My Thai Friend’s Real Experience Dating Foreigners in Bangkok

Dating Thai women in Bangkok is not always easy. In this video, my friend SU shares her experience being in a relationship with a foreigner and how it can be different from her past relationships with Thai men. We also share our advice on how to be in a successful relationship with a Thai woman, what keeps us happy, and what to look out for before you start a relationship in Thailand.
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00:00 Intro
00:26 About SU
01:46 Meeting, culture, jealousy
06:53 Thai vs. Foreigner
10:06 Money and dating
14:37 Tips & Advice
17:25 Outro

[@mathris2875]

My wife is Thai, she is amazing. I look forward to spending the rest of my life with her. You right on about the communication piece, though (9 min in). That was a problem we had early in our relationship. Almost ended ours. She couldn't tell me as an American what was bothering her and expected me to know. As an American male, we need more directness. I now better understand that issues cross culturally. But I would say it seems to be more apparent in Thai females from my experience. The reserved nature. Can't speak worldwide, but in my dating experience.

[@joostroelens8710]

I hope you can be happy forever

[@user-sb8dv1ms6j]

I am happily married 15 years. The big problem is the foreign men look in the wrong places. I know dozens of Thai women and every one is honest. A tip for foreign men dont expect massage girls or freelancers to be good partners.

[@paulsandford3345]

A former work colleague of mine from Australia is now a school teacher in Thailand. He has a very nice Thai girlfriend who works in a bank and they are very happy, living in Bangkok! 😊

[@sstp703]

Thank you for watching 😊🫶🏻 another happy couple 🎉

[@swissuese]

@@paulsandford3345 is he teaching English? That would be also my dream...

[@joostroelens8710]

Many foreigners don't know about the good Thai girls a lot of tourists spend money in Phuket and Pattaya

[@shaungooch1766]

You girls are genuine normal society lady's and you would be genuine to your relationship, Every guy out there talking about money only ever hang out around NAN 9 Soy Cowboy or Pattaya where the girls only want money. Genuine guy's that live and work in Asia they have amazing relationship. I have been with my wife in Laos for 10 years and we go through everything that a UK UK couple or Thai Thai couple............. avoid the bar girls and meet the real Thai people.🥰

[@yingonyoutube]

Thank you for watching 🫶😊🙌

[@sstp703]

Thank you 😊

[@taccntb4345]

Im dating Thai girls in bkk. Barfine scene not worth it. Language barrier is a big problem many times. Its challenging but Thai girls are much better than western girls over all.

[@glenloader639]

@@shaungooch1766 Your point that women who bring up money only come from bar zones isn't 100% true! Many dating sites are full of women only looking for money. Many so called regular or so called normal Thai women the only reason they would date a western guy is for money. Probably over 60 % of Thai women who date foreigner is for money or a free holiday in the west The term เมียฝรั่ง / wife of a foreigner comes with a lot of stigma in Thailand. Also they get a lot of pressure from family or people in the village when it's known they have a foreign boy friend such as when is he going to build a house buy a car or truck! If the foreigner doesn't do it, the family or the people in the village then say WHY ARE YOU WITH HIM! I've talked with many Thai people and most Thai people have told me the main reason Thai women date foreigners is for money. I have had this conversation in Thai with farmers to educated Thai people who have lived in the west as well.

[@jamescasey1074]

Are u still with Eric?

[@JackBaour711]

Thai people are great and i love thai culture. Thailand is great and beautiful country.

[@mikelind2762]

It is not uncommon for a relationship to run its course and you realize you would like more in a relationship. It doesn't have to end bad, you just realize you need more.

[@ermd96]

Nice video, your advice is good even if you're already committed to a long relationship. I started dating a Thai lady 21 years ago and we've now been married 19 years. Trust, kindness and consideration are very important parts of our marriage. We now live most of the year in Hawaii but spends about 3 months the year in Thailand. I hope you two find your prince Charming, best of luck.

[@sstp703]

Thank you for sharing your story and kind words. Wishing you continued happiness in Hawaii and Thailand!😊🫶🏻

[@vloginvain]

Ying, from my understanding you are (or were) also in a relationship with a foreigner so it would also be interesting to hear your insight on the matter.

[@muajin]

I heard she got married to one but it didn't work out. :(

[@TINGTONGFARANGINTHAILAND]

I am married to a Thai and we have 3 kids. Good to hear about the Thai ladies views. Also i just subscribed to you. Good luck with the channel.

[@sstp703]

Thank youuu kha 😊🫶🏻

[@yingonyoutube]

Thank you 😊

[@muckingfuddle6264]

I have just joined your channel, and I can only say thank you very much for being open and genuine

[@apollomoon1]

Always such interesting content Ying. Thoughtful and informative every time. Thanks for sharing and so happy you have decided to post more often ❤.

[@yingonyoutube]

Thank you for your comment 🫶😊

[@c.j50]

I agree with what your friend is saying from my own experiences, but of course we are all different. Thanks for a well presented video.🙏

[@yingonyoutube]

Thank you for watching 🫶🙌😊

[@sstp703]

Thank you 😊

[@mikedimond8816]

Great content as always! Love hearing the perspective from open minded people like yourselves! Keep these types of videos coming 😊

[@yingonyoutube]

Thank you for your comment 🫶😊🙏

[@sstp703]

Thank you 😊

[@alexkerberos]

Just got home from Thailand three weeks ago. It was my second journey to your country. Seeing this video with you lovely ladies reminds me why i would wish for a honest relationship with a Thai woman. The positive vibe which surround you is absolutly amazing. I have to go back to Thailand as soon as possible…

[@sstp703]

Thank you for watching 😊🫶🏻

[@joostroelens8710]

A lot of disturbing foreigners sometimes they have only hungry in Thai Meat

[@timbercarter01]

Awesome content, you guys!

[@yingonyoutube]

Thanks so much 😊

[@mst6429]

Good visuals, lighting, audio and content. Having great looking talent is a bonus but content is crucial. Great job. Keep it up!

[@yingonyoutube]

Thank you for the comment 😊🫶🙌

[@Going2bangkok]

2 beautiful girls. Thanks for the video. I’m visiting Thailand for the first time in October. Can’t wait!

[@sstp703]

Thank you for watching. Hope you will have a wonderful time here! 🫶🏻😊

[@Going2bangkok]

@@sstp703 Thank you. I’ve watched lots of videos and the place looks amazing. The people also seem very friendly and kind. You came across as very friendly, loyal and kind. Also very beautiful. Have you been to England before?

[@passportbro7]

Nice work Ying 👍

[@yingonyoutube]

Thank you 🫶

[@iandunn8338]

You are right Getting to know eachother, working on the relationship and being honest I think that’s the best way for having trust

[@sstp703]

Both parties have to work on it . Thank you for watching 😊

[@user-oy9nk5jq5c]

Thank you for sharing

[@CaptainKremmen]

You and your friend are in Bangkok. You and your friends are likely all well educated and well off by Thai standards. When you say that Thai women aren't after foreigners' money, that may be true for most of the people you know. Away from Bangkok, things are dramatically different.

[@sstp703]

Thank you for your comment 😊🫶🏻

[@rnikko6472]

The advice given is a one-way street (it's all about you); however, in reality, a good relationship is a two-way street. It's about mutual service and support. If I continually give and give while you only take and take, eventually, the giver will feel unappreciated and depleted. This imbalance can lead to frustration and resentment, ultimately causing the giver to withdraw from the relationship. Healthy relationships require effort and contribution from both sides to thrive and sustain mutual respect and satisfaction.

[@sstp703]

I agree completely. A good relationship should involve both people supporting each other. It's important to understand that each person may contribute in different ways. Recognizing and appreciating these differences helps maintain balance and respect. When both partners feel valued for their efforts, the relationship can thrive with mutual satisfaction. Thank you for watching 😊🫶🏻

[@SURETHING21]

YING, your natural beauty is flawless by design. Please inform the next guy you allow into your world 🌎 he's truly blessed. Much love ❤️ and peace are my wishes.

[@yingonyoutube]

Thank you for your comment 😊🫶

[@JackBaour711]

Very nice video. Thanks for sharing thoughts. I already subscribed your channel. I subscribed other gal's channal too but there are no posts yet. Hope in future. I checked her playlist. Very nice thai songs wow. I dont understand thai but i love Thailand so i like to listen songs too. Keep posting. From india, with respect.

[@theiulian023]

Hi Ying! Nice video like usually!!! Keep the videos coming. I have two comments: 1) about the Thai ladies asking for money scenario. Of course, most foreign men who come to Thailand for short period of time, like holiday etc., will first interact with bar girls ofrfreelance girls...and the moany questions is just how it is. of course they will ask for money...and if foreigners interact only with these kind of ladies, they will have a different experience, and will draw some fast conclusion. 2) when it comes to genuine relationships between Thai lady and forigner man, I think the biggest problem in the culture and tradition. In the West, specially in the cities there is no more culture and tradition, or if it is is very week; on the other hand the Thai culture and tradition is very strong, and in top of that Thailand was never colonized by western countries ( like was the case with Viethnam, Laos, Malayesia, or other countries), which make the Thai culture very closed and strong. So, now image a relationship between a westerner and a Thai lady: the man with almost no traditions and culture, except the freedom of doing how he please and a Thai lady representing centuries of culture and tradition. It is not easy, and I think this is the biggest challenge.

[@yingonyoutube]

I do agree 💯 🙌 However as a new generation, we kind of like more open to understand foreigners as well, try to change the way of thinking but in a good way. I can say that we are not so conservative like our parents if that makes sense hehe Thank you so much for your comment 🫶😊

[@jchansong]

Hi Ying, Good job for the video that I enjoyed as usual. As for a point whether a Thai person would like foreigners to speak Thai, I guess Thai person wouldn't like for a foreigner speak Thai only if such Thai person have some kind of plans to manipulate foreigners. Otherwise I agree in general that people in the world would enjoy having any foreigner trying to talk in their local language.

[@carey8250]

I gotta get back to bkk....walked around lumpini every day for 3 weeks. What a great area 🌺

[@carey8250]

When I was there for a month, not one girl asked me for money. Thai women are nice to be with, respectful, with good sense 🙏🏽 I need to book a flight back 🫶

[@yingonyoutube]

Thanks for watching 🫶😊

[@billg3388]

Good video Ying. I am American man and met several Thai ladies. My last never ask for $$. I have had some who ask for little but I try to stay away from working girls. Love Thailand and Bangkok too much. I will be back soon!!

[@yingonyoutube]

Thanks for sharing 🫶😊

[@joelbuenaventura7777]

Nice video.

[@sstp703]

Thank you for watching 😊

[@sajaman777]

Thank you for a very informative video you both speak good English and I want to ask for your advice about best places to meet nice Thai ladies speaking good English

[@sstp703]

I think the key is you need to take it slow at the beginning to get to know them first. Try not to jump in to a relationship too quickly. And i think you can find them anywhere especially in BKK. Lots of people speak English. Hope you find one soon and thank you for watching 😊

[@macl4ren]

I have a new Thai girlfriend, and I always try to remember the reasons why my previous relationship with a Thai woman failed. I made many mistakes and this video is a great reminder to me of what I should do. So much is about the difference in culture and language.

[@sstp703]

Hope your current relationship is happy and healthy. Thank you for watching 😊

[@yingonyoutube]

Thanks for sharing 😊🫶 Understanding is the key for keeping the relationship 😇

[@keepitrollin3977]

Culture language & no # 1 money money 😂

[@keepitrollin3977]

Dating a thai lady it all ends in show me the money 💰 eventually.maybe u two r different from most thai ladies.relationship with most thai ladies is a financial agreement for her & her family.thais ladies can't eat love 😂.keep it rollin

[@kwhatten]

Two cute Thai women talking about dating farang!

[@ericvuille1956]

Same like every where. Be kind, polite, not rude, patient, natural..and most it's ok..🙏🖐😍🇨🇭

[@sstp703]

Thank you for watching 😊🫶🏻

[@ObolonWeener]

So nice to see there are sophisticated beautifull thai woman in bkk. This channel is great. But now I miss thailand even more. LOL. Hope to visit youre country in a few months again. 🤩

[@sstp703]

Thank you for watching 🫶🏻hope you have a great time when you come 😊

[@ObolonWeener]

@@sstp703 Yesss! tnx and tnx for this interview. Western guys should all see this interview before they hook up with a thai woman.

[@ObolonWeener]

@@sstp703 Hope to see more video's from you in the future. Bye.

[@sstp703]

@@ObolonWeener yesss and i think each person and relationship is unique, and it's really about understanding each other and showing respect to build strong connections. I'm glad the interview meant sth to you. Hope I could make another video with Ying again in the future 😁 Thank you 😊🫶🏻🙏

[@snouch6]

🥰🙏👍 Sue, you are a very smart and lovely woman.

[@sstp703]

Thank you for your lovely comment 😊🫶🏻

[@pepeee548]

I think a big problem is about foreign men dating thai ladies, which come mostly to thailand for holidays and think with money they can buy everything, included a relationship. I have seen so many stories in these years personally, where foreigners pay for the thai lady holiday back in europe for example, or ask her to quit job to stay with her, propose a salary more than her salary, and these girls accept eventually, buy her a house, and do everything to show off. Foreign men in thailand they work remote, have a free time always and want a girl willing to do same so here come the money offered to them. So when a normal guy comes after, they will expect the same.

[@garyzies3486]

It's usually not a good idea to date a woman who already had farang experience. You'll have to live up and exceed expectations that some other dude has set.

[@perry8498]

Thanks girls

[@petera.neumanndr.1666]

There are also huge differences between foreigners from different countries!

[@joostroelens8710]

A lot of disturbing American and Russia maffia people in Phuket and Pattaya

[@glaubhafieber]

I met one of my best friends during a noys might out. When we mwwt, wo go to our favorite boat noodle shop and since we agreed that we don’t love or need each other, we can talk about everything. She knows what i really don’t like about what she calls its thai freedom. But she knows that she’s allowed to tell me what she hates that i do

[@yingonyoutube]

Thanks for sharing 🙌😊

[@rossbateup4709]

I believe this information needs to done by boths side of relationship

[@julianshalders6047]

No money no honey, marry a thai and you marry the family.

[@garyzies3486]

If you're looking in the dumpster for food, don't expect to find a gourmet meal.

[@nilsrbenjamin]

The best advice came right at the end. You have to be a good listener to have a good relationship. You also missed a very important piece of advice.... you have to keep a Thai woman well fed ! I happy Thai lady is one with a full belly ! I am speaking with 15 years of experience 🤪

[@yingonyoutube]

Thank you for watching 🫶😊🙏

[@sstp703]

Ah yeah that too I forgot to mention 😂 Thank you for watching 😊

[@goldcoastjack3448]

Great video Ying,Sue is Suay Mak,she won't be single for long.There are women in every country on this planet that are with guys for money,i think the guy that made that comment has never visited Thailand,when i go out with Thai girls,they often pay for lunch or dinner and never ask for money,i'll be in Asok next week if Sue needs a date (-;

[@yingonyoutube]

Thanks for the comment 😁

[@rolfkarneman6564]

From experiencing ten years of relationshio thai/farang i would say there are no worse gaps but the silent treatment. Just not acceptable so i broke up. Connected again and happened again so i broke up again.

[@garyzies3486]

what did you expect? Silent treatment is part of SE Asian culture.

[@sstp703]

It sounds like you've had some rough experiences especially dealing with the silent treatment. When someone goes silent, it could indicate they might not want to continue the relationship or find it hard to talk about things. But anyway it’s important to talk openly about these issues to make sure both people feel heard and respected. Sorry it didn’t work out. 😢 Also thank you for watching.

[@MikeN_Executive]

Very good video and a wonderful environment - I love Lumphini Park. With two failed marriages with thai-women behind me I agree fully with what you say: You have to invest in the relation. Regarding that, we fell behind in both cases and got unfair consequences. But life is about learning, now I know what I want, have set a high standard and I am ready to invest . but NOT on a dating site.

[@yingonyoutube]

Thank you so much for your comment 🫶😊 you will surely find a great one here 🙌

[@NikolaSirakov]

I hit the like button before I watch the video

[@sstp703]

Thank you for watching 😊🫶🏻

[@NikolaSirakov]

@@sstp703 It`s always nice to hear the normal Thai women point of view, because most of the foreigners only knows stories about bar girls in Thailand.

[@michaeltakayama8415]

I have never met a Thai girl who wanted my money. Quite the opposite, in fact. All of the Thai girls I have spent time with were quite generous, and never asked for a single thing from me. I think that some men are just chasing the wrong types of girls (bar girls) & looking for love in the wrong places (Pattaya). This is just my opinion, so please feel free to disagree, ignore what I say, and move on! :) Thanks, again, Ying, for the interesting content!

[@sstp703]

I agree with you completely, and thank you for your kind comment. 😊🫶🏻 It's unfortunate that people often stereotype all Thai girls as being interested only in money.

[@yingonyoutube]

Thank you for your comment 🫶😊

[@joostroelens8710]

A lot of disturbing hungry farangs in Phuket and Pattaya

[@joostroelens8710]

​@@yingonyoutubei like your channel very well I m single never married before in Belgium I came 5 Times to Thailand it's so very beautiful and adorable I hope to meet a good girl when I come to Thailand this year in month December January. Maybe you re can give some advice for when I come to BKK

[@peterdyson9590]

The guys in the flat obove me are from the Philippines their very nice along with Thialand and maybe India they are places I would maybe think of moving too. My age would mean I would go with an older lady , I have a pension and also money of my own , once a person got in a relationship you would be kind and considerate and very happy together ! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@yingonyoutube]

Thank you 🫶

[@paulsandford3345]

We have lizzards in Australia like that. We call them Goannas!😊

[@sstp703]

There are probably a hundred of them in this park here 😂 thank you for watching 😊🫶🏻

[@jobisrael8313]

To Both 😍😘

[@sstp703]

Thank you for watching 😊🫶🏻

[@blackcatcaptain2022]

taking care = give money + others

[@rogeryork3711]

great job ying you are doing great your present your topic good questions i agree with you about the money through my genereal exsperiance the people asking for money are normally scammers bar girls this is the same in the phillipines i dont like it when people generalize a group of people

[@ayroau]

Ying you are such a queen standing next to her. For me being yourself, opening up, is the greatest sign of trust. This may take a long time but I am willing to spend this time to find a good relationship ^_^

[@yingonyoutube]

Thank you for watching 🫶😊🙌

[@TheGandorX]

May I suggest you update the title to "Thai women talk!"

[@kevinp8108]

I was in a long-distance relationship with a Thai woman for three years. Although she never asked me for money, I did feel resentment from her that I wasn't sending her monthly support. She had a great job as an HR manager with the Thai government and owned her own house so I didn't think she needed the monetary support. Occasionally, my ex-girlfriend would tell me about her friends who were getting money from their foreign boyfriends but never directly complained that I was not doing the same. I eventually broke off the relationship when her resentment turned into frequent petty arguments unrelated to money. I chose not to send her money because we were in a long-distance relationship and at any time she could break up with me for another man, and I would be out all of the money that was sent to her! If we lived together in Thailand, I would contribute money to help her better her life.

[@mancello]

You never met her in person?

[@kevinp8108]

@@mancello Yes, I went to see her in Thailand twice, each time for one month. I met her shortly after Covid started so I could not travel as much to Thailand from the USA. I could not quarantine at a hotel for 2 weeks in Thailand. We spoke everyday on video chat on the LINE app. We met in person on the second and third year after we met.

[@mancello]

@@kevinp8108 Even if a Thai woman has a college degree and a good job, she still generally is not being paid very much since wages in Thailand are quite low, especially compared to the West. If you get involved with the Thai woman, you're going to be expected to help her out and perhaps even help out her family financially. It's just the way it is in Asian countries and especially in Thailand.

[@sstp703]

It’s understandable that you felt uncertain about sending money. Trust and clear communication are so crucial in these kinds of situations and sorry it didn’t work out 🥲 Thank you for watching and sharing your experience.

[@paulsandford3345]

Ying, what about your experience with dating a foreigner? I hope you find a really nice guy one day, whether he be a thai of foreigner?

[@yingonyoutube]

Haha I will consider sharing mine for the next one 🙌

[@paulsandford3345]

@yingonyoutube I'd live to hear about it, but I fear, it not good about how you were treated?

[@youarehere0]

I'm going to be straight- up with you being a farang living in Thailand now for over 3 years now. Long story short, farangs in Thailand are, for the most part, bad news. The type of Western men who are in Thailand are, for the most part, not normal relationship guys. A normal Western man would never ever hang out with a random girl or any girl one-on-one when they are in a committed relationship. It seems that the men that are attracted to Thailand are quite honestly pretty creepy dudes for the most part. Of course there are exceptions, but this is all from my experience probing a few friends and talking to many girls about their experiences. One of my best friends who is a girl has been trying to be in a committed relationship with Western men for over a decade now. Each time it ends in heartbreak for her. It's quite obvious to me that Western men living here either have a lower moral compass or once they get here, they realize how much easier it is to "get girls" they could never dream of getting back home, so they can't control their urges. I say this being a farang living in Thailand, but then again, I'm not in a committed relationship, so my conscious is clean...ish :)

[@sstp703]

Thank you for your comment 😊🫶🏻 I could also see some traits of what you have mentioned about foreign guys who live here 😅 have a nice day 😁

[@muajin]

One thing i'm curious about. Thai women are known to be very jealous BUT many married women or ones that have bfs, have IG accounts with bikini or cute photos on them. Don't their husbands/bfs get jealous or are they not allowed to? I see some teachers, nurses even royal Thai airforce women with bikini photos *some wearing wedding rings* on IG. You'd think the jealousy would be canceled out cause they have lots of guys gawking at their photos. Seems a bit unfair.

[@garyzies3486]

Beauty is an important asset. Why not let her share it? Are you too selfish?

[@winthorpetrois]

@@garyzies3486 His question is about the hypocrisy of it, and it's a good question.

[@sstp703]

Maybe their partners understand that these women are just sharing photos they find beautiful or enjoyable. Posting bikini or cute photos doesn't always mean they're trying to get other guys' attention. Relationships can have different rules about social media, so what seems unfair from outside might not be a problem for the couple. Thank you for watching 😊🫶🏻

[@winthorpetrois]

@@sstp703 Maybe. My other concern is when women want me to stop contacting my female friends, but they keep contacting their male friends. Also, asking a partner to end meaningful friendship is not a loving request.

[@garyzies3486]

@@winthorpetrois It's about status elevation. A man has to work for it, a woman can just show it off.

[@PATThaiA]

Liked.

[@Rocknaverdie]

เป็นคนไทยหรอครับพี่สาว🙏🏻💕🇹🇭

[@sstp703]

😊

[@robertdixon1226]

I live in Hat Yai and will never go to Pattya, like to meet local girls that speak some English

[@sstp703]

Thank you for watching. Hope you find one soon 😊

[@paulbytheriver4976]

thank you, two very lovely sweet thai girls. About the comment on money, thought the commenter was unkind and maybe even bitter about some bad experiences he might have had. The fact that he thinks all thai are unworthy of friendship tells me he hasn't experienced thai people from all over thailand, except maybe as you say bargirl types. But I do agree with him on the money point. I have had serious relationships with two Isaan women, one of which I know is a know is a good quality person, kind, respectful, loyal, strong morals. Both of them definitely expected to be financially supported, even when first dating. There are many women in Isaan who feel that farang should be giving them a salary like, 10,000-25,000 BHT. My current gf says it is thai culture for the man to take care of the woman. Maybe in BKK or Chiang Mai, places with better economic opportunities, it is different, but my honest experience with two normal thai women is that they expect to be financially supported.

[@sstp703]

Thanks for sharing your experiences with Thai women from Isaan and their expectations about financial support in relationships. I think in any relationship, it's crucial for both people to contribute. However, everyone has their own values and expectations, so that needs a discussion for mutual understanding. And not all Thai men can support their partners financially in that way either and that’s understandable. Every relationship is different. Thank you for watching and thanks again for sharing your perspective. I hope your current relationship works out well for you😊🫶🏻

[@yingonyoutube]

Thank you for sharing 😊🙌🫶

[@simpleisthebest73]

I'm sorry, I don't mean to be disrespectful. To be honestly, this wasn't very helpful. Maybe the topic isn't correct. Topic should be more like... "How to choose or where to look a good Thai woman? " or "How to avoid a bad Thai woman? " Simply who left comments like "Thai women only wants money from foreign boyfriend".. I believe they meet their Thai girlfriend from either dating site or Go Go Bar. I have also made a same mistake before, and I learn my lesson. I don't want to blame anyone.. I just like to think that it's the world that is we live in. It's nobody's fault. In the bright side, things could've been much worse 😅

[@yingonyoutube]

Noted with your comment 🙌 Thanks for watching 🫶😊

[@user-nm5mv3fq2s]

i think most foieners tend to meet the wrong type of ladies in the entertainment industry in tourist places if you meet real normal thais dateing can be very good im was with who became my wife for 30 years and had a fantastic rlationship untill she past now but have normal children and still use our home in thailad all the time when im not working enjoying a great relationship with all me fantastic thai frends

[@sstp703]

Thank you for watching and so sorry to hear that your wife has passed 😢

[@mikehoffman5130]

Foreignors are too different from country to country, by race, age and upbringing to be lumped together in one category. An observation about sensitivity is many people who are sensative or emotional tend to be focused too much on themself. These same sensative people can be very rude and not consider other peoples fealings; in my opinion.

[@winthorpetrois]

I blame my ex-gf for my bad Thai. "I'm not teaching you Thai. You're just going to use it with other women!"

[@barnold62]

I subscribed today for you. : ) Those guys think all girls there are like the bar girls when they are not and maybe the one's they messaged online were bar grils??

[@yingonyoutube]

Thank you so much for the support 🫶😊 Yeah, definitely was that kind girl 😄

[@sstp703]

Thank you for watching 😊🫶🏻

[@jamesb.492]

A western man goes to work, comes back home in the evening. A Thai man goes to work, then calls his woman 10 times aday to check on her. Why? Because a Thai man knows they easily fall for sweet talkers ... money talks very sweet ...

[@martyrobinson6500]

Regarding the comment about Money, the Idiots only meet the Bar Girls or Ladies in the Entertainment areas that are taught how to rip off Farangs.They are sent down from the Villages just to support their Families. My Friend is married to a regular Thai lady and she has a lot more money than him 🙂

[@mihalymezei5260]

When I was young, in my home country (Hungary) girls used to be like You both. And most of the boys were like You expect them to be. The money problem with Thai girls of some foreign guys, I am nearly sure is, that old men want young girls. Those relationships are not normal, not equal.

[@sstp703]

Thank you for watching 😊🫶🏻

[@bigjohnson7415]

You both speak such great English! Very attractive as well!😍😍😍

[@yingonyoutube]

Thanks for the comment 🫶😊

[@sstp703]

Thank you for watching 😊🫶🏻

[@atheist63]

I was in a relationship with a Thai woman until a few weeks ago . I still live in Canada but I will move to Thailand after i sell everything here. Over one year in the relationship , i bought a iPhone and gave her over 300000 baht , she had no problems asking for money every month . I met her for only one month in Bangkok , we traveled to a few beautiful places in Thailand . The reason why i ended the relationship is because last month she asked me to send her 35000 baht and she got angry when I refused . She is working in Bangkok , makes 20000 baht per month and living with her mother who is also working , i don't understand why she needs money from me , how was she able to make ends meet before she met me i don't understand . Maybe I'm just too gullible.

[@Nordic_Sky]

Look at any of the videos by "Thai Talk with Dan."

[@mancello]

@@atheist63 She only wanted your money. Better off without her. You sent her way too much money.

[@garyzies3486]

She made money off the SIMP that came before you.

[@bijanbayne3259]

Date a teacher, nurse, tour company owner, or hotel front desk staffer. Or a girl from one of the many, many marketing, advertising and p.r. firms. They have their own money. They speak English as well as the interviewee, which fosters decent communication when there are rough patches, or early stages of getting to know someone. You're welcome

[@aarbar6615]

The guy who said that probably dated bar girls and of course they want money. I don’t think it’s true either

[@eastman40]

Wow ❤ and so Wow ❤. I wish I can get to see you and spend time with you. And I mean it for Ying.

[@yingonyoutube]

Thanks for your comment 🫶😊

[@eastman40]

@@yingonyoutube if you were my companion

[@alblack9869]

You are a little bit late - She's got a boyfriend from the States...

[@eastman40]

@@alblack9869 oh god... Thx for the update..... I am actually way too late.

[@chrschr]

You'll never be able to bridge that cultural gap if you can't talk (and listen) to each other.. and unfortunately, most people are terrible communicators

[@teamextras4life270]

YES I AM A MAGNET FOR L❤️‍🔥VE YES MY HEART IS OPEN AND READY TO RECEIVE MY SOUL❤️‍🔥MATE YES I TRUST THE UNIVERSE TO BRING US TOGETHER AT THE PERFECT TIME EVERYDAY YES I AM CLOSER TO THE L❤️‍🔥VE THAT'S DESTINED FOR ME🥰❤️‍🔥🌹

[@sstp703]

Hope you find your true love soon 😊🫶🏻

[@niwpix7180]

Both clearly have your hearts in the right place, though unfortunately still confused about the male / female dynamics. Once you understand this, things ( and life ) will make so much more sense. Wish you 2 the best of luck. P.S.: Single people, especially with several failed relationships shouldnt be giving dating / mating advice. Nevertheless, it was entertaining :)

[@sstp703]

Thank you for your thoughts and good wishes. Understanding relationships between men and women means hearing from both perspectives, so it’s important to consider viewpoints from women too. And I also believe people with different relationship experiences, even those who’ve faced challenges, can provide helpful advice. We learn something from everyone’s journey. 🙂

[@yingonyoutube]

😂🫶🙏

[@stephane8993]

It's a subject that comes up a lot, these money stories between young Thai women and foreigners. A little too much perhaps. Yes, it harms the reputation of romantic relationships in the land of smiles, but is it so different in Western countries? You also have to ask yourself... And above all, why are we never shown perfectly happy couples, with children, for whom everything is going well? There must be examples... PS: A word about Nanny... She really made me laugh. There was the podcast and your video. I hope her Italian boyfriend proposed to her. If I was 20 years younger it would have already been done.

[@yingonyoutube]

🫶😊🙌

[@sonamphel1124]

Can I ask you question? I heard cheating is very common in Thai society, is it true ?

[@yingonyoutube]

I think cheating happens everywhere 🙌

[@garyzies3486]

It's as popular as anywhere else.

[@sonamphel1124]

@@yingonyoutube It's true, but based on data from a Google search, Thailand is ranked as the number one country for cheating in the world.

[@sonamphel1124]

@@yingonyoutube It's true, but based on data from a Google search, Thailand is ranked as the number one country for cheating in the world.

[@keithjetski3060]

If the girl likes you, you will get her number. No real mystery.

[@user-he2pd6oo2u]

Она так мнется, когда пытается ответить на вопрос о разнице между тайцем и фарангом, как будто единственная для разница это цвет и длина члена.

[@ChadPerfect-]

I can see why people love Thailand. It looks beautifully there from what I see in the video.

[@yingonyoutube]

Thank you 😊 🙏

[@karabogaz]

somehow too serious, it does not provide the idea of the average experience... but mai bpen rai 😊

[@sstp703]

Apologies for that, I might have seemed a bit serious. It was my first time being on a camera and I was so nervous 😅 thank you for watching kha 😊🫶🏻

[@AtheiaKayla]

When they say foreigners...they mean only white men. Not dark/brown skinned south east asians...

[@Eric-of5ex]

The comment from the guy around 11 minutes in the video, is from a guy who has ONLY been around bar girls and similar types of women...

[@garyzies3486]

Most visitors to Thailand only have 2-4 weeks of vacation. It is unlikely that a serious relationship materializes in that short of a time window. Therefor, guys look for quickies.....P&D

[@Eric-of5ex]

@@garyzies3486 and that's totally fine BUT you don't judge all of the women in a country based on your experience with a "working girl"... he said "most of the girls there just want our money"

[@garyzies3486]

@@Eric-of5ex Where have I judged any women? I was talking about the visitors who come to Thailand to meet "working girls".

[@Eric-of5ex]

@@garyzies3486 I did NOT mean you being judgemental..I was referring to the comment shown in the video ,NOT you😉That should be clear as I quoted him at the end of my response...I totally get that people who come for a short holiday wont be able to get into a relationship with a normal Thai lady...only option for these guys is pay for play.Thats why I think people who say "Most of the girls there just want our money" are ridiculous cause they seem upset that a working girls want money 😂

[@garyzies3486]

@@Eric-of5ex I agree. There are many fine regular ladies there but it takes time and effort to develop a serious relationship. I don't understand guys who complain about paying a "holiday girlfriend" for her time.

[@davidchow4459]

No Money No Honey ! Simple enough ? 😂

[@yingonyoutube]

Depends on the girls you meet. 🫶

[@davidchow4459]

@@yingonyoutube Especially those old fat bald head farrangs thinking that they are still Valentinos. 🤣🤣

[@swissuese]

Have you studied abroad?

[@yingonyoutube]

No, we both studied in Thailand 🇹🇭

[@swissuese]

@@yingonyoutube well done! Good job, both of you!

[@sstp703]

@@swissuesethank you for your comment 😊🫶🏻

[@abril_Ram]

The guys in these comments 😂

[@yingonyoutube]

😂

[@Scott-Inc.]

❤ Very Insightful..🙏 I still hope to date a Thai Girl one day soon. Thanks Ying & SU, Good Content! 😊 PS; SuperChat so I can buy you ☕️

[@yingonyoutube]

Awwww thank you so much for your support 🫶😊🙏 have a wonderful day ^^

[@glenloader639]

If you were called sensitive or emonitonal, you are over reacting, if you weren't called names or swore at then it seems you can't take criticism at all.

[@sstp703]

It's important to recognize that everyone responds differently to criticism. Calling someone sensitive or emotional doesn't necessarily mean they're overreacting. People have varying levels of sensitivity, and it's important to consider how feedback is delivered to ensure it's constructive and respectful. Have a nice day 😊

[@glenloader639]

@@sstp703 It's well known that the average Thai person doesn't take any type of criticism well. No matter how the criticism is given. You talked on the topic of when Thai women are upset they go all quiet/งอน well in the west this is seen as very childish, something a child does when they don't get what they want. When a adult does it, it is seen as a lack of maturity. Where a person is not able to express themselves very well.

[@sstp703]

@@glenloader639 I respectfully disagree. Not all Thai people react badly to criticism. In Thai culture, criticism is often given in a helpful constructive and respectful way, aimed at understanding and not causing offense. When Thai women go quiet when upset, it might be cultural rather than immature. Different cultures express emotions differently, so it's important to understand and respect these differences. Like what i just said in the video, life is hard already. The two people should always remember to be kind and gentle to each other. Ps. I always expressed how I felt and discussed with my foreign ex bf when we had issues but with the Thais, they just got it automatically😆

[@glenloader639]

@@sstp703 I never said all Thai people I said your average Thai person! After discussing the topic of criticism with many Thai people most said Thai people don't take criticism well no matter if it's done in a constructive way or not. It's a common thing for Thai people to not show up to work the next day if they have received criticism of any form, Thai bosses and western bosses all say it is a problem when dealing with Thai staff.

[@outercast9532]

Thai national animal are those lizard, not elephant.

[@intsccents]

Having been to Thailand many times over the past 20 years i have never had a Thai person ask for money from me in fact Thais in general are very genorus with giving of food drink and there time.. Maybe bar girls fit this stereo type but thats there job... By the way Ying and her friend are quality people and adorable young woman these are they type of Thai woman you would want to date...

[@yingonyoutube]

Thank you so much for your comment 🫶😊🙌

[@cremersalex]

This might sound inappropriate but I couldn't keep my eyes off of her. I'm already looking forward to a sequel.

[@BirdDog.]

We see what you see

[@soldiermick]

These comments are from guys who either haven’t really visited Thailand apart from the bar girl scene of have just heard from others who have only visited that area. You have to experience more of Thailand to really appreciate it.

[@yingonyoutube]

Yeah I do agree 💯 thanks for comment 🫶🙌😊

[@I_m_Konstantin]

Hello everyone from Phuket Thailand 👋. Around 3 weeks ago I open KZbin channel too about my life in Thailand. English it's not my native but I try speak English and thai

[@joostroelens8710]

A lot of hungry foreigners in Phuket I know Achara thongdee she works in Hilton Patong hotel in Phuket she wants to live Rich with money from farangs 😊😊😊

[@DezMedia78]

Ying and Su, you should start a dating session to bring good thai ladies like the both of you to nice foreigners like us

[@drummerchicago]

Dating a co-worker never seems to work out.....since you have to see him/her everyday...plus if it ends badly you may have to quit your job. Love to hear more about Sue and her background she is a very interesting woman. I wonder how she decided on a being teacher. My guess she is an English teacher since her English is excellent, but I am not sure. Her English proficiency may be due to her dating a westerner probably someone from the USA. What is the story of her side ponytail anime girl tattoo? My guess its her daughter? or she is a fan of Guild Girl? What is her Instagram or You Tube channel?

[@yingonyoutube]

Thanks for your comment 😊🫶🙌 She has KZbin but doesn’t use it. 😊

[@ivananderson141]

Gold diggers are us channel

[@billyjohnson9166]

Does a man have to pay you to date you?

[@yingonyoutube]

For us, nobody pays us to date with them.

[@billyjohnson9166]

@@yingonyoutube very good. Watch Thai talk with Dan. The story’s are unbelievable

[@user-vq8ub7nq4y]

8:24 "So errrr, what is really the big difference between Thai guys and foreigner guys?" It is girth and length ladies, isn't it.