Once you have children its mot about you anymore. Its strictly about the children, they come first. Thats the problem with people. A nurse told me a womans body is designed to get pregnant. You have to think about what your doing. Dont have a baby as a income or retirement plan. Have them for yourself. Im trying to figure out why people spend so much at Christmas for children, Black people must stop it! Make the child special on their birthday.

I have a 28 year old and a 4 year old and I'm now 47 years old. I absolutely I'm enjoying this journey all over again. 1st child was in my 20's and co parenting. The 2nd child was at 44 but in a 15 year marriage. Definitely being married makes a huge difference. We are trying for another. You do sacrifice pieces of yourself for your children that I would gladly do all over again. The greatest gift I can leave in this world are my children.

Life is unpredictable; but it's a cycle just as death is...Not everyone are cut out to have children them, or want them...Everything is invested, just as everything is connected.

Over sexulalized culture.

Kids are a burden. Nobody can afford rent, utilities, and a decent lifestyle. Having kids just puts you in misery submerged in bills and unhappiness.

Anton, when are you going to kick Quinton off the show? The guy serves no purpose, and cuts everyone off.

Only if plant jobs around me, paid 100k with OT.

8:04 Slimmy dropping knowledge. 🙌🏼

38 no kids hearing this makes me appreciate all that free time and money

Tukay is right in two ways, having a pet is very similar and breeds traits and skills needed for raising children and that you will always raise your children ( more than likely how you were raised) and it will always be behind the curve, cuz you are experiencing the world as an adult at the same time as the child. As a childless man, i can understand that having children is always prepping for something that you can never prepare for , and that is the net negative of children. But you still raising them to the best of your ability and within reason, and you help yourself develop as a person, society as a whole, and lowkey get a second chance at molding a respectable citizen

If women want 1 kids or no kids it not worth married these women because they are too selfish 😢

TuKay--BE QUIET!!

I’ve had a wonderful experience with Dr Abiola on KZbin they have a great bedside manner and are always thorough with their care, I thank God I was able to get rid of Hiv permanently

Funny enough Aba N preach were once criticised by lefties, feminists etc because their content seemed to part of the manosphere or red pill adjacent. But once they fell out with Myron and fresh they went into overdrive on them before other red pillers. So they’re recent constant red pill criticism is either driven by personal beef or a grift to avoid the misogyny label and evade KZbin prison.

Micca don’t understand what culture truly means. She is literally describing different cultures, but saying it’s the education system

16% of Americans were responsible for the birth rate in America in 2024’. Anton you should go look at that most recent study. Immigrants procreated more than us last year here in our country.

Only have Kids When Your BOTH Ready to Your Husband ONLY after Use have put in Time Together, not Johnny Come Lately

Lies

Motivation goes up when you have kids. Because you need more to do for them and yourself.

I believe kids should be prepared for certain situations even if they are not supposed to experience it or never experience it. Eventually you have to let you're kids pass or fail but why can't we prepare them for it just in case. The world is definitely not Disneyland.

I’ve had a wonderful experience with Dr Abiola on KZbin they have a great bedside manner and are always thorough with their care, I thank God I was able to get rid of Hiv permanently

I h8 when women like, Keri act slow. She know what, Bro meant. I swear women are so annoying. And it's true, you don't know a true person until you live with them. That's why you have roommates in college dorms for example.

The government,and the tax payers,are exhausted from funding the out-of-wedlock,2 kids by 2 different fathers lifestyle. The courts are becoming less generous. No more awarding child support at alimony levels. And most importantly, Men have finally woken up to how being a step-dummy is a road to poverty and a lack of respect.

Ms. Cheyenne Bryant

You can’t get HIV/AIDS if you don’t get tested might be the most ignorant thing I’ve heard, you can’t get diagnosed if you don’t get tested but you can surely get infected

"Brad is taking his crumbs back" - A.C.

I had to click and make sure, this is a black community thing, and it’s a black woman. The guy she chose to deal with she probably didn’t have him vetted by an honorable man before laying with him relative or non-relative honorable man can check him before you even date. To be fair, no women of any race today coming from a specific socio economic upbringings aren’t doing this on average. The only difference is, non-black women choose our black men better than black women themselves do. There are many great black men willing to date great black women, it’s just these women will now have to compete with non-black women because of how women have allowed their peers, friends, and those who simply share the same gender and race to allow this to persist. Hot girls, doing bad all by yourself, not “needing a man” quotable. Not a dog on black women as there are many amazing black women out there who deserve a man but you have to pick right to be that. You have to get him vetted by another man. Kids are very worth it when you have a loving partner and a financial plan, women pick who make their vagina tingle over who has a track record of being a great candidate for a father. A guy whose punctual, responsible, can hold a job, probably not the most stylish but that’s where his woman should come in.. y’all don’t do that. He just don’t got it, gets passed up, white women, Latina women, Asian women, are seeing a black man who’s on point and intentional how he moves despite everything else. That’s why they aren’t on social media having these talks or issues en masse. Every other weekend there is something being talked about with the inadequacies of the black community. Again no diss many great bw, but like how we get overshadowed by thugs and everything as a culture. Y’all get overshadowed by unruly wig patting women

Unfortunately a lot of people don’t get tested. Not being taught when we were young and our environment.. people be careless and reckless.

HoustAtlantaVegas!😮😢🤢🤮🤡💩🗑️

He wasn’t getting no white chics when he was at the PWI, so that’s why he thinks they are not screwing like black chics. I see why, he talks out his azz too much.

At a glance. In the United States, 19% of new HIV diagnoses in 2021 were among young people aged 13-24. Youth need to know their HIV status to stay healthy. Getting more youth tested for HIV is important for prevention, since only 6% of high school students have ever been tested. - CDC

I tell men if they want to be successful with the least amount of resistance DON'T HAVE KIDS in the U.S. A.

Not everyone is meant to have a family of their own. It takes a great level of selflessness, responsibility, patience and commitment to be a good one. If all traits aren't in you? Dont do it. We don't need anymore fuked up people being produced

Everyone should NOT have a microphone. It’s in their best interest to STFU and listen.

Omg I'm loosing brain cells listening to him yikes. Don't have him on no more

I Love My Seeds. Wish I Had More Around The Same Age. You Gonna Expect Somebody Else Seed To Takecare Of Ya Old Ash No Matter How Much Money You Have. Why Not It Be Ya Own Seeds. My Grandmother Had 13 Seeds. My Aunts Tookcare Of Her In Her Old Age All The Way Up Until She Died.

Its super simple. If you can not think about or care about anyone other then yourself. If you can't make sacrifices or be ok with not being able to do things do not have kids. The last thing we need is more unloved and abused kids. We got so many ppl who have kids and look at them like a chain or a parasite and they resent or even hate them. Just keep living your life for yourself i ain't mad at it do you not everyone needs a child.

this guy said ' me and my dad was runnin train!" with mighty fervor. That was the most egregious thing I've heard this year 😄

Some people should have kids and some people shouldn't but unfortunately, a lot of people who shouldn't have kids do and vise versa

You can't get child support with a pit bull.

Children are good if you plan for it that's why they say plan Parenthood you suppose to plan your pregnancy with a quality provider husband

😂😂😂😂 Keri funny as hell, ( You got that from what Tukay just said) , you didn’t have to blast that man like that 😂😂😂☠️☠️☠️☠️

That man is wrong dogs love you more than your kids

You really are suppose to be married before you have children, not single.

The ones who say they don't know if its worth having a child. Will think its worth it in getting a child support check every month for the next 20 years. Especially if the guy has a good job.

Tukay is being pragmatic and realistic as a father.. Keri was using feelings!.

I have more respect for someone who says they dont want kids vs someone who have them recklessly creating broken homes etc.

Each woman to her own

2:00 see what they missed is the fact that black females practice the 80/20 rule more than any other demographic of people [ Mgtow Quotes volume-1]💊📒

Never met a woman who said that. It might not be easy all the time but neither is life. Tf is this nonsense?