3 Disgusting Things a Narcissist Does To Appear Good

[@narcabusecoach]

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[@sylviasingleton5719]

There’s no hell like knowing a narcissist.

[@levelupyourself-all]

So true

[@vaijayantigulve4883]

So true

[@vaijayantigulve4883]

And living with one

[@stephanievizzi9147]

My dad is a covert narcissist. I’m 36 with my own husband and family now and have healed and grown so much from all the pain he’s caused me. He’s still causing my mom pain but she’s about to leave him.

[@UncleChud]

@@vaijayantigulve4883covert narcissist she is

[@JamesNGames]

A narcissist is a master of masquerade, cloaking their rot in sweetness, weaving lies so intricate you begin to doubt your own sanity. They devour your trust, feeding on your insecurities like parasites feasting on decay. What’s most revolting isn’t their malice-it’s the gleeful precision with which they shatter you, only to sweep the pieces into a facade of righteousness. They’ll twist the knife, then extend a hand, painting themselves as the savior of the very wounds they’ve inflicted. It's not just manipulation-it’s soul-deep corrosion, a darkness that consumes everything in its path.

[@dougdeepdown]

Excellent summary. Until experienced many would think your thoughts "too much"... I'm not one of them.. Very Edgar Allen Poe 😔💯

[@yolandabarnum4036]

Yess they are DEVI-Ls

[@ashton1952]

@James empathy will always be more powerful. We see through them like glass, and what they have inside them looks like something completely shattered. So they can no longer affect us when we see that what they look like inside.

[@elizabethbowie9753]

They're not devils. They're influenced by devils, to attack any human. devil's hate All Humans, good or evil. Why ??? Because the devil and his demons, have no blood. Angels of God, in Heaven, have no blood. Humans have blood. Humans can be Redeemed by the Blood of Jesus. Spirits can't be Redeemed, bcz they have no blood. Even the Angels in Heaven, don't comprehend Salvation, bcz, they have no blood. the devil & the demons, kill humans, bcz they don't care if your Redeemed or not. they hate all humans. human narcs are unaware, so the devil uses them to do his dirty work. he causes chaos & division.

[@VgVi13]

@JamesNGames This is SO TRUE.

[@catbee1452]

I have another one. They give you nothing at home, let alone attention, care or love. But when you're in public, they are all over you, kissing you and telling our friends that you're simply the best. People sigh and say, "He's so sweet". Makes me livid. This is so abusive. I can't bring myself to call him out in front of others. It's a difficult situation to be in b/c our family and friends have NO idea what its been like for 45 years.

[@annthomson5648]

A narcissist is the definition of a nightmare

[@rajnibhatia6581]

Same here .😢

[@Seanus32]

I would have been sceptical of such a comment had I not experienced it myself. It is shocking how easily they switch things around. I had to get out as it became surreal and too warped. Protect your mental health.

[@catbee1452]

@@rajnibhatia6581 I'm so sorry that you are experiencing this as well. Honestly, I really have questioned myself if I'm just overreacting about this but I see that it is real. Weird how they make you question yourself. Sometimes I think I'm just overreacting or trying to find 'something' on him but this behavior is only a drop in the bucket.

[@umesultan7148]

Exactly 💯

[@briandrake6881]

I wish there was a course taught on narcissism at every college/university on earth!!!!! It may be the #1 problem with humanity.

[@user-qv9nw1dq2f]

Spot on Danish. If you are stuck in a relationship with a narcissist you are stuck in hell. We must get out and stay away from narcisists.

[@BNyaB]

👍👍👍

[@pattitroy5706]

I realized my roommate was a covert narcissist and your videos have been helping me get through until I can get out . Thank you.

[@etaokha4164]

Good riddance. I choose my peace over chaos 😌

[@ivonkwAn6443]

The most important thing is to know that we are dealing with someone who is not on our side. Very often if he is decoded, he will strike with great force in various ways, changing tactics to knock the gun out of our hands and deprive us of absolutely EVERYTHING. Awareness and knowledge are our strength🙏

[@valeriefletcher2719]

Wow! I've been listening to the narc tell me over and over "I give you complete access to the money" and then he's upset all the time if I spend any of it and needs an explanation of what, how and why I spent it. NOW I understand how this has always FELT like abuse but I could never put my finger on it. Thanks so much for all your content.

[@vaijayantigulve4883]

Exactly..!! I’ve experienced it for years…!!

[@susannay.3437]

Yes, exactly. Selective transparency.

[@nostoppingit7243]

The selective transparency and apologies was the worst thing about dealing with them, apart from the constant lies. Messed with my mind and emotions even more than the gaslighting.

[@chicken_nugget_fugget1472]

I know right!! I’m going through the same thing. They’re so manipulative 😡

[@vickibrown8490]

The closest thing I got to an apology (from the covid narcissist) was excuses. Nothing but excuses!

[@ms.texassoldier7203]

Being in the narcissist circle gives true meaning to the saying”living with the enemy” . Narcissists take and take and take. We give and give and give. We give pure love. I truly believe that these type of people are influenced by bad spirits. Some of us who have experienced the narcissist fury have been fortunate to escape. For some of us it was a short experience, for some 20 years or more. In any case, it is never an experience you desire to live through again. It’s inevitable in life to change jobs, lose friends,family but when trying to leave or rather escape a narcissist; you must leave your job, friends, family

[@Raven4508]

My ex- husband turned up on the doorstep last January ( 2023) with his mother's friend. He started filming me with the camera on his mobile phone, and she started speaking on his behalf, after they had both put their feet in the door, so I couldn't close it. She said, 'oh , he abused you , but it was a long time ago now, you should be over it? ' A covert narc he is, and she was acting as his mouth piece... he was just using her , as he uses everyone, and I expect she gets his false friendship for doing his dirty work. He turned up in the back garden this February, no contact with me, just standing at the side of the garden for a short time and without his mother's friend , I saw him go back to his car at the front of the house. I expect she has done her work for him and serves not such an important purpose, except as an echo chamber , along with his mother ,to smear my personality and name.

[@sickofcrap8992]

Go to your city/county government and file for a protective order. Sounds like stalking. I can't say if it'll be granted, but it's worth a try.

[@Chrystal-nt2wc]

Weirdos. Don't feed the dogs. Take away any and all fuel.

[@BlissfulBombshells]

DANGEROUS⤴️ PLEASE GET A RESTRAINING ORDER ASAP!!!

[@antheredhen]

PLEASE GET A RESTRAINING ORDER. Take pictures line up your proof.. This is beyond creepy!!!!!!

[@girlwiththemagicpen]

That sounds like someone who's planning something sinister. GET OUT.

[@Ocean1688]

Narcs will make sure no one else is around when lying about everything! Secretly record interactions so you have evidence. Even if you don’t use the recording, it’s very validating. 😊

[@MrTwinkieeater]

There's only two. They're not honest and they're not truthful.

[@bella_bella85]

Its the pretending to work on themselves thts 🙄🙄 then my mother says, "See im trying to get better, or im getting a little better" 😡 ridiculous

[@brianocallaghan5612]

Court system should stand up to this abuse and defend the innocent, especially the children that are the new victims used as weapons. Double abuse of the fathers. Sad sad and so damaging to the innocent children.

[@asthasrivastav6736]

Omg ....what an eye opener episode...i am also dealing with a covert narcissist husband....i left him but he starts hoovering...i have to be very cautious..and this episode again got me into enlightment ....bang on🎉what a dangerous species they are.

[@lonnamercier7833]

Steals a dog and pretends they found it to be a hero. Yep.

[@francesbernard2445]

Literaly sometimes. Police here in Edmonton, Alberta Canada for awhile long ago were being kept busy having to keep up with that kind of retired stranger who was being to our family and to other families too the 'fake' hero. For a week once us too were all having to take turns going to look for our purebread black lab female hunting dog. When we had no fence around our yard. Whoever did it was at the same time false accusing us of not taking proper care of our dog while I was living in that house as his excuse when police caught him.

[@romancecatsandwhimsy]

Wow!

[@ismailpatel7222]

Depends who the dog is .........

[@rosettesionne9139]

My father burned my mother's clothes and expelled her from HER house, like a dog! But when she threatened him with the police, he started buying her gifts, paying her rent of her new apartment. Now everyone thinks he is a good person and force my mother and I to forgive him

[@nagabharathielankula1019]

Please continue vedio. Your awareness given life to me and many

[@CanadianMathMagician]

You could call it selective transactional transparency. They got caught and now they're trying to buy themselves out of the situation.

[@TheSnowboarder8888]

This guy is brilliant! I finally figured out that my sister is married to one! Master of deception, play the victim while they victimize, he won, he crushed my relationship with my sister, and she is his mouthpiece! Gone is the relationship, he is so happy, but I am aware of the game now!

[@annedas2726]

Thank you Danish. Your videos keep many of us survivors going on with our healing journey. The more we know the less likely we will go back!! Please keep making these videos and may the divine be with you on your own healing journey!!🌈🌈

[@user-ln6rj2hl6l]

I'm new to your videos but am extremely grateful to you for presenting information in a way that is easy to understand. I'm having trouble understanding the concept of gaslighting. Could you explain it very simply please. Maybe I j7st have a mental block because other people have tried.

[@user-df3eo9qx9p]

All that Glitters is not Gold. That's him clothed in his Nutshell of Fool's Gold. (literally and figuratively). The integrity facade appeared only when many eyes were watching ie. at church

[@Bike4Life231]

This type of behavior is why it is almost impossible to prove emotional abuse in the courts. This is exactly what my soon-to-be-ex is doing in order to "prove" he's changing and taking care of our kids. Lying to the kids' counselors who report to the GAL, looking remorseful and doing things that show the counselors he's doing better (for a hot minute) in order to win his 50% custody - even though he's been MIA for the kids' entire lives, doesn't want to meet their needs, has verbally and emotionally abused them and hit them. It makes me ill to my core, because I know that once it's over, he will just be abusive again. I feel like there's no way out, no way to prove he's evil and a liar. And our kids want next to nothing to do with him. Yet they have to suffer.

[@jenwren3022]

Can you please do a video on convincing a victim of a narcissist to get out of the relationship because it's dangerous and unhealthy and potential long term effects of staying in the relationship just because he can occasionally be so wonderful to be around

[@QueenJessica-z5j]

Nice video, I'm still struggling with the end of my 7-year relationship. My significant other, who I considered to be the love of my life, left me a month ago, and I can't seem to shake the constant thoughts of him. Despite my efforts to bring him back into my life, nothing has worked, and I feel frustrated and hopeless. I've tried to move on, but my heart still longs for him, and I don't see myself with anyone else. I apologize for sharing this here, but I just can't seem to stop missing him.

[@Ameryarina]

It's hard to let go of someone you love; I went through a similar experience when my 12-year relationship ended. I tried everything to get him back, and eventually I had to turn to a spiritual counselor for assistance.

[@QueenJessica-z5j]

Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?

[@Ameryarina]

His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

[@Ameryarina]

he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.

[@QueenJessica-z5j]

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤

[@Patricia-nx1so]

Once again you are right Danish and thank to bring light on the complexity of Narcissism. There is a true difference between overt and covert narcissist that can be misunderstood…my so called Christian who is a covert one is the perfect example who brings confusion with is fake sense of justice and integrity, I was the first misled by his confused behavior, but I realized that he was displaying integrity and justice only when it served his own interests or to impress others to receive praises…but it never last… I always thought that you show integrity no matter what no matter who no matter where no matter when…. So beware of the consistency because as I always say times and God reveal everything !

[@Ap50524]

Almost a split personality of manipulation.

[@EMichaelBall]

That ”selective transparency” example explains something I recently heard about Aaron Rodgers. His parents claimed that he cut them off after they refused to stop coming to his games upon the request of his girlfriend at the time. I can imagine that tactic being used on Aaron to justify going behind his back and making that request. Of course, if the parents obeyed her request, she would never have told Aaron about it, and said, “See? Your parents don’t love you. Why else would they have stopped attending your games, with no warning?”

[@kryssysmith1486]

Karma eventually catches up with a narcissist. My entire family no longer speaks to me because I confronted a family member about their behavior. They responded by throwing a tantrum, acting like a two-year-old. While I can't stand dealing with such immaturity, I do love actual toddlers. As narcissists age, their façade inevitably cracks, revealing their ' I think themselves 'selves. Despite their current efforts to maintain an image, karma will expose them for who they really are, and those around them will finally see their 'authentic' nature.

[@calmkarma1]

The pure hell they put you through is real. My husband was found out, being sneaky and lying. The apologies came fast and immediately deleting all the evidence and going quiet. Obviously hoping I would forget. Now I'm getting absolute silence, I have to constantly remind myself that they are just playing a game.

[@dextermorganbloodspattersp6382]

Borderline and Narcissist Share and Overlap many many of the same traits.. especially the "RAGE" Please, As Asked before Danish, could you elaborate and differentiate between the two and give your valuable opinion. Thanks in Advance 🦅🏆😎

[@janinemccartha1811]

Hi Danish. Thanks for another helpful & valuable information video. I've gotten out of so many narc relationships. It's almost unbelievable. They're fake & treat others well & usually their families poorly. I love your channel & and am happy to continue healing. ✌️ Peace, ❤️ love, and awesome tines hopefully await you, MISS JANINE🌴🧸💐🙂

[@Sophie-ur2qb]

Idk who to trust anymore! When it comes with an excuse, it's not much of an apology. My mother wants to appear like a caregiver. Like caring for my fathers abusive parents. But they hated them so I didn't get why 🤷‍♀️ Those sayings are too familiar. And them using money to control.

[@shaheenkhan5174]

Brother Danish! You are so right! That was exactly what happened to me! I can related to this! I am free from the relationship! My father mother my brothers and sister also my ex husband were narcissist! After my relationship ended! I was in trauma! Your videos help me a lot... I loved to watch your videos! English and I subscribed you in Hindi! Thank you so much brother for helping thousands of people around the world! I really appreciate your time for making videos for people like us! My prayers are always with you and your family! Take care!❤

[@4give7]

Thank you for explaining these 3 things Danish! You helped alleviate some confusion for me.

[@AimeeAimee444]

Altruistic Narcissists are an interesting breed. They film themselves handing gifts to children or declaring how blessed they are via Jesus.

[@alexchavez3868]

Mr beast lol

[@AimeeAimee444]

@@alexchavez3868 🎯

[@TataShiku]

went through all they 3 ... it's horrible how much we tolerate in the back and forth train of trauma bond and getting sucked back in andndepleted ..

[@rosettesionne9139]

Just to add with the number three. Many narcissists won't apologise for their wrong doings but will use the money to force you to forgive them, especially if you are dependent on them. Ex, a narcissist will cheat on their spouse and when caught, thet will buy their spouse a luxurious car. If they accept the gift, they are expected to NEVER confront the narcissist again on their wrong doings as accepting the gifts means forgiving them but if you refuse their gifts or money they will call you egoistical for not seeing their "Efforts" despite them causing the situation.

[@klarissam8719]

My older narcissist's sister and my narcissists mother ran my daughter's father off talking about they did not like him. He was no good, and these 2 Jezebels my mom,and older sister never had a good man in their life. I had befriended this one woman,and my narcissist older sister fake befriended her. So she could sabotage our friendship. My narc sister forced a friendship between her daughter,and this lady's daughter. When originally this lady's daughter,and my daugher. Met at school,and were friends. My narc sister would just stay in the house all the time. Doing drugs,and drinking alcohol all day. When my niece was invited to birthday parties by children at her school. My narc sister would be paranoid,and reject all the parties,and would not let her child socialize with friends,or just older children. She was not allowed to play to with other children. Then when my daughter would have friends visiting,or play dates. She(narc sister) would force her daughter off on me,and my child's friends. Instead of helping her daughter foster her own friendships. When I mentioned to my narc mom. That my narc sister needed to make her own friends, and allow her daughter to go ,and make her own friendships. Instead of mettling with my connections,and causing trouble,and chaos to break up relationships. My narc mother went into a narc rage ignorant. She and my older sister are pure evil & wicked tag team. They are always waiting shtf in my life. Aftermath of the chaos they create. Insane people

[@annedas2726]

Save your sisters daughter. If this niece is being abused and you have proof that your sister is doing drugs, get your niece out by collecting evidence and then report to child services. You can foster or adopt your niece. I know all of this is very complicated and no one will truly know what is best. So I pray that divine be with you and the innocent souls in your family so you all can stop this abuse and be cycle breakers. May divine be your guide and give you the strength to choose and navigate the right path. Please pray- pray for your own soul and souls of innocent members of your family to be salvaged. Otherwise one or more of them can again become another narcissist. May the divine bless 💕💕

[@ummyahya3965]

You might have a talk with your sister about how her “habits” could be affecting her child or you could offer support by caring for your niece, CPS breaks up family causing further damage and distrust in most cases…

[@klarissam8719]

@@ummyahya3965 Thank You for the advice!! The sad reality is she denies that she has a severe problem with drugs/alcohol addictions. She is always saying "she is a good mother". Followed by the narc rage. Then the vindictiveness,and retaliation to get even with me. At the time I was of speaking this happening. When my niece & daughter were little between 1-7 years old. My niece is now a teenager -13, and my sister's habits have not changed. If my neice needs any thing food,clothes& shoes, hygiene. I never hesitate to provide those things. I always told her if she needed help I would be there for her. My sister is the type of narcissists personality immature that likes to turn children against you.

[@klarissam8719]

​@@annedas2726 Thank You for the advice,prayers,and information.

[@arianasha]

Exactly Danish thank you.. I have one (a covert devious sneak!) and it is so sickening and so obvious to me now!

[@lisbethmorffe2240]

Dr Danish, you explained it excellent something I didn't know how to name it. This narc cheated on me for many years, like having doble life. One day, I passed out when he told me the whole truth. He was apologetic,crying in his knees,etc. Then 2 months later he said that he didn't lie to me, he only omitted... Obviously, I changed to sleep in another room, then he took revenge and threw water in my entrance floor door to make me fall down!... What is in these narcs mind? For sure, they are really dangerous people. Living with the enemy. Oh my Lord. 😖😵‍💫😵🤢🤮

[@ilsecaraffi-tencate7934]

He hit my 13-yr old son in the face, pretty much out of the blue. After months, my son told me and I confronted him. He then talked to my son, saying how he was ´sorry for how you felt about that´. NOT sorry that he hit him... I still cannot understand, or forgive.

[@life-rethought]

telling what my narc..telling what./admitting what he did... was more like bragging what he got away with.

[@penkapetkova428]

Danish, thank you so much ! Your video's open our eyes ! ❤

[@Will23224]

Spot on This is happening to me right now now I’m very upset because Iv healed 😢however Iv come across this recently this would of taken me down again it’s more dangerous than before for me Iv seen the red flags earlier but I feel rubbish about myself yet again I can’t be me around these people it’s not possible

[@Brishti155]

💯💯💜💜💜💜all truth...as always Danish👍

[@melinapeartree]

Danish, I have been searching for information on how to get a covert narcissist to leave you. Is there a way to push for that discard so it happens sooner?

[@meabeck]

One more reason I felt trapped in the situation, I don't alter myself naturally as they do in their facade. Though, they are the one who doesn't grow and change. Their mind is where I don't know. Be safe every one. ❤

[@vaijayantigulve4883]

And most narcissists never realise what damage they are causing to the people around…!!

[@AgentQQ8]

I’m convinced that Narcissists are a type of mythical dinosaur, like the Lock Ness Monster, Swamp Thing, or Shai Hulud.

[@vaijayantigulve4883]

They are simply evil energy in human form…!!!!!

[@joseenoel8093]

Just plain weird! 😊

[@victorianilsen763]

I am inheritely The Devil's Advocate.Because my parents put me in the middle to fix their flights , so i'm sorry . I want to see the good in absolutely everything . I want to believe God has a purpose for everyone, without the devil.How could we know to Do good instead. I know that my mother was a narcissist I know your father was too.... These people have Mental difference... But? In both cases , they were our teachers to make us achieve Higher than themselves at the sake of themselves......subhanallah.. 41. Thousand subscribers thanks mum and dad. Thank god for casting them

[@The_pics_n_Tales]

Thanks Danish

[@animetsystudio9841]

Hey Danish Sir, do you remember the cartoon "Horrid Henry", pls make an analysis as this show clearly tells his parents psychological abuse

[@YouTube_admin777]

When i grow up i want to be a narcissist

[@TataShiku]

Danish ....can Someone Explain why Some Narcs like To chew On their Nails... like literally chew their entire nails and leave them disfigured

[@draganjagodic4056]

So true Sir. Such psychopathic egoists are experts in deception and covert, perfidious destruction.

[@magdalenastankiewicz9819]

How to make a narcissist to finally move out?

[@JessieYeend]

Makes a video about narcissists

[@CordeliaCol317]

Why dont you never do a Interview...just ask about experiences to give examples with your theme and questions? Many would like to share their experience and we all can learn out of it or find confirming simliarities. It could help many to get free

[@naveengulati7745]

Danish...it's tough..even normal person does that...

[@malcolmwaddilove1822]

It's my imagination?????

[@fakename8856]

Danish - could you please do a video about the ploys cover narcs use to get supply? My Mom is a covert narc who pretends to be the victim of “Chemtrails” which are condensation trails behind turbine aircraft, she is the victim of 5g and WiFi because she pretends to suffer from “electromagnetic sensitivity” which is not real. She also pretends gravity is not real and earth is flat while refusing to understand how physics works. She is so far gone she pretends to be a “Sovereign Citizen” which is a ploy she uses to get attention by pretending our laws don’t apply to her and she is the victim of police for breaking our laws. So many crazy ploys.

[@antheredhen]

Um... Maybe you need to study more! Ice / vaper trails evaporate within seconds. The things coming out of planes now that hang for hours?? Sounds like YOU need to wake up.. Emf is proven to make people and animals sick. Kills plants..

[@antheredhen]

Actually none of the things you mention make her a narcasists. It's saying she's using critical thinking skills. Not believing what the TV tells her..

[@fakename8856]

No, she uses crazy nonsense ploys such as pretending earth was flat and gravity is just one big conspiracy theory against her, or claiming in that 5g & WiFi are ionizing radiation when that is objectively nonsense. One of the most delusional ploys a very desperate covert narc will use is the “Sovereign Citizen” ploy where they get attention from pretending our laws don’t apply to them because of their narcissism. Sovereign Citizens are so extreme they are considered terrorists.

[@fakename8856]

Once we can get better at identifying narcissists ploys they use for narcissistic supply the better off we are at protecting ourselves from their mental illness. NPD is a dangerous disorder. Identifying ploys that have no basis in reality (think claiming 5g is ionizing radiation, but not understanding what ionizing radiation actually means).

[@fakename8856]

also I should mention I am an electrical engineer and do actually know what in talking about. Someone who claims 5g is ionizing radiation is just a silly tin foil hatter who refuses to understand basic science.

[@victorianilsen763]

Life inherently is a series of choices that we agreed to say yes too. and take us on those different paths if you give someone a house for a $100000 and never speak to them again.Supposing you're saint. If the other person is a dick and is not grateful about it... The person that gave you the money is the douch.... I get this all the time from my mate.Because I pay for everything.. they Wont Give me the time time of day....im done.. Money wasn't supposed to be a weapon to use against One another , it was supposed to be a tool of the devine that said yes...to an idea... I suppose this makes me a covert narcissist to make sense out of excuses.

[@victorianilsen763]

This being said in my neighbourhood.People are being shot., school children are pretending to get shot under dusk.And everybody thinks that's normal

[@Rocksanana]

is anyone in vegas please

[@iSky786]

🚨Need private advise Danish. How can I reach you