most people in the world are struggling with childhood traumas, accepting your past, seeking therapy and healing is part of the ways one can get over with these traumas.
@sathomoha3 жыл бұрын
Who else wants to see a vlog of Mitch,Val and Dee?gonga like hapo ifikie Mitch and Dee
@paulineshamaine7963 жыл бұрын
Our parents are broken people but too proud to admit that
@maureenmunyao32933 жыл бұрын
Couldn't put it any better
@fabulously_chic2 ай бұрын
You said it.
@daisybetut3 жыл бұрын
The sadness in Dee's heart aki wishing mngemskiza that time...... .. I feel you guys. I had a share of a strict dad who was also beating us for nothing. I am that person full of fear and low self-esteem because of him. Confidence naona watu wako nayo sijawahi pata courage aki. Thanks for the encouragement. Love you Mitch and Dee
@reubenwafula50373 жыл бұрын
Hop utaipata one day
@daisybetut3 жыл бұрын
@@reubenwafula5037 thanks
@faithkagwiria68873 жыл бұрын
this made me cry because i was raised the same way though i didn't run away but my younger sister used to run just like you guys and the worst thing is she was alone because i was at the campus then and she was in upper primary...and it affected me so much because even now am at 24 and its still hunt me,sometimes i cant even express what i feel...but i hv to fight it..i love you guys.
@rosenangila11253 жыл бұрын
Growing up without a mum is just something else,,, I can tell a story and tell and tell😭😭😭😭. Anyways 😢 It's not like it's over, but I'm still fighting many things right now... Denial, rejection aloooot from missed childhood affection.
@changingcircles3 жыл бұрын
You are not alone
@angelaimali13153 жыл бұрын
Hugs mummy ..God is with yoi
@barbarae92563 жыл бұрын
I can relate
@swesschao30953 жыл бұрын
GOD IS WITH YOU!!!
@Excuvation043 жыл бұрын
Pole sana,hugs❣️
@mourinekhisa61503 жыл бұрын
Your story got me crying..I thank God my parents were both caring and they disciplined with love...Sorry for what you went through
@valentineotieno74723 жыл бұрын
I went through alot too..never got love from my parents till date and this made me want to have a child of my own someone that would give me love...I remember I went to my mum one day and told her that it's like I had depression and my mom said that I should have it kabisa💔...her words broke me especially coming from my own mom
@FC_family3 жыл бұрын
Same here my mum treated me like a stranger/orphan ameletewa aleee
@valentineotieno74723 жыл бұрын
@@FC_family Mungu halali❤️
@ruthblanchie82233 жыл бұрын
@@FC_family same ship but when you turn to God, everything changes... I found peace in myself and forgave kabisa....
@maureensheila16933 жыл бұрын
you are such an inspiration honestly Dee and Mitch...you have been through a lot but who is God look at you now!!!!!! Anyways all of us have gone through a fair share of life not necessarily with the parents but also relatives, but we have survived through it all by the grace of God. Great content we need more of it.
@kazmorich3 жыл бұрын
I'm crying knowing my father was exactly as misguided as yours but at the same time thanking God that my mother was present so we did not run away from home but if we were in the same scenario as yours we'd clearly be lost right now or maybe God would have saved us like he saved you. Thanks for sharing this. I also struggle with fear up to date just like Dee and i also struggle with harshness. I almost always catch myself being harsh and love is like a very far away thing in my life. The weird thing is when you are a lady you find yourself attracting men who are exactly like your father. God help us!
@joygoko3 жыл бұрын
Mbona nalia? sad story, But the fact that you made it this far tells me God has you. God carried you. Even D.
@sharonakinyi11773 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the story👏
@morrynqueenel75393 жыл бұрын
Sad story
@renewedself3 жыл бұрын
Anyone who is familiar with such vocabulary like "fight or flight mode" is truly on a journey to healing from childhood trauma. Take heart. Tuko wengi
@ChebetJuneKitchen3 жыл бұрын
The story has reminded me of parenting styles( permissive, uninvolved, authoritarian, authoritative styles) your dad was more of authoritarian parent..wants you to do things because "he said so" thanks for sharing the story, made me learn and get motivated.
@rachaelmbora47263 жыл бұрын
Val should come here also... we'd love to see you three together
@emmahsammy693 жыл бұрын
Wah,im moved to tears i couldnt hold.You girls are strong,hugs
@judynyamisa65823 жыл бұрын
Mental health is something that boils down to the peace in the place we stay in...
@candidtalkswithlauvena18353 жыл бұрын
Well said ss, we don't share to get pity nor to expose ourselves, but exactly as you have said. Love you so much dearest, keep them rolling 💕💕💕💕Your story the child in me can familiarise with the child in me. But it is well
@leahlutta22203 жыл бұрын
You guys need to have a sit down with your dad and get closure.....I know he might not open up completely but probably he also needs you guys.....you never know if he was or rather still is battling depression....nawapenda bure beauties
@meivinkelvin2703 жыл бұрын
MITCH AND DIANA ❤️❤️YOU TWO ARE A BLESSING UPON MY LIFE AND THIS ONE WAS AN ENCOURAGEMENT AND INSPIRATION FOR ME AND I WANNA ADOPT TO ALL WHAT YOU HAVE SHARED AND MAY GOD BLESS YOU TWO🙏🙏🙏🤗🤗🤗NAWAPENDA SANA❤️❤️❤️❤️
@cecilialubale163 жыл бұрын
Chunga oranails sisidunge Mitch tumbo
@bettychelangat51452 жыл бұрын
I love this it's not easy to share such dark moments it's brave of you... You have encouraged people out here..... You did great
@Daphney_Amisi3 жыл бұрын
A VERY TOUCHING STORY 🥺❤️ HEARTBREAKING 💔 YOU'RE A STRONG WOMAN BABE ❤️
@dianahamoi22533 жыл бұрын
I can relate to that😅 now I can laugh about it but deep down it still hurts and I would Never allow my kid or anyone's kid kupitia iyo life😔 its so frustrating aki
@overandabove98213 жыл бұрын
Val, should come here also...it's sad to grow with a violent parent...I'm a victim too...
@judymutheu58373 жыл бұрын
Aki Dee, Val Ako? I want to see the three of you in a video together. #sisterslove❤😜
@taabuhellen13583 жыл бұрын
Seconded
@rachaelmbora47263 жыл бұрын
@@taabuhellen1358 confirmed here😄
@janewalalah26103 жыл бұрын
You two are the right type of crazy we need....😆🤣😍...love the bond. Very encouraging story.
@judynyamisa65823 жыл бұрын
Yeah I had heard this from Dee's stories but honestly I get how growing up in fear is nerve reckoning one can still be at 20 + and you still fear your dad😪 This just gets me actually thinking you know it even scares me to get kids or get married this is something we need to talk about. It's actually an issue people do not talk about
@candydolly77263 жыл бұрын
Michelle !!!your story is very sad,made me remember my past childhood life,it is painful.I'am also struggling with childhood trauma,i live with my father's family after my parents died,it was a hell of mistreatment,i hate them up to now!!!!!I don't visit my village up to date.
@lynnemelline16273 жыл бұрын
Thank you Mitch. Actually I've learned something great from you. God bless you dear. I'm 24 and it's when I'm picking up myself from my childhood troumas
@rosemarywasike28522 жыл бұрын
Girls just watched your story, it's really emotional, it reminds me about what my children went through in the hands of their father But apparently mine was different, I never left my children, and the times I was not there I always called to check on them. Yes my children have been scarred by the way there father treated them. Diana, Michele I would like to tell my story about what this man did. I actually 😭 just listening and remembering what my children went through. But I fought where I could. My children have never known what a father's love is. Anyway I thank God you have grown up to be such beautiful daughters of your father and mother. The devil is ashamed. And God is glorified you are a great testimony. Your story is really encouraging. Love you girls.
@elsiemarete2043 жыл бұрын
Watching this has made me cry 😭😭😢...my story was worse than this ..in short my parents died when was 6months old,,was raised by my grandparents but not old grandparents ,,, so we grew up together with my cousins but I tell you it was not easy still now I feel the pain ,, I was humiliated in front of everyone ,,when my cuzs where given better education I was sent to public school ,,my grandfather kept comparing me with our neighbors kids which made me cry all the time..sometimes nilikuwa nakuzwa home😪😪 ..for sure its along humiliating story.....
@eunicewaithera19993 жыл бұрын
Take heart dear and find confort in God ❤❤❤❤
@yummykitchendirect45283 жыл бұрын
Am sorry, as long you are alive God will change your life to be good.
@essiemiscik3 жыл бұрын
This video was very much needed! Love u guys! ❤❤❤
@annmya49473 жыл бұрын
Waaah ,that was traumatazing 😭😭.sending you lots of hugs and love Dee n Mitch❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@tinajuma62593 жыл бұрын
are we all going to ignore how their dental formula's perfect and white? ur an inspiration girls my mom has made me go through shit also upto date I decided to respect her from a distance it's so painful what sometimes our parents make us go through
@beautyngambi61203 жыл бұрын
I'm in campus and I know what you're talking about. I was also raised in fear,till date siezi open up to my parents ama nikuwe na shida I can't open up...azin you feel inferior. But life has to move on.
@winnienyokabi13423 жыл бұрын
Love you Mitch, ur such a vibe 🥰.. but this video is so emotional, we've all been through the worst and came out strong 👌
@princessworld50133 жыл бұрын
So touching and emotional 😭😭😭 and is it that Dee was daddy's favorite or she wasn't around... You just inspire alot of people out here
@cherrylinewambui30113 жыл бұрын
Hello Mitch and Dee..poleni for that. Such great lessons for parents and the people in general. Thank you for your content today.
@mercygracerachel6803 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your story , thank God for your lives. Was unconscious was reacting from traumas
@hairbyraychelle61733 жыл бұрын
It is the make up for me, as they were talking I was admiring their faces😍😍
@willykaduka2653 жыл бұрын
True story 😭😭 i usually ask my self mambo mob but no one to answer my questions
@lucynyamms90563 жыл бұрын
I just love how u two relate very friendly...I think one of this days bring Val we see how three of u will be together... Keep up da spirit dear
@kristeenfitness79993 жыл бұрын
Thank you Mitch and Dee for the encouraging story, as a parent I have learned alot from your story it's going to change my parenting life. Thank you sana🙏
@Cynthiazion23 жыл бұрын
That was too much of your Dad😰😰😰thank God for you guyz,,,,alafu val alienda wapi alisema weezdom ananuka miguu akaenda 😂😂😂😂😂🖐️🖐️leteni val plz
@cateauma65983 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🙆
@priscahmuthoni94373 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣
@catherinegathaiya183 жыл бұрын
Very educative yes we have to unlearn the bad things we learnt from our parents,, reading books especially rich dad poor dad has helped me a lot
@KellysamsMonicah3 жыл бұрын
At some point I felt like crying but the fact that you are here with all the God's blessings, let's smile with our shoulders high. #nakuruyoutuber
@fatumaabdullahi38963 жыл бұрын
This amazing two sister's who have each other's back 🥺❤️
@jeanjoyce7073 жыл бұрын
I love u girls for free and every family always has their own amazing stories but one thing i regret even today is that i as the older sibling i never defended my bro when our step mom used to mistreat him.How i wish i could reverse the years and show the step mom my true colours when it comes to my only small bro.
@sheerowsadventures79413 жыл бұрын
I would love to see your sis val in one of your vlogs...inspiring episode keep winning♥️
@abueladelights39233 жыл бұрын
Hugs dear girls..Thank you for your vulnerability.Your story will help alot of people .You are so loved.Stay Blessed!
@lizchomba14493 жыл бұрын
Would really want to here more of the story...so touching so encouraging keep up
@ElsieTukahirwa3 жыл бұрын
Dee was so emotional 😭😭. Mich I am also crying oh God you went through alot😔 God is so good He changed your story. Glory be to God 🙏🙏🙏
@missemmah96833 жыл бұрын
The chemistry between this two sisters is amazing♥️ #gulf KZbinr✔️
@ItsRacquelCarol3 жыл бұрын
I can't wait to finish work and sit on this... someone pls let me know if I need tissues... love you two to bits...💯❤🙏🏿
@mitchngoje3 жыл бұрын
Maybe a few🥰
@ItsRacquelCarol3 жыл бұрын
@@mitchngoje God is faithful!! I have no better words❤... respect to you two... Glad I took a few tissues.. You need to be a motivational speaker Mitch💯
@faithmbutha55803 жыл бұрын
Girls you strong and you keep inspiring us ...it's all about God and he's gonna turn our stories ..we love you girls and may God keep blessing you🙏🙏
@lyneshiku71183 жыл бұрын
I can relate my father was a menace not only to us but to the society as a whole...being the only girl I went through hell and it affects me upto date ...I wish I could find help...healing is not easy.
@goldensunshine86933 жыл бұрын
You ain't alone, I finally forgave him in his grave.
@lyneshiku71183 жыл бұрын
@@goldensunshine8693 i wish I could forgive him
@nutritiongalore2 жыл бұрын
Thank you, for sharing, Sending hugs, its really sad how most millenials were raised in fear. May God Help us.
@girlbossmutheu65393 жыл бұрын
dee and mitch kindly bring val tumuone.na atushow ha fair share of the story 🥰if possible😊
@noelachebet61263 жыл бұрын
Waau much love for you @Diana and@Mitchell and each and every one here let's keep on pushing coz we are almost there. Thumbs up everyone 😘❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@lydiashee31193 жыл бұрын
Sorry for what u went through.I think it’s good you talk to your dad about it ajue how u feel
@liliannyabs23313 жыл бұрын
Challanges are there to face,,, but with God everything is possible 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@jewelnganga25513 жыл бұрын
I love this conversation. Thanks Deimos
@williamrichu91643 жыл бұрын
You both need to talk to your dad and open up. May you both find peace
@kazmorich3 жыл бұрын
I don't think you understand what it means to be raised by a harsh Dad. I was raised by one too and even the thought of facing him to date is scary.
@meganagunda31713 жыл бұрын
This has given me strength and motivation Mitch you are such a blessed soul ❤️❤️❤️
@mindiperez22823 жыл бұрын
My mom used beat me like a dog and for a long time I thought she hated me, most of the time she told me I was stupid and I grew with that in mind,no matter how hard I tried in my exams I failed coz it stck in my mind that I was stupid, right now I'm 22 and I don't have any love for her and I'm trying to heal from all that trauma. What parents do for sure affects their children even into adulthood.
@royalmuriithi13563 жыл бұрын
@Lyrical Red give me your number I need to talk to you
@Ladyfaithke3 жыл бұрын
May God gives you healing .I feel you,you don’t have to love anyone your parents included,if God gives you a chance to therapy please take for your own good.Praying for you.
@wanjikunjuguna83862 ай бұрын
Wuiyee, challenges that comes after losing a mum. I can identify i lost mum at 13yrs. But God has been faithful, look at what you have become❤. Your mum must have been a praying mum.
@fridaycandy9953 жыл бұрын
Be careful when you’re out here judging people cus you never know what they have had to live through. I wasn’t ready for this.😢
@linetnduta7761 Жыл бұрын
My mum says "si ya milele" I can assure you God always has a solution for everything
@mitchngoje Жыл бұрын
Always ❤️
@ednaanunda34873 жыл бұрын
These two sisters are crazy 🤣❤️ I wish I had such a bond with my sister 🤣
@littlebethany84633 жыл бұрын
Losing a mum,no shoulders to lean on, everyone goes away from you leaving us with an ailing dad and siblings yet our relatives are well up..God!, Even to date am not in a good position where I can support them but am striving hard..hopes and prayers are my daily bread. Everyone who fights his/her battles alone without sharing it with anyone not because you're stupid but because you got no one to hold you and to listen to you,,God got us🙏
@beatricekoech30559 ай бұрын
Dee like i cant stop crying n seeing how you feel about thiz Dee u really a worrior person thanks for ur pesonality av learned alot
@mitchngoje8 ай бұрын
💕
@wendyndumi43233 жыл бұрын
We love you guys so much.😍....plz do more story times like these coz they're are very touching and encouraging....and some people our there need this... 😊
@shirojaymes3 жыл бұрын
My mother used to beat me like that when I was young, esp being the firstborn being beaten even for mistakes za my siblings...and that instilled fear in me until today. That got to make me lose my self-esteem and lack of confidence, and that was made worse by the teachers in school coz they also used to beat us through too for even the smallest mistakes. They really don't understand the tremor they cause to our small minds that affects us even in our adult life. But as we grow older we get to heal and try overcome it. though its not easy.
@christinenyabonyi61973 жыл бұрын
Same thing to aki add Leo nasema. This yr would end before I ask her why she used to beat me as if wa not her child, add Kuna time alinijapa nikamsho anionyesha who's my mum and dady
@risperkanyunguh67713 жыл бұрын
Dee mimi am still fighting fear... Mpaka kwa rship
@KhajanyKhajany3 жыл бұрын
Pole sana. I wonder why he did that. I grew up with a loving caring dad. Am glad you guys are doing well.❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏
@shillawandera3 жыл бұрын
You are lucky,be thankful to him
@varlmibei17483 жыл бұрын
It's a touching story.. I love you guys but thanks to God you are living a happy life now ♥️..and raising your kids happily and not in a way you were raised More stories to come ..
@itsvictorella3 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh! I feel this story so much because for me, I grew up with both parents but parents who themselves, hakuna peace. So you see that anger and rage between them was passed on to us kids, or rather me. Except the fact that I didnt have my brother or sister to be with me because love was not normalised. As a matter of fact I can say I grew up 100% alone. Communication and weakness was ridiculed ni kama unawastia watu time. Asin I just have so much pain and trauma from my past and how I was raised, I dont know if I will ever heal.
@prudencemomanyi32963 жыл бұрын
I can relate if you want you can reach out i also have the same story
@Beccah2543 жыл бұрын
You'll heal in Jesus name
@joysitati3 жыл бұрын
Happy to see you Mitch and Dee❤. I think Mitch can sing so well ❤
@huldahnjeri51463 жыл бұрын
Wueeh this takes me back.. I lived with my aunt for 3years..wueeh Ile mambo nilipitia..I used to be beaten so bad😭😭😭😭😭 waah..to a point of kuvunjwa vidole woi🥲 Nwy, I thank God for where I am now. People go through so much in this life Kwanza kids, Lord have mercy🥲
@sonianyesigire3 жыл бұрын
Bambi!, love you ladies... This is inspirational
@ivywangai83633 жыл бұрын
I would like to hear dee akitoroka home… thanks Deimos for the story
@paulinesayo58363 жыл бұрын
You have to be courageous to share this story.congrats
@debbielee24503 жыл бұрын
Its touching...i love you guys ..the love u have as sisters napenda ...keep it up
@susanwangari2423 жыл бұрын
Michelle wah umepitia mob aki wah bt now u r sharing it n God ,,mm sijai chapwa na my dad siwezi sema ati dad alinichapa noooo,,,mm na dad ,,..bt war ya mathe hio acha tu 😄😉😀 ....bt I thank God kwa kua nko na paro wote ,,,
@amraneyadan91922 жыл бұрын
I just love this girls they are so lovely I always feel jealous the bond they have 😄😄😄
@daisybetut3 жыл бұрын
Dee leta hiyo story ya kurun away ukiwa Uni. Halafu mlete Val tumuone pia
@tashabeiby37503 жыл бұрын
Akii we want to see your other sister
@luyhabaesavival3 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭I feel your pain have passed through that I even slept with any man to get shelter even somewhere to change my clothes or bath I had no were I got raped I was used but I thank God here I am God saved me protected me now I have two kids and I pray my kids will not pass through what I passed through because my first child I got him through desperation
@doreenonekalit98883 жыл бұрын
You biggest statement you made is our reaction to our circumstances determines our future
@celinekenedy8703 жыл бұрын
We always taught to be thankfully to each every step we pass,,, I can say that the situation you went through made you to be where you are right now na Mungu akiwepo pia. We learn through mistakes, now hatuwezi kulea watoto wetu in that way. NAWAPENDA SANA.❤❤
@maumorajames29043 жыл бұрын
Thanks Dee na sisy uko io ni moto nice encouragement mmenipea aki
@shantelseema97633 жыл бұрын
We need to see val here too
@rhemandogo22783 жыл бұрын
Sijui nisemeje such a moving story maze which I can relate... Me and my bro viboko our dad alikuwa anatuchapa waaah out of control...hadi kwa kichwa ....aaah leme achia hapo... Pia sisi we said no no no when we get children no instilling fear on them but discipline them with love na kwa kiasi...nwy nawapenda thanks for sharing
@lopezvlogs56063 жыл бұрын
Thank for the word of encouragement Mitchell......Sorry to ask but where is val your other sister
@CCMNEWS203 жыл бұрын
Been asking too where she went!!
@sallymwesh87323 жыл бұрын
Maybe alienda Italy
@farinee3 жыл бұрын
Mitchell hakii you are funny mtu anatoa wapi nguvu ya kudislike,, mnatoa wapi the way she's funny.... Love you all Mungu awalindeeee......
@delvin.vuguza58243 жыл бұрын
Much love Dee and Mitch thats for the encouraging words🫂❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@maurynenjoki88553 жыл бұрын
Mitch nawapenda bureeeeeeeeeeee ❤️❤️❤️can't wait you be my make up teacher 😜😜😜😜😜😜😜😜
@mitchngoje3 жыл бұрын
🥰🥰🥰let's make it happen
@jackienduri43033 жыл бұрын
I'm here too you so perfect 👌
@witny_cynthia3 жыл бұрын
Kwani Dee yeye hakuwa anaulizwa ama alikuwa good gal
@shillawandera3 жыл бұрын
A touching story indeed 💔, parents should make children respect them but not fear them,my dad and mom separated too,i was forced to raise my siblings at my dad's it wasn't easy living with him,i was emotionally tortured😭,but i thank God I can inspire someone who is going through hard times, thanks for sharing yours 🙏
@trizasawaya82513 жыл бұрын
I grew up without a mother and I can feel whatever you saying
@mitchngoje3 жыл бұрын
Pole sana mami😪 but things will always get better
@rosejumba22253 жыл бұрын
it's so touching
@TandS4623 жыл бұрын
@@mitchngoje you girls are beautiful.....where is Val?
@bibinyotakemigisa61273 жыл бұрын
Facts, it’s important to rise kids with love instead of fear!
@eunicenkari44533 жыл бұрын
I think your dad was into depression since they got separated with your mum,it's like he had grown inner hatred for you because your mum left you.I hope one day you can sit him down and talk it out for him to realize his mistakes so that you all can heal. Sharing is part of healing process 🤞🤞
@Moviecentrol3 жыл бұрын
Yes it's true
@marionnjoroge4413 жыл бұрын
They should go visit him.I think he was overwhelmed taking care of 3 gals without their mother's help.he was bitter
@phitolyfancy65613 жыл бұрын
Yeah true my mum also was like that saa hii ndo nimeanza kumuzoea depression is real
@hildaemelda8822 жыл бұрын
True
@alicemathenge1415 Жыл бұрын
Like really dee weeee this is another one who doesn't want me back and not sure how 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣❤❤❤👨👧👧👨👧👧👨👧👧👨👧👧👨👧👧👨👧👧👨👧👧👨👧👧👨👧👧😍😍😍😎😎😎
@nanaithekenyanexplorist51383 жыл бұрын
I relate to foreal I am still struggling fRom childhood trauma I am really struggling to stop hurting people around me just because I am not happy myself
@gracegutu17923 жыл бұрын
Big up! Acknowledging you hurt people is a positive acceptance! HURT people HURT people. Work on yourself and eventually you will be a darling not only to yourself but to your dear and near and the world as a whole. One day at a time at God's beautifol time