"My Wife Says You Should Never Become a Step-Baby Daddy," Stepfathers Call In, Says It's a Bad Deal

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[@LTgoBirds]

It is hard to find a husband or wife period these days. Men and women, be careful PERIOD. Children, no children, stay prayed up and trust GOD to provide you with the wisdom to make the best decision.

[@sewblue187]

The best comment on here🎯

[@exquisite921]

Absolutely much respect

[@SharkOrDie]

Most men can only get low hanging fruit women because the majority of men are unattractive to most women! Only a select few of us are picking & choosing.

[@Cleavonmrballer]

as a 41 years old I have no kids and I will never dated a single mom please MEN don't be a step father!

[@dwannthomas9543]

the trade off is loneliness tho. tell the whole story 😂

[@mrsheabutter]

​@@dwannthomas9543 no they can date single women from other countries

[@justin2morton1]

I'm 43. I only date women with no kids. We prefer to travel and live life!

[@803shock]

I’m 40 with no kids but I will date a woman with kids but I’m not taking care of her kids that’s her child father

[@Haddonfield63]

@@dwannthomas9543for you maybe. People with lives ain’t lonely

[@edwardwright7042]

I was a stepdaddy for 16 years I was married to that person! Never again ever again!

[@justinhymes4911]

My sister has been a single mother for 7 yesrs and i told her your going to be single another 7 years because of her mindset, she takes her duaghter on her first dates 🚩 She believes there can be 2 leaders in the house 🚩 She's masculine 🚩 She believes no can discipline her daughter but her 🚩i tried to give her the best advice from a man point of view that dont have kids and what we men look for on a woman and single mothers aren't our first choice i love my sister but she dont want to listen and she's 37

[@drillingig2368]

😂😂she’s doomed, bro. Not everyone can make it.

[@justin2morton1]

Never. I'm 43. No kids. I would never.

[@marcusyoung4435]

I think Anton is realizing, A LOT of his listeners are simps. Lol. Anton has a lot of work on his hands... "Every woman deserves a chaaance" Kevin Samuels is rolling in his grave right now.

[@fudgematthew33]

It's bad out here. It was painful listening to that first caller. Like, "Why are you laughing? What's funny about willingly being a simp?" Damn.

[@sweetwonkahallelujah7016]

The deep end is when single mothers be having expectations as if they are Lori Harvey

[@Haddonfield63]

Most of these people who follow these KZbinrs are simps

[@truebengalsfan]

Most guys are simps or had there time being a simp myself included

[@fudgematthew33]

@@truebengalsfan guilty as charged. I had to decide to stop being a simp.

[@gnice1465]

As a 46 year old,every women I've dated had children. I knew I wasn't going to marry them so I was like I'll just stick around until it's over. Plus my dad always instilled in me to never marry a woman with children

[@MissJennifer8]

I can totally relate with you. Same here. I've dated men with kids and there was always problems. I'm 46 and have no kids either.

[@rhondasmith1529]

This was a horrible show. Nothing gained from listening to it. You interview and stepdad's not really given the public. Any helpful information you're not given any helpful feedback either

[@gnice1465]

@@MissJennifer8 Sorry to hear you had problems as well

[@KitaKitaKita419]

So why date them? That’s the problem right there playing games

[@chalkyblack7582]

@@MissJennifer846 with no kids Yea it’s over for you your chances of having children are slim to none

[@carlcwms]

I’m quick to tell women to go back to the father. I’m not doing it.

[@GETBIG4WARD]

I just told my friend go back to your baby daddy nothing out here for you or your baby

[@Laoriginal718]

Facts

[@workconverseify]

Man, that simp chip programming is very strong in our Black men.

[@Laoriginal718]

Very

[@lovelylibra-mv1jv]

Most men just take what they can get.

[@user-jq2jv7sn3h]

Hell yea dey be just lonely thirsty and just wanted to settle.... it's a sad situation

[@migueldomina190]

Exactly those the ones that don't value there time or resources...

[@lovelylibra-mv1jv]

@@migueldomina190 right I should say that I don’t mean to generalize. I’m glad men are waking up and having more standards.

[@migueldomina190]

@@lovelylibra-mv1jv they need to because it works for both sides,dudes need to stop playing house with women and making trick babies with street dudes,also ladies need to know the more kids you have the less value you have in dating market to get the man she wants.

[@Boom38119]

Never understood that mindset. 🤦🏾‍♂

[@BjtheLawyer_]

My dad told me when I was in elementary school sitting in the back seat of the car to “never date or marry a single mother.” I never questioned him & have not!

[@sewblue187]

Y’all be in here lyin😂 that man ain’t tell you that in no dam elementary school. It sound good tho

[@BjtheLawyer_]

@@sewblue187 why would I lie on my dad? I literally can call him now & he will tell you the same thing 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@mcqueeninvestments5191]

@@sewblue187 Good Dads always give you good game no matter what age you are. You trolling for no reason smh

[@sewblue187]

@@mcqueeninvestments5191 duh but saying that to a child at that age is wild asf

[@mcqueeninvestments5191]

@@sewblue187 Black parents tend to be very straightforward w their children bc you have to grow up being sharp out here. It's not for everyone to understand though.

[@kingbizzle1357]

What these callers did not realize is you can be a role model as a coach, mentor, or a big brother through an advocacy organization without being a stepfather.

[@yasyc2788]

I was raised by my step dad . Love him to death , Please DO NOT be a step dad guys. That include me

[@CriticalTimez]

You loved your stepdad but against guys being a stepdad?😔😔😔

[@StevieB93]

Same. I even told my stepdad I couldn’t be one. I appreciate him but that’s a thankless task.

[@AllByDesign4]

@@CriticalTimezyes. Because he knows his step dad got a bad deal. And didn’t deserve it. At least he’s real about it and not in delu Lu world like you 😂

[@vincewilson3757]

Thanks for being honest

[@GETBIG4WARD]

😂😂😂😇

[@sharonnycum5414]

My real father was a monster but my stepfather was my hero. I took care of my stepfather for 20 yrs after my mom passed away. I cooked and cleaned did his yard and helped him with rentals. He was so good to us and he deserved to be taken care of like my Mom did. He was a good provider and father. I still miss him. He passed away 3 yrs ago. I have never regretted being there for him. Sometimes he was hard to deal with but that was ok too.😅 My Mom was hurt by my real father and put stepfather through all kinds of 💩. For a couple of years but she changed after she was with him for a while. They were together for almost 60 yrs.

[@nikotademetra1016]

There are a lot of stepdads the only men I hear complaining about dating single mothers all the while having kids himself 😂

[@redpillscience1288]

​@@nikotademetra1016 You sound disgusting trying to convince dudes to deal with chicks already nutted in 😂 How would feel if a guy bought used nutted in boxers? 😂

[@melvinjames161]

I Married a chick with 2 kids before , worst mistake in my Life i rather go to Jail to repeat being a step Daddy.

[@mondomondo9138]

Thats a Fact

[@GETBIG4WARD]

2 ain’t no way in hell you must have really like this woman 😅😅

[@melvinjames161]

Everything was perfect before I gave up my apartment and moved in. Don't do it, life experience. 😅😅

[@theeamazingkrabb5358]

Yeah, never ever move into a woman's place.

[@mcqueeninvestments5191]

Damn, that's heavy!

[@sa1lor_jarry139]

I think it'll only work (and should only be a thing) if the woman is widowed.

[@Richard-Reloaded]

Dealing with a woman who's husband died is bad luck

[@yobekorb]

​@@Richard-Reloaded not questioning you like that but by who's standard

[@Richard-Reloaded]

@@yobekorb mine.

[@chancebrown106]

Yeah cause it’s always a gr8 situation to be their Will Smith to their Tupac 🙃

[@rondolbalfour1856]

@@chancebrown106good answer

[@Laoriginal718]

The first caller already has a kid…..so he’s pretty much dating his equal.

[@legendarypsychomike4309]

Anton said are yall smoking crack tonight. That me rollin.

[@shinobirising8196]

That caller was full of cap. The REAL reason that men usually choose single mothers is because they are silently figuring that the woman is struggling alone, and is less likely to reject a man because they really need the help. Men think it's an easier choice. The woman will need them and will be more likely to want that man to stick around.

[@christophertaylor4340]

FACTS!! These are undesirable men looking for women in need.

[@sweetwonkahallelujah7016]

That happens a lot becuz young beautiful chicks wit no churren are very difficult to break in and tame

[@Haddonfield63]

Thank you. These dudes be lonely and desperate and know single moms is they best option

[@shinobirising8196]

@@sweetwonkahallelujah7016 Well, the fallacy is that ANY woman can be broken in and tamed. There is no substitute for a good upbringing paired with a good spirit and personality. And most of these women lack all of those things, and have no interest in cultivating them.

[@shinobirising8196]

@@Haddonfield63 Not the best option, but the easiest option. But shortcuts come with a price.

[@philipwhatley6742]

Let's not forget that women should be put under the same expectation as men. If men with no kids shouldn't date single mothers then women with no kids shouldn't date single fathers. It really is that simple. There are a few dating sites out there exclusively for single parents to find someone who also has kids.

[@Laoriginal718]

Agreed. As a childfree woman I avoid men with kids like Covid. I avoid men that have been previously married. I avoid beta males. I avoid men with mommy issues. Men with kids get really offended when you tell them straight up “I don’t entertain men with kids”. They get offended and I could care less. I will never entertain a man with a child. They are the bottom of the barrel.

[@hrrspaul4]

No stay off the dating market and raise your kids

[@philipwhatley6742]

@@hrrspaul4 both men and women

[@hrrspaul4]

@@philipwhatley6742 amen

[@XerxezsX]

Remember that on every birthday, Christmas, Thanksgiving, kindergarten graduation, elementary graduation, high school graduation, even when the kids get married the biological father is going to be showing up to all of that and he will be part of you for the rest of your life😮

[@sunishotra9958]

It was when he said "I made it through the storm" then the thunder and lightning went off in the background i spat my drink out with laughter.

[@b.a.baracus]

Captain save a 304 smh

[@King-ns7it]

And that's all it boils down to, he wants to save vvomen because he is a momma's boy, that probably doesn't know the truth of his mother and father's relationship. He sees vvomen as victims, unfortunately it's a lot of dudes out here like that. I could never add to another man's lineage, I never dated a vvoman with children, I've slept with a few but never been in a relationship.

[@cjfyre3914]

Anton is really in it for the betterment of the guys. He wants the best for these men. Despite him being firm and solid about what they need to do, he is still patient and kind. I love Anton’s spirit. Keep up the awesome work brotha!

[@damien82222]

He said their fathers for the second marriage So she had two baby fathers

[@Donmecca415]

Coworker is playing stepdad to a chick with 2 different baby daddies (he has no kids) and he thinks this is gonna workout.

[@rybackfrankie8679]

WTF...With all these childless women out there...why is he involved with her ? 🤔

[@isaacisgud]

Nice guys down bad

[@drillingig2368]

@@isaacisgudThey never learn.

[@Donmecca415]

@@rybackfrankie8679 that’s what I wanna know. It’s clear he doesn’t have people around him telling him that’s not the right move.

[@jlcarter04]

Shizzzzzzz 😂😂😂...

[@clowjones1665]

It's never a good choice I fought my stepfather

[@Richard-Reloaded]

Who won?

[@myerst52]

And he whooped yo ass didn't he?

[@Thefive5]

Yea he got beat cause he would've said .." I had to beat my stepdad a ss."😂😂😂

[@flawlessvic1649]

Sounds very very proud to be a "step sucka dad"...👀💪

[@LibraVibesSnice80]

I tell both my younger brothers all the time “Do not date single mothers!!” Before I was married I didn’t date men with children at all!!!

[@goodfellatv313]

She Agree With You Anton Should End This Debate

[@clydemeans781]

Brother this got me rolling at work

[@ethaonslaught]

There are no women outhere without kids. And wit women who have kids, just only date them when kids aren't around.

[@axxelfoley3304]

Silly ninjas born everyday B 😆 🤣 😊

[@deshawnwright2480]

Im wit you on this one anton

[@deemtime1007]

Trucking sound zesty as hell

[@IGStrangDaKang]

That feminine spirit he has is cuz he was raised by his mom!!

[@StevenSanchezWelding]

Exactly Thought it was just me.

[@alexanderdean1313]

Facts

[@SaiMugga]

I thought it was Shannon Sharpe 😂

[@Troygraced2300]

“Na you crazy”😂😂😂😂

[@SeriousBlackThought]

Being a step-daddy is not ideal. I wouldn't advise men to do it, but if you're in it, dont tolerate disrespect from the mother, kid(s), or their father(s). Good luck out here.

[@ronaldsuarez6389]

Still a hell nah

[@gedyx]

Doesn't matter when you are in a relationship anything is possible

[@mus434]

I wouldn't do it again, its to much stress taking care of a child thats not yours, and most women dont want to take care of your child as their own.

[@dany6781]

That’s so true! I would’ve never married a man with children. NEVER!!!!! I would’ve been the single broke Auntie. Alhamdulillah Allah made men more responsible than women.

[@Laoriginal718]

Because of women know that taking care of a kid that isn’t ours doesn’t benefit us. Us women know there is no benefit in being a step parent but most women won’t admit that to a man. As a childfree women I avoid men with kids at all cost!

[@mmmmmmmm-xp1mw]

​@@Laoriginal718wow just wow I'm screen shot this one

[@gedyx]

it doesn't matter step daddy or not,when you are in a relationship anything is possible

[@J-Wrapz]

‼️‼️‼️

[@SaniBravo]

24:00 Soon as you asked why they broke up how did I already know the answer? Because all of our BM’s are 304’s 💯

[@BjtheLawyer_]

Anton be egging them on 🤣

[@Laoriginal718]

The first caller is slow 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@kingmufasa366]

There’s always exceptions to the rule. However, it’s not the best move to make

[@brianfaulcon4500]

Great content men have to be guided better the future of our people depends on it

[@missjoy6685]

My husband told me straight up that he wouldn’t have married me if I kids and I was like “Good, you have a healthy dose or self-esteem”. These guys need some serious male mentors. I wish more black men thought higher of themselves 😢

[@thedon0516]

I think that's why the Redpill community exist, is to help us men and our self esteem. While I don't agree with all their practices but they have a lot valid points and good info 💯

[@exquisite921]

Being with a single mom doesn’t equate to low self esteem… the bigger issue is your husband under handedly telling you that he doesn’t love you unconditionally 🤐🤐🤐

[@cozyboyvon4000]

@@exquisite921because nothing is unconditional. Women expect that because yall grow up with fairy tales catered to yall. There’s conditions to provision and protection and having children is a deal breaker.

[@jlcarter04]

​​@@exquisite921because unconditional love doesn't exist. Even God himself has conditions with his love.

[@alpo723]

...SADD 😢😭

[@nujerusalemtv809]

PREACH!!!!

[@kendu7864]

This a crazy subject

[@Theyesman-gp9nc]

I love. When 2 grown man have. A. Conversation

[@txfaulk795]

Good show 👍🏾

[@marycronopulosraz9776]

No values.

[@mcqueeninvestments5191]

I know I hear a lot of guys say this is simp talk from some of these fellas but to me, coming from a man who grew up with a Step-Dad in the home, this all boils down to just 2 things... Which are, guys are genuinely just trying to be good human beings by accepting and helping the person they love w their children. The second is, a lot of men are just settling and feeling like there always has to be some women close to them and standards doesn't really matter like it did as young 20 something adults. I'm 39 and been single for the last 2 years bc I refuse to just take whatever is around me.

[@lisac12]

I love this show!!.. 😂

[@Deeman881]

He is always winning Step baby daddy of the year awards😂

[@DOR_OMJ]

She was throwing it back wasn’t she 🤣🤣

[@TheManifestationMovement]

"I know I know. It's sad."

[@Thefive5]

Trucker might be sweet its all in his tone😂😂😂

[@BlacHaze78]

I was thinking the same thing dude sounds soft.

[@GETBIG4WARD]

This should be a weekly thing I’m serious cause I’m sure it’s so many horror stories you can do it he rest of the year

[@DanielJamall]

A step baby daddy twice is wild 😜

[@antonioalexander2792]

Ain’t no way in hell imma be a step daddy especially at this age of my life when all my kids are grown except my daughter she’s 16 going on 17 this year

[@supersportlt1]

Okay so the last dude was getting cheated on and he’s still in denial 😂😂😂

[@ladellmimms]

Why is there so many though, I know there’s Billion plus people in the world but why every other woman in the U S not with their child’s father except widows, has to be damn near 3 out 4 now 😅

[@SuperBCHEDDA]

Great conversation!! And homie done lost his marbles I could see where he was coming from on one hand but on the flip side I've seen it destroy some good guys

[@Laoriginal718]

Being a step parent is by far the stupidest thing anyone can do.

[@calicocalthecopperkid7230]

Fool me once ,shame on you. Fool me twice...uh can't get fooled again😂

[@sifisomahlaba9438]

"the final scrowwwwl was"

[@cakesaregood5176]

Don’t never become a step, mother or father.

[@redpillscience1288]

1st guy was a super soaker simp...😂😂😂 Antone asked why.... Easy he had no other options lol

[@scorpiogod2628]

Man oh man! What's going on with these men? Good lord. 24:35 🤣🤣🤣

[@sewblue187]

If you a man in the comments and have kids with a woman that you are no longer with, be careful what you type because your own biological kids have or will have a step dad at some point and you will definitely want that person to treat your kids right. It’s too much evilness going on to speak ill of certain situations

[@isaacabrahammindset1]

That's a deal breaker for me. We can hang and chill, have fun, etc.. There is plenty of women that have great qualities with kids. But the level of responsibility and emotional connection is too intense for someone with no kids. Plus it's never really anytime. Plus you will have to step in and be a "MAN"! 😁

[@shawnorjiakor]

God forbid.... God forbid.... God forbid.... 🙅🏾‍♂️😂

[@user-gb5lh1vw2n]

If it doesn't work out right the first time it's not going to work the second time so why try it a 3rd time a old wise man once told me that a step 🛑 sign will always say stop every time you get to it anywhere you go it's not going to change.

[@501Caution]

Shittt! (If) I do it! The kids have to be Grown & Gone!

[@naptownfireman]

Not ideal is the truth! Trust me.

[@Loudwis]

Is they only goals is to make sure the kid is 18 than discard it? No it takes you actually being there

[@SaniBravo]

28:39 Yes it’s called gaslighting

[@jmatdhallen546]

Clearly that guy didn't learn anything . Smh...

[@supersportlt1]

She doesn’t have an answer for anything because it’s self explanatory 😂😂😂 fam

[@anthonyhunt7313]

These dudes wild 😂 I caint do it!

[@NiyaB81]

People with kids should date each other and the ones without should date each other.

[@jamessimmons3921]

Where she at? I can't find no woman with kids anywhere 😒

[@dallaswashington481]

2 each it's own

[@djaceproductions]

Once upon a time in the projects…YO…I damn there had to wreckahoe😂😂😂😂😂damn the Dean header tho

[@shawnorjiakor]

Step Baby Daddy 😂😂😂😂

[@marleyjanim5033]

How about adopting ? Like kart William did

[@CriticalTimez]

It does sound very contradictory for a guy with 3 baby momas and doesn't want ANY of them to say women with children dont meet their standards. WOOOOW!!!

[@uncensored6177]

Yea if a dude got kids & single, might as well mess with a woman with kids

[@leonsmith2190]

Bro I got a three part series on step baby daddy stories hollah

[@WifeyWalker-hl9ft]

Isn’t the caller a baby daddy? Am I hearing wrong. If so , he’s right where he belongs… lol isn’t he someone else baby daddy. Childless women don’t want that lol

[@Thefive5]

Being a baby daddy isn't the same as being a babymama and you know that

[@WifeyWalker-hl9ft]

@@Thefive5 You can say that but that is still incorrect… BOTH are not anybody’s first choice. Be real. They are competing with men that don’t have kids. I’m not a feminist or anything either(farrrr from it). I’m also happily married. Being a baby mama or a baby daddy both represent bad decision making and poor character judgment. If you say a baby daddy is a good look, I can’t help you…It is what it is.

[@Thefive5]

@WifeyWalker-hl9ft from my experience I've seen women turned on by a man that has kids especially if they are well takin care of...that's a big plus in alot of women eyes because it shows he's responsible and a real provider.

[@caldwmc]

Stepdaddy twice is nasty working my boi😂😂😂

[@ronaldsuarez6389]

Nastyboyz up 🤣

[@therealBillyRayValentine]

Anecdotally it works for some, but it’s always extenuating circumstances. If you’re older, established & want more children theoretically you could date a younger woman with middle school or high school aged kids. I say theoretically because her kids will be gone in a couple of years, but if it’s not that type of dynamic or circumstance then run or walk fast AF away.

[@TimeTravelingSalesMan]

If you are older and established you can easily find younger women without kids....especially if you are older and established!...Most women with High School kids are bordering the line of being too old to produce more....

[@naptownfireman]

They don’t be gone as fast as you think. They find ways to still be hanging around not doing shit. 😢

[@handsome_Xpress]

I’m telling you women feel entitled because of guys like him. the epitome of Captain save a304 2:47 304

[@loveplusfire]

If he ever gets divorced, he'll become a 3rd time step-baby daddy

[@TheLoganstreet]

Facts... don't do it especially when you have your own kids... That step kid and the moms will tag team again you and try to turn you against your own kids

[@prettybwillowbee7584]

This guy says he doesn't want women with kids but he has a daughter???

[@mus434]

Men don't have the same problem with their kids, most men don't bring the same problem, women don't have to provide for a man's child but he has to provide for both, how many women take financial responsibility for a stepchild?

[@billydiaz7892]

He’s 44 yrld..most people come with baggage at that age

[@williamscrivner9621]

That's a fool move.....n the end I lost houses n went to prison behind her sons....

[@mariongreen9065]

Let me explain something to y'all men, dont do it. My father told me to not deal with my daughter's mother and i didn't listen. He told me son she has 4 kids why you want a woman with that many children? You're a young man (22). You can get any woman you want. Guess what? I didnt listen. A lot of things that happen to us in life it's our fault. I couldve avoided this situation if i wouldnt listen to wise counsel, my father. I had to deal with 4 children thats not mines. Very little respect fellas. Im 41 and my daughter is 18 now. Im willing to start over but if i do shes going to be aroudn 25 with no children. I caught so much headaches and beat downs im not trying to compromised. Ever since i changed up my woman problems has been over. Learn from me and dont make the same mistakes I've made.

[@fuegoworld8761]

First caller is Turkey Meat

[@octavius12]

11:28 😂 anytime a black person start out with, “iight so…” clutch ya pearls 😳

[@midwestboxing4415]

It's only a possibility if you get with the lady and kids when they are babies, because if you get with them later then that way too much drama and weird circumstances especially if she has daughter's. Its a thankless job being a step partner

[@Alifeofadventures503]

What kinda weird circumstances

[@ronaldmiddleton808]

I actually think a woman dating with a baby is worse. Says a lot about her character to be honest. You just had a whole baby for another man and is now willing to seriously date a new guy? I think folks with young kids shouldn’t entertain dating seriously until their kid is at least 6 years old and that’s pushing it.

[@Laoriginal718]

It’s not a possibility under any circumstances