

Thank you for sharing the recipe! You are so real and genuine. 😊

[@DetectiveEna]

goldenmonigirl aw thank you!!

[@melikeetoo]

The best quote I ever heard really changed my life perspective goes: "There is no need to struggle with your body when you can make a loving and grateful peace with it" as females we are taught to never be happy with how we look, weigh or think. What if we chose instead to just be happy? When you're 20 you wish you could look like you did when you were a teenager, when you're 30, you wish you could look like when you were 20. Why not just decide today to enjoy everything about yourself now?

[@DetectiveEna]

melikeetoo agreed! That's a great quote. So interesting I wonder why and how we're taught to not like ourselves as women

[@cyincerelyyours8589]

Im korean and I can relate sooooo much to everything you said. And even our outlook on life is so similar. My sister has cancer at the age of 30 and I tell this everyday. Our body shapes are similar too. I live in Vegas and I am so pale because I wear long sleeves all year round because I think I'm so fat or people tell me how fat I am. Just wanted to say that I'm def subbing and I hope you keep making these videos and don't ever lose your outlook on life!

[@DetectiveEna]

hi there thanks for the comment. i'm really sorry to hear about your sister, i hope she gets better soon. thanks for the encouragement as well and good luck to all of us!

[@lenaf4ever]

Totally on point! Preach it hun!

[@DetectiveEna]

lenaf4ever 😘

[@abeerka]

Hi. New subbie. I have the same issue with pcos and weight gain and no diet or workout worked for 4 years. Then I saw a nutritionist and my blood test revealed that a lot of the food o was having wasn't suiting me (aside from your normal carbs). I have lost 12 kg (28 pounds I think) in 3 months. I highly recommend that to help with pcos:-)

[@DetectiveEna]

+Abeer Khalid oh wow!! Thanks for letting me know I will keep that in mind!!

[@RoseBrennanLinda]

I think Asian people are more focused on their appearance even if it's not realistic or healthy, but if you surround yourself with people who embrace their bodies you'll find yourself motivated to do the same. It's not about losing weight to look more attractive, but to gain muscle. Exercising and eating right will make most people feel better. You're taking care of your body and giving it proper the proper nutrients it needs. Being active will help you in the long run where your health is concerned. It also lets you participate in sports which is always a fun activity in my eyes. Losing weight is a short term goal, but growing stronger is something that lasts. I don't think that it's sustainable to have an objective to just look pretty or impress others because we all grow old. It's something that we should all accept and come to love. Every day that we wake up, we make new memories whether they be good or bad. It shouldn't be wasted on agonizing on how we look. You'll only become the person you've always wanted to be if you start loving yourself today and making changes for tomorrow. Don't worry about an occasional outing. Take things slow and transition into your "diet". Look up recipes for food that you want to eat, preferably high protein/low carbs if you're trying to lose fat and gain muscle. Find something you're comfortable with. It'll take time and lots and lots of adjustment. Good luck and take care!!

[@DetectiveEna]

Linda Devine thank you for the comment! I agree with everything you said. I'm trying to make the positive adjustments everyday! Xx

[@eileenthescientist]

I completely understand how you feel! I'm part Chinese and i'm getting married soon, all I'm stressed about is trying to lose weight so I don't have to hear the Chinese aunties bitch about my weight at the wedding. It's so depressing! But yeah, you do you girl! Love your vlogs and sit down talks xxx

[@DetectiveEna]

+Beauty Scientist omg that sucks! I'm sure you'll look beautiful. Good luck dealing with them! Thank you love ❤️

[@annettelu7516]

hey where's your glasses frame from? its so cute

[@marimarguerite]

I agree with what you said about having to take it all in; feeling the pain and moping around helps you reflect on the events and learn how to move forward. IMO skipping the mulling over process and just trying to happily prance over it just makes things worse in the long run when I encounter the problem again. Side note: I tried the egg+tomato recipe. Definitely fool-proof because it turned out BOMB. You've saved a broke college student's life! XD

[@DetectiveEna]

Lisa Winter yeah agreed! Yayyy I'm glad you like it. So yums 🍅 🍳

[@mychocochip]

Youre so pretty though... I had similar problem with job, but moved on in a way after right amount of mourning.

[@DetectiveEna]

+BestChocolatecookiesRecipe aw you're so sweet! Yeah love a good pity party and a good cry haha 😘

[@beckyb.5064]

I am Korean and it's also same here in Korea. But we don't have to care about what other people think. I think you are really attractive!!

[@DetectiveEna]

💗 💕

[@molissa12]

Omg I found someone who is one the same page as me. I'm also Chinese, growing up my relatives always compares me to my cousin who is so skinny and tall, which I'm the total opposite. And I get endless rude comments about my weight being at a really young age. Till today I'm 24 and still dealing and struggling with my weight.

[@DetectiveEna]

+Selina Dong omg that's awful!!!! Don't listen to them they're very narrow minded and overly critical on physical appearance. Ignore!!!!

[@molissa12]

Detective Ena funny thing is that when relatives that haven't seen me in years, first thing they say is "omg you gained weight or you need to lose weight" instead of saying anything nice. Lol

[@DetectiveEna]

+Selina Dong 😔😔😫

[@xxz9411]

My feelings were hurt by older Chinese's straightforwardness too during my childhood lol. I guess the beauty standard comes from ancient China's aesthetics. I always made that dish too, easy and yummy.

[@DetectiveEna]

xn v sigh haha gotta just ignore it. Yes super yumsss

[@funloverms.l1807]

Omg, i am Chinese， i totally understand chinese relatives

[@DetectiveEna]

+Cow Cow sigh

[@tingeling5663]

I'm Scandinavian and we never say things about other people's weight. We pretend that we don't care, and then we cry our selves to sleep, wishing we were African American with a nice booty and slim waist instead of a flat ass and a saggy belly! :) LOL! And then there is the Asian hair envy. You don't need to be skinny with that beautiful hair girl! xo xo

[@DetectiveEna]

+Tingeling lolol you're so funny!! 😘💋

[@anniecheung7384]

Like 2 c u 🍳👩🏼‍🍳👍🏼

[@DetectiveEna]

Annie Cheung thanks!! ❤️