My Wife Decluttering

[@fionarhiannonpitbullextrao5786]

Hearing his wife snickering in the background behind the camera was EVERYTHING!!!!!!!! Easy the funniest part of the video. And this video was seriously hilarious.

[@reneeprasil6153]

"Oh, this is YOUR hat?" It gets tossed without hesitation! LOL I can relate!!!

[@heliagrey]

It's a skit. But it's... also an intervention.

[@chocolatefrenzieya]

It's an undervention.

[@samantharoberts3781]

Penn, we can tell this is a "me as Kim" video simply by the opening photo...that's definitely your "l am Kim" face and expression!!😂

[@rockestee]

😂

[@doomsdayaddams2894]

Truth

[@rosehughes599]

The crossbody bag is his Kim outfit.

[@annbrookens945]

Yes! I came here to say that! It's absolutely the crossbody bag that announces Penn is playing Kim!

[@dianebutton3777]

Penn gets his underwear from the same place as my husband. Holes R Us!

[@MarshaBenne]

The geriatric Mario brother killed me 😂😂😂😂😂

[@amandabehnke5825]

Easily my favorite line!!

[@betseysmith8832]

My husband passed away a year ago. While he was alive I was totally like “Kim” “Oh that’s yours? I have never seen you wear it, or use it or whatever. Throw it out!” Now as I go through his things, things I would have tossed without a second thought, now I’m saying to myself, “well he saved this random button, or piece of wood, or college windbreaker, for 30 years. Maybe I shouldn’t just throw it away.” 😂 Like he is going to haunt me over it or something. It’s absurd. But grief is a weird thing. So my advice to all you ladies out there. Toss it out while they’re alive! It’s much easier!!! 😂😂😂

[@SheIsFearfullyWonderfullyMade]

My condolences to you🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@martiemcnabb]

Grief IS a weird thing 😢 So sorry for your loss 💔

[@misfitbrit1989]

Grief is so awkward to go through. The smallest things matter.

[@katherinep1010]

"Some people buy shoes, I buy hats." Lol. You are definitely a shoe buying person too! We've seen your shoe collection.

[@zaynamoore]

Bahaha, geriatric super Mario brother...too funny! Happy Weekend folks. :D

[@holdernessfamilylaughs]

Happy Weekend!

[@samsungrefrigerator69]

"llamas make me happy and they remind me of llama llama ms mama!"

[@holdernessfamilylaughs]

😥

[@gemstorm16]

​@@holdernessfamilylaughs thinking about that book makes me cry, too. No one at our house can get through Llama Llama Gram and Grandpa, either, because we all just bawl when fuzzy llama ISN'T THERE! We know it's coming, but we still read it.

[@porcelina956]

As a library employee, yes

[@christinefrier7888]

My daughter has a "hat head." She looks great in every head she tries on. Kim clearly has a "hat head." You go girl!

[@holdernessfamilylaughs]

I do love a hat

[@laseximexi]

And now i know why i have a hat problem…I have a hat head!! 🤠

[@robemega]

Keep the Austin hat for sure. As someone who looks terrible in hats, I’m so envious that you look cute in yours.

[@SheIsFearfullyWonderfullyMade]

My sister too… I’m so jealous😂 hats give me headaches but they look so good on certain people

[@caitybelle]

I feel both seen AND attacked

[@sarah-phillips]

I think Jerry Seinfeld joked about how men wear underwear to the point they're so thin that they just open a window and a slight breeze can blow away the fibers. In other news I'm clearing out our attic...it's like an episode of Hoarders up there. It's funny, all of my husband's stuff is ripe for decluttering while my stuff is museum worthy and I can't get rid of it.

[@catboxcleaner3532]

Oh, my goodness, what a hoot! I remember Jerry Seinfeld joking about men wearing underwear until just a waistband remains.

[@Westchestal]

yep. My stuff is disposable, my wife's is priceless

[@sarahberkner]

It is easier to sort through other people's stuff because you're less attached to it and less used to it.

[@jackiek5782]

The pile of random bra pads really hit home for me. Ha!

[@TeresaS-q7x]

me too, I thought i was the only one who didn't bother to try and insert them back into the bra lol

[@ElizaLou75]

Those things make me irrationally angry and I happily remove them and toss them in the trash😂

[@annbrookens945]

Why AREN'T they permanently attached???

[@tracysteedman9562]

I wish they wouldn't insert them in the first place. So annoying. The one top I have that is attached, I don't wear because the pads cover the area crookedly.

[@shariwohl3453]

so true! Why cant they be permanently sewn in????

[@mikemcconeghy4658]

So accurate. Having helped people move, we all have too much junk. However, when it's time to declutter, I hate going through my own stuff.

[@annbrookens945]

Yeah! I can declutter someone else's stuff, no problem!

[@shoszannah]

I love to declutter my stuff! I hate having stuff I don't use.

[@FateWorseThanDeath]

I feel the mug part so much! Last year I made myself a deal that if I buy 1 new mug I have to declutter 2 from the cabinet. Not affected: holiday mugs that can be packed away with decor 😅😅😅

[@chocolatefrenzieya]

Very sneaky. I like it.

[@cassandraknight8804]

Cheating 😅

[@annbrookens945]

I collect mugs, and so do my 2 daughters I live with! We have So. Many. Mugs.

[@plainmarienc]

There's always a loophole, right? 😆 I have to have a bunch of mugs, because what would I do if people come over? I do try to confine them to one shelf.

[@skival]

Penn even has the way she talks down perfectly! OMG, that was cute.

[@shatiquamcleod5188]

Okay from the bag across Penn’s chest to Kim giggling in the background to the 4 sequined tops that you’ve worn a total of 2 times I can’t stop laughing! I don’t know how you keep it together long enough to actually finish filming 😂😂

[@serendipityshopnyc]

We'll never know how many takes it took to get a crackup-free piece of video!

[@kay_o5868]

Seconds in, I had to clutch my invisible pearls....😂😅😂

[@lindaducklow8960]

Y'all are so funny! Because there is so much truth in what you are doing. Thanks for the laughs!

[@lynnettelg]

Sharing this with ALL of my decluttering groups! (I have not decluttered the amount of decluttering groups I belong to!) 😂

[@Christinamariamuller]

😂Kim you already showed us your crazy shoe collection in a last video!

[@robbymounce5764]

Was that Kim? Or PENN-KIM……………..? Lol! ❤

[@deborahwess-oprfhomestories]

right? Who was she kidding when she said "some women buy shoes"??

[@annbrookens945]

I was thinking, "Wait! Kim has LOTS of shoes!"

[@beththecatlover]

Yes, they're cute and Kim, you look good in them, even the Margarita hat....🤣😆🤣 You have a really nice collection. You could display them all on one wall randomly hung everywhere and have a "hat" room. I also love hats, but don't look so great in a hat or without a hat. 💁but my head gets cold so I wear them to keep from getting sinus headaches. You guys are in my top 10 favorites on the entire internet. Luv ya....

[@meganhubbell2215]

To be fair - Kim can really rock all the hats! 😂 Also, I have a mug problem, too. 😊

[@holdernessfamilylaughs]

I do love a hat

[@cookiemama4]

I solved my mug problem by allowing only a certain space in one cupboard! If it doesn't fit, pick one to give away..

[@plainmarienc]

All those hats ... too funny! They remind me if my teens addiction to water bottles. Before she was even in middle school, she'd acquired at least 12 of them, all varieties. Straw, no straw, insulated metal, cheap plastic, cute ones, utlitarian ones. We moved. We tossed most of them. Now she only has one... hold on, uh, two water bottles. As I type, they're going out to get another massive one for track season. Help!

[@cookiemama4]

@@plainmarienc As a mother and grandmother, I would say, give her the water bottle. It's a small price to pay for something your daughter loves, and the literal joy she gets when receiving one... I myself get excited over finding a beautiful tea cup! 💕

[@maryo.paddock8093]

Thinning the coffee cup collection looks familiar. Except. It's not me. It's my husband. So I put all the cups that aren't favorites, have cracks and chips in them, etc, on a top shelf. Which is silly because he's 6'5 and will regularly pull out those cups and use them, even though the ones he claims are his favorites live on the bottom shelf. And then I get to shove them back up there later when I do the dishes. But we aren't going to discuss my gardening tools. Or all the dog toys. Or the stuff in my china cabinet (much of it flea market finds). It all has a story, baby. All of it.

[@mik1of3]

The underwear thing…. Since I do the laundry, the holey underwear goes the same way as the missing socks (wink). By the time my hubby notices, it’s been like a month, so I can legit say, “I haven’t seen them in almost a month….”🤷🏻‍♀️

[@anna_in_aotearoa3166]

😂 Very sneaky!!

[@tirzahmyers3392]

My reply is, “I don’t know where they are” which is true. I don’t know what part of the dump they are in 😆

[@mik1of3]

@@tirzahmyers3392 true that!!🤭

[@cynthiarafferty7662]

I cut the crotch out of my husband's "holy" roller underwear. I left one pair uncut and put it in the bottom of the stack of underwear in his dresser drawer. The level of screaming rose with each cut pair coming out of the drawer. When he pulled the one uncut pair out of the drawer there was a note saying,"Time to BUY new underwear!" Message received. He came home with new, white underwear. LOL! "Holy" rollers all gone....until the next time!

[@bridgedough]

The holes in the underwear. 😂🤦🏻‍♀️ Too close to home.

[@adinaknorr9460]

Ya the holes in the underwear! Every 4 or 5 months I have to go through my husband's underwear & socks drawer & throw out all the holey ones! I buy him new packs ofsocks at least 4 times per year. Why does he always have holes in his socks? I get my daughters to gang up on him & they'll steel his holey socks right off his feet & throw then in the garbage!😅I'm like Dude I just bought you 3 packs of new socks wear the new ones!

[@jenfranzke5122]

The sports bra pad issue is so real. 😂

[@brianne8258]

Speaking as a pale skinned hat woman I am completely with you on the hats. I have found that if you use your socks and undies to fill the headbox when you pack a hat 👒 and layer the brim between clothes they pack very nicely 😊

[@michellel2773]

We definitely need all the sequins 😂

[@holdernessfamilylaughs]

all the sequins!

[@applejean4336]

What if we go to 4 galas next week!?!

[@enerioffutt1881]

@@holdernessfamilylaughs I love sequins and anything that sparkles and I'm 55. Do I care? Not a bit.

[@SheIsFearfullyWonderfullyMade]

This made me laugh out loud! So cute and wholesome. I love this family🥰

[@melrox8809]

😆 decluttering is so hard 😅 Penn as Kim always cracks up 😂

[@gmunden1]

"Geriatric Super Mario Brother" ...SAVAGE!!!😂😂😂

[@sarabishop]

I bought a scarf after a couple of cocktails and I cannot get rid of it! Keep that vacation hat! If just for the memory.

[@holdernessfamilylaughs]

it's a core memory for sure

[@plainmarienc]

Scarf collection!!!!! I lurve them all. I wear the same one or two of them all winter, and a couple more for special occasions. But I can't get rid if any of them, because they're all so pretty and or sentimental. What if I need that other one?!?

[@lorindav5549]

Check out A Slob Comes Clean. She helped me with the whole, container concept. Meaning each space is a container and that container can only hold so much. I still struggle to pitch chipped mugs because (fill in the blank), but I'm working on it. Lol

[@lynnettelg]

I shared this video back on one of Dana’s videos comments because it’s so funny!

[@kellyv9523]

Kim and Penn should have Dana on their podcast! 😃❤

[@davidcelliott]

Thank you for legitimizing my entire existence.

[@SusieQZee]

😂”and everything else is kinda sassy.” Ohemgeeeeeeee!!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@lauriesmith6672]

"Oh wait... This is your hat? Do you ever wear it?" Immediately tossed to the side. That's us, downsizing the other person's stuff w/o any problem! 😆

[@deedeewilliamson4162]

Love it! Happy FRIDAY!!🎉

[@marjoriecook7556]

Kim is a hat girlie…they all look good on her!

[@holdernessfamilylaughs]

I do love a hat

[@jamestaylor3097]

I’m from Australia and am just discovering y’all now and all I can say is “where have you been all of my life”? 😅

[@holdernessfamilylaughs]

Love this! Can't wait to visit Australia one day

[@jenniferhoward8570]

You two crack me up!! Great duo

[@janakjv]

"Make you look like a geriatric super Mario brother" that was stinkin hilarious 😂

[@victoriahouse9969]

Hats you can put them all on one wall as a display

[@jcif2468]

How many takes did this video require from crack-ups? I'm 😂😂😂😂😂!!!

[@cjengland2365]

Kim you rock hats! Completely understand keeping everyone!

[@cosmo828]

Yes! The struggle is real!

[@TRUTHisTRUTH70]

Kim - you need to psych up with "The Minimal Mom" and "Clutterbug"! ❤😉

[@Allen2]

Kim, during your bit, I am reminded of Joe Cocker singing on his video of "You Can Leave Your Hat On."

[@brandonhughes179]

Kim is adorable in the Austin hat. Keeper👒🤠

[@אלהגרינפלד-ח7ד]

He got so into the impression that I started to think those hats were really his

[@patriciaburger8138]

I just love these videos you guys do, impersonating each other!🤣 Keep them coming!

[@jeancook3211]

You look great in your hats!! Keep them all!

[@richgweil]

I love these where "she" rationalizes keeping all her stuff and is brutal about getting rid of his stuff. It's hilarious. :)

[@katiellis1830]

Kim, Penn should just be happy you look good in all those Hats! ❤🎉 celebrate the hat, Penn!!! 🎉

[@saraboye4752]

I need you to write a song about my husband who has ADHD but is also OCD... It's a mind-bending experience. He has 80 flashlights and does the tinkering and changes projects before he's finished but everything around him is meticulously organize and he expects the kid and me to make everything in our lives symmetrical. My daughter is just ADHD and is a lot like you, but my husband is a brand-new breed altogether.

[@peterg76yt]

They made a lot of progress that session.

[@cookiemama4]

One hat gone.. hubby's!

[@illyanam1842]

They did indeed! They got rid of 1 hat! It's better than no hats gone & one added... 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@illyanam1842]

​@@cookiemama4No one said it had to be one of her hats, just that they wanted to cut down on the number of hats

[@cookiemama4]

​@@illyanam1842 The skit was about her hats, but I don't understand your rebuke, as if I said something wrong. I said it in the way it was intended.. light heartedly. It's better to look for the best in others, rather than pick apart something that isn't there. I hope you have a better day.

[@cookiemama4]

@@illyanam1842 That's the problem with one dimension communication! We don't have the tone of voice or facial expression to help interpret. I just read your comment again and laughed at how I got it wrong! Okee, I got it now.. 🤗

[@thomassmith6232]

The workings of their minds delight and astound me.

[@christaverduren690]

KEEP That Austin hat!! It looks amazing on you!

[@indigo5889]

0:58 Penn really pulls off that hat!

[@claudiamiller7730]

Admit it, Kim - you have a wonderful head for a hat. Not a gift we all share. Revel in the gifts you have!!💕

[@lindah2148]

I so relate. I have tons of stuff but it makes more sense to declutter my husband's stuff.

[@lisa2000geese]

Really funny, penn captured kim's speaking style in his loving imitation. Also i think i spy a blue piano in the background?! Very cool!

[@LaurieLucia-kk6bp]

Boy I just love you guys!!!!!

[@manyalevine1017]

U look great in those hats!! Go girl!!!

[@Karen-g2d4o]

This is actually very funny! Thanks! ❤

[@judymartin1945]

Loved the explanations..actually use them!!😂

[@aug07broken]

That 4 hole underwear killed me, I all of a sudden couldn’t stopped laughing, which turned into uncontrollable coughing! So thanks for that! 🤣🤣🤣

[@rosemarygrabowski5834]

Excellent, as always!

[@rebeccaherman2894]

Girl! my husband would like to line my handbags up and put them up for decluttering! I don't do shoes or hats but I LOVE handbags so I there may be a slight collection that has taken over about half the closet....

[@denisedix4275]

Omg... I love you guys so much!!!❤😂

[@ChubbyUnicorn]

Kim definitely looks great in hats!

[@patriciadurham643]

Love this! I never show my husband what I’m getting rid of when I do that!!!! Lol lol

[@24cts]

Ha ha ha ha ha ha ,,, ha ha ha ha ha. I love when Kim films you and we hear her giggling!! Ha ha ha ha ha

[@mommybreakdown]

I clicked so fast just ready to be called out alongside Kim 🙃

[@holdernessfamilylaughs]

ha!

[@andrejka_talking_out_loud]

Luv you both :) ; Also, a message to Kim, if there is a wall at the stairs or whatever maybe you can make a hat wall display? I love how these two gently hint through these videos...

[@danielgeer1572]

As a husband...I can soooo appreciate this!!

[@bcvahsfam]

Love this! I am the exactly the same! And Kim, you look great in hats! You definitely need more!!! ❤

[@irene9062]

Love this video!! Great job!

[@hemaccabe4292]

Kim, you are such a good sport!

[@holdernessfamilylaughs]

The truth is funny

[@debbydoodler33]

The conversation about holey underwear had me! So relatable! 🤣

[@helenramsdell1959]

The underwear issue is real and don't forget the religious socks.😉 Fortunately, I'm the one who folds the laundry with a trash bin right next to me. Buh bye to the those holy socks and undies. 😘

[@SymphoniasStories]

My family has trouble getting rid of mugs too! 🤣

[@karonfrench1012]

Hilarious! I’m crying with laughter. Love Karon from England x

[@annmoore321]

Okay. It’s not hats for me. Nor is it anything else you can wear on your body or accessorize. My guilty pleasure is books. There is an entire room in my house dedicated to books that we actually call “the library”. The shelves are floor to ceiling, and wrap around the room. BUT I do actually read the books I buy. I also keep everything, tidy, dusted, and organized. 🧐😂

[@Avery_4272]

Yes! (Fellow bookaholic.)

[@jgabraham4913]

I'd like to think that's what I'd do if I had a house big enough, but at the same time, I think I would want it to be more like in our house growing up, which--it didn't have a separate room for books. It was more like every room had a bookshelf. Living room: couch, comfy chairs, computer desk, bookshelves. Bedrooms: bed, desk, somewhere for our clothes, bookshelves. Dining room: table, chairs, thingy that had ornaments on it, bookshelves. Bathroom: toilet, bathtub, sink, basket for books. Upstairs hallway: oh look, we can fit a long, low bookshelf here! My life right now: not enough money for all that, and everything is a mess, but we have enough books to be constantly tripping over them. :P

[@laurab1887]

OMG - were you flies on the wall while I was decluttering.

[@beast9839]

You look great, Penn!

[@Polako_podcast]

Kims' laugh is definitely something🤣

[@TabTries]

Girl you keep those hats! you look adorable in them! And tell your husband at least you don't have a chair problem...Like I do. I have like a zillion chairs and no one to sit in them. I just have to have them!!!!

[@churchsbiscuits]

She wants to throw out all of his stuff but none of her own. #Classic 😂

[@lisabaldwin2370]

You all need to do a reality show you all are so funny!

[@JessicaSalamone]

I love that Kim is laughing in the background...she knows that he knows her well!

[@DC-id2ih]

Hilarious as always!!!...and Kim - you look fabulous in those hats!!

[@wendya1250]

So funny and relatable lol! You look great in hats Kim. Luckily I don't so that isn't a temptation for me. Also the ease at which we can de-clutter our husband's things 🤣

[@marykaythompson7124]

I bought clips from Amazon so I can attach my hat to my travel backpack and take my hats on the road/plane etc!

[@SweetyHelen92]

Lmao this just showed up while I'm doing the pre-spring cleaning

[@janban9148]

This is 100% me trying to "get rid of" things 😅😂

[@Elanor_Rose]

The Lulu crossbody so on point 😂

[@rosannasutherby8436]

You my goodness! I didn't realize this was the video I needed to start my day rolling in laughter 😂 I could relate to pretty much everything 🤣 And, Kim, that felt hat looks fantastic on you, don't get rid of it 😆

[@kimsoto7665]

I can relate to the part about having no problem throwing away the husbands things but keeping yours 😂 😂

[@sarahberkner]

I have a fedora that I got at a yard sale and it's pretty great. I feel like it's the only hat I look good in.