Natal Moon inconjunct Venus- sickening sweetness

How the inconjunction between the Moon and Venus shows up in someone's life- unsatisfying relationships
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[@hellyeah3075]

Your aspect videos are SO on point, it's spooky (I'll really have to look into setting up a reading with you when I am able to)! I have this aspect; the orb is wide at 23 vs 28, but I'm sensitive to lunar stuff, have Venus in Leo which I think is already vulnerable to the whole generosity/approval dynamic, moon in Pisces which wants to be endlessly giving... and this hits home. The bit about what your mother might have been like... wow. Yeah. This weird push-pull expression of love with occasional moments of getting spoiled, but lots of unspoken expectations. And it's even crazier because--I just checked--she has this aspect too, and way more exact than I do... Moon in Libra for her, which again has a lot of similar vulnerable spots related to this theme, I think. This just clarified so much of this pattern for me and how it connects to how I am now. Thank you! Inconjuncts are so sneaky, so I see what you're saying about how important they are to notice in a chart. I think some of us really need to just fill that void in ourselves in order to get in tune with our needs and balance them with our wants-- I like the tip about going and doing something for ourselves, actually, because I think a lot of this is that feeling of needing to earn love, and not feeling okay with just BEING--the idea of someone loving us just for that is foreign. AND if you're like me, you'll convince yourself that you're not expecting anything in return, and you burn out, and you get passive aggressive because even YOU don't realize that you're neglecting your needs. I feel until I get there, any attempt to talk with someone I'm super emotionally invested in is just going to be this minefield of guilt and anxiety, so first things first. You have to value yourself, and understand that it's ok to be given to freely in order to be able to give with no strings attached. But I'm slowly getting there. I love that you give advice for how to deal with hard aspects instead of just talking about how they manifest :D That's the best part of astrology-- seeing tangible evidence of what you're struggling with, and the knowing you can get past it (because it's just an aspect!)

[@JewelMayberry]

Thank you, friend. It sounds like you are moving past what has been holding you back into a brave new you! Any aspect to the Moon does show a deep pattern. It can take some time to see these things and learn the new skills needed to move into a new space of feeling. As yes, aspects are just attitudes and perceptions personified so we can always see things differently. 💓

[@sandakkaari]

I ll tell u what happens when I set up my boundaries . I feel no one will ever live up to my standards

[@andreaandrea6716]

Jewel... I can't get over how amazing, how deep, how accurate, your interpretations are. Astrology is your Superpower. I know this because I'm 62 and I've been studying the subject since I was 12 and it's just SO INTERESTING to me when I come across someone who (besides being younger), has a deeper knowledge, retains that information better, has a profound and acute understanding of the aspects and ... is just extraordinarily gifted at what she does. I am in awe! ... And, oddly, don't mind in the least. I LOVE how good you are. (I love excellence!). Thank you SO MUCH for all that you share with us. I hope that your life is blessed and that you are profoundly happy.

[@MimiTheHamster]

I have this and not only am I miserable and feeling “homesick” all the time but I have no partner and never have, and no sense of stable friendships, so I feel I’m just floating and descending into madness. I didn’t ask to be born in a family that doesn’t love me in the way I required, in a tangible way. I feel I have a fragmented, split personality, with no knowledge of how to gracefully integrate it and turns out it’s this fuckery causing it. I’m not sure I’ll ever find someone that can truly ease that internal pain and longing I feel, I feel the world is scary and dark and people have been so cruel to me I just want to die sometimes

[@katharina1439]

I feel your pain.😳 You have to first love yourself and integrate it yourself❤ This is not the job of others. I have similar aspect and it's hard...because all I want is a man who will make me feel secure and loved. 😘 you can do it

[@jeremyjameson4672]

I feel like I've waited my whole life for this explanation...Thank you Jewel : )

[@charliebook3343]

This is really good! I've got Moon in Virgo inconjunct both Venus and Mars in Aquarius. Very reactive home environment. Bitterness. "I gave you all!" "I never asked for any of it!"

[@francescaviale6707]

This is sooo interesting and useful, I have this inconjunction between my Gemini Venus and Scorpio Moon.. My standards are so high because my childhood was very happy, but then my parents separated and my faith in relationships changed, so I'm still learning... the communication is one the aspects I am really trying to work on. ..Thank you Jewel!

[@aubreysnyder4453]

Francesca Viale ME TOO!! Except I’m a moon Gemini, Venus Scorpio.

[@ghfrprmswr]

Same, gemini moon quincunx cap venus here. Hope we can find love again

[@madredelmar127]

omg! i have a gemini venus and scorpio moon too 😊

[@sandakkaari]

Same story

[@madredelmar127]

this video grabbed me by the throat and shook me. THANK YOU.

[@kbt711]

Thank you so much Jewel. This is the best understanding I have ever heard in how to deal with this aspect. I grew up with a mother who had a borderline personality. Talk about bad modeling. And sibling shares aspect.

[@deel42]

Beautiful explanation of this aspect, super helpful!

[@cc.99.]

Totally agree how important inconjunctions are - thank you for your videos:) your awesome!

[@eagles201218]

I am a gay man (with more feminine energy on chart) cap rising, cancer sun Pisces moon, Venus Leo, Taurus Mars. I relate more to female rendition of this aspect

[@vladynick]

Jewel, thank you for your insights. You truly shed light on this aspect for me. Thank you.

[@ellebeee7116]

Just came across this video because I’ve been feeling this aspect a lot in my chart lately. Wow, I can identify with all of this! My Libra moon is inconjunct my Taurus Venus. Not sure how this works as they both rule the same planet, but I often feel like in romantic relationships I’m hoping more for the happy family I never got, rather than passion. Then again I think I’d miss the passion if I got the happy family 🙄 I can’t win lol.

[@pluto1184]

Hello, Jewel. I am a subscriber and I personally believe your work to be on an academic level that being a subscriber is necessary! You provide such great interpretive insight of celestial aspects that I'm hooked. Your delivery of natal aspects is equally intriguing; please don't sell yourself short! I'm a male and while I have this aspect, Venus is conjunct Neptune in the 3rd. I have found this video series so very rewarding. Thank you.

[@andreaandrea6716]

SO HELPFUL!!! I have this, I hate it. I totally see this aspect in me, in my life. I always feel as if I am functioning more intensely, wanting to engage more intensely than others. However, I had a mother who was extremely nurturing (never left me to cry) ... and never guilt tripped me. She could have modeled better boundaries, but bar THAT, she was a stellar mother. I didn't have children but was a nanny in Paris, in the 80s, and after my first month with a 6 month old baby, I contracted pneumonia and nearly died! I did NOT know how to pace myself. Such a difficult aspect to have!! Jewel, you are amazing. I bow to you. I learn SO MUCH from your videos. Thank you, deeply. (Moon in Aquarius, Venus in Virgo: Miss Independent! I want to learn to express my vulnerability).

[@MimiTheHamster]

My mother was emotionally unavailable, as well as my dad. And I was bullied heavily in school. Truly had no safe, comforting place to go. Makes me want to kill myself instead of live with the pain

[@andreaandrea6716]

@@MimiTheHamster I am so terribly terribly sorry. I know there is a lot of that in the world and it's awful. The only thing I know to do, when I didn't get something I needed and feel deprived, is to give that very thing to someone else ... like, if I don't feel safe, I look for someone else who also doesn't feel safe and I try to be loving and protective towards them ... to make them feel safer in the world. In that way, I am creating that thing in the world that I want there to be more of. Don't kill yourself. You came here for a reason. You possess some gift, some attribute that is unique to you. That no one else has. You have only to discover what that is and move forward into that. I have suffered from severe depression since I was nine (hereditary) ... but I have found ways to mitigate it ... and here's the thing... at some point, I realized that IT WAS MY GIFT. There was some gift in the life I lived through the depression. I'm an Artist and have used the depth of feeling caused by the depression in my work. Take what you have lived through and advocate for those who are going through that now. In that way, you help to eradicate that condition on the planet. Become powerful from your woundedness.

[@cosmic_chaos28]

@@MimiTheHamster me too

[@tworealms]

I really enjoy watching your videos. I've learnt so much from you over the years. I also find your energy and aura really warm..I just wanna give you a big hug ❤❤❤

[@miminieillustration7066]

Love this video...Like we are sitting on the same couch .. Cozy type of information ❤

[@dontbedustxx1596]

i entirely agree about the inconjunctions....i haven't a clue why they would ever be considered minor.

[@Expose_bankers_and_auctioneers]

right???

[@aprileliana]

Wow, really good. I have this in the 4th house. Helped me a lot.

[@lessandra602]

This is quite a new thing for me... I have this aspect, just haven’t ever looked at it this way ♥️

[@euphylee6221]

So true... Thank you Jewel...!!!

[@33Astrologer]

Thank you ! Very helpful and appreciated . I have this between Leo Moon and Cancer Venus but 36 degree , Appropriate selfishness balancing.The more I look at my chart the weirder it gets.Seems like nothing is playing out but on the other end I feel whole and blessed because these guys (planets);they all need to work together at the same time..

[@marie-joseecharette4937]

Thank you for the teaching

[@jakidove8340]

Thank you.....very helpful🌹

[@nmangali107]

I have Moon in Capricorn inconjunct Venus in Leo!! The conversation when these two Planets speak - which is usually when someone has made a guest appearance in my life - is hilarious. You're right, my Venus in Leo wants a partner that shows interest in so many ways. For example: call me often. Actually say you're interested in me. Get me a gift. Be chivalrous. And you know what? I can match that energy because I can do all of those. Venus in Leo is quite generous and I like regal, expensive stuff. Enter my stern, austere and serious and sober Moon in Capricorn. Itll ask: Why?? He must prove himself first. By the way, my Moon in Capricorn trines my Sun in Virgo, so these standards are exceedingly high fam 🤚🏾. They (potential partners) usually fail. The Moon in Capricorn is happy. The Venus in Leo? Not so much. I am single most of the time. One part of me kinda doesn't mind. Another part of me internally complains.

[@rawdeep01]

We both have the same position and aspect. I feel lonely most times and overlooked

[@veravujovic4685]

I'm impressed by your insights! : ) I'm smiling, but in fact... it is creepy :)

[@pluto1184]

Greetings Jewel, I'm a subscriber to your channel; your astrological interpretations are very insightful (appreciated even more since you have mentioned in a previous interpretive video that they are organganicly yours). Solely suggestive, it might be more beneficial for the interpretive style of any placement, whether natal or otherswise, adhere to the notion that 'being aware is only half there.' For example, (time stamp 5:52), you state as a result of this aspect segment, "the native loves to complain...," as opposed to---(for sample purposes only)...the native might encounter or attract such experience(s) due to a potential unconscious awareness, etc. The vocal inflection and the wording of what you're conveying can be construed as potential criticism or mocking in manner. Cause & reaction should be clearly understood. To be clear, I don't want any viewer or yourself for that matter, to misconstrue as your style as anything other than that, your style. However, I kindly wanted to share the observation. Otherwise, GREAT work, unique and again steadfastly insightful! All the best.

[@pluto1184]

The interpretation was incredibly accurate, in my case even more since this aspect is in a yod configuration with 3rd house Sagittarius Venus as the apex planet with 8th house Taurus moon sextile my Cancer midheaven & Libra ascendant emphasizing Venus' role. To even demonstrate the accuracy of your interpretation, I once said, "if generousity came with a receipt, I'd long ago redeem mine." (Bear in mind, though, the remark was rooted in a responce circumstance of my becoming complexly ill and those (being family) I chronically gave to & provided for (thinking midheaven) being unavailable in every way during a time of complete incompacitation Very humbly, I'd like to add that this placement can also lay a foundation, as it was in my case, to narcissistic individuals being invovled in the mix with just the right placement to support. My case, early childhood 2nd house Scorpio (sun), apex Venus yod in the 3rd (immediate family/relationships), while 4th house Mars conjunct IC in Capricorn (overbearing mother, strict/overly-critical), the Taurus moon in the 8th trine 4th Cap Mars (again mom, now strong-willed & many strong-willed female environment---denying [Cap] self-worth with Taurus moon) sextile Cancer midheaven opp. 4th Cap Mars (providing for female famile at the expense of own self-will & direction...internally fractured women using me to provide. Didn't mention the Venus yod apex is conjunct Neptune (keeping me in a mental fog and me idealizing the dysfunction thinking this was all about love and support for the female fam. members instead of broken boundaries & much more). Thanks God for the apex Venus Sagittarius for it's pursuit for freedom and the exalted mars to re-engineer my internal mental construct and exalted moon to maintain that peace & harmony once found. Hope my shared experience brought wisdom to anyone with an added mystery to the dysfunction of this aspect Peace & Light to ALL

[@wealthylifestyle2338]

you're a genius... wow Venus libra moon Taurus here.

[@sofiamatefi4006]

Me too! It is like I have 2 different women in me!

[@bcupcake]

I have this in a Composite and can still relate what you say here very well. )-:

[@lessandra602]

The Scorpio moon and airy venus really does throw me off with this aspect

[@o.revi.]

Heard. It's pretty rough 😭

[@marie-joseecharette4937]

Yes he claim he his not satisfied but he does not give much..because he protect himself so very much to choking...but he wants to receive a lot though. I agree about the mother story you say though.

[@sonnenweb]

wow, thank you so much

[@lesleysimpson5793]

THAT'S ME!!!!! many inconjunctions. I have many broken green aspect lines on astro.com.

[@Expose_bankers_and_auctioneers]

I love quincunxes/inconjuncts. we can connect on fb if you want: Alexia Astro

[@elena7659]

me too, and mine almost makes a star pattern, just missing one line...wonder what it means

[@dietdrpepperaddict]

I do this all the time. I do everything and then get mad when my husband does nothing. Then he tells me I never ask him to do anything and always just take care of everything. So I try to work on asking for more help and more things. Life would be so much easier if he could just read my mind. But I have Pluto and Saturn and Mercury and Sun stellium in my 1st house, so I'm not the greatest at expressing my true feelings, wants, desires and needs. Very hidden.

[@alejamarinb]

Thank you for this. You mentioned in another video that this aspect bring the tendency to doesn’t charge enough for our work, thus poverty. Is that right?

[@margaretkimbleeaton]

Video request: moon square venus. please and thank you

[@bxlis]

Hello could you please make a video of 'natal venus opposition to natal moon' thanks a lot xxx

[@kamikazekyrre]

i was wondering if you have ever done a natal moon square venus video.. 😊

[@Beccalotte1021]

How would a Moon Square Venus aspect play out?

[@MargoKms]

usually astrology is spot on for me, but, surprisingly, this has nothing in common with my personality (even though I have this aspect) - from a mother figure (best mother and connection I could ever wish for) to how I behave looking for a partner, to how I am in a relationship... I wonder if there's another interpretation of that aspect

[@Dianne327]

Thank you.

[@chillizora]

This fits perfectly for cancer moons hard aspects neptune

[@1Skorpia]

I have a guy friend with this aspect. his moon is in the seventh house also Venus in the 12th. I'm guessing he sees what he wants to see but doesn't have a grip in reality. I used to warn him about certain chics and he just didn't care. he married and divorced young and within 3 years his life's a mess(stellium of planets in the 12th) this video was definitely helpful. any thoughts would be great

[@dahqc8211]

oh my gosh the relativity of this placement to my moon sign (nakshatra and pada) in vedic astrology is amazing. this is just simpler to understand. hmmmm

[@oogs]

Wow holy Jesus this was accurate to my 28 cancer Venus and 27 sag moon

[@marie-joseecharette4937]

I have this but minor, semi-sextile, in a composite chart. (not my soul mate but my twin) We are both persons of service. Composite pluto in 6th. Can you share the characteristic of how this play out in a composite chart please? :) Thank you

[@sandakkaari]

Oh I have Venus opposition Saturn as well. So trust me .. I have become my fav joke 😂

[@drivesanoldcar]

Awesome

[@shmoopypoopysamurai]

This video has helped me SO MUCH... I’ve been trying to wrap my head around my 6h libra moon opposite my 12h Aries venus conjunct Jupiter conjunct north node. My wants and needs are super mixed up because of the polarity of having my sn conjunct my moon. And nn conjunct venus.

[@sarahk6254]

This is so me I started laughing lmao. Omg starving! So true AND my venus conjunct Saturn so it’s double the starvation

[@LoveLife-gv8jg]

The only person I have ever given to without expecting something back in this expecting something back is my son And my grandmother

[@NaturalMonroe]

My inconjunctions are super close. Both at 25 degrees

[@xxfox]

Is this the same as the Moon sesquisquare Venus?

[@kdgamer5311]

what is the remedy then i dont want to deal with this my whole life

[@jackpaul3357]

Moon venus both in aries

[@sandakkaari]

😂