"My wife hit me and I don't know what to do" | Q&A

[@HarveyKlee]

Thank you for being so brave to cover this topic. Be very careful with DV help as culturally and professionally the biggest and most successful domestic violence centres, family law agencies, counsellors, etc, still secretly educate and believe reverse-misogyny is the answer to DV. Avoid the additional SA by her to have your children or leave her in your home you paid for, if not too late. Have police remove her if she won't go on her own and do not let the children go with her; she will use them as pawns against you. If not your home and there's no children, escape and never turn back. Everyone deserves safety. Men forced or abused into baring children is also very common and professionals rarely take seriously and treat these violent women as victims. Find Domestic Violence experts, instead of professionals. In UK I can recommend a small charity called MensAid in Coventry, England.

[@mikedubovs1574]

My wife gets physical.. she did it today I think because I need to travel for work.. I think she is doing it because she wanted me to stay or something else but she also forced me to drain my bank account and also buy her an iPad. And threaten to ruin my job . It is very stressful and strange. She will punch me and black mail me and act like the victim especially if I retaliate in some way and or record her.

[@piak78]

Why do u youtubers give B.S advice. Why don't you guys try to save the marriage instead of putting fuel in the fire. I am also a marriage counselor and I'm sad to see how counsellors break marriages instead of helping them. Our clients come to us for advice on how to save their marriage and we give them advice to split. In my climinal experience I have seen that men become distant from the wives and that the reason why wife tries to get attention from the husband by being aggressive. It all pent up frustration. We as women should help women cope with difficulties and teach men how to behave in their marriage first.

[@satoruaoyama6758]

This is majorly disrespectful. You call yourself a marriage counselor? Think about other’s struggles, not just your own. It just feels like a huge slap in the face to get through such a traumatizing experience for someone to just say “oh yeah, but men do the same thing.”

[@freespeaker23]

You chat bolleks if a biatch hits you then you leave that biatch before that biatch gets knocked the fcuk out and then it would be the man getting arrested for self defence....