Believe me. You make them feel "Powerful" and they will run with it for eternity. They are the lowest of the low.
@chxwv Жыл бұрын
With age , things can only get worse , as narcissistic behavior gets more stealthy and sophisticated
@amothergoddess2774 Жыл бұрын
THESE INTER-ACTIONS ARE SELF-ABUSE!
@BrendaBaBoom2 жыл бұрын
Another fine video.👏🏽 Simply the Narc is not worth it …. and sadly, on every level they are WORTHLESS.
@TryM.yVivier Жыл бұрын
You are a source of a life giving changing decision to get away from this toxic **it hole I'm living with. Thank you.❤
@Myportion44211 ай бұрын
Really Good Information Here !
@dannyflood92122 жыл бұрын
The only thing that I disagree with is whatever 'bond' there was in the beginning was not really a bond at all. Just manipulation to get what they can out of us.
@LookingBehindtheMirror2 жыл бұрын
Yes. Definitely not a bond in a good kind of way. A toxic bond. A trauma bond. The same kind of bond that an addict has to their addiction.
@coleenchapman88892 жыл бұрын
Still trying to get my brain to catch up to reality, but thanks to your videos I am in a much better spot. ❤
@mistiery568410 ай бұрын
18 years in getting no better i always thought she would get older and mature. So i sacrificed and have been waiting torturing myself still at square 1
@Dastardly_X Жыл бұрын
Damn good one ‼ Thanks !
@coralmccrystal4606 Жыл бұрын
This is a really helpful video. You express yourself so clearly.
@agent_exodus2 жыл бұрын
“There’s a tiny chance you might survive” That’s a great point. Especially since, it seems as if this expectation is part of the unconscious spell within the exploitative mechanisms of any dynamic with a narcissist or highly narcissistic person.
@emmamonroe33112 жыл бұрын
I wonder how many of suicide victims did this due to the narcissists behaviors that we will never ever know about.😑👈🏻
@agent_exodus2 жыл бұрын
@@emmamonroe3311 I’d imagine, at minimum, a fair amount… Narcissists, and or highly toxic people in general, are notorious for driving people to the brink and beyond.
@emmamonroe33112 жыл бұрын
@@agent_exodus that’s why my ex narc always use to say to me after the accident I can’t believe how strong you are. All that did was confuse me. I had no idea at the time.
@agent_exodus2 жыл бұрын
@@emmamonroe3311 I was tasked at being “the rock”… for my former dementor. Groomed, rather… but nevertheless.
@emmamonroe33112 жыл бұрын
@@agent_exodus your stronger becuz of that. Bless your heart. Stay strong.👊🏻
@chibaby800 Жыл бұрын
Mine is so hard to get over because while there were subtle signs of emotional abuse, I was still somewhat in the idealization phase. There was just subtle signs of not being truly loved but every time, something big he did countered that I doubted myself. I also didn’t know the extent of how bad things could get and I couldn’t outrightly say I was being abused. Although the last 2 weeks showed a whole different side and even at that, describing it to someone can’t even put the full perspective. I just experienced betrayal and discard suddenly and I’m still lowkey in denial. If he was raising his voice at me, calling me names or Godforbid hitting me, it would have made more sense. It’s so painful when you miss someone that hurt you
@chxwv Жыл бұрын
I would feel after a few meetings , thst something is not right and that there is something empty about her interaction or interest in me , even though they would say things that would make someone think that they love you
@PurpleFlower1977Ай бұрын
They repeat words back to you... we feel the emptiness of those words... usually you'd feel the warmth and genuiness...but with these people you feel the lack of depth and shallowness
@bradmcewen2 жыл бұрын
Couldn't agree more about the vulnerability. Some have occupations where that element is in every interaction. Thing is the miscalculation. Everyone human has a time when they are susceptible. After time tames down the wound, intellectual reasoning allows the recovery of logic and ultimately when you have been used. What a nasty acidity it leaves. That taste is something you never experienced before but will never forget. Especially the methods of deception. That is their lasting legacy. Quite frankly in hindsight I admitt I was a rank amateur. Even those early odd tells were right in front of me. The desire for a change out of a loss that crushed your life cannot be done in a giant leap. Only in small steps do you heal as best as possible. The list...hmmm. it's voluminous contents still remains in a magazine rack with other narc publications. Used to look at it. Then only the first page. Then just the rack. Nows it's behind a chair out of sight. Some day we may go no contact with that rack. Instead of experiences, narc awareness preventatives are much more fruitful.
@angeliquecimerol94302 жыл бұрын
Great video, where are the nice people
@LookingBehindtheMirror2 жыл бұрын
They are everywhere. Just like the horrible people are.