My *TAMPON* story | The *FEAR* of PENETRATION 😭

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[@HimadriPatel]

Hey cuties, Something i missed adding to the video. Change your tampon after every 4-5 hours. And when your tampon is full after a few hours you will feel uncomfortable. Don't wait for your tampon to give an indication to change!

[@sharmilakotian9392]

Thank u dr and mostly all women dont feel like discussing mensus issues Really a nice mes it was

[@shefaliyadav5911]

That one day gap always comes ... Dont wrry about it ..

[@sukriti1494]

It happens with me too, 3rd day k bad clean rehta h n 4 day k half m start ho jata h

[@nimishasrivastava03]

Just adding here for everyone that in case you don't get to know that your tampon is full because you're a beginner or for whatever reason then check the thread of the tampon. It'll slowly turn red from your blood before staining your underwear. Change the tampon if the thread is stained.

[@amitsingh7647]

Dii what ever u told i have also same problem

[@aishwaryapaliwal7127]

Inserting a tampon or a menstrual cup scares the hell out of me 😧😧😧😧😧 Pads are my saviour ❤️❤️❤️

[@DollyGVlogs]

Hats off to u for speaking so confidently n clearly on tampons.keep up the good work

[@debasmitanaskar7184]

Panic attack is never embarrassing. I have never used a tampon and cannot comment on that but I tend to get panic attacks before any injection. It is a tremendous fear for me while I know that a lot of people don't feel like that. I have fainted thrice in the fear of injection. What I believe is something that is absolutely normal can actually be extremely frightening for any other person. Don't be ashamed, speak out loud and you will get solutions as well❤️

[@anjalidas6569]

I am also the same type😅😅 I may show confidence earlier but after looking at the injection my body automatically starts to react

[@dikshatomar68]

Hey same, trypanophobic even me also...fear of injections

[@vita4943]

@@anjalidas6569 oh my God! Same here

[@shivucreations190]

Same dear I m also not used tapon any more in my life

[@payalmohanty8902]

Same here

[@bharatimuwal2912]

3:06 this happens with me every month 😂u r not alone girl i am with u🤞

[@kanishka.guptaa]

Fr

[@Bongcompany105]

Loved the transparency about the whole process !

[@anshikaarshi8379]

Thanks a lot Dii for talking about this topic clearly and logically because many people feel panicked and alone but u cleared it all.

[@titliraywritting2699]

Thank you for talking on this topic so bravely and confidently 🙂....

[@Sarkar0569]

After hearing these all i am genuienely speaking that i am very ok with my pads😚.

[@HimadriPatel]

Oh yassss

[@honney9837]

Me Too.......🙋 Meri sun k hi halat kharab ho gai hai 😰

[@pritykumari2121]

@@honney9837 Mee too ye kitna drawna h ..

[@mausumeeslifestyle]

Me too❤🎉

[@sri2564]

Oh yess

[@rishabhkxr]

11:03 "Ander goofa nahi hai jo kho jayega" was hilarious🤣😂

[@AvniiBisht]

True 😂😂

[@shaistaparveen7668]

First time I used menstrual cup it was hella scary. My story is kinda similar to you it was painful for me the first time too. But once I got the hold of it, it kept getting easier

[@muktibisht6223]

It also happens with me on the 4th day clean n the 5th day starts to bleed when I decide not to wear a pad. Thanks for sharing your experience It'll help us whenever we use tampons.

[@nehatyagi4801]

same happens to me

[@anitaagarwal6366]

Same happens with me

[@sudhamandal5636]

Same too me🥺

[@sukirtisharma6165]

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[@tamanna3864]

This happens with me also....dry during the whole night and starts bleeding the next day after bathing 🙄

[@aahanasharma2323]

Oh my god !!! You explain this so well girl ❤️proud

[@jsrishti]

I just want to say you are doing great work , not everyone's talks about these things , you are really brave 🥺❤️

[@sd-ui2re]

Loved that u talked so openly and in detail about vaginismus n ur experience. I am sure it would help a lot of women dealing with similar issues.

[@khushboo638]

I'm typing it while pausing your video , and yes I can feel your anxiety , and what you went through at that time , I had a similar panic attack incident where it was a syringe instead of a tampon , in my story , I was supposed to have a blood test , And the moment they took my blood out of my arm , I just felt relaxed for like 3-4 secs ( " ho gaya , I'm done ") but then suddenly I fainted in cold sweat and my whole body started malfunctioning after that , oh my goddd that feeling cannot be counted in terms of fear , panick or anxiety because it is something beyond these things and literally it is a serious concern for many people like himadri and me . Idk how to convey it but , it really is a drastic experience that could happen to people in many ways according to their fears .

[@arpitasingh2538]

Wow! Exactly the same thing happened to me. I was all fine and laughing that it was done and after five minutes later I started feeling light headed and got faint.

[@animatedworld3330]

@@arpitasingh2538 m

[@kanansachdeva1356]

It's so good that you are confident to do such a video So proud of you✨ Will always look upto

[@divyamistryyy]

Following you since pretty average time and obsessed with them instantly 😫❤️ definitely in need of more stories. Love from Mumbai ❤️❤️❤️

[@ayushi904]

Completely same situation with me But now it's ok after watching it I think she is the only one who Genuinely spoke real things which actually happens 😌 Thanku di🥰 Love you😘

[@alishasimon850]

Andr gufa nai hai ki khojaega wali line was epic😂🤣 jokes apart Prooooudddd of you darlo. Not everyone opens up and people like us needs good suggestions

[@bloomingup]

Actually 😂😂

[@alishasimon850]

@@bloomingup 😂

[@ishitaupadhyay7431]

You are really like a elder sister ❤️❤️ thanks for sharing.....

[@anjaliahlawat5157]

You are the best youtuber who explain everything like a elder sister and I love this type of videos of yours you are the best youtuber pure from heart who shares everything..love love 💕 #realyoutuber amazing work sharing exact experience amazing...❤️

[@manalisinhaa]

Thanks alot for making this video and yeah you're doing great ❤️❤️i just love watching your videos ❤️❤️❤️❤️may God bless you with all the happiness and love ❤️❤️

[@aadhyajain3524]

I've just clicked on this video and just by reading the title, I wanna say, the fear of penetration is real, it's heck real... we need to normalize it

[@HimadriPatel]

Absolutely!

[@shadesofvani5450]

Right...that's why I prefer pads over any thing else😅

[@ramnikkaur5917]

Pads are good. There are pads available in the market which are eco friendly or made from natural materials...Go for these. Why to insert something into your body and get uncomfortable...

[@asjatti5319]

@@ramnikkaur5917 peds are not eco-friendly 😂

[@missbisht7797]

menstruation cups are life..

[@kritigaur3745]

It was an honest and good conversation.. people do need to understand that these things are normal and elders must education youngsters about these things .. bit of nothing causes depression these days .. anyways thanks for the information.

[@Shreya-13pAndey]

There was a whole sensation going in my stomach and my legs were weak while I was listening to your story......

[@mamtakumaridas6202]

Uh are such an awesome person....its something like uh shared this video so that we do not feel the way uh felt....and it really means a lot ...uh helped us❤️

[@vaishnavi8388]

You are literally the best himadri!! I love the way you talk how beautifully you speak!!! You are my favorite beauty influencer 🤍💫

[@tovikalisumi4048]

Have been checking on you since your 100k I’m so happy for where you are right now♥️ I love you and hope you grow more and more Can’t want for your 1 million ♥️

[@anoushkabali8828]

It literally feels taht you are our big sister 😭❤️ lotsss of love di ! Loveee youu n ur content. (A big supporter n follower)

[@yasminparvin5134]

You are outstanding, seriously. You explain like magic!

[@incredibleisha1288]

Such a cute, humble and honest youtuber❤️❤️ I really love you himadri 🥰 thanks for teaching us something new and exciting and also true❤️❤️ Keep growing my love🥰

[@GarimaSingh-wt8pz]

Hatsoff humadri for your efforts to talk about this so confidently 🥰♥️. It would really help teenage girls or even those who r scared of using this . Personally even I also never recommend tampons .

[@khushbuyadav5416]

Instead of Tempon, Menstrual Cup can also be use. it is life saver in any situation 🙂

[@sayantikaghosh4240]

Wo bhi insert krna prta hain

[@bidishah]

But that's inserted too, won't work for her

[@sakshisingh8338]

Truely menstrual cup is amazing

[@shivangii9835]

@@sakshisingh8338 yes right

[@hireathh76]

Right I recently started using menstruation cup and it is best

[@urvashikhullar7556]

You cleared everyone's doubts 👏

[@abhivyaktisrivastava6743]

I had been searching for tampon users with similar experience as it had been difficult for me as well, and it seemed noone had such issues where the muscles would just not allow. But thanks for sharing. Agreed first timers should start with applicator and a position in where you feel relaxed (try lying on bed while putting tampon as this is most natural relaxing position)

[@mysteriousmind25.6]

Menstrual cup is also a good option for those girls who don't have time to change there pads in every 4 hours its not that easy for everyone but as a medical student i recommend using a menstrual cup as it holds your blood for more than 6 hours of I have medium flow and 4 hours if medium flow it is a hygienic and safe for use i recommend give it a try because a cup last for 10 years

[@arpitapurohit622]

I also use cups and it is truly life changing. There is no waste and the cup lasts for years. So you save a tone of money as well. There definitely is a learning curve but once you get a hang of it you won’t go back to pads. I do keep pads and panty liners for emergencies but its been 4 years and I have never used anything else than cup.

[@rajalaxmipanda4473]

Thank you himadri..for such a beautiful information

[@nanusharma984]

This was so informative and you have explained n covered everything very well ✨✨

[@Kriti_Bharti_]

amazing video! Interactive! clean! To the point

[@mustafizam6574]

ive been using a tampon since yrs nw and i totally agree if youre a beginner u will def feel something while inserting but it is honesty the best once u start using it. feels so light and i can do several activities which otherwise is restricted during periods.

[@D_R_E_A_M_____]

I didn't know anything about this but after watching your video dii it's really given me chills But thank you so much for sharing this all dii Because when you live in a judgmental society it's hard to ask anything related things like this

[@hemagodihal8172]

Thank you so much himadri for sharing your story , i feel a lot relieved and good now.

[@meeshaasingh4844]

The way she is telling us is amazing....thankuu so much himadri 🥰

[@Rohini_Harithsya]

You are elder sister for me thankyou didi I am also struggling for this many of thoughts were running in my mind but now it's clear thanks mam and I know this vedio wanted a lots of confidence to you god bless you with more success❤️

[@HimadriPatel]

Always here to help❤️

[@chetananaik4750]

Yaar...Mera toh husband k samne 1st time shadik tab panic attack ayata..but I'm vry lucky he is a doctor and he understand my prblm.and fully supported me. And then I realized it's a vaigimus prblm.and we went to gynecologist and nw I hav a 4 year old baby and normal delivery.

[@deveshchourey8220]

Ap bhut lucky ho jo apko eshe husband mile and vo apko support bhi krte hai it is good think sbhi husband ko eshe h hona chiye

[@EAamaniaNA_]

Omg so supportive nd motivated vid Thank Uh Himadri Di Love Ya!!!!!💗🌼💯🍄😊

[@mahimaheshwari7304]

I just love the way you are so real on camera😍😍...lots of love to you...🧿❤️

[@jolly_banerjee01]

I mean ik for a matter of fact that I've vaginismus. The way you've put it out there I'm so proud if you. Clinically I'm not that strong yet(mentally) to let someone examine me. But ik I've this condition. So what's next?

[@silkyagarwal3373]

Hey, I face the same problem as you. I also have vaginismus. I always wondered why I am the one who cannot use menstural cups and tampons. Your video has answered a lot of my questions. Your video has helped me to know my condition. Thank you for such personal content ❤️

[@DIY_with_Arnabi4150]

R u married??

[@user-ef5nd3ho3n]

have you ever faced sexual abuse or sexual harassment? it could also be a reason.

[@sukirtisharma6165]

Yup ryt said

[@Anonymous-ye6wm]

Ditto yaar

[@swapnalishapradhan1391]

​@@sukirtisharma6165is it something very serious??

[@Katty1302]

Thank you making this video 🙌🏼💜

[@ashurawat2809]

I can totally relate to this...... thankyou for sharing ❤️❤️

[@pragati9697]

Himadri.. first of all thanku fr sharing ur experiences so truly with us. I think you are honestly a honest person who shares everything with audience. You literally won my heart .. itne ache se na th koi explain krta h. Literally sb haste h ese topic pr bt krne se. I love your videos.. i love your work. Keep rocking .. keep shining 😊🥰

[@kashishkannaujia9913]

I'm literally scared of tampon or cup, so I think for now pads are better. I'm Not sure about the future 🙄

[@HimadriPatel]

Yes.. ofc don't pressurise yourself

[@kashishkannaujia9913]

@@HimadriPatel but koi problem toh nhi hogi na future am pls tell 🙄

[@sanajamal5334]

@@kashishkannaujia9913 no bs time time pr change krte rhna cahiye jyda der tk use nhi krna chaiye..

[@muslimmunirvlog7192]

@@kashishkannaujia9913 problem tou ho ge🙄 lkn mr nae jao ge🙄 husband aye ga fr bhi tou pain Lena pry ga shru Shru men🙄

[@kirannegi365]

u came up with a very important topic ..luv u😍

[@manyaarora5202]

That's really thoughtful of you to share such knowledge full video 💖

[@shubhikatiyar6828]

I have used tampons, pads, and menstrual cup. So my experience with tampons wasn't that good. I always felt it while walking like there is something in there and the string got wet everytime i pee. But since I started using menstrual cup, it's like a heaven for me. No wastage, easy to insert, hygienic, at times i forget that i am on my periods. At first it was difficult but it's been 2 years using a cup and m super happy.. u should also try .. i guess Everyone should try onces❤️

[@Pokey_.66325]

😅😅

[@nainaparihar6521]

I tried but couldn't insert 😐

[@Blinngypinkbow]

dude im litr so scared of mentral cups even tho i have gotten over with the whole penetrating fear but yea that shit is scary

[@ritikavats9256]

You really need guts to talk about on this issue and she do it veryyyy well❤️🔥

[@keerthiarshanapelli7718]

It takes a lot of courage 👏👏👏👏keep up girl🤗🌈🌈

[@komalkumari3359]

I just know about something like this that must be hard for her but she is amazing as she is sharing this with us

[@Freebird06]

I am suffering from the same but never knew how to deal with it…

[@aryasingh688]

Hi himadri didi💓I just love you and you voice as i started watching ur videos i get so much confidence to do what you want i just get movitation everytime i watch your videos i also get so muuch of hate on my video but i stick to it and started uploding non of them like but i like my videos and keep uploding UR JUST MY GOD i can say that now 😘😘😘😘PLEASE REPLY I WILL FEEL GOOD

[@anjalidas6569]

Loved this interaction ❤

[@BhaktiCreates]

No girl nothing is embarrassing about what you have, you're very strong and beautiful 💗....love you dii ,

[@aauc.vaniawala]

Thanks Himadri for giving us such informative video. I am still afraid of wearing tampon. And 1 question “kya esha hota hain k remove krte time vo jo thread hain vo tut jaye and tampon under he reh jaye??” Please answer my this question. And thank you for sharing your experience with us.. lots of love.. ❤️❤️❤️

[@godschildanmol1512]

I'm already shivering while listening to it Even a verbal discussion is making me faint

[@priyakri3206]

Talking openly everything.... Just awesome. U deserve ❤.btw I'm watching your video 1st time

[@sakshijain8632]

This is very helpful Much love to you❤❤

[@palfernandes8137]

This video was so helpful ❤️😘

[@varshapaliwal4642]

I felt the same while taking out a menstrual cup for the first time at that time I didn't know about the suction you have to break, I panicked what if I have to consult a dr. 😂 As I didn't tell my mom about it, I rushed towards youtube thankfully I managed to take that out.

[@calminchaoss....]

Thankyou himadri even i feel the same for myself but now i need to get comfortable with my body...thankyou again

[@Divadrive03]

Thank you so much didi. You make everything feel normal and human. Thank you very much♥️

[@sunehrayasminsana4093]

Omg so helpful vedio... you are so confident to tell ❤. And I aslo have that bleeding prblm after 5th day 😂. Sm situation . I also have vaginimus 😔. Thanks a lot Dear ❤. Love from Bangladesh

[@keertibarnwal9419]

"Andar koe gufa ni hain ki chizein khojaye" this line is epic 🤣

[@rafigladboy]

Heavenly Information. Thanks Sister.

[@vanshikagotter5100]

Such a informative and helpful video ❤❤

[@Shrishtichauhan04]

Thanks himadri for making this video.❤️...I was going through the same...I thought I was the only one going through it .🥺🥺

[@tanushreeduttas2823]

2:46 I have this same issue my menstruation definatly stops on its 3½ day when I realise it has stopped after double checking it I take off the sanitary pad to stop feeling uncomfortable but just few of hours after I've taken it off the bleeding starts again and it's not like this pattern repeats every month on some months it's completely stops after its trun of 3½ days and in some months after stoping it restarts again, its just hard to keep track of the patterns

[@payal_vlogs18]

Thank you soo muchhh for this informative video ♥️

[@anweshamishra6662]

This is such an informative video. Thank you.

[@lavanya2921]

I am too scared of using a tampon or a menstrual cup because of a few reasons- 1. I'm not sure where exactly these things are inserted into. 2. The pain! Inserting still seems fairly easy but taking these things out, god it scares the sh*t out of me. 3. Putting my fingers inside to adjust or insert the whole contraption feels gross to me. I too have nails and having that blood all over the nails, inside out, plus the chances of scratching myself. 😬

[@HimadriPatel]

I can totally relate. I would recommend you trying a tampon with an applicator, it's easy and clean

[@butterfly99899]

Yes I can totally relate to you .. Although I haven't ever tried to use those ... because I am just 19 and I never faced anything wrong with pads...they are uncomfortable for sure but I don't feel the need to use a tampon or menstrual cup .. I haven't faced any such situation where I felt I need them

[@lavanya2921]

@@butterfly99899 yeah exactly. I'm 20 and I don't feel the need to use tampons etc. Nowadays, a lot of people are switching to menstrual cups and I just wonder if i should give it a try

[@nimishasrivastava03]

Hi Lavanya. 1. I know it'll sound extremely weird but take a mirror and check your body out. You'll know where to insert the tampon. 2. Putting in or taking out a tampon shouldn't be painful. It'll definitely be uncomfortable first few tries but you'll get the hang of it soon. 3. I have super sharp nails so I started with tampons that come with an applicator and slowly switched to non applicator ones. As you get used to it, you won't feel grossed out. Remember it's all a learning curve. Maybe you'll like it, maybe you won't. But won't know till you try.

[@aayushijha7255]

At least someone talked about their own ambarresments. This is really great

[@wish_123]

Embarrassments*

[@manishayadav6593]

This is what I wanted to know. Thank you much for this

[@monikarathore8450]

Using menstrual cup was a great idea for me,I have been using it for 4 years, It was quite difficult for first 2-3 months(you can use coconut oil in the beginning so that it can be inserted easily) but the struggle was worth😍😍

[@padosan0406]

It literally feels like my friend is talking to me thank you for being so real , I literally want to meet you not bcz you are a successful youtuber but bcz you are so genuine and real

[@sumanbaruah9098]

Thank you for your useful information.. definitely I will try

[@tejashwinisharma5903]

very informational video. thankyou himadri💯💯💯

[@_saumya_._raj_]

What if the string of the tampon get detached from the tampon?

[@mansisingh8595]

Not everybody shares something like this ❤️

[@manyasaraswat3686]

i always had confusion regarding tempon and how to use it but this video helped me so much thanks for the info himadri :)

[@SharanklrKaur]

Love uhh yrr ....thank uhhh alottt❤❤..please make more videos ..u are so kind and loyal ..❤❤

[@AYNOOR_2225]

OMG! Iam here bcz my mom said me today to start using tampon or menstrual cup and iam really panic to use it but finally when i try insert a tempon it's really horrible and paiful then i just remove it then i came here and i got an idea of making an angle like that but it's still painfully to insert and genuinely iam happy with my pads 🙌

[@farheenbegum2223]

It's great you had the confidence to come up with an informative video on tampons, was helpful. I too have the fear that it will get lost. I wasn't successful using a menstrual cup as well, wasn't able to insert it even though I'm married

[@vrindakapoor60]

Some of my friends use tampons and cups but I'm very scared. They always say they are more comfortable. I feels pads coz rashes but i am scared of inserting anything else.

[@Avneetkaur-yz8sn]

Never judge yourself because your perfect in imperfect world

[@soniavlogs31]

Hats off to uhh di aapne SBI chezze bhut ache se clear kr dii

[@rahimaswaleh2552]

Hiii himadri diii I am just your a new subscribe I it's just a week ago I have turned 17 now but I think it's been a year since I got my period's but still I used sanitary pads which suits me well I think we should not used the things just because it's trending many people used tampons just because they wanted to know how it's feels or just wanted to be in those people who used everything i am not saying we should not menstruation cups or tampons I just wanted to say used what's makes you feel better or comfortable that's importance the most i think btw a big thank you for sharing this with us it's very helpful for me I always used to think tampons and this menstrunational cups are must be dangerous but u cleared my doubts thank you so much for this video and your voice so cute Di mashallah I wanted to ask something in future do I need to use this thinks like tampons or menstrunational cup? ? Love you diii 😊💕❤ and I literally used to think if we used tampons it's just like doing khatro ke khiladi ke stunts 😂😂😂

[@dimplekundara4421]

Di I m so proud of you that u shared your entire story with us ..... And I reached this video....Find it really helpful...btw lots of love♥️♥️

[@susmitabadaik7752]

Aap bahat achi tarah se batate ho explain karte ho koi v chizz ho!! Nd you are so sweet ❤️🤗🥰

[@anshukumariyadav7262]

You are such a nice person di ❤️

[@SDh1996]

i too have this fear of penetration..i think it's more common than we know..nonetheless this was a very informative video for people like me