My Wife Forces Me To Do Things! | Cole and Charisma

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Welcome to the official Roll with Cole & Charisma KZbin channel! Since the start of our relationship we've gotten a lot of questions about our experiences as not only an interracial couple, but an interabled one as well. On this channel you can catch us doing travel and adventure vlogs, challenges, our inclusion series, couple first times, music, and so much more! We started this vlog to bring people into our lives, to answer some questions about how we navigate the world, and hopefully raise awareness surrounding accessibility and dating in a wheelchair. You'll quickly see in our episodes that we're all about inclusion and keeping a great attitude no matter your circumstances, so if that's what you're into, you're in the right place!

[@coleandcharisma]

Thanks everyone for watching! Be sure to let us know which of our adventures you enjoyed the most below! STAY POSITIVE! Happy Easter! THANK YOU for all the amazing and supportive comments! We don’t deserve such amazing supporters! 😭

[@bethanye8611]

The hike

[@FREAKOUT123ism]

Charisma i thought you were pregent why you heavy liftig 🍭🦄

[@atukwasemargret6256]

The ride in the woods was epic. lol from Uganda

[@deannawheeler4362]

Don't listen to the negative, Live life!!!! You are happy, who cares what they say???

[@ruthleger8594]

The hike was awesome! I’d like to recommend Cades Cove for an adventure.

[@ElusvOptmst1]

Many trolls like to bully and target the woman in a interracial relationship, especially if she is black. Charisma and Cole just live your lives, accordingly. God bless you both.

[@hellaSwankkyToo]

exactly! i just left a comment to this effect. it’s misogynoir + a good amount of it is subconscious + unintended, which as we know does not negate the impact it has. but you’re exactly right.

[@gloriagaines6305]

I agree

[@Rae8Anne]

Agreed. I also think that some of these trolls call themselves Christians (but don't live accordingly). I'm thinking of the group of so-called "Christians" who are the most judgmental of others, especially women of other women. We have a lot of females here, right? I believe a lot of this judgement is rooted in toxic masculinity, where these women have internalized this idea of what a wife and mother should look and act like...a very old-fashioned, conservative picture of a wife...more like a mother figure than a partner. Sadly, these trolls are going to blame Charisma for nearly everything because they see Cole as the "perfect" Christian husband, and she the one responsible for keeping him happy and healthy. While they may see Charisma as a good Christian woman who is very loving and devoted to her husband, they'll still set these impossible-to-reach "perfect" standards for her to live up to. "Do this. Do that. Love and care for him like so." It's so unfair and misogynistic. Charisma, if you see this: You are an AMAZING person, friend, wife, dog mom, and daughter. You are awesome and shouldn't change a thing about yourself. You could never please everyone anyway. Love ya both!

[@madisonq2920]

Hey guys, continue to live and enjoy your lives without apologies. God bless

[@bubbaj8023]

@@Rae8AnneMatthew 7:21 is so true. I loved your comment. God bless you.

[@tanarana83]

People forget that Cole is a MAN and makes his own decisions and you are his WIFE and not his mother... you guys are great!!!! So blessed!! Btw love the sweater it's so bright and pretty!

[@keinicoleebeaute9726]

Life does not stop because Cole is in a wheelchair.. Ppl are weird.. I love that Cole is doing all of this stuff & I love that Charisma is in his life to do it with him

[@mon6745]

Exactly!

[@evelynprice3976]

Keith Nicolee Beaute , Well said.

[@stacyaugust8241]

Apparently being handicapped means he's supposed to stay home and mope and be depressed and not go out and live his life to the fullest. And why is it Charisma's fault? She's his wife, not his mother. And even then his mother doesn't try to hold him back from living his life.

[@LC-widowed]

Absolutely!

[@rachelgless3123]

Yes! I think Cole can trust Charisma’s judgement by now and he has a voice and a mind to say no if need be.

[@df6069]

I think people fail to understand that Cole is a grown man. It's insulting to say that Charisma "makes" him do things - he has a voice and if he ultimately does something it's his choice, he made his own decision just like any other man. Charisma is wonderful and spunky. Keep the adventures coming ! ! ! !

[@vivmonroe8760]

Live your life its be as uti

[@cynthiathompson4268]

People just need to mind their business period!!! Don’t listen to these naysayers. Live and enjoy your lives. And continue to love each other 💕

[@maureenkarkos9882]

Cole is a grown ass man. You two support one another. People need to mind their own business. Stay Positive❣️

[@joeanthony2879]

Cole is not 12 years old, he can always say ‘no’ to anything! He should be more assertive in supporting his wife.

[@mestillme3921]

Cole is supportive!! 100% He is simply more advanced than many of us and doesn't just recognize that challenges aren't solved with anything but courage but understands and acts/reacts with Love & kindness and sometimes Those 2 things take more courage than all other things. They are the epitome of love. Keep on keeping on.

[@kerryfitting6070]

The moral of the story: mind your own business and stay positive lol

[@laurie29google.comlaurence69]

Period 😅

[@ellove370]

@Kerry Fitting just like your last name. I second your comment!!! ❤

[@Lovemylife65]

This comment made me laugh out loud.

[@CP88]

Thisssssss

[@sandrap6308]

Haaaaaa exactly

[@girlmeetsreality4644]

Y'all, Cole is a grown ass man, I'm sure he's told Charisma no before. It's a shame they have to address this type of crap.

[@ladyrochelle9388]

GirlMeetsReality, I LOVE your response to the haters!! Short, sweet and to the point!!👍🏾👍🏾

[@NonaKey]

I’m paralyzed been that way for 16 years. Enjoy yourself do everything you can.

[@io1681]

❤️👍👋🇮🇹

[@Aitch_154]

Personally, I think this woman is amazing!

[@ninaappelt9001]

They both are.

[@angiemiller117]

As a person with a disability I just want to state that call has as much if not more responsibility for his life and what he does in it as charisma has… He has a right to fully participate in life to whatever level he wants and charisma is right for supporting him in his endeavors… That’s what any wife would do for their husband…

[@faithsmith8114]

Amen, well said👍🏾👍🏾

[@AaronShu]

As someone with a disability too, I couldn't agree more! Sometimes people forget we are capable of making our own decisions. Just keep enjoying life, you're doing great guys.

[@swizzle876]

Don't listen to them, they wouldn't even last a day in Charisma's shoes, period!

[@vilmawatson5443]

Not a minute much more a day

[@swizzle876]

@@vilmawatson5443 exactly.

[@kevinmansell8746]

she loves Cole i love them both they become family of ours when we watch our favorite show

[@SuJaHo]

Right.... lol ❤

[@ChloeMoudy]

I can for sure. I’m a single mom with a 20 yrs old who is in a wheelchair and it’s not easy. It’s fun though to go onto or get into adventures and challenge yourself on things. We get a kick out of the things We thought We can do. It is hard and not that easy.

[@nats2976]

Dear community, please be respectful of the content creators, this is a unique opportunity to see this couple develop and grow. Let's give Cole and Charisma our support. Make a positive comment and give the video a thumbs up!

[@tawanaavery9840]

💯truth

[@Tee-kc3pn]

I'm confused why Charisma would even consider dating Cole. She will be taking care of him for the rest of her life. Charisma is a small woman and looks like she struggle to assist him most of the time. I understand how she fell for him because you can fall in love with a person's mind based off the conversation you have with them. I just can't understand how she let it go further than admitting him and being best friends. If they have a child she'll be caring for the baby and Cole... that's an insane amount of work

[@jeanharvin3754]

Let's let Cole and Chrisma live their lives. Show love & support.

[@enyimabonney8299]

@@Tee-kc3pn I'm sorry but i don't think this was necessary okay.

[@wheelinthroughlifewithbria7570]

@@Tee-kc3pn your just jealous! He's a regular human! End of story!

[@EvaVilla-pm5mv]

Cole had an accident that gave him a disability, thankfully he survived. People with disabilities want to live life to the fullest. Enjoy what you guys do. Blessings 🙌

[@TdotsTravel]

Charisma is a wonderful wife for Cole! Cole is a wonderful husband for Charisma! It’s call enjoying their life ❤️💙❤️💙

[@judithjackson1182]

Do people expect you to just sit around? Please ignore the haters and keep having fun so that others of us can keep smiling. Cole was athletic before the accident. It's not like he's still recovering? Live it up.

[@roseypeach8363]

People should get off the couch and have some adventures of their own.

[@subscriber8881]

People that say Charisma is weak, has not seen how toned she is! She's goals! They're both goals!!!

[@allisonhinds8384]

Charisma is very very protective of Cole and won't let anything happen to him. Cole knows his limitations. So step off of them.

[@hello_446]

@@allisonhinds8384 lol they weren’t talking bad about them

[@subscriber8881]

@@hello_446 Appreciate the backup. My intentions are 100% to compliment not to step on them. I mean each person has their opinion I guess

[@projectkj7643]

People don’t say that she’s weak...TROLLS say that she’s weak. Trolls have 0 credibility. 😁

[@projectkj7643]

@@subscriber8881 I understood it was a positive statement, too. 😁

[@zahsimmy]

This is a marriage. Have fun you guys you both adults, you make decisions together..Stay positive.

[@veganamanda5345]

Cole is his own person. He makes his own choices. That hike looked like a lot of fun.

[@Nerdificent]

Cole is a grown, competent man and capable of making his own decisions and choices.

[@AaronShu]

Exactly!

[@amberammerman5449]

It’s SICK that others can’t stand to see others happy!! Just because Cole is in a wheelchair doesn’t mean he can’t make his own decisions. 🤦🏻‍♀️🙄. IF HE DOESNT WANT TO DO SOMETHING IM SURE HE DOES NOT DO IT!!

[@firefly_365]

This! He's a grown adult. Pretty sure Cole knows the word "NO"

[@wwashington270]

Agree

[@evelynprice3976]

Amber Ammerman Agreed, very well said. Thank you.

[@saritagomez4321]

I agree w you!

[@sakumzimbatha1072]

Continue taking risks, having beautiful adventures. Doesn't matter what people think, what matters is your happiness. Huge fan from🇿🇦

[@zamakhosimpanza3902]

Aaa-greed

[@astridmeyer2750]

I totally agree! Have fun and enjoy your lives no matter what people say.

[@wwashington270]

Agree

[@mestillme3921]

Boom!!!

[@Usapatriette]

I'm new to your channel, but already a huge fan, and admittedly, intrigued by your delightful personalities, fortitude and spirit. I saw the hiking video. Charisma seemed to be very confident and sure of what she was doing. That in itself, reassured me while watching that everything was okay and nobody was in danger of getting hurt. So, I am happy to know you will continue to fully live your lives and be happy. You both have encouraged me to be more positive and adventuresome in spite of my own disability living with MS. All the best, Cole and Charisma! 💕

[@cherylhunter1244]

OMG!!!! Cole and Charisma, old Chinese proverb: “Never explain. Your friends don’t need it and your enemies won’t believe you anyway.” People should REALLY mind their own business (1Thessalonians 4:11). You all are an amazing couple! Charisma girl, you just keep doing what you’re doing with your boo! 💕

[@JAvantGartist]

I dropped my phone at the end and while my phone is face down on the floor I hear Charisma say "oop" 😂😂 thanks for your concern Charisma 😂😂

[@jaded9641]

Omg I fell in love with Charisma.. her vibes , her straightforward, persistence. They are a perfect match! Best part.. they are happy! Love them

[@LucyGirl-61]

People overstep their boundaries with everyone 🤦🏻‍♀️ you share your life so they think they know you.

[@e.j.o.4400]

This!

[@audreyg50]

Just because Cole is a quadriplegic does not mean , that he has lost his ability to think or decide for himself. Keep on doing you. Charism, you are a lovely person who truly loves Cole. Cole you are a lucky man who has a lady to go through these crazy adventures with you.

[@kingbaylister]

I was born with a cerebral palsy, so according to my doctors, I shouldn't have been able to walk or talk. But 32 years later, I have a masters degree I can walk fully unaided, I completed in my cross-country running and GCSE (exam level PE despite my teachers saying I would fail but I passed same with my degree despite people saying I would fail. At each stage of my life people predudted I would fail, because it was to hard to dangerous or I might get hurt. But i conquered it. I see you guys as a bacon of hope for someone like me. Their is no limitation or never any risk on anything you do. But what's the alternative living life sitting in a corner and letting the days pass us by. Or we can live life to the fullest and be the people God created us to be. The greatest disability you have in life is your mind not your physical limitations, you can choose to give up or get up. For me I have my life in its right perspective I am not going to accept the limitations society places on me because I am a person who is differently abled I am going to live my life without limits and to fulfill my dreams. I will adapt where I have to and always ensure that when I have to take a risk it's comes with my physically safety in mind. Happy Easter everyone God bless you. Charisma the heros of the modern disability movement.a quote to finish. "To keep moving up ... , you have to abandon the security of that ledge and reach for another hold. Letting go of that sense of security.. is the challenge. ... think of yourself as climbing a ladder. To move to the next rung, you must give up your grip and reach for the next one." Nick Vujicic,

[@carolynnurse9694]

James you are so right no matter what u must enjoy life to the fullest and always be positve and u saw it right from they point of view .God bless and happy easter

[@kingbaylister]

@@carolynnurse9694 absolutely

[@carolynnurse9694]

I myself have a condition name myasthenia gravis and they are a lot of things I tried .I can even drive and a lot of adventures I had.That what u call living life to the fullest.

[@dare_challenge_a_god1536]

Good job my brother

[@kingbaylister]

@@carolynnurse9694 absolutely that's what you call living I can't drive as I'm visually impaired but use public transport mostly to get to where I need to be.

[@alisondewar6179]

I love how you encourage him to try to do new things. He's experiencing new adventures because your together. You treat him like you treat everybody, you don't treat him like he's got a disability. You should be proud of your relationship.

[@deecraig-arnold7883]

Have so fallen in love with you two, C&C. You are a perfect example of true love and devotion. Charisma, as a "Sister" don't forget that there are some people who will come at you unfairly because of your ethnicity. I feel badly that you are placed in a position where you must explain or justify your activity level. Just be who you both are and do what you decide to do for yourselves and ignore the negative criticism and shall I say it: envy. Live and Love well.

[@laurie29google.comlaurence69]

For people who followed you since day one, they know for sure that either Charisma or Cole (himself) will never do something without acknowledge all potential risk or without a minimum of preparation... it's okay to try, sometimes to take a risk (in a good way). Just live your life the best way you can. Love you guys ♥️

[@balerinachic2748]

What Charisma is doing is showing Cole that he is capable of doing even more than he thinks. That she wont limit him based on his ability or what people belief the lack of. She believes in him and thats why he chose her as his wife. Please remember that she went to school for and has experience in this area. Let's applaud them for all their successes and encourage them to push as many boundaries as possible. It helps them to grow individually and together. Bravo to you both! Keep pushing and watch God show up everytime.

[@eleanc9675]

Amen.

[@yvos1194]

Agree with you 100%. So well said.

[@fayjohnson9891]

Moral of the story: ppl mind your own business and let this lovely happy couple live their lives

[@Tee-kc3pn]

This statement makes no sense.... you can't make your life public then turn around and say mind your business....if they wanted privacy they wouldn't have made a KZbin page about their relationship 🙄

[@lindsaywentworth9144]

@@Tee-kc3pn What Fay Johnson is saying, yes, they’re channel is to instill everyday learning in a life such as Cole’s to help others and yes it’s public, but people sometimes need to pump their breaks. What she also means by people need to mind their own business, C&C make decisions TOGETHER. Charisma doesn’t force Cole to do anything. So, for people to shame her and attack her, Cole is not going to let anyone disrespect his wife like that. Like he’s not the kind of person who can’t speak or think for himself, he can and he will. So, people need to stop acting like Charisma pushes him around, because she does no such thing.

[@roseleemorgan]

@@lindsaywentworth9144 exactly, and just because people put their lives out there in public does not give others the right to intrude or overstep boundaries. It is like you minding your business, going out in public to do transactions and have people talking about what you should and should not wear or what you should and should not look like.

[@jomarieingram9657]

Forget those comments! You guys are showing my family its possible to give our son with a TBI more to life. I never thought we could wheel him to a beach, go swimming or go on hikes as a family. He is not as advanced as Cole and is non mobile, non verbal but to know we can look into this for the future gives us more hope. So thank you!

[@bonniefurman7476]

I love how you two are so adventurous and wisely choosing what Adventures to do. It is encouraging.

[@catherinelogan6362]

Love that Cole doesn’t let his disability define him and Charisma backs him up on his adventures thru life. Love this couple.

[@geeniality4215]

People are trying to force their fear upon you. I guess people just close their ears when you guys talked about helping Cole having a little more independence. I believe the activities you guys do definitely work towards him building his confidence. It also shows the trust he has for Charisma. You guys keep creating new memories and documenting you adventures. I'm sure you guys are showing many families who has someone with a disability that life is still possible. 💛

[@angeliaimeanttoloveyouharr8404]

Yessssss👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@Aquintisburnett]

Cole is a grown man. He can make his own decisions. Life is all about risks “if you’re not taking risks in your life are you really living ?” Live life to the fullest with no regrets. Happy Easter.

[@georgelewis8798]

This is a wonderful thing to have someone who loves you care so much for you. You must always encourage her as well.

[@reneaslifestyle]

There's no need to explain anything to anyone baby girl continue to do y'alls. I love you guys.

[@laurie29google.comlaurence69]

Sophie came to make a point "Daddy and mommy are the most cautious people in this house... wouf, wouf" 🐕‍🦺🐕‍🦺 😅😅

[@FormerHeathen]

This man had an unfortunate accident years ago , and is so blessed to be alive and have the partner that he has ! I think it’s amazing that they are out and about living life . Blessings to the both of you . Ignore the nay-sayers ... keep enjoying life . 💋💫

[@traceytucker9185]

Look y’all are married and young, enjoy your life. Charisma is going to take care of Cole and he’s going to take care of her. Y’all haters mind your business, they got this. Y’all two keep doing you and what’s makes you happy. Love you both♥️♥️

[@vilmawatson5443]

I love them dearly❤❤❤

[@miketj2516]

Risk is inherent in being alive and Cole is an adult. Getting out, being active and taking risks provides an immensely positive message to others with disabilities. Do what you want and have fun. Live your life and don't listen to the doubters. Peace.

[@sharazod989]

What the hell!! Cole didn’t get to do a whole lot of things. Charisma is such a wonderful person, that she helps him have a real life. The things that they have done is so much harder on her than him. It’s is wonderful to give him something to look forward to and have something to look back on. Keep on giving him that life.😍😍😍😍😍

[@memyselfi9737]

Cole is grown and I’m super happy he has someone in his life to show him he don’t have to just exist he can still live!!!!!!!!👑👑😘❤️

[@rosalindisaacs1443]

I just Lover this couple they are soo happy and in Love .Charisma and Cole God bless you both, Love conquers All.

[@grouch314]

So many people assume that disabled adults are incapable of looking after ourselves and treat us like kids. Assuming that Charisma is making Cole do this stuff is treating Cole like he's a child and incapable of saying no.

[@lilpopcandy]

I go through the same thing. People always ask my mom “did you really let her get tattoos” I’m literally 25 and can make my own decisions. Just because I’m disabled does not mean I can’t be spontaneous or have a mind of my own. I don’t understand why people don’t get that!

[@syliviamayanja1770]

May GOD bless u, bt that's life we live in people hates us fo no reason

[@disabledbabe]

The minute you let other people's voices in your head, is the moment you lose your happiness.

[@Sunnypeach]

exactly!

[@StyleMySweets]

Love watching your adventures and always look forward to your videos together!! ❤️

[@brethenatural1206]

I love your relationship! I absolutely love how much more independent Cole has become over the years, because of the risks that they’ve taken. I remember Cole saying in a previous video, that for so long he assumed that there were so many things that he wasn’t able to do before she came along. Lastly, Cole may be physically disabled, but he is fully capable of making his own decisions. Stop placing your limitations on him and your fears on her. That’s not fair to either of these fully capable adults. Thank you!

[@estherobiri-boateng6452]

Qa

[@wunmikeji]

Hello everyone. Happy Ressurection day to you all and to Charisma and Cole. God bless you all

[@sinjon]

It bothers me so much when people think us disabled people can’t or shouldn’t do things because we are disabled, when in reality we ourselves weigh the risks more so than most able-bodied people. Just because we are disabled doesn’t mean we shouldn’t go on adventures or that we have to stay inside in a safe little bubble. What kind of life is that? It’s also horrible that people think Charisma controls Cole by “making” him do things. We have a mind of our own and we have things we want to try. That wheelchair is *meant* just for that purpose.....to give the disabled more freedom by being able to do something that maybe they couldn’t without it. People just really need to lay off Charisma.

[@candisbar524]

Y'all are such great people. Cole is not forced to do things he doesn't want to. He can say no. Let's face it, sometimes we wives have to encourage our guys to do what they want. Have you seen in his eyes how excited he is when he succeeds?

[@BPb123]

You guys are young, adventurous and just living your lives to the fullest! Super sweet couple!💕

[@Goddessofpeace111]

OMG yall That "eat a whole cake" scene had me laughing SO friggen hard bc I didn't actually expect to see yall with that cake🤣🤣🤣🤣 I love how real yall are as well!! And can I just say yall are two beautiful souls ❤

[@ambricem]

I feel like Charisma gets a lot of heat for no reason. She does SO MUCH for Cole. She’s literally made a commitment for life and that takes a certain type of person that 95% of viewers honestly probably wouldn’t have made, so people need to chill out. If anything Cole needs to start pampering Charisma 😂☺️

[@yvettescott6178]

TOUCHE!!!!!

[@dooba7707]

Wait! I'm not even finished watching this video. People need to stay in their lanes!! Please don't give them any of your energy! No explanation is needed. Continue to do you and what makes y'all happy. If it makes y'all happy, do it! 🤗 I LOVE YOU GUYS!! 💜💟

[@vilmawatson5443]

Love them too

[@moniquehamilton5195]

I agree no explanation is necessary however they are sharing these adventures with the viewers. The viewers have a right to comment in a respectful way.

[@l.7608]

People acting like Cole can't think and make decisions on his own...I am so sorry that you have to deal with this 💕

[@kevinmansell8746]

i do not think they should have to force themselves to address it this is a normal couple like everyone else i look pass the wheel chair look at Cole and Charisma as a super couple

[@Roxy-33]

Yeah. Its really pathetic. They think they are " speaking up for him" but instead they are indirectly insulting his intelligence. Do they think he doesn't have a personality or a mind of his own. Do they think all he does in sit in his chair and follow the crowd. Geeeeez

[@laurabongard2682]

In my eyes, you guys are just perfect together. You don't know what you're able to do unless you try.

[@Shortyboogs]

I appreciate how you guys chose to positively address they nay-sayers and educate them rather than go on a rant. Mad love :)

[@chriskrajec8984]

Live life as you see fit. Just because Cole has a disability doesn’t mean he can’t experience challenging adventures. Thank you both for allowing us to see that being disabled does not mean you cannot do fun and adventurous activities.

[@angelas3883]

The fact that you two have to actually address this subject matter is CRAZY! Cole and Charisma... live your lives and enjoy living it TOGETHER... LOVE YOU MUCH!!!

[@kylasaundersmiller2286]

In the immortal words of Julia Roberts in Steel Magnolias, “ I’d rather have 30 minutes of wonderful than a lifetime of nothing special.”

[@ashlinshayk]

Yes!! I cry too much with that movie. Love Steel Magnolias❤️

[@caitlinmay2322]

Love that movie ❤️❤️❤️

[@dennisl7799]

Love that movie to,love all the wise cracks they say in the movie

[@missladyanonymity]

I swear I don't remember that line. But i assume its pre wedding?

[@missladyanonymity]

Or after she got pregnant?

[@andreawaite7978]

Stay positive. You are both grown people and you have been taking care of cole so good from what i have seen. The adventures are good for him. Love you guys

[@carebear1155]

Girl you are amazing. The love I see between you two and the love you have for Cole is endless. It’s hard to blow off what ppl say (because they can be mean) but please try to ignore them,there are many of us that see the great,goodness,genuineness way you love and protect Cole. I wish you both nothing but happiness.. ALL YOU PPL STOP! Cole you have done more then I have ever done and I am 43 with 3 kids. Live this amazing beautiful life God gave you(us all) Love from Minnesota Kari

[@AaronShu]

Absolutely! They should enjoy life to the fullest hey. People will always have something to say.

[@Howtocookjamaican]

Hello Cole and charisma I've been watching your channel for a long time and have never commented not once this will be my first time let me first say I do feel your pain on the comment section as I get similar comments let's say negative comment all the time based on what I do in my own kitchen but let me tell you guys you cannot ever change the thoughts of the viewers whether it's good or bad they just wait in a glance to come out shouting to make our lives as unhappy just as there's So continue to do what you do best 💕showing love to each other embracing each other flaws and welcome in the laughter of the days to come I love you guys and I will be watching you guys always love Juliana

[@wunmikeji]

Well said, God bless you

[@kingbaylister]

Live life without limits I was born with cerebral palsy and my doctors thought I wouldn't amount to anything I wouldn't do anything or achieve anything. Don't be afraid to fail. If you fall down it's not the end. It's only the end when you give up so keep going keep pushing, ignore those who are not for and keep pushing on. Your are in control and you can do this. James Bayliss Master's graduate.

[@Howtocookjamaican]

@@kingbaylister thank you

[@Howtocookjamaican]

@@wunmikeji thank you

[@darleneharvey8648]

Amen ❤️

[@omadjourney]

Cole is a living being and while he is alive....he will live and enjoy this life.

[@orlandop7786]

You guys don't have to explain your life. It shows you guys take care of each other

[@kimlindsey5178]

You two are awesome! Anyone with common sense will know that your number 1 concern is each other’s safety. Having said that, Cole almost lost his life several years ago. He appreciates life and wants to live it at its fullest. Now he can live it with the love of his life, Charisma.❤️ Enjoy your life together.

[@samanthabaez2503]

Can’t believe you get comments like these. You’re amazing Charisma. Don’t let them stop your shine!!❤️❤️

[@debireitknecht6302]

What? Charisma, you are Cole soulmate. You take very good care of him. This is why I watch. Hey people, STAY POSITIVE or say nothing at all.

[@angiemoss9814]

Charisma and Cole keep living your best life together. I liked the hiking adventure, nothing like being outdoors. Life is......

[@sburwell75]

I think you both give hope and encouragement to others.

[@hlbztransparency8722]

Let these people live! The fact they share this with the world and give people with handicaps positivity. Love them and pray for all people

[@terridenman8236]

Thank you Cole and Charisma for helping me with depression. 80 and with spine and gut issues feeling sorry for myself. You two are full of love and positivity. I found your channel a week ago and have watched your videos non stop. You both took away my depression and I am grateful you shared your life with all of us. You are both beautiful inside and outside and are a lovely couple. You are both brave and full of love. Thank you for spreading positivity!

[@beyond50skin]

The title! Go Charisma! I’m an OT and totally approve of you two “living life to the fullest” every single mother lov’n day!! You two Rock 💜

[@laurenelisabethdooley6451]

I think it’s great that you’re showing people that it’s not the end of the world becoming disabled, You can still live a full life!

[@mjcigar]

Ok two adults who have free will and can voice their own opinions to each other......YOU JUST DO YOU TWO! Life is too short not to make some memories and adventures!

[@feliciabethea9963]

Life is a risk, so enjoy it!❤️🙏🏾❤️

[@maryweeks9474]

I love that you both work well together, listen to each other, and encourage each other. Isn't that what marriage is all about ☺ Life is to be lived and adventure are worth experiencing❤ Never thought you took (risk) that you both aren't up to or comfortable with! Keep being yourselves ❣

[@globalconcern4995]

Those people are trolls, just trolls, Charisma and Cole. They don't want to see people happy, they are lowkey miserable people. Block them from your channel. You are an inspiration. You have actually been the motivating factor in me wanting to live again, instead of just sitting back wanting to die because I am recently paralyzed.

[@lordisgoodgracegrace6346]

HAPPY EASTER day to everyone here 🙌🙏 Cole and Charisma stay blessed... watching from Congo..

[@iknowshannon]

I think it is great that the two of you are stepping out of your comfort zone which allows you guys to have so many wonderful memories. Keep it up guys!

[@garpenat]

It's so sad that you guys have to do this video. I am disabled myself and your channel always gives me hope, both of finding a partner that loves me nearly as much as you Charisma love Cole and also, of the many possibilities open when you are with the right people. No one has the right to judge you Charisma, you are just doing what any partner would do, disabled or not, which is sharing life and its adventures, nothing else. You have my support, as well as the support of many others. I send you a big hug to you and Cole and I thank you for always making me smile with your videos, which are the ones I go to when I need a distraction if my life gets sad or whatever, so I cannot wait to watch more of your adventures and to find relief in seeing how this or that can be accessible ^^

[@nathanbugg3221]

I'm so glad that you two can remain positive. I know it is exhausting with people being negative toward another. Thank you for being a "shinny" beacon. :)

[@jenniferrae6646]

Oh, my, God people!!🤐🤐🤐🤐🤐 Cole and Charisma, please, let it all go straight over your head. What is wrong with these people???? 🦋🌻❣❣

[@reneerich2028]

The two of you are an amazing couple. People will always have something to say... the only thing you can do is love each other and continue to stay who you two are. Just keep being who you are....

[@undftd28]

as someone who can walk Cole does wayyyyy more stuff than me, good for him. 😉

[@suzybausch8587]

FYI, Studies show that taking small risks together makes people fall/stay in love. 💕

[@jakkirivers3505]

Go for it you are alive and I admire you for living your life and not sitting in the chair watching TV all day. Because there are people like you Cole that just give up on life.

[@rosalinrowe4307]

I really hate that the two of you take time from your life to explain your choices in activities. It's your life, your choice. Continue to do you boo. 💗

[@aleshawilson1041]

They are young and really don’t understand that other people have zero say so in their grown, married life. I’m now 40 and have learned the fine art of “talk less, smile more” Most people don’t even know I’ve been married for almost 2 years now lol

[@sandrap6308]

I think Cole has a fear of falling so sometimes it may come across like he's not enjoying it but I believe he's just being mindful of his safety during the more risky moves and I love how Charisma challenges him and fully supports him. Stay positive people!!!! Stay positive!!!!

[@patrickmccarty3249]

Don’t listen to those people You and Cole are perfect for each other keep up what you’re doing Some People are scared I don’t know would like to have a disability

[@colleenpinx3744]

As for a person who is handicapped, I say that until they sit in our chairs...mind your own business. Keep on sharing your thoughts, actions,and deeds, cause you're great and life is toooooooo short to just sit in your chair. Keep living life and forget their nonsense and enjoy, I think you're both wonderful and please let people see your life. Love you both...Colleen

[@gingerbreadhan]

Cole taking risks and overcoming barriers is incredibly inspiring. Charisma supporting him to do these things is incredibly inspiring. They are a strong team. The message they put out is that having a disability doesn't make you incapable. It's a shame peoples biases twist their perception of such a motivating message! Putting out these explanation videos must be exhausting but I'm glad they do to continue to educate people ❤️

[@malachix3037]

What's up, C & C factory? Man, Im 53 yrs old and I wish u had someone to get me out like that. I dont do a lot of things because I need help. You live once, you're young. Be free... Much love to you both. Be safe, but not afraid. STAY POSITIVE.

[@malachix3037]

Btw when i said that Cole isn't helping , I was being sarcastic. Im in the same position as Cole. ( well not exactly). Anyway, I know Cole does what he can. Im lucky and blessed enough to have my injury just a tad bit lower than his and I have full use of my right hand. Im totally independent, but I have no money and no one in my life like Charisma. She us totally amazing. Cole, you are soooo blessed!! Cant wait ti meet you guys some day.. Keep living life...

[@alimor6286]

The fact that they feel like they have to explain themselves to close minded people is so sad....I’m so happy he’s living life and he’s with someone who pushes him out of his comfort zone instead of staying home being depressed! May God give y’all more strength physically and emotionally ❤️

[@lisaread5895]

I do believe Cole has had his big boy pants for many years! Lol keep having adventures and living life...you 2 are awesome!!💜

[@SuperBerya]

Your wife's personality is amazing too👏🏻👏🏻