My wife joins me to discuss some tough moments

This week my wife, Paula, joins me to share her truth being married to me and some of the tough moments that we’ve lived through.
State of Mind:
State of Mind to me means being 100% present, feeling completely at peace inside of you, not letting your thoughts control your life and always looking for ways to be the best that you can be.
This will be the first in a series here on KZbin, however you can learn more about State Of Mind at www.mbstateofm....
If you'd like to learn more about my life, I've recently released "Nothing General About It - How Love (and Lithium) Saved Me On and Off General Hospital" www.amazon.com...
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Film and Television veteran, member of the Actor’s Studio, and two time Emmy Award winner Maurice Benard most recently starred as John Gotti in Lifetime’s acclaimed “Victoria Gotti: My Father’s Daughter,” which aired this year; the horror film “Nightmare Cinema,” with Mickey Rourke, which opened the New York Horror Film Festival certified fresh on rotten tomatoes and was in theatres June 21st; the indie films “Hold On,” and “Equal Standard,” alongside Ice T; and Lifetime’s “A Lover Betrayed.”
Among his other film and television credits are David O’Russell’s critically acclaimed “Joy,” with Robert De Niro and Jennifer Lawrence; “Lucy & Desi: Before the Laughter”; “Ruby”; and “Mi Vida Loca.” The indie film “The Ghost and the Whale,” produced by Benard’s wife, Paula, in which he starred as a bipolar man losing the battle with his illness after his wife’s death, was a labor of love underscored by his strong commitment to raise awareness about mental health issues.
Although Benard has always worked out of the spotlight mentoring individuals in mental health crisis, a letter from a young man whose brother committed suicide while struggling with mental illness moved Benard to begin a public commitment to mental health awareness outside the confines of “General Hospital.” In 2009, on “Oprah,” he shared with the world his own bipolar diagnosis at the age of 22 and the ensuing struggle to manage the illness, from surviving a stint in a mental institution as a young man to becoming a television star. Benard’s journey with mental illness has also been profiled in magazines including PEOPLE, LA LIFE, and BP. HarperCollins is publishing his memoir about the journey, Nothing General About It: How Love and Lithium Saved Me On and Off General Hospital on April 7, 2020.
He has also lent his face and voice to numerous organizations to further the cause, including International Bipolar Foundation (IBPF), the National Alliance of Mental Illness (NAMI), Mental Health America (MHA) and Didi Hirsch Mental Health Services, to name a few. For his contribution to mental health awareness, Benard has received numerous awards, including IBF’s Imagine Award, NAMI’s Lionel Aldridge Award, and the Erasing the Stigma Award alongside Carrie Fischer and Rod Steiger.
In addition to testifying before Congress on mental health issues, Benard’s keynote speaker engagements detailing his experience include the annual conference for The National Manic Depressive and Manic-Depressive Association and to hundreds of students at the University of San Diego.
In August 2018, Benard celebrated 25 years on the award-winning series “General Hospital,” cementing his status as an enduring television icon. The popular character Sonny “Michael” Corinthos, Jr. originated with Benard in 1993, initially written as only a six-month guest arc; however, Benard’s powerful portrayal became wildly popular with fans around the world and the celebrated actor quickly took Sonny from a peripheral to central role in the fictional city of Port Charles. Benard has maintained lead status on “General Hospital” for the past 16 years, garnering nine Emmy Award nominations, in addition to taking the statue home in 2003 and 2019.
Benard was previously on “All My Children” as another popular character, Nico, from 1987-1990.
His many loyal fans have not only tuned in for almost three decades, but also repeatedly nominated Benard for a Soap Opera Digest Award, honoring him as a winner three times. Benard has also received a Prism Award and four Latino Media Arts Award nominations.
Benard’s “General Hospital” character has long been on the forefront of socially relevant issues woven into storylines like AIDS and Alzheimer’s awareness. He also pushed for his character to be diagnosed as bipolar so mental health awareness can be front and center on a daily television platform.

[@JamesBond-lt5tr]

Your wife is adorable and so patient. I love her outlook on life and how she perceives your mental health. She loves you for better or worse and in sickness and health. A beautiful relationship.

[@cristinaferreira1413]

I love your videos of state of mind where was this show in the 1980's to the 1989"s , 1990's to 1999's I was watching General Hospital then and now I just watch my youtube channel .

[@caroltoot7602]

Three minutes in and I had to stop watching. My husband & I started dating when we were 16. We were married for 36 years. He suffered from depression and was bi-polar. Seeing Maurice’s wife struggle to find her words is me talking about my husband. Sadly, my husband’s disease was stronger than him and he died by suicide five years ago. I’m glad you are openly talking about your mental health. I’m always willing to share my husband’s struggles (even his death) with anyone who asks.

[@chocholatemoca]

My daughter suffers from bipolar and this was hard to watch but gives me hope for her. She has good days and bad. I am sorry about your husband and his struggle. I wish you the best 💗.

[@brendarogers4336]

@Debbie Smith It is a hard road to to walk. I keep you all in my heart.

[@georgiecampbell5949]

Oh Carol, Im so sorry. Sending you HUGS.

[@Areyon1]

My father committed suicide in 2015 he suffered from addiction and mental health issues. So it's definitely have been a journey.

[@TheTwiztidRose]

@@Areyon1 same as my father, when I was about 3, and my brother was 2. I'm ok-ish mentally, I deal with depression and anxiety. But my brother got into drugs as a teenager, and was then diagnosed bi-polar. To this day (he's 45 now) he still battles many addictions, you name it, he's probably addicted to it. He tries to self medicate, and refuses to take his meds. It's so hard to see, and feel absolutely helpless. BUT Mo gives me a LOT of hope that maybe someday my brother will come through the tunnel, and actually see the light at the end.

[@billdoty6438]

He doesn’t have to make this public, this takes courage. Hope this helps someone

[@patriciabarrett8907]

I love him.. So much respect!!

[@deloreswillis9224]

absolutely ...so proud of Maurice ...God bless him!

[@Kinikia754]

It’s not easy! Takes courage! There are many people with bipolar, I sure he is helping people.

[@laurapoulsen276]

@@Kinikia754 it does help. I have never threatened anyone’s life but I do have bipolar. I know people think I’m crazy. My late husband never left me but I caused damage to my marriage when my bipolar was extremely bad. My husband was amazing. Thank you Maurice for doing this.

[@ladyisbeauty2941]

Absolutely! We all know that Maurice is an incredible actor... but his courage and humility are what I admire the most..,

[@teralecole316]

He’s not afraid to bare his soul to us. He’s amazing!

[@carolsheehan9063]

I remember the first time GH was going to present Sonny as being BP and what a big deal it was in the Soap press. I wondered then and I still wonder, how difficult it is for you to portray Sonny during one of his manic/depressed states. Or is it healing and cathartic to play these story lines? I personally think you are very brave to tackle this professionally but I do have to wonder about the personal toll it takes. PS: I believe you are helping numerous people by being so open and vocal about your mental illness. It's so important for people to see individuals who can be successful in life and still have the down days/weeks. Much love from NH. Paula did a fabulous job even if she was nervous!!

[@RiverRatHeather]

It IS SONNY! Wow, blast from the past! I've been watching for a few weeks......

[@loveswayright]

You are so correct.

[@d.m.g.dapoet854]

By far my favorite actor of all time film or television. As a man who deals with this illness, you've been an amazing inspiration. Salute to this amazing couple.

[@itravisoni]

This clinical depression is of the 👿 devil

[@inellschilling210]

He's so real and I admire him for taking the courage to share. What a Blessing and he's such a great actor. Congrats to y'all for 35 years.!

[@vickybreault3326]

Happy annisvary i know going though when i have daughtshe final on right meds been good last three yearser w o th bio popar she bren hospital several times

[@heavenhancock2002]

They’ve been together for 35 years they’ve been married for 30 years

[@bandersen2117]

🙏🏽

[@JustineRedman]

Happy Anniversary Maurice and Paula ♥️ God Bless you Paula for standing by Maurice all these years! And God bless you Maurice for helping so many of us with mental health issues 🙏

[@joycerobertson1778]

Happy Anniversary,

[@raalisrael5355]

Amen

[@sandramorris377]

Thanks for sharing 👍

[@cynthiataylor259]

I know it's Not Easy, But to Have Someone Who Has Your Back, Helps to Deal With the Illness. You Are Loved And Blessed 💕 🙏 Take Care.

[@TrentMustaine]

Wow...she really gets it...what a support...I wish my family got my bipolar & BPD

[@maryrav4670]

It makes a big difference when you have support. It makes carrying the weight a little easier. I wish my husband was supportive of my depression.

[@Laurain88]

What a beautiful couple. Maurice is an extraordinarily Man, to discuss his mental inflictions. XOXOXO What a blessing to have a wonderful and supportive wife. One day at a time..

[@shayleeledevre6401]

Paula Benard, the originator of " Ride Or Die". 🥰 Happy Anniversary to the two of you ❤ I wish you many happy returns to this day. ~ @Serenityfair, Deidre.

[@sharjerzyk7765]

I wrote my 1st comment which was so very difficult for me regarding the passing of my husband and how messed up I am. I am NOT positive but yesterday I think I got a response back from Maurice or whoever answers the comments. I couldn't believe it because well nice things don't happen to me. I read the first line which I think said something like you will get through this and BOOM the power goes out and I lose what was written which is par for the course. If there is ANYWAY (if it was ever sent). I could have dreamt it. It could be sent again I would love to read it. I'm just so lost and lonely and sometimes scared. Ok, we will see if it was real or not. Thank you

[@patpionke]

Shar Jerzyk So very sorry for the loss of your husband. That isn’t the kind of loss that goes away quickly. The pain takes a long time to ease up and dampen.The first year is all anniversaries of the first time you went grocery shopping after his death and the first time you’ve gone to a movie, or the first family gathering. All of these are first hard steps. Know that a complete stranger cares about you and wishes you well.

[@sharjerzyk7765]

@@patpionke Thank you for responding Pat but I have no family. My so called best friend of 17years decided to totally BLOW ME OFF 4months after my John passed. I have No one. I was with this man for more than half my life. It was just us. No kids. He was a Vietnam vet and was so afraid of agent Orange etc. There are no family gatherings...no movies. Just being ALONE and Pain and sadness and NOTHING is the same. I don't eat the same. Watch tv the same. Every single thing in my world changed. I was handed a new life that I never asked for and one that I don't want. It is the hardest gut wrenching life altering of things to live with. Thanks for listening!

[@lauraregan8439]

It takes a strong man to face his challenges and share them with the world and a strong woman to stay even through the scary and tough times. (Or vice versa). Happy belated Aniversary. You are a beautiful couple. And thank you for sharing your stories!

[@brendarogers4336]

Yes it does

[@bolawhaley3725]

Such honesty, and it shows the truth shall set you free. By him speaking so openly about this, stops bipolar from having any power over him.

[@jjh518]

💯

[@yvonnejackson7638]

What an incredibly warm woman you are married to. You are both blessed to be in love with one another. Perhaps one day Paula will share how she copes with everything and give advice to those of us who care for and love people in our lives with struggles. Any little advice will help. We need it......

[@TrentMustaine]

Happy Anniversary Maurice & Paula

[@patriciapigg3211]

Happy Anniversary 🎉 to you

[@wendywalker216]

Happy Anniversary.🌹❤ You are so loved & you & Jason & the rest that you work closely with are why I have watched GH since I was young. Everytime you,Jason,or Mike cry,I cry. I feel so close to you as family. My grandmother passed away with what Mike has on GH & I am amazed at how strong you are doing this but I'm so glad you are. Remember,that you are loved,admired,appreciated & not alone during your scenes. God Bless You. So much more I'd like to say but I won't. HAPPY ANNIVERSARY TO YOU & YOUR BEAUTIFUL WIFE.

[@tracydaniels5704]

Thank you for that discussion such raw honesty as a mother of a son whom has gone through the same thing it warm my heart knowing that I wasn’t alone and my god continue to bless you and your family 🙏🏾

[@ihatethenorth3296]

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[@carriefowler8361]

I was diagnosed as bipolar about the same time Sonny was on GH. It helped me to not feel alone. I love how open Maurice is with how this disease has affected him. We need more people to be candid about mental health to help stop the stigma.

[@leilanispeck2655]

You are a brave soul Mr. Bernard! This was a very heartfelt and gut wrenching topic and for you and your wife to be so rawfully (is that even a word!) open and honest about this difficult disease is refreshing and amazing! Thank you both for sharing such deep and personal feelings. Now if Sonny would just do that more with Carly....

[@donnajolivet6026]

Mr. Benard. Yes, if he would that with Carly.

[@ellierah-vega3314]

I love that when you asked your wife about how she knew you were strong. It was amazing. I love that she said to you without a doubt that” because you are!” We definitely need someone to remind us.

[@jessicalenway4835]

My dad has this and I so get what she is saying when she says it’s not you. My dad we could see it in his eyes when he would be there. His eyes would be so dark and cold. Those where not his eyes! My mom never left my dad. She stuck there until her last days and she loved him so much. Keep going ❤️🙏

[@sheerbornand3097]

You are truly blessed to have such an amazing wife and friend.

[@seriouslyjoking2]

After my daughter's diagnosis of Autism that I learned she had cormobid diagnosis of ADHD, OCD & Bipolar. It was difficult to deal with her, but we did what we had to do. I loved her & wanted her so, i had to step up to the plate. She was a teenager & being tutored in a library that I picked up the book, "New Hope for Bipolar". Then, I read my diagnosis...I had been Bipolar all of my life & had not been diagnosed. I am Bipolar II. It is difficult to manage & I am blessed with a husband that has remained with me during many episodes of depression & mild mania. We have been married for 37 years. So..it can be done. When someone has an illness do we cut bait or step up to the plate? Thank you for sharing your story...we need to know that we are not alone.

[@scottallen3932]

We appreciate your honesty in these videos can they are helping people hope you realize that

[@annahall-mayzik9223]

Thank you Maurice for being brave enough to tell your Story. By you doing this is going to help many, many others going through similar trials and tribulations.. I honor you for being strong. God bless Paula for Standing by her man. She is a remarkable woman! You are perfect for each other.

[@kimakotrotman6860]

She's down for her man. You must always seek the light after a journey; whatever your state of mind😄.

[@hilaryscott2642]

I’ve been watching gh for the better part of my 57 years on the planet and I’ve always loved your work. How powerful this gut wrenching conversation is for both of you and also those of us watching. Bravo! Keep going! You are a tremendous inspiration! Paula, wow! You are a true hero. 💕

[@TheBritot]

The struggle is real, I have depression and anxiety disorder. Its hard to deal with, its debilitating, but when you have a partner in life who really cares and understands and fights for you it makes things better. Your wife Paula is your rock, continue to lean on eachother and love hard. God Bless the both of you and thank you for sharing your experiences and struggles.❤❤❤

[@shekiag1851]

I love the honesty and love. 35 years and you all love each other even more now than the first day. I needed to see this tonight, if you only knew what a Godsend this interview is for me tonight. Thank you both for this!

[@marieeisenmann749]

Maurice, These are so helpful to me. My husband takes medication for anxiety and depression and it's been such a struggle for me because when things go wrong he gets very angry. Has never been physically abusive but can be incredibly hurtful. Plus just the constant "drama" of things being off kilter. It's taken me quite awhile to stop internalizing his struggles and realize that they are just his issues - that it's not my fault and there is only so much I can do to help. I used to try to almost turn myself inside out to try to fix things and that resulted in taking care of him so much that I neglected myself. I am finally starting to see that I have to take care of myself too and to sort of "back off" and let him work through some things himself. That actually keeps the peace in our marriage much more. But it's rough and just seeing that one is not alone in their struggles is very helpful.

[@julie4evert490]

Maurice, stay in the moment...and the anxiety always passes...always.

[@RobbieAndGaryGardeningEasy]

Happy Anniversary! We Met you some years ago, and spoke on the phone about African Greys! Take care and again, HAPPY ANNIVERSARY You Both! AND MANY MANY MORE...💕

[@dianevaccarino4655]

It's wonderful your expressing yourself, hopefully it will help others to express how they feel. God Bless you.l have been watching General Hospital since l was 12 years old, lmao 69. Keep being strong you have a wonderful family. There is a light at the end of the tunnel.

[@rubyecrutchfield3191]

What a Lady!!!!! WOW!! You’re definitely a blessed man. Thank y’all for sharing this with us. ❤️

[@garywilliams844]

I applaud 👏 you and your wife for having the courage to share your story with the public. I know it wasn't easy but somehow you got through it its amazing. Congratulations on your 35th anniversary. Your really brave and your story of triumph is something so inspiring for many who suffer from mental health. You are proof that through it all there is a light at the end of the tunnel. You both stay strong, stay encouraged and God bless to you and your children.

[@brendarogers4336]

Just to let you know. I had 3 beautiful sons. My toughest son. Took his life on Thanksgiving at 9 30 am. 2013 Then the day before easter my middle son took his live. All that within 5 months period .I AM STILL in my soul.I get people tell me. I was so strong.........They have no idea.And to top it off......When they interrupt my GH I go off..... Know you are not alone.We do care. Sending you love and light. Peace be with you.

[@annettecuatt6463]

This is now one of my favorite State of Mind. You and Paula were great together. You can clearly see the love you both have for each other. Put a smile on my face.

[@sheliadennis9004]

You are so blessed to have a spouse that listens and understands. I love that you are doing this. God bless❤️❤️❤️

[@annieoannie]

Love will take you through even the darkest days. You two are lucky to have each other.

[@gregterrell1504]

What Your Doing Takes Courage. May God Continue to Bless You and Your Family!!

[@user-we2eo7jd7u]

Enjoyed hearing your wife talk about her struggles and could feel her love for you. You both deserve all the live and respect we as fans can give you. God bless you both with wonderful blessings kn your 30th

[@marniehuff6517]

That was an amazing show! Thought provoking questions and such deep and genuine answers. The thought process Paula demonstrates before answering makes it all so pure and compelling.

[@stephy5496]

I love you Maurice, I am so happy you decided to do this channel. I have been a fan of yours for many years. I remember when you first came out and started talking about your mental illness. Not only are you my favorite soap opera actor of all time, but I could relate to you on another level, being that I have been fighting depression since I I’ve been young, finally realizing it in my early 30’s. I didn’t know what had been wrong with me all those years before. I have so much to say on the subject but, this is already long enough. Your wife is lovely, stay strong always both of you, and you’ve always got prayers coming your way from me🙏🏾 thank you again.

[@sueinperu]

So happy to wish you Happy Anniversary.. Maurice thank you for being you and being honest and helping us all through mental illness. Just got out of the worst year of my life and didn't think i'd make it.. Thanks for making me feel normal and not so broken

[@dnunes6924]

Your emotions are so raw and true to yourself ...I think you will and have helped many people ,you have that platform and that’s why god chose you..🙏

[@lindakuhn9166]

The timing of this couldn’t be more perfect. My husband of almost 29 years is bipolar. He’s working through severe anxiety right now. Thank you to your wife for reminding me to tell my husband “you’re stronger than you know”. Really needed to hear this today.

[@kellyjohnson3292]

I love his honesty and firtrightness. I have something in common with him I'm also bipolar and have experienced bad times. I'm lucky I got a good psychiatrist who controls my medication. It took me a while to get used to the maniac episodes and the lows. I learned to meditate and get through the highs and lows. Bipolar is challenging but it can be managed through medication and having support. I love this video ,this might help a whole lot of people struggling with bipolar. This is so informative. Thank you Mr benard and ur wife.

[@murphysmommy]

Thank you Maurice, you touch more people's lives than you realize. Paula is absolutely lovely!

[@lashunmiller938]

Maurice was in love with GH, Sonny! Didn't know he suffered from the illness of Bipolar but so brave he accepts and deals with it. Strong wife and family.

[@mariadaquila7587]

This is so touching. A beautiful couple inside and out. Thank you for sharing!

[@lovelylace4896]

Happy Anniversary! May God continue to bless your love! She is such a beautiful strong woman. You guys are doing a fabulous job bringing awareness to mental illness. It takes a strong man to show weakness. The Bible says when we are weak that is when we are strong.

[@lynnmorgan9033]

God bless you for helping so many that sit home like shells but here you are winning!!! I love what your entire family has done and God bless your wife and children.

[@tami9187]

I am VERY thankful for your post. I watched General Hospital from when it first started. Ur character was and still is one of my favorites ever! I am soooo pleased with your open honesty and the faithfulness of your wife. You two are God Sent and a clear example of a Godly marriage. I am so proud of you all! Many people need to hear this. Way-to-go!!😀

[@stubeef6385]

SONNY CORINTHOS WITH HIS OWN T.V. SHOW😮 ! SURPRISING & COOL 👌😎 !

[@annagresta3840]

I love this video. Reading your book, I really got to see the love you and your wife have for each other, through good times and tough times. That's true love.

[@cherylbrewer9723]

Thank you for sharing your story. My husband is bipolar. I know when it hits him. It's not him but the disease. We have been together for 49 years. I didn't sign up for it either. I made a vow to him in sickness and health. He is my best friend and I love him with all my heart. Happy Anniversary!!

[@lywnnjohnson6130]

Congratulations much love to the both of you and family God bless and keep you praying for you I deal with anxiety and depression but I pushed on and through much love to you both be blessed and I love the compassion and love that you show your father on GH you are one of my favorites on there wishing you all the best

[@LoriLulu]

I read his extraordinary memoir. The moment his wife began speaking, I started crying. This woman is remarkable and deeply inspiring… she understands what “love” truly is: devotion, commitment, compassion and a deep understanding of her husband and his illness. I applaud the raw honesty he shared in his book- which doesn’t make the reader “like” him… at all… sometimes, but we learn to separate the (good) man from the (illness) demons. He speaks the truth: there is no shame in getting help and taking medications that help the brain stabilize. These two together are a force!!! Love you guys! You’re doing such great work! I’m so proud!

[@barbarajacobs9386]

Best SOM Mo that you have shared as we got to see both your side and Paula’s and it was phenomenal. Thank you for you honesty and Happy Anniversary to you both for the ride of your lives. Bless you both

[@DjLovesl]

you 2 are so beautiful. happy anniversary to a gorgeous couple. inside and out while crocodile hugsssssss

[@justjulie7866]

Thank you both for being so brave about this subject. I suffer from depression, anxiety, and health anxiety. At times, it’s debilitating. My heart hurts a lot of the time because I know how much my episodes have caused my kids distress. Just, thank you.

[@tamillalynnrector2721]

i love that u are open w ur. bypolor because alot people don't get that. so thank u. thank u to ur wife knowing the difference.

[@VVV953]

Holy whack a mole Batman! Sonny Corinthos of Port Charles, New York has his own KZbin channel

[@robincarhart5721]

Happy anniversary congratulations

[@RiverRatHeather]

Lol, I know. Thank you, I was trying to remember!!

[@tshantel3749]

I'd just be wanting U to be Sonny ALL THE TIME!😊 Although I can separate the character from the person. I've been a fan since FOREVER and I also struggle with depression/anxiety/ mental/psychological turmoil, and I know how extremely difficult it is at times to cope with the illness, and ppl who don't experience this, REALLY DO NOT UNDERSTAND WHAT IT IS TO BE THIS WAY!💯 It's really hard to deal with on a daily basis, and for me, my mind stay in a constant, continuous state of chaos, even when nothing major is happening! Sometimes I can see/feel it coming over me and can brace myself for it, and other times it's like being hit by a MAC truck, at full speed from out of nowhere!!!! I almost NEVER feel acceptable to myself. I mean I ALWAYS feel drained and tired and sleep deprived! Concentrating on anything is really difficult at times, and I'm always highly irritated for any reason and for no reason at all. It's just CRAZY!! I'm ALWAYS scared all the time that I'm going to get trapped somewhere waiting to be tortured, no one knowing where I am, and I can't get back home!!!! My level of panic and anxiety is severely high whenever I have to go out away from my home. It's really a draining existence, and on top of all of that, I'm on a boat load of meds, that I DO NOT WANT TO BE ON, and sometimes I go for days without talking them, but the withdrawal ALWAYS keep kick in, and I have to go back on the meds just to not hurt and to be able to cope with life in general. I've been a fan of yours ever since I first saw u as Nico on AMC (I think), and most definitely as SONNY CORINTHOS on GH!!!! I can't say I understand your illness in full, but I most definitely understand some of what u must be feeling whenever you are going through it, and I empathize with you!💯 I've been in therapy for many, Many years and I still don't have the words to explain to my therapist what I go through in a way that he can even SOMEWHAT UNDERSTAND how hard my life is living with PTSD and Demonic dreams, and being scared all the time about EVERYTHING!!. I PRAY THAT GOD CONTINUE TO BLESS AND KEEP U, AND GIVE U THE STRENGTH ALWAYS, TO HAVE THE VICTORY OVER YOUR CONDITION! To God be the glory FOREVER, in Jesus' name, Amen! THANKS FOR SHARING!🥰💯❤️ Plz forgive me if I just want u to be Sonny CORINTHOS, I know that u are a real person and that Sonny is a character that u play, but, when I look at u, I just see SONNY!😁

[@ellencarter8459]

That laugh....SONNY!!!

[@angelinamicheleromano3897]

Maurice What your doing is amazing! Helping people by sharing your experiences just confirms what a special person you are. I met you when you were on AMC when you played Nico and I’ve been watching GH since Genie Francis first appeared. I haven’t missed an episode! I suffer from depression and anxiety as well. Suggestion, read the book “The Power of Now”by Eckhart Tolle. It really helps you focus on the present. It has helped me tremendously along with meditation. You have an amazing wife and support system which is key! Happy Anniversary to you and Paula🥰 thank you for being the beautiful soul that you are! God Bless You and your family! Sending Love and Light🙏 💥Maria from Point Pleasant, NJ

[@Jen-vw7hq]

Happy Anniversary Love n hugs to you both❤

[@beverlywilliams-clarke4472]

Happy Wedding Anniversary to you both. May God continue to be in the midst of your marriage. I love Paula's humility and compassionate spirit. That's real love right there 💯 ❤❤👏👏

[@deannharris2424]

Wow! I love that he's opened up and I know that he's going to help so many people by being so honest. It's emotional and raw. It's also difficult recalling those moments but he's doing it! He's truly remarkable and he's wife is wonderful to be by his side. You can feel the love and respect she has for her husband, Maurice! Great job!

[@MsGail-gl8vm]

Happy Anniversary Maurice & Paula! God bless! You are all strong people! God bless you all! Thank you for sharing your struggles. I suffer anxiety too, & some of my family members do to. So hang in there Maurice & stay strong:) Love from a GH fan from Saskatchewan Canada!💖🤍❤️

[@lauriestewart3726]

CONGRATS AKA SONNY CORENTOS MY MOST FAVORITE GENERAL HOSPITAL CHARACTER!! SO FINE!! KEPT UP WITH YOU FOR 27 YEARS....AWESOME!!

[@LisaWoodcomeflywithme]

That last question has me sobbing. What a blessing you and your honest soul are Maurice. I have a mental illness, I am NOT my mental illness. Thanks a million. BPD....living one day at a time!!!! You did great wifey.

[@TaraRosado1998]

Thank you so much for sharing this. Happy 30th Anniversary Maurice & Paula! 💕

[@djlz9410]

Appreciate the honesty, transparency and sincerity from both. Keep the faith and don't give up no matter what. God be with you. 🙏✝️ Remember, Jesus saves and offers us the experience of new life and hope of salvation, if we receive Christ as Lord and savior we will truly become born again

[@clarendiasimpson7997]

It's hard at times but when you love each other you when my husband starts you can tell by the way he talks then he leaves and stay gone for days then when he calls he is not the same man I feel in love with but you can hear in his voice that his mind is slowing back down and then it goes back to the love of my life

[@tinaanderson5298]

You 2 are wonderful..open, honest and so down to earth. My youngest daughter suffers from anxiety and as a teenager is now on medication which thankfully is helping. Navigating this road with her has been challenging and such a huge learning process but each day is a new day and she is worth everything. God bless both of you and your family andwhat a great channel!

[@crissimon7404]

Firstly, happy anniversary! Secondly, you’re transparency is admirable and I’m sure you’re helping others! Finally, since 1963 I’ve been a General Hospital viewer (it was black & white back then. Used to skip school to watch.

[@bosslady7147]

It’s true , the eyes look different it’s scary

[@CDG1228]

Paula's voice sounds a little bit like Jennifer Lopez's.

[@JoyinFlorida]

Wow. Just stumbled across this, no clue how but I'm glad I did. I've watched GH for 41 yrs and I just developed a new found respect for this man and his wife for putting their personal lives out here...God Bless🙏💖

[@MatthewPlatz]

This woman is gold. Devoted and the epitome of someone who has your back. I'm sure MB knows this and rejoices daily in having a level of much needed comfort. Let me encourage you, Maurice, if you read this, you've got this. One minute at a time, day by day. Your support group is a collective of gems. Focus on others, serve them, this helps immensely. Peace always.

[@kato4eva1]

This is such a misunderstood topic. Thank you Maurice for sharing your journey. May God Bless you and your family. 🙏💜

[@shelleyturner7029]

You two are truly blessed to have each other. My husband and I have been married for 21 years ! The disease we dealt with was drug addiction. Many times I thought about giving up, but by the grace of God I found my strength through prayer. Praise God, he is clean now, but the thought is in the back of my mind. He is working hard to stay in the right mindset by working hard, setting life goals and remembering how blessed he is. Thank God for sparing his life!

[@cindiesawyer6336]

Happy 30th Anniversary Maurice and Paula. You two are Awesome. I love General Hospital. My number 1 show..

[@kellya9050]

And thanks for having the courage to share with us. That everyone is human and mental health is important. I am a psychiatrist Nurse and suffer myself with anxiety.

[@Jinks2021]

Wow, this woman loves him so much. To look beyond and into the illness and find the person that exists behind it…and do anything to get them through it and back…that is someone we all need.

[@krose5825]

Maurice, You are my Hero! I know your struggle. My daughter is 47 and was diagnosed at 16 with manic depression, which is now called bi polar. It has been a tough struggle for her and for those who love her. She has been good taking her meds, but after so many years, they stop working and she needs to try new ones. She has been suicidal, tried suicide 3 times, and hospitalized for months. She's also had tremendous anxiety during the pandemic. Thank you for being so honest! I've read your book and reviewed it on Amazon. Thanks for keeping it real! Much Love to you and your lovely Family!

[@newenglandcoast7121]

I love the authenticity that you bring to the character Sonny's mental health struggles! My ex-husband was diagnosed bi-polar, he refused treatment sadly. Your wife is lovely.

[@tinae8433]

How dare anyone put thumbs down to this or anyone who is sharing their own personal experience and surviving/thriving with mental illness at all. Shame on them!! Maurice you and your wife are admired! Thank you for sharing authenticly. You are helping others. You helped me today! Amen

[@hugstermarilyn8862]

I appreciate what you are doing here Maurice. I hope those that are or have loved ones that are dealing with mental health issues bookmark these KZbin episodes so that maybe when they are going thru one of their own or a loved ones crisis they can watch this and be reminded it does eventually get better even tho when in it, it may feel like it never will. Thanks for all you do. Hugs to you and your family. :)

[@jenniferpaixao4385]

I suffer from PTSD and depression I am a huge fan of you!! I bought your book as and have been watching you on GH for 27 years, and you have helped me so much!! So happy to see Paula on with you!!❤💯❤

[@LamborghiniGal]

His wife is a lovely lady. Inside and out. This was really great. I love the honesty from both of them.

[@BROUBoomer]

Hi Maurice and Paula, Happy anniversary! My late husband and I had 33 years together. This year would have been our 36th anniversary. You are so brave to talk about your depression and bipolar in public. I've been depressed since I was 3, diagnosed as manic depressive at age 10, had my first ulcer at 15, and didn't realize I was having anxiety attacks until I was 20. They tried a few different medications on me that had the opposite effect, instead of calming me down, I was having screaming meltdowns. I gave up on medication. I think the last medication they gave me is what started my chronic migraines, it caused a burning sensation on the top of my head. My husband was the only one that could calm me down, and now he's gone and I'm all alone. We weren't blessed with children, for years I thought maybe it was for the best. Because I didn't want my children to inherit my mental problems, like my mother, and her mother had problems too. Do your children have your problems? My anxiety attacks are peaking because I'm running out of his life insurance money, and by Halloween I'll be living in my car with my cat, and it's not running. I don't have medical insurance to see a doctor or shrink, or money to either. I've cried everyday since he died, and only get out of bed to eat, bathroom, or feed the cat. I need a lawyer to try to get disability, they turned me down in 2015. And I don't have the money for that either. I can't even try to get a job because of the pandemic, thousands are unemployed from the theme parks, and every other job in Central Florida. I've never told anyone but my husband what I've just written here. I'm anonymous here. But you're famous, and tell everyone what's wrong with you, how brave. ☺️ ☮️ ✌️🖖 😷

[@melissaisloud7404]

It’s wonderful to finally hear Miss Paula speak. I’ve been a fan of Maurice’s for so long, and have known of Paula since I was a kid. She seems like a sweetheart. So glad that you two have been able to be best friends for 35 years and counting. Happy 30th Anniversary! May you have every moment of happiness that life has to offer. 💙❤️💜💚

[@anikaallen2921]

I have been a fan since Maurice played Nico Kelly. I'm a bigger fan now. I love his transparency and love her commitment to him even more.

[@gloriarodgerson1537]

Congratulations on 35 years! Thank you for sharing the trials and tribulations. Hugs for you both from Prince Edward Island Canada 🇨🇦

[@Mjt1262]

Mr Bernards honesty is truly touching. An amazing actor and human being. Maze on your anniversary.

[@susanifrost]

God bless you and your wife. Thank you for discussing mental health using this important platform. Please tell your wife her willingness to stretch her comfort zone is appreciated by those dealing with mental illness and for their family members. Both of my brothers dealt with mental health issues (my older brother had schizophrenia and OCD, and my younger brother has OCD, depression, and is on the autism spectrum). Your voice is so important in informing people about mental health and eliminating stigma. You illustrate so beautifully that like other illnesses, it's one facet of life and so much is possible with love and understanding. Your work in helping people be more empathic is a gift to this community.

[@Dumballa]

Hearing and seeing this really fills my heart with so much love for the people in my own life who have stayed through the times when I didn't have the tools to get control of the mania. God bless you both for sharing 🤗

[@nanners829]

Happy Anniversary, 31 at this point! Paula, you are such a saint & a special person. The fact that you have been together for 36 years & 31 years married... that's almost unheard of in the land of Hollywood. I wish you both much continued success & many more years of happiness.

[@dionesmith1361]

You are an awesome actor & a great asset to General Hospital ! I admire your courage for coming forward and sharing your life with all of us! Happy Anniversary to you & your wife and my prayers are with you and your family!

[@ladyisbeauty2941]

I would never judge anyone with a mental disorder.. it’s just as serious as cancer, diabetes, etc.. I just really admire your bravery, courage and humility. And Paula is a wonderful woman by your side. Happy 30 years! May God continue to bless your union!

[@PinkSunglasses50]

mo you told me i am stronger than i think over a decade ago i didnt see it or feel it BUT today i am stronger than i have ever been. i never forgot those words from you.

[@MJWIFEY84]

My favorite actor and human being of all time. Thank you Maurice for ending the stereotyping of mental health 🙏 ❤️ God bless you always

[@lovelylace4896]

Mrs. Bernard continue to speak you have such a gentle and compassionate spirit. I have a mentally disabled daughter and I know the toll it takes. Stay strong!