Narcissist Gives You Sexual OCD | Spiritual Warfare

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Danish Bashir

Danish Bashir

Күн бұрын

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@oceanside13
@oceanside13 Күн бұрын
My friends and therapists do not understand this. Thank you Danish for understanding, and for saying it out loud.
@dsmusicbird
@dsmusicbird Күн бұрын
What about the kind that withholds love, intimacy, emotional intimacy and support, any touch, withholds kissing, dates/romance, affection, all except maybe an occasional hug. And you’re married to him!? WTF is that!? He blames his lack on his wife!
@karenwatts6652
@karenwatts6652 Күн бұрын
This describes him EXACTLY!!! Porn addiction was involved, too.
@Apparition-x
@Apparition-x Күн бұрын
Been in this situation for 10 years in a 20 year marriage. It has broken me to the core. I feel like the ugliest woman alive. Meanwhile strange men chase after me all the time and tell me Im gorgeous. Im only 37 and already done, I think I can never enjoy sex or being vulnerable again in my life. Im starting to close the chapter.
@dsmusicbird
@dsmusicbird Күн бұрын
You’re not alone 💞
@jenniferkrystal0802
@jenniferkrystal0802 Күн бұрын
I can relate... it's such a shame and he blames me for his restrictions as well.
@cc1k435
@cc1k435 Күн бұрын
It's withholding affection or touch starvation. It's one more form of manipulation commonly used by narcissists, who will also say it's somehow your fault. 💔
@monicarai1497
@monicarai1497 Күн бұрын
Thats why its SO important to stay no contact with them. Do NOT go back no matter what. They'll get worse each time.
@stacihensley7533
@stacihensley7533 Күн бұрын
I left a 29-year marriage to a malignant narcissist this year, with the help of a great counselor and the support of many family and friends, and the part that has been hardest to overcome is the relentless sexual abuse. It's only now that I'm beginning to sort through it in my own mind; have been too ashamed to talk about it until very recently, and even then only to one person. Can't tell you how much I appreciate this video; in fact all your videos have been very helpful. Thank you for sharing your insights.
@melaniebalzer7806
@melaniebalzer7806 Күн бұрын
I am so proud that you made it out of it. 5 years after divorcing a narcissist which not only put all the mental abuse, also physical abuse + violation on me I am still recovering. Got into therapy this year, because I figured that the damage + wounds which I wasn´t able to heal myself are going deeper as expected. - There are so many aspects in life, where I have to recalibrate my nervous system, my thoughts, my thinking and even my physical + emotional feelings, that it´s good to search for help. It was a complete misconception of myself, that I thought beeing out of the situation will help me and I will be okay. Or even when finally after years it toke, before there is finally no contact there was still a lot of internal fights in my brain and I was feeling somewhat like a psychopath. Thought about how bad of a person I am and thoughts that I don´t wanna do stuff wrong and I try to be a good person. I will learn, that a lot of the ideas which are still spooking in my head are the rest rumors of 22 years of brainwash. Not my own thought. It was put into my head. And I did forget that it was the saying of the narc. Be kind to yourself and love yourself and give yourself everything you didn´t had before. You are a lovely human beeing. You are a good person. You deserve love, kindness and patience. Sometimes you will feel relieved, sometimes you might feel disregulated or will be struggling and you can not figure out the reason why. It´s absolutely okay to still love yourself and be kind with you. Healing most often is not going the straight forward path you imagined it to happen. ALL THE BEST for the upcoming future and finding back to your pure nature.
@dsmusicbird
@dsmusicbird 20 сағат бұрын
@@stacihensley7533 it is Not your shame! It is theirs! Let that go 😮‍💨💨 Dump it back into their toxic swamp! You do not have anything to be ashamed about. The shame you feel, doesn’t belong to you 😉
@SharonDee333
@SharonDee333 Күн бұрын
Been free of my narc ex for 3 years, and I haven’t been with anyone since, and I have ZERO desire to pursue a romantic relationship with anyone ever again.
@ingridwrites
@ingridwrites Күн бұрын
Me too. Not even flirt. The desire just falls off me like rain dries up in the desert.
@SharonDee333
@SharonDee333 Күн бұрын
@ me too. It’s kind of helped me in a lot of ways too. I was able to get sober, and I realized I needed to be intoxicated in order to leave my body when I was ever intimate with anyone in the past. My way of dealing with experiences that happened long before I was with a narcissist. And now I have been able to at least feel comfortable having conversations with people. Before I was an empty shell of a person.
@Sassygirl-p8l
@Sassygirl-p8l 16 сағат бұрын
Same. Also 3 years for me. Not interested in meeting new people. Emotionally numb.
@ingridwrites
@ingridwrites 15 сағат бұрын
​@@Sassygirl-p8lI'm sorry 😢
@beautiful1423
@beautiful1423 9 сағат бұрын
It’s been 3 years and the freedom is so joyful 😄
@angela5627
@angela5627 20 сағат бұрын
Thank you thank you. I just woke up from a sexual nightmare and I feel so much. I am grateful that you make these videos. It helps an autistic, abuse survivor like me understand so so much better. I feel like I have lived so many lives; my mind, my body, my identity has endured so much. Your videos help me to understand why I am the way I am now and before. I’m a healing person body and soul and this helps Yes I am so deeply done with feeling shame and guilt. I hope to one day have a healthier relationship with my emotions
@Blessed_Eternity_888
@Blessed_Eternity_888 11 сағат бұрын
Me2💔
@blueStarKitt7924
@blueStarKitt7924 3 сағат бұрын
May you heal and find peace. Be safe.❤
@aseasonalname1421
@aseasonalname1421 Күн бұрын
My ex would throw fits and temper tantrums when I didn’t want to have sex. Huff and puff, slam doors etc the whole next day or so. Got to the point I’d just do it to do it and get it over with and have peace for a few days. He’d also get mad if I didn’t do it automatically on every holiday, his birthday etc. Those holidays were a given for sex and if I didn’t feel well or was tired etc. he’d throw a tantrum. Almost 18 years married to him. I’m still traumatized by it.
@Accuface2000
@Accuface2000 16 сағат бұрын
Why are you married yet you don't understand conjugal rights? Looks like you married for the wrong reason
@susanwarford4221
@susanwarford4221 Күн бұрын
Happy Holidays Danish. I will never be able to thank you enough for your podcasts about narcissism. I am Almost 60 yrs into my marriage and 10 yrs. Into counseling. You describe narcissistic behavior in a way I can relate to and then put into action with my husband. You are a genius. ❤❤❤❤
@monicarai1497
@monicarai1497 Күн бұрын
They'll fight with you the entire day and still expect sex in the night. I don't get that. How do you get to the point of fighting the entire day being called all kinds of names like "whore" and what not... and then expecting sex at the end of the day. That's crazy
@kirsikka3752
@kirsikka3752 23 сағат бұрын
I am glad my narc ex called me whore once, because that was the point I was never going to let him touch me again. Few months later I left. I hope you find power to leave and never look back. ❤
@neethuk7940
@neethuk7940 17 сағат бұрын
Totally resonates with my situation. Saying everything bad to me and about to our son the whole day and coming to sleep at night with me!!!😔
@anonymous85953
@anonymous85953 Күн бұрын
Divorced from a covert passive aggressive narcissist. What you were saying about the narcissist saying those things to get sex....heard them a million times over. I was always the one in the "wrong" and he was such an angel. Even more difficult when the church leadership sides with him and helps with the ongoing abuse towards you. It still hurts today. It's not all churches, but that one specific church did me very wrong and put me in further danger with him. There needs to better training about abusive situations within the church.
@earthelucidator
@earthelucidator Күн бұрын
The church in these late, evil hours is very infected. Be very careful what church you go to and who you let teach you. If they dont get their answers from The Holy Bible then you are learning from evil.
@LuRothman
@LuRothman Күн бұрын
I was excommunicated
@cc1k435
@cc1k435 Күн бұрын
Sounds like a blessing. 🤔​@@LuRothman
@cc1k435
@cc1k435 Күн бұрын
And the family court systems, which tend to not understand what they are looking at.
@phyllischaffin4052
@phyllischaffin4052 Күн бұрын
Yes! I haven't attended church in years because some church members did so much damage to me. I worship God at home.
@suzannemartin5984
@suzannemartin5984 Күн бұрын
My 20 yr marriage in a nutshell. Thankyou for your kindness and supportive knowledge on this journey. 🖤⭐️
@janetkendle2073
@janetkendle2073 Күн бұрын
Sex with my non narc husband still feels shameful. I feel so bad that he has to be punished for something he never did. But he is patient with me.
@jenniferkrystal0802
@jenniferkrystal0802 Күн бұрын
Thank you for talking about this. It's a very sensitive topic that not many talk about.
@cc1k435
@cc1k435 Күн бұрын
Unless you have lived it, it's hard to believe. And even when you have, it's hard to describe.
@jenniferkrystal0802
@jenniferkrystal0802 Күн бұрын
@@cc1k435 I agree, it's hard to explain it to anyone who hasn't experienced it. Even the victims still get confused after having some understanding of what's going on.
@LilySunshine-q1p
@LilySunshine-q1p Күн бұрын
Thank you for discussing such a sensitive topic, Danish!
@tamarawilliams276
@tamarawilliams276 Күн бұрын
Thank you so very much for this video. Very well explained and validating. The damage caused by this dynamic is immeasurable, and absolutely evil. It can take years to heal from, and often there is never complete recovery.
@marka.8535
@marka.8535 Күн бұрын
Thank you for covering this issue.
@Ana_Sor4ever
@Ana_Sor4ever Күн бұрын
Well , I am for ever damaged after my 20 years marriage with a covert - grandios narcissist . I got cervix cancer , because he cheated on me and brought me HPV virus 🦠. But this wasn’t the worst , if you can imagine! It was hell on Earth ! But I am free now , divorced, feeling so grateful for your lessons , which helped me beyond words , Danish ! May God bless your with infinite blessings ❤🙏!!!
@AmberSaitta
@AmberSaitta 20 сағат бұрын
Same
@Bianca2802
@Bianca2802 Күн бұрын
I could heal because i was so lucky to finally meet a man who respects my boundaries, respects my feelings and who I am. He was so patient with me,that finally now ,after knowing him for half a year, I started trusting him and beeing vulnerable and he restored my identity somehow. So even when my narcissist ex Husband sends me abusive text messages, it doesnt trigger me anymore❤
@EricaK.310
@EricaK.310 Күн бұрын
What I feel, is Shame.
@EricaK.310
@EricaK.310 Күн бұрын
I went no contact, and once I was ready to do that, the “telepathic activity”, where he was able to read my mind and influence me, stopped. (Whether he could actually read my mind or not, is not known, but I’m describing my experience as I perceived it.)
@Miss_Takn
@Miss_Takn Күн бұрын
​@@EricaK.310 I believe you . When I tty to tell people about some stuff , weird stuff . I even sound crazy hearing me talk about it.. I 100% believe you
@trinitymarieM
@trinitymarieM Күн бұрын
Valid. Consider that it's their shame. Heavy overwhelming because all parts of yourself are rejecting the foreign invader. 2 way IV one siphons light, the other transfers dark. Nasty unrequited gift exchange. Dump that narcs demonic gift back on their door step. Return to sender. There is healing. Be the 1% that doesn't go back to them. ❤
@KathySemrau
@KathySemrau Күн бұрын
Mine was Mr. Camera 📸. He is a real camera rapist, even if it's a remote. Against my will. I am so sorry l ever met him.
@earthelucidator
@earthelucidator Күн бұрын
Thats what they want you to feel. Seek Jesus and put on your full armor of God.
@danielalee7387
@danielalee7387 Күн бұрын
Happy Holidays Danish! And wishing you a fulfilling 2025.
@Wendell-vc5lf
@Wendell-vc5lf Күн бұрын
This is so true thank you for everything you do at explaining how to heal yourself after that experience
@cindylong8056
@cindylong8056 14 сағат бұрын
This is right on, thank you for helping me understand my strange changes. This has been so damaging. And it will hurt my chances for a future relationship that could have been the beat. Thank you
@audraromero334
@audraromero334 Күн бұрын
Thank you for making a video on this topic.
@MR-ly4xt
@MR-ly4xt Күн бұрын
I have had all those feelings, Danish. I had 5 years of him bullying and guilting me into being intimate with him, even the day after my mother passed away. It was horrific. He would say "I don't feel close to you unless we are intimate". He didn't care if I felt ill, I have many health issues which made that side of a relationship very difficult. He didn't care if I was in pain, he still bullied me into it. Then he would critisize me afterwards. I used to just switch off and take my mind elsewhere, maybe to a song I liked or a happy place. I can honestly say I don't want to be with anyone else this way ever again. I even have physical scars 'down there' from this experience. I actually changed my dress sense because of him. Beforehand I would wear what I wanted, but over time during the relationship I started to wear trousers more and big baggy tops to make myself look less attractive to him. Also less make-up and no perfume.
@user-gp5yh7eg4z
@user-gp5yh7eg4z Күн бұрын
Congratulations on sexual autonomy- relationships should never cause one a desire to claim it for themselves in the first place. And when they do its over.
@blueStarKitt7924
@blueStarKitt7924 3 сағат бұрын
Sorry for what you went through. May you heal and find peace and REAL love. Be safe.❤
@cherrieguitar
@cherrieguitar Күн бұрын
It was sleeping with my enemy and it felt like shyte
@foxygayla
@foxygayla Күн бұрын
My body was rejecting him at the end of the relationship. I realize it now after everything he put me through. He also withheld sex for 6 months. I'm so thankful I never had to be with him then.
@JD-qn5le
@JD-qn5le Күн бұрын
They make you feel unlovable. If they know you like something they with hold it on purpose. Truly horrific abuse. Mine was a victim covert narcissist. Took me 25 yrs of abuse to realize it was abuse. He would never look at me or touch me, sometimes if I took the lead he would make me feel bad for having any desire at all....which then completely confuses and ruins any self confidence and they make you think its your fault. If I lost weight or took care of myself. Was selfish and going to cheat? I never once even talked with another man.... he would male me take a shower even if I had just had one...basically anything so he wouldn't have to show any affection, love or interest.
@specialk8927
@specialk8927 Күн бұрын
Wow that happened to me held back six month of intimacy along with ghosting me he use to say I didn’t take a shower or I cheated
@sarahodom7091
@sarahodom7091 Күн бұрын
Most likely he's gay. There's a lot of good talks on KZbin about men on the down low. My last narc was. They have NO interest in women that way, but... want a girlfriend or wife to exploit and put in mommy mode. It's easier to dominate and bully women than other men.
@Dr.ShaziaHanif-f8l
@Dr.ShaziaHanif-f8l Күн бұрын
Very informative respected Sir!
@BeatriceNowak-Schmid
@BeatriceNowak-Schmid 19 сағат бұрын
Thank you so much for this valuable piece of work. I'm surprised about your openess and hugely relieved at the same time. I'm from Germany where apparently everyone can talk about everything but if course that's not the case. If I may be so blunt but from your name I get the impression that your roots are in a culture different to mine. However, I don't know where your knowledge about the narcissistic spectrum comes from. It just strikes me that narcissistic abuse seems to be a human phenomenon around the globe and especially when it comes to the rich and colourful world of human sexuality which is often a taboo subject the damage can not be assessed without an open discussion about it in a therapeutic setting so that healing can happen ❤ thanks a million for your support, dedication and courage ❤
@shahmiss2623
@shahmiss2623 14 сағат бұрын
My 10 years of this disgusting behaviour with two kids. After second i decided not to get pregnant as he is more demonic in my pregnancy and illnesses.
@sinjinmonsoon9055
@sinjinmonsoon9055 Күн бұрын
Getting told by the doctor what your narc husband has given you. He needs meds too and you're too scared to tell him.
@specialk8927
@specialk8927 Күн бұрын
Let him pass it on to his new supply but I wouldn’t sleep with him anymore besides I wouldn’t be scared to tell him he’s the one that cheated
@amyjane6257
@amyjane6257 4 сағат бұрын
I wouldn't want to tell him either, the blow ups when they're accused of cheating are so frightening. Please be careful or don't tell him.
@freiabarkou4153
@freiabarkou4153 Күн бұрын
Yes, I think I might have that. I try to imagine actual loving, reciprocal relationships where I don't just give, but also receive. And I try to imagine gentle cuddling and massages rather than the rough stuff the narcissist did to me.
@MsAvignon
@MsAvignon 17 сағат бұрын
I can’t even imagine a relationship when the other would take time to give me pleasure. I just can’t.
@annajoan-3
@annajoan-3 Күн бұрын
Being with my ex narc for the past 8 yrs. made me observe this very pattern. I think they wanted to feel very important in a way that is disturbing. Instead of building trust with their intimate partners, they destroy the trust that they built with you (in that case lying when they tried to put you in their pedestal). Once they have a committed partner, they can’t stand being loved authentically by one person. Instead they go on and prey on other women that is susceptible to their love bombing. My ex narc was a compulsive pursuer in a relationship. He would go back and forth to the women he were involved before or try to meet women in complicated situation so that going public isn’t an option while having you as their main supply. In the end they destroy the very person that loved them. They are like toddlers testing your love for them. Showing and telling them you love them isn’t enough, they will cheat on your face to make you feel inadequate even if you are more than they deserve. They want to test your love for them so they keep hurting you and when you have enough of their abuse, you leave. Then they tell you, ‘you never loved me because you abandon me’. Well in fact it’s their actions and narcissistic behavior that made you leave or in other cases they discard you and will give silly reasons of the discard. Mine would use, ‘she’s crazy’, ‘she’s a nega-star’, ‘she insults me’, ‘she cheated on me’ et al. So with this pattern of infidelities and emotional abuse (who knows what else) it’s better to walk away. I did walk away and is now rebuilding my life with our daughter. We are struggling financially because I’m not earning enough to provide for my daughter but now we get to laugh and bring with us sunshine every day. No lies, no abuse and no fake love. We only live once, forgive yourself and move forward but never forget the lesson that narc abuse taught you. That is to respect yourself to walk away from what’s hurting and destroying you. That you deserve a life of solitude, happiness and love. Hugs*** :) Additionally I hired a private detective Metaspyhub@gmail. com. Once I knew what the narc was up to, it got easier to get over that lying, cheating, sack of doo doo, loser. I didn’t need closure from the narc, I paid for it. Best money I EVER spent!
@lesliekupchanko5001
@lesliekupchanko5001 Күн бұрын
Because of the learning I'm doing I see two other Narcissistic relationships I had in the past clearly. The Ron F. one surprised me, though. Yes, he went back and forth with all his ex's as well.... I would like to talk to a couple of his ex's and let those girls know what I know.
@LAPRELL
@LAPRELL Күн бұрын
I just broke things off with a narc, and I am now doing the work. The narc constantly wanted sex, and I could not understand why, I thought they were a sex addict, but they never cheated. I was dealing with this for 15 years and never knew what it was. Now, it all makes sense. I truly needed this, I was always made to think it was me. Thank you so much!!! I am glad I found your channel!
@QuinnMarie222
@QuinnMarie222 Күн бұрын
Yes. Yes it did. I already had fertility issues due to Stage IV Endometriosis and on TOP of that was just s3x, more s3x, & pills/drink. It was H3LL. 20 surgeries to "fix" my fertility anyways, plus he ALWAYS expected s3x. I'm grateful to be alive.
@SheanneSheanne
@SheanneSheanne Күн бұрын
I love you Danish and your videos 💟🙏🏽
@tabbylove86
@tabbylove86 Күн бұрын
Danish you are a literal god to me😭😭😭😭❤❤God bless you
@tiempoparahablar
@tiempoparahablar Күн бұрын
Thank you very much, great information.I identified myself with all you said.
@fruity_mango6539
@fruity_mango6539 Күн бұрын
Hidden p*rn*graphy addiction!! 😭 I never knew for so many years why I started to hate it with him 😩
@allisonball4102
@allisonball4102 23 сағат бұрын
I feel ashamed of myself for being with him after seeing how casual he is & was about sex right after we would break up & ashamed of myself for letting him talk me back into being in a relationship with him after he basically invited everyone to his bed right after he broke up with me because I refused to make myself a worthless object for him. Feel worth very little after seeing how little of value my sexual partnership with him meant to him. Ashamed of myself for being with someone who would sometimes joke while we were in a relationship that the prostitute was going to come over 🤦🏽‍♀️ Can’t believe I thought so little of myself to put up with such treatment. Can’t believe I stayed with him after he thought I was other people when he was drunk & we were being intimate.. So ashamed of myself. Feel dirty.. grossed out.. betrayed by myself.
@dsmusicbird
@dsmusicbird 20 сағат бұрын
@@allisonball4102 It isn’t your fault. You didn’t know better then. Please, forgive yourself with love, compassion and acceptance 🙏 It wasn’t you.
@MsAvignon
@MsAvignon 17 сағат бұрын
That’s part of their evil. The more love you give them, the more you try to understand them, to appease them, the deeper they will hurt you. You were the good person. I know it hurts at a soul level but please don’t add more pain to yourself.
@blueStarKitt7924
@blueStarKitt7924 2 сағат бұрын
May you heal and find peace and REAL love. Be safe.❤
@carolinesimpson3819
@carolinesimpson3819 Күн бұрын
Really informative thank you x
@anthonywhite6530
@anthonywhite6530 Күн бұрын
Happy Christmas
@naowright9308
@naowright9308 Күн бұрын
If they are religious, they will quote Scriptures to make you feel like you are depriving them.
@Dorcas-777-sh7vg
@Dorcas-777-sh7vg Күн бұрын
A coërcive control narcist behaves like the best Christian in church. Almost everybody liked him! At home he uses the Bible against me! He loves to give guilt, shame and pain, never plessure. Forces to forgive him without ever regret. Thanks Danish you give words to a lot of awfull things.
@anniethompson1041
@anniethompson1041 Күн бұрын
I've been away from the narc since 2017 and the very mention of "fawning" in this video made me feel sick to my stomach.
@MJ-hl1kk
@MJ-hl1kk 17 сағат бұрын
My husband is a nice guy narcissist and leaves me cold. Luckily, he's not the type who will force himself on anyone. He is completely non-violent and for that reason I am still with him and look after him, as he is completely clueless, though he acts like a know-all. He is very slimy and I cannot even think of having it with him. So, in the end, neither of us have a sex life, though he wants to, so bad. Well, so sad, because a congenital liar will always be disgusting.
@anithag161
@anithag161 Күн бұрын
Yes, I've experienced the same. Thank you Angel Danish❤thank you angels❤thank you universe❤
@krystyna89lopez
@krystyna89lopez Күн бұрын
My hubby and I have boundaries and when the other doesn't want sex we respect it. Sometimes I do still feel Shame and disgusted with myself and I go through ups and downs. I've been with my hubby almost 10 years and I still sometimes have a hard time with sex. I just very lucky to have someone who is ok with respecting my boundaries instead of pushing me bc i know myself and if he were to do that I would probably just disassociate and become more traumatized
@marka.8535
@marka.8535 Күн бұрын
She gaslit, exerted control and when it reached a heightened point of physical and emotional abuse I knew the “ marriage “ was way beyond repair so I filed for divorce. I don’t think I have any OCD but I probably have some stored trauma in my body.
@Misia-p5z
@Misia-p5z Күн бұрын
you know, sometimes I would like to feel nothing and the more I try to live a normal live after narcisstic abuse, people think I lied what happened., They don't understand that I feel like a after war and enjoy everything in a different way. Noone gets how strong we need to be to live after leaving a toxic family and how to recognise toxic traits in any behaviour. It's really sad
@Isabela2024-yr
@Isabela2024-yr Күн бұрын
The narc over here. I wish he leaves. He's stinks, I don't sleep with him.
@LoraCovert
@LoraCovert Күн бұрын
distance yourself from that person and time and no sex forever until you start healing
@teripacini5611
@teripacini5611 17 сағат бұрын
Omg. Just thinking about this topic yesterday. The shame is overwhelming
@ptrblz
@ptrblz 18 сағат бұрын
I am all about exposing and correctly sizing what they are trying to hide and minimize
@cherrieguitar
@cherrieguitar Күн бұрын
I couldn't say no because if we would argue then my daughter would hear us argue so I gave in.
@mandygreen9152
@mandygreen9152 Күн бұрын
thank you, for this video! it only was one his terms! afther a year he did not want me anymore, its like a new carsmell when its gone they don;t want you anymore! and yes i went out of myself when he had sex whit me but it was never loving full,it make me so insecure!
@phyllischaffin4052
@phyllischaffin4052 Күн бұрын
Sex with my ex-husband was a disappointment.
@Cutdown69
@Cutdown69 11 сағат бұрын
wow, now something ad up. thank you
@Psychicblonde67
@Psychicblonde67 Күн бұрын
You're not supposed to enjoy it either, even if one does happen to be in the mood.
@anuradhasridhar1319
@anuradhasridhar1319 Күн бұрын
Very very true....but why dont they have an appearance of the survivors by losing their hair or charismatic looks...the survivors are always tierd...when will God punish them ?
@ThoughtOfTheDay3108
@ThoughtOfTheDay3108 2 сағат бұрын
Yes I’ve been experiencing this
@SarutaValentine
@SarutaValentine Күн бұрын
I would say I have suffered from sexual OCD after the sexual abuse towards me from my mother. I’m very particular about the kind of clothes I wear, and I have to have as much of me covered as possible. It’s exhausting, but I can’t cope without it
@blueStarKitt7924
@blueStarKitt7924 2 сағат бұрын
Sorry about what you are going through. May you be safe and find someone who will help you and then you'll be able to heal and find peace.❤️❤️❤️
@SarutaValentine
@SarutaValentine 51 минут бұрын
@ thank you! Your words mean a lot to me
@paulinetayen9559
@paulinetayen9559 Күн бұрын
What about when they consistently wash themselves and never use soap? Yikes.
@tdayy31
@tdayy31 14 сағат бұрын
How about going days without bathing👀 . Its sickening
@Gauravdhaked2011
@Gauravdhaked2011 Күн бұрын
the truth feels dangerous, and that’s why the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki is ignored
@megss8197
@megss8197 21 сағат бұрын
Bhai can you please make video on Psychopath Narcissist who is energy vampire. Coz what you said in this video is exactly what I felt but there's something I felt more every time after getting physical ( which I always called r**e) I use to feel weak. Then to understand that he is energy vampire. Please explain something more on it🙏
@blueStarKitt7924
@blueStarKitt7924 2 сағат бұрын
😰😰😰 May you be safe.🙏❤️
@SarahCommensMindsetMastery
@SarahCommensMindsetMastery 22 сағат бұрын
@danish i have a question. Is it only about control for them? Is it also about the pleasure of an orgasm? I use to think he literally "needed" sex I was never sure why
@NailaFatma-x6x
@NailaFatma-x6x 10 сағат бұрын
Exactly it happened..but he said that I m heartless n m in guilt sometime…and because of this he threatened me also and said that I m responsible if he will go for extramarital affair…Abi aur kitna jhelna aur dekhna baki h in this relationship doesn’t know….
@Alignwithlink24
@Alignwithlink24 21 сағат бұрын
robotic, Rock, control, shame, guilt, excessive compulsive thoughts, private parts.......oh God these keywords. Most of the people don't even know what they are going through & they are fighting for religion. 😶
@pamelabelser8622
@pamelabelser8622 Күн бұрын
I have not experienced this -to my knowledge, but am concerned about the " emotional incest " of a child I know vis-a-vis with parent & I wonder if some of these experiences of a " child not feeling in touch with their body" & such = could be a "result". [ The parent's controlling behaviour is so "strange" / unnatural feeling to me = ie. that the parent wants to be in every thought of the child ( young adult) & seems to have no interest in building skills in the child to grow & be mature & independent & grow away from the parent in a healthy manner. The parent seems obsessed with the child being in their " total emotional Control", **wants the Parents Thoughts to be In & Rule in the child**. Parent has little sense of any empathy or the reality of the child,'s own persona & gets outrageously Angry if another suggests that it would be good for child ( now an adult) to be out & making friends their own age or exploring their own Life. It is like the Adult wants the whole of the child "swallowed up" into the Adult parents " one & only preferred View of what child is. Parent cannot seem to understand the 'Otherness'' of the child & seemingly did Everything possible to cause the child to be exactly the person the adult is ( this seems So very Weird to me & so damaging to the psyche of the child...who ' fights' it in an odd & not successful manner). Child is disassociated from body & disassociated from true self much of the time).
@blueStarKitt7924
@blueStarKitt7924 2 сағат бұрын
That would be a great topic to discuss about. Very sorry if it happened to you or anyone. May the healing be.🙏❤️
@shahmiss2623
@shahmiss2623 14 сағат бұрын
My 10 years marriage but i don't know how to finish it. Im fed up of it.
@Dee-mj3pu
@Dee-mj3pu 2 сағат бұрын
Get advice. Make a plan. Prepare to leave. Leave. Heal.
@shahmiss2623
@shahmiss2623 25 минут бұрын
@Dee-mj3pu two kids 8-9 and I need escape with them. And until they get 18 I'm in need of his card and permissions to travel with them. It looks bit tough.
@NailaFatma-x6x
@NailaFatma-x6x 10 сағат бұрын
Sometimes my mind and body is freeze really
@Debra-z8s
@Debra-z8s Күн бұрын
Trauma- something they d.not understand.
@nadjamedjedovic5313
@nadjamedjedovic5313 Күн бұрын
So right
@MS-ir1es
@MS-ir1es Күн бұрын
The narcissist isn't the only one who cheats.
@constantinamacheras7990
@constantinamacheras7990 Күн бұрын
… breadcrumbs…. Exactly…
@ericalbright7210
@ericalbright7210 Күн бұрын
Christine Albright "Thank you"💖!... "+"!..."🎄"!..."💖"!...
@basantamajhi4465
@basantamajhi4465 Күн бұрын
society would change overnight if more people read the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki
@themermaidtree1144
@themermaidtree1144 Күн бұрын
💯
@Missdovanova
@Missdovanova 4 сағат бұрын
💚
@Ericka11111
@Ericka11111 Күн бұрын
💛💫💛
@WarriorDerek909
@WarriorDerek909 Күн бұрын
they don’t want you to read the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki because it sets you free
@khanjanki8207
@khanjanki8207 Күн бұрын
My own narc is allwawys wasching his hands with kitchen cleansing spray dead hood mankind god please guied me apart with this hood l have enough 👾👾
@AjayKumar-wc3md
@AjayKumar-wc3md Күн бұрын
everything you believe might crumble if you read the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki
@itzkmarie87
@itzkmarie87 Күн бұрын
I experienced this with both my kids narcissistic fathers. I didn't know what narcissism was until I left. I shut down and didn't want to be touched anymore. Especially, with their cheating ways. It wasn't good anyways 🫤
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