Bilal's Ex-Wife THROWS SHADE at Shaeeda on Tell-All | 90 Day Fiancé

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[@mythots]

I honestly thought the ex-wife would redeem herself and make amends with Shaeeda but NOPE..

[@missbelle_elle]

From day one I felt that vibe. No questions asked.

[@megansstallion818]

Bilal and the ex-wife were exactly like each other that's why it didn't work

[@texasgina]

She’s jealous

[@adamjaxn3156]

Shaeeda reminds me of a story a friend's mom once told me. Her sister was in an arranged marriage at 15 to someone in his late 20s. He wouldn't allow her to have any friends that weren't friends with him and she only saw relatives during big gatherings. She said her sister hasn't cracked a smile since the day before her wedding. If Shaeeda can't run, she needs a relative to get her out of there.

[@hustle_simmons]

Your hopes were too high. I could tell the ex wife would still be a jerk.

[@KuraYou]

You're not giving Shaeeda's outfit enough credit. She's a starry night sky! With her earrings being bright stars. Absolutely loved the look.

[@roxanne4820]

yes! 100% the best dressed person on that tell-all

[@gene5148]

Best dressed on the outside but sad and miserable on the inside and the stress is beginning to show on her face.

[@cherylray9532]

I wanted to cry for Shaeeda, seriously

[@coahomma6794]

@@gene5148 Sums her up pretty well on here so so sad!

[@binasarmah1486]

Shaeeda always present well with dress and personality. Bilal present very sophisticated with dress but his personality is very manipulative.

[@yvonnel1942]

The side eye Kara gave Guillermo when he said he wanted to like Bilal omfg

[@hopkinsrebecca89]

When he was saying it, I thought he was talking to shaeeda maybe.. not bilal lol everyone was so confused

[@doctorposting]

kara shoulda been like “WHY”

[@HNA6663]

She's like " stfu, lil boy, you don't know what you want yet....other than this 🐱" ....🤣😭

[@hammyandguineakids]

He is just a kid😂

[@Iron678Maiden]

Can Kobe and Sheeda be together they’re both good people and deserve better. Bilal and Emily can go cry

[@noliberalzone1533]

Yes!!!!! That would be an amazing show 😍

[@user-pt3uu4wq3i]

And they both are very attractive! ❤

[@nanatech9547]

But what car Kobe drives?

[@alessandrajackson3768]

A power couple

[@Creativeambitionz_LLC]

And kobe will give her all the babies she wants with his fertile ass 🤣

[@gigi4love990]

The ex-wife is screaming pick me and it's sick. So he was controlling toward you and gave you no grace when you were raising your young kids, but you still feel the need to tear down his new wife for not liking those same behaviors? Sis stfu. Also you mean to tell me your husband lived in that house with you and did barely anything to at least fix it up a little for your family??? Idk what their finances were like then but damn! I hope and PRAY Shaeeda makes a ton of money so she that if she needs to leave this man she can do so comfortably.

[@sue4578]

I was thinking that too.. just because it’s a child hood home why hasn’t he fixed it up even a bit? Made it look a little nicer/modern or something

[@shevaunbryant8554]

The woman left that man and remarried. She is speaking the truth and some how y’all don’t like it

[@dhglowlightblue]

Yeah, the part where she is like “I was so hurt for him when Shaeeda didn’t react positively to the rusty, broken down home…I myself would never react that way 🥺” totally screamed ‘pick me’ 🙄 The ex-wife treats Shaeeda like some gold-digging homewrecker, and it’s so inappropriate

[@islandergal4970]

Hope she gets her green card and finds a real man. This moron is SO ABUSIVE. I've been there. It's mental torture and you eventually second guess your own reality. At this point I wouldn't blame her to bounce after she got her green card (not sure if she got it), she deserves to live happy in America.

[@lnaph]

Me neither. I hope she does. I feel so badly for her that they have made her question her reality and experience of his abuse that she is deciding to stay.

[@MissKashira]

I don't think she cares about a green card. I think she sees him as her last shot at a husband and a child and will ride this leaky boat all the way to the ocean floor. I bet he's snipped or something and hasn't told her cause all he sees is a sex slave and a maid.

[@jokbok995]

@@kemzyacco5629 she has two sisters living in New York

[@jokbok995]

Tbh I dont think shaeeda will leave Because she knows her position 38 years old,muslim, wants to have children with a man who has some kind of money and status She doesnt have the time to invest in someone New Especially Because she and bilal were talking for 2 years

[@amandam480]

@@jokbok995 agreed she is desperate. Hope she does manage to have children as Bilal has said he doesn't want any more. If she has kids hope she runs. Sigh... This is not good.

[@fluffystraightjacket733]

With the 'prank' I wish someone would have mentioned the fact that Shaeeda was completely jetlaged and was on a flight for 10+ hours

[@user-pt3uu4wq3i]

I still can't believe they did that too her! I thought it was cruel!

[@TrapphouseLISE]

Yes I never see anyone mention this!

[@GG-qy2wy]

Exactly!! Bilal and nasty ex-wife have selective memory. Being pranked is no fun. Being pranked after a long flight is truly disgusting!

[@deborahdonnelly8423]

I agree. It was a terrible prank for someone not even jet lagged.

[@skyechild]

On a long flight where the expectation has already been set to expect luxury once there

[@thechanges2327]

Shaeeda is never going to be happy in this relationship. Dealing with a controlling, whiny, disrespectful, contradicting, narcissist where everyone is on HIS side and not on hers, it's going to be hell for her. And at the end of it, if she leaves, all the blame is going to be placed on her like everything else is. I'm sorry but wanting to have a baby is not that important to suffer that. Not in a million years.

[@miscreantsrule2000]

She in it for the financial security

[@24Lorn]

I agree, but I'm gonna rephrase something of your comment: having a baby is very important for those who dream of parenthood, and that's WHY she should leave immediately and not suffer that!! Never, NEVER have kids with someone you can't trust or you can't even get along! It's a terrible source of problems for you and, most of all, for your possible offspring. Shaeeda is still young enough to find the lifepartner she deserves and the appropriate father of her kids! It's not too late!

[@deborahdonnelly8423]

Maybe she’ll go home with a baby IN 2 YEARS. BUT SHE DEFINITELY should have had her own lawyer to look out for her interests

[@deborahdonnelly8423]

@@24Lorn She’s 37 yo and her clock IS TICKING!

[@Ass_of_Amalek]

it might be less stressful to be a single mom than to have a kid with bilal.

[@kapru909]

Bilal’s mom, sister, and ex wife are his enablers. Shaeeda doesn’t get the shine and love from them because she’s not willing to enable him fully.

[@Ajhcr]

Too true. She will never get even a percentage of her emotional needs met by this man. Even his mother was like “ your gonna just need to submit to avoid the conflict.” In so many words. 🤢🤮

[@yaoshiily]

the ex is such a pick me

[@amandam480]

@@Ajhcr Shes trapped and won't leave as she's desperate for kids. His family look down on her. So sad...

[@101hamilton]

This isn’t going to end well for Shaeeda. Bilal comes across as a toxic narcissist who will wear her down if she doesn’t get out of this relationship. Imagine the gaslighting/abuse that goes on behind closed doors that isn’t show on television. Run away from this relationship Shaeeda!

[@idesireit31]

That's exactly what he does.

[@marialawson8751]

You are absolutely correct.

[@EbonnieTaylor]

Crazy thing is her face at the reunion is already showing the stress. I wish she left

[@jokbok995]

I think bilal is not the sweetest but I dont think Shaeeda would accept abuse by some men Like she married this man for a reason so I think he is more Nice to her than being mean which we didnt see a lot 90 day fiance is still a show who likes to show drama

[@theblacksmith7112]

@@jokbok995 Yes, the reason she married him is his money, why else would she take the abuse that he gives her

[@veronamarie]

Bilal does not want to change. He’s very manipulative and he starves her from what she really wants just to give her a crumb of what she’s asking for and have her be grateful for it. He does not want to compromise with anyone and this is why he’s on his third marriage a.k.a. business deal. He reminds me of my ex and the trauma I had in that relationship.

[@sageXwolfe]

yep! it's called breadcrumbing or something

[@everythingshareable]

I really dislike Bilal and difficult, toxic people like him. They need to be left alone!

[@downwithfaith]

Bilal is immature and can be mean. He’s also very status-conscious with his showy designer goodies that he flaunts on social media, so Shaeeda knew what he had, and she showed that she IS in it for the money when she was so disgusted by the truck and the house he grew up in. Plus she was rude about it, asking if he could “even afford to order food”. If he was testing her she failed the test. I don’t know why he decided to just overlook her snobbery. Also, Shaeeda claims she wants kids yet she marries a man who clearly does not. I think she’s more interested in money than children, or in having children to secure her financial future with Bilal. Both of them have ugly characteristics.

[@marquisfelder3170]

compromising to bilal is a loss and he never wants to lose

[@loredanadincu4300]

He does what you clown 🤡. Him agreeing to open the sheltered 37 year old lady a business on hus own f money and get nothing back is him starving her of what she wants. She doesn't deserve that f business she didn't do shit fir it. And give me a break with she left everything behind. The others foreigners from the show leaved everything too. But I don't saw them asking for kids on demand because you waited till 37 or gor business on their partner money.

[@nursetinalouise]

Ex calling out her not owning a vehicle (huh?!) and living with parents at home reeked the same as Bilal mocking her claiming she doesn’t understand how to do adulting tasks. Imagine doing like that on national television!

[@mazlinarazelan3805]

As a mature almost 40 Muslimaa, she has failed. They are called ignorant and neglectful her duty as a responsible MuSlimaa. Zero assets of hers but overhyped herself a successful Muslimaa

[@rhi3trini440]

@@mazlinarazelan3805 You're talking rubbish. In Trinidad we live at home till marriage and our mothers pays the bill. She is marrying an American from overseas ofcourse she won't have any assets there, the most she would have is monetary assets which won't equate to much in America due to our conversion rate. She's also muslim which means he's suppose to provide for her so I don't know what you're on about. I don't know where you got this nonsense that she is suppose to enter a marriage with a lot of assets or else she is neglectful and irresponsible unless you're the ex-wife herself. Don't speak on a culture you know nothing off

[@mazlinarazelan3805]

@@rhi3trini440 You are Trini not American. Bilal's ex wife exposed her financial background. Bilal mentioned about protecting his generational wealth during prenup discussion. For your info, prenup is common among rich successful Muslim. Stop using Islamic value's to justice her zero assets to the table. Fact, Muslimaa has right to self-sufficient and own assets. We have Shariaa laws regarding matrimony. What Bilal's ex wife mentioned is part of Islamic laws regarding assets ownership. Many zero assets Muslimaa has tried to grab others money particularly when they secure the bag. Bilal ex-wife feared greedy, materialistic wife will try to take Bilal's kids money . Hence I support wealth protection made by Bilal. Muslimaa mom are taught by our lawyer to protect money from money-hunger , zero assets stepmoms. Bold of you to assume Muslimaa moms is dumb particularly involved kids right. Get off from money that is not hers

[@abcdefghijklmumford]

@@mazlinarazelan3805 all the money belong to Bilal and his new wife. As parents , and step-parent, they will support the kids and step-kid till 18. After which, The kids will become independent at 18 years old. If his kids fail to become independent, then they can live in the parent’s basement. And beg the parents , step-parents for financial support. Successful parenting is guiding and supporting your kids to be fully independent. Not leeches of the parent’s retirement funds. The children should not be taught to take for granted their parents money . The kids are not entitled to the parents and step-parents’ money at all. The kid’s mother has remarried. She has no say any more to Bilal’s money. Finances has been split at divorce. If the kid’s mother has any more to say, she can hire a lawyer and go through the courts.

[@mazlinarazelan3805]

@@abcdefghijklmumford Lawfully, Bilal's ex is entitled Islamically and legally. Too bad Shaeeda is childless and she is very desperate rushing. For stepmom is different because the kids not hers. Yes, kids are entitled to their parents money can inherit from them. It's reasonable they are against a wife , jobless and zero assets. Common among Muslim spouses and very particular about legacy

[@mrs.jessicarocha1241]

Wait, so what was the ex wife expecting an apology for exactly???? She should be the one apologizing. She is so incredibly rude, condescending and puts her nose where it doesn't belong 🤬🤦🏼‍♀️

[@stephanieclark1487]

She’s gross

[@Ass_of_Amalek]

I think she wants an apology from shaeeda for taking her man and from bilal for taking another woman. she's incredibly jealous for an ex wife. I think bilal somehow convinced her that he wanted the divorce and she didn't.

[@heyalexiajanee]

She wants an apology for living in that beat up house while married to Bilal being grateful and ish 🤣🤣🤣

[@stephanieclark1487]

@@heyalexiajanee that def was her own fault. But she did get rid of him so she should be glad for that at least.

[@lesstalk4785]

At this point she’s wasting her own time. She has enough information to run without any guilt. Bilal is a narcissist and is enjoying all the manipulation.

[@mazlinarazelan3805]

She wasted her time for LV luggage and a green card

[@spf_500]

Well she got the luggage and I'm sure she did get her green card. She better 🏃

[@jessicakramer9626]

I’m convinced Bilal secretly had a vasectomy. And that baby will never happen.

[@adamjaxn3156]

And he'll blame her for not getting pregnant. Sadder part is that he'll probably tell his family and ex he got vasectomy and they'll keep the secret.

[@yellingateveryone2520]

My grandpa was just like bilal with his wife before he died. He turned his family against her and manipulated her. He lied about his vasectomy and made her believe she was infertile.

[@thejamaicanhippie84]

You hit the nail on the head.

[@Respectfully_]

This is why I'm against marrying men with children when you have none. That's scary especially at her age. He can simply wait it out essentially driving her back against the wall so she starts to feels like she can't do better so she's stuck with no choice but to give in and allow him to regulate everything like he's been doing. He seems financially abusive too. With this being out now I hope she will be smart I'm sure their are other men willing to have a family with her that aren't insecure about their wealth.

[@chantellenylander-quartey6831]

100% agree. There's no way he's going to give her a baby

[@anne3067]

Bilal’s exwife is REALLY nasty. And Bilal just sits there silently while she attacks his wife, and I think it’s because he agrees with her. He certainly shares all of Sheada’s personal information with her. I feel really sorry for Shaeda, except I don’t understand why she didn’t just leave. It’s makes no sense to stay. Her husband, IMO, doesn’t really love her. She’s just a beautiful possession. This is going to be a miserable life.

[@chlorinelori1064]

He is so glad he has 2 people to feed off because ex is so involved out of self interest. What does she do in her life?

[@hamisisalmah8764]

Ithink shaheeda is just silly islam empowers women so much that God himself in the quran exquisitely says men should treat women with as much kindness as they would something precious and children this ppl are not practicing islam

[@N0N4M30]

He’s a narc and it’s a way of triangulation

[@Sinsteel]

@@hamisisalmah8764 Yeah that's the problem - no one ever does. Same thing with Christianity, if everyone practiced all of it all the time, they'd be a saint.

[@naadilee1316]

If sheeda dont get her little tail back on a plane to Trinidad, I can't 😩🇹🇹

[@elenawilliams32]

The ex wife is totally threatened by Bilal having more children as her child support will be lowered. She's a trifling nasty and jealous piece of work. Ugh.

[@okcscrapper3222]

Bilal and his ex belong together.

[@georgiamanu6353]

That ex-wife pissed me off. That was completely uncalled for, I can't stand women who are like this.

[@snooganslestat2030]

I think the ex comes over as petty saying things like she has no car here & yet again making a big deal about the person moving to the US not being all set financially. They know the person cant work but every series at least one couple has this bought up.

[@Amatullah.574]

Yes and a car is not an asset lol

[@naiadolling]

@@Amatullah.574 Exactly lol. Like it depreciates in value, not appreciates.

[@defunctdefunctdefunct]

Bilal, his family, and his rabid ex wife have successfully broken Shaeeda. This happens so often in these sorts of family dynamics. The breadwinner finds a shiny new toy and they let the family beat them into submission.

[@izamartian90]

I really hope the kids genuinely like her. I feel like they would see past everyone else’s opinions and know she’s awesome.

[@lowrider81hd]

I heard from a friend who lives near bilal’s mother that they strut around KC like they own the place and they’re rude and arrogant in public and the ex always hangs out with bilal’s mother, going shopping and restaurants etc.

[@DJREDRUM]

@@lowrider81hd I believe it

[@amandam480]

@@izamartian90 I hope so but as someone whose been bullied alot, often others join in. Shaheedas vulnerable and her desperation for kids leaves her in a bad situation. She will submit and become a shadow of her former self.

[@lindaford5742]

@@lowrider81hd so what does that have to with anything!!

[@xxDeeMmmVeexx]

His ex wife needs to get a JAWB because it sounds like her only “asset” is child support and Shaida is threatening that for her.

[@missme2554]

That part

[@burdenslifted]

She has a job. Did you not watch the show?

[@melixxa1992]

@@burdenslifted then her dusty ass should be focused on her kids nd her Job not on her ex husband New lady

[@its-me-mallie]

He is a straight up textbook narcissist. He will always justify his actions because he literally cannot see any wrong doing on his part. Everything will always be her fault, he will always manipulate her, he constantly gaslights her. I was in a ltr with a narc as well. It physically makes me sick watching him do this to her. She does look totally defeated and down and thats how he wants her. She needs to run. For reals.

[@priscillafuentes8663]

Yup, sounds like my ex. 🙄thank God, he's an ex spouse.

[@101hamilton]

Very well said Mallory! Those of us who had relationships with narcissists know first hand how this will go.

[@dynamopirate470]

The ex-wife seems like she is hurt that her ex-husband has moved on. He could easily get back with his ex if he wanted to. Shaeeda is in the middle of a messy relationship that ended with co-parenting. The ex-wife is very upset about Bilal moving in a beautiful woman who is obviously very classy and intelligent. While his ex-wife is off taking care of the kids without a complete family. I understand how she feels but it doesn't excuse how nosey and controlling she is trying to be. She just wants to be left with something after he passes away. She doesn't want Shaeeda to sever the rest of the emotional and financial ties she has left with Bilal.

[@shaniceokubena4975]

The only thing wrong with this comment is that ex-wife is she remarried but she doesn't act like it to be honest 🤔

[@RAJOHN-ke7mc]

I mentioned the same. It doesnt matter that she has remarried, shaheeda is jealous. Bilal should be shutting down his ex wifes animous

[@banggo99]

@@shaniceokubena4975 Yes she even has a daughter with her 2nd husband

[@igotissues1082]

But it’s crazy tho that she could be upset about him moving on when she asked for the divorce bc he treated her the same way he’s treating shared a right now

[@MissKashira]

She sees Shaheeda as a hussy moving in to take the money meant for her kids. That's why she's so mean and hateful. She doesn't want Bilal. I bet money she's the one that left. She wants to make sure his money goes to her kids.

[@avacadotoast5492]

Bilal is such a jerk. Sheida can do so much better... she keeps saying that she is 37 so she basically has to just put up with Bilals toxic behavior.. 37 is not "old" and she is a beautiful kindhearted woman. I seriously hope she gets out of that relationship. Her own husband and his whole family and ex wife constantly bully her. Its disgusting.

[@sholay706]

37 is old lol for a first marriage especially with no kids

[@sholay706]

She can't do much better lol that is why she is with Bilal. She chased Bilal not the other way around

[@24Lorn]

@@sholay706 1. No, she's not old. The appropriate age for marriage is the age at which you find the right person. End of the story. 2. She can still have kids for at least 8 years (after 45, it could be dangerous for the baby), it's not too late, she's in time to find another partner and have all the children she wants. 3. YES SHE CAN DO BETTER, but obviously she fell for the wrong person. Life can be hard and unfair, you know. There are wonderful men out there that would build a family with her and a wonderful marriage; she fell in love with the wrong person, and that's a huge problem. Besides, when you're trapped in a toxic relationship, it's really hard to get out of it.

[@sholay706]

@@24Lorn No she can't do better that is why she has been single for so long and chased Bilal. Bilal already has a family and don't need more kids lol. Bilal can do better. She has hit the wall. Most men that she Will meet will either be divorced like Bilal

[@24Lorn]

@@sholay706 ... If you truly thinks this is true you're very immature or very pessimistic; in both cases you're not realistic. She's a wonderful woman and she could meet a much younger man who would be delighted to start a family with her. She's smart, attractive, sensitive, of course she can do better. That doesn't mean that it's easy to let go a toxic partner. And I hope she will.

[@notthattiff5765]

That prank had the energy of using catfish pics to test if someone is "shallow" or if they'll "love the real you"

[@jokbok995]

Didnt she prank bilal that she booked a hotel in a dangerous part of town?

[@notthattiff5765]

@@jokbok995 I have no idea. What does that have to do with anything?

[@mzinformacion2632]

Oh that’s a great analogy!

[@boot2478]

It literally frustrates me so much that Shahidah knows how shitty of a partner Bilal is, but she attacks Shaeeda for her lack of wealth? I really wish someone else from the cast called her out for being an asshole. She was trying to humiliate Shaeeda, I can't believe she was expecting an apology from her

[@wolflegs2555]

Yeah I never got why she deserved an apology in the first place. I thought she was going to tell us. She pretty much told her to be grateful and downgraded her in front of the whole world.....sooo I'm still curious.

[@BreezyStreamy]

@@wolflegs2555 I think it was maybe because of her reacting the way to the prank, but idk. Personally, even if Shaeda reacted how they thought she should have, they still would have been offended. She was set up to fail and to 'upset' so there could be a disturbance and make her feel like it's her fault and that she needed to be the one to apologize.

[@loredanadincu4300]

@@wolflegs2555 apologies fir what exactly clown. For talking on her kids best interest. I don't think so.

[@loredanadincu4300]

@@BreezyStreamy yeah you know what they have done because you know what they think. F off.

[@Lucinda_96]

She’s jelly! 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@baronthered]

Why does Bilal's ex-wife have a voice in this at all? She should not have a platform to speak her opinion on Shaeeda's relationship with Bilal. Her purpose is to bully Shaeeda.

[@mazlinarazelan3805]

Sure. She is Bilal's good friend and beautiful mom to their adorable kids. Muslims are taught to be responsible for co-parenting, she is Islamically entitled to Bilal even after divorced, yes. Bilal's ex wife hang out with his mom too. She has good relationships with Bilal's family in KC

[@Greenmountainferns]

@@mazlinarazelan3805 A fellow Muslim woman speaking here…. she has absolutely no business in any prenuptial discussion that they have together. She marched in and immediately began to throw shade and bully Shaeeda, we all saw it with our own eyes. A strong Muslim man would defend his wife.

[@mazlinarazelan3805]

@@Greenmountainferns As Bilai is friendly ex-husband with Shaheeda, safe to assume he discussed his prenup with his trusted ex-wife. It's Bilal wishes to protect his wealth prior to marriage against zero asset wife. Successful Muslim husband is worried Shaeeda will take his rightful assets. There are cases of money-hungry, unsuccessful, materialistic, childless wife bring their husband to court to gain excess to generational wealth. Bilal said he doesn't want broke Shaeeda take his kid's money in the show

[@Greenmountainferns]

@@mazlinarazelan3805 I see, you’re just here to insult Shaeeda because you’re an associate of his ex-wife. Now that we’re clear about your motivation, unfortunately anything you post in comment threads is not gonna help because she made an ass of herself on national TV and came across as extremely unlikable. You can’t unring a bell darling.

[@SpicyPlur]

They need to bring in the other ex wife for a full rumble

[@dariusf.1960]

Bilal has problems to be vulnerable and he ends up being extremely controlling instead of working with his own insecurities.

[@Ass_of_Amalek]

aka narcissism

[@dariusf.1960]

@@Ass_of_Amalek I'm extremely against armchair diagnosis over the internet. people can be assholes and not have a personality disorder, jfc

[@daniel-smokes-kush]

@@dariusf.1960 - well he DEFINITELY has narcissistic traits

[@portiamaree8637]

I cannot understand why the ex-wife is so prominent in their relationship. Yes, she is the mother of his kids but that has nothing to do with their relationship. If she was a decent person she would back out of their relationship and tell him to handle his own. It seems a lot like she feels Shaeeda is intruding on her territory and she only worrying about the prenup because it will affect her lifestyle, not her kids. Because Bilal will still care for them but not her.

[@mazlinarazelan3805]

Bilal ex-wife is worried zero assets, lower middle class wife will take her kid's money. Successful Muslimaa mom will do this whenever their kids inheritance is threatened by greedy stepmom. Greedy, money-hungry stepmom has misuse their wife position to hijack their stepkids' inheritance. Hence , it was Bilal's idea to propose a prenup. Bilal mentioned he is responsible financially for their kids

[@jayj.janelle8979]

Bilal is sitting there looking so smog and Shaeeda look so sad I am truly sorry for her because she waited so long to have a husband and children, it is plain to see she tried not to make bad decisions when it came to relationships e.g waiting on the right guy and also waiting to have children. Sad that she has presently found herself in this situation.

[@Foothillflow]

Also, I want to know if the ex-wife lived in his childhood home with the ceilings peeling and crumbling. It wasn’t the size of the house that was the problem. It was that it felt deserted and unlived in. That would give anyone creepy vibes. It bugs that nobody in his family took that into consideration. She’s supposed to believe that he has been planning for her arrival but couldn’t repair the damn ceiling?

[@uncutgem6320]

I’m pretty sure the sink worked when she lived there lol

[@shallowcheese7509]

I think when he saw himself he was more like “fuck how can I twist this to make myself not look THAT bad” People like that only care about their image. I was so scared for her and I can’t believe she married him. He reminds me so much of my narcissistic ex. He gaslights her. He emotionally abuses her. And HE IS DIMMING HER LIGHT.

[@sombermemory6740]

Shaeeda needs to go, Belial is literally not getting off the nipple of his loud unnecessary ex-wife. No one is going to change for Shaeeda, she needs to stand up for herself and get going because I've seen this sorta crowd before. This special group of people like Belail and his ex will make you feel like your feelings are not valid, that you're the one who is overreacting, that you should be the one to be gratful for what THEY put into the relationship. They literally suck the soul out of people like Shaeda who do not know any better and maybe don't have a lot in their corner. It's embarrassing, demeaning, and overall just dehumanizing. You'd feel pathetic over this stranger who's literally punching and putting you down so they can have control over you, a human. These types of people will give you the only mental break to make you start NORMALIZING this ridiculous behavior. That you should get used to their whining, crying, passive-aggressivenes, and etc. It is hard to communicate or find middle ground and when you do, it sends a message to people like Belail that he's giving up a crumb of power. It's so sad how just the victim in this case gets a small amount of power in the "relationship". This isn't a relationship, I don't see a happy marriage, I don't see no evidence that Shaeeda will see any improvement with Beliail if women like his ex and his mother are literally on his lap validating his behavior. I hate them, I don't like them, and I'm upset with Shaeeda for putting up with it because she's not innocent either. Why fight for a relationship with him when people in his circle are all against you, when he is against you, what do you gain out of it? Shaeeda is a beautiful woman with a lot of time ahead of her and shouldn't be pushing grey hairs over this clown. It's so depressing and over all, humiliating. Do better.

[@TheZDerDer]

I think she feels that since she getting closer and closer to menopause that this is her last chance to have children.

[@empresssk]

You had me until "she's not innocent either." Girl ain't do nothing to him

[@mazlinarazelan3805]

She is a broke , no stable income at nearly 40 yo woman from Third World. Bilal's ex wife found she is a successful Trini with zero assets. She is a neglectful and ignorant Muslimaa considering her failure being a self-sufficient woman. Islam taught women regarding rights to own assets and sadly , Shaeeda has none hence getting shaded by Bilal's ex wife. Muslimaa are taught to leave abusive husband but considering she is very dependent on Bilal's money, it's her choice. At mature age almost 40, she is not innocent but accountable for her action/inaction

[@jsabz3]

Bilal might like that there is tension between his ex and shaeeda. If shaeeda feels broken and misplaced then he can take advantage of his ‘power’ and play god. Even stir the pot sometimes if he wanted…

[@EbonnieTaylor]

It’s also a play to make her feel less than. She lived in the family home so she “came” up with him into his wealth. She also has his children something I doubt that shaeeda would get from him.

[@Greenmountainferns]

The ex-wife is unbelievable, it’s absolutely none of her business whatever legal agreement they come up with. She came across as incredibly manipulative, hostile and aggressive. Shaeeda is a classy beautiful woman who has a lot to offer someone. She should run from these people.

[@kimberlyjoseph673]

He's going to continue doing him. His ex wife and his family does not value her and they are all treating her as a nobody because he has his own things. If he doesn't respect her enough to stand up for his wife and put his ex wife in her place, when she embarrassed his wife for everyone to see. He sat back and watched

[@iaintgonnaremember]

Patrick Star's comment of Bilal being a salesman was right on the mark 🎯. Bilal's actions (pranks) prove some of the salesman tactics he used to manipulate Sha into marrying his narcissistic ash.

[@NewDayDrRenee]

You used the word "deflated " for her energy, I would say "broken " or beginning to break. I know it well. Sometimes, women are better off alone. I think he had a vasectomy.

[@nursetinalouise]

Agree

[@tonym.8069]

I agree and feel bad a bit for Shaeeda if true (but should've been obvious after while.) Logically makes sense, him and his second ex-wife we're donzo probably around ten years, wanted to make sure he didn't lose more money (think he got married twice before, plus the kids, adds up to a lot of payments), and probably wanted to date freely without worry of another baby mama. And like a lot of the other guys on the show, he didn't want to admit it cause Shaeeda would get right up and walk away. This is a woman who had a career or was trying to and wanted to have kids with someone she loved and trusted, but I think with the clock ticking out and the prospect of moving to America, she chose Bilal. And I think they're on this upcoming season of Happily Ever After, and that will be the NEXT great arc where Bilal admits to the camera he had a vasectomy and doesn't want to tell Shaeeda cause she'd slaughter him..

[@toboreyalaju9660]

The ex wife is rude. So what if she lives with her parents and doesn't own a car in the US. Typical American woman not knowing how the rest of the world lives.

[@hinamori857]

The ex wife screams pick me girl. It’s possible she even learned how to treat people like crap FROM Bilal.

[@deserthoney]

I also clearly remember that the morning after Bilile did his prank, Shaeeda collected herself and apologized for her behavior and things she said. She was tired, jet lagged etc.. apologized and said the home was fine

[@mzinformacion2632]

Yes - then the ex says “she couldn’t even stay 24hrs” or whatever. Completely false. I feel so bad for Shaeeda - she’s in survival mode.

[@bettedavismydears1521]

Shauuuuun, finally bringing some heat! I wonder if they told her not to before and now that the show is getting boring, they let her loose!!!

[@stephanieclark1487]

I was in an abusive relationship and I can testify my ex did a lot of this behavior. He even showed me his property and acted like I should be okay living in poor conditions for love when he actually lived in a very nice four bedroom house his mom gave him.

[@Penpen-ke7jl]

Hopefully she can get her yoga business and find someone better when she divorces him

[@deeniesmothers9310]

Between her yoga business and Instagram sponsors, the Shaeeda will be set.

[@dalyshenry5178]

Why doesn't the ex wife try to go to another country and start from scratch all over again???? The ex wife acts like Shaeeda has never had a whole career and wealth ever.

[@genericcosplaygirl]

Bilal’s ex is trying to make Shaeeda feel cornered so she will lash out and the ex can say she was right. It just sucks she is taking so much from both her husband and his ex, and convinced herself this is it for her so she will stick it out 😔

[@malabhargava]

Has anyone seen the strange confrontational tilt of Bilal's face? He doesn't have a relaxed, friendly, loving face. He only looks wary and always trying to one-up. It's like he's always playing chess or poker.

[@barbaralowry4211]

I can’t stand him or his ex

[@tanyeeast]

I can see shaeeda make her own Muslim based fashion line she is so fashionable and has fabulous taste.

[@Datura981]

I honestly thought Shaeeda had pulled a big brain move with the prenup, but the tell-all unfortunately cleared that up. 1- There should have been requirements made for Bilal to show healthy... swimmers, store some, and if natural conception proved unsuccessful, a timeline requirement established for fertility options. 2- The consequences for not meeting these, or the requirements of supporting her business, should have been nullification of the prenup agreement, period. You don't uphold your end of the contract, the contract is void. 'Sign it or I'm not marrying you.' 'OK, that works out, because if you don't agree, I'm going home.' Unfortunately Bilal knew that once the 90 days had started, she was invested, and any threat to return home was not legitimate on her part, so he'd only have to do so much work to make her compliant.

[@mzinformacion2632]

I wouldn’t be surprised if he had a secret vasectomy. Oh oops I guess we can’t get pregnant.

[@rubyd0ll]

honestly, bilal seems SO abusive and it is so scary to watch shaeeda get sucked into this black hole.

[@roxanne4820]

The ex-wife is just as manipulative and petty. She never liked Shaeeda even before she met her and she clearly has an issue with the fact that her ex husband is moving on. She's taking any opportunity to drag her down with the 'you have no assets' talk and also implicitly saying that she is better than Shaeeda for Bilal by saying 'oh i was so grateful to stay in that house for 2 years unlike you' and 'oh i felt sorry for him'. If he was so great why did you divorce him. Toxic ass family Shaeeda get out. Also Shaeeda is the best dressed person on this tell-all, her sparkly headscarf and starry gold earrings are amazing.

[@amandam480]

I thought Shaeeda had a business and a house in Trini?

[@roxanne4820]

@@amandam480 not sure if she owned a house but she definitely had her yoga business

[@texasgina]

I agree with you I can’t stand that guy he loves to mess with her head and he loves to gaslight

[@fullarmorbeauty7535]

Shaeeda girl, he probably already had the vasectomy. Why is the ex wife even thereeee & all in ya'lls business & everything is about material possessions as if he has picked you as a trophy from the slums & you should be eternally grateful. Like NO! even if that were the truth you still don't deserve to be treated that way nobody deserves that you're a human being girl realize your worth.

[@mzinformacion2632]

Omg exactly. I’ve been thinking the same thing about the vasectomy. He’s definitely acting shady.

[@little_owl9181]

16:10 About what you said during this part: I feel like slowly as time goes on, Bilal won’t bother to pretend anything. Tbh I don’t even think Bilal cares about what we think about him. Bilal probably thinks: “Why bother pretending to change when my wife won’t leave me as long as I promise her a child of her own and my family thinks I’m innocent?” So far from what we’ve seen, Bilal surrounds himself with “yes” people (his family, ex-wife, etc). People that thinks he’s amazing and perfect the way he is. He’s not going to bother changing for people like that, Shaeeda, or himself.

[@zraj3433]

I'm even sure he doesn't care if he goes through divorce with his third marriage since it was a "business contract" anyway. Bilal should be left alone, he doesn't even deserve a partner.... period.

[@megansstallion818]

I already knew I wouldn't like her

[@missbelle_elle]

From day one, she’s not nice AT ALL.

[@megansstallion818]

@@missbelle_elle yup! At first I was iffy and now I see she's exactly like Bilal

[@nanathegoat5106]

@@megansstallion818 I wonder why that didn't work

[@sasharomandetti8882]

The ex-wife is so obsessed with the prenup, it’s vibes like SHE’S the real gold digger tbh.

[@emoluv118]

Notice Bilal’s body language the way he had his knee crossed and how his feet twitch like a cat thinking about how to attack a mouse. He gives me the creeps

[@RusticMagnolia]

Bilal reminds me so much of my ex it's hard to watch.

[@jenniferdaulby5519]

It's strange but I feel quite protective of Shaeda. I believe she is being treated badly in a "gilded cage" type way. There are better Muslim men out there Shaede who will treasure you.

[@1onlyme120]

YO! This is just like Michael and Juliana from previous seasons! This EXACT same situation!! Man too close to his ex wife, they have kids together…man is rich… The resemblance is uncanny! 🤯

[@palmtreewhisperer]

The producers dropped the ball on this meeting. I wish they played the video part where the Ex wife was gloating at the fact she was getting under the New future wife's skin. The Ex is jealous she's not that flexible 😂

[@nikkirockznikkirockz8551]

..AnD, that is no "stretch" of the imagination-no pun intended!! 🤣

[@cv-xu5cs]

sorry guys but for me Bilal is not a jerk or manipulator, he's a monster and I'm very concern about Shaeeda.

[@PhantomMonkey2008]

Bilal’s ex wife seems like she still loves him. She is putting shaeda(?) down for not liking his awful prank in a way that seems like she would think that was funny if it were her. She has pointed out those kind of contrasting points all season like she’s trying to convince him that she is the only woman who understands him. Or maybe I’m just seeing these things because I’m hopeful Shaeda can still escape his toxic grasp.

[@MADEbySOUL]

Very surprised that Sheeda living with her parents was shamed. In some culture and religions, one does live in a multi-generation household to take care of the unit. In some middle eastern and asian religions, a woman does not leave her parent's home until she is married. Where she will take care of the husband's parents if he is the eldest. Also, the house Bilal and his ex keeps bringing up was left in bad shape. Wouldn't one do the regular maintenance of something they care about? If memory serves, Sheeda did not speak badly about the neighborhood but the state it was in.

[@EbonnieTaylor]

In Trinidad it’s the same way. U live at home until u get married. Even if u have children

[@MADEbySOUL]

@@EbonnieTaylor Plus if I am not mistaken, the religion they practice does encourage that. So that surprised me that Bilal’s ex brought it up negatively since she practices the same religion and didn’t consider it was cultural.

[@deeniesmothers9310]

I think she was saying whatever she could to shame her. They may share the same religion, but American culture is way different than most other cultures.

[@mazlinarazelan3805]

@@MADEbySOUL Islamic context encourages mature Muslimaa to have assets for financial nest. I think Shahidah questioned about Shahidah's financial background. Foreign wife will be scrutinized for her ability to be financially responsible. Bilal reported his search about Shaeeda whenever he discussed with ex wife

[@mzinformacion2632]

@@mazlinarazelan3805 but is it the ex wife’s place to bring it up … other than to shame? What does Islam say about that behavior? I know maybe mom or sister could have a voice but the ex?

[@yolocards2]

Hate Bilal, especially when he uses his religion as a manipulation tactic. I'm glad I'm not Shaeeda! Thank you F.S.M.! 🤣

[@cchxx624]

I was surprised by Shaun, she doesn’t typically stand up for the foreign partners

[@agearhart1]

Jealousy is unflattering lol … ex wife needs to have several seats

[@mommonald224]

For me, it boils down to one small scene: Shaeeda cleaning with a certain vibe of panic that Bilal won’t approve. She is WAY too good for him and I know she’s made a spiritual commitment, but nah. She needs to go live for herself. She does not need him and I can’t understand why she’d want him him. Bilal, his family and his ex are all a big ass toxic stew.

[@simply_nebulous]

They're both emotional manipulators and the ex wife realised she couldn't outmanoeuvre Bilal.

[@cindyv5592]

Bilal: The King of Gaslighting.

[@vikikat4935]

Besides Bilial ex wife acting like a mean B'iatch she is jealous one also. It doesn't matter that she divorced him and married another. .

[@لولو-ع9غ5ج]

Oh so the ex is married but brings up living with bilal for 2 years in that house and that she was feeling sad for him? Where's her husband lol. She's too worried about her ex for a remarried woman. Its creepy.

[@Monoiru]

Ngl Bilal gives me narcississt energy. He’s an almost spitting image of my ex… on another note where TF can I find a guy like Kobe please😩

[@dhglowlightblue]

Why can’t Bilal and his ex just get together again? 🙄 They seem to agree on everything anyways…and the ex-wife is acting so holier-than-thou with that part about the prank. “Oh, I felt so hurt for him because this new girl wouldn’t accept living in a rusty house after leaving everything behind to move to the US 🥺 I myself would NEVER be so shALLoW, durrr” 😓😓😓 Lmao, give me a break

[@Renesmeecarliecullon]

Love the commentary, just one thing, as a person that has both Trini parents, in Trinidadian culture its very important how the world perceives you. My grandmother would wear out going clothes all day on the off chance someone stops by the house (people just stop by each others houses all the time unannounced). Essentially you must look put together all the time. I grew up in America and it took a lot of convincing to get my parents to allow me to wear leggings outside the house because they thought it made me look like I didnt put work into myself

[@GoldenSun10]

I noticed there is a similar culture when I visiti family in India. Lowkey I'm always relieved to come home and live in my "ugly clothes". 😂

[@hopkinsrebecca89]

Omg we are watching her become a shell of who she originally was. It really sad to see. Hopefully he does not get her pregnant 🤮

[@areesha_2342]

BILALS EX ABSOLUTELY DISGUSTS ME ! Like leave them alone geez

[@joan92763]

Bilal’s wife should not be there. He needs to step up and protect his wife and acknowledge her feelings. This is Non of her business at all!

[@joan92763]

I meant his ex wife should not be there at all. Nonya beez wax !

[@keyia1983]

That ex-wife needs to mind her business

[@aussiehillbilly]

Ex wife Will never have what shay has, style class and killer looks

[@MuddaSikIt]

Watching this couple is so triggering . Bc Bilaal reminds me so much of my Ex . It's disgusting.hes a narcissist

[@user-ly2cm6zk5l]

Bilal is textbook emotional manipulation! He lies about what he meant by his words making others question their interpretation even thought before the confrontation there’s only one way to interpret it, aka gaslighting! Bilal has everyone in his life walks on egg shells around him! He seems like uses his accomplishments like a massive home and inflow of money as a fall back since he can use it against them. Especially if he’s bought something like a home for his family members he can throw it back in thier face. So to avoid losing that they support him

[@_honestlygrace_]

I just want Shaeeda to know that if Bilal ever goes back on his promises to help her with her Yoga studio, that she should create a gofundme because I would 100% donate to it❤️

[@Sarah-zq6tp]

Finally Shawn is somewhat doing her job lol

[@orthodon2011]

Shaeeda is a gracious woman. From her first appearance on the screen you could see that she had style and the financial resources to maintain that style just on the basis of her clothes. Her clothes are classically tailored and high end. The ex wife should note that Trinidad and Tobago has many wealthy people -quite a few that live with family. That is part of culture. It was disrespectful of Bilal to bring Shaeeda to his old run down house. I am sure Shaeeda's family home in Trinidad is lovely. No one in Trinidad and Tobago I believe would do what Bilal did to an intended spouse-bringing them to a aged poorly maintained house to gauge a reaction regarding desire for wealth.

[@Tricey.89]

There are people who want a second shot at marriage and have (more) children but Bilal is the perfect example of why myself, as a person without kids and no previous marriage, does not want a guy with either one. You are expected to hop on a moving train - people with previous lives and home rules want your to come I to their lives and catch on to what and how they have things mapped out. And when it comes to wanting more children, you may get the short end of the stick because he financially has to provide for the others or may have passed the age where he wants to be responsible for a newborn and having to start ALLLL over !

[@jmorphiscave]

I thought it was hypocritical and laughable when the ex says you never really know someone, when I think she “ fell out of love with him”. So he didn’t really know his ex as well as he thought so why listen to her opinion. She seems very unpleasant. I like you content. Ty.

[@ソラノ-e5w]

she can do so much better, this is sad

[@lisetta5052]

If Bilal and his ex were so grateful for his old run down home, why did they ever move? They judge Shy for not being happy with something that they themselves left because they wanted something better. They can want better but she’s not allowed to. Bilal doesn’t want a few drops of water on the floor of his pristine house, and gets on shy’s case about that, yet he took Shy to a house where the ceiling was falling apart, paint peeling, weeds overgrown etc Like Shy has to accept whatever and be grateful, but Bilal can live in a freaking pristine castle and get upset over a few drops of water? And if shaheeda feels so sorry for him why don’t the two of them move back to his run down family shack and be grateful there together.

[@Mia-bh5eb]

Shaun was def stirring the pot this time 😂

[@rhonni1624]

As for the " house prank". If I was her I'd be pissed that bilal shows up in nice suits and designer luggage in Trinidad, but...he can't prioritize fixing up the house. He looked like a fake ass player who was out to find a subservient wife

[@nursetinalouise]

Yes, her energy is verge off breakdown

[@Steph_42069]

Why do the exes think they have ANY opinion in anyone else’s relationship 😂 I still can’t wrap my head around how ANY ex is even present in this show 💀💀

[@DrLC.]

I’m so glad I didn’t have to wait! Thank you babe!! 🙌

[@michelleallred8521]

I don't think Bilal ever thinks he does anything wrong

[@cathimurphy-bee6759]

Shaun was excessively good in this episode. Especially with the Shaeeda Bilal segment.

[@holly543]

I'm also watching Thais' relationship! When I saw that she is pregnant I was even more scared for her!

[@Charlotte-kv7bk]

Bilal ex wife is a very intelligent scary monster trying to destroy SHAEEDA