MY SURPRISE PROPOSAL TO RAYVON OWEN

A few years ago, I was struggling with mental illness. I was depressed and felt hopeless-especially about love, and relationships. During those times, one of the things that helped me was the music of Demi Lovato. She has remained an important part of my life, which is why it was so perfect that while at her concert last night I:
PROPOSED TO RAYVON OWEN!!!
Rayvon, I can’t wait to spend the rest of my life with you, and I am beyond thrilled to officially call you my fiancé!
Like I said last night, when I asked you to marry me, I never thought that I would be fully open to love again. Then you came into my life, and I have never been the same. You inspire me and push me to be a better and more open person, and you always show me compassion and patience. I know it’s not always easy being in a relationship like ours-especially when society and even some friends and family have fought to push us apart-but if there’s one thing I know for certain, it is that love is what life is all about, and your love makes my life complete.
You’ve made me a better man and I’ll forever be grateful to you for loving me unconditionally. I know with all of my heart that Tom would be so happy for us, and I thank you for honoring and respecting the fact that he will always be a part of my life.
I have to give a huge thank you to Demi for being a supportive friend and for helping make last night possible. It was one of the greatest moments of my life! I also want to thank you for all that you have done and continue to do for young people, and particularly the LGBT community. Your heart, your voice, and your activism make everyone feel accepted, less alone, more empowered and more hopeful.
Thank you to everyone out there who has supported me, as well as my relationship with Rayvon. Your support through the years has not gone unnoticed and I would not be where I am without all of you.
To anyone out there who struggles with feeling worthy of love, I want to remind you that you are not alone. For the longest time, I doubted that I would ever deserve love. I wondered if my past would keep someone from loving me. But it’s possible. You are worthy of love. There will always be people who will try to keep you down, but there will be far more people out there who will accept you, for all that you are. Never forget who you are, or what you really want in life. Remember that it’s YOUR life, and that anything is possible.
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[@shanebitneycrone]

We are so overwhelmed with the love! Thank you from the bottom of our hearts for being so kind and supportive--it means more than you know!

[@katiewilliams5643]

shanebitneycrone congrats on your engagement a good friend from my high school graduation class got engaged the same night as you love is love ❤️ 🏳️‍🌈❤️❤️🏳️‍🌈❤️❤️🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈so happy for you both he was my favorite singer from American idol so happy and I know Tom wanted you to be happy he's looking down on you Shane and I hope someday I can meet you because you are amazing.

[@JCEurovisionFan1996]

shanebitneycrone I think if you add a woman to your relationship, that would be better.

[@Ohm_Gulf_Gang]

John Christian No a man would do just fine!

[@user-kn9pw7we7p]

shanebitneycrone 😢💓

[@hydztomps5211]

happy for both of u💐💐💐💐

[@pamelacrandell2015]

I am so happy for you both. I know Tom is smiling down on you both from Heaven. YES you deserve love. I am so thrilled for you both.

[@christentyndall1464]

Congratulations Shane I am so glad you found Rayvon... You are an inspiration to all of us no matter if we are gay or straight... You found a light at the end of a dark tunnel after what you went through with losing Tom and after you lost him he had a hand in you finding eternal love and happiness in Rayvon... Congratulations Shane and Rayvon I wish you both all the love and happiness in the world and a wonderful life together... Love you guys!!!

[@were-all-human9427]

100% agree, wonderful comment. Perhaps you could add subtitles as shame fans didn't respect your proposal a little more but I suspect they were just as happy for you as we all are. Sincere best wishes for you both and your life together. Love is Love X (UK fan)

[@radicaemard1292]

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[@Hjalmarkem]

This made me tear up. So happy for you Shane, congratulations ❤

[@user-kn9pw7we7p]

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[@tristanarteaga841]

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[@tristanarteaga841]

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[@ownyourcrazy8734]

This is the happy ever after the world has been waiting for. I feel so blessed that you chose to share this moment. And, whoa, what a moment! Congratulations to you both. Good things do come to those who wait and who better for something this good, this glorious, this wonderful to happen too. Have an amazing and loving life together. Big love to Demi also.

[@itsmehimsanson]

Thats so cute, his documentary was so heartbroken and seeing him so happy makes me have a hope that loves is for everybody, regarding the race; heritage, sexuality. I fucking love that demi let this happen so a lot of people can see how the world is supposed to be like.

[@connordavead2929]

Shane I must say that you are an inspiration to so many people. Overcoming the darkness of being in the closet, finding love in California, enduring such a tragic loss and now this. May you guys be blessed beyond the stars. Love to you guys!

[@chronicallyaspy2884]

Congratulations! I’m glad you’ve gotten your happy ending. If anyone deserves to be happy it’s you!

[@VaillancourtSquared]

So happy for you.

[@cjaysylve1944]

I'm so glad you proved, that you can have more then one great love. Happiness is yours take it, embrace it, keep it. Twice in a lifetime.

[@feliciaadassa757]

When I saw this on my KZbin recommendations I nearly fainted! Rayvon and his music have a very special place in my heart. He has such a pure heart and genuine spirit and he deserves the world. I'm so glad that he has found you and you have found him. I wish you two beautiful souls nothing but happiness and joy for infinity and beyond.❤

[@ejiroakamune6620]

😭😭😭😍😍😍CONGRATULATIONS, Shane you have helped me through some of my darkest times and I'm not going to lie but you are one of the reasons I'm here today. Thank you for showing me that life gets better, that love and help come when you need it most and when you least expect it.

[@dorothy1329]

CONGRATULATIONS SHANE & RAYVON !!!! i am so pleased for you both ! you are both amazing people and you both deserve a lifetime of happiness and love together and that is my wish for you both. it is always hard to fully accept a partner's on-going love and affection for a past love that died, it is totally different if they had merely split up but when the past love died there is no "competing" with them especially when they too were a wonderful and beautiful person, because that relationship didn't end due to a falling our or by mutual choice, it ended whilst both people concerned still loved each other very deeply, you have to learn to fully accept that your partner will always have them in their heart and mind, and accept that it doesn't mean that they love you any less because of this, it can quite often drive a couple apart but Rayvon is obviously a very special and beautiful guy because he has fully accepted that Tom will always be a big part of your life even though he is not physically around anymore. Shane, i am sure that Tom would, as you have said, be very happy for you and your man and would be the first to give you his blessing and love ! i genuinely and sincerely am so happy for you both, congratulations again !

[@Patrieslouise]

I am soooo happy for you!!!Love always wins, tap tap tap.

[@MemeMeowdarlings]

this is absolutely amazing, it's also amazing that demi would do something this sweet at a concert. she seems like an awesome friend too. Congrats, you deserved this after how rough it's been for you! ❤❤

[@cathyreid5039]

Congratulations!! So happy for you both! Wishing you many years of love and blessings! ❤❤❤

[@a_d_a_m]

Wow this is so wonderful and it makes me so happy. Shane I saw your documentary years ago and even to this day I still think about it, wonder what you're up to and if things turned around for you. this is the happiest surprise and it really warms my heart (and gives me some hope too.) much love to you and congratulations!!

[@enserioensenas5938]

Shane. You are one of the persons not only with the most beautiful feelings in the world, but with the ability to let them openly flow and I loved your proposal and the letter on the description box. You are such an inspiration.

[@ccw6777]

This is wonderful. Congratulations 🎊🎉🍾🎈... I am so happy for both of you. Shane, you have been a blessing in my life during your hardest times. Your willingness to share your experiences and your fight for marriage equality guided me to be the mother to my incredible gay son that I am proud of being. Now, my dear, you fill my heart with joy and happiness. Be happy and at peace. You deserve it, both of you do. Much love. CCW

[@tahasiddiqui8992]

You son will spread aids

[@alexiswhite9462]

I still remember watching and rewatching your video from years ago, I’m glad that you found happiness. You deserve it

[@paulaidan8079]

I was hoping this would happen. Thanks for sharing and thanks for your continued inspiration to so many.

[@janmorrow]

I'm crying!!! SO VERY HAPPY for you two!!! Congrats! (and thank you for sharing this with us ❤️)

[@desireealexam]

OMG EPICNESS, Shane!!!! Well executed proposal! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻 Congratulations again, Shane & Rayvon! ♥️😍😘

[@ladysith7757]

Wow. I’m so happy for you, Shane! You deserve to be happy! To many beautiful years for you and Rayvon!

[@adamsmith4787]

Hey buddy. Congrats man. I hope you two have the best life. Get back into traveling and doing vids of it! Love to both of you!!!

[@hemaray611]

I Read this in the newspaper and wished I could've been there to see this! So so happy he uploaded it!!! 💙💙💙

[@jessabella77]

Awww yay!!! Ever since seeing the documentary about your loss I’ve always wondered what happened to you! My heart broke for you. I’m so happy to be a huge Demi fan and that your video was recommended by KZbin because I have been feeling unworthy of love after losing my gf whom I never thought would walk away. So to see this on today of all days, my birthday, and it be the next chapter of your journey it filled me with so much hope. Congrats to you both!!

[@Kimberly-yt6nn]

Awe I'm SO happy for you and RayVon. You deserve all the happiness in the world Shane. Here's to a lifetime of love and happiness. Congratulations Shane&RayVon 🥂

[@tossell1969]

Congratulations you guys. You both deserve this. How the world is changing, just in your short life times. Amazing isn't it? You stand on the shoulders of giants. Keep strong. All the love and best wishes going forward in your journey. Sometimes we need to go through some right hell before we get there 💗💗

[@Adrian11250]

I am so happy for you! I’ve been following you for years and I’m glad to see such positive dynamic! Much love ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@Brandon1105]

WTG SHANE!!!!!!! Happy for you & Rayvon!!!!!! teared up a little & laughed a little too lol ;P super cute & funny... I thought the lady's voice sounded familiar and then I read it was Demi Lovato and was like whattttt she looks reallllly diff here... But after watch Bridegroom which was sooooo sad to watch but now just really happy for you two!!!! GL in the future & Congrats! =) PS: THIS IS ME, Demi Lovato!! :P Camp Rock! haha :P

[@1whatever33]

so happy for u!!! thank u for sharing this beautiful and so important moment with us!

[@brodymunoz3229]

Congratulations Shane! I'm so happy for you. You will always be my inspiration and I'm so happy that you found your happiness. Big, big love ♥

[@giadabernardelle9394]

AAAAH oh my god, congrats guys, I'm so happy for you!! and I'm sure Tom is too ❤

[@michelleroberson6834]

I just finished Bridegroom for the millionth time and stumbled onto this vid. So very happy for Shane!! He deserves all the love and warmth in the world! I know Tom is smiling down with love!!! Congratulations!

[@526mason]

Congratulations Shane, I am so happy to hear that you have found love in Rayvon. I am sure Tom is so happy for you and rayvon. many more years of happiness to you both.

[@raynalee]

congrats shane! wishing you both many years of unconditional love and happiness. thank you for continuing to inspire on the daily. x

[@itsmehimsanson]

And then YES 😍😍😍😍😍😍 c'mon demiiiiiiii your voice sounded perfext with the moment.

[@behammond]

I'm so very happy for you Shane. Your life and story has touched me and I've wondered how you have been doing. So glad to know you've been doing well...very well. ❤

[@TheJoseCarmo]

Congratulations Shane and Rayvon. I'm so proud of you. GOD BLESS BOTH.

[@user-im8pj3ok7v]

This video made me cry cuse it's so emotional and it shows that true love no matter what, always wins!! Congrats i'm so happy for you guys♡

[@dornelasdinh]

You're the sweetest!! Best wishes to the both of you, congratulations!! ♡♡

[@bimbakasturiratne2262]

It's absolutely great for you, Shane, to find a love that can help to heal your devastated heart. Is it any wonder you went through the emotional washing machine after the tragic loss of Tom. Everyone deserves to be able to love and be loved. Congratulations and best wishes for whatever the future brings you two. Hugs from the U.K.

[@parisnuness2354]

Omg yessss 😁😁😁 I’m so happy that you had found someone who makes you happy., I know that Tom would want you to be happy and you definitely deserved this

[@dmouse85]

So Happy for you Shane! Much love!!!

[@helenadeoliveirafl]

Congratulations Shane !! I am so happy for you

[@garygary9310]

Omg congratulations to you two👏👏👏👏👏 I wish you two the very BEST!!! God bless you both 🙏 now let me dry my eyes.....

[@annmarieeeee]

I have real life chills 😭♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️ congratulations !

[@MyYearoftheDragon]

We can’t wait for your wedding and it will be one of the happiest days in our lives too because your extraordinary journey in life and has made you, dear Shane, a beacon of love and courage for all of us

[@toranagarojo]

congratulation. from Colombia con Amor. Viva Shane !! Viva Rayvon!!

[@josienosie9765]

Congratulations!!! What an epic proposal!! You did great Shane!!❤️

[@salliemae9284]

This is great .Shane proposes to Rayvon on this stage.OMG i really missed this.I love this.This will make me cry again.I am extremely happy for them even though i am late.

[@allenweist4483]

Congrates to Shane. It is so great to see you found someone to love for the rest of your life.

[@JohnLeslie68]

Ditto these comments. I am SO happy for Shane. I hope he and Rayvon share the happiest of lives together. Shane is a shining example of Strength and Love. What he went through no one can comprehend. What an example he makes for our young people. You can conquer anything in life. Peace and much love to Shane and Rayvon. From my husband and I... J&K

[@fabyoroz92]

I'm crying tears of joy congratulations to you both 👨‍❤️‍👨tap tap tap

[@user-kn9pw7we7p]

fabiola orozco 👬👬👬👬💗💖💖💖💖💖

[@clintcallas6513]

Oh yes, "tap tap tap"

[@TheJoseCarmo]

CONGRATULATIONS. I'm so happy for you Shane. Eternal love and happiness. GOD BLESS YOU.

[@ryansantiago5046]

congrats shane ❤... i know late Tom is also happy.. love you 😘

[@jhiemcastaneda1077]

THIS IS EVERYTHING !!!! 😍😍😍 Cant Say Anything but LOVE LOVE LOVE !!!!

[@angelaharris4727]

Congratulations! I just watched your documentary and you broke my heart

[@darrylb9872]

Oh my... thanks to you both for inspiring all of us through sharing your Love and Life with us. Maybe one day for me.

[@carol629]

So very happy for you! Congratulations. May you have a long and happy life together!

[@tristannguyen7383]

Congratulations Shane, I am so happy for you. Gosh, in this world we all deserve to find that special someone. To love and to be loved. Thanks for sharing your life story as painful as it has been but hope gives a reason to continue.

[@kevinoneill2551]

I'm so very happy that you found love again. You've been through so much heartache it really does my heart good to see you happy. love you bunches and congratulations!!!!!!! Peace and Love

[@AzuloRojo]

I’m crying as much as you don’t know , I’m crying over and over again. Congrats my boys😭❤️❤️❤️ I’m so happy for you both. All the love 💗

[@timwatkins4962]

My heart is full and my hope restored! I'm so happy for you guys.

[@mrstorrey]

I am so happy for you! I watched Bridegroom several times and was truly overwhelmed for your loss of Tom.... I think about you alot, praying you have found love and peace in your life. I feel better now. You are amazing and congratulations to both of you!

[@apromisebwithfilter9266]

Oh my gosh congratulations Shane , I hope you happy always .

[@12810alexis]

Sooo happy for you. You deserve this

[@grzegorzkoscielniak3762]

Congratultion!!!!!!!! Every this video make me cry,i love it....,..

[@maliagrato807]

His reaction is absolutely everything!!

[@TyWinters311]

Congratulations Shane and Rayvon. ❤️❤️ My heart is so full. I am so happy. Tap tap tap.

[@cullenn91]

Congrats from a Venezuelan follower ....and tell Demi I want to meet her and go to one of her concerts

[@carld5585]

Dear shane, so many years ago i cried and felt your pain. Your story of love happiness and lost love. It hurt me so much and when i saw your movie i was more touched. I know back then i sent you a comment of love and support. Hugs from a canadian. Tonight i browser and saw thia video. And my heart bloomed like spring flowers to know that u were engaged and found love again. I knew you would. If u are already married then i am so happy. You were always an inspiring person to many people. So again i send you hugs. This time to congrats u as i knew deep in my heart you would find love again. Love, Carlyle Ps may your love give hope to others. Thank you for this video shane.

[@himynameisnickolas]

Congrats guys. So happy for you both!

[@dawgeral333]

I'm a bit late to the party, but this made my day. You're both beautiful (I guess you couldn't fight it anymore!). Yay!!!!

[@gretasoblinskaite9918]

Just watched your documentary ❤ I love you so much and I'm so proud of you for staying strong. You deserve the world 😘

[@jamied3588]

My heart is full; I'm am beyond happy for you both! Love you 💕

[@Daddyissuesgirl]

*OMG I cant stop cry so beautiful!! 😭*

[@GIRLonMW2]

So glad you found love again and finally getting to live your true life!!!

[@kevindavila625]

Shane, I am so happy for you. I am so proud, so inspired. This is the second time you make me cry like this. I love you, and I thank you for sharing this moment. Tap tap tap

[@carlleeondiano5917]

Congratulations shane , so happy for you ❤

[@TakeMeToParadize]

This is amazing congratulations! 🙂

[@kevvie26]

Tom sent you this angel to keep you safe. I'm in tears. You really are, by far the most, incredible guy I have ever came across.

[@adanortiz5]

I am so happy for you both! You are a beautiful human being Shane!

[@janeworrall3694]

CONGRATULATIONS TO YOU BOTH! After all you've been through Shane I'm SO, SO happy for you. You look so good together. My love to you both. ❤️❤️

[@Akearsing0603]

This makes my heart smile!

[@hawaiiguylost5820]

I'm so happy for you Shane..you deserve everything in the world. You show people that in their darkest times, that they can find pure joy and happiness. God bless and congratulations...

[@shaunkeasey3674]

Followed your story for a long time... So happy for you both Ricki & Shaun xxx

[@bawonobudiwaskito]

BEYOND HAPPY FOR YOU TWO! MAY I WISH YOU ALL THE LOVE AND HAPPINESS IN THE WORLD ❤️ Love from Indonesia xo

[@Risadjinu92]

Congratulations you two amazing men.. wish everything goes well for the wedding.. god bless and always be happy..loveee yaaaa..... and thx Demi Lovato. You are incredible..

[@patrosado8249]

It began with "It could happen to you" and then "Bridegroom". I am extremely happy for you both and wish you nothing but the best. Your ability to take a painful experience and have it become a source of strength for others has been amazing. Tom's role in your life has been powerful; he will always be with you.

[@amandalong7655]

So happy you found love again Shane! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@LouisVuittonPrince]

congrats I'm crying watching this. so happy for you guys

[@go234ko96ts5]

Congrats Shane and Rayvon so happy for both of you. You deserve it.

[@upweyguy]

Well done. I hope you enjoy your lives together as one. I just saw you be "Brave".

[@SwaggyIndian]

Congrats Shane 🙌🏽🙌🏽🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 I met you when you gave a talk at University of Tampa 👍

[@kathicip]

Congratulations to you both! Much love

[@thatlindgirlinutah5829]

Congratulations! Your love for each other will always carry you through the best and worst times of your life together. You're both incredibly strong and amazing men and you deserve this and so much more! May your life together be a source of never ending happiness and love. 💗

[@dandm20]

So happy for you both. Love wins!!!!!

[@ronniehartley-savill7203]

Shane that is so awesome. Wishing you both a long happy lifetime together.