My Transs*xual Summer (2011) This TV show could NOT be made now!

[@DrewAshlynMUA]

You know already I'm up for doing an interview. This show changed my life and its such a flashback to see this being watched again x

[@Luxeria]

Thankyou so much gorgeous!!! Can’t wait to finish the series and get all my questions together! 🥰

[@l.q.1253]

Hi Drew.. I have been watching you and Luxeria for years.. I'm so looking forward to you being on this channel 🤗✨💫

[@crazy4catsRL]

A future interview would be amazing!

[@gabrielcastaneda9700]

I love your profile picture the hair the makeup stunning also was the secret you have beautiful skin

[@Observette]

Omg hi Drew!

[@LewisHancox]

Ahh no way! Excited to watch this video about our show. What a lifetime ago. I'm always up for a chat! 🔥

[@Luxeria]

Thanks Lewis!! Would love to have you and drew (and anyone else who’d love to) up for an interview! 🖤

[@LewisHancox]

@@Luxeria Watched, loved it and your reactions! Yes I’d love that 🤗 I will get in touch on insta so you have my deets ❤️

[@thepunkmuppet]

saw the title and immediately thought you meant it couldn’t be made today because it was outdated / transphobic. the fact that you actually meant that this show was really understanding and accepting over ten years ago and couldn’t be shown now genuinely makes me want to cry.

[@Atticus_Loves_Lacquer]

Seconded 🫶🥺

[@JadedShrew777]

Luxeria, you say you are not an activist, but you're still educating all of us who are not part of the trans community simply by being yourself and sharing your journey! As you've said yourself, visibility is so incredibly important. Thank you for putting yourself out there. 💗 At the risk of sounding sappy, I adore your content in all its facets - from you as a trans creator and also as a smart, compassionate person.

[@supernovaskies5044]

May not be an activist but definitely an advocate and educator of and for queer and straight people alike. She's honestly very inspiring to me

[@elisegauvin8262]

I completely agree! I've listened to videos of trans activists here and there, but that's not my reality or that of my loved ones, so interest is low. I listen to your videos because I love your very British reactions to reality shows from the 2000s. But I learned a lot through these videos. It also gave me the opportunity to discuss trans people with my children. (Don't worry, I don't watch your trashy reality shows with them, they've seen me watch you on occasion.)

[@elizabethbrown5289]

Yes all of this!

[@renren4m802]

i hope this comes across in the right way, but honestly knowing, albeit through YT and social media, people such as yourself @Luxeria and Jammiedodger has really educated me about transpeople and moved me from a position of being transphobic - not hateful, but truly ignorant and judgemental - to being an ally and a supporter. You guys have given me the knowledge and lived experience examples that have really taught me and helped me to try in my own small ways to stand against transphobia when I can. Your visibility really does make a difference.

[@genohelix7522]

Best comment !! Couldn't agree more

[@Karengale71]

Hi Luxeria, watching this was hard as i actually cringe watching myself on tv, i actually still have the original DVD's 20/20 tv production company gave us after the program. I liked your comments on the first program as it was playing it was very well discussed x

[@Luxeria]

Omg hello! Thankyou so much for commenting! I’m so glad you enjoyed the video, I feel similar when I watch older videos of myself too. I hope you also enjoy the ones to come! 🖤🖤

[@H4CK41D]

Just wanted to say thank you for being vulnerable going on this show Karen, it really helped me as a baby trans almost a decade ago. Hope you are well!

[@paulapolek6748]

I had breast cancer and felt very disfigured and felt I lost my femininity. A Trans person saw me in the body shop and could see how uncomfortable I was. She and I became friends and she gave me very helpful ad ise on how to wear prosthetics as well as make up tricks to help me feel more confident. Surgery, chemo and radiation saved my life but she saved my mental and emotional well being.

[@dieselblazehaze-desireiona6910]

I am 59 and only came out as non-binary 2 years ago. And as pansexual 5 years ago. It's been a long hard road. But there is joy now.

[@Akcat15]

I’m happy that you’re living your best life now! I’m sorry you’ve had a hard road. (I know sorry doesn’t make it better) but I wish you nothing but love and happiness! 🤍🫶🏼

[@EmmaGoldmanlovesyou]

💕💛💙

[@felixgarnet]

Same here at 50, when I found the words for it! 🤗

[@foxemartin]

I'm always glad to hear more non-millenials/Zs are finding their way into self revelation and safe expression. I wish I'd had more NB role models growing up, but it happened when it happened. 🌼

[@RockBandPlayer84]

Lol bs terms. You just think some being LGBT is some kind of cool clique bevause you have no idea what it is like for those of us who are actually. You just picked the most ambiguous terms so you can still live as a straight woman while pretending to be part of the LGBT community

[@kitkatie0]

Drew helping Sarah with how to pose and how she could wear her hair and makeup is so sweet to me. Just a genuine and wholesome bit that makes me happy and think that maybe not all of humanity is lost.

[@DrewAshlynMUA]

I was very lost in myself but to see someone else struggle made me want to help In anyway that I could. I wasn't the best at makeup and used alot on myself to make me feel abit better about how I looked. Sarah is a fabulous person and her confidence today shines so bright. She's gone on to wrote books and is an trans activist in Brighton x

[@brookeg5979]

@@DrewAshlynMUA Thank you so much for the update on Sarah! As I was watching this, seeing Sarah smile and genuinely feel good about herself after you gave her some help with makeup and hair, my first thought was "oh I hope she's doing well now and feeling confident and happy." I'm so happy to hear she's doing well. (And you too!)

[@chrisjaethey]

By the way, for anyone that isn’t aware, Fox in the show is Fox Fisher, they’re an incredible activist and artist behind My Genderation. I’ve spoken alongside him at protests and events and Fox is literally the most inspiring person 💕

[@toothpasteinyoureye]

And his friend is also on here, Lewis Hancox. He used to make KZbin videos and has a book!

[@shadowkyber2510]

Oh wow, I didn't recognise him at all. He looks so different now

[@tcf_iceland]

Yes, I was happily surprised! I know about Fox through Ugla/Owl! I love them, they are sooo great and intelligent ❤

[@RolyWestYT]

So glad you manged to get this out!!!

[@Luxeria]

Me too!!

[@partially_discombobulated9818]

@RolyWestYT Hiiiiiii Roleeeeeeswaaaashisquish!!!!!❤

[@nincure]

Hi Roly! Yes, I love the slanted picture 😂😂 works great!

[@Sleve-McDichael]

​@@partially_discombobulated9818lol, youtube like "translate to English?" I'm like no sis, I speak Lux thanks!!

[@partially_discombobulated9818]

@@Sleve-McDichael 😂😂😂❤️

[@whitneyellison]

My favorite part of this video is seeing Lux smile so much. 🖤

[@sjokomelk]

Me too. You can see she is really enjoying some of the moments being quiet with a big smile.

[@cjani1387]

Same! So sweet 💞

[@nincure]

Yesss!

[@christinebell8692]

Me too! It made me so happy to see her smiling.

[@Gaydunaway]

This is so fascinating so far. The language of the narration certainly is dated, showing that those of us who are affirming and in the community have made progress with how we understand and conceptualize transition. But with that progress we have also sunk backwards in the safety of visibility itself. It’s a paradox that’s making this a really odd viewing experience. But I’m so glad you found it!

[@Luxeria]

Yes it’s a very strange experience!

[@kiarranarisse]

Isn't it absolutely crazy that this was only 12 years ago?! Like how *little* general society knew about trans ppl is just so crazy to me. It really makes me understand how so many ppl have ended up confused in recent years (excluding the outright hateful ones) with the confidence of the narration of misinformation like in this show

[@Sl1mch1ckens]

I saw someone some it up better than i can, but... someone could literally use all the wrong words and even slurs and still be a more accepting person than someone that uses all the right language. While language is important, its not the be all end all and you can tell intentions most the time. Like my 50 odd year old mum is super accepting but the internet would say she isnt because of certain things shes says just because shes 50 and not # down with the lingo. And this show was doing exactly that we can all tell it means well and the intentions are good.

[@cjwem8261]

I was a high school teacher at the time this was released. This opened up some great dialogue with my year 10's and they were so positive and asked me as their science teacher so many questions as they wanted to understand more.

[@Kirsty_McKay]

That's really cool.

[@francookie9353]

How would a year 10 nowadays react?

[@ryan-anarchist-2535]

​@@francookie9353 when I was in year 10, in 2018-19, they just laughed about it, ridiculed us, made stupid jokes about everything the teachers were attempting to eduxate them on, and nobody asked any genuine questions

[@francookie9353]

@@ryan-anarchist-2535 the thing is, when I was in year ten in 2010 it was the same. I guess some schools are just different.

[@alexanders8461]

It is so valuable to hear about trans experiences - especially these days when major political forces constantly vilify and dehumanize trans people. Honest, warm, funny, genuine stories about what it means to be trans really shows the humanity, and is such a brightening cure to the political darkness. Thank you for sharing, and for educating us

[@PuertoRicanqueen90]

I totally agree. I think its very educational and interesting to hear these experiences. I love listening to transmale, transfemale, non binary and destransitioning stories. The more we know, the more we can help ppl ❤

[@brynclements3753]

As an older trans person this definitely hits me in the feels. What i wouldnt have given to be a part of something like this back in the day, instead of living another 8ish years as my agab because i thought i was a freak for feeling the way i did. Luxeria, in my eyes you are an icon. I started watching you before i 'came out'. The strength you imbue helped me realize that i could be who I've always known i am, and that I'm not alone. So thank you.

[@Sleve-McDichael]

Aw Bryn, I'm so sorry you ever felt like a freak. I'm sure you know by now, but you are absolutely valid and I'm just so glad that you're living as yourself now instead of having to hide. No one deserves that. Much love to you ❤

[@FernBlackwood1995]

I hope you know you aren’t a freak! 💚 I bet you’re great. 🏳️‍⚧️🫂

[@PinkGeekification]

A friend of mine didn't transition until she was in her 40's. She had a wife and children from a previous marriage. She's now finished her transition (according to her) and is happily remarried. I know that it was very, very hard for her. My brother had been close friends with her growing up and, essentially, dead-named her and then dropped her entirely from contact. I've kept contact because, even though we weren't as close as she was with my brother, I love and respect her and her choices. Proud of her decision to do it, even with her challenges. And her son is still quite close with her and they go out a lot. So glad.

[@petty_mz]

Hows *her* ex wife and children doing after all this?

[@PinkGeekification]

@@petty_mz Her ex passed away from cancer, however prior to that they were getting along well and were friends. There were definitely some touchy times while things were in flux, but they worked them out in the end. Her kids are all grown and have accepted the situation and seem to be happy. She frequently still works on her kids' cars and goes to events/family gatherings with them, so I can only assume that things are good.

[@Ricky_Cullen]

Seeing Sarah smiling and coming out of her shell with a bit of confidence is so beautiful and wholesome. I hope everyone is doing great. Can we please get an episode 2?!

[@qwinlyn]

That story about "are you a boy or girl?" questions in elementary school really hit home with me. I'm a cisgendered woman, but for a very long time I struggled with that. I saw how people treated me when they weren't sure about what gender I was, and it really felt better than how they treated me when they called me a "tomboy" and bullied me. I remember when puberty hit and the girls started to grow, and I wanted to get rid of them because I wouldn't be able to hide them. For years, I refused to wear clothes that were in any way feminine and did everything I could to hide from the world. XL shirts when I'm a Medium at most, long hair that always covered my face (once my mother let me choose my own hair, before that it was mushroom cut after mushroom cut), head down not looking at any one and a pair of JNCO jeans that I wore until 2010. It took a long time before I could accept being seen in a feminine way. I guess the thing I'm trying to say is, you don't even have to be trans, non-binary or gender fluid to struggle with your gender identity. And, I truly cannot understand how someone would want to make that experience harder for anyone else or why someone else's journey is such a big deal.

[@EmilyDayzie]

"Let's go take estrogen out on the lake" Girl lmao. I would love to see a show like this in 2023. I love seeing people live their true selves. Donna is such a queen and Drew is such a sweet person. I would love to know how everyone is doing now. Thank you for sharing your personal experiences with us. I've struggled with my identity throughout my life and I feel like hearing/watching stories like this is sorta trauma bonding in a way? I dunno. I feel the same way when watching "600 pound life" because I've struggled with my weight as well.

[@arielruby13]

drew commented over and said she is willing to do an interview and she has become a makeup artist

[@catsforcomms1952]

That’s what I say to the KIDS I GROOM. Lol jk couldn’t resist. It just sounds like the trans equivalent of “let’s look at my puppies in the van”

[@madeupbysamuel4349]

I often get mistaken for a female to male trans person . Due to my height , size and apprently feminine features . Due to that I have always tried to appear more masculine by growing my facial hair and dressing super masculine . However after being around a lot of trans people I now take it as the biggest compliment . As the majority of the trans people I have met have been the most genuine , loving and beautiful people I have encountered. So now when someone asks if I am trans I respond with thank you but no I’m not.

[@BlackMilkSleep]

15:16 Luxeria’s face when she said that they don’t view themself as a man nor as a woman, was absolutely beautiful .

[@noillusions8734]

I come from a pretty conservative background, which I recently walked away from because it's just turned into a hate group. I'm ADHD but I'm not LGBTQ myself, but my child is, so I probably wouldn't know all the proper words to say, but learning from you has been sooooo amazing and freeing. Especially living in America right now!! I

[@neurotika]

That’s wonderful to hear. It’s so important to be able to parse through the false “concern” the right/anti-trans crowd uses as a pretext for bigotry. I HIGHLY recommend looking up the history of moral panics and how bigots have used the exact same rhetorical tactics to gains support amongst the public. It’s wild how much the trans panic mimics the gay panic of the 80s. Don’t ever feel like you can’t ask questions or mess up. The most valuable allies in this are the ones who had their fight their way here from the other side. ❤

[@mansendwish]

❤

[@b.mcknight8686]

I understand what you mean about the old photos. I recently had a conversation with my Mom about it. She moved into a new house, and didn't display any of my baby or childhood photos. My nieces and nephew were asking why there were so many pictures of my sisters, but none of me. I found out that my Mom decided not to display them out of respect for me, but she had a few of them hung up inside of her closet so she could still see them. Before my parents divorced my Dad would take my pictures down and get rid of them because he was ashamed of having "a son in a dress". Because I feel safe with my family, I don't mind the old pictures being in the house, but I wouldn't want them on the internet, so I understand why you took your old videos away. You did teach me a lot about makeup with those videos, and I'm thankful I was there to see them when they were released.

[@eliz-abeth]

Thank you for showing this. My mum introduced me to this when it came out, we're both cis but it made her so sad that a parent could ever not support their trans children, we always have and always will be allies x

[@chrisjaethey]

This show awakened my transness back in the day, unfortunately, I wasn’t confident enough to say so still back then, but I couldn’t be prouder to say who I am now. Thank you for highlighting and watching this show and everything you do Luxeria 💖

[@jenniferkovalick2959]

Wow, what Drew said about if she knew at 9 what she knows now, she'd have come out as trans then really hit close to home. My best friend's son just came out as Trans and he is almost 10. He decided that cutting his hair short, and going by Ken is what makes him feel like himself. Luckily he has an extremely supportive mom and siblings helping him on his journey to his true self. It's a beautiful thing to see and be a part of. Just to witness the change in his confidence and happiness is amazing.

[@DrewAshlynMUA]

Its true I'd have come out alot sooner if I could

[@NeonPOP323]

The show gives me the vibe of a show called The Real World that aired on MTV in the 90’s. I really like that they took that approach- giving them a safe space to be able to share their experiences. The language is very dated, but I feel like I am still learning a lot by watching this, especially with you also giving your commentary Luxeria.

[@GreatDavu]

O.M.G! Even if I wasn't a TransWoman you have what is rapidly becoming my favorite channel. ❤❤❤

[@peachxtaehyung]

Yes! I am a straight cis female and I love her and her channel

[@PuertoRicanqueen90]

​@@peachxtaehyung same! But I'm more of a curve instead of straight 😂😂❤

[@sarahmoore6183]

I'm so interested in this new series! As a cis queer woman with trans people in my life, the more I can see and understand trans experiences the more empathetic I can be. I feel like this can help me be a better supporter of trans people and their unique experiences.

[@TheSmpsnsG85]

I'm only 25 minutes in, but i love how comfortable everyone seems together. It has to be so relieving to be surrounded by people who understand your experiences. I hope this show doesn't take a problematic turn 😬

[@salhooper]

Wow! I follow Fox on Instagram and it’s amazing to see how far he’s come since this show. I didn’t know he was on this show until I watched this video. My partner is a trans man and we met 2 days before he started T and it’s so emotional to watch this as it reminds me of parts of the journey he’s been on.

[@bloody_pooodlez]

Sarah diving in to save her trans brothers warms my heart sm. They're all so sweet, and there's nothing but love in this video. I adore how, as a trans person (or generally lgbtq+), you could've JUST met someone, and they're already closer than your born family.

[@CDN_Bookmouse]

I am so completely invested in all of these people's stories. Please continue the series! It wouldn't be at all the same watching without you.

[@laurenpaige8493]

I was so worried this would be another Miriam series! Even though the language dates itself sometimes, I was overjoyed with how much the cast seemed to lead the episode, and the narrator didn't constantly jump in to speak for them. They talk about a lot of trans topics that come up today in my friend group as well, so interesting to see the same feelings felt ten years later!

[@fbnyfv]

It’s so nice to see you genuinely smiling so much watching a tv show from million years ago! And finally not because you just laughed at something outrageous Janices/Tyras/Daily Mail’s-Women-On-The-Go of this world did.

[@jessicavenable5638]

My daughter came out as trans this year. She's 12. I'm behind her 100%, we're going in for puberty blockers and it's good stuff. My husband is supportive too, he compared it to body modification. he said "if I can get tattoos, and piercings and all these things, then who am I to judge our daughter for wanting to make her body the way she wants it." brilliant. These stories that you share, and like the ones on the program you're watching are so important for people to see. It is not difficult to support my daughter and I viscerally hate all the parents out there not doing the bare minimum to support their trans children. It breaks my heart.

[@tohaovershell]

I whole heartedly believe people should not have children if they are not willing to accept that any outcome is possible. Severely disabled, LGBT+, differing views.. that’s just part of the biological dice you roll when you have a child. Thank you for being so supportive. My mother was always very supportive of my journey as a queer person and she made me feel 100% comfortable introducing my trans partner to my family. I am so grateful and my mental health is better for it. I have severe mental health issues and the fact that my mom is there for me has always been the difference between life and death.

[@jessicavenable5638]

@@tohaovershell I'm happy that you have family that supports you.

[@francookie9353]

Oof. If I had had parents like that when I was twelve ... That was 17 years ago now. My parents didn't kick me out or anything. No, they found a child psychologist and were like "can you just go there and then we don't have to talk about it anymore, okay?" Child psych. said "right, let's out you at school and turn your whole life around!" Me *(already getting severely bullied, no friends, no self esteem, strained homelife)* "No, please let's not. " Child psych. "Well then, we'll have to wait until you're eighteen" And downhill it all went. Thank you for supporting your child. It'll mean the world to her one day. ❤

[@itskaybe6348]

I'm with you. As a mother I could not imagine not supporting my child through something as important as feeling secure in their body and their identity. I love them fully and unconditionally.

[@andystore2005]

Your child will appreciate this so much. Puberty blockers will save her from so much pain and self hatred in the future. It’ll make transitioning so much smoother

[@annathiika5755]

36:10 absolutely sobbing, I had to click out for a bit just to check in on Sarah and if you’re like me I’m happy to spoil that she’s thriving and doing amazing things ❤

[@bevknight9825]

I had a friend who was born with both sexes, as her parents already had 2 girl her father said she should be a boy, as he wanted a son. Growing up she always felt like a girl and always said it. When she left home at 18 she started her journey in to become a woman. Unfortunately her dad would not expect it and said as far as he was concerned his son was dead and never spoke to her again. The good thing is she is so happy now and in a loving relationship.

[@tdelioncourt1268]

Not that transphobia makes sense in any context, but it is the one case where it should be a no brainer that a person born intersex may feel closer to a different gender identity than the one chosen for them in a totally arbitrary way. Anyway, I'm happy your friend is in a safe environment now.

[@tattooedmomma]

I gotta say, prior to starting to watch you some time ago, I was very closed to the idea of a trans person. However, since you supply supporting facts, and explain with logic, reasons for people feeling, living, doing, etc. you have opened my eyes to see a need for support and inclusivity, instead of expulsion. 6 months ago, I would have never watched a show like this that you reacted to, but now I want to learn more to be able to help others not feel the way I do with my depression. You really do help people!

[@jai00]

This was a lot more respectful and educational than I was expecting. I was on the verge of tears with all the heartfelt moments. Community really is so important. I can’t wait to continue watching this series with you and getting your input ❤

[@simpllyinsane]

I feel like your channel and you watching shows like this helps us try and understand trans people lives and hardships that a lot of people don’t think about ❤

[@RowanLongstaffe]

This was far more wholesome than I was expecting it to be! I was worried it was going to be like there’s something about Miriam. That show made me so sad

[@rebieroo99]

what you said about channel 4 is so true theres a lot going on with them and the disabled community at the minute theyve seem to saying f you to all the minorites its an odd time. hopefully this is more joyful that past lgbt things across both yours and rolys channels

[@wargzilla]

This documentry was a BIG turning point for me, it was like a lightbulb moment realising that others felt the same way. No regrets and 10 years on T and still going strong! Will enjoy rewatching this with you! Love to see more!

[@kittiekat1077]

This video has made it possible for me to have a very important conversation with my mother. One of my children have been struggling with their identity, and they've been afraid to bring it up to my mom, due to fear of judgement. However, they trusted me enough to open up and come out to me. They asked me to talk to my mother and try to make her understand. I never want either of my children to feel unloved, or unaccepted, and this video made that conversation possible. Thank you for reacting to this. I cant wait to see what happens next

[@willcatdad]

I'm a trans man who lives in the US so I never heard of this show before, but I'm so excited to see this! I definitely felt quite emotional at different points - I identify with Fox (unsure of spelling), especially with his self-conscuousness, but also Karen transitioning later in her life. I'm about to hit 1.5 years on T, which is the only medical transition step I've taken so far, and finally feel like I look masculine enough in the mirror (which is in a way its own jarring as well as euphoric, experience). It IS hard not to compare yourself to other trans people even when they started years before you! I'm certainly not as old as Karen but I didn't really start socially transtionning until I was 30 and that felt quite late when I'd already graduated from (a women's!) college, and had worked for nearly 10 years beyond that. I'd been in the workforce as a woman (dare I say a woman on the go?), all of my professional contacts were with me presenting as a woman, how was I supposed to be able to live as myself? Well, the pandemic helped in its own way! 😂 Sarah's story so far is at once heartbreaking and hopeful - she doesn't even expect her family to stay in touch aaaah! My own mother reacted quite badly when I came out to her and I hadn't expected her to be unable to cope (she couldn't admit she wasn't okay with me being trans but she acted unsupportive so I had to stop speaking to her for my own mental health after it became clear she wouldn't deal with her stuff). Anyway, glad to be seeing this show, and I hope they are all living their best lives in 2023!!

[@brookeg5979]

I know I'm just a stranger on the internet but I'm so proud of you. I'm sorry your mom couldn't step up, but I'm so happy you did what you needed to do for you and maybe someday she'll catch up....and if not, this random stranger is hopeful and happy for you. ♥

[@darkarcades]

I had to pause the video bc your smile at 7:56 when they were talking about being supportive was so genuinely beautiful and sweet, it made me smile too. :)

[@waterdragon2224]

Luxeria, you might not consider yourself an activist, but you are definitely a positive role model and ambassador of the trans community. I have learned so much from you and your channel and I expect there are a lot of trans people that feel connected and supported through what you do and who you are. ❤❤❤❤ Mad respect to you for being true to yourself and living your best life. ❤❤❤

[@kaninramone6365]

Lux, I appreciate you being very honest with your transition! You've said a lot that not many would admit, since in today's climate it feels like you can't have bad days, or question for a second! A lot of life is questioning/pondering prior decisions just to realize you are where you should be! I feel like this is a topic people don't like to touch on. Thank you for doing so!🖤

[@PokhrajRoy.]

Nice to know that there are former participants of the show who are in your orbit. Manifesting the interview for you.

[@DrewAshlynMUA]

We're excited to sit down and do an interview. It was a life changing experience and the positivity from this is amazing ❤

[@yesterdaydream]

​@@DrewAshlynMUA Yay, we've found you! You were stunning in the show, and it's so cool to see how you've harnessed the power of your makeup skills since then! Also love how kind you were to Sarah in this episode. Can't wait for the interview🤎

[@salting_the_water]

It was so lovely watching these people lift each other up and cheer for each other! I'm agender and am lucky enough to have other non-binary friends who share some of my experiences so I know the value of having supportive people who understand your situation. So glad these guys had the chance to meet each other!

[@heliagrey]

Oh my goodness- when you said that people should get psychological evals to ensure they were prepared to deal with the recovery of the surgery- that is SO true. In fact, that's a big aspect of vetting surgeons that most people (including myself) forget about. "How do you handle after-surgery care? How many appointments do you see patients post-procedure, what is your policy for after-surgery complications, what is the procedure for if I have questions/concerns, etc? I have vetted surgeons before for procedures, thought they were A+++, then when something scared me in my difficult recovery, they acted as if I was being burdensome by calling the office, or making an appointment to "waste their time with nothing". I know it's not what you were speaking on, per se, but it reminded me- it's a huge component of the process that's often overlooked, and I'm glad you brought it up.

[@lindsayosterhoff2459]

I truly think that one of the most beautiful things a person can witness is seeing others find confidence and happiness in themselves. I'm so glad you are reacting to this documentary. I can't wait to see all of these lovely people find more happiness in who they are. I hope that they are all doing well these days.

[@Its.Just.Jordyn]

I'm not trans and I just love your channel so much!!! I wish everyone can find true happiness in life ❤

[@yukidevildom7001]

I GOT A “end trans” AD BEFORE THE VIDEO EVEN STARTED- HELP😂 I will love and fight for my fellow trans people no matter what! Thank you for helping me express and accept myself Luxaria!!!💜

[@wingedyera]

What the fuck? There is actually ads outright saying that? Scary

[@sharonbaker3007]

It was so touching to see them form community so easily…probably the most important remark for my understanding was when discussing coming out to family/parents: “You’re telling them, NOT asking for permission.” I look forward to the upcoming episodes, and am especially hoping Sara’s surgery and convalescence went well! Thank you so much for sharing this with us!!!💙💙💙🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

[@PaperTigress]

Removing people’s trans related blindspots is a form of activism, and you do it very well, sometimes by simply existing. ❤

[@joesharpe8072]

I met Lewis once at uni. He was a friend on a friend. He and this show were touchstones for me on trans people. I’d never really heard of it before. But never even questioned that it was anything other than a legitimate part of the diversity of human experiences. The inflated reaction against trans people now is insane and a blatant scapegoat for economic crisis. I’m gay and an activist and I’ve definitely also had more homophobic comments launched at me too. We won’t allow people to be dehumanised for the circumstances of their birth. If we stand in solidarity and uphold the inherent humanity demonised people; from trans people to migrants and the homeless and disenfranchised - by expressing the commonality AND particularity of our struggles - we can put a rest to this reactionary hysteria once and for all. And I think this show is _part_ of that.

[@auntiesash]

My kiddo (29) began hormones 18 months ago, coming out to me about 3 months into that process. Never any doubt about our acceptance & support, but your content helps me sort out being their best possible mom. This TV show has even more perspective & gives you prompts for all sorts of conversation. I'm excited to see more. (Also, you're lovely, smart, & entertaining, so I've been a viewer for longer than 18 months)

[@ghaliha1551]

There’s no way in hell I would have learned all of these information without people like you and the people on the show, thank you for sharing and educating in the midst of these vile anti trans campaigns ❤️

[@ThesaurusSarah]

Oh Lux I’m so glad to see you! I’m on a beach vacation alone and I get to spend the afternoon with my fav creator. 🎉

[@05ivlo]

Goodness, the expectation to provide information is so real for disabled people as well! The amount of people who immediately ask about how/when/why I lost my hearing, just how deaf I am and want to see and touch my hearing aids is staggering. I am usually very patient and open about it and want to advocate for myself and educate people, but some days I don't really want to have to explain my full medical journey to a complete stranger and just go about my day. But some people seem to expect it and feel entitled to this information because we're perceived as 'different'? So, very much relate to this!

[@roberta_redactedF]

This was hard to watch. As cis woman, watching sarah and Fox along with heading your experiences, Lux, it makes me understand how hard it is. My best friend translation and I know the guilt he felt and some stigma he received. Fortunately he was surrounded by mostly everyone who loves him and we all support him.

[@NialVoyce]

I’ve been crying pretty much since this video started. I started E nearly 2 months ago and don’t really know any other trans people. And these people, especially with your commentary, has been really affirming. You’ve said a lot I didn’t realise I needed to hear, thank you. X

[@Mezsworld]

The smiles and look of pure joy on your face watching this @Luxeria was beautiful. It is very sad this was before its time and now we've gone backwards. But people like you and your chanel are a beacon for those who want and deserve an inclusive safe world 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️❤

[@leone6788]

My mum showed me this show shortly after I came out to her, so it really helped me to understand a lot about myself, the community and different experiences. I especially relate to Fox because I'm still at the beginning of my transition. So I'm soooooo excited that you are gonna react to this show on the channel.your videos often make my day :)

[@thefreevolous]

As someone who lives on their “default settings”, as you cleverly framed it, I am here to love and learn. The stories told on this show are so moving and it’s a breath of fresh air to see so much respect for all involved (albeit at times with some ignorant hiccups). Thank you for your openness and willingness to, just by sharing your experiences and insights, generously educate us. As much as I enjoy ANTM, this show is the one I’m anxiously waiting for the next episode.

[@protonicPanda]

I had so many tears in my eyes throughout this whole video; between all your different stories showing the truth what the trans community goes through... It was so heartwarming seeing these people bond with each other and have that support ❤ I would love to continue discovering this how on your channel Luxeria, and if possible learn through this and your conversations how to be respectful, empathetic and learn things I might've never noticed/thought about before. Thank you so much for what you're doing and being here and being you ❤

[@roisinbryson5845]

This is why we cis women should embrace our trans sisters. I think it was Sarah ( the girl that doesn't like her tits) everything she said I was like " relatable " if she was my friend I could show her some of my tricks and tips ❤

[@user-fe2or2oc3u]

Same. I would be honored to befriend any of these individuals. They really embody what community is. And even though I do not relate specifically to their situations, their feelings are completely relatable. I empathize greatly, and am so glad there was a way to facilitate this space for everyone. It really demonstrates what profound effects we have on each other, even if it is in "Full House" form. Despite being "outdated" its message feels way ahead of its time.

[@ModKijko]

Sarah has since this show, founded one of the most famous Trans Pride events and has written some books about being Trans. I have competed with her (and against her) in a few events - I can safely say she is definitely giving tricks and tips to others these days

[@roisinbryson5845]

@@ModKijko that's so cool, maybe I'll check out some of these tips lol. Great for her ❤

[@Albinojackrussel]

I have to admit that when I see trans women talking about hating their bodies, or worrying about their aesthetic perception by others there's definitely a little bitter voice inside me that goes "well that's the most feminine thing you could be experiencing" I don't get the experience of being seen as male (or of seeing myself as male), but I think all women relate to the experience of being seen as insufficiently female.

[@clairebryant419]

your hair is absolutely stunning and im so jealous

[@sallygardner8644]

My Mom was the go-to nurse at our small town hospital when anyone who did fit the gender-normative stereotype came in for care. One prominent experience she had, was when a trans person was hospitalized after an accident of some kind and about ten of their family-like friends stood guard between her and the person until she made it very clear that she was not only going to be 100% respectful of the patient, but that she was also going to make sure the other nurses were also going to be respectful in their care. She was so moved by their love, strength, and support for each other, and she said that they provided one of the healthiest advocate environments for making sure their loved one got the care they deserved, after the initial bouncer phase. I really liked this show and your commentary about it. I’m always striving to learn more. ❤

[@tonibenedetti-martin1481]

This touched a chord in me I wasn't expecting. I'm not trans but I felt some of these things coming to terms with my gender, during ages 10-20. I hope saying that isn't crap of me, I was just really struck by the only space to address coming to terms with our gender as adults, is often a trans space. And that really isolates people transitioning. I don't tell other women how hard I found it to become a woman, but in this trans discussion I'm like, "god it is hard to move into that gender; what you want vs what is expected. Feck, I had a relatively hard time doing it. Feck needing to do that again." And I know it's not the same as transitioning, I know a trans person isn't going to have a conversation and find overwhelming kinship with me, you know? But as adults we really, really don't make room for how hard navigating gender was and is. Anyone else?

[@NSN_CYND]

I'm surprised how respectfully this show is! I hope you cover more episodes of this

[@Ryanw131]

Only half way through, but this one is definitely one of the best reality show reactions. Some genuinely emotional moments that have me choked up despite some signs of the times. Also I've loved your KZbin journey, I first learned to dye my hair platinum blonde from your videos and its amazing to see where you are now.

[@kiyoko6566]

I'd be so cool to do a where are they now for the people on this show, I hope with all my heart they're out there living wonderful lives.

[@DrewAshlynMUA]

We're super happy. Everyone has done amazing. And hopefully most of us can do an interview to show you what we have been upto x

[@Anna101shark]

I think you hit the nail on the head with the default settings analysis Luxeria! I now know what to use when I explain me being non binary to people who "don't get it" ❤❤❤❤❤

[@KiboSanti]

Default settings vs developer mode ✨🖤✨

[@pantsahoy]

British documentaries always hit me in the feels because British people are always so honest and raw and have this incredible ability to speak in a way you can completely understand what they are trying to convey and anyone watching gains such a connection and can empathise. The documentary makers chose such lovely people for this too, i love everyone already and completely invested in their future success. Love you Lux

[@amyvic5121]

That one woman I forgot her name made ma tear up a few times. She has this unbelievable sad look on her face sometimes.

[@Ratt1956]

I want to thank you for what you do. I am a 72 yr old straight person. It amazes me at how closed minded people can be.I can't imagine the struggles you all go though. But you help me to understand that just like anyone else you just want to be happy. Keep up the great work. Love you and Roly. That is when I first saw you. Gag of the millennium. 💖

[@mydarlingfreak796]

I watched this show when it aired in my teens. It was revolutionary for me. This was the moment I realised I didn't need to be what people wanted me to be - highly feminine as I went to an all girls school. I realised I could be in the middle, that that was even a thing, and that it was where I felt I belonged. Thank you for reminding me of this pivotal moment in my life Xx

[@Zantemakeup]

I absolutely love this coral shade on you. You’re glowing girl

[@partially_discombobulated9818]

She's always glowing. Her eye make up makes me so jealous!!

[@pinkyhc4130]

Your hair looks extra specially gorgeous today! I love when platinum blonde is so healthy it reflects the light and is radiant like this.

[@NickFinn1985]

Thank you very much for sharing your experiences with us as well as giving us medical information when it comes to transitioning Luxeria.

[@valkosipuli419]

I remember watching this at the time and what has stuck with me most is the group buying Sarah a good quality wig 🥺💕💕💕💕 such a small but incredibly impactful gesture to inspire self confidence💕

[@blueythedragonknight3949]

I remember seeing this show when i was younger, But after watching you reacting to this show i can honestly say that this show was definately a product of it's time.

[@ThatLionThing]

I was almost 16 when I watched this for the first time and I was still DEEP in the trans closet, but watching it again now just reminds me why I loved it so much back then and why it resonated with me so much, I still follow Fox and Lewis to this day and it's been amazing to see how far they've come in their journey and I agree with you about the misgendering thing, I've been on T for over two years and sometimes I still get misgendered and it just sets me back like 5 years lol, can't wait to see you react to the rest of this!

[@kirsty4274]

Oh wow. I didn't recognise the documentary name but the first scene triggered a memory! I remember watching this doc back in the day. I feel old 🙈😅

[@roxyleighsmith6601]

I remember watching this when it came out and really fancying Lewis. 18 year old me tryna find him on Facebook like an absolute loony tune 😬😂😂😂

[@bobobaa]

Hello lovely! I am here home alone, no longer alone because I have been accompanied by Luxeria this afternoon! Wonderful!

[@sarahallegra6239]

What a surprisingly wholesome show! (So far anyway). Yes, terms and language are a little outdated, but nothing from the participants felt malicious to me. It just felt like they were banding together, lifting each other up, encouraging each other and helping each other on their individual journeys. I’m looking forward to more of this, it’s invaluable to get to learn more about the trans experience from trans people! ❤

[@Iconichorror_glam]

I would absolutely hate if my kids ever worried or were scared to tell me something like that like I’d do everything and anything to support them

[@RemusHolt]

Honestly, this show is weirdly sweet, even with the outdated language And everything like that it’s so sweet to see them come and support each other and have a place for them to be safe and have fun and get to be connected with other people. Honestly, I feel like if The language was updated. This would be an amazing show today. Just getting to see trans people live their life’s and be joyful and getting to see so many different trans people stories, I think we would need this show now more than ever honestly

[@jennyetherington3326]

Hi Luxeria , great channel Lovely. My partner is Karen from this C4 Program X

[@joycelinlgbtq]

Its the show that brought together the My Genderation crew!!! Ive seen (but not met) Sarah and Fox at trans pride a few years ago.

[@Alhana_E]

Yeah, same here, only managed to get down to Tran Pride once, (the second one) but seeing Fox and Sarah was awesome!

[@poramentatoes]

12:53 I saw those colors and thought "Lux would say something about the pink color of those doors." And you did! Iconic.

[@reynabum]

hearing Drew (and the other woman, the name escapes me 😅) talk about HRT genuinely made me cry in an oddly happy way. i’m pre-HRT and she’s right on the nose that there’s thoughts of “i’m just a boy wearing women’s clothes” i can’t wait to start HRT. still waiting for that god awful NHS waitlist :/

[@chappythecrazycockatiel9253]

Drew giving Sarah a makeover brought tears to my eyes.

[@JustHarperGray]

I’m female presenting agender. I’ve never had gender dysphoria so watching this has helped me a lot.

[@KISSArmySoldier]

Same here

[@KamosArthillian]

That surgeon made me freaking cry. beautiful words.

[@ROUBIX]

I remember watching this! I actually wanted to re watch it a few months ago. I'm so glad you're doing a reaction review.