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WHAT AN EPISODE!!
We had the amazing Naima B. Robert on the podcast to discuss her reversion story, a Muslim's perspective, understanding Allah's assignment for you, showing up in your life, can men and women be friends, nice guys finishing last and much much more!
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[favoured]

I’m not a Muslim but born-again Christian, I don’t know why but I came across clips of this interview on Instagram. I was impressed by the topics she touches on about marriage and life, and loved her comments. This is the second interview of your channel I watched today. The third interview is in the queue. Thank you for sharing. God bless!

[Breathe Repeat]

"There's nothing random." I believe that too. Everyday, I give thanks for all the interactions I have, and how everything works out the way it should for the best. As Allah Wills. Alhamdulillah

[Geezer 30]

This is my first time to ever watch this sister talk… alihamdulilah for Islam. As Muslim ummah we need more sisters like her Now I will start following her

[Nasi Bergedil]

Yeahhhh definitely! I think it would be nice to also if she collaborated with pearlythings as she always discuss about redpills stuff

[Drushki]

As a brother this benefitted me a lot, especially the bits about how Allah will ask us about our skills and time

[Habon Hamud]

I love this sister she’s really speaking facts to us girls❤️🙌🏽

[Bithiah Amariah]

I commend her on her understanding of victimhood, and the need to rise above it. Well said.

[Nah Really bro ?]

Really enjoyed this episode. Naimah is a much needed voice in the Ummah. Allah bless her

[Aisha]

Ameen

[Nafiza Esheta]

I am amazed just to realize that Allah subhanallah ta’la put so much talent in sister Naima. The more I listen to her the more i love her personality. She is really such gift of Allah for a muslims women and ummah.

[Joaquim Gonsalves]

This is a brilliant conversation overall. Thank you so much and May Allah bless you both, the team and your families for sharing this insightful, fair and encouraging podcast. Ameen.

[Joseph Mukoto]

As a man, I agree with her thoughts (1:13:15) of a woman working towards pleasing her husband. Quite profound to hear this from a Muslim woman. May her sons rise up and call her blessed!

[jihyo kim]

but there's nothing wrong if the husband try to make his wife happy because in islam the woman should respect her husband and make him happy and the husband also he should protect his wife respect her and make her happy

[Nature is my lover]

@jihyo kim exactly this people are forgetting it goes both ways

[erotic erotica]

​ it's everything wrong with this theory dear friend! Why a woman only should try to please her husband constantly and not both of them? They are a couple. Meaning that both should cherish and respect each other, not the woman only should sacrifice even her dignity for his shake! Come on, that's a misogynistic mentality, very degrading for women. 😢

[Lady Solidarity]

Subhanallah this is one of the most relevant talks I've ever heard. May Allah continue to bless you sister!!!! Thanks for another great interview Fairdinkum!! May Allah continue to guide you all!

[Yasameen M]

19:00 subhanAllah I thoroughly enjoy Naima's content and find it incredibly beneficial, this has to be one of my favourite episodes, great job on getting this organised!👏

[Manuel Maloa]

Watching from Mozambique 🇲🇿 and I think that it's an Interesting episode. Keep doing and inspiring, may Allah accept it and give a Jannatul Firdous to all of us.

[FairDinkumAU]

Allahuma Ameen!!

[Myra's Art Studio]

Alhamdulillah for this episode! I've been praying for Allah to replace the Secular Rom Com's version of love with what Allah designed marriage to be and this episode showed up at the perfect time. I rarely comment on videos but I just had to. Can't wait to rewatch with my notebook this time! May Allah bless you both.

[Road2Islam TV]

Barokallahu Fiikum I love this sister, as a muslim woman/ indonesian woman..I appreciate her contributes to dakwah in her country May Allah protect and bless her

[SH]

Best podcast ever. I've listened twice to take notes cuz a lot of haqq said in it, many relevant things to think about. MANY THANKS, from Paris. Barakallahu fikum

[FairDinkumAU]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[I bear witness that there is no deity but Allah]

I love her and everything she says.

[Aisha]

Allahumma barak May Allah swt protect her Ameen

[I bear witness that there is no deity but Allah]

@Aisha Ameen

[Keith Chad]

I'm not Muslim but I loved the talk

[Mitchell Thompson]

I was going to type the exact same thing.

[Malik Yasir Awan]

May Allah SWT bless you and make your way clear for islam❤🤗

[Aisha]

@Malik Yasir AwanAmeen

[Malayang Amihan]

MashaAllah i am also converted in islam 8 years ago and my islam name is Naima😍❤

[World Seethe]

I love sister naima. I’ve been following her for while now and may Allah grant her jannatul firdous

[Na’ima B. Robert]

Ameen! JazakAllahu khairan for your support!

[World Seethe]

@Na’ima B. Robert Wa iyaakum

[endospore1]

Ameen

[AbdullahHimself]

mashaallah this was awesome we need more of these conversations especially for the ummah

[sarah salih]

At the fear of sounding like a feminist, I was just about to ask for more episodes with muslim female leaders. Tbarak Allah, one of my favourite episodes so far.

[FairDinkumAU]

definitely will be more to come inshaAllah!

[philomath]

Sooo excited to watch this, love sister Naima! Hoping she visits Australia again soon inshaAllah!

[ihavethingstodo]

I love her for the sake of Allah may Allah protect her and grant her jannah yarb !

[Bello olawale]

Thank you for this podcast. i came from IG to watch the full video. It is very insightful. Jazakallahu khair

[FairDinkumAU]

Wa iyakum 🙏🏼

[speaking on behalf of Your missing common sense]

Omg shout out to guinee/Guinea 🇬🇳, saw this on insta & I'm glad I watched this whole thing, on jarama (thank you) this video really influencing me, specially on this journey to find a wife. Thank you both beautiful souls may you receive your blessings for this episode

[a San]

Very nice and inspiring interview. For muslims men and women -- A ship in the harbor is safe , but that is not what ships are made for. We all have to find strengths that Allah has blessed us and see how we can use them to build strong communities. At the same time we should try as men and women to help people in need, and try to get rid of injustices that are unfortunately mostly of cultural values. As parents , need to raise strong children with good muslim values. Always have your hobbies as men and women. If you like to write , or make jewelry, calligraphy, wood working etc . Thats why muslims created beautiful Arts. Get away from that computer. Have good friendships with with your friends and brothers and other relatives. You must have seen those pictures from old times, when 20 people are sitting listening to one wise men on the floor. All old learned traditions made people humble. May be how to have a fulfilling life.

[Samira Chami]

In a marriage both women and men should please each other. This is very important, but as individuals we shouldn’t be dependant on our partners to be happy. Happiness comes with contentment.

[jihyo kim]

finally i found something talk about these point 😭

[Nature is my lover]

Finally people with Brain

[Mufti Abdur Rahman]

These days, too many Muslims are obsessed over relationships and haram acts. Unfortunately, Jahili and ignorant ones dare to tell me that I am speaking against Quran and Sunna, when I try to educate them about the true purpose of life. I believe I am more qualified to discuss this topic than most people who are posting here. Marriage and sex are never the objective of life for Muslims. Loving Allah is what matters. Loving God, loving humanity is what matters. Some people marry and then get heart broken. Many people stay single and are in love with their Creator. Allah is their everlasting friend. Even if someone finds marriage to be necessary, he or she should not convince everyone to marry just because we think it is right. Mariam the daughter of Imran was single. Asiya has the worst husband in the world which was close to not having a husband. Yet Allah loved them the most. Some Muslim scream at me don’t you dare make the halal into haram! I tell them don’t you dare blame Allah for it, when you are being tortured in those black sites. The majority of those who were tortured in those black site prisons became non-Muslim and hated Islam, and blamed Allah for their tests. Not only were they sexually assaulted and tortured, they also gave up their Iman. This is what happens when Muslims engage in perverse and sick sexual relations and treat their wives or husbands as carnal flesh. I have interviewed thousands of ex-Muslims and they all admitted that they were very active in marital conjugal relations, and always tried new sick sexual style with their wives, in halal ways of course using sex toys and other deviations. Now, not only did they become ex-Muslims but they also preach against Allah and his Prophet.

[NoProsthesisForYourSoul]

I think this was the best podcast I’ve ever seen.

[Ijja Aziki]

This is one of the best podcast I've ever seen, l really like sister Naima God bless her.

[FairDinkumAU]

Glad you enjoyed it

[Jannah Gyaal]

This was awesome!! ❤❤❤❤❤

[Aleba Munir]

Really enjoyed this podcast it’s been so insightful, the fruit bowl analogy had me👌🏼👌🏼

[kicks _verified]

@1:24:52 first time listening to this pod. Listened to all of it on new years night. I’ll listen again & respond back in a year on how things are going. InshAllah

[dom]

SubhanAllah there's IQ (Intelligent Quotient), there's EQ (Emotional Quotient) and then there's SQ (Spiritual Quotient) and Shaykha Naima Robert's EQ and SQ is very high. Top alpha female, mashaAllah tabarakAllah.

[Tricky Stuff]

Please, stop exaggerating. This is not appropriate.

[Goku Black]

stop this silly terminology like alpha.

[miss gyal]

What the heck💀 What kind of redpill bs is this?

[Nazish Bibi]

What an amazing episode 👌🏽👍🏽

[Rameen]

Insightful episode, Allahumma barik ✨

[Farhat K.C.]

Sister Naima is really inspiring for me as a woman. I think Muslims have employed this idea of being humble to the point of debasement, which is really detrimental for a person's self esteem and confidence.

[Mohpat]

Mashallah sister keep up the good work

[Bas Nation]

This woman is a saint.

[The DEVINe Network]

1:01:20 The part that most of us who aren’t Muslims came for (let’s be honest…)

[mohamed smaili]

بارك الله فيكم و وفقكم الله لما يحبه ويرضاه آمين يارب العالمين Allah bless you both my brother and sister. Ameen ya Rabb alaalameen

[FairDinkumAU]

🙏🏼🙏🏼

[Imperial S]

Very nice story to listen to you thank you!!

[Jamila Sirage]

Mashallah sister may Allah increase ppl like you

[M.RusAnN]

Amazing story sister naima I impress thanks❤

[Zak Me]

Benefited a lot from you Sister, may Allah bless you

[Nylo Crea]

May Allah protect her. Ameen

[Mr man]

Mashallah beautiful, noor just radiating for her speech

[Aisha]

Allahumma barak

[favoured]

1:06:04 She was spot on, on this topic.

[Ahmed Harissa]

The part on being present is gold

[SftBah]

Masha Allah sister you are very sensible may Allah subuhanawatallah guide you and keep you going

[Goku Black]

sister naima keeping it real

[R M]

Really liked this episode. Naima is real...alhamdulillah. I am happy to serve my husband, nowadays it's seen as being weak but it takes a strong woman to admit it... I am making a conscious effort to use the time Allah has given me to learn our Deen. Allahu Akhbar 😊

[FairDinkumAU]

Glad to hear that 💪

[Nature is my lover]

You dont serve ur husband what….? You obey him and love him just like how he obeys love and protect you

[MUHSIN SHEIKH]

I Love this channel 😊

[Peekaboo neutral]

I love the colour coded books in the bookshelf 😅 41:38

[alsa]

make a part 2 with sister naima please!

[Peace Now]

جزاک اللہ خیرا

[Wrestling • Judo MS]

There's very few women this logical and sound minded. It's an extreme rarity.

[Raushanah Muwwakkil]

Sometimes it who such women are around, persons who can inspire and develops the seed that lies deep within the female.This seed has been stifled out of fear of empowering females

[miss gyal]

@Raushanah Muwwakkil Care to elaborate?

[Muhammad Laisu]

Thank you so much for this

[Anisa Jones]

in MiddlesbroughHadith:”There will come upon the people years of deceit…” → ‘Abdullah Ibn Masood (radi Allahu ‘anhu) on a time when the Speakers will be many and the Scholars will be few Posted on Tue 5 Dhul Hijjah 1432AH 1-11-2011AD by islamtees The following saying of the great Sahabi, ‘Abdullah ibn Masood (رضي الله عنه‏) is worthy of reflection: Abu Khaithama narrated to us, saying: Jareer reported to us from ‘Abdullaah ibn Yazeed, i.e. As-Sahbaanee, from Kumail bin Ziyaad that ‘Abdullaah (bin Mas’ood) said: “Verily, you are in a time in which the scholars are many and the speakers are few. And verily there will come a time after you in which the speakers will be many and the scholars will be few.” [This narration in mawqoof form has an authentic chain. Its narrators are all narrators from the two Saheeh Collections, except for ‘Abdullaah bin Yazeed As-Sahbaanee. However, he is trustworthy and his biography can be found in al-Jarh wat-Ta’deel. Source: from the book, The Book of Knowledge, by Imaam Abu Khaithama Zuhayr bin Harb An-Nasaa’ee (died 234H), with Verification and Notes by Imaam Muhammad Naasir-ud-Deen Al-Albaanee, Al-Ibaanah Book Publishing.

[Anisa Jones]

The best example for men qn woman is our رسول الله صلى الله عليه والصهابيات . He was and still is tge best of men this is why we were commanded to follow his example. الفضائل Malik reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “I have been sent to perfect good character.” Source: al-Muwaṭṭa’ 1614 Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Ibn Abdul Barr عَنْ مَالِك أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ بُعِثْتُ لِأُتَمِّمَ حُسْنَ الْأَخْلَاقِ 1614 موطأ مالك كتاب الجامع باب حسن الخلق ما جاء في حسن الخلق 24/333 المحدث ابن عبدالبر خلاصة حكم المحدث يتصل من طرق صحاح في التمهيد

[Anisa Jones]

This is why we are commanded to seek knowledge of Allah and the messenger and with understanding of his companions so learn my dear muslims and seek knowledge from the white bearded ones and be careful of tge beautiful speech.

[Nature is my lover]

Indeed don’t take knowledge just form any speaker

[ismail ahmed]

Mansha Allah🎉 Sister naima

[Mich P]

1:05-1:10 She mentioned something about 1 man & 1 woman being a Christian concept, but there were prophets who had multiple wives even within Christianity.

[Kay Kay]

Although Prophet Muhammad (SAW) remarried after Khadijah (RA) and loved his wives. There are many evidences that no one else could replace Khadijah RA and she had a very special place in his heart. Source: Once Aisha (RA) asked him if Khadijah (RA) had been the only woman worthy of his love. The Prophet SAW replied: “She believed in me when no one else did; she accepted Islam when people rejected me; and she helped and comforted me when there was no one else to lend me a helping hand.” So I disagree with the whole soulmate being a more non Muslim thing because we all have that one person who is for us whether it be in this life or the next. I feel like having no soulmate or multiple soulmates is weird so its not a unfamiliar thing to just really connect with that one person but this is just my opinion. Allah swt knows best!

[Susan Somaliland]

If you guys lover like I saw in your comments please follow her to support her Show some love our sister 👸🥰✊💯

[Maha Alotaibi]

Yep its true nice men do finish last ! Women will forgive and give million chances to toxic abusive men and years of waiting for him to change! However with the nice man they get bored easily and cheat on him or leave him after one little mistake.

[Adam Khan]

A man must be assertive, dominant, have leadership qualities, be able to fight and even if he's a nice guy after all these qualities his wife will be satisfied with him.

[B]

Not true

[Saleh Realist]

@Adam Khan a man is the maintainer of women. assertive and be in control. She should be submissive.

[Adam Khan]

@Saleh Realist She should be subbmissive and obedient 100%

[B]

@Saleh Realist it's hard to be submissive to most men today

[Khizar Samin]

what a beautiful talk sister

[yibbi]

subhanAllah

[jihyo kim]

I don't agree with her on a certain point when she said that in Islam the woman is the one who is obligated to make her husband happy and not the other way around In Islam the husband is obligated to make his wife happy and the wife is obligated to make her husband happy so I hope you make sure of your religious information before sharing it because because of your misunderstanding non-Muslims think that Islam is insulting to women which is wrong Just as men have an important position women also have an important position

[Nature is my lover]

True they’re talking like it’s some slave and master relationship

[Alexis D]

It’s more than insulting and you know it.

[M A]

This puts non Muslims off

[Abdel Oubaziz]

Amazing story

[Salman]

great one mashallah

[Sara xx]

I Wish I could meet her one day

[Mohamed Ismail]

Allah says he will not change you unless you change youself .

[Reemie R]

Yes, means is waseelah (وسيلة) in Arabic.

[Ayo Akin Jamiu Ismail]

Jazakalau khair

[Locadia Kaskayi]

Love Naima my Zimbabwean sister it will be nice if you could visit us for a talk

[flower bee]

Mashallah

[Andrew Michaels]

I saw a TikTok clip on her and now this is on my recommended too.

[The Hebrew Housewife]

Time stamps next time? Subhanallah

[homeschoolingoasis]

Insh Allah I'll be back in a year and let y'all know where I am at 😅

[Na’ima B. Robert]

I'll check in to see!

[Justin Time]

@Naimabroberttv beloved sister.. nice guys meant to finish last because they meant be elevated in status with Allah not in dunya which means they will be taken for granted yet the lesson is to do for the sake of allah and not for desire yet he should ressonate respect..as few good women are in dunya and majority of hell fire is women. So it dont matter to get approval. Like our prophet was gentle and nice he was talking futuristic like right of women etc and he got abused by qurayash and khadija stuck by him but ladies in 2023 will leave him and call him soft and the pu--y word .. even if a man had something spiritually overwhelming like how the prophet seen angel she will tell him your crazy she wont cloak him like khadija tbh sister honor is in independence but like nice guys dnt need to be nice to everyone but be real to there devine soul mate.. if they get taken for granted allah will replace better then whats gone. Always happen. Clean heart always win. At the same time is great for someone to believe in u like khadija did with our prophet pbuh.. but bad women can lead good men into sin..but bc women are powerful influence to men this is why most men get sucess when they get married.. and soul mates exist if u go to sura nissa.. souls and created in pairs and that half is scattered to be many souls.. the science of the soul is complex yet islamic science is thing of the past.. is not studied anymore as books have been burned in morroco and iraq by invaders. I think your thought to be very true however. Nice guys do become last place if they see that as a the prize. Is the intention.. but some nice guys can be good with being both the brave macho guy to. But being nice is a choice for the sake of allah but some are nice nice that naivity but if they know better yet they do it because is for sake of allah is different ..in this day and age sacrifice cant be appreciated by a person in dunya but seen and rewarded by allah is meant to come off as weak but really a show of true power and strength

[The truth Hurts]

This video came up first and the thumbnail said MUST WATCH And Naima b Roberts so i had to watch it

[S Rahman]

❤️❤️❤️❤️🌹🌹🌹

[vanishing]

Both should try to make the other happy. Nowhere it is stated that only the woman should try to make her husband happy.

[J0KeZ]

Pls drop em timestamps :)

[sesi miryam]

word

[Aisha]

In shaa Allah

[what’s new]

The audio isn’t synced, or is it just me

[Mudane Yegbicadaan]

So the spot is Zimbabwe 🇿🇼 . ☕️🤔 !

[abhi nag]

I SEE ALOT OF VIRTUE SIGNALLING.

[Susan Somaliland]

1:20:00

[Ehsan H]

33:58

[Queen Beyoncé]

Isnt it sunna for a man to be romantic with his wife? Showering with her feeding her ect?

[Nox]

You should avoid using the term sunna for every act that our prophet ﷺ used to do. It doesn’t always have the status of sunna sister

[أمل الفرحة]

@Nox what??🙄🙄

[miss gyal]

@Nox What??? That is literally what Sunnah is. Why are you spreading misinformation?

[Samira Chami]

Absolutely! This what I read. It does make sense to be romantic with each other.

[Adam Khan]

It is sunnah to be romantic with your wife. But not everyone follows every sunnah. Same way its a sunnah for a man to marry 4 times etc.

[Ehsan H]

32:50

[Justin Time]

And brother is talking about not go towards footsteps of the shaytan ... is better avoided. @naimaBRobertTV

[Kenni Ifediora]

1:01:30

[DiamondSaf]

16:00

[F.P]

Where are these good guys sister?

[Nature is my lover]

You don’t see them they only appear when you ask Allah to give them to you

[Mutawe Abu]

😀 just want to her face ,bse she is giving a million dollar speech

[Jewelweed]

I need to cut back on KZbin consumption. Particularly response videos and those dawah guys. Speakers corner people. I don't see much benefit from my watching them and I have gotten too distracted by that stuff. It reminds me of listening to gossip. I need to stick to actual scholars and avoid the carnival show others provide. It's compelling and gets views, but I can't help but think there is a bad side to that content. And the comment section, wow, it might be best if I don't read any comments.

[Nature is my lover]

YESS THANK YOU THIS WHOLE CONTENT IS COMING FROM A WEIRD PLACE AND WE BOTH KNOW…..anywas can you recommend me some actual scholars

[Magicial Girl Presius Tajah]

@Nature is my lover easy, type it in. Your not trying hard. Yet your gossiping against these people. You don't consider her a scholar!? Silly.

[Nature is my lover]

@Magicial Girl Presius Tajah Assalamu Alaykum this sister is not a scholar no one in this account is a scholar nor do they come close to it. Allhamdulliah My Lord has given me channels that have videos of the TRUE SCHOLARS the scholars don’t have KZbin channels most of them have passed away and some are here. Abdullah ibn Amr reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Verily, Allah does not withhold knowledge by snatching it away from his servants, but rather he withholds knowledge by taking the souls of scholars, until no scholar remains and people follow ignorant leaders. They are asked and they issue judgments without knowledge. Thus, they are astray and lead others astray.” Source: Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 100, Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2673