My Struggles as an INTROVERT on Social Media (Emotional)

I struggle with being an introvert and with the idea that I can't always communicate what I want to in a way most people can understand. Sometimes being an introvert makes me feel isolated, I also don't think people believe that I'm introverted because of social media. It makes me feel insecure and isolated and compounds my imposter syndrome. But some I feel being an introvert has gifted me with a bit of self-awareness and thoughtfulness that has helped me in life.
Maybe you also have this feeling if you're an introvert but are active in social media. Or maybe the current situation in the world has made you think about how you might be isolated.
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[@DamianVaz]

It's crazy to me that he thinks he's unrelatable, he's the most relatable KZbinr I watch. I get crazy inspired by everything he posts. I admire him a lot.

[@RobertoBlake]

It’s just my lived experience. I can be empathetic but that’s not always the same thing as really understanding others. And I myself often am not understood or have to be long winded because I’m threading together several macro or micro points. Also I tend to look at things holistically in a world that always wants you to pick a side. It often makes me feel very alone and isolated . Added to that very few ppl understand the nature of success and unconventional success is even less understood. Now with society obsessed with the idea of “privilege” people don’t bother to get context before judging the gap between what you have and what they don’t, by the gap between what you had to overcome and change about yourself, from someone who might have started with even less than them. There are so many other things I could go into that create a feeling of isolation as well in terms of being an outlier in your own family... etc

[@TubeThings]

Roberto Blake “Thinking is difficult, that’s why most people judge.” Carl Jung 🙃 Also, a lot of people don’t care about the truth, they just want an excuse to feel better about their situation so they don’t have to change anything. 🤷🏻‍♀️ maybe I’m just a cynic. Lol

[@LeeNacola]

So true. He is so calm and cool. I love him!

[@thekateexperience]

He really is

[@thekateexperience]

@@RobertoBlake I can definitely relate to that.

[@LearnWebCode]

"It's really hard for people who live very much in the present to deal with you and to see things from your perspective, because for you everything is in the future, everything is about what is being built, everything is about turning a thought into a thing." That is the most relatable thing I've ever heard in my life. Awesome video!

[@BusinessBuzz]

Being introverted has its cons, but is also has its pros.

[@JonathanEBoyd]

Well said Indeed it does

[@moneytri2525]

I'm a super introvert to the point that its hard for me to convey my thoughts and I have a hard time pronouncing words, however, I always wanted to create videos and after years of putting it off, I'm finally pursuing that goal. I'm glad you made this video because I can relate on a deep level. As much as I'm struggling, I really hope I can grow from this experience. Thanks for the great content!

[@DihelsonMendonca]

Me too. Do you know some facebook or other place to meet people who have this problem ? To share our introvert problems ?

[@DENicholsAutoBravado]

@@DihelsonMendonca I don't know about that, but I know that Roberto has talked about things he's done on the past to work on his extroverted skills, to include being a keynote speaker in front of professionals in the field. I'm sure it won't be hard to find numerous examples if you look for it.

[@DadDude]

Same here, Money Tri! Keep at it and I think you'll be able to build that confidence just like Roberto. I think as you become more confident and comfortable, you'll also have an easier time finding the right words to say. This is something I'm still struggling with too, though. I feel your pain.

[@DihelsonMendonca]

@@DENicholsAutoBravado Thank you.

[@moneytri2525]

@@DadDude Thanks for the support!

[@Financial_Awareness]

HUGE difference between a true friend & a friend-by-convenience. Many “work friends” in the corporate world are friends by default because you see them daily, but not all of those friends follow you throughout life. Stay strong man! Love your videos

[@RobertoBlake]

That’s a good point honestly

[@dinkylovesbooks]

I've always been an introvert, and I used to beat myself up about it, because people always made me feel that there was something 'wrong' with me. It took me a long, long time to overcome that feeling of inadequacy. I still struggle sometimes, but I've worked on myself long and hard to accept myself without judgment. I learnt that it's a personality type, and not a personality defect, and there was nothing wrong with me. I look at it as a blessing now, because it helps me to cut out so much of crap and so many irrelevant people from my life. And being by myself helps me to be super creative and productive. Sometimes when I used to watch your videos, I used to notice that you would look away from the camera, and I remember thinking 'he's an introvert, and this is difficult for him, looking straight at the camera, knowing that there are thousands of people on the other side'. I still feel that way sometimes while talking to people. My mom used to tell me when I was a kid that people might think I was not confident or had something to hide it I didn't look them straight in the eye. It used to make me sooooo uncomfortable because I was SO shy! But now I'm totally proud of and comfortable with my Introversion. It's kinda like my superpower 😎

[@smmartin88]

This was TOTALLY relatable! I’m also an introverted person, who have some of those same struggles.

[@JonathanEBoyd]

Exactly

[@SimpleHappyZen]

Great video! I feel like you would fit in well here in the Netherlands. We have lots of introverts and everyone here always speaks their mind, our culture is very direct 😊

[@RobertoBlake]

Lol I have thought of moving overseas many times

[@KisemboPhysicsAndMath]

i think this is why i was drawn to you from the very beginning - we are just the same - i am an introverted person too and sometimes i feel im missing out on... 'life' because of my constantly liking being alone, reading, thinking, and all that stuff. but i guess it comes down to dealing with the insecurities and struggles, taking a long view on things and embracing our unique strengths in our introvertedness. youre so right - we can still be successful and do great things despite the introvertedness. thanks roberto for sharing. i hope that one day i will break out of my cacoon and share about my introvert issues like you are doing...

[@YoSamdySam]

I actually think introverts (or ambiverts) make better public speakers than extroverts. This was very relatable, although I'm not super introverted, I am autistic, so many people see me that way. Thanks for this video.

[@Reptiles_Uncaged]

Transparent, honest, and most important RELATABLE. There's a lot of people out here that feel like theyre hard to relate with, im one of them. Low key wanna see a few more videos on this topic from you. Thanks for sharing 👍🏼

[@RobertoBlake]

In working on it more for my second channel where I can talk about whatever. Right now most of the videos are my conversations with other people. Just search for “Real Talk with Roberto Blake”.

[@LifewithAaronArnold]

Bro we all Love you! YOU ARE the GOAT!

[@penel76]

FACTS!!!!

[@SimpleHappyZen]

Your question: As an introvert, I'm currently working on being more myself on camera and not worrying exactly about how things look in different shots and angles. Showing more of my inner self, of that makes sense. 😊

[@CamillaCoachHarris]

Simple Happy Zen WOW... I commend you. I have a problem showing my face. I worry about what others think too much. It’s just in the last couple years my daughter convinced me to take pictures. I just can’t seem to show my face on KZbin.

[@JOAJOA]

Hi Roberto! You're more relatable than you know! We have so much in common. However, I can see it in your eyes all the time that there is a sense of sadness. I've been watching you for years. I have the same problem as well. You're a smart guy. The only thing I dislike is when you say you're old because you are not lol! I like seeing this side of you rather than "let's get to business ". Although I knew you felt this way, guess I'm empathetic, you should do more videos like this! It makes you human!

[@theworthyofshowpodcast4336]

"I really hate being misunderstood." THIS RIGHT HERE. I either didn't speak up at all or I overexplain to the point that people don't take me seriously. I've come a long way but man - its a struggle. Thank you so much for your vulnerability. I definitely needed this today.

[@ThePoshPaperLady]

I just want THANK YOU! You popped up in my feed in late 2018. After not only listening to you BUT hearing you, did I get out of my own head and start my channel. You have been my go to mentor and this introvert can’t thank you enough👏🏽❤️👏🏽❤️

[@LisaIrby]

Whew! This was so relatable in many ways. It's always interesting to me that many KZbinrs are introverts, which is what draws us to online biz. We can do it from home and decide when we want to be "on" or "off." Love this video, Roberto! You have such a great talent for articulating your points. Introverts have that talent!

[@mirandalevy1451]

I hear you. I understand you. You're not alone. You're so loved and appreciated and I hope you never forget that.

[@DoodleOnAMotorcycle]

we're here b/c we're drawn to you/ your content b/c it strikes a similar cord in ourselves - your audience relates

[@justinkd]

You’ve come to be one of my favourite content creators. Aside from learning so much from you, it’s amazing at how open you are about everything and I resonate with you on a lot of the stuff you say. Keep doing your thing bro, smaller creators like me really do look up to you 👊🏼👌🏼

[@HannahTheHorrible]

Yes, I think we know you are introverted and struggle with these things. The thing is, your audience appreciates it. You are so authentic in every video and livestream, and if you were trying too hard to be “relatable”, it would come across and we would know you weren’t being genuine. That’s why I follow you...you’re one of the most genuine youtubers out there. I LOVE that you’re no bull****.

[@YenkoAfrica]

Thank you very much for sharing your heart and experience. I agree with and can relate to what you have shared. It took me a while to realize that life is like being a member of a large tribe but only flowing with a few members of the tribe. Although I may be from a large tribe that consist of many villages, clans and families, there may only be one or two people in the entire tribe that I can really flow with, relate to and those who can really flow - relate to me. I am happy to hear that you have found those few members of your tribe that you can flow with.

[@PortraitofAsha]

Roberto, you're telling my whole life!!!

[@EvieAswiti]

I watched this initially thinking I was an extrovert, but after hearing you explain your experience, I think I’m an introvert! Especially the having a handful of friends part and being a homebody sometimes.

[@lilafromyoutube]

Very relatable! Thanks for putting yourself out there, Roberto! It's going to inspire a lot of people :)

[@QueenMagomani]

I can totally relate. I’m an introvert and I don’t feel relatable, I don’t even have relatable situations. So, good to know I’m not alone and thanks for this video. I’m also very scared of criticism and hate being misunderstood 🤔🤔🤔

[@TashaCurryTheMarriageMentor]

I really resonated with this video. As you said my default setting is also an introvert but I do try and talk to people when I go out (usually just forcing myself) because I do like other people's ideas and opinions. As introverts we live in our head so much that sometimes we have to listen to other people to let go of our own thinking. I chuckled at the being direct, because I was told that at work. But the younger adults still come to me for advice because I don't bullshit them and give them fluff. They come to me because they will get the honest answer. I don't always say things in the nicest way and that is what I am working on. Loved this video.

[@MichaelBordenaro]

It was good that you put this out there Roberto. It’s strange because I am an introvert as well, but I did not have a lot of the same experiences as you growing up, and dealing with people etc. But I guess that is part of what makes us all different. Thanks for sharing

[@MasterTeacherTutoring]

As a fellow Introvert I can TOTALLY RELATE to you! I’m insecure about being 50 and starting something new and it be successful! I have so many ideas I want to share but I don’t want to face the criticism that comes with putting myself out there! Thank you for your transparency and not deleting this video.

[@RobertoBlake]

50 is still plenty of time if you have the energy and you’re passionate about something!

[@MultipleCareers]

I relate to the majority of the things you said! This is exactly why I relate to you and love your videos and the way you explain things. Introverts put themselves out there despite their insecurities. I love one-on-one conversations, working for hours and days on my own, but as soon as I get into a group - that's a different thing :-). When making youtube videos or other ways of talking 'one-way', introverts can fully express themselves without feeling rushed. They can take the time to lay out all their thoughts and follow their train of thought. Please continue to do what you're doing, it's inspiring!

[@TheJazzyNation1]

We are the same person. I was just talking to someone about this and they didn’t understand how I could be so introverted and also be on KZbin. You hit the nail on the head with how I have felt my whole life. Thanks for sharing 💕

[@TheJazzyNation1]

I have a lot of the same insecurities but I am working on how I react to people. I know I can’t control what people do or say to me but I can change the way I react for sure. Yes, I enjoyed you opening up more. I’d like to see more content like this.

[@CraftingwithDelonda]

I can relate to 99% of this Roberto ❤. I feel this way on so many levels. I wasn't ever bullied, but I have a very, very small amount of friends and I am so direct that most times it's best for me to keep my mouth shut, instead of saying what I feel. I enjoy making content on KZbin because I enjoy teaching; but the interpersonal relationships are a struggle. Thank you for your transparency. I love this more than I can express.

[@GeekoutdoorsBrand]

Thanks so much Roberto for sharing this very personal struggle/journey - I can relate to level 9,000👍

[@SPKLifestyle]

I’m glad you feel comfortable enough to post this. Some creators are so afraid to step out of their niche. You are a big motivation for a lot of people, especially me. Keep grinding 💪🏾🔥

[@RobertoBlake]

Planning more of this specific type of thing for season 3 of the Podcast

[@MsSquarebanana]

I find you very relatable.. especially after the last email you sent out. Re: criticism - I totally relate to hanging on to every bad thing. I have pretty bad social anxiety and I even get really nervous sending out newsletters. Of course someone responded with " no one wants your opinion on x,y, and z". I know I need to ignore it, but it's there, in the back of my mind, eating away. It's difficult to "just be confident" and "stop caring what people think". Anyway - I say all that to let you know I appreciate you opening up and I think you're relatable to more people than you realize.

[@JonathanEBoyd]

Brilliantly Articulated always easier said than done All the best

[@RaDuhKewl]

Thank you for this man. So many points in the video I was saying to the screen "THAT'S ME! THAT'S ME!"... Super relatable! Also with the world situation and personal stuff I needed this. Appreciate you putting yourself out there man, keep it up!

[@diaryofamadmixedgirl1018]

I love having an introvert to look up to. When I hear Roberto talk about his childhood, it's like hes telling my story. Except for the good parents part. School was hell but it was my only escape from home

[@ClayDisarray]

Crikey, I relate to this so much. Solidarity, Roberto! (plus I LOVE the lighting in your studio) 💜

[@RobertoBlake]

Thanks Clay. Cheers!

[@RestlessHarp]

I really enjoyed this video. I am also an introvert and have difficulty posting on social media, and it was really helpful to me to hear that you have some similar struggles to mine, because you're out here doing all of this anyway, and that's very inspiring. Thank you!

[@BeauFleurVlogs]

This is extremely relateble, everything you said. EVERYTHING

[@thejroostheory7831]

Great video Roberto. It takes a real person and mentally strong person to admit something they have struggled with. Much respect.

[@jamalmortimer]

Wow this is exactly me... Thanks for making this video, this means a lot to me.

[@patrynaswritings7617]

Thanks so much for sharing this and being transparent. I'm sure it wasn't easy but it was relatable . A hand full of real friends is more than most .Thanks for being such a inspiration & motivation. I have been insecure about marking videos

[@self-carewithlia978]

I sooo can relate! As a creative who is also an Empath and introvert (well more of an ambiavert), that's stopped me from truly building a personal brand on social media. I really understand where your coming from mentally and emotionally. Thanks for sharing your TRUE STORY! 💛

[@joynoir6386]

I'm glad you decided to make this video and did not send it to the deleted pile! There are millions of us introverts who struggle daily to be who we are. Thank you for being honest and vulnerable to talk about your insecurities. I've been struggling with the thought of creating social media content. I am a business owner of the last 10 years who has been successful by grace of God because I do not publish anything on social media ever! But I want to learn to be more engaging! Thanks to this visit video I'm going to muster up the courage!

[@RobertoBlake]

A lot of people can learn from you too and I hope you do decide to put yourself out there more. Yeah I’m realizing that this is important and I think it’s why I am going to start doing my second channel more and why I am going in this direction with season 3 of my podcast

[@jeffjemini395]

You spoke to my soul 😔 I know your struggles very well....they are my own.

[@veryvanessa]

I resonated so much with this. I also notice that I could go weeks with being very active on social media. Then I need a couple weeks to revert back into my shell and be away from everything for a bit. The issue with this is when I go into my shell I don’t have content to release so it looks like I’m not “consistent.”

[@amychanam]

I love how you put yourself out there. I am an INFJ so I totally get the introvert thing. And I am a blogger. I have noticed that a lot of bloggers are introverts. For me, it's my way of showing my creativity to the world. And it's so much easier for me to communicate how I am feeling & thinking thru blogging. Whereas, if I am in a room with you trying to talk, I feel totally weird and ass-backward!! lol.. I thought something was wrong with me for the longest time because I had such an issue with meeting new people or just trying to have small talk. Introverts are definitely deep thinkers & self-aware. Awesome video!! More like this, please!

[@SomiFitBossNG]

Wow you are very relateable and likeable. Saw you on Nick's channel...the group livestream...you were the only one that instantly resonated with me and i came and subscribed to your channel immediately

[@n.c.467]

Roberto: I have been watching and enjoying learning from your videos for a couple of years... 1. About friends: my mother always says that you are lucky if you even have one true friend in life...and she's right! 2. Being relatable is an equation - you can only bring one half of it to any encounter...the other person/people have to supply the other half... 3. The most sensitive among us always feel things most deeply and hold back some part of ourselves as a protective mechanism. 4. Bullying happens to people who are gifted because they bring out jealousy and envy in others. I know... 5. You have come such a long way from your first video - you have truly challenged yourself and pulled out the best of yourself and shared it with us. You are gifted and generous. Stay you - a whole lot of people like what you're about, just the way you are. Truly liked this sharing you did - but only continue if you enjoyed the process too.

[@FitOutsideTheBox]

I gotta talk on video more like I do in real life. I have been practicing on my persnal facebook live lol.

[@samdezao]

Roberto, I can seriously relate to this entire video. As I kept watching, I kept saying to myself. "Yep. Yep that's me. Oh yeah. I get that." But the quote that I relate to the most from this video is "I really wish that, much like an extrovert, I didn't care what other people think of me." I wish that was a switch that you could turn off but I haven't found that switch yet. I'll start a video and in the middle of shooting it be like "nope. People will hate this. Or this isn't good enough. Or I'm not good enough to be talking about this." So I appreciate the vulnerability. Just know you are NOT alone! (even though you may prefer to be alone!😁 )

[@CreditFast]

I have the same problem, and you are a great inspiration to the rest of us introverts to see how well you have done in your career. I met you at VidSummit, and you were very helpful, kind to everyone, and well-liked as a person. I think you've done enough with self-improvement. We're all human, and you are a very decent one. All the best.

[@narcissismcognitivedissonance]

Roberto, I can relate to you. I am sure many people can. A lot of us dealt with bullies all our lives. Being made fun of, mocked, and picked on by evil spirits isn’t fun and is designed to do many things. It takes us years to figure out why we were targeted. It’s because we are different and we have the light. Did you know that? I feel myself drawn to your videos because I see it in you. The light. The passion. And I love that. Not to mention the learning. You are a great teacher. I think many of us get to a point in life where we are both introvert and extrovert, depending on the situation. Now, I am a highly spiritual being so negative energy makes me suspicious and I turn the host into a case study. I am a behavioral analyst underneath everything I do. It appears you also have that in you. We are creators and leaders, not 100% followers. That is why we get a lot of hate. And you know what? We also learn that haters who keep hating are only frustrating themselves because in the end, they will still hate, while we spread the love! Love and light my fellow brethren. ❤️🙏

[@ExtremelyBerry]

Hey Roberto, thank you so much for the livestream tonight. This is a personal topic we’ve been discussing between ourselves lately. Thanks again, it was awesome to meet you!

[@Dreymasmith]

Do you know how helpful it was to hear the words "living inside my head" or "friendly with without being friends"? And radical candour is such a balancing act. I have found making videos to be really liberating - interacting with the monitor and mic is such a helpful buffer. I still find face to face incredibly hard, but I am gaining skills. This video and "you are not broken and don't need fixing" are my two favourites of all your content because they both speak to me on personal and very targetted level. Thank you so much for sharing these things with us and for not hitting delete.

[@RobertoBlake]

Appreciate you. Yes it’s a real balancing act and can be hard on the people around you if you don’t lend it right and communicate how much you care and demonstrate good faith. Most of internet interactions are bad faith criticism unfortunately, and that increases the anxiety creative people have. I’m glad you like the more thoughtful videos. I know they won’t get a ton of views but I make them for people like us

[@RetroNerdGirl]

I can totally relate to being misunderstood and being introvert. I used to be more extrovert when I was younger, but became very isolated and more introverted as I got older. I'm more at peace with it now, but I am learning how to achieve balance.

[@txsilentknight]

Wow.... you seriously just hit me deep in the feels...this is 100% me. I have also recently been diagnosed with ADHD at 31. And a lot of this overlaps and compounds.

[@TheLiveOutLoudFamily]

Love this so much Roberto! Sounds like we had very similar childhoods - working 2-3 jobs while being class president, juggling debate team etc. while in high school. I am thankful for that hustle though because as you mentioned it built character and pushed me way outside my comfort zone. You are an amazing person and add value to so many! Thank you for being YOU! 💕❤️

[@WonderfulWanderingTopics]

Being an introvert myself I can relate to what you are saying. Thanks for sharing.

[@jusforjoy2905]

I enjoy watching videos like this one. There are plenty of people who are great at being the best polished commercial version of themselves. And that has it's place. But I''ll take authenticity over style or trendy, especially when it comes to motivation. Thank Roberto. Also, enjoyed the broll of you taking photos.

[@alartlart]

Great video! I'm almost 30 and I would say that it is normal as an adult to only have a handful of friends. I would say I'm mostly extroverted and I find you very relatable and inspiring. I really like this kind of video from you! I guess for your question, I'm trying to work on putting myself out there. A lot of stuff has happened in my life in the past year or so that has reduced my confidence in talking to people. I guess people may not notice thanks to my extroversion but in my head I'm trying a lot harder than I used to. I've become hyper aware of what I say and how I say it and what may happen if I say the wrong thing. This was never an issue for me in the past.

[@riellekoy7196]

You're childhood just decribed my chilhood with the art and comics things.

[@RobertoBlake]

A lot of us had that same experience apparently.

[@Red5oh]

That was so relatable! I’m glad you’re able push through this and provide us with helpful videos

Oh I liked this before you even spoke. As an introvert, this is so validating! I subscribed recently and I’m so glad I did.

[@myrealnameismadeup410]

Yes, more of this. Being that I'm even more of an "old head" than you Roberto, you might be surprised how much we have in common. It's my feeling that there's more people IRL and on the internet, that this video pertains to and can help by viewing it. Thanks for always bringing the helpful content!

[@AshleyEnjoli]

Same. I’m an introvert who struggles but has social media. I have no idea how you do your speaking engagements. I’m working on just being natural in front of the camera. Can’t even imagine speaking in front of groups like you do.

[@misskerriparker4905]

This video came in time because I was feeling down today for this exact reason... I felt everything you said in this video! I can relate because I’m the same way and always felt like the oddball growing up... Yes please do more videos like this!❤️

[@CamillaCoachHarris]

Miss Kerri Parker I was feeling down too ...this video helped me feel a little better about myself today

[@rjbaptist26]

Man Thank you for sharing...I relate to this so much...not sure if you are familiar with the Myers-Briggs Personality test but I am a INTJ and you sound very similar to that.

[@loverboy3999]

Man this really hit me hard💥, I'm extremely an introverted person but also a creative person, what's funny is that people always want to hang with me but I always seem to push them away... this video just came into my life at the right time, now I'm motivated and inspired to try some things out of my comfort zone. Thank You Brotha and keep up the good work!!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾✊🏾✊🏾

[@MichaelJosephJr]

Who used to be an introvert until being KZbinr, then got better at social out going ~ 😍😍😍 yea I am as well KZbinr from Vietnam

[@DihelsonMendonca]

I´m a little bit better, but not at the point to speak directly to the camera. I´m very depressed and not vibrant. I don´t like to talk much.

[@smokerx6291]

GOOOOOOOOOOOD MOOOOORNING VIETNAM!!!!!!!!!

[@MichaelJosephJr]

@@DihelsonMendonca your channel is great ~

[@JazzieJaeT]

I hope everyone has been spending this time to create quality content! thanks Roberto for the great tips per usual!

[@ConnorEckdahl]

So glad you put this one out there Roberto! As an introvert and artist, I related to a lot of it. Would love to see another heart-to-heart vid! 🐶🐶

[@FitOutsideTheBox]

Identify with so mucb of thid. THANK YOU so great hearing you verbalize so many things I can relate to!!

[@SelfTaughtWeightloss]

I can relate to what you’re saying. I am my biggest critic. I’ve learned to get out of my head and just GO! It’s still a process but I’m not in my way anymore.

[@nicoletpty3199]

Hi Roberto, fellow introvert here and can totally relate to this video. Please remember that your videos are a blessing to the world, thanks for being you! :)

[@SegrainesAMV]

Me getting to know you on the internet is destiny. You just outlined my whole personality 100%

[@RobertoBlake]

Maybe I’m not as weird as I think

[@SegrainesAMV]

@@RobertoBlake Definitely

[@matereseroche166]

@@RobertoBlake I just started watching your videos, this one caught my eye b/c I'm also an introvert but need to "put myself out there" for work (I hate it). When I saw this I thought "yep, he's my tribe". There are a lot of us out there who are introverts and experience the same / very similar experiences and emotions you describe. May I suggest if you've not read it Susan Cain's book "Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Cannot Stop Talking ". After reading that book you will see that you are not weird, you are in excellent company and the world needs introverts and the gifts we bring more than ever.

[@robinkholmes7127]

Being introverted became more challenging for me when I got out of school. My parents are both introverts, I know an atypical family. Finding that my introversion helped me focus on talks was my strong-point.

[@VacationImpossible]

Roberto, watching you just being yourself inspires me and gives me energy to go out there and share my self with the world. From what I see you only put good out into the universe, keep doing you man

[@NeilTruick]

Roberto, I can relate with a lot of what you said. Growing up, where you had the strong emotional support system in your home, my strongest emotional support came from adults outside my home, like teachers, administrators, and other parents. It created a disconnect I struggle with to this day. My constant pursuit of acceptance from my family led to overachievement in school, and eventually, in the workplace. That being said, whenever compliments or accolades were given to me, they were hard to accept because they were rarely accompanied by the same from my parents. Forming close work relationships has always been a challenge for me, unless the job itself facilitated the interaction and exposure. I could go on for days, but I just wanted to let you know your words were important for me to hear today. I haven't come across many who have experienced the types of things I've experienced. Just hearing you convey your struggles and how you use them to your advantage let me feel a little less isolated today, and that is a very good thing. Thank you, and your "100 Crappy Videos" mantra has been ringing in my head ever since the day it came out. I don't know if I will ever get to that point, but I will always work to find a way to create something awesome today.

[@ClaireSamuelinEnglish]

Thank you so much for this video dear Roberto. Mental health and self awareness are crucial. All the best, Claire

[@nirtheart]

11:40 Roberto, I have Asperger's and am on the autism spectrum. A lot of the challenges you describe here are things I went through growing up, too, and some things I am still working on. I'm no psychology specialist like the one I went to for diagnostic purposes, and obviously I don't know you _that well_ from only watching your videos for 5 years soon. But it may be something to look into, especially as one can draw from experiences by those who struggle with the same things. That's why I seeked out a diagnose - to get certainty in my feelings of being different, and for that to lead to confidence in taking the necessary care for myself so that I could manage my everyday (like giving myself understanding with loud sounds, long social events, allowing myself to hyper-focus on my interests....). I too _really struggle_ with pushing myself to do things I don't want to, but that are seen as "needed" in adult world. I get around eventually, but the biggest problem is when I don't get enough time to spend on my interests, because then everything just slooooows down and things fall apart

[@KaeBuka]

Please keep opening up, this is awesome

[@MikeThaInvestor]

This is very powerful man!

[@AnnettesMakeupCorner]

I totally feel the 'not being relatable' part. Ive had a very privileged life in a lot of ways, and it makes me not want to share much about my past and my life in general. I also struggle to not always say whats on my mind too often and often being misunderstood. I do agree that its absolutely possible to be successful on youtube and social media still, but it doesnt come as easily for us as it does extroverts 🤷‍♀️

[@hakaquusanguusha5360]

Pewdiepie is introvert and the most sucsessfull person on youtube

[@DENicholsAutoBravado]

Have you considered that you need to edit want you to say less that it'd make you more understood? My wife is more introverted than me, and some of the crazy things she says when she's trying to not be introverted is worse than if she said what was really going on in the inside. She's a truly beautiful person. I'm glad she has friends who laugh with her when it comes out wrong. :) I am really more introverted then I'm letting myself appear. I suppose I could be more honest as well.

[@MaryJBlack]

I said it in my mind a long time ago that this guy is an introvert but his trying alot. Love you 😘🤗

[@RobertoBlake]

Appreciate you. Yeah I try really hard at most things

[@relationshipcoachingwithni4517]

You are wonderful 🧡 thank you for being venerable and sharing this with us. Your videos are so helpful.

[@ExtraStepsCeo]

This is so relatable, it's so good you can share this side of you in this video.

[@nuxttux]

The heart to heart videos, after so much value based content, fortifies the wireless connection and understanding of the individual. Use these sparingly, but do continue.

[@CubanCurlzz]

This was different in a good way! I find you relatable and I'm older than you...like wayyy older. You are well spoken, very intelligent and what you offer us all is priceless! I think I'm an introvert that has elements of extroversion in my personality. I love my solitude at times but I love being "on stage" other times. I go back and forth it's strange lol Really enjoyed this video Roberto you should do more of them! Peace and blessings!

[@FelieAceWorld]

Great job! You made your weakness into something great!! Your story is so inspiring ❤️😍

[@VinayakNair79]

My goodness, this is so relatable. I keep stuff in my mind on what someone had said, and take it to heart. Lately I've been telling myself, is thinking about this good for me. Is that person even thinking about or even remember what happened. This at least helps me get out of the loop of self over hyper analyzing. Great video 👍

[@YourPlayer2]

This definitely hit home. I know being on social is important but some days it's like I don't have the emotional energy to interact or something, for a lot of those hyper, self-analytical reasons you outlined. One thing I found that helped is to sort of bulk write out social media updates on days where I feel like I have more mental bandwidth to do so. I try to curb the 'prove yourself' impulse, but since my flavor of anxiety is mostly rooted in imposter syndrome that remains a struggle. I know what you mean about having days where you wish you were more extroverted, but at the same time I have to imagine that if I wasn't wired the way that I am that maybe I wouldn't be as creative or driven. So I guess I'm saying that taking the good with the bad helps me stay even keeled. As for the QOTD, I'm actively trying to let my guard down a bit more to connect with people more fully online and that's a little scary but not NEARLY as scary as I know I'm making it out to be when I'm tempted to be more dismissive. Thanks for the additional insights dude :)

[@TheKingjudah1]

I am😢 right now, well not really, but you must be my twin because I went through the same things when I was younger, and have the same trepidations. THANK YOU for sharing this.

[@TiffanyBlogs72]

I do love this kind of Videos. I struggle with how to found other similar channels to collaborate with. I have no idea where here in Utah are a KZbin community!

[@missemmybeemedia49]

Your experience of being bullied and having to constantly restore your self-image and self-worth resonates with me. Thank you for sharing this part of your experience. I have gained much insight.

[@CraftingwithUrsa]

Thank you for opening up. This is so helpful to those of us who struggle with our day to day interactions with others. We appreciate this and really needed to hear this.

[@greenhoodie]

Appreciate you being so honest Roberto. Thanks.

[@TWDUniverse]

Yes i know the feeling and being on KZbin and being in someone that does public speaking as well its always a struggle but it's well worth stepping out

[@theartofplumbing]

I can relate. This video is like therapy for me. I tell people all the time, yes I'm different. I feel it puts there mind to ease. Most people don't know how to take me. So I just kind of keep to myself. Great video Roberto. 👍 keep up the good work.