My wife used to beat me and bring men to my own house - James Njenga | Tuko Talks | Tuko TV

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[@pshamu1919]

Omg Thank you for the English subtitles!!! I love watching Tuko programs. Biggest fan from Zimbabwe😊😊😊

[@mutyabamilca7587]

Much love from uganda I love you Lynn

[@rosemarykatogomusanga1619]

Love you Lynn. Watching from Europe

[@10str80]

Do you help this people in any ama ni story tu mna piga na wenye shida? Swali tu

[@nyakatocatherinezion8882]

Thank you for the English subtitles

[@aminajoseph1409]

Marrying a wrong woman or man is the greatest mistake anyone can make and is a regret for life

[@annbrandon9126]

True

[@Theanonymousgorgeous254]

It's simple. Pack and take a walk.

[@henrynganga8265]

how will you know whether your man or woman is the wright one na mumekaa naye na mkazaa watoto. mi naona hii ni tamaa tu ilimuingia huyo mwanamke

[@gelone1439]

Very true

[@puritywamboi4040]

@@Theanonymousgorgeous254 its not that simple the way ure saying haijakufika

[@Ericmwangii]

If you think you have problems listen to this man Then you will thank the Lord for your small problems

[@didahshee1877]

In Islam we say alhamdulilah 🤲🏼

[@chepkorireddah323]

Kabisa

[@nyotamutobo1700]

This man is really kind and he proves it. I admire his qualities especially when he mentions that his new wife has accepted his children. That statement speaks volumes about him

[@andrewnelson3470]

Am Ugandan but I have voted this program to be the best and life changing program in the world 🌎

[@hisgracewali701]

Omanyi swahili

[@maryamojong3114]

@@hisgracewali701 katono katono

[@wekesaalice5506]

Hello my bro

[@brendasiespmamayao7797]

Congratulations lynn in Tuko true this is an inspirational platform..be strong James

[@halimak5864]

I olso love her program since I know kiswahili I actually enjoy more ov kenyan programs watch dem on citizen tv

[@vennyg8144]

Getting fake documents should get her to jail, our system is just too corrupt

[@Koinoniainkenya]

I agree with you 100% the man couldn't have lost anything even one. The people who participated in false documents could have been the ones to be questioned and put to jail, but corruption is horrible in our country

[@rosemarykatogomusanga1619]

Oh you right...system iko corrupt sanaaa

[@magynzioka1122]

Shida ina kuja wakati ni mama watoto uwezi mfunga

[@graciela9692]

I thought my country was corrupt but Kenya is so corrupt.

[@beatricewanjiku8454]

CIDs in Kenya should get hold of that woman and put her behind the bars. She should be never enjoy the properties this man sweat for. She is like a murderer if she can forge death certificate of her own husband knowing very well he is not dead. Pls jail her even if the guy forgave her so that others who have such rotten ideas can LEA4RN.

[@shalom3522]

God obviously allowed you to go through this for the sake for other voiceless men. Bless your heart for sharing your story. So inspiring. It takes a broken man not to fight back. Thank God for restoration at the end

[@mercymungai812]

True

[@j.munenekingdom28]

What a strong getleman. God will bless you greatly.

[@sallysarch9441]

Strong na alichapangwa

[@الوردالورد-ز4غ]

Eeh ni strong coz alitetea kanisa la Mungu Ana taji mbinguni

[@elizabethwanjiku6281]

..is accepting Christ as your Savior. Huyi ni mungu tu amemueka and his children. May God bless human and His family

[@Honest_Man]

@@sallysarch9441 you don't have to be sarcastic

[@titilayovlogs6387]

How is he even sure the kids are his. That’s one hell of a promiscuous lady.

[@aminajoseph1409]

Exactly what I was thinking let him do DNA so he can be sure

[@henrynganga8265]

watoi ni wake coz amewalea. to be the real father does not matter. ni wamama wangapi tuko nao single mothers? wanaume walio wapea watoto wako wapi?

[@Majosh11]

At this point it would not matter at all. This is their beloved father with or without his DNA. Children are very innocent victims and should never be made to suffer for the sins of their parents

[@Missforexcharts]

@@Majosh11 but kids have the right to know thier real biological father too,to avoid marrying thier biological sister/brothers, I am a victim of this n dated my brother jus tht we were young never had sex

[@ichooseviolence2532]

@@henrynganga8265 ukimpata akiwa single mother ni sawa but the vice versa you saying hio apana

[@Quilant749]

The seven dislike are ex-wife and her thugs, ushindwe kwa damu y Yesu Christo

[@response7296]

Exactly. She is so evil.

[@fisherwoman546]

Satan and his servants have added other dislikes...

[@alfredwanga7850]

Hahaha

[@Missforexcharts]

😂😂😂😂😂😂true

[@childofthemighty1341]

And the askari

[@wckimani]

Kwani ni brother ya professor Hamo🤣🤣🤣

[@flickers9181]

You think this story is a joke🖕

[@amboka2001]

Willie C. Kimani I thought it was Professor Hamo

[@nyamrerkelvin]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@alphyzqrw7222]

😆😆😆😄😄

[@skyelukiz3420]

Willie C. Kimani Ikr???

[@s.koileken369]

Been single for 20 years never thought of marriage again after a painful divorce. Never looked back again. Marriage is a simple act but getting out of it is a real nightmare, especially when the other partner frustrates your choice.

[@teresawandera6472]

It always comes back and eats them I don't understand how people destroy their home with their own hands

[@zipporahmushala489]

I am Zambian and I use this show to get advice so that I don't make the wrong choices before marriage.

[@hopeinallah5112]

Lyn your chanel is so authentic . You seem like u genuinely care . Weldone good job

[@fisherwoman546]

True.

[@brendablessed1223]

I just love her

[@elizmutai9562]

Keep it up lynn ngugi

[@princesskay1573]

My brother going through same,😭 Just that he’s not a bishop It hurts aki Lynn come let him share his story

[@almakwami1825]

What is he doing.Does he not know the home becomes polluted and a curse on it.

[@truepeace8906]

Domestic violence is not only experienced by women and girls there are some eveil women who are abusing mem 24/7 the law need to balance to tackle the issue

[@kaylyntracy2692]

Jesus , i wonder why the good men go to the wrong women and the wrong men go to the good women , Sister help your brother . Get evidence and take the lady to jail to fight with her ancestors.

[@scovyaporsha777]

Woye pole. That's awful

[@samuelmwangi9780]

Just keep praying without seizing and he will be free from her

[@misspamba1]

We need to get go fund me for this guy’s work

[@childofthemighty1341]

Any woman who leaves her children behind is a bad woman and a dangerous one too. Thank God for your children and teacher them to be great women. You are strong

[@barnskiugs7169]

The kind of spirit and determination that this man has is out of this world...Losing everything and rising up again when you're past your youthful age is not easy...Many people can easily turn into drugs, depression or even suicide when faced with such situations..

[@ysteffbanda9596]

It is God's way of blessing him...usually the one who is wronged is the one that God blesses, Amem amen

[@godsfavour5665]

You can not kill what God has blessed

[@Tahira7400]

Evil has no gender

[@jennyk1509]

Amen in Jesus name

[@shining_light1]

This story tells it all... Aliona mali, pesa na akasahau mambo ya watoto. Ata ukiangalia hii story ya alikaa miaka mingi mbila watoto alijua sababu. Mtumishi wa Mungu ulikuwa umeoa jabazi sio mke. Am happy you got to make it again in life and rised your children and educated them. God bless you.

[@dadach1338]

This is a brave man who has subdued a vicious lioness. I'm glad there are good Samaritan women out there.

[@tune4ward19]

Wow 🤩 😳 as a Nigerian American this story trumps all others I’ve heard! ~ thanks to Elohim that he survived this Monster of a female....Wheeew!😩😕😫😟

[@Victoria-ki1fk]

This channel is priceless.

[@ysteffbanda9596]

So true

[@raychellenajimesi7619]

Wow! Lynn Ngugi, you're one of the best journalists in Kenya. You know how to choose your guests so well. Your style is professional. You don't try to act like somine else..Kaa hivyo hivyo..Will continue to be your fan here..Bishop God bless you. Thank you fir taking care of the children. Bushop should now go international and share his story beyond Kenya. I am with some people from other countries, they're asking for him to travel abroad..

[@gmfamily9173]

If you're Loyal No one Can Defeat you Look At This Father Right Now😭

[@quinncordelia4902]

Learning from failure boosts a leader's chance of staying ahead of his standards. Leaders who rise quickly after falling are always stable.

[@mtuwawatuhoyee6549]

Ulifanya vena kuoa tena bure huyo alikuwa seitani.

[@quinncordelia4902]

@@mtuwawatuhoyee6549 kweli shetani ndani yake

[@vionasindani1206]

I feel your shoes Daddy,may God bless you and your family,I'm proud of you Daddy,kulea watoto mzazi mmoja si kitu raisi,,,

[@veronicahkelvins1137]

That was one hell of a woman😳😳

[@veronicahkelvins1137]

@Natty Rebel am fine

[@tichipsmobile4936]

Thankyou tuko snd jornalist for presenting the strugle of kenyan men and man

[@fisherwoman546]

Huku kwetu kuna mwengine hupigwa...but I can understand...coz the wife is rich and he has no Job....and he also told me that he loves his wife and children too much to ever leave them....

[@millyadhiambo238]

God is a God of restoration n favour ,like He difficile 4 job n Joseph.

[@thato97]

Have you noticed that men like abusive women? Many good and disciplined women are not married compared to arrogant gold diggers. 🤷‍♀️

[@zainabinti5170]

😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😅

[@tinaagatha]

Its just that abusive women pretend to be good and would do anything to get a man and when they are in marriage and sealed it with a child they release their fangs

[@thato97]

@@tinaagatha You said it all.

[@susanevans8691]

i am crying reading this as my brother has gone through the same. i live in the UK but originary from South Africa where my brother is . It is thrue Man does not like talking about this . thanks for sharing.

[@Gatheri1]

i recall going on a date with some very beautiful lady me and her were getting very well until she one day told me how she beat the hell out of her ex.mangumi mateke.i recall laughing but man.i blocked her immediately i got home never to call/txt again coz i realised i could one day be the victim

[@CAROLtotsm]

🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 I have laughed wah

[@samsonkeya50]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@phionahodhiambo9776]

Waaaaah you have made my day

[@tichipsmobile4936]

That devil woman must be arrested and charged.

[@faygracah4394]

For a moment thought ni professor Hamo the comedian mnafanana

[@brendablessed1223]

Aki sana

[@paulinegathuri1786]

haha me too

[@bosirecornelius2390]

Need too join

[@imanigg8101]

Mpaka his humor

[@daisyochieng2344]

Hata venye anaongea

[@briankanja]

the biggest decision you can make in your life,is choosing whom to marry.

[@willyclinton7160]

Yah,choosing the right person

[@easterpatelawadh3963]

You can never find the right person. You just ask God to give you someone worthy and compatible

[@dorcuskencey6816]

Surely.....I'm so sorry bishop everything you lost in the name of your so called wife God will give them back to you one by one. The God you serve will shame her until she'll come back crawling to ask for your forgiveness especially living the kids with you at that different ages when they needed her the most😠. Shame on her!!!!

[@rosemarykatogomusanga1619]

Am still repeating watching this Story.... My God Bless you Man .watching from Germany

[@freshiahwanjiru4988]

You are a strong man may GOD always protect your one of a kind You fought a great fight @Lynn great job

[@mamitomamita6284]

pengine huyo mama hana akili nzuri

[@jojo47322]

My goodness what a story!! I will never do this to my husband help me Lord

[@ysteffbanda9596]

Proverbs 31:10~31 The woman who fears the Lord

[@mirriammukai6004]

So painful. 😭😭😭😭😭few can do what you did. God bless you

[@ruthoduor3543]

God is amazing God,I feel like crying Pastor u are one in a million.what acaring uninfluenced man of God.

[@oluakinwale4859]

I thank u for ur courage coming forward. There are countless men going through the same experience. Men finds it shameful coming out. Well done man! It's not only women that experience DV.

[@scottkeita]

too much truth in this video....This man is a HERO .... mwenzako akinyolewa chako kitie maji

[@missnellytv2149]

This so bad... falling into evil 😭😭💔 love love love why love...u make people suffer

[@VanOto-h7e]

Mbona watu waki pata dhahabu wanachezea Mungu turehemu😢

[@NyarRailakende]

Such a disheartening story, but am so proud of this pastor for standing firm..Anne greetings from Iceland Reykjavik

[@antonicakiala7373]

There’s power in telling your story and you have allowed people to do that all glory to God for making this your calling and purpose

[@mikaabrahams7426]

I was confuse, living in a Self confuse room, now thats a first! He funny too:) not many out like u out there. GreAt Dad!

[@eunicefaith6691]

I have listen to this man again in kikuyu diaspora tv;you are a amazing man of God;and I pray for God to continue blessing you abundantly for not neglecting your own children it's shame to see how womens has turn to be animals even not having mercy on their own childrens

[@kevohwapipelinetransami4351]

"Na nilioa mrembo kuliko yeye"🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@kate4kanini]

I bet you that witch heard that and she is seriously completing suicide.

[@jackieben1844]

Good

[@jayr1472]

Na haturudiani katu,!

[@CarriedbyGod254]

Shida ni kukimbisha urembo

[@rodahrichard5546]

Men please come out like this Man of God and speak out. Thank you Bishop for sharing your story.

[@ednahkemunto5086]

True, there are demon-possessed people, We thank God you came to realize her - May you be BLESSED and be protected by the Blood of Jesus

[@ongachiloicekajilwa5981]

Thanks Bishop Njenga for standing strong for your kids, and handing your battle to God. The Bible says "Every year that the locusts have consumed God will give back double double" and here you are. Salute.

[@marthakabalika595]

Wow! This is so heartbreaking! Sorry sana Bishop!

[@paulinesdiary]

this man is very strong i honour such men we have . Mr James Njenga i respect you sir

[@garettclement6671]

You don't vacate your property because someone else was conned into buying it. The conned person follows the case while the rightful owner is just a witness. What laws was the court applying?

[@bornofgod2141]

How are some people so very evil!! But we serve a good God. He has given Mr.James strength and grace for a thousand lifetimes. Mungu asante For Mr. James. Such a powerful testimony.

[@jacintamuiruri9507]

May GOD bless Mr mwenda.

[@kimani754]

Lynn is doing a very commendable job..

[@sarahngugi7122]

True those family meeting has no solutions to any marriage.

[@darlingtonejjuma4101]

U are purely right

[@sarahngugi7122]

@@darlingtonejjuma4101 very only God who can be once solution you just tell them your problem and they just leave the two to decide for themselves coz after all they are both in a room and God being the center of them.

[@darlingtonejjuma4101]

@@sarahngugi7122 they pretend to solve the problem bt in reality they are looking forward to muchene the moment u leave

[@sarahngugi7122]

@@darlingtonejjuma4101 very true

[@agesag.m2476]

Lynn,💡💡💡💡💡

[@lilykero8962]

U heard this " self_confused room " for the first tym.

[@wemakalamu3538]

😃😃😃😃self confused

[@yudelleanlisatajirikenyana4519]

Lily Kero 🤣🤣🤣 nimejua sahii pia 🤣🤣🤣

[@winnnievaentine9518]

Lucky you

[@jackieben1844]

Seriously...ndio kitchen bathroom,bed room

[@nzisaa]

I would love to hear more stories about what men go through... We are always listening to what females go through or to women playing victim..

[@ysteffbanda9596]

Hey Euny

[@agesag.m2476]

True

[@geoffreymwangi6627]

Pastor you are One and half Man.A God gifted man even if you don't know the Exactly whether all children r yours biologically. God bless you Very much.

[@lydiahkaimuri2729]

Always God has a plan. No wonder my song says He's not forgotten us.our lives in His hands

[@miriammukenyi2246]

Imani yako naikuponye pastor, God loves you sooo much

[@thomasm5796]

Love how our guest paints a vivid picture - really laughed out loud when the guest said vile mlango ulipigwa chai ikamwagika. Faced the scenario once upon a time.

[@msibocharity4300]

I request tuko TV this evil people to be displayed with their photos so that people don't fall in their problems again.

[@allanwendo2825]

😂😂😂

[@snellasabrina1633]

True

[@martinmusomba7220]

no charity let it be

[@umugwanezasandrine3527]

Am not sure if it is allowed,but just let them go ,God knows them and they will pay for their sins no matter what

[@salemmwahu8829]

My dear u can't do that without hearing the other side of the story.....pple are fake, no one to trust!

[@joycewambuikiongojoyful3973]

Lynn. You are an amazing lady and that interview was a great lesson to those who want marriage. It's true it's good to find out the history of your future partner. Am happy been single. Be careful people out there when dating. God bless that Apostle.

[@andesoleonidah8589]

may the lord remember marriages in jesus name

[@jacintamuiruri9507]

Aaaaamen.

[@prettysue4318]

Andeso Leonidah Amen

[@jumajaffary9698]

Jesus doesn't help my friend

[@paultoday610]

@@jumajaffary9698 who else can?

[@bekathiongo359]

🙏🙏🙏

[@jacintamuiruri9507]

Mungu afanye barabara ya huyu mwanamke terezi kabisa asikufikie bishop.

[@penanauae316]

Ni bishop

[@princesssitora4651]

So sad 😭. Many pastors n Bishops are going through this kind of torture from their wives for fear of their churches collapsing ,if they dare defend themselves .

[@isabellakahawa5824]

Jamie Mo vary vary true

[@rynelorandrichierynelorand4515]

Even the wives

[@trizahwariara597]

Wow so ata wanaume wanaumizwa vibaya hivyo🙆‍♀️this is sad so very painful indeed 😭

[@prettysue4318]

Lord Jesus ur faithful u never live the ones who keep trusting in u 🙏🏼

[@aminajoseph1409]

Am sure she will be regretting her actions by now but too late

[@tulifranz9336]

With a wife like that, it's possible he is not the biological father of all their children.

[@clintonkaingu4343]

Yu have said it all

[@magynzioka1122]

@@clintonkaingu4343 watoto walikua wa yule asikari

[@florencemito1467]

I'm proud of you man of God. I'm challenged by your humility. You are a man after God's own heart!

[@sweetmumwake9729]

Pole sana nimewahizikia hii story yako kwa Radio jambo. It hearts big really

[@nomzomhlekona]

This is heartbreaking 💔

[@nellymwangilwa4288]

What goes around always comes back around,may God bless pastor and one day your X wife will give an account before the lord

[@blackieja]

He is one if the good fathers out and those are the ones we rarely hear about. May God bless him and his family always.

[@henrymwangi6465]

The most amazing thing is that our law enforcement even after the case of forgery ,they can't take any effort.

[@myexpatlife9179]

she should be in jail

[@priscachakwenya1315]

Thought Zimbabwe is the only country with worst corruption ,your country is even worse guys, Zim is better

[@rosekubano3386]

Why do you attend court and you died?

[@sweetmumwake9729]

Oooh My God bless this man back

[@beckybeto3781]

Amen

[@sweetmumwake9729]

@@beckybeto3781 Amen Amen. .Niliwahi sikia hii story kwa Radio jambo.

[@lorrainelollio9071]

You're a great man Bishop

[@chocolateblended]

Love this interview!

[@samahstyles6776]

When a man is being abused by a woman people will say maybe he started bitting him first but a woman being beaten everybody will feel sorry for her kuddos to him for speaking about it not every man can speak about it bless him

[@emmahwaithira6842]

Mwanamke akipata mume mzuri anamtesa, na vile kupata a responsible one ni ngumu,,, Mr.Njenga may God bless you

[@sallysarch9441]

It’s good to hear both sides of the story. Tujue ukweli

[@mercyzephania5507]

Kabisaaaa

[@candyo4670]

very true.

[@maxmwangi9387]

When a man complains of being battered there is always the other side of the story but kama ni mwanamke hakunanga MTU anataka kujua the other side..

[@candyo4670]

@@maxmwangi9387 personally I always want to know both sides of the situation Iregardless of the gender. But I understand where you're coming from

[@maxmwangi9387]

@@candyo4670 I don't think you understand where am coming from first.. Second, there is always this believe among people that mwanaume akichapwa there must be something amefanya ama kuna another side of the story..domestic violence is wrong no matter what..no matter the reason..there are men out here who are good natured and don't believe in revenge or beating their wives..when a woman is battered, there is no comment nishawahi ona ati MTU anataka kujua the other side,man is always wrong.I just hate the double standards..nothing personal ..*smile#

[@user-123amm]

Am glad u share both stories men and women. To bring aware of domestic violence for men too. Its very rare u see this and even to make men to be able to speak out about this. Kudos👏🏻👏🏻

[@brendaondieki6255]

Why is that woman free she should be in jail if she looked for goons to kill the man.

[@MrKevin90]

Brenda Ondieki The justice system in Kenya isn’t always effective

[@mountzionsanctuary-obadiah9046]

This is a testimony and a half. God stands with His servants. Gosh whats happening in this world especially Kenya

[@kbm241]

After getting the first kid,she started going out....According to my understanding, the children aren his.

[@christinekerubo8464]

My thinking too

[@joyokwany8879]

Not his kids especially since that's where the wife started despising him. Only DNA tests can prove but he's raised them and that's enough

[@blackieja]

@@joyokwany8879 amen to that and father doesn't have to be the sperm donor a father is what this man is, he and his children are truly blessed.

[@gabistan2007]

Many women do it. After first baby they get crazy of sex.

[@mwendwakjulius8919]

My thinking too

[@DanielWambua-q7x]

Find the wife for the other side of the coin. The Bishop is not truthful.

[@Karenjuken]

The way she was moving out can the Bishop attest the children are his? In his shoes I'd go for a DNA

[@mildredtsisika]

Does it make any difference? The kids love n have rejected their mother. Tha is all that matters now.

[@julianamalinda2357]

Bishop that was a way God was making you a greater man of God your blessed and I pray that Anointing God has blessed you with let it not by pass me and make me to be good wife and a mother of family

[@jaelowuor9161]

Ilisemwa after God fear women,mwanamke ndio binadam aliwahi meet the devil face to face..pole man of God ....aki women

[@joyokwany8879]

So, he says he went to look for a wife who wasn't a single mom, but here he was with four kids that the new wife took as her own! Double standards, love should not prejudice single women - that's the only part that let me down. But generally speaking, he's character is admirable as a father.

[@a.muchemi4360]

He went to look for a wife for sure he got the one who was single sure i think if he has kids he would agreed

[@rosemawia4239]

Wa!! Shetani ashidwe, unafukuza Mme wako juu ya pesa, naye die amekutafutia, malipo ni apa nduniani,

[@jackieben1844]

99%ya single ladies wameacha ndoa zao ....so hakutaka kuchukua second hand

[@a.k.5820]

People are really passing through the sh* out there. God help us!

[@jacquelinemumbe5557]

I thank God coz eventually this man of God walked out victorious

[@evenaftali9411]

I agree with you. He's a good father and God fearing. God has lifted him up.

[@andrewmwangi5396]

So sad. This is exactly my story, and it is one year since she left with one of her military boyfriends. I'm glad she left, but I'm sad for our child (who I'm not even sure was mine).Fight on brother. Narcissists are everywhere and they are incurable.

[@naxiz_kenya2805]

man..... life is tough for men

[@suleiman2310]

Take heart..

[@nyamburanjengah5797]

I wish I can get a man like this