Why The Narcissist Is About To Call Out Of The Blue

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Narc ology unscripted

Narc ology unscripted

Күн бұрын

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@heatherwagar5868
@heatherwagar5868 Жыл бұрын
If you don’t fully grasp exactly what spiritual warfare is, you will in the wake of the narcissist relationship
@bonnieromick9397
@bonnieromick9397 6 ай бұрын
Truer words were never spoken. Right on!
@berniekennedy9793
@berniekennedy9793 Жыл бұрын
THESE PARASITES ARE RELENTLESS STAY CLEAR &STAY SAFE❤️
@Cheryl-u3g
@Cheryl-u3g 7 ай бұрын
parasites....LOL🤣🤣🤣
@tonyamcmiller-yn9in
@tonyamcmiller-yn9in Жыл бұрын
I was discarded and a several months later he married the new supply. I’ve learned so much about narcissist. I thank God for where I am in my life. We belong to the same church. The narcs in church are the worst!!! God is continuing to heal me and restore me and I’m very grateful!!! ❤️
@Narcologyunscripted
@Narcologyunscripted Жыл бұрын
It's par for the course, they usually leave for another... remember they can't be alone
@ST-cy6we
@ST-cy6we Жыл бұрын
How on earth do they think that a marriage like that will last? Isn't it contaminated from the beginning?
@manuellaarbeit5481
@manuellaarbeit5481 Жыл бұрын
Me too but we were not in a relationship. He gave me signals and was even jealous when other brothers spoke to me. He saw me as his sexual object. He ended up marrying another woman in the same church. I didn't know about it and heard of it later. I asked myself what I did to experience such a betrayal. Also I was manipulated, ostracized, falsely accused and lied about in that church. I left with severe depression and I was self-harming and had suicidal thoughts. I was never loved and no one cared for me even though I was used as a fixer and I always cared for others. Church narcissists are the worst.
@deannamartinez7233
@deannamartinez7233 Жыл бұрын
@@ST-cy6weSo True💯❤️
@anjijack5392
@anjijack5392 Жыл бұрын
Agreed. And while I don't judge the "church," there are definitely wolves in sheeps clothing there. I know because I got married TWICE to men I met at church. 🚫⬇️
@alexismerrilldragonqueen6552
@alexismerrilldragonqueen6552 Жыл бұрын
You can't call me if you're blocked. Jokes on you, narc 😂🎉
@jrlatina
@jrlatina Жыл бұрын
Dave my final discard was because I allowed my daughter's boyfriend to park in my backyard 😂😂😂 he got mad, walked out and never came back! Then hoovered me after 7 months and within two weeks I discarded him! @Dave Also FYI since he's blocked I've been receiving unidentified and private calls attempting to get in touch with me , I know it's him, he's in for a rude awakening because I'm never answering his calls! I'm healing nicely thanks to My Lord and Savior ❤
@teresewoltz8627
@teresewoltz8627 9 ай бұрын
same timeframe, called out of the blue, then the mask came off very quickly or I just got more aware of the chaos. I told the N, you are too crazy for me.
@Pootietang67
@Pootietang67 Жыл бұрын
After 9 months no contact I woke up today to a text. "My mom had a stroke last week, she doing much better now" no hi how are you, just threw a Hoover attempt right out there. I have no response for him at all! I went and looked at his new supplies Facebook and sure enough she's posting quote after quote about breakups. I feel sad for her, but for him I feel nothing
@WoodenFeather-xm3vl
@WoodenFeather-xm3vl Жыл бұрын
high five! That was smoooooooth. Good for you.
@JB-sw8db
@JB-sw8db 11 ай бұрын
If a narcissist, accuses you of cheating, they are the ones that are cheating. They are trying to hide. It is shifting the blame to you.
@dtube441
@dtube441 Жыл бұрын
I got chills when you mentioned the dreams of them cheating. Closer to the discard they kept happening and I understood what it meant.
@jrlatina
@jrlatina Жыл бұрын
I also had dreams of my ex narc cheating, one morning i woke up very angry as he laid beside me! 😤 I told him about the dream, he called me crazy in a joking way and said he's no cheater, boy was that a big fat lie!!!
@sandrajennings3842
@sandrajennings3842 Жыл бұрын
I saw those dreams years ago and I laughed about it with him. Totally ignored the signs. Good grief….
@pioneeringpeppers
@pioneeringpeppers Жыл бұрын
The dreams stopped once the truth came out. Dreams can be foretelling
@margaretmbinji9909
@margaretmbinji9909 Жыл бұрын
I had dreams of him cheating and just couldn't understand.l can't believe l was discarded 2fays ago after a date.l am lost😢
@craigy691
@craigy691 11 ай бұрын
Yep I always got dreams of my wife cheating and it was always with best friends !!!!!
@DionWynn
@DionWynn 8 ай бұрын
We had deep conversations in the beginning, but as soon as the infatuation wore off the so-called spiritual connection died.
@daddy8518
@daddy8518 Жыл бұрын
10:43 When I tried talking to him about trying to figure out what went wrong between us he yelled “I WASNT HAPPY” and I told him You never are!
@craigy691
@craigy691 11 ай бұрын
Wow this is exactly what my wife said to me and I said back to her she never was happy and still won’t be I was all of her problems rolled into one !!!
@dottyjyoung
@dottyjyoung Жыл бұрын
"I guess I missed the signs." No, you REALLY didnt. Thanks for this line in particular.
@Narcologyunscripted
@Narcologyunscripted Жыл бұрын
You bet
@wealthymo2857
@wealthymo2857 Жыл бұрын
I didn't know that I was dating a narcissist until he gave me the cold shouder. I was so annoyed and wondered if if I did something wrong. What got me on the path to seek your channel, was when he kept calling me names. The names that didn't match my character. I knew the problem was with him not me. I thank God I found your channel and when you spoke about God, I was very much interested. Thankyou so much, for doing Gods work in highlighting these Demons, in human form.
@manuellaarbeit5481
@manuellaarbeit5481 Жыл бұрын
Me too but we were not in a relationship. He gave me signals and was even jealous when other brothers spoke to me. He saw me as his sexual object. He ended up marrying another woman in the same church. I didn't know about it and heard of it later. I asked myself what I did to experience such a betrayal. Also I was manipulated, ostracized, falsely accused and lied about in that church. I left with severe depression and I was self-harming and had suicidal thoughts. I was never loved and no one cared for me even though I was used as a fixer and I always cared for others. Church narcissists are the worst. We the victims blame ourselves when we are not the problem. Take care of yourself dear. Jesus loves you and wants the best for you no matter what.
@wealthymo2857
@wealthymo2857 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for replying to my message. Your journey was overwhelming. We go through a lot as women, but no woman on earth deserves what you endured. Don't ever let a man or a woman cause you to self-harm. They're not worth it! You need to look at it as he did you a favour! The woman he married is silently going through, 'hell.' A lot of us are not shown love, but we give to others that we lacked . If we're able to give to others, what about ourselves? I see the signs with these people, and I am not afraid to call them a narcissist. God has given me the strength to see through their nonsense when I am in contact with them. Thank you, and may God continue blessing you with love and peace.
@isla8718
@isla8718 Жыл бұрын
I remember when he first met me he was infatuated long messages coming through like intense love story’s 😂and this is how they are when they catch a new victim . But this drug wears off so they need a new hit they get of on terrorising there victims it excites them knowing how it’s going to end .
@weaselwacker5462
@weaselwacker5462 Жыл бұрын
Dave listening to your voice will always remind me of the beginning of my healing journey years ago. Thank you. I am calmed listening to your videos to this day.
@annaconcepcion1249
@annaconcepcion1249 Жыл бұрын
His voice calms me also!
@ritadoran5039
@ritadoran5039 7 ай бұрын
I agree I fall asleep listening at times
@georgeengelbrecht1310
@georgeengelbrecht1310 Жыл бұрын
What a powerful video, much appreciated. My ex wife (of the Cluster B kind) didn't want to be intimate the evening of our wedding day. This was after knowing her not to be one who denies the old meaningless and risky sex. That obviously rubbed me the wrong way and the next evening she threw her wedding ring into a fire after I didn't want to have one of her snacks she made for us. I just didn't want a snack at that time, I had no ulterior motive. That was enough for her to send her ring to the pit of fire, the same place where the father of the lost will reside forever and ever. I get chills when I realise how far gone the mind of such an individual must be and the horror that will one day come over them when they bow the knee and confess that Jesus is Lord. By that time it will be too late and that absolutely helpless feeling a person gets when the reality of the discard sets in will be felt by the lost soul, but there will be no turning back for redemption. Just writing this I am convicted to pray for them rather than to act like a fool and harbour resentment against them for they truly do not know what they do. Your videos have been a massive blessing and I cannot give you enough respect and appreciation. This is one of those cases where I think to myself how the Lord must be so proud of you for stepping it up and not only edifying the Body but also reaching those yet to claimed for God. With love from South Africa 🇿🇦
@ST-cy6we
@ST-cy6we Жыл бұрын
My wife must have taken her ring off hundreds of times...
@alexismerrilldragonqueen6552
@alexismerrilldragonqueen6552 10 ай бұрын
This is one of the most powerful comments I have ever read regarding the narcissist's salvation. Thank you. It too makes me want to pray for their salvation because you are right. It will be too late for them when the time finally comes for them to repent.
@georgeengelbrecht1310
@georgeengelbrecht1310 9 ай бұрын
Much love :) Flattered by your comment. @@alexismerrilldragonqueen6552
@chops4986
@chops4986 Жыл бұрын
The only thing I pray for is for her and her new supply to leave me alone forever.
@sunnybajoras4364
@sunnybajoras4364 4 ай бұрын
You can't blame everything on the devil. So true, Dave. They made the choice to belong to demons.
@BurningFifty
@BurningFifty Жыл бұрын
I remember the exact night of my final discard.. it's was something I said that was literally nothing serious at All.. 3 days Later I called her one night.. she picked up and said she was with Her Man and Hung up.. thus guy is absolutely right. . She was already involved with him and needed anything to discard me
@loveandhappiness8178
@loveandhappiness8178 10 ай бұрын
Married online then ghosted for 6 months. Now 4 phone calls on Thursday and a happy weekend on Friday. WTH is going on?
@SarahStanke
@SarahStanke Жыл бұрын
I know I was smeared to his friends and co workers from the very beginning. He showed up drunk and verbally attacked me. As soon as I reacted he started recording me and I knew he would show his friends. Our whole situation was based on alcohol and sex but he wanted to move in together and have a baby. His ex wife experienced the same behavior with him. I had a dream about catching him with another woman knowing he was cheating on me. I caught him in so many lies. I couldn't stay with him for one more day. I discarded him without warning and left no way for him to hoover. I wish him safe travels to his harem garage 😂
@uradalic5969
@uradalic5969 9 ай бұрын
Dave, you told the story of my life. It took three full years for time to heal my wounds, and I breathe free again. I never considered another relationship, I am alone. As he became more and more distant, and rejected me as a human, I noticed he was always on line, while yelling at me he was bussy for one phone call - that is when he got another supply. Right after that, he discarded me out of the blue, with a happy smirk on his face, after telling me we had good times, I am a good and pretty woman (othervise he wouldn t be with me), but, he has to leave me, because I sent him too many messages during silent treatments two years ago. He wanted to stay friends, because, he said, no woman has been so good to him. Of course, because I Ieft him bunch of money and stuff he took away from me.
@Sofi7.
@Sofi7. Жыл бұрын
You have save my life in so many ways.. love you sweetie 💚💙💛
@SarinaValentinaxo
@SarinaValentinaxo 11 ай бұрын
Literally getting chills from all the flash backs that I experienced in an extreme relationship where I was the supply of an extreme narcissist. You are an intelligent man and I hope you find happiness one day. Your videos keep me grounded so much and keep me from going back to the narcissist that kept me locked up in my home on drugs to control me while he would be cheating on me as well….. when I turned him down for sex he went absolutely crazy it was insane!!!! I hope I can find a guy like you one day after my healing who is aware and healed from the narcissism. You have no idea how many people of all ages and ranges you help. Thank you!
@PSA3377
@PSA3377 4 ай бұрын
The discard phase ...that's so harsh but so true . After over a decade he just disappeared one day . No explanation. Quit answering my calls . Finally reached him and was told he'd gone on an extended vacation ! -oh - well that's interesting and CRAZY and was the end of everything . He never came back never gt his things . Heard from him 2 years later - my out of the blue 💦phone call asking if I still had his deep fryer ! -I did have the presence of mind to recognize this as him trying to get his foot back in my hearts 💕 door again and I happened to have a friend over at the time listening to the call ( moral support) and I laughed into the phone and told him -I suppose you think I built a shrine to you and saved all your crap and its still here !, hahahaba and turned to my friend still laughing saying -you believe this guy ? and hung up ! Never heard from him again 🙂
@rashimasimmons8716
@rashimasimmons8716 Жыл бұрын
Hello DAVE, seeing you out of the BLUE is a BLESSING.
@Narcologyunscripted
@Narcologyunscripted Жыл бұрын
Seeing your comment is a blessing
@vernondelancy6281
@vernondelancy6281 Жыл бұрын
You are singing to the choir. You are spot on dave .
@fuliviacannady7703
@fuliviacannady7703 10 ай бұрын
So right...they're great at the superficial....you're not really connecting...no intimacy...the flesh warfare...false relationship. So true. When he wasn't drinking, he was a zombie.
@heathermixson1265
@heathermixson1265 Жыл бұрын
I think I speak for those of us who are genuinely grateful for your not sugar~coating this, Dave....it is beyond evil, these diabolical reprobates, and you definitely do not look like Willy Wonka 😊
@djnquire
@djnquire 3 ай бұрын
Going thru it now. Smeared to the point where i can't go out to the store, without someone saying something to me
@stephaniesinsabaugh176
@stephaniesinsabaugh176 11 ай бұрын
He's been gone a week today. And he's already publicly put up on his social media that he's single. Wow just wow!
@shirlspark_stardust
@shirlspark_stardust Жыл бұрын
Good morning Dave cheers I have my peach tea wow this video is on point ,I got calls last week from the narc I didn't respond back at all no contact and now he is trying to hack into my fb again ,what a miserable life to live I wouldn't want to be in their shoes at all.
@Narcologyunscripted
@Narcologyunscripted Жыл бұрын
Love my Peach tea too!
@chriscole5990
@chriscole5990 Жыл бұрын
Your such a great person Dave! Helping a friend in need like that we need more people in the world like yourself. Amen too that much love brother. ❤️❤️👍🏾
@paolacasucci2700
@paolacasucci2700 Жыл бұрын
Im happy you’re back!
@Narcologyunscripted
@Narcologyunscripted Жыл бұрын
Thank You for your comment
@1tundra11
@1tundra11 8 ай бұрын
I think they really enjoy shocking you with the creepy things they say and do..I heard and saw so much that I should have thrown them out!!so many times..I was so afraid of calling them out,on some pretty sick things( like talking about my teenage daughters toe's) told me he was into feet..had told me loved mine) because of the gaslighting..I so thankful it was done and blocked thru the Pandemic it would have been an Epic nightmare..thx for all the video's ..i have been Narc free for almost 5 years now..including blocking my narc stepmother
@palomahair8616
@palomahair8616 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your videos and for talking also abour God
@Narcologyunscripted
@Narcologyunscripted Жыл бұрын
Always
@PresidentGeraldFord
@PresidentGeraldFord 9 ай бұрын
A video series about the origins of narcissism and why narcissists exist would be very interesting 🤔
@bonnieromick9397
@bonnieromick9397 6 ай бұрын
I had to tell my 83 old mom, mom I can't make these supposed social workers become good people. They don't REALLY care until you get physically beat up. The Narcissts outnumber us I like the way you combine love of Jesus Christ with knowledge of Mental Health and especially Narcissism. You are right where I am at. Whew. I'm in a nest of different types of Narcs. Female Covert the worst My discard with a business person was a delight. A hot fudge sundae for me. Now a male Covert Narc that attractive pisses me off because I think Dam what a waste!!!!
@bonnieromick9397
@bonnieromick9397 6 ай бұрын
Oh my alone time brings me back to Jesus and away from. Narc World and all the creepy clowns👽☠️🤡👺☠️😈🤡👺👹🤡
@angelacahill9083
@angelacahill9083 Жыл бұрын
Hi Dave, they never come to their senses. During the discard phase which lasted over three decades, the signs were written on the wall but I was the only one trying, while they took everything and used me. It's hurts having the "family" divided but out 1.9 months and there's peace. I still have hurdles to jump but I'm jumping them holding God's hand now. Thank you for everything. God bless you.
@karenk2409
@karenk2409 Жыл бұрын
Decades for me too. The very sad revelation for me is that you can't be married by yourself. Terrible damage to the family, but I am free and thank God for peace every single morning.
@angelacahill9083
@angelacahill9083 Жыл бұрын
@@karenk2409 yes it is sad Karen. Huge damage to our families. We are walking with God every day. His love and mercy will fill the void and heal us. God bless you and your family. I wish you every blessing 🙏
@karenk2409
@karenk2409 Жыл бұрын
@@angelacahill9083 And also to you!
@cajuncrackerranch7990
@cajuncrackerranch7990 Жыл бұрын
Thanks Dave! Thanks 🙏 1,000 percent resonating and accurate content. 🤔 I would have preferred 3 years. Better yet, 3 months, 3 weeks, 3 days, 3 hours, 3 minutes, 3 seconds. “You don’t know what you don’t know, but when you know…you know.” Unfortunately, that only comes after great pain. 20 years. 20 years of marriage unknowingly to a clinically diagnosed Cluster B with FULL spectrum diagnosis including other wonderful labels. 4 children )now adults, married with their own children). First 10 years…not a blip on the radar. No fight. No argument. Nothing. Then out of nowhere…nervous breakdown 2 nights in hospital under suicide watch, then off to a facility for evaluation and treatment for 2 weeks. Then released to a specialized individual therapy and group therapy. I shifted into 80-90 hours work week carrying the weight of the world home, children, and becoming caregiver/chauffeur until pages of her past and history including the evaluation. As I carried all this weight, being the glue, providing, protecting, took on everything she began to destroy everything not by but behind my back in the process and then turned me into an option. I filed for divorce, had all the receipts, and the legal/court system gave her everything leaving me with nothing. She got the house, the property, all materialistic things, stole my Tahoe wrecked it totaled it yet authorized the cancellation of insurance prior to destroying it…all acceptable by the judge. She was out of work and bed ridden for 2 years and I spent over $900k taking care of everything while this C you next Tuesday walked away without zero accountability or responsibility. Absolutely phucking amazing! What they do should be a criminal offense! Starting over with nothing at 52 and every friend, family, professional colleague relationship that was once trusted and true, now obliterated into dust from her destructive trail of trauma with exception to my children. Although I tried to protect them from the unraveling of truth they were aware and each has told me in their own way…”how in the hell did you do what you did by working, taking care of us, taking care of her, and running your two businesses?” My response, “I don’t know. As a man, a friend, a husband, a parent…some people do everything that they can to provide, protect, and build a future for the ones that they love and care about, and some people do not. When events and circumstances are presented to you on your path and journey…I hope that I have led by example and taught you well in knowing when to stand firm and honor, respect, love, and compassion. I have learned some very valuable lessons.” 1. Never put another persons health above your own 2. Trust no one 3. It is always the person who is standing next to you that you believe would never harm you, yet they are the very one holding g the handle of the sword driven into and will stare blankly, void of self, void of soul, out of pure envy, fear, shame, guilt, anger, hate, rage, and resentment. The Cluster B Spectrum is a FULL on ASSAULT! No one mental disorder stands alone under this umbrella. They are all one in the same as they shift pole position for the driver seat at any given moment for the same reason a dog licks his balls, because they can and will do at any time. I’m glad I found your channel. Keep up the good work on breaking the silence and informing others about these mentally ill sick individuals. They are everywhere. Stay alert! Stay alive! Stay strong! Peace ✌️
@cathy_clarinet
@cathy_clarinet Жыл бұрын
You’re channel is still one of the best. You really get it.
@Narcologyunscripted
@Narcologyunscripted Жыл бұрын
Where The Heck have You Been? lol
@cathy_clarinet
@cathy_clarinet Жыл бұрын
@@Narcologyunscripted Busy mostly, but also another round happened. I’m NC again
@minajeetjemineetje3002
@minajeetjemineetje3002 4 ай бұрын
I also had dreams of him cheating, two days before the discard
@delightfuldeb1218
@delightfuldeb1218 Жыл бұрын
I didn't get a call - he knows he's blocked I'm sure. I did get a piece of mail a month ago with my address and his name! He NEVER lived at my address so don't know how that happened. It was his medical insurance cards that I guess he purchased. Never ever had any mail come to my house with his name on it - I thought that was too strange! He also left a piece of HIS mail on my porch about 10 months ago. I didn't respond AT ALL. NO CONTACT MEANS NO CONTACT FOR THE REST OF HIS PATHETIC LIFE!
@rpm3305
@rpm3305 Жыл бұрын
"I don't know how my family is going to take this. My family loves you." Is verbatim what the narcissist said to me. The narcissist is an expert at manufacturing pain, guilt, and projection.
@jeffreyexposito3803
@jeffreyexposito3803 Ай бұрын
My ex narc gf just showed up at my house on Thanksgiving day out of the blue after 2 years. They will use the holidays to soften your defenses. Beware.
@weaselwacker5462
@weaselwacker5462 Жыл бұрын
The Holy Ghost showed me in detail what he was doing (cheating). Amazing
@stacyshepherd4086
@stacyshepherd4086 9 ай бұрын
Same .. I was led to see his double life
@tmrsfitz1967
@tmrsfitz1967 Жыл бұрын
My son is a hot mess realizing this is very complex 🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤now he got wrong momma 😂😂😂😂😂
@gloriahornby2457
@gloriahornby2457 Жыл бұрын
Dave, he will never call me. That would mean i won.
@Cyndil_Colby
@Cyndil_Colby 9 ай бұрын
Time heals and going to the throne. So true! Thanks!
@amyteurlife9408
@amyteurlife9408 Жыл бұрын
After 27 years of me thinking he was a great guy he recently became almost grandiose, flirting with 2 different females right in front of me - caregivers to his mom in our home. I thought i was going to have to spray him down with water. I was shocked and then felt betrayed that now im sure this is how hes been doing behind my back for almost 3 decades....
@narcslayerg2631
@narcslayerg2631 Жыл бұрын
Yes this all happened to me. It was baffling. Thank god I got the knowledge shortly after the discard
@Underrated7777
@Underrated7777 Жыл бұрын
Re introduce yourself to the lost child inside. Boy we really showed them. lol. Got ‘em right where their heart WASNT.
@tmrsfitz1967
@tmrsfitz1967 Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤
@toniacompton1091
@toniacompton1091 Жыл бұрын
Mine used to tell me you need a month off. Meaning discarding me for a month. At the time I had no idea what he was talking about.
@toniacompton1091
@toniacompton1091 Жыл бұрын
My prayers to everyone on here. God is Our HEALER.🙏🙏🙏
@CindyRice-e8t
@CindyRice-e8t 5 ай бұрын
Oh how thankful I am to have ran across You. You have all the answers to all the questions I have needed for years. Your knowledge is healing. God is really using You to pour into my wounds His oil & wine. Thank You so much. My Mother passed in Nov. of 2021. My Husband and I was having to do repairs on Her house to get it ready for sale. While doing yard work together this airplane kept circling over us. We waved and kept working. Each day we had to do more work. Like rebuild her back deck and again this airplane comes circling. I didn't put two and two together. Grieving over the lost of my Mom and having to put her place on the market and deal with probate court and all the extra expenses. My mind never thought I was being hoovered. This plane was circling day after day. We pasted it off because the small airport wasn't to far away. But after we sold Moms house we are outside at our house doing some gardening and this small plane starts circling over our house. Our house is 30 minutes away from the airport. It would seem my ex narc has gotten a pilots license and a plane. I don't know how he is getting away with circling over and over and flying so low but he is doing it. Looks like air traffic control would do something about it. He is acting like a total nut job. He don't even care how he's flying. He even wants my husband to see him. My husband and I love gardening. We have lots of flowers and we are always outside watering and cutting the grass etc... This ex narc is flying over our house morning, noon and even at night. At times a very loud helicopter has been flying very low over our house its so low it shakes our house... I think it him too. I am concerned he has lost it. I have turned him and his crazy behavior over to the Lord.
@emilyberrios4895
@emilyberrios4895 Жыл бұрын
Love your videos now I understand what was going on in my fake marriage the narcissist is so funny he is just a clown
@annaramirez8084
@annaramirez8084 Жыл бұрын
I finally got a call last night after 5 months & all I heard was breathing. I traced the call back to where he is incarcerated.
@shirlspark_stardust
@shirlspark_stardust Жыл бұрын
😂 they are sick
@chriscole5990
@chriscole5990 Жыл бұрын
Ya Dave I'm prepared for a hoover out of the blue I have my phone on ghost mode ready to go!
@vernondelancy6281
@vernondelancy6281 Жыл бұрын
Good information Dave thank you .
@Narcologyunscripted
@Narcologyunscripted Жыл бұрын
Thank You for being here!
@rubymoore2605
@rubymoore2605 Жыл бұрын
They ready to hibernate like polar bears,in from the cold. SPRING ,COME THEY LEAVE AGAIN!!
@rosatrula
@rosatrula Жыл бұрын
Yup. You're describing it exactly! Thanks Dave I still need your videos
@Narcologyunscripted
@Narcologyunscripted Жыл бұрын
You got it!
@fransaid1
@fransaid1 9 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for your videos. I've been studying NPD for over 3 years. Your KZbin's are helping me the most to stay no contact. It's interesting that your statement on the ice cubes really hit home with me. This man required two ice cubes in his coffee every morning. LOL whenever I would forget he would throw a temper tantrum. It is so true that they are like a 2-year-old at most. He discarded me, because I wouldn't do everything he demanded.. the discard came in a nasty text after a 3-year relationship. He's still very friendly with his ex-wife. He uses the grandchildren and children as an excuse to hang out with her during family events and who knows what else. Thank you so much for all your help. God bless you
@bjmoore5022
@bjmoore5022 Жыл бұрын
Mine left while I was at work and said I couldn’t tell the truth about anything. I have asked what I did wrong but I really know in my heart I didn’t do anything.
@RonicaTravis-ok9cf
@RonicaTravis-ok9cf Жыл бұрын
Every WORD 💯💯💯💯💯
@ritadoran5039
@ritadoran5039 7 ай бұрын
David Why after they so cruelly discard us do they give the very thing they promised you in the future fake to the new person? That to me is the most hurtful part 💔?
@amyt7378
@amyt7378 9 ай бұрын
This all happened. Every word you said. Thank you as always for the validation🙏
@Brother_Jonah_TOG.
@Brother_Jonah_TOG. 7 ай бұрын
They can’t fool the Holy Ghost in you 👏 ❤️ I’m not crazy and all the dreams all make sense
@isla8718
@isla8718 Жыл бұрын
Yeh mine ones creepy one liner was shouting aggressively in my face “ you will always want young people a lot younger then you and you no that’s true “ and I thought that’s a confession . Sick individual
@amyt7378
@amyt7378 9 ай бұрын
Thank Goodness you’re past the sugary sweet❤️ We need real and you’re so refreshing!
@barbann675
@barbann675 Жыл бұрын
"He ain't calling cause he don't have my new number", lol! I have realized that I was raised by both a malignant overt father and a cold, emotionally unavailable, vulnerable martyr covert jealous sabatoging mother(very sneaky and I always felt sorry for her but I am seeing it in my older age and not as a confused vulnerable child)....between me picking the wrong guys and my parents sabatoging and me being clueless trying to work as hard as possible and be the best (people pleaser) for everybody it just ends up being hell, and my loss, and all I did was just want a beautiful life and love. I am healing and relearning many things, AND next time, no rush, if I meet someone I don't think I will involve my toxic parents(I want them out of that part of my life completely). I have seen the same "devil demon spirit" in the eyes of each and every narcissist in my life from family to expouse to exfiance...the same rageful hateful greedy selfish cruel cold eyes! It is very demonic and we need to arm ourselves with Heavenly Father, discernment, knowledge, and trustworthy friends (my church family) that will help decide if the next person is safe because from my upbringing I realize I have a deep subconscious issue with not being able to spot those red flags, but I am blessed with good friends that can. God Bless You :-) Thank you for your videos.
@ingeborgwisseborn6928
@ingeborgwisseborn6928 6 ай бұрын
My ex husband told me when we were dating Je vous aime. In french. We are dutch. Weeks later he said" listen girl, when you ever cheat on me, it is over. He had no reason to say this. Years later after 12 years of marriage he said during lunch with the kids : "Men are not designed for monogamie" I looked surprised and than he said " its only a joke". I never discovered that he was cheating on me but why did he say this I wondered.
@amyteurlife9408
@amyteurlife9408 Жыл бұрын
I was dicarded by dear family member 287 days ago. They took the dear kids i love with them. Got text asking me for family tree information with health information - of all the nerve, after they removed me from the family, took my future from me, to ask me for family information which i dont have in the first place, so now they can smear me again for withholding something from them. In text, never called me by my name, never said they missed me. Never said lets visit....i did not take the hoover. I suspect text was not from the person they said they were. Never trust a text . And know with calls you are being recorded or someone else is listening in and they are trying to set you up to agree to something or say something negative.
@mickcrovo5238
@mickcrovo5238 Жыл бұрын
Mine told me she got an O every time "because of the connection we have". A week later, she said that if we were living together, we'd be doing it every day. The next day, she ghosted me. This is someone who was texting me a dozen or more times a day for three years. A month later, she took a photo of herself out in another city with the new guy. Then they each posted it online. It was humiliating to me when my friends and family saw it. My mother said two words: "She's trash." Six months later, she was living with the new guy. Six months after that, she was pregnant. Textbook narcissist.
@mikaelapapazyan6411
@mikaelapapazyan6411 Жыл бұрын
She's a trash indeed. Pity for that fella
@danielle2678
@danielle2678 Ай бұрын
You hit the nail on the head with this video thank you ❤
@bridgettebianca2318
@bridgettebianca2318 Жыл бұрын
Doesn’t really matter. Everything is Never Enough for a Narc…. He wanted to rush me into a relationship then attempted to rush me to move in his house in less than a year, I knew better than that, he has too many disrespectful ways, once you move in; multiple that by that by 10!!
@amyt7378
@amyt7378 9 ай бұрын
My goodness you’re so creative. Such a gift from God. Thank you for sharing your gift 🙏
@toniacompton1091
@toniacompton1091 Жыл бұрын
They won’t be calling me. I have a new number 😂
@ST-cy6we
@ST-cy6we Жыл бұрын
12:00 lol.. I had to laugh at this. I made dinner every night, I made her coffee and brought it to her every morning, I'd go out in the snow and scrape it off her car and warm it up for her.
@valentinasmith9227
@valentinasmith9227 9 ай бұрын
Thank You, I am almost healed, thanks to the heavenly Father.... I always watch your video from The Dominican Republic
@Narcologyunscripted
@Narcologyunscripted 9 ай бұрын
Wonderful!
@In_deine_Staerke
@In_deine_Staerke Жыл бұрын
2,5 years nc. No deep, heartfelt conversation, right. Sex and flesh, indeed. I got trapped, too . I get christianed next year. The bible helped me a lot.
@claudine516
@claudine516 Жыл бұрын
I had to walk 5 miles through the snow just for a Snow-Cone. They're not very bright.
@purtykatz
@purtykatz Жыл бұрын
😂 “. the Dark triad” Awesome description
@KassieP-sf6nz
@KassieP-sf6nz Жыл бұрын
The Narc supply that he discarded for calling me after 6 years the same woman that thought she won .I hung up didn't wanted to talk to her about the Narc .
@danacooper3646
@danacooper3646 Жыл бұрын
It cracks me up @ the supply that laughs at me and says I won! I'm like yes you did, as a human punching bag 😂✌️.
@TheMoonGlitters
@TheMoonGlitters 11 ай бұрын
Yes, I do believe the day will come …. that one of his supplies will ask me for help, and I dont think I will help. Not because I am mean, maybe I want to help at that point who knows, but I Just dont think Ill want to go back to what Ive lived through - no going back in any way will be better forever
@alexistexis721
@alexistexis721 Жыл бұрын
👸🏽Thank you for this Dave. 💕
@isla8718
@isla8718 Жыл бұрын
Yes I would hear him constantly ringing the whole family infront of me of a way of tormenting me all lies and twisted distorted versions of reality , he once smashed he’s phone into my mouth and cut my lip over nothing and because I reacted by shouting and chucked my drink bottle at him he rang he’s dad and said I had assaulted him but missed out the whole story it’s not even normal . And then the dad is shouting down the phone about me it’s pure mental abuse and they have all the family fooled . When they started getting very abusive I believe it’s when they have others in there web . You are so right about how the endorphins wear off for them as they are so broken . And they don’t let there victims out of there web until you are very damaged …
@alishawilson6083
@alishawilson6083 8 ай бұрын
thank u i needed a reminder a year free ...pls dont stop as u get it the most!
@toniacompton1091
@toniacompton1091 Жыл бұрын
I’ve had the same dream!! It was so bad, that right after that I found myself moving out.
@ReneeMeadows5150
@ReneeMeadows5150 Жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@Narcologyunscripted
@Narcologyunscripted Жыл бұрын
I appreciate this, thank you Renee
@ReneeMeadows5150
@ReneeMeadows5150 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your fellowship brother 🎉 I appreciate you 😢
@Narcologyunscripted
@Narcologyunscripted Жыл бұрын
You are so welcome
@tmrsfitz1967
@tmrsfitz1967 Жыл бұрын
USA 🇺🇸 catching up 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤technology gonna be they karma 😂
@tomshaw1386
@tomshaw1386 Жыл бұрын
This is all TRUE it’s exactly the same !!! 1 million percent!!!!
@stormyharville3096
@stormyharville3096 Жыл бұрын
Praying 🙏
@LuzAruz89
@LuzAruz89 Жыл бұрын
2am email 😂😂😂😂 thank you I just had the greatest unexpected laugh 😂😂😂😂😂
@Cheryl-u3g
@Cheryl-u3g 7 ай бұрын
snow cone truck, LOL😅...gotta luv ya Dave!!
@Thegamehhh449
@Thegamehhh449 Жыл бұрын
Funny I got a unknown call today, I just got this strange feeling it was her, weird I said “hello “ twice and they just hung up
@ReneeMeadows5150
@ReneeMeadows5150 Жыл бұрын
I pray for my ex narc everyday bc God is amazing 😻 I know I’m tough on him Dave 😂 bless your heart 💜 I get carried away 😂😂😂😂
@chanelcocoa6545
@chanelcocoa6545 Жыл бұрын
This is so true I had a dream of him cheating
@lissyaviles4316
@lissyaviles4316 Жыл бұрын
Oh my God that’s exactly what they are a stray dog I used to tell him he thought I was a female dog
@1991windsor
@1991windsor Жыл бұрын
One of your best videos yet, Dave! All of it is so eerily the truth. That is so true about never having a meaningful conversation with these people when you look back at the time you spent with them. I was actually just telling someone that the other day that I never remember having any type a deep conversation with my ex narcissist. It's even lonelier after sex when they turn their back on you almost immediately afterwards.
@chimenefreeman708
@chimenefreeman708 21 күн бұрын
Great videos! I’m confused as to what fueled my ex narc. He did no drugs and did not drink at all.
@debimary6812
@debimary6812 11 ай бұрын
My ex narc showed his true colours towards the end and it wasn't pretty. Funny thing was our relationship never felt truer than towards the end either, that also didn't feel nice. So glad I've stayed mo contact.
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