Nagkagusto sa Straight

[@eyrondelosreyes7871]

I had a relationship sa straight guy na kasama ko abroad (workmates) but it took only 1 month kasi may girlfriend sya pinas and ako na nakipaghiwalay dahil ayaw ko maging selfish kahit mahal ko pa yung guy kasi nakokonsensya ako kasi may girlfriend sya. But in the end naging mutual naman ung decision na mag seperate ways kami and now happy ako for him kasi married na siya now. I hope we can get exact loved that we give to other people. Hugs 😘

[@pbb2877]

Nakakaganda kasi kapag itinitreat ka ng maganda ng straight na guy. Natural kasi and hindi sa kanila awkward kaya madalas namimiss interpret natin. Hindi lahat ng straight guy ay bigot at homophobic. Sino din nman kasi ang ayaw maitrato with sweetness. Basta iba. Nangyari na din ito sa akin before and I must say na kahit ganun kasakit, it really done a lot para magmature ako. However, kailangan lng natin mahanap yung sweetness nila sa sarili natin and instead, be intelligent in choosing romantic partners. At least alam natin what quality in other men feels good for us. Napakanaive and pure ng feelings kaya hindi mo makakalimutan.

[@everydayisagreatday1530]

@@pbb2877 I think eto nga yung mali na perspective naten mga di straight. Dapat bare minimum yung pagiging mabait at magandang treatment sa lahat ng gays kahit ano ka pa, you deserve a humane /non-bigot treatment. I-normalize naten yung concept na lahat ng tao at a minimum, should be kind to us so there will be no confusion. Kaya tuloy tingin saten ng mga straight na uhaw tayo sa kanila kase ganyan ang mindset na meron tayo.

[@artmuyar6175]

Nakakarelate ako sau. This happened to me as well, falling for a straight guy friend. Agree much , "never assume, unless otherwise satated". I'm still friends with them. Yun isa kinuha pakong abay sa kasal nya. Then, yun isa naging ninong pako ng first-born nya..😊

[@ICE71785]

I've always been in love with a straight guy. Based on exp boys oftenly get closed to us (discreet guys) not knowing na ganito tayo. Simply because gusto lang nila nung friendship na nakikita nila satin. Yung comfortable lang sila kasi sakto lang yung tandem. Hindi gaya ng ibang straight friends nila na mas more angasan at asaran lang.

[@marvinsamaco]

Yes I agree

[@roibansil5311]

Agree ako ditoooo

[@itsmecarlo12]

Nalungkot naman ako sa dulo.. may ganyan din ako. Yung hindi na kami nakapag-usap after something happened.. awww.. nakaka-sad..

[@jeffvillanueva5660]

Actually this happens talaga khit anong gender mo. Especially sa mga nice na tao. It was late for me to realize that " Hindi dahil single ka or pede sya seo eh kailangan jowain ". Minsan mas tumatagal pa ung friendship at mas ok pa ang maging friends kesa Lovers. Ung mga exes ko nk add pdin sa fb ko kc we end in good terms. Khit nag asawa na cl yeah at Hindi kmi nag uusap na.. atleast nkikita ko ung pag evolve nila into something more fruitful in life. Godbless and more Power po sa inyo ..

[@marvinsamaco]

Agree! Godbless u too

[@alcrisostomo2617]

Relate much. Marvin, we have something in common, honor student from elementary to college but lumantad ako at age of 32 pero demure pa rin dahil laking Probinsyano. I prefer straight rather than Bi. Kesyo may datung involved or di pangmatagalan. Just enjoy your trip and be happy

[@madzskiej.mariveles]

Thanks for sharing ur story. Nangyayari naman talaga din yan sa mga straight boy-straight girl relationships but kadalasan c boy ang assuming na gusto din sya ni girl, pero ang ending na friendzone c kuya at di talaga sya feel ni girl na maging jowa at tulad din sa kwento mo na nagbago ang tingin sa kanya ng girl na gusto sana ni boy na lambingin sya nito at one time kasi feeling insecure na sya sa tuwing makita nyang fond c girl sa ibang kaklase o kaibigan nila. Tama yung comment ni Jeff Villanueva na it happens in all genders, hindi lang sa str8 guys-gay guys. The lesson here is that we should not expect reciprocation in every stage of a growing relationship. Pag feel ka talaga ng isang tao na maging romantic partner nila ay talagang mag ma-manifest yan sa motive nila even if it's against their personal standards of getting involved in a relationship (for example just in case being subjected to a gay relationship due of a bad or a traumatic heterosexual experience or a political or cultural constraint like the case in most middle eastern countries like Saudi Arabia that most straight men are never allowed to marry a woman if they cannot pay their dowry to her parents, and due to their repressed libido they vent it out to other str8 males and luckily to the gay guys available) but most commonly mag involve talaga yan ng monetary o financial motive. Di man talaga maging sexually attracted na ang isang str8 guy sa isang bading one day, kasi pag str8 guy talaga sya ay sa babae lang talaga sya magkakagusto at wala, as in wala talaga tayong magagawa dyan just like most people especially our parents wants us to be straight pero wala as in wala din talaga silang magagawa sa kung ano talaga ang gusto natin labag man sa religion o sa heterosexual preferences ng iba. Otherwise everything else is platonic and that's what we gay guys often miss the picture because we often forget we are physically in a male body just like them. We expect that str8 guys would reciprocate our gay feelings because we think they would eventually be attracted to our "female" attributes with our emotions and mannerisms regardless of being in a man's body. But the good news is, most straight guys nowadays is ok with gay sex and the bad news is don't expect romantic relationships with them because it's not gonna happen at all unless if they're bi or gay too. There are many good-looking straight-acting muscle gay men out there (my type if course!😍💪😜) so why not give it a good shot? Anyways most gay guys aren't really romantically attracted to straight guys just because they like women but because they exhibit the straight macho attributes of a typical heterosexual male (they way they walk, the way they talk, and most especially the way they look very manly and handsome, admit it Marvin!).. Now, bakit pa natin pahihirapan ang mga sarili natin sa mga purely str8 guys when we can get our ticket to romance with the equally handsome, manly and straight-acting bi's and other manly (closeted) gay guys out there?? Str8 guys will always seek the real female form because that's where they get their carnal satisfaction of their desires equipped with their innate pride of being a heterosexual male virile and capable enough to beget offspring from a female.

[@marvinsamaco]

👏👏👏 may nanalo na 😂

[@ErDaddy_T]

mostly sa bi men, sa straight/bi women ang ending. Ayaw ma judge/criticize ng society kaya dun cla pumupunta sa mga merlats. Kumbaga safe cla, ndi mahahalata or masabihan na gays cla. Kaya karamihan sa gay guys, ayaw sa bi men.

[@pancakedive6948]

hays, nararanasan kopo ito ngayon kuya Marvs, napakatimely ng story time mo na ito sakin. Gaya mopo, accountancy student rin po ako. Honestly, graduating napo ako this june. As an accty student, totoo po talaga na iba parin ang may study buddy. kaya po naging close kami ni kuya guy na ito. nung 3rd year po kami sabay kami na broken. sya from his long term relationship na almost 7 years ako naman po with my first bf. so yun, to make it short, naging sandigan namin ang isa't isa. sinabi nya rin sakin na nakatulong daw ang aking presensya sa pag momoveon nya and ganon rin naman ang pakiramdam ko rin sa kanya. na part rin sya ng healing process ko. so yun, lage kami magkapalitan ng message at arguments about accounting related topics. he checked all the boxes ng standard ko. Matalino sya kaya ayun mas nagpapapogi sa kanya. Sya ang pinakamagaling samin sa FAR at ako naman ay madalas icompliment ng grupo na gamay ang TAX (at kinikilig ako everytime na nagagalingan sya sakin. tingin ko dagdag ganda points) . kapag ka major exam nagkikita kami kahit online class lang haha magkatabi kami nagtatawanan. Sabay kaming dalwa uuwi maglalakad at maguusap ng personal life at plano sa buhay. Minsan kapag na da down ako at naanxiety, isa sya sa nag roroot sakin na kaya ko raw ipasa ang board exam ng isang take lang dahil mabilis daw reflexes ng braincells ko hahahaha. Ang hirap nyang hindi mahalin kuya Marvs, alam mo yun? kase tinulungan nya ko mag grow at magheal as a person academically at emotionally. ngayon, nagwowork na sya at ako ay nagrereview for upcoming cpale... ironic lang yung kasabihan sa ating accty student na, "don't assume unless otherwise stated" pero ang poqpoq na ito assume ng assume ng ilang taon.🤣

[@marvinsamaco]

Baka naman type kadin niya. Wala p naman confirmation or rejection diba? After mo pumasa ipush mo na haha

[@edradajohnemanuellet.7557]

Buong video na to nakangiti lang ako kasi relate na relate ako hahaha, nagkagusto din ako sa straight best friend ko, 4 years kaming mag best friend, gaya sayo sabay kami sa halos lahat ng gawain sa school, pati sabay kami umuwi, tapos same din tayo sa part na nagseselos ako kapag may kausap at masaya sya sa iba, same din tayo dun sa nagpabebe at dahil don na awkward sya at umiwas na, nawirduhan sakin, and same din don sa part na pag sa classroom ako lang tao, lalabas sya hahahhaa, pero ako kasi umamin sa kanya i wrote a song for him, a confession, then after that di na nya ko pinansin for almost 7 months, then after that nagmessage sya and naayos kami pero may ilang na at yung closeness namin ay hindi na gaya ng dati, kamustahan nalang ganon. so para sakin yung aral na natutunan ko is, Huwag nating pilitin yung taong magustuhan tayo at mag expect na gusto tayo, wag nating asahan na susuklian nila yung effort at love na binibigay natin,

[@Ron-zx9wz]

i can totally relate to you Sir. mine happened with my previous work. i dont know kung pano nya nalaman un but he became distant to me. biglang naging awkward ang lahat. magkatabi kami pero d kami nagpapansinan. it really affect me to the point na I quit my job. now he's getting married. and i am very happy 4 them. i totally moved on. never assume unless otherwise stated talaga.🙂

[@jaysonbasio2222]

Same setting. Same character (role). Na-fall din ako sa straight guy. I really don't know kung anong pakay niya sa akin pero umabot kami sa point na magkatext sa gabi. Naggogood night, nag-ily pa nga eh. Magagalit kapag hindi nakapagresponse sa ily. Umeffort din na makitext sa iba para sabihin na wala siyang load, "expired na load ko, nakitext na lang ako, goodnight", etc. Basta ang bilis ng pangyayari. Hindi ko na siya pinapansin, hindi ko alam kung anong nangyari sa akin. Nag-iba trato ko sa kanya. Ang cold ko. Pero ang pagkakatanda ko, gusto ko lang din ng lambing. And idk kung nahihiya ba siya mag-approach sa akin or ayaw na niya din. Tamang parinig na lang ako sa text, uso pa kasi ang GM that time. Ewan, baka na-toxic-an siya sa akin. Lagi na lang kasi ako ganun. Baka nga ayaw niya ng ganun. Kaya sorry sa'yo (i mean sa kanya). Ito legit to ah. Kung ano na nagpapasaya sayo ngayon, mas masaya ako kasi nakikita kong masaya ka. Ingat ka palagi ah? ❤️

[@jheycee6142]

5 years ago this month [pride month], I came out to my family and publicly as a lesbian. I was convinced. Set in my ways that I was born that way and that no one or nothing could ever change that. But God. He moved and molded my heart into a sculpture of His grace. Forgiveness. Love. Compassion. Understanding. He used people in my life at that time in the summer of 2016 to show me what He wanted for me, and that what I wanted for myself was leading nowhere good and was not the same. If wasn’t my sexuality that was my destruction. It was my sin. It was my heart posture. It was my choices in my struggles and temptations. It was my lust. My pride. My feelings as Truth instead of His Word as Truth. I was lost. I was confused. I was mad. I wanted sorrow not healing. I wanted pleasure because I was simply in pain. I was insecure. I believed I deserved nothing yet wanted everything but was looking in the wrong places. All of them. But God. He picked me up and listened. And while He listened He healed me. He saved me. And He delivered me. He was always running after me. Today I live a life that strives to please God and not man. I no longer identify as a lesbian and desire a husband and children. My purpose is to please the spirit and not the flesh. To see the eternal Kingdom plan instead of my own, broken and worldly one. I live dying to my flesh daily. A struggle that I will probably always have. It is not easy. But it is the best decision I ever made so I continue to lean on my father. He wants you free. He wants you at peace. Pride is the starting root of self destruction. Praise God for His new mercies daily and His deliverance. I serve a God of true love and true forgiveness. Thank you Jesus. He did it for me. He can do it for you. He wants to witness your birth again. Into His arms.

[@marvinsamaco]

🙌❤️❤️❤️

[@lilac624]

The religion is biased against LGBTQ where there is a bigger problem faced by the society and it's about mental health...

[@mohd.raiyanmiranda1798]

Lesson learned talaga. Wag mafall sa taong mabait . 😂. Very nostalgic ang feeling. 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫

[@multistanppop6691]

I also fell for a straight best friend nung college ( close pa rin kami now though) I thought also na may something sya sakin. Niyayaya nya ako matulog sa dorm nya. We watched cinemas na kami lang . Ako yung go to person nya pag gusto nya gumala at bumili ng kung anu ano. And that time super hit yung “my husband’s lover” na series sa gma. So tinatawag nya akong “bhe” . Seatmates kami by the way kaya no choice katabi ko sya sa halos lahat ng subjects, and also magkasunod bdays namin kaya we celebrate din our birthdays nang sabay. Until nung year na malapit na kami grumaduate, umamin ako sa kanya. Kasi nalilito ako. And I don’t wanna regret telling him na na fall ako sa kanya and baka ganon din sya sakin. So baka need may maunang umamin. Umamin ako sa text. Turned out sabi nya, Mali ako ng iniisip . Sorry daw kung namisunderstood ko yung actions nya. Sa sobrang nahurt ako, and parang feeling ko defeated ako , humanap ako ng ibang jojowain . Hahaha. Reason ko is, para magkaron ako ng excuse na after school may ibang puntahan. Di ako Sumabay sa kanya. Then after a year kami pa rin nung Jinowa ko noon. That time uso naman yung kantang “mahal ko o mahal ako” so casual naglalakad kami kasama nung bestfriend pa naming girl. So tatlo kami. This time pala, okay na kami ni bestfriend. Pero parang mas naging touchy sya sakin , at clingy nung nalaman nya na May jowa akong iba,. Sabi ko sino pipiliin Nila, mahal nila or yung mahal sila? Sagot ko, yung mahal ako. Sagot ni bestfriend, yung mahal din daw sya. Sabi ko “kaya pala” sabi nya “ bakit sino ba hindi nakapaghintay?” Then kunyare nabingi ako, pero di nya Inulit yung sinabi nya. Until now, iniisip ko pa din yung sinabi nyan yon. Though may long time gf na sya now. And okay na rin kami as friends.

[@marvinsamaco]

🤗🤗🤗

[@everydayisagreatday1530]

totoo to may straight office mate ako na umamin ako na may pagtingin ako sa knya, after non lumayo na siya at parang galit pa na naiwas. If kaya niyo pa i-save ung friendship wag niyo na lng sabihin kung sure na straight. Naging honest ako kase need ko maging fair para sa sarili at sa peace of mind ko. After nung revelation, though malungkot natanggap ko na wala na at di na ko masyado delulu.😅😅😅 minsan need lng tlga naten magising sa katotohanan para di tayo masaktan kase may mga ibang tao pala na pde naten mahalin na pipiliin din tayo. Don tayo sa pipiliin tayo kahit di straight :)

[@vonlagman15]

My favorite story teller. Sarap mo talaga magkwento, Vin. Hindi nakaka-bore. 💙

[@marvinsamaco]

Thanks Von

[@jamesrodriguez2104]

Hala relate ako huhu asan na kaya sya...sana magkausap man lng kayo

[@erroljohnlopez9378]

never assume na lang po sa ulit. friends do come & go in any situations or gender. be strong!

[@palaboylaboy6543]

Love this story. Nakarelate ako in some ways, I had a HS close friend and every day kami maghangout (basketball, billards, video games, etc) and to a point na fell inlove ako sa kanya , but i choose to just keep it to myself... iyak iyakan ako deep inside and outside rin kapag magisa (emote yarn). I thought i'd save the friendship na lang. Nag College kami our friendship slowly changes and parang less attention and time na ung paghangout namin, siguro dahil straight talaga sya, he would eventually hangout with other people and eventually have GF, which he'd hangout with more often... another iyak moment ko. Yun siguro nakapagpamove on sa akin nung malaman ko na may GF na sya and come to my senses na its hard to fall inlove to a straight person. Nawala na ung closeness namin. He's married (not the same girl) na rin with a kids. Ako naman ito closeted gay parin that's slowly coming out.The funny thing is, I have 3 bestfriends and all of them are Straight and i'm happy i can say I love you to them without any malice and i'm happy that they say I love you to me as well which i know they mean it (not romantically as they do know i'm gay).

[@marvinsamaco]

Wow ang saya. Happy for you 🤗

[@jamesrodriguez2104]

For sure nanonood po sya sana kung sino man sya matagal na yun mag bati n kayo di mo nman sinasadya mag mahal sa kanya..

[@TopeCadungog]

Kaya talaga ako na papasmile sa BL series kasi paramg eto, do-able tlga ang story! Nka experience din ako nito..

[@hanapkita6648]

Kahit gaano ka close ang isang straight guy, never naman siguro sila ma fall for someone who is gay or even bi. Tayo ngang mga gays never naman siguro tayo ma fall for girls dahil hindi sila tinitibok ng puso natin. Kung papatol man ang straight sa isang gay, siguro may ibang motive yun at malamang hindi yun dahil gusto nila deep in their hearts. Pwedeng lasing lang at nabahiran ng libog hehe. Kaya 'wag assuming o mag overthink. In the normal world of heterosexuals, straight-gay/bi relationship will perhaps never become a norm.

[@marvinsamaco]

💯

[@fordschtuaigne7445]

I also have this experience nong 1st year college ako. may classmate ako na guy na sobrang bait at naging crush ko tapos nag chat kami nalaman niya na crush ko siya pero mas lalo kaming naging magkachat. pero parang i have this feeling na parang mas lalo akong mahuhulog kapag magkachat kami ng magkachat tapos parang di ko alam kung ano ba nararamdaman niya. siya kasi yung straight guy na parang soft tsaka ambait. tama yung sinabi mo na assuming lang talaga tayo na akala natin gusto tayo yun pala mabait lang sila at yun naman talaga ginagawa nila kahit sa iba. it's really sad lang how we think of something na di naman talaga.

[@AJProductions061293]

Haist, relate much. If only i have the control na hindi sabihin sa kanya na gusto ko siya, di sana mas okay pa friendship namin ngaun, anuways! Nevermind regretting atleast kahit na ganun nangyari sakin, naging honest naman ako sa sarili ko at nailabas ko ung feelings ko sa kanya, and tingin ko mas madaling tanggapin yun kahit masakit kesa sa unspoken feelings, mas masaklap ang mga "what if"s kasi malay mo gusto ka din nya dba, di lang naging open kayo sa isat isa, 😊

[@joshvelasco7080]

Super relate the story of college life… pero luckily ung straight guy na friend ko binalik nya yong love for 13yrs up to now…

[@larrydominguez70]

I accedentally saw this and watched 😂 it hits me sa part na " ginawa kong mundo ko " at sa marami pang bagay. . Now na mature nako, i know better i realized a lot of things. Kaya natutunan ko na its okay to be friends with straight guys. Pero wag lalagpas don. Period. And those what happens in the past serves us a good lesson to be the better version of us in the future.

[@stanleymosende7094]

I know that experience dont bother ok its normal were human.have feelimgs if i can.contact you wish nandito ako para sayo

[@stanleymosende7094]

Yeah we.must just enjoy life n.be happy

[@semilyawavlog4034]

But it was also happened to me in 18yrs relationship namin dapat ksi my self respect , understanding,love , tapos nag asawa na sya ,until we are friends ,parang extended family ko na sila and di ako nag sisi dhl mahal nila ako hanggan ngayon

[@aom1156]

super relate sa experience mo! sakit mumsh nung binanggit mo na pag closeted ka napakahirap ixpress ng feelings...

[@jigsryanlcruz]

Kainins! Relate na relate ako! Naka smile ako sa kilig from start to finish! 🥰

[@marvinsamaco]

Welcome to rupoknation haha

[@anjolumanlan9715]

Same here Kuya Marvin, bat ganun kapag nalaman na nila na may gusto tayo sakanila, bigla nalang silang iiwas or minsan mararamdaman mo na nanlalamig na sila sau, kasi yung closeness parang nagkaroon na ng gap. kaya ako kapag may gusto ako sa isang tao lalo na kapag straight, mas pinipili ko nalang itago. para kahit papaano, walang magbago sa friendship nio😢

[@jonathanpanes9373]

galing mo magkwento👍👍👍👍

[@languagetravelandbeyondltb9863]

I like your story. Kinilig ako ha. I felt your struggle. But it was a learning experience and it taught you how to know more yourself and be aware of what really straight guys should be treated without malice.

[@marvinsamaco]

❤️❤️

[@bay_evan7007]

Masarap sa feeling na may care ang isang straight guy sa atin yung feeling na alam nila na gusto mo sila na mag papa cute lng sila sayo and by that youre happy na rin not expecting anything more.Simple joy❤️❤️❤️

[@marvinsamaco]

Yiiiii.❤️

[@DanStudio316]

Yan ang pag ibig at kung minsan gusto natin i- posses ang isang tao na di nating kontrolado.

[@erwincapuno1913]

Relate ako nito, tama din wag masyadong selfish, kahit xa ang mundo natin pero hindi naman tayo ang mundo nila, give freedom😊

[@brilliantoleran1778]

KASING UGALI KO UNG GUYS ON YOUR STORY.... i would say i am too because, many times that happend na every time I feel or every time i found out na nagkakagusto na ung kina close friend ko at any gender, i do always to keep distance on that person na i feel nagkaka gusto na sakin like na halata na talaga sa actions nia na may special feelings sa. Hindi naman sa nag fefeling ako no, pero how many times na ganun ulit nangyayari pag meron talaga ako kinaka close. May nangyari pa nga na nagulat ako kasi may sexual movements na sya! To the point na huhubaran nia na ako and atemped to kiss me. (Pero syempre hindi ako pumayag) and i know parang napahiya sya dahil sa pag tanggi ko, pero explained na malaki ang respeto ko sakanya as my valued friend! Kinausap ko sya ng mahinahon na sabi ko naiintindihan ko feelings mo pero hindi ko sisirain ang friendship natin kung masamang kaibigan ako baka diba pumayag ako na may mangyari. Pero hindi ko pinayagan kasi ung respeto ko sayo at sa friendship natin.🙂🙂🙂 then niyakap nia ko, niyakap ko sya, nag sorry sya sakin. (sabi ko okay lang hehe,) friends parin kami until now. Payo ko wag mahiya mag confess ng feeling natin towards foon sa person na nagugustuhan natin sabihin natin kung bakit natin sila nagustuhan, para malaman natin ang sagot, at dapat ready tayo sa magiging sagot nila. At makapag explain sila if ever hindi kau same ng nararamdaman😊 un lang po... Sarap mo siguro ka kwentuhan pre!! Ang daming kwento sa buhay... hehe

[@marvinsamaco]

Parang mas marami kang kwento e hahaha

[@vhino]

I really like Vin how you tell a story. Napaka-genuine and hindi bastos ang dating. Tumatawa lang ako while watching and listening to you, sympre nakaka-relate din. hahaha!

[@marvinsamaco]

Haha nakakarelate sa pagiging marupok? Haha

[@vhino]

@@marvinsamaco naman! Hahaha!

[@record.retake.repeat7922]

syempre pag binibigyan ka ng attention, at the back of your mind, we are hoping that something special will happen.

[@nolilugtu9011]

A very interesting and enjoyable story ever told ang nakaraan ay nakaraan na cheers

[@erickhuntingdonuk7936]

Wow relate ako dyan , pero ako n lng nag paubaya , but we are friends ninang n lng ako ng anak nya …. Luv ko pa Rin sya … musta ka so till now wla kp pre nahanap ….. Rick Uk 🇬🇧

[@kentarotakahashi3574]

I think hoping ka pa rin na makasama siya. Ako nga recently lang nagkaroon din ako ng feeling na ganon with my friend sa bago kung work. Tsaka may times na feeling ko may gusto siya sa akin. Tsaka nagseselos din ako. Hayss,, sana

[@boyasia5874]

Siguro the straight guy is bi, in the closet, not sure of his sexuality or may need nature release which I can say why not, or a need for a brother. Or maybe the straight guy have no idea of the sexuality of the gay guy. All the above applies to the gay guy too.. In order to avoid hurted feelings, be honest of your sexuality to the straight guy. And also ask the straight guy of his sexuality. To me it is safe to be in a relationship with the same sexuality as mine.

[@BlueMountainCactus]

Madalas din akong ma fall sa straight. Straight acting naman ako kaya di kami halata parehas, mas madali kasi ma fall sa straight na hindi pinoy. Mas accepting ibang lahi na straight pero open minded. Yun lang observation ko.

[@dembabs1125]

Relate ako.. . Hahahah, may straight officemate ako dati na sobrang naging close ko.., ang sweet at caring nya sakin to the point na minsan, niloloko kami ng ibang officemates namin na magjowa dw kmi, at sinasakyan nya lang, pero may longtime girlfriend kasi sya..may reputation dn sya na babaero at tirador ng newhires kaya never dn ako umamin sa kanya na gusto ko sya.. .everyday magkasama kaming naglulunch, pagnag aaya nga syang kumain sa labas ang sinasabi nya sakin is 'date daw kami... Then bago maglock down, may isang guy (married with kids) na newhire na naging close nya, at ayun lagi na dn namin sya kasabay sa lunch at kasa kasama sa office., that time nagiging possessive na ako sa kanya at naiinis na dn kasi nga for 2+yrs kaming 2 lang lagi tapos biglang may nakiki third wheel na...so medyo di ko na sya pinapansin at di na dn ako masyadong sumasabay maglunch sa kanila, para sana lambingin nya ko like nung usual na ginagawa nya, pero instead parang naging cold at distant sya sakin... Tapos may mga naririnig dn ako na yung new guy dw kasi, parang kinakantyawan sya na bakla dw, dahil nga yung closeness namin pang magjowa level.. So ayun ako na dn lumayo sa kanila, then nag lockdown at few weeks after, nagresign na dn sya... Then just few days ago, out of nowhere bigla syang nagchat nangungumusta... Sure ako di yun mangungutang or what kasi ang successful nya na ngayon sa career nya...hahaha Hayun di pa ako nagrereply.. Akala ko after 2 and a half yr naka move on na ako sa kanya, pero mukhang di pa pala... Hahahah

[@marvinsamaco]

Ay sana all chinachat. Ayeeee ikaw na

[@icebox56]

I have been in this situation so many times hahahaha. Tatanggapin mo na lang na hanggang doon lang talaga kasi masakit kapag napaso ka. Pero totoo, nakakahaba ng hair kapag extra nice yung straight guy sa kagaya natin.

[@chrismelraytabujara8655]

HAHAHAHAH iba talaga kapag tumama si "karufokness." It is regrettable to assume things, especially when someone already shows "special actions." However, we should also need to clear some things, specifically the relationship with someone. But you know what? Isn't it a sweet thought when someone also gives back the feelings you wanted for so long? Isn't it nice when that "special" someone also reciprocates the love or actions you craved for a long time? But isn't it also sad that your relationship gradually broke up when that happened? So, it is safe to say that we should always guard ourselves. But isn't it cute also that sometimes we should just let ourselves free of hold-ups and just let ourselves fall for someone?

[@marvinsamaco]

Isn’t it uhmmmm… wait i’m panic. Haha ang galing naman mag english haha

[@donniedon3123]

Sarap maki pag laro sa mga straights. Pero basta alam mo duon nalang yuon. Don’t expect more pa. Otherwise talaga ma disappointed ka 😢😩🥺

[@marvinsamaco]

Hala player. Sana all

[@donniedon3123]

@@marvinsamaco for you Marvin maging mantinoo ako. Heeee Heeee😍😜🥰

[@christianvilll]

Hi I just randomly came across this vid and I HAVE TO SAY, THIS VID BROUGHT BACK SO MANY MEMORIEEEEESSSS!!!! Been in the same situation before and I can totally relate. Thanks for this! you gained a new subscriber *wink

[@marvinsamaco]

Yey! Hugs

[@Wenifredo_Marino]

Medyo relate to my experience during college days but opposite the situation at that time I am not sure myself and my feeling to him so I ignore it.... I like ur vlog today bigla ko tuloy naalala yon mga good memories.

[@lovemusic-xy9wb]

Ako pag naging tropa ko na nawawala na yung crush ko. Mas bina value ko na yung friendship kaysa sa attraction.

[@marvinsamaco]

Minsan parang ganun din ako haha

[@thehomebaker3111]

Wow naka relate ako dito...same experience..pero pinigil ko feelings sakanya ayaw ko kc masira friendship nmin..college nmn may nkilala ako guy straight sa school naging friends kmi then 1 day niyaya nya maginuman with friends then paguwi nmin niyaya nya mag motel nagulat ako sabi nya gusto daw nya magenjoy so ayun we had d best night..sa knya ko laht na experience hindi ko expect gagawin nya.haha

[@paulgervoso5699]

Hindi talaga pwede magkatuluyan ang straight na guy sa gay o bisexual, kc magkaiba sila ng preference pagdating sa sex life. Just like me, i have an affair sa isang bakla, literal na bakla na masasabi. Kc straight guy lng ang gusto nya. Ako dahil karelasyon ko sya, tinanggap ko kung ano sya.. tinatrato ko sya bilang isang babae.. kc gnun ang straight guy.. dapat kpag pinasok mo ang ganitong sitwasyon dapat aware ka.

[@robertbaysic1320]

Same scenario nagkagusto din ako sa same gender and iba yung feelings kapag gusto mo talaga isang tao kahit anu, sino pa siya #happyPrideMonth 🏳️‍🌈

[@bossrannie08]

Such an adorable story from you vin... I love d way you share it, with al your smiles and kilig moments.. Very charming personality,, and you bring us some kilig (im 57 years old and discreet)... Good luck sa iyi,, and you will always be.. loved.. GOD bless you always

[@marvinsamaco]

Haha wow thank you po haha 🤗

[@sherlock06]

Its about time marvin na miss na namin nga story mo

[@marvinsamaco]

🙌🙌🙌

[@alvin-kg1hx]

Remembering the good old days with your old love. Di mo ba sya hinahanap sa FB para kumustahin man lang?

[@vinceburgos2141]

Relate n relate ako...bestfriend ko xa sa college...pero di tlaga nya alam na gusto ko xa until now...haha.ako pa ang gumawa ng paraan nuon pra mag date cla nung girl na gusto nya...oouucch😩😩😩haha.. Bsta graabeee ung ginawa ko pra lng xa sumaya at maging gf nya ung girl😭😭😭 Bsta...share ko n lng nxt tym...🤫🤫🤫

[@reydianponceybarola9850]

Sarap mo pakinggan mag kwento.

[@marvinsamaco]

Haha salamat

[@afraid3582]

kaya nga siguro nasanay na ko sa unrequited love kasi ito ung palaging nag po-popup sa mindset ko kapag nasa ganyan akong situation. Palaging takot na ma busted at mawalan ng kaibigan to the point na nasa harapan ko na ang may gusto sakin, umiwas pa ko then pilit na kinakalimutan ang feelings ko towards that person.

[@marvinsamaco]

Meron pa yan dadating na para sayo talaga, yung pipiliin ka

[@josephyambot5566]

I super agree 💯 my mga straight guys na gusto ka kasama even if your gay and ang hirap hindi mag over think especially pag nagigiing sweet sila sayo 😅 you have to control your emotions tlaga ng malala.

[@marvinsamaco]

Labarn. Kaya natin to hahaha

[@languagetravelandbeyondltb9863]

Grabe! na excite ako sa kuwento mo. I watched from start to finish.

[@kittybantilan4805]

First time watching you and akala ko talaga ikaw si Migs Bustos kahawig mo po talaga sya🤗🤗🤗

[@chosen_ren4537]

Siguro ganyan talaga magmahal ang gay. Kong merong straight guy na nag eeffort at nag kicare sa atin agad2 tayong nafall.

[@renanteandaya71]

Sobrang relate ako dyan marvin, nagka gusto rin ako sa straight guy, sobrang maalaga sya sa akin nerespito nya ako , hanggang sa nalaman nya na maygusto ako sa kanya , friend lang talaga ang turing nya sa akin at sobrang iniyakan ko sya ...pero naka move on na ako , friend parin kami hanggang ngayon.

[@marvinsamaco]

😂🤗🤗

[@iankyle]

Bilang isang straight guy at base na din sa experience ko, ay same lang sayo lods. Tropa ko sya ng ilang taon. Then before graduation umamin sya sakin na bakla sya at gusto nya ako. Pero hanggang dun lang ako, na tropa ko lang sya. Masakit sa una pero matatapos din. Atleast na open nya at nalaman ko din. At Mas lalong nakilala namin ang isa't isa.

[@marvinsamaco]

Wow sana all

[@fredreyes3203]

awww i feel you, i have the same situation and scenario. ❤❤❤ and it was okay. as long as na naging masaya ka na kasama sya iyon ang importante. ❤️

[@justzsu4468]

yes iba talaga kapag straight yung nagbibigay ng attention at effort

[@rpvlife23]

Interesting story. Thank you for sharing.

[@Taps70]

“When you least expect it, nature has cunning ways of finding our weakest spot… look, you had beautiful friendship, maybe more than a friendship… we rip out so much of ourselves to be cured of things faster that we go bankrupt by the age of 30 and have less to offer each time we start with someone new. But to make yourself feel nothing so as not to feel anything - what a waste!” - Elio’s father ( Call Me By Your Name, 2017)

[@archiemoller7728]

tawang tawa ako sa waiting shed n umiiyak sobra rupok mo marvin pero love pa rin kita ,kung nakita lang kita sa waiting shed pinatulog kita sa amin ... masyado magiging complicated if straight guy ka maiinlove parang impending heartbreak plagi kasi minsan di naman nila mareciprocate yun love na gusto mo, baka mas naging happy pa kayo magtropa, sana next episode magkausap kayo nuhm and updating and probably return your friendship just like before thats a nice vid

[@marvinsamaco]

Haha. Makikitulog ako basta libre dinner char

[@archiemoller7728]

@@marvinsamaco sure pgkatapos mong kumain , eh alam mo na kasunod hehe

[@jancarlomarquez2766]

i mostly felt you within the 4:39-5:51 mins. HAHAHA +accountancy student din ako. Now I’m learning and salamat po sa ‘Takeaways’.

[@jancarlomarquez2766]

Do not assume unless otherwise stated mgaa marurupok like me

[@marvinsamaco]

Right hahaha

[@engilbertbacutana7101]

Grabe para sa akin ba to . Relate much ako dito ☺️

[@migzanquilo1998]

Hehe. Nangyari din saken Ito when I was in college..😅 ngayon tatawanan ko na lang 😅😇

[@ian_loya]

Bat prang lhat tayo same experience. 😂 Looking back ansarap nlng pagtwanan.

[@ian_loya]

Ang sad nman d n n-save yung friendship nyo. 😢

[@rojancelis2158]

nung college ako nagkaroon ako ng crush sa isang guy na ka major ko sya sa course, and then na love at 3rd sight ako sakanya then pagnakikita ko sya papalapit at may mga times nadadaanan namin sya eh umiiwas ako, nagtagal tong feelings nato 5 yrs na pero hindi ko naman inaamin sakanya, naging friend ko sya sa fb pro inanftrend ko kasi talagang tinatamaan ako sakanya, nilabanan ko lang naman kasi feelings nato kaya inanfriend ko sya. hanggang ngayon maygusto parin ako sakanya ewan ko kung bakit until now kung bakit ...tinatry ko naman idayvert sa iba, kaya lang pag nakikita ko sya tinatamaan talaga ako.

[@fieryfbc536]

Sir sana magkaroon kayu ng tips para sa mga gays, juz like payo ni Kiko vlogs. E feature mo po yung tips how the straight guy fall to gays

[@enricoibanales1319]

Kaya nga hirap pag ganun, kaya ako ayoko na mag mahal sakitttt

[@nicodalemampusti2744]

hi! ngayon lang nakapag subscribe, been watching some of your latest videos and i only comment here...hahaha nakarelate lang.. may mga lalaki talagang darating sa buhay natin na magbibigay lang ng masasayang memories tapos iiwan ka din sa huli,

[@zakitorres16]

This video was recommended on my timeline and wow. You gained a new subscriber. I can relate haha

[@allanpancho5760]

Brings back the memories.

[@chandice1229]

Oh my! This is sooo relatable! Nakakamiss mainlove hehe

[@crisheazitro2784]

Hi Marvin Im new subscriber mo. fan or adik ako s mga BL stories although im 47 yrs old girl and single parent. na tutuwa kc ako sa mga ka tulad MO walang arte kc kyo. gustong gusto ko Yung mga gay n nd nagddress Yung normal mag damit like a guy p din. Alam ko masarap mag mahal ang mga LGBT Ma selos nga lang😂Sana magkarun k ng mga stories about gay couple fav ko kc makinig or manood ng mga BL series or movies at stories. ingat k palagi Lalo n s luvlyf❤️😊

[@marvinsamaco]

Haha ang cool. Thank you po

[@ajaxp7176]

I'm not the type of gay guy na ma fall sa straight but may exp rin ako na ganyan. Lahat ng tao inaakala na kami na and feel ko rin na may something na nga between us. Super possessive na nya, tapos inaaya nya ko na kami lang. Nag eeffort talaga sya for me tapos di ko napapansin na nafall na rin ako. Pero ang ending nilayuan nya ko kasi nga raw "straight" daw sya and mali daw na samahan pa nya ko. After non di na nya ko pinapansin. Masakit pero buti na lang best in pagpapanggap na okay lang ako kaya nagpaka strong independent gay guy ako.

[@marvinsamaco]

Cheers sa mga magaling magpanggap na okay lang haha

[@jikoh09]

I feel for youu hugss! Love this vid 🥰

[@marvinsamaco]

🤗🤗

[@rodelmorcilla3677]

Nakakatuwa ka po magkwento.. feel na feel talaga reminisce ang college days. Hehe Napapangiti ako habang pinapanood kita. 😅🤭☺️ OMG one sided love nangyari! Sayang.hehe

[@daril1782]

Sarap talaga pag kwentuhan mga ganyan bagay lalo na with coffee. Hehe. Not exactly been there Vin, but i have a lot of straight guy frnds, they treat u nice but i’ve nver assumed na they like back romantically bcoz they styrt nga. Lesson learned, ahm control ur emotions in a sense that don’t be assumed. Pero nakakatuwa ka magkwento Vin. Hehehe

[@marvinsamaco]

🙌🙌

[@zerozoneadamgarcia836]

Beautiful story marvin 👍🏻😊

[@xavier4822]

Super relate! Experienced that too

[@jaysonbraveheart1321]

Infatuation po un nangyari...I've been there ngaun.. sobrang hirap .lalo kapag introvert ka..

[@jumarkpelismino5632]

Tingin ko maraming straight guys ang gustong makipagkaibigan sa iyo kasi hindi ka halatang bakla... Pero karamihan talaga ng mga straight guys ay takot makisalamuha sa mga bakla... Lalo na kapag alam nilang may malisya ang pakikipagkaibigan sa kanila...

[@ElviraSongalla]

nakakatuwa ka real story tuloy tuloy at nakuhanan ng lessons sabi wag umaasa baka mali ang naramdaman mo may tao talagang mabait at maalaga kaya minsan tayo inaalagaan ma fall sarilihin na lang at pakiligin ang sarili mo inspiration kung baga ingat ikaw balikan kita po naubos yung slot ko hehe

[@marvinsamaco]

❤️❤️

[@lylegee6369]

Hahahah ang cute nang pagkakwento. Naalala ko tuloy yung experience ko. 🤪

[@francisbautista7038]

hahaha natatawa ako sa kwento kz medyo nkaka relate ako nung mga panahon na bata p at medyo immature p. pro nung lumaon ayun nga mas mrami p akong fren tlga n straight guy kesa s PLU

[@marvinsamaco]

😅😅

[@arnoldnaval8842]

Normal lang ma inlove s str8 pero dapat alam m ang boundary mo.. i had one n now married w kids.. alam nya n may gusto ako s kanya pero walang issue s kanya.. comfortable sya n nkikitulog ako s room nya kasi alam nya n d ko sya gagapangin n n prove nman nya n ilang beses.. now mas lumalim n frinedship nmin n may mga issues sya s buhay n d nya ma share s wife nya.. minsan konsintidor p yun pag mag nkkaksalaubong kming cute or guy n nka tingin s amin irereto p ako.. parang magkapatid nlng turing ko s kanya.. from crush to friend to na inlove ako to kumpare to deeper friendship to close to mag utol na..

[@fieryfbc536]

Dapat po ba dapat e reveal ang tru feelings mo sa straight guys? Mga tips po sir

[@rodelmorcilla3677]

To be honest kahit kase sabihin natin na tinatanggap na ngayon ng society ang lgbt comm. hindi pa rin natin maikakaila na marami ang umiiwas na mga straight or member din ng comm. na maging open makipagrelasyon kase still alam nila ijujudge pa rin sila at pandidirihan pa rin sila. Kaya kahit gusto na nila yung tao, hindi pa rin nila nakukuhang ipaglaban. Honest opinion ko lang po ito. Sad but true.

[@marvinsamaco]

Yeah I kinda agree. Arte ng kinda hahaha

[@rodelmorcilla3677]

@@marvinsamaco 😅😂

[@wdq213]

I love how you tell your stories. kakakilig lol hehe

[@djmatsuda24]

Guess wala nman masama db? It’s not really about the gender. It’s more on the personality and being true to ones self. Love is inevitable despite what gender. That’s all I know. And man, this is a good content. Na inlove na din ata aq sa gumawa neto. Hehe 💜

[@djmatsuda24]

Wow thank you at na notice mo din aq at last lodz hehe ✌️

[@djmatsuda24]

@@peterthemayor1713 ohh sorry. Go ahead. By all means ☺️

[@bien4u]

Na fifeel ko ito right now pero coming from my straight friend... or maybe I'm just giving meanings sa kanyang kabaitan at pagiging clingy. We are of the same age, he's also married and with a kid- na inaanak ko. Anyways, it's like this- ako usually kausap nito pag may mga problems sa life nya lalo na sa kanyang marriage at some point he keeps telling me na ❤️ daw nya ako (in words) and I usually reply with some other thing at di lang isang beses nangyari 😂😂😂... oh PNP sya.