Narcissistic High Conflict People

[@n888-y4z]

While I appreciate the depth of clinical and evidence based information here with regards to understanding the HCP themselves, for me, what's missing is the acknowledgment of the often severe damage to others by these behaviors and hesitancy in calling out the often utter lack of action taken in families, workplaces and communities to protect against this carnage. Why is there such a hesitancy and fear of making the HCP feel bad or feeling bad ourselves as being judgmental of them? Why Indulgence in spending our time figuring out their motives, when we would be better served focusing on and minimiIng their impact? Without systemic and institutional change, Yoga, mindfulness and even therapy will do little more than help one "cope" with their ongoing abuse and conflict. Isn't that what they capiltalize on? As a society are we all so accustomed to keeping the social order by tip toeing around them? Ummm...yes! Please don't do more of the same...

[@maragirl1658]

I have no issues not reacting to the people with narcissistic tendencies. It actually drives them cuckoo when they are looking for your buttons and can’t find them. 😂

[@solweigolsson3114]

Wow! That is a correct discriptien of my life! Thats the standard answer from my mother my whole life. If I'm sick ore hurt. Just my fault. Al her anger , well, thats my fault.

[@meloneymoore8856]

Thank you sooo much for pointing this out and explaining this ❤❤❤-Xclusyph Icon

[@BM0RESquare_XTherapist]

AWESOMENESSS🎉🎉♥️💜

[@angeres821]

Alec Baldwin's character in 30 Rock is a great example of a narcissist!

[@meloneymoore8856]

I have a medical condition with my heart. I am needing to wear a heart monitor. I have a narcissistic couple living in an apartment directly above me in unit 204. They hack my smart phone, tablet and my social media account in the form of cyber stalking. They constantly do intentional noise harassment to me all day and night. It's sooo bad to where I have to keep headphones on and ear plugs in my ears while in my apartment. Because I have to keep my ears plugged up, I was unable to hear the beep letting me know my heart monitor went dead to charge it. If this was detrimental to my life saving necessity, I would left for dead.❤❤❤- Xclusyph Icon

[@NarrelleChain]

I don't agree that they are not bad people, sometimes they plan to do cruel things to you, i have had it all my life, i think there is an element of evil in these people, they have no god, they can be quite evil, they have chosen it one way or the other just as i choose to be good they choose to be evil!

[@amalia3843]

My youger sister has seriously abused me verbally and with different tricks during last 15 years. She sued me for 2 years because our father left a small sum of money to me as a heritage.She had a restraining order towards him. I didn´t have anything to do with my fathers decision. She did two criminal reports in a year and interrogations and all that paperwork and effort which was needed around those . And they were turned down. I was having my chemo during that time. And alla the rumors in the social media, that I don´t take care of my mother. She is not letting me to meet me and my mother one-to-one. She may rush in and making an online- video of me "Look at this is my ugly sister´. And personal messages and tricks, that there was an ambulance getting my father to hospital, when he wasn´t. The only time I made a report of an office to police, breach of communication peace, during my cancer chemo, was not a success. There were a lot personal messages, audio messages. Police turned it down and one of the reasoning was by police "she is trying to solve and find a solution with you when trying to contact you". Sick!

[@NarrelleChain]

My sisters are narcissists, both different, one is less so, i think, i can go a bit more indepth with her ut the other one is solicitor and can be pretty brutal but she can be ok sometimes like yesterday when we talked about our animals, she loves animals, i just lost my cat, she was sympathetic so that was nice, depends on her mood, the other one is a little moody too! Neither of them have much empathy, they pretend, i told one off and called her out on personality traits, she was angry, i explained, no answer, she probably will not improve much but she does seem to have some cognizance, not sure, you never know these people, they don't open up much, not very teachable because they are so immature!