Na wa ooo,if this is true then it’s sad that Nigerian women in diaspora are constantly taken

Na wa ooo,if this is true then it’s sad that Nigerian women in diaspora are constantly taken advantaged of by men and its not fair,women in diaspora be wise ooooo hmmmm

[@halob2002]

You need to be coming life more frequently...we love this part of you..push like button if you agree..

[@ekejiubavictory3849]

“I’m not in control of how people treat me but I’m in control of how I treat myself and how i move on" letting go is a key part of self development and a happy life. That’s my take. Good one sister. God bless you

[@ayoola3020]

Vdm can't be blackmailed emotionally. He's willing to hear from both sides

[@blissd3774]

VDM should be very careful how he interacts with people that come to his life video. Many people are looking for ways to trap him down

[@ucheiwuajoku1037]

#vdm

[@godwindickson360]

​@@blissd3774 U are right 👍👍

[@sikakofi]

@@blissd3774He said something bad? What situation made you feel so ?

[@emmanueljoseph2581]

Yeah ❤️

[@chiagozienwosu2905]

I've been celibate for 2 years now. Its very possible for women to stay a long time without sex.

[@LyricallyHDTV]

It should be a norm.. until you're married

[@BellaPreshTV]

That’s my big sis from another mom ❤😍A very lovely sweet lady, super mom , artiste , multifaceted content creator and a lot more. She deserves the very best and I pray she reaps the fruits of her labour .

[@Telepromptertv]

@BellaPreshTV . What's her stage name please. I'd love to watch some of her musical videos on KZbin

[@Emmanuel-wv3nn]

Whats her stage name?

[@holyguy547]

Summary: As a man make sure you have a solid job that feed your family.

[@Insightofanauthor]

Didn’t realise VDM was the hilarious 😂. Wish the Lady Luck. 🍀

[@jonjon5770]

Ladies, know this! Never carry the financial burden of any single man who can't champion his marriage to you.. No man should feel comfortable with that if he is responsible...RED FLAG!

[@ugo1174]

You can support a man but he needs to be a man or else leave him

[@hilda_unlimited]

Her voice is so soft I love her personality

[@stevenwilliams3015]

Oga, na the English wey u like, nothing like soft voice there. Colonial mentality don make una like another man language pass una own

[@olalekandagunduro7653]

​@@stevenwilliams3015 Thank you

[@elvisom.o.g4457]

Foolish talk

[@Princenels1]

it seems you inexperienced about women. I have lived in UK for 20 years now. My guy! Soft voice na scam sometimes. If when things don’t go their way and London babes handle you ehn! You will wish you were never born. Their exposure and expectations from a man is far greater than your normal Naija way of handling relationships. Dating them sometimes is like walking on egg shells and they only calm down after 40 but having said all this, there are very few good ones though!

[@StephanieIdah]

​@@stevenwilliams3015u don talk am finish

[@tsolway]

VDM to da world #Respect

[@Rem4lov]

Sometimes, our expectations in others, particularly when it comes to marriage, can be a source of disagreement and disappointment over time. These often lead to hatred as opposed to love that holds marriage together. I can imagine the reasons for most failed relationships? Good luck to everyone with the Grace to fulfil marital obligations. Appreciate this lady for speaking the truth about 10 years waiting time. God bless her, VDM, and all watchers.

[@nwaokorougo7236]

Just 55mins it's already 1700 views... Big up vdm... More blessings to u

[@AisagbonhiLovely-pu8ib]

This guy is just too good, he even ask the lady wether to post the video

[@olaniyanopeyemi5340]

It takes two to tangle like the lady said but its notbthat easy. We have only heard from her side. We are yet to hear from the guy in particular. So let's not really condemn anybody yet. This Same thing happened to me just a year ago. Got married to a lady, sent her to Canada to school and now she is acting strange to me. Most ladies believe they travel abroad and once its not working for them, then all they wanna do is to start sleeping around with men. I get that the pain the woman in this video is going through is not easy but what if she's very much at fault in her approach when dealing with the man nko? God will help us all. To get a loyal and God fearing man or woman is nit easy these days ooo

[@aniutosinachi549]

VDM thank you for the good thoughts for the Igbos. One love bro

[@Truth_Unchained]

Good thought by him but not the reality.

[@ansoucamara9462]

VDM 95% of the marriage relationship breakdown because of money issues. Most of the men in the Diaspora don't want to take charge as the man in control. How can a man be the Boss if he doesn't want to take financial responsibility as a family head.

[@dukemmerife9310]

Good luck Queen. Wish you strength and prosperity. You children will grow up well and good. It is well with you

[@crativdon6123]

VDM for the people, who never listen to that Ashmusy anthem 😂

[@Calistus-lx2ed]

How can I get it please 🥺🙏

[@crativdon6123]

@@Calistus-lx2ed KZbin…mine here

[@Bissconcept]

Beautiful lady, God will do the best for you sweet lady Yes, good people meet bad people some times

[@LigattLigatt]

A well-mannered and soft-spoken lady. I hope she matches this with the home character. Best wishes

[@sinade1]

Average guys don't like authoritative manners.

[@kofoblue3172]

Very interesting VDM

[@codiograh1640]

I love you sister everything will be better again the Lord is your strength ❤💘

[@Bomzzy]

The problem is the money and culture. It seems this woman wants to control the house and Nigeria culture doesn't allow that as Nigerian man

[@amaechimichael552]

exactly....mke we forget big big english if woman get money pass their man, dem no dey get respect women sabi abuse power well well......na till i hear the guy story i fit talk,bt judging from how women with men are,she was the problem,u cant turn an igbo man to ur boy ,its not done....he wont adhere to that

[@vingoze]

But hear her o, the guy no hustle he just want to feed on her

[@Onyisue]

I knew that when VDM said Just one last question, I knew he wanted to ask about knacking for the 10years😂😂😂😂.

[@ambhad_]

We need hear the guy side of the story 😏😏 to coup for new environment nor easy

[@sinade1]

Like DF show?

[@stevenwilliams3015]

Na amibo wey u like. U no go focus on your bad government

[@ambhad_]

@@stevenwilliams3015 if nor be Amebo wey carry you come the comment section wetin you come find ?

[@StephanieIdah]

😂😂😂😂

[@crativdon6123]

This is interesting to watch, guy u funny sha 😂

[@bamideleolaseni8750]

Story Story... Story hmmm.. another Storyline.. yes, vdm hmmm

[@mrchetachukwu6979]

Bro, I'm an igbo guy, from imo state to be precise. But trust me, there are bad people everywhere in as much as there are good people everywhere too

[@baronesslizzy8428]

I like this girl. Well done VDM.

[@igbinx]

She fell in the wrong hand😮😢

[@codiograh1640]

That is true Good people meet the bad people so sad the world is unfair😢

[@Bright5702]

How could VDM claim that Yoruba or Edo people are inherently bad in relationships? Good and bad individuals exist in every group, regardless of tribe or origin. Furthermore, many families abroad experience breakdowns due to financial issues. Financial challenges abroad are far more intense compared to those in Nigeria.

[@pliesburn5256]

VDM no involve for relationship matter.😂 Good people always meet bad ones Her last statement was sweet saying she’s not regretting cos sometimes GOD just use people to help others.

[@vingoze]

Na who God go come use to help me like this now

[@Itsqueendivine2007]

Nah she is beautiful she is even kind ❤❤

[@SAMUELEMMANUEL-ng4iu]

Vdm God bless you bro for your good work

[@Itsqueendivine2007]

Yeah throu igbo men are good judging from my father but it depends what they want like their priority I fell he did not love her but did to get to uk

[@switznegrojedi7844]

She's a very beautiful lady with a nice persona.

[@betterabroad]

She brought him, do everything.... Their problem was finance... I live in London and that is the way most women reason.... She should have been more patient... The guy noticed her as been controlling so my guy ashmushy....

[@patrickchedo3865]

😂😂😂😂 ashmushy don suffer

[@Guzmies]

hahaha

[@Princenels1]

You gerrit my guy 👊🏾

[@folfrad1]

The man may possibly had seen shege! I am sorry. She truly sounds like a beater and a control freak

[@viktor5552]

honestly there's more to this story 😂

[@worldupdatechannelinfocus110]

😂😂😂😂 very dark black man funny too

[@boris-deckline7493]

Vdm sincerely has a sense of humor 😂

[@CharityJohnson-s5h]

You can't get sick from not having.... Though body systems are different

[@Oluwatimilehinfgt]

Even at that, you can't get sick....

[@marvt3888]

Sis I understand that most African men in diaspora they want their women to pay most bills,it’s crazy.

[@elvisom.o.g4457]

Pls first travel,2 marriages fail so the 2 men are not good

[@olaidejabar4380]

I waited for 9 years without naki after my separation from my husband, I focused on my children and my job, when started dating God, there are lots of gold diggers in London.

[@Torromann]

Okay. How many kids do you have and how old are they? Do you mind knowing a single guy from Nigeria? I'm no gold digger. Facts!

[@Oluwatimilehinfgt]

​@@Torromann😂😂

[@Oluwatimilehinfgt]

Testament that it's possible.... people out here, like sex is oxygen

[@olaidejabar4380]

@Torromann will gold diggers write it on their fore heads, I have no gold to dig and my children are no grown ups

[@Speedyvampir2]

We have heard her story but we need to hear the other side. She sounds abit shady too. But only God knows.

[@eguono9057]

No be lie

[@michaeltitus]

This can be examples to 9ja women generally , i can see this woman hard working woman ,I appreciate this women 🙏, relationship or marriage is perfect but you both need to go well to each other,I wish her best luck in life and good health 🙏 stay blessed, I base Europe and I understand her well

[@jaybeejb5329]

But this aunty worry oo.. which level sef. She sef follow for d problem.

[@philjasper2541]

How was she a problem?

[@jaybeejb5329]

@@philjasper2541 if you cant see it, then you'd have to listen to her again and decipher it for yourself. its pointless for me doing that for you when you clearly misinterpreted my reply. i never said she was the problem. "follow for d problem"

[@philjasper2541]

@@jaybeejb5329 Neither did I say 'the' How was she a problem?

[@jaybeejb5329]

@@philjasper2541 find out for yourself like I mentioned earlier..

[@OparaTorres]

VDM, I dey feel you bro❤

[@emeka6084]

Vdm focus on your good work , you don’t need this distraction . You don’t need all this distraction. And somethings u come to say on your page doesn’t . I think you will grow as time goes on but u should avoid some discussions and u can do that at your private convo. Bro u gats mature . For real . U r doing a great job . Move differently pls . When u come here and do this kind of stuffs , you align yourself with what we r used to seeing . Pls brother it’s a honest advice

[@emmanuelosoka4130]

Bro let him be himself…he is not banned from catching cruise

[@giselanthony2711]

If he do saga video you people say why is he fighting people? Now he's minding his business and catching cruise, you people still condemned it. I don't understand anything 😕.

[@emmanuelogunmefun6000]

Wow nice seeing you friend hope it's better now, college friend been a while young sis

[@Tootalk]

Guy u funny na knack u wanna know 😂😂😂😂😂❤

[@sublimeswhite]

Let's hear from the guy .... This woman is not a humble cheek

[@ntangnwutsam]

😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 It just got tears in my eyes

[@Dodo-dp8bc]

She seems really veelrt xontrolling for sure

[@gabrielobeli3266]

God bless VDM

[@humbleugoo8306]

They don't see themselves as the problem that's why they keep making mistakes

[@nubianprincess766]

VDM, these men are like that ooh!! And you think Igbo is not bad 😂😂.. This her story sounds familiar.. I am her age mate and yes I have seen so many of my friends being used for papers! They are heartless and can lie ooh! I’m telling you it is bad. And they use women any how! 🤦🏾‍♀️. I am Anambra so I know trust me 😂. I feel for her . But she be fine.

[@eguono9057]

Sad

[@Ladymeg]

VDM, you are an evangelist. God is calling you to do His work.

[@gloriamoses765]

VDM is so naughty.... And the lady was so patient...

[@Gainhielbusinessclub]

This is true what she's saying is true but the problem is they feel like they know all, and tell you what to do, they also think they are doing you a favor so you should worship them. but it's not like that here and they can nag UK women can nag both the black women kudo for that man wey run for his life.. If you ask this woman if cares not taking she came from a polygamous home. With what you've said the man never breeth u don dey remind am say he supposed be man wey em know say em be.. 😢

[@zicora5546]

Menn you won't understand why the guy isn't there anymore if don't live in the UK. You might be shocked when you hear his side of the story and there's a big question inside the six months that he tried! We have a culture and our women forget that, and embrace the laws designed like it was made for them. Again even if they're not using it against you they make sure they threaten and remind you everyday just to just have full control over you and before you know it... You are a mumu man! I'm not trying to exonerate him but African don't want to function like and she has to keep the man if she wants them to stay😢 Only a few women hold their men high in UK and that's a rare wisdom to own a man's heart forever.

[@Mikolo212]

No be lie...we de see am .So callled afro ladies with feminism de do pass oyibo sef

[@spinix3744]

@@Mikolo212 its the S L A V E mentality, copy copy behavior, anything wey oyibo do we copy, we no reason am first, our ladies just dey copy copy.

[@spinix3744]

As they copy am dey go increase the volume

[@KatePerry-rd7fu]

We need to hear from my own imo State brother side

[@JARF01]

But women can wait o. My dad died and my mom and step mom didn't remarry and no man . Even my dad's family told them to remarry they both refused . Especially my step.mom she was still very young at that time but she no gree remarry o.

[@eguono9057]

Personal choice some gave birth less than a year after the husband pas on

[@JARF01]

@eguono9057 Yes you are right

[@focfc6385]

Please, what's her stage name?

[@adeagbow]

It is true. A lot is going on in abroad

[@beebee_0136]

We have heard her side, can we hear his own side as well? This woman is married twice and is collecting child support despite supposedly sponsoring her dependant.... something is not right about this story

[@SideMath]

Mind you, people dont come into marriage to save you or make your life easy. People come into marriage with different things, sometimes it will be good, sometimes bad. When the bad comes, endure, it will end, when the good comes, enjoy, it will end.

[@tobimcmorris7690]

Beautiful, smiley Londoner! Hopefully, she'll meet an honest and loving partner. VDBM, we didn't get her name.

[@nosakhareosabuohien5652]

That is the Nigeria's men's character.

[@danielwealth2975]

VDM is unstoppablly hilarious..Yoo the reactions are top notch 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

[@rkrodriguez2913]

Things shouldn't be judged from just one perspective. This woman's story is emotionally compelling, especially as she was being used to gain entry into another country by the supposed man. However, she might have been responsible for her own problems. We weren't there to see how she treated the man while they were together. Being wealthier than him, she could have used hurtful words that triggered him to leave her or acted the way he did. We shouldn't curse someone based on a one sided story. I've seen a supportive woman who still belittled her partner at every opportunity, and in the end, she labeled him as bad just because he decided to leave her.

[@IfeanyichukwuIgwe-dy3gb]

VDM for president 2027 ✅❤❤❤

[@abubakarmahmud2534]

Hmmmm..she seems like a nice person..bt dat Guy is NOT d only Igbo Guy dat behaves like dat..many of dem dey shalaye joorr

[@eguono9057]

Exactly

[@adewoledavid8444]

VDM you are a good man ❤

[@eunicewyss9588]

Some Imo Men are that... They, they are not responsible.

[@LovelyCroquet-xo2fs]

❤❤❤❤

[@edahelizabeth7049]

Very dark man... I need your help ooh. My husband has not gotten work since covid ooh we don't try to get a job..

[@LyricallyHDTV]

What does e knows how to do ??

[@イベドン]

This girl is a bit shady.

[@Sodeklordtusin]

Please Bring the guy on your show and we can hear his own story

[@michaela.7257]

This kind of issue is for the wise to counsel. VDM doesn't have this kind of capacity. Please focus on anything that being intelligent and smart can solve. Thank you!

[@sikakofi]

Nawa oo 😂😂.. who hurt you

[@michaela.7257]

@sikakofi You alright Chief?

[@Truth_Unchained]

​@@sikakofiExactly who hurt am😅?

[@sikakofi]

@@michaela.7257 very alright.. are you alright miss?

[@chukwuebukazubby3594]

De guy is acting Nigeria' life in UK, which will not work

[@stephendavid-jk8fv]

Guy dis woman fit dey beat d guy true true,💜😅😅😆😆😆

[@joshuaeyen4320]

Vdm is a sharp guy, so is not somebody u can lie to to😊

[@igwekalu298]

Until we hear from the man

[@Adebayobamidelealfredmoses]

Mhmm !

[@lessharm]

the questions are too personal

[@ebilijosephugochukwu5411]

The fact that she has been married twice at her age, clearly shown that she has her own personal problems..

[@prosperstk1587]

Chai my Igbo brother don fall my hands 🥲

[@jennyfanny9326]

VDM is not those mentioned that does that .IBO guys are ruthless here in Europe. They only respect their women. I am telling you, my guy.

[@ezeviconuh7827]

This VDM is becoming interesting

[@JQueenesther]

Mine is almost 15 years now and ready to continue without a man, the love of my life walked away with my heart no man, no sex, I don’t know how I did it ooo😳😱

[@fortunateuwaye6103]

VDM UNDISPUTED 💯

[@chantelrobinson1364]

VDM celibacy is a thing.

[@manlabious]

VDM, please let's have part 2

[@wurd_is_ours]

He say weather cobwebs cover the toto side 😂😂😂😂 @VDM nor go kill person ooooo😂😂😂

[@minefamilyshow]

Some Nigeria men ;with am the man of the house yet they know nothing

[@Sizuedeals]

Imo People are quite a catch, they can't be pleased for real

[@josephimmaculate2966]

😂😂😂😂 i no you would definitely want to know if she knack that 10years 😂😂😂

[@agosuismaila2752]

One love bro ❤❤❤❤❤

[@dugerivalentine-t1l]

VDM I am interested in traveling out of the country help me🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@VictorJerryjnr]

This matter no hold water they already had a Baby together let them sort it out share the bills period